The Number One Mistake Men Do When Starting Relationships

[@Jj-vf2cd]

My first ex was a Filipina and one of the biggest things that I knew will be a problem is the way we die of finances. She came from a very well off family and I came from a very working class family when we started talking I had a feeling, me and her had different opinions about a lot of things. One of the biggest things was when I had a family tragedy and I told her that I could not visit her dings went downhill from there. And especially when we broke up I already knew that she posted too much stuff online and like you said about not able to leave I wanted to make things work but when she cheated on me and try to blame me for everything, I knew it wasn’t gonna work. Especially when I moved on and found someone else I feel like you and your partner got to be on the same record or have a similar mindset. Sometimes we can care about someone so much we can ignore the red flags but now I don’t do that. Thank you for the awesome constant and keep up the amazing work.

[@JustinBabsi]

We learn from the past. Glad you were able find a new partner who is a much better match now 👍

[@EllieM_Travels]

My partner of over eight years and I did half the red flags you’re talking about here. 😅🤣 Both divorced 2x, both with baggage, both talked about our relationship problems on the second date and had issues with trust and loyalty. We decided to work through these things together, and it’s worked for us. We’re probably not the norm, but communication is key.

[@JustinBabsi]

Wow what a story 😁 Glad you’ve been able to push through and make it work 👍

[@ericschnibbe6570]

Great list of red flags. I see now how they were present in past relationships that went sour, but I was too naïve to understand that or recognize them at the time. Thankfully, my Filipina fiancé does not have any of these. :)

[@JustinBabsi]

Glad it was helpful Eric!

[@davethorsen8538]

The biggest lesson I have learned with women is there have been men in her life that didnt have to put in any affort. She found them so attractive that all that was needed was a "wanner come over " text and she was on her way. All women have had men like that so if you are not that guy just walk away

[@JustinBabsi]

Yup Dave…not good to be just a Plan B

[@luisthevenin684]

Thanks for your videos about phillipines live

[@JustinBabsi]

Our pleasure Luis!

[@VENEMPASTOR]

In my experience, some Filipinas pretend to accept you in hope to change your mind later. For example, I don't want to be with a single mom, I don't want a broke Filipina who can't sustain herself without my money and I certainly don't want to financially support any woman's family. I've had Filipinas trying to change my position afterwards.

[@JustinBabsi]

Yup people can wear a mask in the beginning…

[@VENEMPASTOR]

@@JustinBabsi Babsi, I'm sorry but off topic, what does this means: Aw lami ng puso sa saging?

[@ntech1507]

Helllo I watched your cost of living videos you made a year ago and it was around $1500 for of you in city. But for me I will come to cebu first and then branch out to Iloilo and I was on a live people said $3k is not enough for both of us. Also would $4k be enough for a family of 5.

[@JustinBabsi]

We think than it is more than enough to live here on a 3k budget, even for your family size. Good luck

[@ntech1507]

@babsirants oh ok wow thank you so much. I was worried because people on a live I watched said 3k is not enough and that it's way too little.

[@abiodunikupitioluwafemi1325]

​@@ntech15073k is more than enough,depends on your life style and the city you choose to stay..But i will advise you visit first and get firsthand info

[@nineseven420empire3]

If a person tells you they are a cheater............ belive them.

[@LukaGartner-i6k]

Hello from Slovenia. Great content, cute couple ;) I was also in toxic relationship with my ex and thinking moving into Philipines

[@JustinBabsi]

Much appreciated! Best of luck 🤞

[@tomtin0222]

I like the way you discuss issues @babsirants

[@JustinBabsi]

Thanks Tom 👍