The Narc Alert goes to Pluto! with AMBERLYNN REID

[@doeeyedkookie]

If it talks crazy and walks crazy… it’s gotta be a duck.

[@shaeperez5797]

Reminds me of “I was run over by a goose when I was little”

[@HollyG1903]

@@shaeperez5797 I keep seeing comments to reply to and someone has already responded with exactly what I wanted to say. One of our quirky gorls finest moments

[@yailineeshelman3218]

👍

[@Bebedollie]

Quack Quack🦆

[@squeakyfromme83]

So Becky tries to talk to ALR about driving, ALR says "yah mhmm" and then talks about wifey instead. Becky literally has been trying for years to help this narc. It's so gross to watch sometimes.

[@sketchpadangel]

Especially in this stream ALR was talking over or just ignoring any truths Beckie let spill

[@skunkskiestink6620]

With Becky she got to play her well loved role of petulant child whining about how she TOTALLY COULD she could fit in the seat with her ex!!! But she can’t drive she too too too anxious she can do it but also she CANT boohoo what a conundrum!! But wifey is too new. That reaction would make any person who just started dating someone go “you’re 30 you can’t drive and this is your reaction when someone brings it up???” That’s a red flag. So she has to nod along for now and reel her in bat her lashes “wow No ones ever been able to support me like that ;) I’m finally in love for the first time *swoooon*”

[@squeakyfromme83]

@@skunkskiestink6620 that's what makes me sus of wipey. She watches ALR, she knows what the deal is. I think wipey wants some of that sweet wiping money.

[@lillith77]

Sometimes? You're being too nice

[@err_uhh]

truly cannot emphasize how disgusting it is that when Becky, who has struggled with medications, mental and physical illness, the passing of her mother, and a years-long abusive relationship, is told by someone "I'm glad you're alive" and that she SURVIVED all of that, Amberlynn immediately makes it about herself.

[@angiebell7746]

Yeah that was honestly heartbreaking. Like is she completely dead inside? No empathy whatsoever. It was so cold

[@TheNarcAlert]

I liked when Becky looked at her in the eyes and smiled and said No one has ever said that to me before ( as in, Amber you have never really cared)

[@trishamingin9003]

100% agree. It truly shows the level of just how deep her narcissism runs. Very disgusting!!!

[@chillout1738]

Now that they have broken up Amber doesn't have to put on the mask of 'acting like i care' whenever Becky starts to talk about her troubles. She has no emotion on her face besides annoyance because Becky is taking to long focusing on herself and not on Amber. Amber has to get the attention back on her whether its by interrupting Becky by talking about her new supply or saying she also has the same problem but worse than Becky because of course, narcs always do.

[@ellendaniels8715]

Becky's mom passed after the cancer? Omg :(

[@blue7614]

Twinkie is so comfortable with Becky, she literally shakes when she is in Amber’s arms. That poor dog

[@JW-tj5ug]

Becky needs to keep Twinkie, Amber gets winded just by getting up and the dog needs to be able to get some sort of exercise! They also love each other so much! Does the dog even like Amber if she isn't giving her a treat? Maybe that's why Amber over feeds her, because the dog won't have anything to do with ALR unless she has food.

[@x123MissAnimeFreakx]

@@JW-tj5ug I'm really hoping Becky puts her foot down when it comes to the pets. I don't know how many cats they have but I know Twinkie loves Becky. Becky is Twinkie's primary caretaker and I think it would be an awful thing to leave ALR in charge when she can't even sit and talk without being out of breath. Someone who can't even wipe themselves should not be left to look after pets. How is she going to change the cats litter box? How is she going to help with Twinkie's weight? I have a feeling that once Becky goes and she's left to deal with the pets and their care, I don't think they'll be around much longer. She's proven to us that when things get a little tough she throws in the towel. Hopefully Becky will take them.

[@shadominx3696]

What irks me is she has 20 different excuses as to why her dog is overweight. Twinkie (that's such a stupid name for a dog, proves what's always on hambers mind) is morbidly obese. A Chihuahua should NEVER be 16+ pounds. I've had Chihuahuas my entire life, since I was 4. I'm 25 now, about to be 26. I have a Chihuahua right now. I'm also physically disabled and during the 8 years I've progressively worsened he gained 5 pounds. He went from 5 to 10 pounds. I was disgusted, because allowing a dog to gain that much weight, especially a small dog, is always the owners fault. No matter the reason. I can't walk, but it's still my fault. So. We had a fence installed in the backyard of our house, I put him on Farmer's Dog instead of continuing to feed him kibble, bought a bigger water bowl so he has access to it, as well as installed a water dish to his crate where he sleeps and lives when we leave the house or go to bed, and so he can have his own space, anyway. I also completely stopped giving him treats. If he was hungry, I'd give him acceptable veggies and fruits dogs are allowed to eat, but even then... he got very little because he's a CHIHUAHUA, not a fucking Great Dane. He lost the 5 pounds he had gained within 2 months. Amber is a piece of shit for what she's done to her dog. And her cats. She has no right owning animals. I still can't believe literally no one likes her because she's such a massive (pun absolutely intended, she deserves the fat jokes) cunt, yet she just thinks we don't like her cause she's morbidly obese. Like... that's just something we can use to make fun of you, honey lol you're just a raging bitch.

