The Narc Alert-AMBERLYNN REID- Hazel Eyes

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[@axolotlmafia]

Amberlynn: I lied about my entire relationship with Becky, I lied to Becky about loving her, and I settled for her. I enjoy being mean to her, and made her put her family photos in the closet, because to me, they're too quirky for my tastes. Also Amberlynn: I don't understand why Becky dumped me! You are all sociopaths, because you won't believe me that Jade isn't here anymore!

[@marchofthepigs36]

It’s exhausting

[@desiree3488]

That’s the situation type deal in a nutshell.

[@Lynzae]

I absolutely hate that she thinks Becky didn't love her!!! In actuality Becky loved her very much, if she didn't, she wouldn't have done so much for ALR. Wiping someone's behind in an entire different level of love. Love and infatuation are 2 different things.

[@meb5205]

She absolutely knows Becky loved her, she's just trying to be the victim. Becky told us in a live stream that SHE feels like ALL of her past girlfriends (including ALR) never really loved her.

[@Otterfran]

Becky loved her more than anyone else, and she still chooses to spit in Becky's face

[@FunfettiGirl1987]

@@meb5205 When Becky asked ALR if she thought Wifey loved her and she nodded, it was great when Becky said, "Congratulations, I've never had that" and to see ALR just go "mmm" and not have anything to really say. It was like Becky just shut her down.

[@MrTsnead]

In my opinion, Amber's toxic personality has gotten worse ever since Wifey arrived on the scene. And her constant shading of Becky shows everyone how bad of a person she actually is. I have mentioned this before, but it deserves to be stated once again-If she weighed 150 pounds, a lot of people would still dislike her because of her horrible personality! It has nothing to do with her weight! Great analysis as always The Narc Alert!

[@verucasaltbaum2358]

I totally agree! There are times when it "feels" like 'wifey ' is in control of alr's words and behavior. Her behavior/attitude, lately, is very subdued but condescending . She's become a different kind of Amberlynn.

[@Alysaah]

I feel like she’s always shading Becky because of wifey. She wants wifey to feel that she is the better girlfriend.

[@desubysnusnu]

People would've hate her more at 150lbs Without her weight she won't have any special trait to keep ppl interested. She will drown in yt algorithm

[@jborrego2406]

She get worst with the next gf , that’s her mo

[@jborrego2406]

@@verucasaltbaum2358 she changes her personality with each girlfriend Anberlin is a control freak she’s not gonna let anybody control her but if you wanna blame the black woman, Fran wouldn’t be an asshole go ahead

[@3m0bo17]

As an adult with adhd (medicated) it's very clear that she's using buzzwords from the internet/chat section about the illness. adhd is a lot more than not being able to focus or sit still. Also I know many others with this disability and not a single one of us could sit on a couch for hours in front of a camera reading comments. If we were to do so there would be many times where we would get heavily distracted or need to move around due to a lack of stimulation. She just wants another thing to blame her shortcomings on

[@aprilstorm]

And these "symptoms" are new, I've never heard her say ANYTHING like this in the past. So that established, do you know if a 31 year old could develop it?

[@pb9611]

Even on my low hyperactivity days I’m swaying and stimming. I just can’t think if I’m jus sitting there like a bump on a log. It’s been so hard to let go and not mask 25/8 and she jus. Flaunts it like a designer handbag.

[@43MinutesWithJamieRose]

I have the inattentive type. I find it difficult to function. Medicated or not, I spend my days asking, “Wait, what was I doing/saying?”

[@Solanin0803]

@@43MinutesWithJamieRose wow, that sucks. It's so annoying when you know exactly what you want one moment and the next it's all gone. This happens to me a lot sometimes, but I don't think it's so servere that I should get checked, un like Hyperactivelynn, here.

[@bluebirb7418]

I've said it elsewhere, but she doesn't have that drive behind seeking diagnosis that I know I had and many other ppl with adult adhd have. The reason you get diagnosed at this age is because you literally can't take it anymore and it's eating you alive to not be able to do ANYTHING. I know goddamn well I almost cried when I took my first Ritalin and I sat down and actually did work for a whole afternoon because I had been so stuck for so long and I thought I was so useless for no reason despite having brilliant aptitude in sudden flashes. I don't see that in her at all, and I hope I'm wrong about that, but really bothers me a whole lot.

[@mooniemoons]

We, the ADHD diagnosed people are asking you to stop using ADHD as the new dainty gorl type situation because ADHD isn't just not being able to sit and watch a movie, but it can be debilitating and life altering, and not even the thousand planners you have can help you organise your day at times Amber. I can't. I just can't. This is the first time her stupid attitude has genuinely made me effing angry.

[@Solanin0803]

I mean, if she is realy getting it checked out, I feel like it's okay to mention it, if she keeps it down after this. If she just sits there and says "But I MIGHT have ADHDeeee 😩🥺 don't be meeaaan" then I want her to absolutely fricking stop! She just keeps getting tangled up in her lies as well. "I read 5 billion books a week" "I can't even watch a movie, I might have ADHD" "No, I don't self diagnose" "My eating disorder has been diagnosed a week ago (all though I was on KZbin for years)" She will fall flat on her face once her web unravels and will have nothing but the few orbiters that kiss the ground she...well, uhm, waddles on. Try not to get angry about her, as she said" Karma is a thing sooo have fun with that". She'll eat those words one day

[@mooniemoons]

@@Solanin0803 the only diagnosis she is missing at this point is the one that is suggested here on this channel. I've been watching her from the beginning and the more I watch her the more I realize she is an entitled bully using her childhood trauma as an excuse at this point - you're a grown woman and at this stage of life trauma shouldn't be an excuse, it should be addressed with a professional. She's using it to eat garbage, lie, and make up and assume she has a sMiDgEt oF aDHD SiTuAtIoN tYPe dEaL and whatnot. She willingly stopped taking her medication for whatever reason, even though her weight caused her uterus to be removed. She will never focus on the real issue - that she is a self-absorbed narcissist who thinks life owes her something just because her parents did drugs. She had family and friends and partners all along that were willing to take care and help her out, but she went ahead and abused her first girlfriend we know of that she had as a young adult, got kicked out of her aunt's and grandmother's house because she was abusive and hard to deal with as well, then lived with another woman being financially supported by the parents of said woman, once Dusty came into the picture she tapped out quickly realizing the drama seeking dumpster fire that she is, and then we have Becky who was her caretaker, I will not take that back because she was her caretaker beyond her weight immobility, while she had her little obesity induced cancer type situation she stopped taking the meds for and will probably not do a checkup until something really bad happens again. Lying about reading a book a day, then saying she hasn't finished a book since January. There's nothing wrong with Amber. Amber is just stuck in her late teen years lying to get what she wants, thinking that life and people around her owe her something, instead of taking accountability. So many people grow up without parents or in abusive homes, myself included, and it's not an excuse when you're 30. She is now choosing to do these things. How ruthless and vile.

[@Ladyfuschiagroan]

We do not claim her

[@balucious]

@@Solanin0803 She'll wobble like nobody's business but those things don't ever fall down.

