🔴The Narcissist's Strategy for Staying in Your Life After the Discard | Narcissism | NPD

[@NarcPedia]

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[@fosterjanine5112]

I am not living to impress anyone, I am living to do what is right.

[@NarcPedia]

That’s a powerful mindset! Living authentically and prioritizing what’s right for you is so important, especially when dealing with narcissistic behaviors. Keep standing firm in your values and focus on your own journey. You’re doing great! Thank you for sharing your perspective!

[@MarianaMedeirosJS]

I remember a narcissist who was obsessed with her ex-husband; her obsession with him was so intense that she called her current one by his name (detail: the two are cousins) and told many stories about when she was together with her first husband, clearly demonstrating that those were the "best" years of her life...

[@NarcPedia]

That sounds like a really tough situation to witness! It’s fascinating and frustrating how some people can become so fixated on their past relationships, often at the expense of their present ones. It’s a reminder of how important it is to recognize these patterns and protect ourselves from emotional manipulation. Thank you for sharing this insight!

[@hibbertsh]

Once again, thank you for your excellent content. I resonate with so much. There are times where I soften and this sharply brings me back into focus.

[@NarcPedia]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad to hear that the content resonates with you and helps you stay focused. It's completely normal to have moments of softness, but recognizing them is a powerful step. Keep prioritizing your growth and healing. you're doing great!

[@shirleychandler2780]

I discarded the narc, I took back control . I moved out of the area.

[@NarcPedia]

That's an empowering decision! Taking back control and prioritizing your well-being is such a significant step in healing. Moving away can provide a fresh start and help you create a life that’s truly yours. Keep focusing on your growth and happiness. You're doing great!

[@marytaylor9504]

Yes he soon criticized my shoe size!

[@NarcPedia]

That kind of criticism is so hurtful and unnecessary! It's frustrating how narcissists often target insecurities. I'm glad you're recognizing that and standing strong. Thank you for sharing!

[@shirlspark_stardust]

I did the discard twice to the narcisisst I went no contact and he popped up at my house I didn't bother stayed inside can't do evil I'm on God and Jesus side for eternity light and darkness doesn't mix the word of God says it I'm good no contact.

[@NarcPedia]

That's a powerful stance to take! Staying true to your values and maintaining no contact is essential for your healing. It's great to hear that you're focusing on positivity and aligning yourself with what brings you peace. Thank you for sharing your journey. your strength is inspiring!

[@jennifercross65]

THANKS FOR YOUR VIDEOS THEY'RE VERY HELPFUL

[@NarcPedia]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad to hear that the videos are helpful to you. Your support means a lot, and I’m here to provide more insights and encouragement as you navigate this journey!

[@brooklynny3259]

It's been two weeks for me. She played me for a fool. She told me she didn't like being hugging or touching in public. I'm Like what the hell world you were born in. I spent so much money on her and was so good to her. Left me for no reading like a pile of trash.

[@NarcPedia]

I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this; it sounds incredibly painful. It's tough when someone we care about doesn't appreciate us, especially after investing so much. Remember to take care of yourself and focus on healing. You deserve better!

[@shirlspark_stardust]

I never tried to impress then narc what he think of me I could care less I don't live for anyone but God my children that's it.

[@tinaureta9891]

That’s the way , the Truth and the Life…. Jesus is the Only way to PEACE

[@NarcPedia]

That's a powerful mindset to have! Prioritizing your values and focusing on what truly matters-like your faith and your children-can be incredibly liberating. It's great to hear that you’re not letting anyone else’s opinions dictate your self-worth. Keep shining and living for yourself and your loved ones!

[@sallydaly5597]

Thank you.

[@NarcPedia]

You're very welcome! I'm glad you're here and engaging with the video.

[@PraneeColachicco]

Thank you ❤

[@NarcPedia]

You're welcome 😊

[@MsNooneinparticular]

There's such an overlap between NPD and Borderline PD in the "I hate you/don't leave me" regard. It's just called a discard/hoover with NPD. BPD ppl might have less shame when it comes to the "don't leave me" part and fear of abandonment, but make no mistake: narcs are playing the same game. No thanks, I'm good.

[@tinaureta9891]

Unless they Psychopathic Narcs… they Just Move on….without a blink of an eye…. As if it NEVER HAPPENED. No matter how many long years together

[@NarcPedia]

You make an excellent point about the similarities between NPD and BPD, especially regarding attachment and fear of abandonment. It’s important to recognize these patterns, as they can be incredibly damaging in relationships. Prioritizing your own mental health and setting boundaries is key. Thank you for sharing your insights!

[@rosieingram6893]

Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤

[@NarcPedia]

You're very welcome! ❤️ I'm glad you found the content helpful.

[@marytaylor9504]

Not Happening!!! Once I'm Done! I'm DONE !!! I ripped his mask off!! NO MORE CONTACT!!!

[@NarcPedia]

It sounds like you've taken a strong stand for your well-being! Breaking free from toxic relationships is empowering. Thank you for sharing your experience!

[@johnpeden2039]

Haven't heard anything from my ex covert narcissist, in almost 2 years not a peep.. I guess she's not coming back.. All I get now is, calls from Private/No Caller ID, and if I answer they hangup.. But I don't get those alot.. Just once every blue moon

[@NarcPedia]

It sounds like you’ve made significant progress in moving on, which is commendable! The lack of contact can be a relief, but those mysterious calls can definitely be unsettling. Trust your instincts, and remember that prioritizing your peace is what matters most. Stay strong. You’re doing great!

[@brooklynny3259]

It's been two weeks for me. She played me for a fool. She told me she didn't like being hugging or touching in public. I'm Like what the hell world you were born in. I spent so much money on her and was so good to her. Left me for no reading like a pile of trash.

[@venitagreer1404]

I get the same thing late at night about 12am but I don't answer it. Most of the time it once in a blue moon

[@dusanpalkovic4460]

❤❤❤

[@NarcPedia]

Thank you for the love! I appreciate your support and I'm glad you’re here. ❤️

[@NarcissistHex-nf9eq]

I'm a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, and this was pretty spot on.I am not living to impress anyone, I am living to do what is right, but it is only through God. I hope there's enough information out there to tell people never to go back though, I never advised that even on my own channel here.

[@NarcPedia]

Thank you for your honesty and for sharing your perspective! It's great to hear that you’re focused on doing what’s right and seeking guidance through faith. Self-awareness is a crucial step in personal growth, and your message about not going back is important. I appreciate your contribution to the conversation!