[@haileemiller]

@@x123MissAnimeFreakx exactly. She doesn’t owe us an explanation on how she’s going to take care of her but it’s very obviously she’s not physically able to. Even if Becky takes her for a few months until amber could get to a “good” weight to where she would be able to care for her…that’s one thing. But ALR only allows what she wants. Even if it’s not good for other people

[@TimoteoDeBaum]

Twinkie was Destiny’s first, ALR should’ve never been given Twinkie in the first place. Destiny just drops her pets off anywhere 😕

[@ninabeena6092]

Becky is seeing Amber’s true colors more clearly than ever now.

[@TimoteoDeBaum]

ALR is trying to make Becky jealous by saying wifey is supportive and hoping Becky steps up to the plate and proves her wrong. Problem with that is ALR’s true colors make it impossible for change of heart from Becky. ALR is disgusting

[@daphnia9664]

i feel so sorry for her, i think soon she will be regretting giving her so many years of her life

[@TheNarcAlert]

as if Becky didnt take time away from her friends they were visiting to go spend a bunch of hours in the ER AGAIN with Amber for nothing...not supportive at all

[@s.a.b.i.]

@@TheNarcAlert as if it weren't a coincidence that ALR needed to go to the ER when Becky finally goes to spend time with her friends. "That's a hootenberry fer sure"😆

[@siriuslylostwerewolf]

1) I love when Becky ignores her. 2) I'm so grateful that ALR cannot have children, because that child would be screwed up. And I know she'd never be allowed to adopt a child. She'd fail all the tests and requirements.

[@TheNarcAlert]

I d guess, even w/o he hysterectomy, her size would prevent her from having a child, I think all the children are safe :P

[@siriuslylostwerewolf]

Thank goodness. 😮‍💨

[@rat-dog7357]

@@siriuslylostwerewolf yup, a parent with narcissistic tendencies and a child aren't a good mix

[@jayfranke]

A child might see her horde of candy and treats and follow her home anyways 😂

[@shuou2794]

@@rat-dog7357 as long as the parent is able to get therapy and attend clssses for ECE i think it would be okay.

[@TheWizardOfEgo]

"Who's the one who's been wiping your ass?" was the best part of this stream in is now part of Amberverse lore - it can never bee unsaid . Also Ambers total incredulousness at Becky getting propositioned and calling Becky's sexual preferences 'gross' speak volumes about Amber and how she sees Becky

[@soggynutsjr]

I really wonder if this was legit or if they agreed to insert this into the stream to drum up some drama. am I giving amber too much credit? I dunno probably.

[@PersephonesWrath_]

@@soggynutsjr Honestly, i agree, i think they really played stuff like that up for views. I remember a few weeks ago there was a tarot reader, Antphrodite, he specifically said that Amber would be using drama and viewer rumours as a way to bring in views, he’s absolutely not wrong. Mind you, I’m not one to necessarily believe that stuff but the reading has been spot on so far 👀

[@acadiastrong4446]

I think they’ll do just about anything to get some YT coins 🪙💰🪙

[@soggynutsjr]

@@acadiastrong4446 right? like they've muted the mic anytime they wanted to bring up some piping hot tea to each other before but then don't when it's about something that the audience has been speculating about for years? hmmm

[@gigichanel1745]

Well no one will ever believe or let her live it down. It’s true one way or another she can’t wipe her ass

[@justpeachy4851]

I wonder if this person ALR is talking to is taking one for the team distracting her until Becky gets out of that house. Like a little guardian angel lol

[@psyolytesaille]

I hope so tbh.

[@justpeachy4851]

@@psyolytesaille me too. Its working so far, unfortunately Becky doesn't seem in a hurry to go

[@athenachristinemusic]

That’s a cool theory!

[@cosmicalsims]

@@justpeachy4851 I don't think it's that she isn't in a hurry to go. They're just waiting for the lease I expect she'll be peace out from there

[@joshpointoh]

That would be so mean of them but at the same time so nice. Like a literal evil guardian angel

[@Sofiakatt]

If you guys notice, when Amber is particularly stressed by what Becky says, she moves her left arm over to touch Becky’s right arm. She’s trying to warn her that she needs to shut up. This shows how afraid Amber is that we see her real horrible attitudes and behaviors.

[@Mrs_Gorl]

Good call out. I hadn’t really noticed before now.

[@SwampCeeMcGee60]

Once Wipey shows up, this act of doing something about her health will subside and it'll be like every other relationship of hers.

[@DarthKater311]

This comment is spot on where we are a year later

[@purplestars5410]

@@DarthKater311 Aged well. Like some stinky azzz cheese.

[@Cherry-Moon]

Becky: I like Wifey Amber: i LoVe HeR The red flag 🚩 Omg that sent me. 🤣🤣

[@DarthKater311]

Right. Thought this was my 12 year old talking lol

[@purplestars5410]

ALR is a red flag. And she arrives on a red scooter decorated with red flags.

[@Mynn7]

There is something seriously wrong with Amber. Like, the way she lives is unbelievable

[@kelf114]

Darn. I hate when I accidentally hit the thumbs down when I'm trying to hit thumbs up. I fixed it. 😄

[@haileemiller]

I know. It’s annoying to see people still watching her videos that she actually posts/ streams even if they’re thumbing it down…they don’t understand that still funds her negative lifestyle

[@TimoteoDeBaum]

She’s been given so many opportunities to turn things around and instead she chooses to perpetuate her cycles with zero self-awareness, it’s mind blowing

[@pot_calls-the_kettle_bong]

Understatement of the millennia

[@rhi_danceswithwolves]

There are plenty of things wrong with her; and none of them are the things she claims to be diagnosed with.