[@serafia_]

Literally. I've been waiting for over a year for an official diagnosis becaue they get so many people who just see a few symptoms and want to get diagnosed. Often just so they can get adderall (and misuse it…). It's exhausting and I'm at a point where i can’t function and do daily tasks anymore. It's not just having ”a lot of the symptoms” and them just ”messing with your daily life”. As a nursing student if id go through a medical diagnosis text book; id be able to diagnose myself with multiple diseases from me just having a common/generic array of symptoms like a swollen lymph node and fever. Like it could be anything from just a few symptoms. Mono? Tuberculosis? HIV? Lupus? Cancer? Or just a simple flu? It’s the same with ALR, i feel like she sees a list of symptoms and then starts (lets give her the benefit of the doubt that she does it unconsciously) acting out the other symptoms. Just like a hypocondriac who think/fear they have the illness when they see the list of symptoms.

[@myflyisopen.8732]

When you list her ailments as you did she's got an ungodly amount of health issues that not even an elderly person in hospice could match. She is young enough and has plenty of time to mitigate nearly all of those issues. But, meanwhile, "I think I have a smidgen of ADHD."

[@LemonCat98]

I know. I'm in my 20s and have seizures, and you're damn right I do all I can to prevent the brain zaps,unlike amber who just ignores hers until its too late.

[@alinamichelle2531]

But not diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, hypertension, etc. She's so funny

[@sara-fish]

i was shocked when i saw that part. i always knew she has this and that but when its listed like that..it just keeps coming!

[@krayozmines]

Thank God my grandmother who is above 70 is more healthy than her. Praise be to God. Amber helps me realise the blessings i have. She may be self sabotaging which is bad but her public posts help others realise we can do better and be more grateful. Just sad that she can't look back at her life (which she has hours of footage of) and truly reflect to change for the better.

[@to1620]

But please remember that while she has tried to claim having all these ailments-she actually doesn’t. She just does this “ailment shopping” for attention. If her views are down, she fabricates a medical issue. Within a month everyone has forgotten about it and she has to then think of something else.

[@aurus6483]

I've said this on other channels but I'll say it here too - Amber doesn't have ADHD. Amber is bored. Her dopamine is depleted because her one main dopamine feedback loop (eating) is now being strictly controlled by Jade, and so she can't get herself motivated to do literally anything. She can't move properly or comfortably. And the worst part? If she gets her hands on some amphetamines, its not going to do shit in suppressing her appetite - Amber doesn't eat due to appetite, she eats because she has an eating disorder. She doesn't stop eating when she is full and has no idea when she's hungry. She eats because she can't stop. Amphetamines are going to perk up her dopamine receptors and she'll binge IMMEDIATELY.

[@meghang2599]

Agreed! 🎯

[@lavendermelon7889]

Exactly this has the same energy as amber saying she was suffering from insomnia when in reality, she just wasn’t awake enough during the day to fall asleep at night🤦‍♀️

[@aurus6483]

@@lavendermelon7889 Amber has a real junkie attitude of deflection and learned helplessness (and I say this as someone who was a seriously derailed H addict for almost a decade of my life). She has major mommy issues and just wants someone to come and take care of her so that she doesn't have to be responsible, meaning that nothing is ever her fault. She is totally incapable of caring for herself or anything else.

[@BRBonGiediPrime]

@Aurus congratulations on your sobriety, and I agree with you. She reminds me of my boyfriend sometimes, who was a former H addict as well. Fun part is, he's been sober a year but is still helpless and lacks accountability.

[@kerrymcmahon9671]

The fact that Amber has the audacity to say she never loved Becky is disgusting!!! Out of all of her girlfriends I always thought Becky was the most genuine and sincere about loving this beast!! She has rewritten their entire relationship to fit HER narrative and to make her look like the victim per usual but what about Becky!!!!! How did Becky feel finding out she was still in love with Dusty? Or how about Amber being a big baby and demanding Becky spend time with her when Becky was losing her Mom or how about just the simple fact Amber won't even let Becky decorate THEIR house!!! She is so self absorbed that she doesn't even see that she is the common denominator in all of her failed relationships!!!! She is unbelievable!!!!!

[@primestar2008]

its because shes jealous that beckys channel is taking off

[@ninanimble3883]

My jaw dropped when she started listing off things she wants in a relationship that she supposedly didn’t have with Becky. Jesus, it’s disrespectful to the time, work, and true care Becky put into those 4 years. Like damn, she wanted you to be her WIFE at one point. I’m glad Becky finally realized to put herself first over someone who’d disregard your relationship so soon after it ended.

[@pollyfreshstart09]

I think you’ll find it’s DISPEKFUL 😂

[@jessicahigdon1273]

When she started talking about ADHD, I legitimately started crying because it's so much more serious of a disorder than she makes it sound. I've been diagnosed since I was FIVE- I'm nineteen now- and it isn't just about "haha attention span go brrr" and "i can't focus on everyday tasks." There have been days where I have gotten absolutely nothing done and forgotten to TAKE CARE of myself because I get distracted with one menial task. I can't have an ounce of caffeine because I've shake so badly that I can't go in public. And the spread of misinformation on adderall also p!ssed me off because that drug can be addicting and promoting it TO HER as some sort of miracle dieting pill just. . . ugh. There was so much wrong with this livestream. Edit; thank you to everyone sharing their own views on the subject. I've never been one to really comment on videos but this is very important to me as someone who is currently studying to be a psychologist and overall just an advocate for mental health in general. I only saw one negative reply about how it's just ADHD, not cancer, and I'd like to say something about that. Don't you dare compare apples to oranges. I don't know how insensitive of a human being you must be to weigh the importance of health struggles, but that's disgusting. The fact of the matter is that by her spreading misinformation about the disorder- and by reading other comments/superchats- is damaging and invalidating an entire community. Not to mention that by advertising adderall (which I personally take myself) as a medication that promotes weight loss could put individuals at risk.

[@OddLittleThing]

right?! like where i am from they dont even prescribe adderall anymore because of how harmful it can be. Amberlynn just wants a pity party because there is no other way she can receive attention that isnt negative.

[@hardfugoo1]

She still has the middle school mentality where all the kids were being diagnosed with ADD/ADHD and handed pills like candy. It’s on brand for her.

[@nikitee7876]

Same.. was prob 10 when diagnosed. 32 now. Still medicated. Coming off my ADHD meds is terrifying. Full blown withdrawals and no motivation to even get out of bed. You're not alone in feeling this frustrated with her. She has obviously Googled and decided what symptoms fit her narrative. Maybe she has it, many people do, but she shouldn't be making out like it a little thing. Also not sure narc alert got it right either though.

[@britmeme]

Diagnosed at 7, 21 now and I literally rolled my eyes when she started talking about it because OF COURSE she was think she has ADHD bc she's so random LOLZ 🤪 and it's so massively annoying that there's OF COURSE more stereotypes and misconceptions 🥲

[@snarkybunni]

yep to all of this

[@joshpointoh]

Her take on "Healthy at every size" was one of the most logical, cogent things I have ever heard her say. I tend to think the theory that she is enjoying poor health on some level, or intentionally keeping herself in poor health has a lot of validity.

[@voopu]

It's just so hypocritical of her, to say that people only point out her weight because they are fat phobic and remember that one time she said that the doctor supposedly had her charts in her hand and told her "you're overweight, but you're healthy" and then preach that being overweight is unhealthy (which it definitely is). This woman.

[@donnagelina8548]

Then she screwed it up with saying "beautiful at every size is" (a thing). Wrong. I believe that someone her size can stay clean, wear something nice, put on makeup and look presentable though.

