Some of them pretend they have Jesus when they do not.
@iRockwthMJ6 күн бұрын
YES!!!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
True and Amen 🙏
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@mygiftmatters4 күн бұрын
Anyone considering damning a narcissist is obviously not walking with Jesus either. Sorry to expose your outrageous hypocrisy. ❤
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
@@mygiftmatters Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏
@junemelodystewart24766 күн бұрын
I'm an empath ! I dealt with narcissistic people. Just plain evil.
@tonym.toomer6 күн бұрын
True and Amen 🙏
@metsl18706 күн бұрын
Yes!! They are.
@claudiapost-schultzke72165 күн бұрын
so true 😮
@beckysue77892 күн бұрын
Whewww . . . Amen
@MisMariaRosee3 күн бұрын
One book I recommend everyone to read in 2025 is Your Life Your Game by Keezano… It shows how embracing faith and building strong relationships can lead to growth and success in both your personal and professional life. This book truly changed my life-a must-read, God bless you Tony
@Enna_Willkins3 күн бұрын
Amen
@MisMariaRosee3 күн бұрын
@@Enna_Willkins 🙏
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@James.NewYork3 күн бұрын
Amazing book l agree totally
@williamhaska17036 күн бұрын
Walked away 2 years ago and letting God to take care of all things 🙏
@tonym.toomer6 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@geraldfranklin60496 күн бұрын
3 years for me come January 18th.
@Blessed5914 күн бұрын
Me too . . .
@meme-zv7kw2 күн бұрын
I walked away in May 2024
@TwilaB07217 күн бұрын
I want/prefer to be married, but at times, I'm thankful to be single. Thank you, Tony M. Toomer.
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
@@TwilaB0721 You are welcome and thanks for reaching your thoughts 🙏
@kimmoyo82205 күн бұрын
I hear you Sis. 😊
@vicksburg923 күн бұрын
I face them through different supervisors and coworkers, but God help me fight them spiritually.
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@diginandpitchinКүн бұрын
🙏🏾 Romans 12:19 & Psalm 17. Trust God to take care of them. They are a job for Jesus.
@EXSlimShady87985 күн бұрын
They didn't think joseph could get out of prison. It took a while, but he came out of prison with new gifts and wiser🍀
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Great point and Amen 🙏
@Fantasticfive26 күн бұрын
Walked away from a relationship and now I have to walk away from my own mother. It took be 4 years of confusion and questioning myself in regard to my mom. But this year she will not sabotage my future or life!
@missb19826 күн бұрын
@@Fantasticfive2 i am in the same boat. Its been a year. I respond to her when necessary, but no more being the scapegoat and being used up. I just make sure to walk in forgiveness and God has blessed me with peace.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing and for reaching out. Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@clare20025 күн бұрын
Love her from a distance and pray for her...God can heal everything and if they evil God will keep you and bring wisdom to you if you ask
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
@clare2002 Thanks for sharing 🙏
@tiffanyjisoo39528 күн бұрын
I dealt with 2 narcissists, one after the other. It was very painful and exhausting. But, glory to God because He got me away from those demons! I left in silence, both times, and when I did - God punished these people severely. Their lives fell apart as soon as I walked away.
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@anne8220-o5c8 күн бұрын
I agree with the narc. I never thought I would walk away. I finalized the divorce & disappeared. Soo peaceful
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@johncummings57558 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
@johncummings5755 Amen 🙏
@dutchesshoneybunny54677 күн бұрын
Asé! Can't wait for mine to go through.
@MeetMeOnTheMoon6 күн бұрын
That part. 🎉
@God_Leads_My_Way5 күн бұрын
I walked away peacefully and still tried to be peaceful with him because of our child together but the narc couldn’t handle me not being interested anymore the harassment and stalking became unbearable he was trying to stop me from moving on after he went to live with his new victim I eventually went full no contact the narc took me to court for custody of my son that’s not his and our child we share together he got no access to my son that’s not his just our son that’s 4 and he still won’t leave me alone threatening to take me back to court for just about anything trying to financially screw me but I’m leaning on and trusting on God to handle this situation I’m in therapy and just want peace it’s been taken away from me for 10 years after I allowed the narc in my life please keep me and my children in prayer!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and for sharing; I have prayed for you, Sister, and I need for you to continue to pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@mphomarokane64854 күн бұрын
Going through the same they fight for kids that they don't want
@bonniewinfield31482 күн бұрын
I know many examples of narcs hiding under religion as paragons of virtue. I have even heard them referred to as ‘living saints!’ Unfortunately, tragically, I married one of them
@tonym.toomer2 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@lewislyles10646 күн бұрын
This is why boundaries are important.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
True and Amen 🙏
@FaveGemmyGem4 күн бұрын
Uncle Tony (in my head ☺️)!!!!!!!!!!! You are on point!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!! It will be a week on Saturday since I’ve walked away and I feel soooooooo much at peace!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are the best!! Keep speaking the truth! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and sharing your experiences. Also, thanks for the uplifting words of encouragement. I really appreciate it. Be blessed 🙏
@trischc7 күн бұрын
This goes for family too, folks!
