The Narc Alert has a wine tasting with AMBERLYNN REID

In this video we are going to take a look at Amberlynn Reids live stream, "Lets wine about it"
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[@KickingGeese]

here faster than a bean bag in a hurry

[@TheNarcAlert]

Wooo Hoo You are first!!

[@spagetty1114]

first and best comment

[@LaurenWoz421]

This will NEVER get old 😆

[@weenfain2321]

To be fair though, that guy wasn’t talking about amber lol I live in Kentucky (actually lived at the same exact apartments as amber when my husband was at UK) the guy was talking about a backyard game very popular here and am sure other places. If you listen he’s talking about the game and how he told someone how he threw that beanbag in a hurry. Had nothing to do with amber. Just extremely great timing.

[@daintybeigli]

@@weenfain2321 although that is the truth, it’s still an iconic line

[@rainbowroad1917]

When Amber said she tried to “fake cry” when Becky proposed to her. That is really cruel.

[@BlindZubat]

That's not really surprising. She did the exact same thing in her "Things I lied about" bideo where she was talking about "Just wanting her aunt back". There no freaking way she was really crying. If she was it would have also affected her speaking voice. There was no strain or anything after she said that. all that was there was the "crying". She puts on the emotions she wants others to see so she can get what she wants out of people. She only cares about herself. Allegedly...

[@melissaz1471]

Cruel how nonchalant she was speaking about it, unsurprising considering the source however

[@mastershake42019]

@@Crestos98 she is living in physical prison that she ate around herself. No amount of money or fame is worth your freedom or health. Karma is already slamming her. You get what you put out.

[@TheWizardOfEgo]

@@BlindZubat I don't think Becky even proposed - Amber chose and paid for the rings - she did not put the proposal all over the internet and I didn't even see Becky as part of the announcement - This woman-child is about to move a stranger into her house and she (Amber) has limited mobility and will soon be completely dependant on her - I predict a 'Dirty John' situation on it's way

[@roseoliveira4534]

@@mastershake42019 Well said.

[@dazedandconfusedd]

So Becky needs to test negative for covid TWICE before she can see Amber, but wifey, who will be TRAVELING possibly on a plane in close proximity to a lot of people... can just show up?? Aight amber, I see you

[@TheNarcAlert]

Right?! Im surprised no one else has picked up on that

[@Iwoasasaned]

Didn’t you know, that you can’t catch it from people you want to be around? It works just the opposite of a std 🤪. At least for Amber 🥸

[@nicelydone4846]

@@Iwoasasaned lol exactly. You can't catch it from the people that compliment you or give you extra special attention either

[@shanmareewalker7836]

Yes, I think wifey is there now, and Amber didn't want Becky around. Becky agreed to go to see her family, nothing to do with covid. In the most recent stream when Amber calls Becky, as soon as Becky answers Amber's first words were said in a hurry. 'I'm live streaming ' in case Becky said something to compromise their plan and say something about wifey.

[@makaimaukahasopinions848]

bwahahahaha

[@CJ-un5xu]

I noticed that she says that when you get engaged you are “supposed to cry”. She is looking at emotions as something that is expected not a feeling you actually feel.

[@AdirondackRuby]

It's like she is so emotionally and mentally stunted that she can't feel anything genuine...she just looks at the world around her and takes cues from what she sees. That's why she is always using the latest buzzwords. She just adopts and adapts the behavior of people around her, IRL and on Social Media.

[@lazchurchyard1229]

Ding ding ding!

[@kelf114]

@@AdirondackRuby Exactly. She never grew as or became her own person. She was always too busy copying off someone else. She wants to be so "cool" that she never realized that true "cool" is just being yourself.

[@joannafreedom7914]

Like a sociopath mimicing what they know evokes the emotion/reaction they want out of a person. It's so evil. The media does it every day.

[@twoofakindOGDC]

Mirroring emotions is a trait of NPD. They act how they think the person/people will be happy with. If that makes sense. They observe how others act in certain situations and then they practice it, then when presented with that situation, they’re prepared.

[@phreakzilla8514]

“My sex life is none of your business!” literally thirty seconds after she told us way more about her sex life than anyone ever wanted to hear.

[@madaodog__7224]

I've come to the conclusion that she says "it's no one's business" when things don't go the way she wanted. When it comes to bragging about this hot fit person that fell head over heels for her and feeds her ego, Wifey is put on a pedestal, when it comes to adressing how guillible and naive she is for having a online stranger come over and how stupid is to fall in love and be her gf it three weeks bc it's "true love", her love life is none of our business. It's her defense mechanism for her people don't buy into her bullshit. It's the same for Becky's situation, when it comes to bringing up how Becky didn't support her and how she "settled" for her, she LOVES to talk about Becky, but when it comes to admitting her own faults, her brain malfunctions, and we know nothing about their relationship, because, it's not our business. Batshitlynn in all her glory.

[@AdirondackRuby]

"Trust me!" says the person who has never once shown herself to be worthy of trust. "Trust me!" says the person who lies about the littlest thing. "Trust me!" says the person who tearfully declared that she would never move on and never love again.

[@shanmareewalker7836]

Its truly amazing isn't it that she isn't even embarrassed that she jumps from one lie to another lie.

[@AdirondackRuby]

@@shanmareewalker7836 Because a lie is never a lie, to her. It's just a change of mind, or something. She always works a new angle, frames things differently, to come out honest & truthful.