[@thegoldengod1042]

@@donnagelina8548 Just because you don’t find someone beautiful, doesn’t mean they aren’t. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.

[@hardfugoo1]

It’s always kinda shocking when someone like her, who has terrible take after terrible take, says something so logical and agreeable. 😂

[@thatguy3903]

I think she keeps herself at this poor health for two reasons. 1. Pity. 2. Views

[@lilwitchbitch95]

Based on personal experience, I would speculate that she feels like she’s more creative when she’s unmedicated because of the god complex and heightened self image that comes with manic episodes. Mix that with someone who shows signs of NPD and that explains why she literally thinks she’s a poetic genius who “just thinks deep”. Just my opinion as an artist who also happens to be working on her “mental”🙃

[@lexicharms4662]

This was my exact thinking as well. I work in inpatient mental health and the amount of clients who say they feel like they can "do life" better without their meds is astonishing. It's 100% because the mania feels good and people often perceive themselves as more sucessful and more productive in a manic state. Miss ALR is not unique in her experience.

[@lilwitchbitch95]

@@lexicharms4662 It's actually really upsetting seeing her do this. It's easy (in my opinion) to get sucked into the manic loop because it can feel so euphoric even though you can potentially hurt yourself/others around you while simultaneously feeling amazing and untouchable. Not to mention how dangerous the crash can be after a manic episode. It's not worth it, take your meds, kids.

[@juliekennedy9891]

@@lexicharms4662 I think there is a balance between the two. If mental health professionals can acknowledge that we have racing thoughts and flights of mind when manic-why is it a stretch to think that these thinking patterns would lead to creativity? I studied in an MFA program for Creative Writing ( poetry emphasis). I have won a couple prestigious awards for my poetry and all of those poems were written while I was unmedicated. I have not won any major awards for poetry written while medicated. I get more writing and creative projects done while medicated, that I can acknowledge for sure. And plenty of my ideas while unmedicated are ridiculous and come from the unearned esteem/bit of arrogance that mania can give you. However, so many bipolar people ( including myself and apparently Amber Lynn) have said that we feel more creative while unmedicated. Why can’t we be believed?

[@juliekennedy9891]

@@lilwitchbitch95 It is important that we talk honestly about what it is like to be medicated and unmedicated. If we don honestly acknowledge what people miss about themselves when they are medicated, then how do we help them make the decision to stay on their meds? I got better, as a bipolar person, about taking my meds only after I had an honest and thorough recounting of what it was like to be in both states of mind. The reality ( that many people can’t understand) is that there are some absolutely wonderful things to miss about an unmedicated mind. When I don’t take my meds and become manic, my world feels like rainbow colored neon lights sprinkled in glitter. It is powerfully beautiful and exciting. The problem is that those brown lights burn really hot and explode. But I can’t ignore the pull and the beauty of those lights.

[@juliekennedy9891]

brown=neon

[@hogarth1]

ADHD, ADD, bipolar, anxiety, binge eating disorder, OCD. OCPD, depression, etc. I really want her to catch them all so she can be a true Pokémon master. We should support her in getting every diagnosis in the DSM whatever number it is.

[@comenowletusreason6330]

Lmao. Gotta catch em all. Masterlynn le pokemon.

[@justjamie1715]

She was obsessed with how Destiny made her feel. I think wifey did the same… just an ego boost.

[@kuromiluvr784]

she loves to feel superior.

[@lydiaellis3478]

Amber is the exact type of person to think that ADHD is just not being able to focus, it is so much more and it effects my life in so many more way than not being able to focus on a movie. Neurodiversity has also been trending a lot on TikTok for the past year and it would not surprise me if this is a teenage trend she’s trying to hop on

[@MissKitae]

I wouldn't be shocked at all if she was browsing "sicktok" looking for new and exciting invisible illnesses to claim she has the most bare ass general symptoms of.

[@RoyalRoses]

I think what defines an evil person is intent. If someone is responsible for a bad situation due to a mistake, they are not evil. If someone is responsible for a bad situation they purposely curated to gain *anything* and/or pure carelessness of what happens to other people, they are evil. Im sorry love, I truly believe amber is evil, or at least a part of her is. Her actions are extremely calculated. The way she talks about people, the way she treats people, the way she hurts people then makes herself a victim, the way she spreads misinformation, ect. Its not an "oopsie" as amber would say, its clear and calculated intent.

[@caspertheghost8631]

i agree. obviously there are layers to actions, but shes done some deplorable things to nearly everyone that ever comes into contact with her and has never once taken responsibility for how shes hurt anyone in her life. she always makes herself the victim despite always being the attacker and sees nothing wrong with that. there isnt an ounce of introspection on her end. and even if something was an honest to god mistake, she’d never admit it, but its hard to know whether any harmful thing she does could have been done on accident bc its so in her character to, consciously or not, hurt everyone around her to feel better about herself

[@er7889]

This, 100%

[@RoyalRoses]

@@caspertheghost8631 EXACTLY!!! You literally just said what I've been thinking for years!! I genuinely think she does things and doesn't take a second to think about it because hurting others to gain something is simply her genuine nature. Its like when someone does something horrible to you, and you express your grievances just for someone to say "Oh thats just redacted being redacted. Calm down its just who she is!". Or when a boy pulls on some 1st graders ponytail, making them cry, just for someone to come along and say "boys will be boys!". Inherently bad actions are still choices and shouldn't be given a pass because its their default behavior. Actually, those type of people need to be held accountable even MORE or else they will never change. Unluckily for Amber, she's everything above and a Narcissist. Narcissist can't and won't be subject to criticism without flipping the script, gaslighting, and bullying until the party pointing out the abusive behavior apologizes. The most core parts of her being are those two things, when I realized that, all hope of her maybe being a better person one day completely dissipated. Do i think its okay to send a person like that death wishes? No, mainly because the only type of person who would GIVE death wishes are equally as deplorable and have no right to throw stones when they themselves are so insanely morally bankrupt. Its like "hur hur you're cruel so I'm going to be just as cruel hur hur". As if thats constructive in anyway? An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. I agree with The Narc Alert in that aspect, just disagree with her statement that Amber isn't evil when she's proven a million times over that she is.

[@RoyalRoses]

@Abcity I'm in a situation very similar to this. I had to move back home due to health issues and can't even look for a job until after I heal from my surgery later this month. At that point I have to save for a few months until I can even think about getting out. I'm on medications and started seeing a therapist because I started partaking in self harm that I went 10 years without doing (Im now 4 months clean). There is someone here that I do feel safe with to assist me after my surgery thankfully. I just can't wait till I'm out of this situation! The stress of it all is making my hair fall out and I stay in my bedroom 70% of the day trying to avoid conflict. Honestly I would just live in my car if I didn't have animals I have a responsibility to take care of. I'm so happy you aren't friends with someone like that anymore, they aren't worth a second of your time! Honestly the excitement of getting out of this situation and living my life is the only thing keeping me afloat, idk when that will happen but it WILL happen, it absolutely has to. I love The Narc Alerts videos because she truly understands what it feels like to have a narcissist as a parent. She is extremely relatable and someone I can genuinely look up to! She gives me hope that I too can be okay and happy some day!😊

[@RoyalRoses]

@@er7889 Im so glad so many of you see this as well!!

