The One About Even MORE VPR Moments

[@msonjohn2717]

My brother and I lost our father 10 years ago, when Easton said in regards to your mum "she's never dying" it hit me hard. I say it often about our mum ♡

[@tracim3080]

Me and my siblings lost our dad when I was seven and then my mom remarried my stepdad as part of my life for 14 years and then he passed away so I learned to cherish people I have, and respect the fact they can, and will die someday Oh, and when I was 17, my uncle lost his mind and murdered my aunt Life’s too short to pretend our family members are gonna be here forever cherish every year you get, and don’t take any of them for granted

[@TrishRyan-ey8go]

@@tracim3080amen ❤

[@TrishRyan-ey8go]

@@tracim3080so sorry for all your losses especially at your young age g age!

[@tracim3080]

@@TrishRyan-ey8go honestly, I’m not. I’ve learned a lot about life and I’m able to express empathy and understand complex situation because of it I’m not gonna trade anything in my life for more shallow one where I wouldn’t have my understanding I do Every loss came with a lesson, and I don’t take that for granted anymore than I take the people in my life for granted

[@vheaver1237]

Listening to you talking about your dad, I can totally relate. My dad’s anniversary is on the 27th. It’s been 14 years. They don’t tell you about grief. I was a mess for years, I literally ate my grief. If I had the money it would of been drink n drugs. I gained like 5/6 stone. It’s taken me years to get back to that healthy lifestyle. I appreciate how it open you are. Best of luck on the birth of your daughter. Love ya Lala!!!

[@Bravo4therestofus]

Love when we go back and reminisce 💖💖💖💖💖

[@TrishRyan-ey8go]

Me too❤

[@Keke11113]

Loved Loved Loved this show! Jessica and Easton asked all of those little questions you think of while watching the show! I for one would be super excited for a new reality show starring La La, Jessica and Easton! ❤

[@Kala2535]

Hey Lauren, it's really hard hearing you blame Ariana for saying toughen up about how you REACT to people. She never asked you to get over your hurt, she didn't ask you to subdue your emotions, it is her being an authentic friend by telling you that you reacting to people like a hurricane will only get you caught up in a heavier one because that becomes an excuse for others to start blaming your behavior - example Rachel, who's to date calling you names for excuses she can barely put together in a valid sentence. Trust the real world out there, only your true friends will look out for you the way Ariana did. Please don't get her feelings towards you confused with her protection of your public image. You aren't some random person like me, commenting like a bot. You are a public figure and how you behave reflects back on YOU, as much as you may disagree with it. Katie and Ariana have always had your back and been true friends to you. Don't think it's lost on the audience that you had a truly sweet and heartwarming relations with both these girls. It's gut wrenching watching you and Scheana publicly lay out a message that it's okay to ditch your friends because there were so many layers of manipulation that we all consistently choose to fall for a bad performance. It's unfair to your beautiful friendship you had with them. P.S.: You did a great job of keeping your emotions as together as you could considering the amount of hormonal ebb/flows you went through planning your pregnancy; you are a champion mother.

[@Michele_78]

Lala, I lost my father to suicide a few years ago. Around the time you lost your Dad. As painful as it was, watching you go thru it on the show made me feel less alone, less crazy bc of how I was dealing with it. So, as hard as it was for you, pls find comfort in knowing you helped someone.

[@jjack5244]

Go back and watch the lies about Arianna and the dad comment She's gross

[@hannah.waldorf]

I’m so so so sorry for your loss Michele

[@Michele_78]

@@hannah.waldorf Thank you so much! You're very kind. I definitely appreciate it!

[@stefanienovodor4936]

That was an incredible description of grief. Thank you. Makes me feel a lot less crazy.

[@OLIVERNolan-pp1rd]

Lala, actually there is a book that helps you go through grief. Its called The Grief Recovery Method and its INCREDIBLE for helping you walk through the grief

[@asmrcat5130]

VPR needs a completely new cast of 20. Somethings working at SUR This is not a group of friends anymore. The show is over.