[@shanmareewalker7836]

@@AdirondackRuby but it's a lie to others. Clearly she doesn't care about that.

[@danilutka]

Yes! Yes! Yes!!!

[@nmHispana]

These types spend the major portion of their existence mastering the art of deception and pathological lying. Not only can they not keep track of all their lies, but after a while they'll actually start to believe that all of those lies are in fact truth and reality.

[@glitterfartsss]

How she constantly ignore her cats irritates me beyond words, I get irrationally angry 😡 . When Twinkie wants attention amberlynn will go out of her way to love bomb her to the point Twinkie looks like she's going to explode with aniexty. She makes sure Twinkie get attention, but her cats legit don't even get spoken to.. And if they do it's never cute and kind but with annoyance and irritation, usually told they either need to move or can't be *insert place here*. It's such a pet peeve you can tell she loves Twinkie more then she loves those cats combined.

[@sonnenblume6474]

Yes, that got me too. Maybe the cats are not rewarding her attention enough...some of the narcs I know even love bomb dogs. Because it makes them the favourite.

[@satan2806]

Oh fuck i honestly even forgot they had cats. I thought it was just twinkie for a while

[@sukamayoutube2323]

100%. When my cats even brush up on me, I am all over them giving them loves. She only got the cats because they were cute she isn't emotionally investing in them, only to make her look good.

[@artemisiaashton4914]

I've literally been saying this for years. It's so upsetting. Have you noticed too when she goes on her shopping trips she'll buy a bunch of things for Twinkie and then one thing IF THAT for the cats? It's heartbreaking. I literally feel guilty if I get a gift for my cat and not my dog.

[@jborrego2406]

Which is funny because the dog doesn’t even like her or cats do

[@melissaglasco8263]

this "wifey" is NOT going to be bossed around and manipulated the way Becky was! This chick is gonna move in, sweep her off her feet (lol) and then flip the script before Amber realizes what's up. She's NOT planning on being anyone's caretaker, the only thing she's got a plan to look after is Amber's bank account. 💵💰🪙💲💳💵💰 She's never been in love but now she's in love, with Amber, someone she's never met, after 3 weeks, over FaceTime and text, in another state and is ready to get MARRIED... and WE'RE the gullible ones.... riiiiiiiight🤦‍♀️

[@Jeanette3]

Exactly!! 😂😂 amber is so delusional and more so stuck on wifeys appearance more than anything that she’ll fall for anything she says to her. We know she’s feeding ambers ego by saying all the right things. I can’t wait to see this end horribly. There’s no way wifey doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

[@birdseed7420]

Bingo! That's exactly what I was thinking, too.

[@itsalysssaa]

no no we just don't understand the situation the way amber does 😇 somebody telling her everything she wants to hear could not possibly be bad news right ?

[@07734lol]

I’m so excited to watch it play out!!! 👀👀🍿🥤

[@taylorpain9095]

“Like I’m kinda like anxiety about it” Anxious. The word is anxious!!!

[@vamppuppy6211]

thank you omg I’m glad someone said it !

[@nicelydone4846]

Amberlynn has explained this before. It's her "mental"......She works on her physical but that's another thing.

[@shanmareewalker7836]

Or neighbor. Then says...or the other way. She can't even spell the other way. Lol

[@potichat]

Unfortunately her brain is the only small part of her😃

[@Kikichichu]

THANK YOU!! As someone who suffers from anxiety it pissed me off sm

[@joshpointoh]

I have a feeling that Wifey is already there. My reason for thinking this: 1) Wifey isn't on facetime this stream. She could be in the other room texting, but in the other room on facetime would be too much feedback and chance for the audio to come through on the other person's phone. 2) Becky is away on "quarantine" - I don't believe Amber can spend 2 weeks alone. I don't believe she would voluntarily even opt into 2 nights alone BUT if wifey was wanting to come visit before September, it makes sense they would want Becky gone during the visit. 3) They know how bad it looks to rush THIS fast. This way they test it out, so that if it goes well, they will be SUPER confident that it will go well. My guess is by Tuesday's live stream, they will bring back Becky from "quarantine" and Wifey will be "arriving" for the "start" of her first visit. And by Thursday's live stream they will announce that Wifey and Amber are moving in together in September. October at the latest, if Becky needs a little extra time to find a place.

[@Iwoasasaned]

Great theory! I take what you said and go on. Surely ALR knows how to log in in Becky’s accounts. ALR and Wifey are both weirdos so, what if they both wrote and leaked the screenshots? For hyping the views and deflecting from wifey being there 🤔?

[@dreamingfool2]

That would make so much sense! I was confused as to how there was feedback if Wipey was just facetiming Amber, while she was working "teaching"? Unless she was facetiming, while watching Amber's livestream, while working and the result was an inception feedback 😂. But that's a lot to be doing at one time. I think we all know Becky is really under Amber quarantine because Amber is losing control over her.

[@tieiatalks]

Damn. This is a very plausible hypothesis.

[@glitterfartsss]

This whole thing never crossed my mind but honestly I 100% think this could be true and would not surprise me at all.

[@Baky_T]

Guys, listen carefully at 20:30 Is it just me or is someone whispering??!?