[@pancakesyo]

You can SEE Becky getting stronger and caring more about herself! I've absolutely never seen Becky wear nail polish. I'm so happy, little steps along the way in her recovery.

[@blessiemasancay4818]

She's never been *this* happy? She got engaged at one point.

[@acadiastrong4446]

Notice how upset she got when she thought Becky said that Wipey was annoying? Then she flips her hair cuz Amberbaby is all of that and everyone wants her 🤢

[@err_uhh]

she never loved Becky and her unenthusiastic video announcing their engagement "being a thing" was all the proof anyone ever needed lol. narcs aren't capable of selflessly loving someone else and being happy WITH another person, because it always comes back to me, me, me.

[@anembroideredbird7442]

The only reason I think she probably pushed Becky to propose to her was because dusty and Dana were engaged and getting married so alr was seething with jealousy

[@lauriciaclarke5303]

She announced her engagement as a "situation". Becky is her EX-Fiancée yet Destiny is her worst breakup thus far.

[@evilwhitecat9]

She says she's never been this happy every time she gets a new caregiver.

[@MagdeleneOfMars]

Okay I’m not attracted to either sexually but seeing Becky like this, I find her personality attractive upfront and cute

[@kourtenayt1927]

Shes so cute!!

[@MagdeleneOfMars]

@@kourtenayt1927 she really is like, ngl I’d flirt with her

[@MagdeleneOfMars]

@@kourtenayt1927 sorry this is my budding unsuspecting crush on Becky

[@jwoolman5]

Becky has a network of long-term friends and family for a reason. She’s always been a nurturing type and isn’t self-absorbed. She has a variety of interests and actually is quite articulate and does have a good sense of humor not based on mean girl attitudes. That comes out especially now that she actually gets a chance to talk sometimes. I’ve always thought Becky is much smarter and much deeper than Amberlynn. Notice how differently she talks to people in the chat. She doesn’t go on the defensive or assume the worst. She engages with them in a positive way. Becky is very genuine. She operates on a whole different level than Amberlynn.

[@kyiak.kennedy4595]

ALR is so damn gross i wouldn't let her even get close enough to me to get a courtesy sniff!

[@judibootie3536]

I love this season’s Becky. I wish she hadn’t waited until the final season to be herself.

[@peachsoda.]

Luckily there is talk of a spin-off with just Becky!

[@Saif-zf9vb]

That’s always the case. It’s always the final episode when someone abused stands up for themselves.

[@ryahferg2599]

We love a character arc!

[@leaf2549]

theyre finna have a whole spinoff show to themselves im so excited for her to continue with her channel

[@tieiatalks]

“I know you guys don’t like me talking about her...”. Wait. Didn’t she go on a diatribe at the beginning about how she wasn’t going to talk about wifey because we all suck or something??

[@sketchpadangel]

ALR just says whatever at any given moment. It’s like she’s a goldfish with a 5 second memory. It all makes sense to her, but there no actually continuity to what she says from moment to moment.

[@xohyoshidae43]

She also talks about how this ‘wifey’ has helped her so much and turned her life around, even though they’ve been talking for like what? A month? Also I can guarantee Becky, and her other girlfriends, probably tried to help Amber with her problems but of course Amber didn’t care. She’s living off this ‘new relationship’ high. Especially when she said ‘ every relationship I get into, I go down hill’, like how does she know this relationship won’t be the same? It hasn’t even started, she hasn’t even met the woman in person yet. It’s literally like her weight loss cycles.

[@comenowletusreason6330]

@@sketchpadangel Exactly!

[@TheNarcAlert]

Its all she has to talk about, she does nothing all day every day

[@mirandah9758]

Amber acting like she’s going to beat Becky up if she called “wifey” annoying. 🙄🙄🙄 Like Amber could do anything anyway.

[@laurenc4138]

Right? She’s really threatening Becky, meanwhile she had to pay her to be there because without her the views drop

[@Cyraxx_The_Pee_Dough]

All Becky has to do is stay behind her by her ass...we all know she won't be able to reach.

[@pot_calls-the_kettle_bong]

I think she does get physical when she becomes hulksmashlynn

[@69SalterStreet]

Right. Watching her flap her little t-rex arms makes me wonder what she'd do in an emergency. She can barely move.

[@addisonaddy6118]

She could try to sit on her…That would hurt.

[@Elvoalven]

You have such a lovely speaking voice! You could narrate audiobooks 😊

[@MissMickey4]

I wish she would omg

[@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221]

@JoystickRick that’s how you know she’s bad news bears man 😂

[@TheNarcAlert]

Freddy and Tom Cruise tooth!?!? what a famous comment section!! Also I think Ill do a creepy sleepy story tonight, try something new until we find what works on Sundays

[@nancybradberry3770]

@@TheNarcAlert YESSSSS! OMG THAT WOULD BE HEAVEN!

[@hailbones6663]

@The Narc Alert Absolutely perfect concept!

[@lonepo3tic]

Narc alert. I cant believe you didnt breaK down the card game. Sooo much narcissism flew during it. And the best shade from becky ever. You should do a part 2 of this stream

[@Awoman404]

I agree!

