The Necessity of Boundaries (In all aspects)

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[@ireentsitsimakirimani9805]

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat. This quote humbled me. Before I say anything I always think about this.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

yes!!! me too, thank you for sharing

[@thandomokaulezi8077]

Sjoe! This is sooooooo deep and beautiful! Thank you for sharing🙏🏽! ❤️

[@naomiemilani2362]

Imagine if Mpoomy didn’t listen to that voice that said leave the classroom, I called you to be more than that..just imagine if she didn’t listen to that voice..just imagine if she chose to be an accountant..just imagine..we would have missed out on this..We thank God for that

[@chiozyahephzibahsakala1041]

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Wena🤞🏾

[@tumi2247]

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[@lindamacingwana3385]

Bro, we thank Mrs Mom❤️❤️❤️

[@mokgatsanekgatsi5053]

“Relationship boundaries is respecting someone’s purity in the things that matter to them” 🔥 ~Mpoomy Ledwaba

[@Sindiswa_Ngobese]

It's the fact that I am 19 but I am obsessed with this segment of your channel.😭🤣❤

[@keepingupwithmarilynmonros2976]

You'll view life positively. ❤

[@n_t_a_n_d_o_]

You not alone

[@universewonders.]

We're here together

[@nyeletistarnn9390]

You are going the right direction 👏🏾👏🏾

[@thegoodgirl4897]

Jonga💃we're here for it😊😁

[@naomieises2056]

Today's podcast really hit a nerve, not having boundaries really caused me not to live in my purpose. Thank you so much this info🙏

[@natashalewanika5284]

It is really a privilege to be a teenager in this dispensation! It's people like Brandon and Mpoomy who make our lives much more easier and blissful! We know why we exist and are thriving in purpose! We are in successful relationships! Life is amazing❤️

[@refilwemoepang3084]

The topic about not criticising reminds me of Proverbs 21:23 Guard your words, mind what you say and you will keep yourself out of trouble. And Eph 4: 29 let no corrupt talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. Thanks guys

[@CharleneMuvhax]

Mondays are okay Starting a new week with new perspectives is much better❤️🔥

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you, got you!!

[@_nceba__]

Totally agree with you Charlene ❣️

[@CharmainShalumbu]

We are at 199K🎉🎉🎉🎉road to 200K🍾🥂

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

woop woop

[@tino_chihwayi]

Im Soo excited too...!!!

[@nelisilewriteous6068]

I love how Brenden will always bring humor into thee most deep conversation and it's so beautiful how it brings this sort of balance to Mpoomy' seriousness. You are beautiful and yes this conversation is necessary. We allow so much disrespect and hurt in our lives when we don't have boundaries, sort of feels like we give people the power to do whatever they want with us, so unhealthy.

[@izahchauke8409]

Boundaries yes 😭, so many gifts has been destroyed because of not setting boundaries. I so wish this video can be watched by millions of people. The Ledwaba family is helping a lot in this Nation 🙏🏾.

[@nolubabalomcengwa6935]

This podcast was absolutely brilliant. By far the most thought provoking for me. Mainly because it forced me to look within myself and consider whether I've respected other people's boundaries as I've expected them to respect mine. I will definitely pray about this and ponder on it some more because it's very important. Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden.

[@Sweetness_g]

Absolutely true! I DMed Brenden and he replied. I was so shocked. I always admire his humility and when he replied I was shocked. I honestly didn't think he'd respond. Just grateful it was an admiration DM.

[@dorothyaboagye3363]

It absolutely infuriates me when people think that my boundaries are up for discussion or can be negotiated, especially in personal relationships. A lot of the time people want your boundaries to make sense to them and if they don’t, then they don’t respect them and that’s very unfair. I try to respect peoples boundaries even if I don’t understand them because what I do understand is that people set boundaries to protect themselves from something. Crossing those boundaries is actually a violation and it just screams you don’t actually care about this person. I’d like to think that if you truly care about someone and respect them, then you will respect their boundaries regardless of how they make you feel. Your discomfort does not make their boundaries “wrong”.