[@chirara1071]

She does everything she can to convince herself & everyone around her of what she sees as reality. Or what she wants her reality to be.

[@clownpilled]

yup!! and somehow we’re the gullible idiots 🤣

[@gigichanel1745]

At least she feels sorry for us ….. it’s nice to know shes feeling how we are. Empathetic lynn

[@twoofakindOGDC]

She read the book “The Secret” (or listened to it🤫), and is *manifesting her reality* 😂😂😂 I’m being sarcastic af, of course. But it is something to think about, right😂😂

[@albatroce2324]

Sounds like my psychic uncle...

[@gigichanel1745]

@@twoofakindOGDC she’s the kind of person who buys snake oil 😂. I cannot believe the way she talked about is and calling is gullible

[@whatsername1180]

My favorite part was when she called the donation person stupid for her question and then Amber said Becky was talking about her ex (about the butt wipe comment)... when Amber is Becky's ex!!!

[@clownpilled]

she’s so dispectful!! 🙄

[@shanmareewalker7836]

She called that person an idiot, imo that's worse than stupid.

[@LemonCat98]

Imagine biting the hand that literally feeds you...

[@pot_calls-the_kettle_bong]

Well...she called a member H.R. and will take money for not answering super chats which is theft at this point. Imagine how she is alone...she has those Gacy Narc vibes. I still think she is a psychopathic narcissist type 2. She knows exactly what she is doing and it doesn't matter what any of us say to or about her. She preyed upon a 15 year old at the start of her YT career so to speak. Every relationship has ended because her victims broke it off and she forces them to remain friends with her and her new victims.

[@kathybee3151]

It's so ironic when she says "I'm leaving" because she literally can't leave now without a special oversized Uber or special ambulance.

[@alpacacin0]

Lmfaoooo stop you guys

[@pipsishooman9849]

Uhaul.

[@kathybee3151]

@@pipsishooman9849 maybe they can use the same transport that Steven Assanti's dad used. lol

[@tararivera5411]

Or a van

[@kathybee3151]

@@tararivera5411 I wonder if Tammy Slaton will loan ALR hers? lol

[@laurenc4138]

The channel “frog and possum” just posted something about a woman that’s friends with Becky who Becky gave permission to… to spill tea on Amber. Apparently there are screenshots and everything, tbh I think the timing of that and Becky suddenly “getting covid” was Becky’s way to make a clean break, I don’t think Becky will come back. Amber personally brings out the worst in my anger, I can’t stand narcissists and a delusional one is 10x worse. She’s in liver failure, drinking a whole bottle of wine, and talking about how scared she is about getting sick… as if every single thing she does to her body isn’t keeping her near the end of her life at 30! I’m so so soooo happy Becky got out, and new wifey sounds like either the biggest troll ever or is going to take this woman for every dime she has

[@a_talkative_cow836]

I feel you to a T! I don’t know why I watch these 😂 it’s infuriating to watch her. Who is this “wifey” I hope this is a troll, it just feels impossible that anyone could look at amber and think, “yeah, I like her” yet there are fangirls for serial killers. I look at her and I think it’s triggering all these memories of a friend I had jr. high

[@brookearceneaux7425]

Omg I can’t wait for this new season then

[@trishamingin9003]

Agree with every word u said! She makes my rage come forward! Which is actually rare!!!

[@psyolytesaille]

That whole thing is fake and too many people fell for it.

[@trishamingin9003]

@@psyolytesaille I don't think it was real either.... However... I do believe everything it said! Amber can't even barely stand! She admitted Becky has wiped her. After surgery. After gallstone attacks. Etc.. I don't believe Becky wrote these though.

[@basicindiebro]

“I am giving you free will”-Godlynn

[@killerkaiju2000]

I wish you could say “don’t send snarc to our narc” in your opening

[@jamielewis136]

🤣🤣

[@sony5029]

omggg i commented this last video!!!!

[@Baba_Wawa]

I’m suspicious of her new ‘interest’ as ALR is one of the most undesirable individuals I’ve ever seen. I’ve racked my brain for a single good quality or characteristic, but for the life of me can’t even come up with one. I would think her personality would destroy or cancel out any sort of beauty one could see in her. Aside from masochism, desperation, or some ulterior motive, I can’t fathom why anyone would want to be with her. If she had half the sense God gave a goose she would work on herself before moving on to a new ‘relationship.’ I’m not trying to be cruel, I’m just being honest. I would love for her to improve but she’s made it painfully clear she has no desire to.

[@Baky_T]

I couldn't have said that better 💯💯💯💯

[@MamaLinz123]

💯 this!

[@naomigallacher7384]

Money? Lol that is the only "desirable" thing about her 😂 and also we all watch her...so something keeps drawing us all back which I guess is a type of desire? That's all I got lol

[@violetviruss]

To be honest, some people like a "project." with the amount of "self help" wifey has apparently been sending to amber and so soon, it wouldn't surprise me if wifey saw amber as something she could "fix" and make better. it's not love or anything like that tho

[@Baky_T]

@@violetviruss that's what I thought too, if wifey isn't a troll anyways.. 🙁 Because something in my gut tells me that this is going to end up really bad

[@SwampCeeMcGee60]

Lmao. Amberlynn is horrible. I'm sorry, but not sorry. Becky tried to engage in affection many times in her vlogs and you could see the uninterested reactions from Amber. No surprise that she drove away another relationship.