[@anembroideredbird7442]

Agreed the music question drove me crazy alr lists one "screamo" song and think she's into all that.. meanwhile Becky always talks about music and bands she likes plus wears their merch

[@TheNarcAlert]

yea, I grew weary...then sometimes I want to source a clip from another stream and Im then listening to another stream to find one point, and after all that I need to medicate :) Maybe we will look at it this week, we'll see :)

[@Mrs_Gorl]

@@TheNarcAlert we understand. The card game towards the end gets messssy. I for one would gladly watch a Pluto breakdown part 2! But please take care of yourself and your mental health. ❤️

[@olivialoveworthy]

I'm guessing Amberlynn hates Narc Alert even more than Karina Kaboom 😂

[@TheNarcAlert]

Im thinking Id get a Tom Harlock type of style situation reaction, its all too real and no drama/fatphobic threads to pick at :)

[@hey7068]

i'm not sure if you mentioned this i just started the video, but i love when Amber makes a comment and looks to Becky for a reaction and Becky isn't even paying attention to Amber😂😂

[@mause9999]

you could make an hour long compilation of this happening, honestly. she thinks everyone always has their eyes on her in every situation.

[@irahryphson8879]

Amber is sooooo mad that people want Becky lmao. She is so mad that Becky is desired and is getting attention. Waving Wifey around isn't getting her the attention she wants and seeing Becky get it is grinding her gears lmao

[@anembroideredbird7442]

Right? Then has the audacity to call all of them trolls.. I mean I'm sure some are but I bet some are also genuine when they say that stuff to Becky. Alr can't handle the thought of Becky being more liked than her

[@chickenlittle5095]

This woman is 30 and speaks like a 13 year old.

[@BONERCRUSHER]

She doesnt think Abraham Lincoln was a president and that the moon landing was faked. And she still brags about how shes sooooo smart. Im not a genius but at least i know my presidents and trust NASA 😂😂😂

[@fabioarturospada4178]

In the intro, I kinda wish you said

[@madeniquevanwyk]

I will like comments that say this until she actually does it 😂😂

[@sylwia7060]

Same coment every upload,it is getting old... SMH 😕

[@Lele-ym2wp]

thats what i was thinking!

[@SunnyInSecond]

Yesssss I say it every time. One day it will be reality! 😂

[@TheNarcAlert]

LOL you guys crack me up

[@adjectivemak]

I can't believe how much time I've spent observing this absolutely bizarre person spiral further and further into their delusion.

[@jwoolman5]

Well, that’s really the attraction of Amberlynn watching and similar pursuits on KZbin. We get to see dysfunctional relationships and a very difficult person from a safe distance, so we can discuss the problems without being worn out by close contact. Unlike in real life, we can always shift to cat videos. It’s also like getting a free course in psychology. Really, her videos should be archived in some psych department as splendid real life examples for students to analyze.

[@JW-tj5ug]

I am willing to watch Becky's channel once she gets away from Narclynn. I really do hope she keeps Twinkie, they need each other and ALR needs to be in a facility that can help monitor her and actually may put her in the right direction and that is not another gf-live-in-caretaker. I mean, she got herself to 600lbs with help from the company that she keeps, she isn't responsible. My nmom is the type of person who needed to also be in a facility (like a home) because she got to a point in her obesity that she could barely walk to the bathroom (she once ended up sleeping on a mattress in the livingroom and I had to clean up her towels that she would go in.) She refused, and now her enabler is my brother and her friend. If people can be put in places due to age, physical health, mobility, or mental disabilities, why not people with major personality disorders?

[@moonchild708]

i do not understand how grown adults can feel comfortable pissing on themselves/laying in their piss 😭

[@JW-tj5ug]

@@moonchild708 I watched once and it made me have a mental breakdown, that was a happy 21st.

[@amy_likes_reading]

I don't know why but Becky's "I'm sorry I'm gay!" cracked me up

[@Just_Jayy]

Is she trying to tell us that miss Lynn is not because everyone been knew and been known🤣🤣🤣.

[@jessieqk12]

@@Just_Jayy no she’s saying she’s not attracted to Amber 😳

[@kourtenayt1927]

@@Just_Jayy is that a theory?? Thats shes straight? I thought it was weird that she called it " gross" when Becky said she was going to go down on a girl...

[@TheNarcAlert]

right? I guess there are woman on the planet who dont like it ( Ive never met one) and if you are a lesbian, wouldnt it kind be the main event, or at least a big part of the show? ANd she has been telling us she is so sexual and Becky isnt...hmmmm

[@ineffablemars]

Janelle yeah, amber is definitely not gay. She dated women because a man wouldn’t put up with her bullshit… and truthfully she doesn’t attract most men.

[@folkloreofbeing]

I hadn't spoken to my NPD dad for about four years. He recently has been calling me trying to act like nothing has happened and everything is normal because he's getting old and lonely. He's just been sectioned for three weeks because he got over dramatic with doctors when asking for anti depressants. He threatened to kill himself if they didn't give him what he wanted and the doc took it seriously, sent police officers over there and whisked him away. He then rang my brother asking him to call the police to get him out because he didn't mean it and only did it for attention. I would like to think this would teach him some humility, that that's just to optimistic.

[@ijustrealllylikecats]

I haven't spoken to my NPD mother for over 10 years now. She suddenly sent me a text on my birthday last month. It really messed with me for a few days, I kept wanting to text back. But they never change, except for getting worse as they age.

[@ijustrealllylikecats]

I'm sorry you're dealing with all that 💜

[@folkloreofbeing]

@@ijustrealllylikecats Thank you. I'm keeping him at arm's length and telling him things he doesn't want to hear but I need to say. If he doesn't like it, he knows where the door is. I hope you don't get too much stress from your own NPD x

[@Thecatsworlds]

@Lady Joker hospitals and jails and mental facilities aren’t on lockdown??