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
@@trischc True and Amen 🙏
@tokyoblur245 күн бұрын
Especially family.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
@tokyoblur24 Amen 🙏
@vicksburg923 күн бұрын
It's so easy to recognize them now, and you were on point about them.
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing and for reaching out. 🙏
@PhyllisBlassingame6 күн бұрын
And he on down low
@texan9036 күн бұрын
How do you know that?
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@hope54436 күн бұрын
He and his mother (codependents) tried an insulting hoover at the holidays. They received silence. Total, complete silence. I forgive them but they will never dwell in my space again after what they did to me and my son.
@tonym.toomer6 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing and pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@hope54436 күн бұрын
@tonym.toomer I have been, sir. Thanks so much for the gentle reminder. I'm much better.
@tonym.toomer6 күн бұрын
@hope5443 Amen 🙏
@happyhealthyblessed6 күн бұрын
Good for you!!!! I’m glad!! I know exactly how you feel.
@hope54436 күн бұрын
@happyhealthyblessed thank you so much! I hope you are in a better place now as well! They sent the meek daughter/sister to my home unnanounced with a "gift", which as you likely know is really a re-entry fee into your life to hurt you more. This young woman is sweet and gets used and I love her. However, I've learned there is no compromising whatsoever in these situations. Even more, I now see those compromises with evil people as peace pacts with devils. I would not answer the door and when I received a message, I had no choice but to block the sweet sister, which no doubt sent a resounding messages to him and his scheming mother that I am done with their evil games. The sister and I have gotten along for 22 years. That's why they sent her. The Lord has told us not to cast our pearls before swine. I believe it applies to trying to love a narcissistic person, as well as any other situation that can destroy Love or God's Holy Word. Like I told him, when you attempt to destroy love, you attempt to destroy God!
@racebannon968 күн бұрын
It is hurtful in the beginning. Consider it a gift when they abandon you. My clarity returns shortly after they left. Their Red Flags that I didn't pay attention to are more oblivious. Relationships with narcissists/toxic creatures do not get better.
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@dennisrobinson80088 күн бұрын
Amazing that the other could provide enough distortion that you lose your clarity.
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
@@dennisrobinson8008 That for sharing your thoughts 🙏
@dennisrobinson80087 күн бұрын
@@tonym.toomerthink about this. Some live so chaotically that they never had clarity in their entire life. They probably always did what they were expected to do or what the others do.
@AlbertErnest-j9b4 күн бұрын
I met her when I was 15, she was 19. Already quite broken and thought nobody would ever love me. For physical,mental and financial reasons I stayed for 40 years. She was petrified of COVID, stuck at home and played her games too hard for me to keep my rose coloured glasses pressed to my face any longer. When I finally realised what all the red flags ment, many of them I had seen from the start I lost my mind. I did not go quietly which of course has coursed me to lose what little I had left. I did find God after the 40 year absence but life has become very near untenable and am hanging on by a thread. I had the chance to end it in my early 30s but wanted to see my son grow up and of course she said all the right things to get me back. Life is so hard now I often miss my breadcrumbs. Let this be a lesson to those that don’t leave quietly. No matter how much of your life has been destroyed if you can get out quietly RUN and don’t look back.
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@duncanmac2195Күн бұрын
I didn't get too. She kept harrassing me through other people. So I let them know what I really thought of her and now she will never bother me again. Good riddance.
@tonym.toomerКүн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@soulspeaker16503 күн бұрын
Wow they must all say that. Mine moved out and said "I need to sort my shit out". If you want to move on you can...