[@MamaLinz123]

Re: Amber taking the ‘diet pill’ back in the day…My memory is not super sharp on this, but I remember watching the video about it in real time and she didn’t mention the so-called ‘doctor’ saying she may have ADHD. I remember Dusty’s mum taking her to this weight-loss clinic and her being horrified because the place was super skanky and not professional looking at all. She didn’t mention that she suddenly felt all focussed and chilled after taking the pills, just that she had to force herself to eat those 3 massive slices of pizza (she’s the Queen of moderation y’all) because she would starve to death if she ate carrots, and that she didn’t get the huge boost of energy that she was told she’d get…but what 400lb plus person would? There isn’t enough speed in the world that could put a rocket up her behind. Gorls a lah.

[@slimypeach]

Every time I think of her taking that “diet pill” all I can think is that she was trolling, just like she did with the casserole dish of cereal. I don’t REALLY believe she ever took that “diet pill”, and if she did it was only once or twice.

[@Solanin0803]

"The pills actualy work. I am not hungry at all" then eats a slice of pizza while wearing a Shirt that says "Sarcasm is another service I provided" 👌🏻 Comedic Gold

[@oooni]

I remember this too. She stopped taking them because she said they made her sleepy & didn't take them long enough to figure out if they worked.

[@oooni]

@@slimypeach I believe she took it. I took it too & had the same effects as her I stopped taking it after one use & stayed sleepy for two days after. ☹️ It's not a ADHD thing though just a high dosage & my doctor wanted to lower it but I never went back for it.

[@glutenfreetaquito562]

I actually remember that saying she felt heart palpitations etc

[@Sugarplum_bum]

As someone who got diagnosed with adhd as an adult; yes amber, I do go into a hyper focused mode but that doesn’t last more than a day, ill spend 14h straight on this one project only to realize the sun has gone down, I haven’t eaten all day and i have multiple text from ppl i missed. But it has never lasted a full ass month, never. As soon as my hyper focus is broken, its over. If it’s not done it wont be done anytime soon.

[@bluebirb7418]

I think Amber is referring to hyper*fixation*, not hyperfocus. It’s also very much a symptom of ADHD that people experience, usually in the form of very deep, intense interest and involvement with a certain hobby, special interest, book series, tv show, etc. Hyperfocus is a short-term impulse, hyperfixation is prolonged in comparison, and it can last for days, weeks, or years. People who hyperfixate on certain things can usually point out different periods of time where they fixate on certain things, and fixations may or may not ever truly go away. Amber’s not wrong here, but the intensity of her fixation is very unclear, and it’s not convincing to me at least.

[@Sugarplum_bum]

@@bluebirb7418 you're right, and I got no education to diagnos her, I study early childhood education, and while I surly believe she has her mental disabilities and other illnesses, she just has never really shown signs of it before. And for her sake I hope she doesn't have it, being constantly on edge sounds like it's own kind of hell at her size, I think it was Young Dumb Honey Bun who talked about her wanting to be this medical mystery and this is just another one on her list. But it did kinda scare me when she read the comment about ADHD meds making you skinny, sure it messes with your appetite but so much else comes into it too such as blood pressure and heart rate, messing with your mood, energy levels. And yes while she could possibly need appetite suppressants, she's an emotional eater, she doesn't need to feel hungry, so pills that could send her body into shock for the slight chance that it would make her eat less, sounds like a horrifically poor bet. I don't wanna see her get worse is all.

[@bluebirb7418]

@@Sugarplum_bum Yes, even if she does get formally diagnosed, she would either have to work on a few other mental issues and lose some weight first. Adderall and Ritalin are going to make your heart go nuts just because they're stimulants, and it's an issue for people like my dad because he has arrhythmia, but still needs stimulant meds. She would need to get to a place where taking these meds to help with daily functioning aren't going to put her life at risk. On top of that, I don't think it's going to go the way she thinks it will if she somehow get handed a bottle of Adderall by a psychiatrist. Taking stimulants isn't all it's chalked up to be, especially if she really does have ADHD. We react very differently to these drugs than a neurotypical, and we get a calmer mental state, but still may experience the physical hyperactivity of taking any stimulant, like caffeine or sugar. On top of that, there's intense nausea from being unable to eat when you take your meds, BECAUSE of your meds, there's the rush of anxiety as the stimulants kick in, and you're going to have a constant need for stimulation, which may cause things like hyperfocus to intensify. Being medicated has its own set of problems, but they're better than being unmedicated, and I don't know if she's ready for that or even realizes it.

[@Sugarplum_bum]

@@bluebirb7418 she wants a magic pill to make her skinny over night, but adhd meds ain't it

[@MeiMei...]

About your theory that she enjoys being sick: *yes, yes she does.* That's _exactly_ why she always looks for more illnesses to diagnose herself with, it's why she constantly skips medication, it's why she refuses to do anything to help herself. She revels in her own misery, every disorder is like a badge of honor because with it comes attention, pity, victim points, and excuses.

[@MamaLinz123]

My toxic narcissist father is like Amber…a raging hypochondriac. They LOVE the attention they get from being ill.

[@kelf114]

People like that think pity is "good" attention.

[@rhi_danceswithwolves]

People who happily go around collecting diagnoses like Easter eggs are so odd. I don’t see the appeal.

[@TheSmallestJo]

She just really wants attention &a to feel quirky. She's different because she has an aygg allergy lol

[@rhi_danceswithwolves]

@@TheSmallestJo Oh… I know why she does it, I just think it’s dumb 😂

[@TheSmallestJo]

@@rhi_danceswithwolves I gotchu & agreed. She acts like she’s patient 0 for all of those things lmao

[@rhi_danceswithwolves]

@@TheSmallestJo The first person ever diagnosed with ASMR. Brave gorl 🙏🏼

[@comenowletusreason6330]

I know. I'm the exact opposite. I deny having any issues. Nothin wrong with me. 🙄

[@acadiastrong4446]

The last book Amberlynn has read and committed to memory is the DM-5. She should be in the Guinness world record book for all the illnesses she has. Truly terminally unique!!!

[@colonless7512]

Seriously, I have stage 4 colon cancer (which is stable after years of treatment) Other than my colon cancer I have: Hypothyroidism Pain That’s it, I have had 3 things maybe in the past not a laundry list of issues she claims to have all at one time. I’m literally in better health as a cancer patient than she is if all those things she listed are going on truly. Astounding

[@kuromiluvr784]

you mean the illnesses she claims to have? 💀

[@Raven-lu5ee]

I find it very sad she feels the need to lie to her audience constantly. If she were more honest and put even minimal effort out she would probably get much more support.

[@graceaporteous]

ALR: I feel I’m a great multi tasked. Also ALR: I may have adhd, I can’t concentrate on anything.

[@RottenPatch]

I was an extremely active healthy individual at 250 lbs until an auto accident triggered my fibro and kicked it into high gear. I have/had friends that weigh both less and more that are both less and more healthy than I was then, and now. Being active, staying active, keeps you healthy. The less active I'm able to be the more issues I collect. Weight or no. I've lost and gained hundreds of pounds over the years. Developed a pretty severe eating disorder in the process. ALR needs to lose weight to be more easily able to be active but she seems to think that she can't be active *until* she loses the weight but only increased activity will get the weight off. Sorry, she infuriates me.