[@acadiastrong4446]

Regardless how painful it is, you sometimes have to put your sanity first when it comes to narcs. We always expect them to change, they pretend to have never done anything wrong but repeat the same behaviour over and over again. Yes I speak from experience, I have two family members who have NPD.

[@sumcoolusername1483]

I also thought Becky was adorable with the Jupiter & Mars jokes lol. But then 600lbs Amber got the NERVE to tell Beckster, who is half of her weight, that she doesn't need more candy bars... :| what an asshole Also, Amber as a MOTHER?! Oh hell no, she didn't change her lifestyle when she had CANCER, doubt that she would do it for a baby if she couldn't do it for her own life..... Ugh, no. There are enough bad mothers out there, we don't need more.

[@MsRikojapan]

Can you imagine the Mars joke being the other way around? Amber will be so pissed and be like “ oh a fat joke, love that”

[@sumcoolusername1483]

@@MsRikojapan damn she'd be so pissed lmaooo.... And we'd enjoy the hell out of it 😂

[@HappiiWheels]

@@MsRikojapan "ARE YOU CALLING ME BIG??!!"

[@Mrs_Gorl]

I’m 7 1/2 months pregnant and just miserable (super excited though) there is no way she could handle the aches, pains, and lifestyle changes that are required to carry a child to term. It would never happen.

[@sumcoolusername1483]

@@Mrs_Gorl Congratulations!! Wishing you an easy delivery and good health to the whole family! 😊💖 And I totally agree with you. There's no way in hell her body could carry a child, and I don't think she could raise one. Her narcissistic personality would just give that child emotional trauma, she'd likely overfeed them and whatnot... Some people aren't meant to be parents, IMO she's one of them.

[@MsRikojapan]

I use to not like Becky when she was with Amber but I’m loving her now after the breakup. She has a good sense of humor.

[@BronzeDragon133]

Yeah, Becky seems a bit dependent, but once she got set free, she became a real blip. At some point, she's gonna be totally free, have zero effs left to give...and I am going to be THERE for it. :-)

[@MsRikojapan]

@@BronzeDragon133 Oh yes. Can’t wait😂

[@PersephonesWrath_]

@HappyFrenchieMama I’m so happy for you, losing your identity in such a toxic relationship and person can be soul crushing but the re-birth of yourself can be absolutely exhilarating. Regardless, good for you for thriving without him and i hope you continue to! 💕

[@MsRikojapan]

@HappyFrenchieMama I’m so happy for you👏 It must of felt so liberating to regain yourself.

[@Goofygooberston]

Because Hamber is like the elephants foot in Chernobyl radiating toxicity everywhere

[@LaurenWoz421]

It’s crazy seeing the manipulation in real time. It’s sad and I can’t wait for Becky to be away from it. Like Becky or not, it’s completely miserable when you are wrapped up in it and SO freeing when you get out of it. She will realize so much more about just how abusive Amber is.

[@BONERCRUSHER]

Amberlynn claiming Wipey to be her bestfriend just proves that amberlynn doesnt understand what friends are. I was friends with my girlfriend for about... 5 years before it ever crossed my mind on dating her. Amberlynn has never had this long of a period of being single so she doesnt understand flirting isnt friendship! Especially since Wipey seems to just be telling amber to work out and amberlynn is sooo love driven she thinks that its out of genuine love... not wanting her to change before a relationship ever begins!

[@LaurenWoz421]

I guarantee we will see a video/article/ book something that says “my 600lb WIFE(Y)” and it will be her girlfriend talking about her journey to try to save a 600lb narcissistic KZbin woman from her own self. Because yes, she DOES cook healthy meals with her, says she wants to go hiking with her, encourages her not to binge.. yes it’s great to motivate someone you care for but there is more to this 100%.

[@the_fancy_jace]

Watching Becky with Twinkie melts my heart, that pupper probably misses the hell out of her. She looks comfortable with Becky and so uncomfortable with Amber. Amber can't read her dogs body language.

[@SwampCeeMcGee60]

I wouldn't get my face near that either, Becky. Wow. Amber acts like she's model thin compared to Becky.

[@err_uhh]

Becky: Mars to get more candy bars Amberlynn: You don’t need them Everyone watching knowing that the weight ratio in this duo is 2.25 Beckys = 1 Amber: 👁👄👁

[@moemunneymoe]

Watching this retroactively is such a trip. Especially considering Becky revealed that Amber kept all of the Livestream money that was promised.

[@UtilityPro]

I know when I recognized the pattern of behaviors, in my Narc, I started to stand up for myself. Its great to see Becky going after ALR on the live stream.

[@otterbeans]

Becky is not the greatest person on earth, not for a long shot, but next to Amber she looks like a saint. Seriously, like the pinnacle of humanity next to this horrible example.

[@kelf114]

Amber keeps publicly announcing that she's Becky's employer now, that she's paying Becky to be there. Really hope Amber is keeping her taxes straight and has filed all the appropriate paperwork. Because this is no longer "under the table" - it's been announced multiple times. I'm sure the IRS and Labor Law would be interested.

[@Mrs_Gorl]

That’s way way way over here head. She will just take out the ceremonial paying of Becky and keep the money and say you have to do the livestreams to make up for your half of the bills.

[@wonky-t-wonk]

Don’t be shy NarcAlert - drop your small business name so you can make that $$$$

[@Goofygooberston]

Don't know if the short term gains would compensate for long term losses, seeing the matters & individuals she covers. A lot of them don't care about throwing money into a useless lawsuit.