[@daintybeigli]

Dear Narc Alert, please never say “squishy noises” in relation to ALR ever again

[@TheNarcAlert]

LMAO

[@Lesbiwolf92]

@@TheNarcAlert This is my squishy and she is mine and she will be my squishy

[@toomanywawas7916]

I know ! I passed on my breakfast after that ! 🤢🤣

[@JoanWhack]

Never forget, ALR is an empath guys

[@daintybeigli]

The 2 greatest empaths on YT: ALR and Shane Dawson 🤮

[@JoanWhack]

@@daintybeigli 🤭

[@nmHispana]

Just like all narcs It too trolls the psychopathy channels taking notes of all the buzz words, so that it can later regurgitate them and then makes an even bigger ass of itself when it doesn't even know what they mean.

[@boop8849]

“you know when people get proposed to they’re *supposed* to cry?” *Amber, when people are proposed to they’re *supposed* to feel however they *genuinely* feel, the fact that you think everyone plans to cry when they get proposed to bc that’s what they’re “supposed” to do is *alarming*

[@sony5029]

she’s mirroring what she knows to be the typical behavior of someone who is proposed to……….

[@joshpointoh]

15:36 - Wooooowwwww...Wifey is just a smarter, more conniving version of Amber. She tells Amber that her FAVORITE thing about her is how generous she is. What does that do? It encourages Amber to "give" more. If Amber wants to make Wifey happy and wants Wifey to love her more, all she has to do is give her more.

[@stevenrpondue1157]

So ... keep her there ... where there IS covid, but don't let her quarantine at her home in the spare bedroom? Makes sense.

[@WillowJordan1979]

The problem is that she could infect people on the way home, e.g. at a gas station or restaurant. And if they breathe the same air with ALR, it could be a huge risk for ALR, especially if it's the Delta variant.

[@brittybrad]

Please one day say "don't send snark to our narcs" 😭😭😭

[@marycat2287]

So the self proclaimed “empath” thought she might of been a narcissist and shows narcissistic personality traits, ok 👍 got it. Lol 🙄

[@johnwick4257]

Excellent comment. I am what is called a 'heyoka empath'. Her very use of the term 'empath' makes me want to vomit. She knows NOTHING.

[@butteredtoast12]

Since YT demonetised the Casey video, I'm gonna binge watch all the ALR videos *again* 🏃🏻‍♀️💨

[@dizzledazzle3941]

Fantastic idea!! Narc Alert should be making as much as Big AL Daddy Warbucks!

[@crn1318]

@@dizzledazzle3941 she should be making 100x more 😭. so much more effort in her content, AND she’s a genuine person. deserves it way more than greedylynn

[@TheNarcAlert]

@@crn1318 aw shucks

[@crn1318]

@@TheNarcAlert 🖤🖤 love your channel!! your notifications are the only ones i have on, pls keep doing amazing work ☺️

[@puglife7387]

WOAHH! Wifey said Amberlynn is the most “giving” person?? Such a strange thing to say unless ALR has already sent her stuff?! Amberlynn’s definitely sending her money

[@shanmareewalker7836]

Or...wifey is already there??

[@WideAwake.]

@@shanmareewalker7836 you know the other day when she randomly said Tuesday is after Monday? I think she’s coming this Tuesday… let’s see if I’m right.

[@hailbones6663]

@WideAwake Makes sense, ALR is very C U Next Tuesday

[@shanmareewalker7836]

@@hailbones6663 I have a t-shirt that says that. My husband gave it to me but never told me what it meant for a year. I can only imagine what people thought of me wearing it. Or hopefully they were as clueless as me. Lol

[@hailbones6663]

@@shanmareewalker7836 haha oh no!! What did you do when you found out the meaning?

[@LindaLinda80Linda]

You got it. When you are really into another person, everything about them is interesting and worth remembering. It is almost as if you can’t avoid remembering. You want to know and understand them. This is the MOST narcissistic I’ve seen Amber be. She only cares about how other people feels about HER. I’ve always felt sorry for how damaged Amber is. But I am starting to see what a lot of other people see. Late to the party, I guess.

[@Goofygooberston]

Naturally everyone wants to see the best in people but there's really no excuse for how long Hamplanet has been behaving how she has, she doesn't have the ability to reflect. Not only that, if she even had it, she wouldn't. Because that would mean some stuff is her fault. A past can play a role in a persons actions and behaviours, but it can not nor ever will be an excuse.

[@Sofiakatt]

Wifey better have a non working olfactory system or she’s in for a shock when she finally meets Amber in person.

[@Jer0nim0]

Exactly. Wifey will also need a low gag reflex, especially when she has to wipe Amber's ass!

[@carrueross2705]

Just think, she’s going to be hit with a dozen different room and body sprays, plus the kitty litter smells. I think Becky got used to the smells, but without Becky there to clean….whew!!!

[@Goofygooberston]

Here's a messed up thought; what if wipey is into that?

[@AS-xj2rs]

@@carrueross2705 we’ll see if she even keeps the cats she never acknowledges. She doesn’t seem to attached so wouldn’t be surprised if wifey is “allergic” and they got rid of em.

[@ficklemytancy1250]

It’s interesting that she said she was “embarrassed” for fake crying instead of feeling guilty #empath

[@KaylaMarie_]

I'm pretty sure Amber means "free reign" when she says "free will".