[@ep3116]

I appreciate hearing your truth Lala and when you are speaking about your dad xx

[@LG-hn6rd]

Still no

[@ep3116]

@@LG-hn6rd get out of here 😂

[@CourtneyLeary-e8t]

I could be 100% wrong but didn’t Arianna lose her father and so many other cast was still down her throat that season. So Lala losing her dad in a way her grief is telling you how she grieved Which of course isn’t always the same way others will. But when you actually are grieving you don’t want to see how other people mourn a death some people want to get past it right away while others can’t/wont. It all depends on the person. Lala saying it’s bad for Ariana to say “get over it” to me isn’t the same as getting over a break up cause in this case the other person in the break up isn’t dead. Ariana didn’t have the option to get over it right away because of the drama tbh season. Ariana did handle grief with grace (according to Lala’s cohost) if you need a reminder rewatch that season where ariana didn’t even bring it up till the reunion. Granted Lala I don’t believe was on the show yet however she did watch it according to her. Both can grieve in their own ways. One brought it up to defend her actions the other didn’t it depends on how you view grieving. Which is okay.

[@LavondaPeoples]

Lala Ariana went through the same thing u did when u lost your dad and she said that no one act like they cared so she had to toughen up and she was trying to say u need to toughen up. She wasn't been mean. I last my mom so i know u was hurting but my work environment was told different I got much love. And Ariana didn't mean that in a nasty way.

[@Birdiee93x]

OK, comment number one and correct me if I’m wrong this is not a bitchy comment. I’m genuinely just having a conversation here, asking you some questions to my recollection when Ariana made the comment about you needing to toughen the fuck up, I thought that she was trying to Express exactly what you just said about how Leisa Renna was treated and that if you don’t toughen the fuck up in this group you are going to break because they ripped her apart during the season that her father passed away she was given zero grace, zero apologies, nothing so I thought that she was saying it as a place from understanding how you’re feeling and also understanding how they’re going to treat you because they were pieces of shit.

[@Tamika-dq6ze]

That’s exactly what Ariana meant and explained that when she apologized. And she actually apologized again the next season.

[@Roz-y2d]

@@Tamika-dq6zeExactly right.

[@melaniecampoy3382]

What was the “rules” quote from? Driving me nuts… I know I know it

[@sochristine]

Nothing but respect ❤❤

[@tracim3080]

Respect for what exactly?

[@tracim3080]

Did you just forget how season 10 ended? We already got all that shit out between Ariana and tom. The fans did not mean to see him fake apologize And you did need to toughen up about your dad because you were wallowing in self-pity instead of using it to grow And I’m sorry but if I can figure out losing my dad at the age of seven, after being sexually assaulted by my half brother, you could figure out losing your dad in your 20s Literally half my friends were without a dad by the time they were 16 it’s not some rare occurrence in the world Even on your cast, there’s three of you with a dead dad It is not the heartbreaking tragedy you’re trying to make it out to be and that’s coming from someone with a dead dad, two dead Dad‘s actually cuz my mom, remarried, and my stepdad drop dead after 14 years in my life. I cannot take you seriously because your idea of a tragedy is my idea of normal life

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But also kill them with kindness ❤

[@FaythHogan]

They were not together anymore but he was supposed to be showing stassi he was changing to get her back when they did it

[@Saundra-jq7rm]

I wonder why Easton doesn't watch the show

[@asmrcat5130]

His*

[@Roz-y2d]

You still haven’t understood what Ariana meant when she said you should toughen up. You seem determined to think the worst of Ariana. That’s your loss. And why would anyone compare themselves to rancid Rinna? As nasty as you’ve recently been you are not like her at all. Think about it. Best wishes for the new baby.

[@blondies2755]

Ariana should take her own advice. She can dish it out, but can’t keep that same energy for herself. 🥴

[@bedeviled2much376]

@@blondies2755 what are you talking about? Ariana couldn’t possibly be in tougher than she’s been. Ariana has been a rock & classy at the same time.