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
You have a point. Thanks for reaching out and for sharing 🙏
@empressasha83986 күн бұрын
This is exactly what happened. Word for word.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing and for reaching out. 🙏
@marcialdeleongonzalez96048 күн бұрын
Everything you said is correct 🙏👍
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@shecra3606 күн бұрын
Correct got one in my house now. They got two sons and one is just like them. It's sad. This person did everything you said but I've known about these terms for quite some time now. I can't wait to get them out my house! I'm so sick of them. I just feel bad for the son that isn't anything like them. I pray to God daily for a blessing and for their removal. Please pray for me! Much love, peace and blessings💙🙏🏾
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
I have prayed for you, and I need you to pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind. 🙏
@gabrielnadia10855 күн бұрын
I am on one accord with you and GOD hearts our prayer to bring total and complete délivrance in the name of JESUS
@gabrielnadia10855 күн бұрын
One avco
@gabrielnadia10855 күн бұрын
One accord with you. Complete deliverance.
@nicolecinkodelen74908 күн бұрын
Thank you Tony. Smear campaign can’t work on a genuine person. God will always vindicate, while THEY lose out on a real one. Gotta bounce and keep it movin. Period!❤
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out 🙏
@titanyouniverse7 күн бұрын
Thank You O Lord Almighty For Continuously Blessing Me In Every Way Everyday ❤‼️
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@MizzNee7965 күн бұрын
l have forgiven my ex and it's been many decades since we parted. He is diagnosed bipolar with borderline personality disorder and not seeking mental health treatment so I do not speak to him in person on the phone nothing. i have nothing for him. it's not out of hate, it's for my peace and mental health. My mother told me a long time ago. you cannot make sense out of nonsense. So i choose clarity over chaos.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@ericmurphy62666 күн бұрын
I walked away she tried to make me jealous with her new supply….They joined the same gym as me…..I ignored them I did finish my workout I won’t gonna let them intimidate me…..Then I joined another gym….I refuse to give her my energy…..
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Amen and Thanks for sharing 🙏
@annaherrera83004 күн бұрын
Yes for sure , he told me he like people he could read That I was complicated to analyze. Only bevause after all his emotionally abuse I walk away with no question ask. I was tired of all his painful mental game. But God help me overcome all that evil sycophant control. Amen Lord
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing; I appreciate it 🙏
@ZionChozen122 сағат бұрын
Oh my Lord!! This brother hit EVERYTHING he said right on the nail. He didn't miss not ONE time 👏🏾👏🏾 Well said my brother. I mean you said EVERYTHING correct about my ex wife. It took the wisdom, Holy Ghost, knowledge, understanding, and discernment of the most High for me to find out EVERYTHING about her. Til this day I give the Almighty God ALL the praise & glory that he set me free🙌🏾🙌🏾 It was draining me physically, mentally, and spiritually.
@tonym.toomerСағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing and reaching out; I appreciate the uplifting words of encouragement. Be blessed, Brother. Amen 🙏
@ladyshorty69896 күн бұрын
They sure did. Ive blocked them. TY SIR.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and for sharing 🙏
@cherylandrews83237 күн бұрын
Walking away was my bestest ever move ive ever made ❤i thank the lord so much that he finally out my life i will never allow toxic people in my life ever again i dont care who they are.new to ur channel ive subscribed ❤
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and thanks for the uplifting words of encouragement; I really appreciate it. Be blessed 🙏
@cherylandrews83237 күн бұрын
@tonym.toomer your welcome and u2 god bless
@constancejenkins38676 күн бұрын
I had No Idea those People EXISTED He was a Familiar SPIRIT 🙂🙃 My Mother was the FIRST Narrsisist in my life that I experienced and I had No Idea until after I DIVORCED HIM . #IThankGODForDELIVERANCE
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@constancejenkins38675 күн бұрын
@@tonym.toomer You're most welcome 😊 🙏🏽
@Imnotyourdoormat7 күн бұрын
*_And that Wisdom given from Above equates to Discernment down here on the Battlefield ..._*
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@TreasureDeal3 күн бұрын
When she kicked me out of what was supposed to be my forever home, I think I was supposed to cry and beg to stay. Instead, I packed what I could carry in two grocery bags. My friend had just pulled up in the drive as I went out the door, shutting it quietly. Bye Felicia!