[@HollyG1903]

She says she runs an edibles company from Canada so probably not something she can advertise to a WW audience

[@wonky-t-wonk]

@@HollyG1903 I’m located in Canada and know plenty of people that would love to check that out. Even just dropping a link could help her make some extra money ☺️

[@TheNarcAlert]

@@wonky-t-wonk email me if you are interested Ill link ya up and you can peek the site [e-mail]

[@lorilouwho6804]

Amber’s personality is insufferable. I could never trust her at all, she seems so fake and always trying to be “ on” or something she’s not. it’s off putting IMO. Amber always starts hating the people that really peg her.

[@Bozemannn]

I finally got out of a relationship with a narcissist in December. It wasn’t easy, he wouldn’t let go for months but he’s finally gone and now I am healing. These videos help with that process as they help me gain more insight into what was happening with me and him. I am grateful for these videos. I watch each and every one of them.

[@phreakzilla8514]

Love how she blew right past the person questioning her character. “Whaaaaaaat?? I don’t know what that means.”

[@gidi7663]

My ex boyfriend used to do that - any time I got a panic attack and he got angry at me and yelled at me and told me how selfish I am, then made me apologize for making him feel bad.

[@SwampCeeMcGee60]

I hope you found someone who supports you. I got random panic attacks in June and my boyfriend was really supportive, luckily.

[@chubbabubba1991]

I had a panic attack during sex at the start of my relationship with my ex narc. He did something that triggered memories of being assaulted and when I told him what happened to me he told me that I shouldn't have panicked or made him feel bad, I had overreacted and he couldn't be with someone who let past experiences get in the way. So I ended up apologising to him and comforting HIM! I was 20 and thought we were in love so I stayed another two years after that. Now I'm free and can see him for the abuser he is. Narcs guilt trip like its a sport.

[@JW-tj5ug]

I had an ex that had panic attacks and I tried my best to be supportive, but when it came to my panic attacks caused by his friend, "I was doing it for attention." I'm glad that they are both exes.

[@morgue-an]

I'm glad you brought attention to her saying she loved wifey, I hadn't seen anyone else do so yet. She definitely wanted someone to notice because she said it twice, and the first time she stared so intensely into the camera.

[@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221]

Also, it’s so weird to watch ALR. Besides the obvious, I notice so many things my narc ex did. Of course at the time, I couldn’t see it properly. I’m so glad Becky finally broke it off. I’m sure she’s also very glad ALR has someone else to focus on.

[@anniemacrae117]

your username 💀💀💀💀💀

[@InTheNameOfLife1]

It’s a blessing in disguise for sure that Amber can get her narc supply from someone else and hopefully it will make going no contact more of a possibility for Becky.

[@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221]

@@anniemacrae117 haha thank you

[@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221]

@@InTheNameOfLife1 exactly. I feel like Becky, now being without her mom and not being tied down to Amber anymore, can actually start and commit to some real self care.

[@jackies6354]

I’m very curious to see how things will be once they move on. I fell like Amber will struggle with having to handle it on her own, which makes me wonder if she’ll pull “wifey” in; she “can’t do it because of her anxiety”. I think this side of Amber is one she might not be able to come back from.

[@BronzeDragon133]

Right now, it seems like Becky's stuck as caretaker (why Amber isn't paying her for that as well is beyond me). Once/If Becky leaves, somebody has to do it, Amber clearly can't. So it's either Wifey or a hired full or part-time live in.

[@jackies6354]

@@BronzeDragon133 it’s only a matter of time. Hearing Amber comment about Becky still being apart of the live streams was so awful and again drives the point home she cannot do it on her own - because she doesn’t know how. She needs someone else, she can’t stand alone.

[@ruththinkingoutside.707]

🤣🤣… I’m totally living for the Becky “cat comments”… the look on ABLs face is PRICELESS!!! Go Becky! Get some 🤪🤣

[@TheEmoEntchen]

I just wanted to say, that I'm so proud at how mature and insightful Narc Alert is about her own Narcissist. There are no feelings like anger or resentment in her little anecdotes, they're so helpful. I was just wondering if she would consider doing a little story video about her experiences. It just helps me so much do unterstand what I went through and I hope one day I can talk about it like Narc Alert does.

[@TheNarcAlert]

Thanks so much, I appreciate your kind words, I want very much to share more, but my narc lurks a bit, and I cant risk that...If I ever do memberships, maybe Ill do some lives where we can all chat, but I dont want o be greedy..its all a balance :) Glad you are so insightful about your stuff, you will be fine !

[@thinair7671]

@@TheNarcAlert what do you mean by 'your narc?'

[@redumonthedancefloor8900]

The way she talks to Becky now is absolutely disrespectful especially when you compare the live streams just after Becky broke up with her before “wifey” came along. She used to compliment Becky like she was the best thing since sliced bread and cry about how she wouldn’t want anyone else (I know it was all fake, the only reason she was crying was because she was worried about being alone) but now she’s being so rude to Becky and calling her a liar every time she says something that is more than likely very true. I feel the members aren’t liking how she’s talking about and to Becky either and are hearing the bitchy comments she’s saying more than Becky is maybe she is choosing to ignore until she’s free of amber for good I don’t know.

[@xohyoshidae43]

I don’t know why Amber is acting that way cause it’s only adding on to the hate she already has. She’s literally making herself look like a b!tch. I feel like she definitely feels as though she’s above Becky with how quickly she’s ‘moved on’ and found someone new, as if it’s some competition. Her ego needs to be taken a peg down or two, but we know that’ll never happen.

[@redumonthedancefloor8900]

@@xohyoshidae43 she has always acted like Becky wasn’t good enough and like she’s an embarrassment.