[@bernicebaafi5056]

Exactly 😊

[@allthings_suzieq]

Hahaha couldn’t sleep without watching this 2am in Australia and have been waiting for the notification

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

ahhh thank you :)

[@MillenialKay]

Actually never thought of disliking a video, if it's not the type of content I like, I usually stop the video ♥️♥️♥️

[@seegos]

"You can't go up by pulling someone down" Wow, guys this is so true 💞💞💞💞💞💞 Thanks for the great video guys.

[@asanelekoyana]

what I'm saying is not affirming what you believe! guys I'm telling you, when Brenden speaks listen tentatively. Soo wise

[@allthings_suzieq]

Mondays are perfect, starting a new week with new perspectives sets the right tone❤️❤️

[@tebogosako6179]

Not me singing the intro the moment I saw the notification yes I’m excited

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

hahah

[@zibusekunene]

Brenden is so passionate about the critics, I hear it and see it in his demeanor and I understand his frustration. People project their own limitations and faults onto others.

[@Zintle]

I wish people would apply the primary school principle of “ if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all”. I don’t think people realise that behind big platforms and stardoms are human beings who also need to be treated with kindness 🥺

[@smangamtsweni2577]

Well said sis❤️

[@mirriamambiyo9706]

Actually this is true. It's not mandatory for you to leave a comment.

[@mbalikhumalo921]

"Your Intuition Is The Holy Spirit"❤ I felt that Brenden

[@lelo.m4530]

This is literally the 1st time I comment and ya'll really helped me I've been depressed for the longest time and I'm only 19 and still in high school I'm supposed to be going to metric next year and I've decided to take the other direction because God has been showing me what my perpose is and my family thinks I'm crazy but when someone is not in your shoes they'll never understand why I'm doing what I'm doing

[@Sweetness_g]

Yho nina. You guys are so wise. I love how your podcasts encourage self-growth. I absolutely love that about you two.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you Yolisa ;)

[@Mufkinz95]

We live in a world that is full of offended and bitter people where people actually have no regard for someone else’s life.We feel the need to comment and give our opinions on everything where it’s actually not needed or necessary. Jesus Himself had critics but He kept it moving and He actually had boundaries.He mingled with the crowd but they didn’t sit at His table to eat with Him so boundaries are so key.

[@YemiAyodeji]

I read a book on boundaries and it completely changed my perspective on the topic. Boundaries are not walls, but rather fences or gates to prevent irrelevant things from coming into your space. No one should barge into your home without permission. Great conversation here.

[@refilweledwaba3841]

Listening to this podcast for 4th time because this was a very important topic for me and my growth. 🌱

[@bernicebaafi5056]

😂😂😂💔the ending tho “Where are they tho” They are around I wish them happy birthday 😂😂I love you guys

[@matshilisosetlhaku1518]

I was thinking about this actually when people when criticising Lasziwe. I doubt any of them contributed R10 to the initiative but they all of a sudden wanted to know where the money went. I guess it’s true when they say you can’t make everyone happy and that’s okay.

[@kgdedeezyn]

This is so encouraging. Blessings upon yall 🙂

[@sulekamnqinana2325]

Yhu guys me and my husband we literally binging on your videos and podcasts, and now my kids .I am enjoying listening to you guys. my 10 year old son said yesterday that he is going to be Branden. my whole family is really enjoying you guys. we are in rural arears of Eastern Cape ( East London). May God continue to hide and protect you, I wish you all the best in life. I love you

[@boikgantshomohlala5045]

This has to be my most favorite episode. So much growth and wisdom!

[@lerato_moahloli]

Boundaries are really very important and more often than not they come with a lot of resistance and people questioning your character and how you have changed simply because the boundaries you have set for yourself don’t sit well with them… With this social media era it often said that once you put something out there you invite opinions, but my stance is this: If your opinion is malicious, it doesn’t offer growth or is just plain mean then you lose nothing by just scrolling by and not typing anything instead of taking it upon yourself to be mean. You lose nothing at all… Thank you for this🙏🏽♥️

[@kukuerusike8271]

Monday is good.Thank you so much, I am learning quite a lot.