[@TheNarcAlert]

yea, you are probably right ;)

[@squidwardtortellini4975]

Vocablynn strikes again

[@LittleFlowerluv]

you right you right

[@Fe26man]

@@LittleFlowerluv haha, I see what you did there :D very nice 😂😂😂

[@IHavent82Day]

Godlynn giving Becky free will.

[@Mrs_Gorl]

When/if wifey joins the channel, it’s going to be ruthless in the chat. I hope she is ready for that. I don’t know why anyone would voluntarily sign up for that. As well as just living in an apartment with ALR and all the responsibilities of being a caregiver.

[@AdirondackRuby]

Unless Wifey is herself a Narc. People are saying she is Love Bombing wifey...but it seems like Wifey is doing it right back, sucking up and talking sweet and playing to Amber's ego.

[@Mrs_Gorl]

@@AdirondackRuby something is super off for certain. I do not think this will last very long for our gorl.

[@squeakyfromme83]

If ALR had any shred of an ability for introspection, these videos would be life changing. But, she would just watch and claim "you just don't know the real truth"

[@LOVEALR91]

Who else thinks that bottle of rosé was room temp? I doubt amber knows it’s served chilled. And she bought it for ~aEsThEtIcS~. Gotta love level -3 somme-lynn 🍷

[@TheNarcAlert]

I love and hate your name...its kinda blasphemous that was SUCH a good show, highly under rated :)

[@AdirondackRuby]

Well, she only sipped about 4 oz. out of the bottle, so she probably didn't notice the taste regardless.

[@slightlydiluted]

Im so glad I don’t have to watch her channel to hear the messy fun. Love that you have a channel membership. In the immortal words of Amber “ I love that for you” hahaha.

[@TheNarcAlert]

Thank you so much! I love that for us :P

[@potichat]

There is NO WAY she’s alone in the house, she literally cannot look after herself. Wipey is 100% there already lol

[@lorobell]

If we go on all sorts of information about wifey it sounds like they work regular office hours and the way Amber went on in her latest stream it seems like this coming Monday 23rd August is when Wifey will arrive.

[@potichat]

@@lorobell most likely yeah. I just like to speculate🤗

[@crystalzawazyc1504]

I feel like she focuses so hard on the way someone treats her that she completely becomes blind to how she's treating someone else.

[@pessoafail]

Uh, she really talks about anxiety (or any kind of illness tbh) as if it is a personality trait.

[@billr3053]

Not only that. She can't accumulate enough ailments. "I love that... enzyme deficiency. Love that."

[@pessoafail]

@@billr3053 she banalizes so many things, anxiety the most---she probably has no idea what an actual anxiety attack looks like.

[@pessoafail]

@Hi there Feels like dying to be honest. My day is never the same after I have one. And I do therapy, take meds and avoid drinking. The attacks almost don't happen anymore, but I need to keep the treatment. Amber does none of the things.

[@laurenc4138]

She’s so awful, a month ago becky was the love of her life and she’d “never love again” after her… she’s back pedaling so hard she should’ve lost 300 pounds by now. She’s trying to act like this was a mutual decision but really it was because Amber didn’t want to keep going in the relationship, plus that bit about not wanting to hurt Becky is probably the biggest lie she’s ever told. After her sad girl hours for all of 3 days, she was out for Becky’s blood, she wanted to hurt her- not because she was hurting but because Becky was tarnishing her image on her channel, she’s vicious. Becky makes funny jokes to Amber, Amber goes for the jugular. She was in the “worst time of her life” trying desperately to keep Becky under her thumb, until some gold digger came along to love bomb her into oblivion, this new relationship is going to be bad. I don’t know “wifeys” true intentions but I can tell you anyone that seeks someone like this who is beyond vulnerable and flaunts the bit of money she makes, she’ll be used and Amber literally cannot physically do anything about it (she’s not just vulnerable she’s down right dependent on whoever is physically closest to her). She got so lucky Becky had good intentions and actually wanted to be a friend to her and then took genuinely good care of her, even at Becky’s own expense, this new girl is NOT the same. She’s so effing naive she thinks she’s some hot piece that’s on the market, she has the mentality of like a sorority girl at the bar after a breakup, in the body of a giant toddler, that’s her vibe. She can’t see how embarrassing this is but omg girl how can you not be the least bit sus?!?! The text she read from this girl made my stomach churn, then the “that’s my wife” I swear she’s a troll who is doing this to bilk Amber out of what little money she has left after she blew it all on trinkets and over priced clothing/earrings. There is no other explanation for why you would come at this girl THAT hard with being SoOoOoO iN lOvEeEee after 3 weeks and not even meeting this person.

[@nmHispana]

Bravc!!! 👏👏👏👏

[@daintybeigli]

What is a good word to describe wifey’s behaviour? It’s like creepy speed manipulation. I can’t believe she has genuine intentions. I think she’s using alr

[@nicelydone4846]

I agree.. I got catfish/Scammer vibes? Idk but if it was a guy wouldn't it be called out immediately?

[@amirahdiyana7100]

people have been saying FOR YEARS about their relationship looking fake. NOW she realizes this?!