[@parkerkitty]

She is looking for the magic pill that will fix everything ✨ 💛

[@christinaburke454]

Cyanide?

[@bella2361]

@@christinaburke454 LMAOO

[@MamaLinz123]

@@christinaburke454 I just spat out my coffee 😂

[@christinaburke454]

@@MamaLinz123 please say a few words of remembrance for the loss of your delicious, delicious coffee for me.

[@argleblargle8083]

ALR - "I'm really good at multi-tasking" Also ALR when more than 1 thing happens- "wait what? I wasn't processing".

[@cici736]

People with ADHD aren’t good at multitasking

[@argleblargle8083]

@@cici736 I know. I have ADHD. What was funny was that she LITERALLY said "I'm really good at multi-tasking" and then got distracted by one thing and couldn't cope. Which is pretty much the exact opposite of being able to multi-task.

[@jennaw723]

I love how she claims that people hate her because of her weight. It's her personality that we can't stand!

[@MidniteHorrorfest]

Kind of sounds like Amber has has done thousands and thousands of hours of "research" about adult ADHD on TikTok 🤔 especially the surface level videos of people listing buzzwords and terms and behaviors that CAN be related to but aren't solid indicators of having ADHD. A bit of cherry picking but who's surprised 🤷‍♂️

[@anembroideredbird7442]

Wouldn't her saying she would never watch much less pay to watch her own livestream say anything to her paying members? Like if that's not a wake up call I don't know what is tbh.. And dear God ppl don't hate her due to her weight.. she is so self absorbed

[@Solanin0803]

She realy picks and chooses whatever fits her narrative with the comments as well. A lot of "Becky didn't treat you well" then some "You look so pretty" and a few mean things, because people hate her 'cAuSe ShE iS fAt

[@crabbycake8770]

My thought regarding her supposed ADHD is that she is confusing the difficulty concentrating and loss of interest that is a major symptom of depression with ADHD. Depression is one thing that I’m actually pretty sure she has and am pretty sure she does NOT have ADHD. I am extremely curious to see if her new vlog has any footage of her actually outside the apartment….that is if she ever actually uploads it.

[@bluebirb7418]

There are some small things that could be seen as ADHD symptoms (impulsive spending and behaviour, not thinking her depop through properly, hyperfixation on reading, makeup, lego, etc), but the thing is that the level of detail she goes into is so vague that it's very very hard to tell. To be assessed, you would have to have a childhood history of certain symptoms, and for the symptoms to be detrimental to your daily functioning, which she doesn't mention at all. On top of that, the fact that she isn't taking meds consistently for her other diagnosed disorders can very well be messing with her, because of the heavy overlap of depression, anxiety, and bipolar with ADHD. What really gets to me especially is how she talks about her inattentive symptoms like "oh I just can't concentrate." She doesn't seem like she knows what it's like to recognize the consequences of not doing a task, sitting down to do it, and being trapped in your own body and conscious mind as you hit an invisible wall of mental paralysis. It's terrifying, it's incredibly distressing, and it's the side of ADHD that you never see anyone talk about, but so many people with ADHD will recognize. Her suspicions are valid, but the proof she states is not, especially given her tendencies to lie compulsively. She's got issues, but ADHD may not be one of them.

[@rickydas6334]

I think an awesome 2nd channel name would be like "Narc After Dark" or "The After Dark Alert"

[@LaurenWoz421]

Wow when you show clips from a month or so ago she is a totally different person already! She is transformed into wifey or what wifey wants. She has NEVER been this dull, unanimated, quiet, attempting to come off sophisticated & “honest” or “woke”, flat persona. And she is contradicting everything she has said before “wifey” era. She also is suddenly appearing more clean, which is good. But How can she change SO noticeably MUCH from relationship to relationship? It’s soooo weird even though I know narcissists tend to do this I have never seen it so completely obvious.

[@grannymabel]

Just what I was thinking..wifey is directing her from off camera turning her into a daytime TV host .

[@Serenitie3]

It's almost comical her trying to pretend she's never been in love or happy before wifey. What's the point

[@shapescolours8105]

I said this on another video so I’ll say it here too The way Amber talk about ADHD feels like all she knows is the it has something to do with attention span. It’s so much more than that. That’s such a small part. It’s not some cute quirky thing. Undiagnosed ADHD can lead to personality disorders and other mental illnesses, addiction, reckless/dangerous behaviour… It can be difficult to maintain relationships and connect with people. Hyperfixations aren’t just going through a phase where you liked building lego, it would be learning everything you could about lego, watching every video you can find to see all the neat buildings tricks. You’d know way too much about each unique block and the colours they come in lol. And I hate the “I can’t focus to read = I have ADHD” mindset. Me, a person with ADHD, reads an ungodly amount. A lot of people can’t focus to read regardless. Actually getting a diagnosis is really hard. Especially for females (I’d recommend looking into it it’s pretty interesting). I have been evaluated for learning disabilities and disorders 8 times. It’s been a few years since I was tested as I’m 22 and out of school now

[@joyofjess]

She probably wants Adderall as a weight loss tool. God forbid, she put some work into losing weight 😖

[@lexinoel7]

I was diagnosed at a younger age and never “grew out of it”

[@idkausername4035]

Yeah honestly just in the fact that according to her she had such a great rapport at work which again I say according to her… That alone makes me strongly question even the idea of her having ADHD I myself and pretty much anyone I’ve ever met to actually has it has genuinely struggled to hold down jobs And I simply cannot imagine never being able to sit on a live stream to the point where I can sit there and do nothing but rude comments

[@lexinoel7]

@@idkausername4035 to a degree yes, I haven’t had trouble holding a job but school was difficult for me due to time management issues.

[@idkausername4035]

@@lexinoel7 I got ya! I guess everyone is different for me I’ve struggled tremendously but I also have never been medicated i assume that Would help. But I’m insanely forgetful, HIGHLY impulsive and get bored extremely easy so work is a nightmare

[@daintybeigli]

The ASMR diagnosis will never not be funny!

[@LemonCat98]

*laughs in whispering* asmr

[@erikperez8842]

The fact that Hamber is making money gives me hope and simultaneously lose faith in humanity

[@pri.sci.lla.]

I would never pay to be a members of hers. That’s enabling her imo. She is so spoiled and entitled. I wish the $ people spent went to better causes than funding this narc.

[@dagnydo2472]

Agreed.

[@marye3974]

One more comment. I believe that a big part of AL being so happy with Destiny is that Destiny was her first complete physical relationship. At least that's the impression I got from those messages she had sent to Casey asking some real personal questions.

[@EYE_GOTCHA]

I agree and think that Dusty is the only one who ever “rang Amber’s bell”… 😁

[@FG-hp1lm]

The last slide of health conditions reminded me of the "Side effects may include..." On medication, so seeing ASMR at the bottom cracked me up hard lol

[@RoyalRoses]

She literally said in the Dusty era "I was diagnosed with ASMR a while ago guizzz, not many people know what it is." Amber, ASMR isn't a illness or disorder!! She is so asinine I absolutely cant!!🙄

[@Clownbunnycosplay]

I’m not saying, ALR doesn’t have ADHD, but I personally think, it would’ve been caught, or diagnosed by now, if she were to have it.