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@nicholecornes19158 күн бұрын
Enough is enough
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Nametag-p6t4 күн бұрын
Empath and pineal gland is receiving. Have narcissism in my family. Definitely checkmated him.
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and Amen 🙏
@Nametag-p6t4 күн бұрын
@@tonym.toomer you’re very welcome. Many blessings. ☀️ Narcissism is very hard to get away from and it’s very vicious cycle. Whoever it had affected whatever happened to you, remember it was not your fault in those circumstances.
@christinejohnson58887 күн бұрын
Wow❤. Accurate. He thought I could not survive without him... Why... I was doing great before I met him... Now after removing myself... Iam excelling mightily by the hand of God ❤❤❤❤❤. Luv u Brother
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and love you sister 🙏
@crystalgeter.62946 күн бұрын
I Blocked Them Say LA V 🗡️🛡️👀 Thanks 👍
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@maggieedward39514 күн бұрын
When you keep a clean heart and hands you fear none,Almighty God sits high and looks low he who knows the heart of all blesd bro.
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@PhyllisBlassingame6 күн бұрын
Free now
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@bessvita23966 күн бұрын
AMEN 🙏 Stay BLESSED 😇
@tonym.toomer6 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@rachels.74778 күн бұрын
TRUE FACTS 💯 BUT GOD GETS ALL THE GLORY 😤 ALL MY TRUST IS IN JESUS
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
True and Amen 🙏
@joannturi39687 күн бұрын
After so long and at certain age you really have no choice but to walk away. I've been surrounded by these evil entities my entire life, all women. Sister, cousins, aunts, so called friends co workers.....it's constant.
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@abundantmason58186 күн бұрын
🎯🎯🎯RIGHT ON!!!! THIS IS WISDOM RIGHT HERE!!! HOLY SPIRIT SPEAK!!! HALLELUJAH!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE SIR. AMEN! AMEN!! THANK YOU! GOD BLESS YOU! SHALOM❤
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and for the uplifting words of encouragement; I really appreciate it. Be blessed 🙏
@lisagags97514 күн бұрын
Never fought to keep him.....bet narc hated that!😅😅😅
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@tteejay98378 күн бұрын
Yes sir! Didn’t recognize the person anymore.
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@bernicewalker19632 күн бұрын
Your so spot on thankyou from United Kingdom Manchester amen 🙏
@tonym.toomer2 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out 🙏
@divinepurpose333 күн бұрын
First time here you put the hammer on the nail confirmation blessings to you . .
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out. Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@rachels.74778 күн бұрын
WAS A VERY DRAINING SITUATION.... BUT!! I HAVE BEEN REDEEMED... BOUGHT WITH A PRICE 😇
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@MarydellG8 күн бұрын
Thank You Brother Tony He wanted to Be rid of me I'm embarased To let you know I had to be pushed Away I know my parents Looked down on me for that Never will I ever Stay when someone wants me gone Poof I'm gone No mo Me
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@itsallberrygood6 күн бұрын
Everything you stated in this video happened the EXACT same way. I was disgarded and I walked away silently no reaction.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@JadeMoonSunflower6 күн бұрын
I dealt with an overt narcissist in the past. This last one had covert narcissistic tendencies and he love bombed and gaslight me. He was a liar. He definitely broke up with me. He definitely lived a double life. I was stuck in my head for a while due to the manipulation and gaslighting…but I got out of it and I stopped talking to him. I think this last one was much worse.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@iRockwthMJ6 күн бұрын
This is a WORD!!! Thank you so much, Sir!!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
You are welcome 🙏
@singstreetcar58815 күн бұрын
I cant leave my narcissistic family. I dont have anywhere to go or resources to escape.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance 🙏
@kimberlybrowndiaz92934 күн бұрын
pray to god and save up
@juliemcdaniel4998 күн бұрын
I definitely wanna sharpen my discernment when it comes to people period not just nice/nasties. Pls add this to your list for future video topics, Thank you.