[@dosesofjaqxxx]

My favorite KZbin channel of all times 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@dosesofjaqxxx]

I think Fridays will be perfect

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you!!!

[@analysialuke7096]

Y'all this channel is the healthiest I have subscribed to so far. I love y'all ❤.

[@asmlambo]

Absolutely love the wisdom you share with us…. It’s chilled but hits home 🙏🏽

[@chiozyahephzibahsakala1041]

Was glued and attentive on this podcast/lecture 🥵..... Thank you Mrs Mom and Mr Dad😍...You're parenting a whole generation 🤭🤗

[@mfundisozuma5810]

Loved loved loved this episode. Just today my therapist was talking about boundaries and you guys uploaded it. Thank you ❤️

[@nadiauwase5399]

Y'all are such a blessing! So much wisdom!

[@nyeletistarnn9390]

I really need to practice this, honestly I just let things slide n mess me up...I've been saying i am setting boundaries but never really practice. Great topic 🙏🏽

[@molebohengntseare8846]

Sheesh Brendan wow, wow, wow, you have said it all and above, I have been talking about such boundaries when it comes to personal life, so much wisdom, love you guys ❤️👌🏾

[@elizabethgundumure8302]

I just love how you guys are able to add to each other's points in every conversation. I think it's great and it makes the conversation very well round even for the listener. And yoh, that nugget on personal boundaries was gold, thank you guys.

[@senorahthokwane587]

Wow what a great podcast again, I’ve learned in my early thirties and 15 years in a marriage that boundaries are needed and now you guys just confirmed that as people you make boundaries and also take responsibility and to respect other people boundaries and again if the is no boundaries from both sides it’s a 💥 to explored . And also as couples I’ve learned from now to respect each other’s boundaries and purity very important. And again if someone crosses those boundaries, which it depends who’s crossing the boundaries but usually the people or person who does that they don’t know you or they have a lot to say but no solution and impregnated bad intentions in their entire life. So wow again continue guys with what you’re doing .

[@gugulethukhoza9208]

From my youth I had male friends and when I got married, they released me to my husband. It didn't make sense to me I thought they don't like my company anymore but now it makes sense my husband is my friend.

[@mbalimaseko4201]

I love what you Brenden is saying on personal boundaries particularly on ones purpose being know by you! Profound!

[@katekathy2134]

The "rents" didn't come to play today! Thank you for lovingly sharing your passion& rebuke..I needed to hear it. Ironically I am also reading all the Boundaries books by Dr. Henry and I had not come to a place to point the torch within my own heart. Sometimes we are passive aggressive with our beloved youtubers as if they owe us the entire world except their passion & purpose. Thank you for always sharing. I listen off Spotify podcast and always enjoy replaying here on KZbin! Godspeed & keep on keeping on!!

[@TheSpeakingChef_]

Absolutely loved this podcast. People will always have something to say, positive or negative. Thank you so much for such an insightful conversation. Sometimes it can be such a challenge to set out personal boundaries, because I focus more on other people and how they will feel.

[@nonisparkletemba]

The passion in Brenden about this topic 🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏👏

[@oliviandyuluwa9776]

Mondays are okay. Starting a new week with something to look forward to. Love from Namibia ♥️

[@phiwosweetness9945]

Wow guys I can't thank you enough for this truth🙌 I'm at a point where I'd rather keep quiet when I have nothing positive to say because I've come to realise from my personal life experiences that people have a lot to say, to blame and or judge when they don't know, understand or never experienced a situation. And because of that I am more mindful of what and how I do or say things towards other people. My colleague shared something with me the other day and she added that she feels down, but feels guilty about and I simply gave her a hug and told her "girl you don't owe any of us an explanation after all you're the only one that understands exactly what you going through, cry if you feel like it and don't be bothered by what we'll say cos we talking from a place of not knowing, you're not crazy"

[@nonisparkletemba]

I love how you recognize and learn from your mistakes mpoomy. We indeed have to call ourselves out. Thank you so much, you guys. God speaks through you.