[@annemarierosenthal3464]

As much as it pains me to say it, I’ve been noticing a lot of similarities between myself and amber. The way she approaches things, (i cannot do bad in any way with this one thing or else I’ll quit) is actually pretty common in adhd, especially in girls. A lot of adhd symptoms are not obvious. I’m just worried that if she gets diagnosed, she’ll use it as an excuse for everything. Because yes, uncontrolled/unmediated adhd suuuucckkksss, but it is your responsibility to take your medicine and ensure you can manage your symptoms.

[@twinkiesnails8857]

Probably not, she didnt say she was ACTUALLY diagnosed bipolar till she was well on youtube. Just had a client today who is 46yrs old and just now confirmed ADHD diagnosis

[@twinkiesnails8857]

@@annemarierosenthal3464 if no ones ever explained that first feeling you described, its called rejection sensitivity :) it might help you learn more about it to know its name

[@shuou2794]

Adhd in females is more internal than it is with males... So it is harder to catch

[@misteromi7438]

Her face itself makes my blood boil.

[@misspadalecki101]

you can tell she's someone who has NEVER had their ass kicked

[@jonalynreynolds8122]

Her face and her preening makes me irrationally angry!

[@christinaburke454]

@@misspadalecki101 I would LOVE to be the one that changed that situation for her.

[@taylorah6409]

One of Amber's newest saying: yeah, I could see that being a thing.

[@soupformyfamily8424]

as someone with bipolar, watching her talk about what COULD be ADHD and dismissing the probability of those things being caused by her bipolar and med inconsistency is so infuriating. she just wants labels

[@renny9850]

I am astounded. She talks as if there isn’t video proof of the things she is trying to lie about. Her flip flopping narrative of missing Becky, never loving her, and being her best friend is mind boggling. I cant imagine what that did to Becky’s head while they were together.

[@Grace-cf5zy]

You should cover a Gabbie Hanna video, I think she’s the reason Amber thinks she has ADHD now because Amber loves Gabbie and she has been using ADHD as an excuse for antagonistic and unprofessional behavior

[@vianjelos]

I dont understand why people dont realize that mental health issues arent an excuse to be abusive or to be assholes to other people. Like it doesnt absolve you of any responsibility like these people(Gabbie and Amber) think it does. If you hurt someone you still need to acknowledge that and try to be better in the future, you cant just antagonize or abuse someone and think its ok because you have a mental illness. They think its so quirky too, even tho most people with mental illnesses or learning disabilities dont think its funny or quirky or an excuse its hard for them and most of the time it negativly affects them not really others.

[@lexiitarot]

She did a video on Gabbie! :)

[@katianna7306]

@@lexiitarot she deleted it

[@TheNarcAlert]

@@katianna7306 nope...its there :)

[@bluebirb7418]

As an AFAB person diagnosed with adult ADHD, I just want to clarify that hyperfixation (an intense, deep fixation on a certain topic) is most definitely a potential symptom, HOWEVER, it is not one which is listed in the DSM-5, if I remember correctly. It simply is not a criteria for diagnosis, but it does not mean that it isn't a symptom, period. Alr's fixation on books or lego *could* be seen as a fixation, but the true intensity of those periods is yet to be seen, and it would need to be something she has a history of doing. Everything she has listed has been accurate to a degree, but she's missing the point of ADHD. ADHD is a disorder that renders you unable to function in many, many of your life, especially for those who seek diagnosis once they are adults. She may have symptoms, but she isn't building up a profile of a person with ADHD. I'm not saying she doesn't have it, but the proof she has given so far is entirely unconvincing, and as she has a history of compulsive lying, I wouldn't put it past her. I just hopes she sees her psychiatrist first and takes her goddamn meds.

[@deezyhope675]

Her jumping from obsessing about reading, Lego’s is as much about being bored and having no purpose in life than anything else. If she truly wanted to be a writer/poet she could do a creative writing course - they even do them online. It would help her hone her own work and give her some background knowledge about poetry etc but I’m guessing that would take effort and she believes she’s perfect and has nothing to learn.

[@Solanin0803]

Noo, Deezy, you don't understand. Her teacher in school said that she was a super good writer and they where SO impressed with her work. ALR won writing contests for college students when she was 4. She is so gifted and talented as a writer. You should realy "Ask her how she' s doeen" with her poetry book m*ment more 😔

[@kelf114]

@@Solanin0803 And that was all while she was such a wonderful "choreogruffer". No one could dance as well as her! And she made all those dance routines! Gosh, even after twenty years of tap dancing on stages, I'm just not as good as her! 🙄

[@KnitHappens]

@Deezy Hope, Yes, exactly this! She has the means and the time for online learning, but she’ll never do it.

[@thorocotomy]

She wants to "get assessed" for ADHD but doesn't want to actually do any of the work to improve or ease or supposed symptoms. It's like adding a charmkin to her collection.

[@acidtrip2994]

i’m a bit peeved that she’s just talking about how her anxiety medicine isn’t working instead of talking to her DOCTOR about that and getting help

[@nightsgrow6575]

She also said in a previous stream that she isn’t taking her meds consistently which is necessary for them to work

[@acidtrip2994]

@@nightsgrow6575 EXACTLY!! it’s so frustrating to me bc i have two different anxiety disorders and hearing her talk about how the medicine’s not working when she doesn’t even take it consistently just kills me

[@hardfugoo1]

How dare you not include Trypophobia in her varying ailments list. It’s the most serious, life threatening, and totally real of all. 😂 This stream was also fascinating in the sense that you could see her just latching onto something a comment said and grafting it to her own “personality” in real time. It’s long since been something people have said she does but it was just weird seeing her read a comment… repeat what that comment said but then just claim ownership of it… and pass it off like it was always hers. The Vitamin D thing as a prime example. She did it a few other times but that one stuck out. It’s so so strange.

[@mcgewglertims9577]

She says with a ton of clustered dots on her dress 🙄

[@hardfugoo1]

@@mcgewglertims9577 exactly 😂

[@myflyisopen.8732]

There's too many holes in that claim.

[@13ritneyanne]

Don't forget she diagnosed herself with ASMR lmao

[@myflyisopen.8732]

@@13ritneyanne ASMR? Amberlynn Sittin' Monthly Reid?

[@lazchurchyard1229]

Would you be able to talk about microexpressions, and her expressions in general? She actually makes a ton of faces I've seen on Donald Trump. 👀

[@elliep3632]

Totally agree. Her expressions do not match her words 90% of the time. For example whenever thanking someone she literally looks dead behind the eyes

[@sherrybaby1809]

Hope this is OK to suggest... I have been spending my KZbin time between narcalert and observe. A collab on amber would be great!

[@thatguy3903]

I have a good few diagnosed disorders (autism and depression to name a few). The way she acts about mental illness pisses me off. She always treats it like it's just a silly quirky thing and she can't sit still. My autism leads to symptoms of ADHD and it's so frustrating because I forget to take care of myself when I'm hyper focused.

[@thatguy3903]

*hyper fixated, not focused

[@izaballaallebasi6271]

@@thatguy3903 I have Asperger’s syndrome, and PCOS. Definitely agree with you about the way she acts about mental illnesses, it confuses me and I don’t understand why she does this. (btw saw the title of vid and my eyes are also hazel,dang it..)

[@Dobbyisfree000]

I only knew I had ADHD when I turned 25 by pure chance.. Lot of women go undiagnosed that way. It is the absolute worst. You CAN NOT make it your new quirk. Only People with ADHD will know just how much it takes away from you. Our Gurl here flaunting ADHD like a shiny new toy.