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@carmelitaacidhooks67335 күн бұрын
Correct earthangel…May God continue to bless your gifts
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and for the uplifting words of encouragement; I really appreciate it. Be blessed 🙏
@MicheleLever5 күн бұрын
Yeah. 😂. I stumbled across this. Yeah got the phone calls and everything. Thanks for sharing 🎉❤
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
You are welcome 🙏
@amandaoliver22657 сағат бұрын
YOUVE MADE ME KNOW THAT IM RIGHT ABOUT HIM AND HOW PART OF HIS FINAL DEPARTURE FROM MY LIFE HED OPLANNED TO JUST LEAVE ME IN CONFUSION NO CONTACT WITH FINDING OUT MORE HOW HED BEEN STEALING VARIOUS THINGS AND DIFFERENT WAYS, ITS NEARLKY THIS DAY AND YES MY PLAN IS TO BRING MYSELF OUT AWAY FROM THEM AND THIS PLACE I LIVE BEFORE HE DOES THIS. YET THERES OTHER ISSUES THAT ARE SERIOUS VERY CONCERNING.
@tonym.toomer5 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@patriciaclarke1623Күн бұрын
I married one.God Helped me by leading me to Jesus.Beliveing God To Save his Soul.🙏😭🕊🔥
@tonym.toomerКүн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@theyrekrnations89904 күн бұрын
Yes. Well said. Without Jesus they have not changed any of their negative behaviors
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Trisharenel5 күн бұрын
I saw that mess for what it was and got the hell on!!!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@martinamaric16354 күн бұрын
Happy to see your video today. Thank you. God bless.
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and for the uplifting words of encouragement. I really appreciate it. Be blessed 🙏
@barbarahinshaw32925 күн бұрын
priceless wisdom
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and for the uplifting words of encouragement. I really appreciate it. Be blessed 🙏
@anitadossett49057 күн бұрын
True Facts but I’m going to let god handle what he did.
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@CynthiaCinelli5 күн бұрын
Yes TY. SILENCE ISi will overcome !! DEFINITELY GOLDENM UES. SWEET && MICE IN THE beginning. Go
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@cherylthomas37542 күн бұрын
Real good message ❤
@tonym.toomer2 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out 🙏
@bigchainswangin6092 күн бұрын
My mother was a legitimate sadistic person to me, slammed my hand in a car door and blamed me, constantly screaming, gave the evil eye look when I was like 5, my father had to literally push her back when I was about 2 because she tried to kill me, overly controlling, now she’s scared of me(not that that’s a good thing) because I learned all the tactics from the worst of humanity and no tricks work anymore, it’s so freeing.🙏🏻Jesus was always there even in the darkest times.
@tonym.toomerКүн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏
@lindatallon92177 күн бұрын
They are slicker than a well greased python.........🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏
@robiness53446 күн бұрын
Thought I’d be the scapegoat forever!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@jeanlittle4055 күн бұрын
Spot on! God bless you!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out 🙏
@osharobinson77078 күн бұрын
Thank You for your obedience this is true I did walk away in silence and I feel so much more peace since leaving God is so good hallelujah Hallelujah Confirmation Amen God Bless You Sir😇
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
You are welcome and thanks for reaching out 🙏
@marlinking70787 күн бұрын
1. Narcissist hate being lied to--they want to be the only one doing the lying. 2. Narcissist hate when you're un-predictable--you become hard to control. 3. Narcissist hate when you stop caring about them. 4. Narcissist hate when you ask multiple questions when they ask you favors--they depend on you trusting them. 5. Narcissist hate when they are cornered or en-circled by multiple people to get the truth or a matter clarified. 6. They hate when you start being dis-obedient to their commands. 7. Narcissist hate when they can't find any more things YOU VALUE the most to keep you under their thumb to control. 8. Narcissist hate the most when you have a support system willing to protect & defend you, because they can't handle multiple strategizing people. 9. Every time you're dis-obedient to them, you're gaining your power back, self-respect, & integrity; because obeisance to demons is cursing yourself.
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏
@lashaundapoindexter46077 күн бұрын
This is wild how this is totally true 💯 I never met a person this bad in my life. He will not give me my family items! 5 years and still holding the last thing my father/ mom gave me. SMH 😫Jesus take the 🛞 wheel 🙏🏾 Amen
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@jrddoubleu5145 күн бұрын
Silence is only golden if you are. If you're not, there will be a rekoning. My friend of 15 years has decided to pull the silent treatment the past few months because I held the mirror to his face. Stopped being codependent. He picked up a certain something while messing around behind his gf's back. He's a low-key celeb in the UK. If he doesn't want to be my friend, then he's not mine, and I'm obliged to spill his beans to the press. Scandal. Don't confuse accountability with disrespect/abuse. The silent treatment, and discard, are narcssistic behaviours. Make sure your hands and knees are clean before you disregard/discard those who have supported you, despite your sins. All I need do is offload the weight I've been forced to carry.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing and for reaching out. The only thing that you can do is pray for him to allow GOD to come into his life 🙏
@terriawright38266 күн бұрын
FACTS 🎉 He's trying to use my dad's daughter to UNALIVE me because he so called left her wanting to return to me.