[@boitumelomoshugi2710]

I loved every minute of this podcast, it was very real and relevant to the times we are living in 👌🏾

[@mellisamadondo4942]

Really thought-provoking. It's the conversation that we aren't having. Thank you guys for sharing it in such a laid back way but with the required impact.

[@zimasamnyazi3062]

Just finished watching,great information thank you guys. Much love

[@lethukuthulampila5603]

Best episode. Thank you so much guys. I really needed this. It's really an eye opener, it's true that we tend to not respect people's boundaries and ours as well. "Do unto others what you will like to be done to you ". Thank you so much for this episode, much appreciated.

[@lindokuhlenkosi3357]

Thank you so much guys I have learned a lot... I never had formalization of boundaries or took them seriously but I see this in a different perspective now. I like it when you explain with examples of what happens in your daily life... like when Mpoomy makes an e.g tweeting about Justin... It's really great to know that I am listening to people who practice what they preach. thank you😙

[@lindosibisi146]

These episodes are God sent !

[@i_am_feliealberto6243]

I'm just in love with how everytime you have a topic to discuss , it sort of being affirmed in my life 😍😍😍😍 thank you Mrs Mom and Tata Brenden

[@mela_tyibz]

I appreciate the length of this video. Thank you Mrs Mom and Brenden for sharing divine insight. Your mistakes were necessary in order to help people like us realize the things we do to other people. This, like any podcast spoke in high volumes!!!

[@gail_hlatshwayo]

The way I cromp to the intro 😅 I love it. This was too good, so necessary and a good reminder to us all to respect ourselves and others in all forms of relationships. I wish everyone on the socials would see this because social media has become a comfortable place to disrespect people you don’t know and be unkind, so not cool but thank you for this amazing episode. You’ll literally lose yourself if not your mind as well without boundaries. I think people celebrate other people’s failures because it makes them feel better about their own failures or worse because they not even trying to do better for themselves, which is sad and not human at all. Thank you guys! ❤️❤️

[@gugukhumalo9313]

I'm back to watch again because the gems here...spoke to my soul.

[@ConversationswithSuwilanji]

The personal boundaries for me hit the right spot. 🔥 I'm learning to follow my heart and not be so focused on people's opinions (mostly family) this has just catapulted me even more. I know if I'm not going against God whatever I taken on that's on the inside of my heart will bring fruit, after all his the one who places the desire in the first place 💃🏾❤️

[@malusisarahmulola]

Monday is a perfect day.. Beginning the week on some deep wisdom..

[@nokwandangidi2525]

Thank you guys, this really calls for an introspection to an individual ❤️ i love you guys, May the Lord continue using y'all and May he bless y'all abundantly🙌😊.

[@nonzwakazikhathi1214]

I love u guys ,so much wisdom it shows u have a helper,advocate,comforter and a guide 💖

[@gontlentshole5721]

Ohh my word I feel so bad, I have to be honest with myself, if my boyfriend told me he was dropping out, I would discourage it... It comes from this need to protect him from himself I'd tell myself. I'm a realist and just practical about things and he's such a dreamer... I hope I don't dim his light... This is so eye opening thank you

[@euginia_mathapelo]

Totally loved this topic ~ Y'all broke it down so beautifully

[@tipsforhealthylifestyle1874]

I can't tell how much you have changed me in how I perceve things, yazi everytime I feel down,incapable,negative,I just go straight to this channel . Yazi u've grown me,naturally I am non forgiving person but uve changed me. Big up guys. I love you.