[@malleablemallard8385]

I noticed that AL has been stating “that she gets it” a lot when she faces criticism, and I was wondering if this has anything to do with her theoretical NPD. Or is it a way to negate criticism of her actions? I really enjoy your videos I am really sorry to hear you are having a hard time staying monetized. Hopefully you will get properly compensated now that you enabled channel perks.

[@LaurenWoz421]

She gets how WE would be confused or not understand or that we may not agree with her choices because we are just not as smart or clear minded as her. She is terminally UNIQUE no one has ever loved (or obsessed) like she does. That’s how I take it. It’s still an insult to her audience… who just cant possibly understand.

[@malleablemallard8385]

@@LaurenWoz421 That actually makes a lot of sense. Thank you for your input. I just cannot understand how someone could lack so much self awareness. I do understand that admitting fault is hard for a lot of people, but AL seems to take it a bit further.

[@justpeachy4851]

@@LaurenWoz421 Terminally unique is such a perfect term for her.

[@dizzledazzle3941]

I guarantee wipey will not show up in September...one of them will cancel the trip because they're BOLTH lying through their teeth to eachother.

[@josiahlewis5838]

um this is narc delusion mixed with trapped -in-the-web-of-lies syndrome on full display. It seems exactly like her last relationship but worse but ALR thinks its not. As that person said in the stream MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. Also im lowkey scared for her. this person wants to meet her and marry her idk these people personally but this entire situation has so many red flags.

[@shanmareewalker7836]

Amber doesn't care about red flags cos she is a huge red flag herself

[@Mindyournachos]

Becky did say that she would leave if Wifey came so that they could be alone 🤔 Maybe that's why she left?

[@nomdeplume2213]

Naw she was told to leave after telling everyone shes been wiping ambers ass 🤣

[@IHavent82Day]

“If I wanna say I’m having sex when I’m not then I can; if I wanna say I’m not having sex when I am then I can.” Girl that’s flat out lyeen. She’s trying to translate, what, sexual liberation into being able to blatantly lie.

[@lavendermelon7889]

“Aldehyde dehai-dro-ganace” “acetal-hyde” PLEASE I-💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@josiahlewis5838]

As a memelord and a gif master myself i love the reactions in between

[@TheNarcAlert]

its mostly to amuse me, I get bored with her droning on sometimes, Thanks :)

[@HaLLiEB85]

I’m a hoarder of memes myself … my poor phone hates me 🤣

[@deltasaves]

Im something of a meme collector myself. in fact, I have a specially curated vault

[@Oonagh72]

Isn’t this the exact same con ALR runs on her new dates so she can move in.

[@WillowJordan1979]

"Just trust me! *admits to lying* *says it's her right to lie about things* Yeah, we're not just gonna trust her and she shouldn't act so indignant every time we doubt her.

[@davidmedford1166]

Amber forced Becky to propose and now she's acting like she had nothing to do with it. I really think she is a pathological liar. She can't help herself.

[@naomigallacher7384]

I still think you should say "don't send any snarc to the narc" 😂

[@CH-ur4xo]

I love this comment more than I should. But thank you ❤

[@chirara1071]

The way alr says something about loving beck /being heartbroken then immediately side eyes Becky… I can’t handle the deflection, and jus her condescending ways. Yuck.

[@RoyalRoses]

Have NEVER been more tempted to join a channel before!!!!😱😱😱 Perks are unreal!!!

[@NicaIsshh]

She is so worried getting Covid but not being 600 pounds? ok gorl.

[@dagnydo2472]

I waited up hoping You'd post. YOU POSTED! Thank You for all you do. You never disappoint. You are quite LITERALLY my favorite channel. 💓 *Also, you keep us from the drudgery of having to watch ALR'S streams. 🙏

[@TheNarcAlert]

Wow, thank you!

[@shanmareewalker7836]

Mine too. I love seeing a narcissistic person's words being analysed by you. Your brilliant 👏 👌 😀

[@samuelbaumgardner7166]

Yessssss I've been waiting for this one. ALR is really stepping up her game to start relevant.

[@sn00p232]

3 weeks ago, Amber did a live stream, you can clearly see Becky got up and walked away. Amber claimed she isn't on the floor, but that clearly shows she is, and that's sad

[@dizzledazzle3941]

From what I'm hearing, she's on the floor on a puppy training pad...I'm not surprised! Too lazy to go to bathroom and too large to wipe herself!

[@dreamingfool2]

Right? Amber even recently showed her "couch" but it wasn't really anything. What is suspicious about her "couch" is that her clutter, purses, what looked like medicstion bottles, etc seemed to almost level with this "couch". She's claimed it's low to the ground but common, that's almost floor level. If she could move her camera why didn't she just get up and step back to show her setup?

[@sn00p232]

@@dreamingfool2 yeah, if you look closely when Becky got up and walked away, you can tell she was stepping side to side on a floor mattress bed that they blew up, what "couches that soft almost like a bed, and notice how Twinky in that strem peeked her head into camera view and Becky was petting her, twinkey didn't even "jump" she just walked on over lol. Especially the cat, the cat just walks on by lol.