[@return2sender_89]

Until Amber realises a relationship is a two way street she will always be the victim when things don't go her way

[@jennataylia666]

Amber could do to take note of your incredible work ethic! Thank you for all the amazing content you are continuing to produce ❤️

[@TheNarcAlert]

Wow, thank you!

[@SycoraxSnow]

Something interesting to note - having adhd doesn’t mean you can’t read a lot but very much can affect your attention, often leading to a lot of started books, a huge unfinished library, etc buuuuuut afantasia which our gorl claims to have does in fact lead people to dislike books because guess what they can’t do - dive into other worlds as this does not require but does depend on the ability to imagine and reading long descriptive books would lead to issues with that. So while not impossible even if she has both, highly highly unlikely that she would enjoy books over a visual stimulant like movies which she says

[@13ritneyanne]

I have aphantasia and it has nothing to do with reading. Aphantasia is just only seeing black when you close your eyes. Not when your eyes are open. Reading and thinking I can do vividly I've just never been able to picture anything but black when I close my eyes. Never effected me cuz I didn't even know doing it was possible lol

[@lurker1594]

It's clear to me that she's going to use ADHD as an excuse to forget to do her job. I have anxiety and ADHD, which she claims to have both, and I don't forget about my work, instead I get extremely stressed about not being able to focus on it, bc of my anxiety. Which leads me to believe she doesn't have either - if she had anxiety she'd be more anxious about getting work done (like if someone who didn't receive an order from me complained, I'd instantly get stressed about it. She didn't care). It's just fishy af to me. She uses her health as an excuse. And when she does get diagnosed with things she doesn't even take medication properly, it's just for 'poor me' points.

[@ijustrealllylikecats]

Gee. She's suddenly very interested in her "cats" all the time 🙄😂

[@jacquie5517]

Thanks for making lockdown less lousy, Merc. Always really enjoy the content

[@TheNarcAlert]

Glad you enjoy it! Where are you locked down again? AUS?

[@jacquie5517]

@@TheNarcAlert yeah Australia. Melbourne has been in lockdown for something like 245 days now total

[@TheNarcAlert]

sigh...here in Ontario at one point we were the longest locked down, but they loosened up a bit. Im so anxious to travel again! hang in there

[@mycitysucks8096]

@@jacquie5517 terrible what they're doing to you guys over there

[@phrekkleface]

@@TheNarcAlert Also in Ontario. Still too nervous to go out to eat, even fully vaxxed for ages by now. Poor Australia. This is rough stuff.

[@sooph1e]

Well push me over with a feather, her "symptoms" for ADHD sound a lot like a textbook description of the hypomanic phase in Bipolar II.. 🤦‍♀️

[@gertrude137]

They often get confused for one another, fun fact!

[@RedTime101]

Hyper focused, not hyper obbessed. I hate it when people use the word obsessed instead of focused because to some extent it doesn't ring true. I have ADD and ADHD and an off med (due to some other stuff). It is something you can fully manage without meds, it just takes years of practice and hard dedication and some days are better than others. Medicine does make it so much easier though. Just the terminology in her explaining what it's like just doesn't sound correct… it just--It rubs me south.

[@annaf2091]

Not only that but she’s getting being hyper focused on something confused with interest lead motivation. Us with ADHD can only find the motivation to do something when we’re interested in it. That’s not hyperfocus or hyperfixation, that’s just how our brains find motivation.

[@itiswhatitis8694]

She is acting very strange, more than usual. As if she hasn't vlogged for the last 10 years, gimme a break.

[@deannalarsen7161]

Add to the list of health issues: 1. Last year, her left eye kept spasming uncontrollably and her entre left side was painful and numb and she cried about it as she did a mukbang. This went on for a week or so, but she never saw a Doctor. 2. Asthma, but has never had/used an inhaler 3. Anxiety disorder/Panic disorder

[@idkausername4035]

I love when people say some thing she doesn’t like watching her gets so upset and like try to roll her eyes LOL homegirl really think she is the main character baby no you are an unpaid extra😭

[@missanthropocene99]

I really love the fact that you beep out her saying "moment" and "love that". Thank you!! It's too infuriating otherwise.

[@rubydickson9022]

I would love too see you try and recreate some of alr’s, foodie booty etc recipes!! I wouldn’t mind it being on this channel, easy for us too see everything if it’s all in the one place!

[@fatkins320]

Me right as yt was loading: am I putting on lofi or fat girl shit? Oh! Narc posted! Settled.

[@christinaburke454]

For sure choose the death fat drama. It's exquisite.

[@vanessahurtado3031]

She finally said “possible narcs” yesss 😂😂

[@KickingGeese]

i disagree that haydurs would move on if she improved her situation! Maybe just speaking for myself but i'd love to watch it!

[@TheNarcAlert]

well the haydurs would become plain ole supporters, is also what I meant, in my head where i didnt communicate it well :P

[@KickingGeese]

@@TheNarcAlert maybe one day, one can hope LOL

[@TheNarcAlert]

you are so so much nicer than me :P

[@annaf2091]

“We accept the love we think we deserve” is a quote from the book and movie “The Perks of Being a Wallflower”. Poeticlynn back at it again with her plagiarism in her super original and deep thoughts.

[@andievalentin]

minor thing, it's "perks of being a wallflower", the wallflowers is a pop rock band started by jakob dylan (bob dylan's son). nbd just thought i'd let you know :^)

[@Immoonchaild]

Do you guys remember the story that amber wrote in wattpad ?, it was about lesbians in a ship ?, and she thought she was the main character , I really think she wants a stupid life like that 😬

[@Ihavepinkeye]

I don’t like amber but I’d love to be a lesbian in a ship

[@Immoonchaild]

@@Ihavepinkeye It was about a month-long cruise that only gay women are on 😭

[@Ihavepinkeye]

@@Immoonchaild my gay ass assumed it was about pirate lesbians I take back everything I said that story sounds awful

[@Immoonchaild]

@@Ihavepinkeye i wish it was about that too but it’s such stupid story you would think a 13 year old kid wrote it 😭

[@Ihavepinkeye]

@@Immoonchaild 😭😭 my disappointment is immeasurable

[@Amy-cs8yh]

6:29 - JFC the look of barely concealed contempt/disgust on Amber’s face when talking about Becky. She’s awful.

[@kitkatkat196]

thanks for the bleeps over *bleep* it makes it much easier to listen to the reaction videos 😅

[@pessoafail]

'I take meds for anxiety, which doesn't work to be honest.' It took my entire life to get an anxiety diagnosis and then finally take my meds and stop having panic attacks----and this girls comes here and says her meds 'don't work'. Can I say 'fuck you, Amber'? 'Cause feels necessary. Either she doesn't have anxiety or isn't taking her meds properly, bc speaking from self experience, anxiety meds hella WORK.