[@asa_s1499]

This is so informative fam! Thank you so much for sharing this with us ❤️❤️

[@tanakasworld6416]

So relatable and true .Thank you so much for this 💓

[@onceupontheaoxamubs2204]

Such great conversation. I love how you guys can call each other out when the other person does something wrong without getting defensive. We are learning. Thank you guys 🙏

[@nomsadenise6947]

Wow this podcast spoke to me directly and I know it's not a coincidence. God has many ways of communicating with us at our cross roads. Thank you guys for sharing

[@seciliaiiyambosanta2272]

Love today's topic so much . Thank you for sharing wisdom . I am sure that many can attest that we really are learning alot from the two of . God bless you abundantly. Love you all the from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦

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Thanks I actually joined #medshield after watching this video I got an affordable quote.. great video!!

[@yolinda_cele]

I seriously love how wise you guys are. Everytime I listen to these podcasts I feel better from what I was going through, all I can see is God from the wisdom you guys portray. Please keep making these podcasts. They are healing and I personally looove them🤗.

[@nandihlatshwayo182]

There is value in receiving hate and negativity, it creates a balance, informs standards, develops resilience, it is a tool to teach, develops personality, picks out fakes from the genuine as hurtful and disrespectful as it may be it is like healthy bacteria you need. *balance is key

[@thandomokaulezi8077]

Thank you Mpoomy & Brenden for being such great counsels!🙏🏽 And I agree with Mpoomy on the importance of asking yourself the question “is that friendship really worth it…” To sum your podcast all up, I’d say boundaries go hand in hand with priorities, it’s only if something ain’t that important to you that you won’t find the need to set boundaries around it and protect it with all you have!❤️

[@prudencedantye9297]

I can really tell how passionate Brendan is about this topic wow lol, I feel his energy through the screen. But on a serious note, I agree guys.

[@MaleboOldjohnTsindi]

Thank you, I am soo loving this

[@thotoaneramakhula8062]

Definitely liked that it's not happening at the end. When you know you know. I like the realness and rawness of this video

[@AphiweM_]

Yoh this was amazing. Especially the personal boundary, thank you Mpoomy and Brenden 👏🏼

[@genaa6651]

I really enjoyed this video, it is timely. I have this issue especially with workmates and brethren at church. They consider me to be secretive. Which to me is not the case, I share but with a select few, also because I recognize that there is a danger in sharing. Just my thoughts.

[@nkatekomtshali1509]

i am so in love with your Podcasts yhuu. i love you guys.

[@phindikhesa3707]

This couple is literally a vibe ey 😂😂 it was a serious talk but the ending was just jolly and cute and that's the balance you guys have ❤️

[@anastasimankesemokgobu1724]

You are absolutely right Brenden, often times when people ask for advice they just need an affirmation that someone out there believes in their idea, Hence it is very important to pay attention when a person speak

[@sunflowerpalee]

so much appriciated ...thank you guys for sharing with us..lots of love

[@kekeletsorajele2176]

This is amazing, I would really love for you guys to talk about the power of reflecting on one self and how it affects your marrage in one of your topic.

[@nomatheadilade747]

You guys you are thee best full stop.

[@nomahlubithunyiswa2761]

Mpoomy what you mentioned at 7:04 - 7:35. Talking yourself out of self-doubt and fear and finally do something is so hard! Boundaries are really important to protect yourself from all the critics.

[@luthoeland6305]

Thank you once again Mrs Mom and Bra Brenddy !

[@thandombalimthembu2323]

All the wisdom bombs today! Shu! 🔥🔥🔥

[@enhlezondi]

I love this! As an upcoming content creator sometimes I fear doing what I love because of the criticism I'll get. 💕

[@misspurplerain]

A much needed conversation 💜

[@shekinahmaoga]

Wooooohooo loving this as always 😊❤

[@sambawetu7125]

This is the first of your podcasts I've watched, I completely enjoyed it and might binge watch a couple more over the the weekend. Thank you from Zambia 🇿🇲

[@providencee03]

So much wisdom!!

[@wamekoo3116]

First time I am this early to the channel(first 30😅).The discussion on boundaries resonated with for so many reasons 🙌

[@dove-ina5462]

Thank you so much , I needed this❤