[@stellablu333]

@@dreamingfool2 because Becky the butler just quit and I bet that her place is a MESS

[@sn00p232]

@Hi there lol, yeah, that "wifey" is up to no good, and amber can't see it lol

[@cosmicturtlegaming3268]

I don’t get how she just nonchalantly admits that she felt nothing when she proposed to her, how “dispectful”

[@Murhuedur]

I love the not a diagnosis when she was reading about Asian flush XD

[@TheNarcAlert]

Is she Asian now, do you think? :P

[@HappiiWheels]

@@TheNarcAlert Oli Londonlynn

[@WillowJordan1979]

@@TheNarcAlert I think she has Latin American heritage, or so she has claimed so anyway.

[@RavenStar16]

I'M SO EXCITED YOU TURNED ON MEMBERSHIPS!!!!!!💖 Personally, I'm more than happy to support you with a few bucks a month on top of liking each video, leaving a comment, sharing your videos, and just telling people about you!!!🌻🌟 Your hard work is very much appreciated!✌😎

[@TheNarcAlert]

Thanks so very much!!

[@alos4025]

“You guyz gotta just trust me. Trust me.” Says one of the biggest liars on the KZbin platform.

[@Anxietitty]

Literally.

[@thatbinchninkimajaj]

I kept refreshing hoping someone would post and you came through 😭♥️ bless

[@TheNarcAlert]

I got ya, no worries ;)

[@thatbinchninkimajaj]

@@TheNarcAlert I found out today that I’m in the second trimester with my rainbow baby! We made it to a safe zone 🥲 happy Friday!!!

[@alphaash0]

@@thatbinchninkimajaj wow congrats!

[@TheNarcAlert]

@@thatbinchninkimajaj Yay Congrats!!! Are we considering AmberLynn as a name? :P :P :P

[@ssm5513]

I really don’t get amber, she’s never consistent

[@BlindZubat]

Wifey is giving me the freaking creeps. I have heard lesbian relationships move fast but damn it man. This is freaking extreme. Def seems like u hauling to me.

[@TheNarcAlert]

Its practically Fed Ex overnight!

[@BlindZubat]

@@TheNarcAlert rotflmao that is the funniest thing I have read all day. Its even better because its true though. The codependency is so strong in this one. Kinda scary though. Amber's narcissistic traits make her a prime target for someone to take advantage of her. I get the feeling that's wifey's real goal.

[@hixo6507]

Fellow lesbian. We do not move this fast. If we live in the decently close by we basically live at each other’s house until at least the first break up. Then officially move in after getting back together. Long distance.. 2 months. 3 depending current leases, we don’t mind paying a little extra . 😂 Amber’s “wifey” is fully using her. Lesbians like to play with kitties. It’s the entire point!!

[@BlindZubat]

@@hixo6507 I'm a lesbian as well, I've just never dated anyone. Unlike our gorl, I know I need to learn to overcome my past trauma and learn to like myself before adding anyone else to my life. I had heard that lesbian relationships move faster than Sonic the hedgehog but I didn't know how true that is. I meant using her as in using her in terms of for material reasons, not for sexy time reasons though. So, more like taking advantage of someone kind of way. Not a, hey I really like you and want to do adult fun time with you kinda way.

[@xX-qw4of]

she gets mad at the "haters", but like.......... she's literally just arguing with herself. she says one thing, then turns around and says the exact opposite.

[@caty0000]

So true, that’s what makes her so frustrating to me

[@DawnDiggetyNoDoubt]

Narc Mama got the best voice. Should sign up for one of those voice acting gigaramas. Or even doing a Jim Can't Swim style vids with your voice and the. Smarts you have....yes ma'am!

[@maddygreenb]

Wait that’s a woman?

[@tararivera5411]

Becky ALWAYS complimented her! She’s so full of it!

[@xjustxjustinex]

I would love to see you do episodes on My 600 Pound Life participants

[@luckylala1224]

Its her lies and she will tell it how she wants!!!😜😂😂😂 No joking tho, ALR is VERY toxic and honestly abusive...

[@stellablu333]

My narc radar is on fire everytime I watch Big Al 🔥

[@kyiak.kennedy4595]

The new victim will be here as soon as Amber send her the ticket!

[@clarene2121]

There’s literally videos of Becky complimenting amber

[@evilwhitecat9]

I'm still kinda hopeful for a Narc vs Narc arc. It would be interesting if Amber finally met her match in the narc Arena.

[@deborahmartin3140]

ALR: If I'm ever happy again I'll feel so guilty! 2 weeks later.........

[@justjulie2826]

If wifey isn't a troll she's sum weirdo that needs her rent paid

[@liarliarpumpkineater4808]

Woot. Been waiting for your take on this! Love ya. Keep it up.

[@TheMagicOwL127]

it's been a while since i got excited for a new video on my subscription feed, but everytime i see your uploads im eager to watch instantly!

[@Lily-bn4dc]

"I was gonna say it last livestream but I stopped myself" no, Becky asked you not to bring it up

[@WillowJordan1979]

How many times did she say "love that"? Is that wifey's favorite phrase? She repeats it over and over again. It's the new "moment", "situation type deal", etc.

[@Anxietitty]

Imagine how low your standards have to be if you want this to be your girlfriend. Wipey wtf???

[@dizzledazzle3941]

Here faster than Big AL getting fake drunk without even taking real drinks!

[@chloefaircloth6448]

"Please, don't send any snark, to our narc" I wish you'd say that instead

[@Kikichichu]

That bottle she was drinking from Tuesday was there Thursday meaning she never cleaned it

[@livp2462]

Exactly what I thought when she couldn’t remember wifeys favorite movie. I was like “she probably didn’t care to remember something that wasn’t about her”

[@Mrs.Z02]

Yes!! You just made my Friday night!!