[@_kikizaman_]

Idk man I hate Amber as much as the next haydur does but I have extreme debilitating anxiety and my prescribed meds don’t work. I’m not on benzos because I’m a recovering addict, but my meds don’t work. Everyone’s body is different, what works for some person may not work for somebody else. But I’m glad your anxiety is getting better, hopefully I’ll get there:)

[@axolotlmafia]

@7:35 I'm convinced she's put a great deal of stress on Becky with break up games, testing Becky, and just to hurt her, when she's referring to wanting to break up with Becky before. I think she used men as leverage over Becky, because Becky was afraid Amberlynn would leave her for a guy. An example of her putting stress on Becky, that one video telling her that she doesn't care if she gets to 600 lbs, and wanted to know what Becky had to say, and if she would leave her. She would make up these scenarios just to stress Becky out. Really she is over 600 lbs, and just wanted to see Becky get visually distressed, and gear her distressed, imo, because she enjoys hurting her.

[@dawndraper9371]

Yes! Narcs love to constantly keep their partners "off balance", continually purposely doing and saying things to them that they know will achieve that.

[@axolotlmafia]

@@dawndraper9371 Absolutely.

[@susieqz813]

Long time subscriber but I have been bingeen your older videos all week and it’s been sooo informative. Thank you, Merc!

[@Ko.babybee]

As a psychology student, psychologists and psychiatrists don’t like when someone says they think they have a specific disorder or illness. If you have it, you will be able to present it or explain how certain aspects are affecting you day-to-day. Plenty of people fit into multiple categories of psychiatric disorders but it doesn’t mean they have it so it shouldn’t be assumed. Talk to your doctor, psychologist, or psychiatrist if anything is affecting you on a frequent basis :)

[@M_SC]

As a regular person, i was unsuccessful at presenting my daily symptoms to doctors for 20 years until one finally understood what I meant, gave me standard medication, and entirely fixed me. And that was just asthma. Which I had as a kid, and told them that. So no, your wrong. It’s very hard to explain what your symptoms are for chronic diseases, because you’ve NEVER EXPERIENCED LIFE ANY OTHER WAY. You will be a shitty counsellor because you are against this common sense.

[@gertrude137]

@@M_SC I was thinking the same thing. Whenever asked how adhd impacts my life, I would struggle to tell you before I got medicated; I didn’t know how good things could be. I’d likely default to my struggle to keep on task/attention issues too 🤷🏻

[@Ko.babybee]

@@M_SC I myself have multiple chronic illnesses and have had to explain how they affect me even though I’ve lived with it my whole life. If you’re having issues with one doctor/psychologist/psychiatrist, you should find another. There has to be a connection. It’s ok to get a second opinion and to be persistent but to tell them you have something specifically will seem like you want it to be true. People often get upset if it ends up they didn’t have what they think they have. It took me years to get diagnosed with BPD and I wanted to tell my psychologist that I believed I had it but they needed to observe it themselves. There’s also the issue with those who want to take medication for the wrong reasons, they’ll still have to wait to diagnose you even if you tell them. But I’m sorry, you had to wait so long for your asthma diagnosis. It really does suck. I think I will be a good psychologist though, I pay attention and I listen to others.

[@dezaraesky1298]

She is becoming more disgustingly rude by the days…

[@MissKitae]

They keep showing up to pay her. It's going to get to a point where she'll just sit on camera picking her nose for ten minutes and they'll flood her with superchats.

[@Koffeegurl]

Yes I’d love to watch your second channel!

[@Sparklywonderfun]

Rain and petals eavesdrop she gave the wrong zip code 🤣

[@crystalsthefutureempress]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@marye3974]

You did not just say she has ASMR 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂☠️. God I needed to see that tonight. I was missing my poor cat that recently had to be put to sleep something fierce. Thank you for that. ♥️

[@TheNarcAlert]

hahahha sadly it wasn't me..SHE said it once :P

[@riannelynn110]

I would love to see Narc Alert look into the CreepShow Art debacle if they havent already ♡ Ive heard a lot of people call Shannen a sociopath or narcissist

[@drelevatorlestrange]

I'm starting to lose brain cells after seeing 3 comment videos on this in a row

[@TheNarcAlert]

why would you do that to yourself :P ?

[@CasuallyGaming123]

For the second channel, I would love to see your professional opinion on different youtube/tiktok recipes.

[@nolaheart]

Can you imagine reading her dispeckful book? 🙈

[@honeywest3460]

Hamber is right on every time she says she is boring 😴 She can't carry a channel herself

[@hailbones6663]

Thank you for remembering her ASMR diagnosis!

[@skyfully8031]

ALR is always in a state of “are you lying now, or then?”

[@plumpydayz]

One of my parental units has NPD and the part where you started tallking about sickness and how narcs use them for attention seeking triggered the ever living crap out of me. That is exactlly what they do and it used to make me so angry, I've learnt not to entertain it anymore.

[@PeacockButterfly]

God... this woman is Queen UnSelfAware

[@mcescher1957]

Oh crap! Somebody just gave her a new "word of the month" that she will now use at every opportunity. This month's word is...."gatekeeping"....sigh

[@troubledwaters7441]

Pajama Sam 2024. He's the President we NEED.

[@ladylecter8405]

Narc Alert: It's Friday! My confused butt in australia: it's still Friday...?

[@Doodlecream]

As someone who struggles in daily life due to adhd I don’t think it would be crazy if amberlynn had it. However I do find it frusterating how she’s trying to educate on things she dosnt know about.

[@Doodlecream]

I honestly see more adhd traits in her then ocd traits

[@twinkiesnails8857]

@@Doodlecream i wonder if she's either simply adhd and not bi-polar, i kindve hope that for her sake. Because if she is actually ADHD i could see that kind of diagnosis altering her life for the best

[@gertrude137]

Same, ive always suspected she had adhd, as a person with adhd. I guess we’ll find out by if she gets medicated/how the medication impacts her.

[@Doodlecream]

@@gertrude137 I doubt she’ll take the steps necessary for improvement but if she does it could possibly really help her

[@er7889]

Being lazy and bored isn't the same as having ADHD.

[@channellurker1503]

😂 you put ASMR on her diagnosis list...WELL DONE

[@lazchurchyard1229]

Hey Amber: no doctor in their right mind would prescribe you Adderall. It's basically SPEED. The risk of cardiac arrest, especially in your case, is high. So, uh, get diagnosed in a couple years for the fun fun prize of nothing. 🤷‍♀️

[@visualsno]

I’m looking at ADHD diagnosis and I’m just so AAAGH. I can’t afford it, and COVID has shut all the clinics that do diagnoses. She needs to get her head out of her ass and just go get assessed if she wants to. She’s a cash payer and can be in next week. I am looking at months long waiting lists and expensive co pay I struggle at University because I can’t read something I’m not interested in to the point I can’t do my prescribed readings/content for essays. So frustrated with her trying to come up with excuses. She’s going to blame everything on things she can’t control, THAT’S why she wants ADHD or Bipolar, because those are biochemical and neurodivergent. She wants to be a victim and have things to blame her own behaviour on. No honey. It’s so bad I’ve been diagnosed with BPD. It could be the BPD or undiagnosed ADHD or heck even both. She speaks so blasé about it. It does not make you quirky amber. I am so mad

[@bozobones8750]

ADHD and Autism got a lot of attention on TikTok with a lot of AFAB people realising they have symptoms that aren’t commonly talked about, and then another wave of teenagers taking it on themselves as a personality trait. I noticed in other lives that she mentioned “I’m forgetting things a lot lately” or “I can’t focus” or “you need to remind me” and silently I was like oh shit oh fuck I know where this is going.

[@marianaalmeidaaaa]

The gaslight bit always makes me jump