[@blondies2755]

@@bedeviled2much376 😂 the delusion 🥴

[@Roz-y2d]

@@blondies2755You’re jealous of Ariana and so is Lala.🤣

[@tracim3080]

@@blondies2755 how is she not taking it? I’ve yet to see any interviews where Ariana is bashing Lala complaining about hurt feelings. She’s out, living life and thriving.

[@tjlackey2944]

Yes, Jess.

[@asmrcat5130]

Someone just give me the timestamps for when she starts talking shit about Ariana and blaming her for VPR being over for the 18th hundredth time

[@stefanienovodor4936]

I had to listen twice

[@1521bbiez]

It is so true. The stages of grief are REAL! I lost my man after 18 years together, and I remember just like trying, and people realizing, "Wow, she is just in pain right now." It was so true, I didn't even realize, but... there I was.... pissed, crying, ready to fight anyone. It's so sad. Anyone who has never gone through it, just stay to yourself. Love you guys!

[@Brianna-q3p]

Grief is horrible but it doesn’t give you a right to bully people for absolutely no reason and then play victim and use your fathers death as an excuse…

[@Solodolo18]

I love my soul tribe that supports and loves me and speak up for me i love yall i got my my soul tribe back and god do i wanna meet yall soon thank yall for everything thank you God for everything protecting me amen and bringing me justice and balance amen amen amen 🙏

[@ladybug2413]

Can we discuss how Lala's glass skin came to be this episode?

[@Summerleigh2percent]

I mean her pregnancy helps but she takes very good care of her skin and watches what she uses. I wholeheartedly agree with you though…it’s flawless

[@Keke11113]

I was just thinking the same thing. Her skin is flawless.

[@asmrcat5130]

Just won’t put her fucking phone down the entire podcast

[@tiffanimorris7127]

By the way you represent yourself on this podcast, by the way you behaved in season 11, I'm truly shocked you have any close girlfriends. Which you stated yourself that you're not a good friend, just a friend. Also I can understand why you've been single for the longest time. Yea you look good but most decent guys who've seen you on VR or heard you on this podcast are gonna avoid you like the plague. They can find someone who looks just as good who's less petty and with less drama.

[@lisagockley9759]

No one gave Lisa Rinna any grace after her mother died? They all did! You just make shit up Lala!

[@bedeviled2much376]

Lablah is as nasty & deceitful as rinna. That’s why she lies about poor, poor rinna.

[@SamanthaStokes-g5j]

@@bedeviled2much376why are you watching her podcast if you hate her so much?

[@bedeviled2much376]

@@SamanthaStokes-g5j because I heard she was talking about her coworkers again. Wanted to see what she was lying about this time. She’s always talking about Ariana & stirring shit. It’s a shame she can’t just concentrate on her children she claims to love & stop obsessing about Ariana.

[@asmrcat5130]

You had a falling out with Katy because you openly blasted her in the middle of the reunion… About a private phone call she thought she had with you in confidence. You also put Brittney on blast in the middle of the season 11 reunion… When she’s not even on the show anymore!

[@REEMSalem-kl6ue]

I love you Lala all the way from kingdom of saudi arabia 🇸🇦❤️❤️..

[@JacquelineSolomon-y9g]

You don’t give a sh@t why the friendships ended or changed since you destroyed them for a storyline and have yet to own up to it.

[@Brianna-q3p]

Exactly she feels stupid but will never admit she’s wrong so she’s going to act like she doesn’t care … if I were her I’d be so embarrassed… she actually got even worse over the years..I thought becoming a mom would make her more empathetic and help her mature but clearly not

[@Roz-y2d]

👍🏻

[@Solodolo18]

Love you lala easton Jessica for understanding what Im coming from and speaking up for me and i do the same i love yall so very much yall gave me support and good advice and showing me love i love you yall very much give me lala podcast thank yall god got yall and me amen 🙏

[@tjlackey2944]

Go hard in the paint, Miss Lala

[@Solodolo18]

Love you lala god gonna bring us together soon to meet soon amen amen amen 🙏 ❤

[@meikaline]

🌬 🕳 🤍 .