[@amiraclexjahara]

ALR needs someone to feed her ego. I can’t wait for wifey to finally make an appearance. She’ll take anyone who has low self esteem

[@n0odles86]

ALR needs someone to feed her. Fixed

[@TexasPeach81]

I'm loving your channel. I look forward to your posts. I hope your doing well.

[@TheNarcAlert]

Thanks for your support!

[@TexasPeach81]

I hope you're doing well. Don't want to be grammarlyn. Lol

[@SarynaStMartin]

Every time you say “please do not send snark” I finish in my head with “to our narc” 😂

[@joannafreedom7914]

I want nothing more then for Becky to leave and never look back. No contact.

[@crn1318]

“mixed weight couples” i’m DYING. as if it’s the same as race 💀

[@kelf114]

She gets question after question about Wifey and says she doesn't want to talk about her. Then she has the nerve to say, "I know you guys don't want to hear about her, but..." and proceeds to talk about her. 🙄

[@problematicmonika3723]

Lmfao, I love your use of memes. They are genuinely funny and have great timing. Even stock footage of dancing pajama man still gets a chuckle out of me.

[@Oonagh72]

Yeah that DPD and NPD seem to go hand in hand. You missed the wipey wipey comment. It was everything.

[@err_uhh]

6:30 that viewer discretion warning was so unexpected but so needed 💀 truth hurts

[@icannotpretend5834]

23:11 That laughing at NOTHING is trademark Amber. She constantly laughed with Destiny. It's bizarre and she comes off like a juvenile. Like Destiny did wifey will get annoyed when the novelty is gone and Amber is still nonstop giggles.

[@BecD1983]

My god it irritates me.

[@aimipon]

Oh god, that was the worst. Destiny: does fuck all ALR: WHEEEEEEEEEEZE

[@nekkih2512]

Becky: *Crying and thankful* Empathlynn: AM I PMS-ING RN? I COULD CRY TOO :((((((( That just made me hate her. Becky, get out of there. We love you and wish the best for you.

[@olivialoveworthy]

I was hoping you'd cover this one!

[@erinntay]

“The quote I wrote down in my journal so I’ll remember it the rest of my life…..” 🙄 she’s literally a 14 year old geek…Grow the eff up Big AL🥴

[@AlienZizi]

I'm torn between ''wifey, you better run gorl'' and ''I can't wait to see the wifey arc''

[@Sasuga_Skky]

I am falling in love with this new version of Becky I swear! Her cute little smile that we've never seen so often!

[@milonix6752]

The "Raight" had me rolling! Your editing is just great and getting better each video!! Also wanted to add another yay to the small business crowd and say I'd love to support it if you're comfortable sharing !

[@TheNarcAlert]

hahha heck id sponsor myself if I could but I run an edibles company :) dont think YT would like that too much.. Im in Canada

[@HollyG1903]

@@TheNarcAlert good for you! I was going to ask about your business too but never mind! I think you're honestly focusing on the wrong gorl because FB would be very on brand with your business. 😉

[@TheNarcAlert]

@@HollyG1903 hahah Fb has enough issues without becoming addicted to my amazing artisan chocolate ;)

[@s.a.b.i.]

26:50 I had to rewatch like 5 times to try to figure out if that was editing....or just a weird gasp from ALR. After the 5th time, I've concluded that it wasn't editing. (But it would still be funny if it was)😆😆😆😆😆

[@nursingnotes212]

To be honest, I'm starting to think Dependent Personality Disorder describes ALR better than NPD. Not a diagnosis, but it definitely does fit her.

[@Twinkie989]

She can have bolth.

[@nursingnotes212]

@@Twinkie989 Yeah, she probably does.

[@acadiastrong4446]

She collects diagnosis like playing cards anyways lol

[@TheNarcAlert]

I think she has the whole alphabet

[@preemptiveheat8254]

People also speculate BPD (borderline personality disorder)

[@whatyoutubechannel5906]

Amber has been insufferable recently, it's so entertaining 😍

[@BronzeDragon133]

I think she sees that Becky is rapidly drifting away...and it's driving her nuts. I also get the feeling that Wifey isn't as sure a thing as it's made to seem.

[@trashpanda3837]

I can't wait for Becky's glow up! Congrats on dropping the dead weight, girl!

[@saraheverett5932]

The viewer discretion end me, I did not expect that

[@dizzledazzle3941]

Nothing makes our favorite narcissist more nervous or angry than the truth...lol, it's so fun to watch her on the edge of her seat! Ty for excellent video, Narc Alert!

[@CeHerN76]

The editing in this video was just *chef’s kiss*

[@moxymarie7243]

I have a theory that wifey and her therapist are the same person.

[@sherambles7414]

I like the theory that someone is trying to get her to lose weight, like a personal trainer who wants to be the one to get her to finally drop some weight and they get that clout!

[@morgue-an]

Narcs are amazing at spinning any narrative to make themselves a victim

[@Dawnandlo]

Her innuendo about sitting around naked is too much. Her couch would never be the same.

[@Sofiakatt]

I seriously doubt that Amber would sit around naked. She even admitted that she is constantly shielding her body with blankets. She is such a bad liar.

[@breannacordeiro]

they are not even on the couch it’s a mattress lol. there’s been many times where becky has stood up on top of it and walked away. who stands on top of a couch to get off??

[@TheChihuahuaLady]

Between The Narc Alert and Karina Kaboom, you two are killing it pointing out what everyone in Hadur Nation is thinking.