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and for sharing 🙏
@figleafyogi6 күн бұрын
Praise Jesus!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@iammrpete7 күн бұрын
They will NEVER be able to reach me
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@veebliss12667 күн бұрын
They keep trying five years no contact and they still call and text from burner numbers!!! Stay strong no contact!!
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
@veebliss1266 Thanks for sharing 🙏
@YelMc-i5h8 күн бұрын
Yes, you sure right. I played the " leave this fool card real quickly. This narcissist was crazy, argumentative, knew everything, an idiot and a Partridge in a pear tree.😳 I've been living on DONE DONE street. Yea, it's a dead end. Bless brother.🙏🏿
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Amen and Thanks for sharing 🙏
@richardturner76647 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Angola886 күн бұрын
😂
@ReynelleSpence6 күн бұрын
🤪😂🤣 Not a Partridge in a Pear Tree 💯‼️🤭♥️😅
@MsAenne-gr2lw4 күн бұрын
You just told my whole situation that just happen this week Tuesday wow smh
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏
@John-dy6bl5 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
You are welcome 🙏
@MarydellG8 күн бұрын
When I finally left I told him on last Text he sent I said You will never see my name anywhere Ever again I'm so glad he Didn't wish Happy New Year To me I definitely know Over for good No more communication ❤
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@MarydellG8 күн бұрын
@tonym.toomer I am Thankful You are here Brother Tony
@angelafox95224 күн бұрын
Check Mate on that Narcissist! ✔️ Every word was the truth spoken, and up the score for team Jesus. . 👊🏽💯😊💫
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@carlparks11895 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾 my brother. Lol 😆 sounds like you and I were married to the same woman
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out 🙏🤭
@thenakedtruthonpd5 күн бұрын
Thank you for the content! 💯
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and Amen 🙏
@Debbie-pq4xr6 күн бұрын
Just found your channel. Great information ❤
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out and come again. Be blessed 🙏
@happyhealthyblessed6 күн бұрын
Yes I agree 💯🎯
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@LethalDominik6 күн бұрын
God bless
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@ladyboo28835 күн бұрын
Amen! 💯
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for reaching out 🙏
@ladyboo28835 күн бұрын
@ 🙏🏾
@gforcewindswinds2914 күн бұрын
Thank you
@tonym.toomer3 күн бұрын
You are welcome 🙏
@BeautifulJoy543215 күн бұрын
Nothing but facts 🎉🎉🎉
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@barbarahinshaw32925 күн бұрын
Thank you sir
@tonym.toomer4 күн бұрын
You are welcome 🙏
@lisapeck26175 күн бұрын
Exactly I Walked Away He Was Always Cheating On Me Doing Internet Hook Ups !!!
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind and that for sharing 🙏
@DianaSanders-ie6wp7 күн бұрын
❤U r telling the truth, without Jesus u can't win against them. The wisdom of God will show and tell u 🌺 what to do
@tonym.toomer7 күн бұрын
True and Amen 🙏
@bfly89815 күн бұрын
Amen
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@AGB_RECORDS5 күн бұрын
Dead ass like they think they gonna keep you stuck whole time you working on yourself everyday to make your life better and easier
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏
@JoshieGymGod5 күн бұрын
Funny thing is most narcissistic have no idea they are...
@tonym.toomer5 күн бұрын
True and thank for sharing your thoughts 🙏
@MessengerofTruth2228 күн бұрын
You are absolutely right ✅️
@tonym.toomer8 күн бұрын
Thanks and Amen 🙏
@Jojo298 күн бұрын
Tony, Tony that’s exactly what I said to my narcissist soon to be ex husband I called him nice/nasty and so did a paralegal told him that 🤔 and I never meet anyone as evil and diabolical as him and I called him out on all his foolery and was on home 24/7 when he was trying to devalue me the smear campaign he told his family that basically I had said the only way I would help him with a business or anything he had to marry me. WOW just LIES everything came out of his mouth was a LIE. And I blocked him and moved in silence before I found that out, but GOD!