[@tjlackey2944]

Let’s talk about Wade Wilson and y’all’s thoughts… so crazy

[@kristigaither2674]

Blah blah 😒 you should Thank Ariana for giving you content for your podcast. Ariana doesn’t talk about you… she’s busy with all her many jobs.

[@tjlackey2944]

Girl bye. Why are you even here you secretly love Lala right?

[@Summerleigh2percent]

You must secretly love La La though

[@jesseheinbach5226]

Actually, she should thank tom, Ariana should as well lol

[@AirJKB13]

Ariana is the least favorite person and topic. I don’t think LaLa owes anyone anything!

[@melaniecampoy3382]

Why are you even here? Like literally just to spread hate. Sad

[@jokerlovesyou1861]

Omg...La....I did NOT know she actually said that... That's horrible and she KNOWS..... i cantotallyunderstandthe issue now...im so sorry...

[@Brianna-q3p]

She said that because lala was attacking everybody for months that whole season… she was bullying multiple people for no reason verbally abusing them and then she would pull the dad card …. Ariana lost her dad and everyone gave her hell that year and didn’t care … lala is a bully and will use any excuse why she acts that way instead of admitting that she’s wrong … she’s immature. Lala and Ariana already had this discussion a while ago and everything was fine … lalas just finding any reason to talk crap about Ariana like usual because she’s obsessed with her … Ariana was the only one who had lalas back and welcomed her into the group while the others hated her then when she finally got on their good side lala turned and treated Ariana like crap talking behind her back for seasons because she didn’t need her anymore Lala is trash and a gold digger she was just making fun of someone for having yellow teeth and laughing pointing showing her daughter how “ bad “ that persons yellow teeth are

[@Saundra-jq7rm]

I never forgot the scene when Ariana told Lala to toughen up over her dad's death. I realize that Lala has talked a lot of crap about her now, but back then Ariana was wrong on that one. Telling La to toughen up was cruel and insensitive. It was odd for her to say that about Lala. Everyone grieves in their own way. No one has the right to set the limits for someone elses grief. I mean it's not like Lala was crying over something trivial. It was her beloved dad. I think that season really opened up the doors for Lala.up until then the audience never had seen lalas deep vulnerable side.no one knew it existed. That Bambi eyed bitch moment Was classic epic La. I remember going huh you know I've always liked lala.

[@Brianna-q3p]

Lala was using the death of her dad as an excuse to be a raging bitch to every single person that season 😂 this was a year after … she would attack and bully people and then play victim and use the dad card so yes Ariana had every single right to tell her to toughen up … Ariana’s dad died and everyone gave her hell that season and she couldn’t pull the dad card …

[@Roz-y2d]

@@Brianna-q3p👍🏻

[@tjlackey2944]

Ariana Maddox is annoying and so is Katie Maloney

[@blondies2755]

Seriously. The fact that people can’t see through their bullshit makes me sad for humanity.

[@tracim3080]

Yes, pathetic people tend to find strong Independent women annoying.

[@tracim3080]

Yes, it can be so annoying seeing women be successful and grow up in life 😂

[@blondies2755]

@@tracim3080 Who said I wasn’t successful? She has nothing I want. People who call others names are the lowest of the low because they’re not intelligent enough to come up with a better argument than to resort to name calling like your fave. Pick someone worthy to look up to. 🤷‍♀️

[@tracim3080]

@@blondies2755 So you think Lala is the lowest of the low then because she’s the one that went around calling people names Ariana didn’t The only press Ariana‘s been doing is about her shows, and she talks up her crew members Lala went on a press tour bashing Ariana immediately after the season 11 reunion So, where is your principles on that? Looks like I’m on the side of the classy one with the intellectual side you’re on the one you described yourself as the lowest form of intelligence 😂