[@chillout1738]

At 6:38 after Becky comfirms she 'spilled the tea' you can see Ambers face as shes processing a narc injury. She doesnt know if shes being shaded or not but takes it as an insult and then tells Becky "that was no ones business!" And puts her arm out infront of Becky (physical intimidation maybe?) Amber can't have Becky speaking truth because she has no control over the truth. But Amber was fine last stream telling everyone about Beckys own personal health issues she was dealing with and thought that was everyone business.

[@evilwhitecat9]

Amber loves her double standards. I like seeing Becky get a bit sassy, but full sass won't happen until she moves out. And once she gets out she might want to leave it all behind and not talk about it at all.

[@levibull3944]

I literally said "THANK GOD" out loud when you skipped through the 'I'm so good for not picking story'. Thank you so much, and keep up the great work with the amazing videos!

[@SaraLovesUbb]

I cant wait until wifey dips out. Amber will have to legit hire a caretaker or lose weight

[@squeakyfromme83]

Reality is pulling on her kimina, kimono? No, kimina. -ALR.

[@TheNarcAlert]

cardigan

[@squeakyfromme83]

@@TheNarcAlert shirt type situation

[@aimipon]

Kamino 🙄🤣

[@squeakyfromme83]

@@aimipon dress shirt type thing

[@mohadese8586]

24:22 moment was soooo annoying to watch until Becky said "Idk ma'am." Lmao.

[@cutepumpkin4744]

My window broke when she said “um well!”

[@mohadese8586]

@@cutepumpkin4744 lmao. 🤣🤣🤣

[@LarryGambino]

" im literally on a roll " well , have you seen the shape of you ? yes , you are . plenty of them .

[@thejubilate]

I was never a fan of Becky at all, but I think her being with Amber brought out the worst in her. Love single Becky!!!!

[@blissh9019]

your voice is so satisfying to listen to, i love pouring myself a glass of wine and tuning into your latest videos! :D

[@TheNarcAlert]

awww Thanks..I THINK I am going to try a sleepy creepy storytime on Sundays, I like falling asleep to those things too !

[@treemarie213100]

I cannot understand how she can share all this information with everyone constantly and then get upset when people ask questions or bring it up later. Girl you don’t have to tell people things. You’re the one putting it all out there. There’s nothing else interesting about you so what do you expect people to talk about?

[@AmethystMoon444]

My god she’s such a terrible person. More people need to call her on her bs but that would just fuel her ego

[@BecD1983]

She is definitely a terrible person.

[@Clownbunnycosplay]

ALRS Instagram bio updated: she’s taken again!

[@MoodyCaffeineAddict]

How pathetic but totally expected.

[@EYE_GOTCHA]

Oh good lord…Delusionalynn. 🙄

[@acadiastrong4446]

You just don’t understand the connection they have…lol

[@gertrude137]

I love how Becky calls twink her “little tater tot”

[@JudelovesRiver12]

Amber is so out of her element because she doesn’t have control anymore

[@oahugirl605]

i usually find the messy amber content entertaining and good background noise but honestly the way she speaks to becky and her attitude make me so upset that i can’t even get through her streams anymore. how can she be so blind to how her words effect others it’s shameful truly

[@itsreadygoodbye6734]

Could you at the end or during the video give Becky advice as to how to navigate her "potential" NPD in her life? Something seems different with Becky seems like she may be listening to/watching those whom amber would never let her before... maybe..just in case.

[@laurenc4138]

I noticed it too! I think she’s watching channels like this and I’m here for it!

[@jwoolman5]

Becky has been in therapy a long time. I think in Lexington she found a really good therapist who coached her well about how to leave a narcissist. She’s using lingo that is in line with that theory and she really seems to be doing all the right things when a person can’t just run screaming away from the narcissist. She is managing Amberlynn quite deftly and that is confusing Amberlynn but also keeping Amberlynn from going too ballistic.

[@doeeyedkookie]

Is it only me that gets annoyed with the primping and preening amber does.

[@BronzeDragon133]

It's not only you. Somehow, when Amber is brought a mirror, she sees a thin, clean, gorgeous lady. There's nothing wrong with taking pride in your appearance no matter who and what you are...but there's also balancing that with other things in life, and being realistic.

[@acadiastrong4446]

She’s said before when she looks at her face, she doesn’t see how big she truly is. But an ugly personality doesn’t make you look any nicer regardless how pretty you think you look.

[@joannafreedom7914]

She does it so the camera focuses on her. Notice she does it when Becky is talking.

[@jmeearle8877]

I love the intro, I sing along!! I lovingly anticipate hearing your voice! 😍

[@TheNarcAlert]

yea, IM not sick of it myself, I got lucky and picked a good one I guess, Thanks so much

[@bossk1176]

Theres no way this girl talking to amber isnt a troll

[@HollyG1903]

I love your new editing style. Lol. It really adds a little something extra and that Michael Jordan clip could be inserted 100 times throughout her videos. Thanks so much for your consistent uploads. It's really nice to have a different type of video about our gorls.

[@cocobeandarla]

she’s always says she gonna stop talking about wifey then 2 mins later she talks abt hee

[@Melissa-jy3km]

you make really great points.

[@tulasivaibhavi4246]

10:10 is fucking hilarious, knowing Becky didn’t see a single dollar

[@KyaSimonsLife]

Wipey wanted to be noticed or else she wouldn’t have wrote & sent that 2.00$ Super Chat 🙄💙

[@MsRikojapan]

Your videos crack me up! You’re my new favorite channel.