[@drrama_llama]

"It's ok for me to lie about things that are nobodies business" But she'll lie about never lying.

[@nhz03]

THANK YOU for that cut you had to her crying right after stating she and becky were just roommates. I do something similar in my head whenever she contradicts herself so it had me excited XD

[@tieiatalks]

You just made my Friday night!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@shanmareewalker7836]

And my Saturday morning 🌄 yes, I live in the future. Lol

[@tieiatalks]

@@shanmareewalker7836 😝

[@lucyhanna5172]

Since your videos, I see ALR in a different light. It is very interesting to see the repeated, selfish behaviour of ALR. I kinda pity her, if she wasn't so selfish. It's all entertaining.

[@justpeachy4851]

Gah if only we could be as capable of understanding deep emotions as she is... She manipulated Becky into tending to her personal hygiene then turned around & said she never supported her.

[@zbelair7218]

"I was not expecting that at all" (wipey to ask her out) but the first thing they talked about was how wipey wants to wife her up.....

[@laurenjaye5320]

A 25 year old healthy girl with her whole life ahead of her knowingly getting herself into a position with another girl who cannot change and never will, and will 100% be a caregiver as ALR can’t even stand for 1 minute, does not seem suspicious? Has she told her “therapist” about Wifey? The only people who would knowingly put themselves into this situation are abusers. ALR is the perfect target: financially set(ish), completely dependent on other people, and really can’t do much once she realizes she was never in control.

[@pink-uv3th]

It would be Karma because Amberlyn also preys on the weak and people who are easily controlled if you have noticed? Krystal was special needs and Casey was a minor, and she used them up and left them as soon as she found someone better. If Wifey did that to her she wouldn't even see the irony

[@laurenjaye5320]

@@pink-uv3th you’re right. Amber has preyed on a lot of people who didn’t have narcissistic/abusive tendencies. I genuinely believe Becky reached out to Amber out of concern. I’m just already watching ALR slowly kill herself. Wifey gives off so many red flags, and ALR is in a vulnerable place (physically and emotionally). I just don’t want anything bad to happen to her, if that makes any sense. At best, two narcissistic people will realize the my can’t control the other person and go separate ways, and at worst, ALR is in position to prove that she’s “loveable” and becomes the submissive in the relationship and is hurt. I just can’t logically wrap my head around why someone like Wifey would actively seek out a totally dependent person if not for their own selfish and personal gain.

[@Smashley1]

Who is gonna wipe her butt? Clean? Make food? Literally everything? Also I’ve been majorly researching narcs after realizing my fiancé 1000% has NPD and now I’ve realized his mother does too- the two people I spend the most time w. What does that say about me??

[@bebopanda4622]

It says that you are lucky to be able to find out before marrying the guy. I wish you all the luck you need and more.

[@Smashley1]

I’m treading this lightly at the moment while I figure out my next step. We have a young child together and I don’t want to let on anything yet and have my resources that will help me to make changes be cut off.

[@glitterfartsss]

I love how respectful you are in all of your videos. I love how you break down things, and are very insightful on everything. You bring up points that other people haven't in their videos. Your points are so 🎯🎯🎯 You bring up actual video evidence, and things she's actually said. Never twisting anything or making a reach and pulling at string with what she said. You bring traits and points up I may have never seen from her. Her back peddling and trying to save face is just making everything about this just looks awful and feel. Icky. She's so vampid and fake and it's getting worse. It just shows how she is all about how she looks and comes off to her audience. I refuse to believe she doesn't just constantly read comments and watch every reaction channel and takes notes in those huge collections of notebooks she has. 14:00 she is basically saying she can lie when and how she wants and we should just deal with it. No. Amber no. Why would anyone have the right to lie to people over and over? If she had someone in her life lie to her constantly and about the most absolutely ridiculous things (like she does with us), wouldn't she want to cut that person out of her life? Why shouldn't we? 14:20 😅😅😅😅 The relationship between them is weird. Like really weird. I don't think they're like... Faking the fact they think they're both in love.... Or their "love". I hope Wifey isn't truly falling for this girl, because she's in for a very big heartbreak.

[@rojeezee]

I love the little memes you’re incorporating LOL

[@heffey7]

Everytime I watch, today is gonna be the day she says, "Please don't send any snark to our Narc." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 One day.... lol!

[@TheNarcAlert]

LOl, it may have to happen, one of these days ;)

[@silentfriend369]

She isn't a very good liar, which is surprising considering it's how she's made her living for years now...

[@slimypeach]

I feel like she, most of the time, didn’t ACTUALLY drink the wine from the bottle but pretended to. I feel like she did it so that she could ACT drunk and maybe throw a little more shade than usual. I drink once a year, and I can down a bottle of wine and be tipsy, but I’m highly doubtful a woman nearly 6 times my size would feel anything near tipsy. Edit: Also notice how Amber is putting effort into her appearance right now? Gotta look good until Wipey gets here and gets settled in, then once she’s comfortable she will slowly let it all go again.

[@Mrs_Gorl]

Yay! So glad you posted tonight. ❤️

[@xoxo9617]

Your channel is pure gold, delivered in a professional way. Thank you for your service! Haha