The one reason they won't commit to you

[@MrJaimec94]

This is probably the first video I’ve ever commented on. I wanted to say thanks for sharing this Joey. I’ve watched several of your other videos throughout the years. This one really helped. Our lights were on at different times, and it’s sad but it’ll be okay.

[@jeyml8914]

2 years I've waited for someone who's light isn't turned on. Now I understand.

[@Unidentified_UnknownUser]

yeah...

[@simonetozzi7912]

Beautiful video. I had a similar experience, now I realize their light was off.

[@joeykidney]

Sorry to hear that

[@sgdesignss]

just ended a 2-year relationship with someone who wasn't emotionally ready or at the right place in life for the long-term commitment I wanted with them. it's so sad because we are still in love with each other and had a really beautiful relationship :(

[@jeaninevanvliet6025]

Really needed to hear this. Now I can finally call my ‘situationship’ off because I’m realizing that the reason he won’t commit, isn’t about me 😢. Thank you so much for this video

[@dymoure]

I heard about this a few months ago. I always do my best to make sure my light is on. I met someone who's light I thought was on for three months. Those three months, we just kept getting closer and closer. We even got serious, official, and started calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. But then she got anxious about some personal stuff, and her light turned off. I don't even blame her; it wasn't her fault. But it sucked so much. She asked if we could still be friends. I definitely couldn't do it. I don't think she could've either. We were always more than "just friends." The thing that really sucks is that I don't even know if my light is fully on right now. I don't think so, honestly. I think it's flickering or something. I need to recharge before I put myself back out there. I have been putting myself out there, but I feel like it's pointless right now. No one I meet compares to her.

[@wavelengthdesigns]

5 years ago I met my ex through a mutual friend. At the time, turns out her light was not on. I expressed interest, she declined with an open ended statement and we remained friends. Truthfully I was hoping for the light to come on, and about four months later it seemed to. 3 months before the pandemic hit. Things were fine for a year and a half or so and then gradually the light went off. I tried desperately to get it to turn back on, but 2 months ago she left. Now I wonder how my life would be different if I'd respected myself enough to move on instead of waiting. Truthfully the worst pain comes when you watch the light go off and there's nothing you can do about it.

[@theincomparablemess]

Can I just say I discovered your channel by chance and it's one of the best things that could've happened to me now? Been going through some emotionally challenging stuff and your videos are so calming to me. And some of the topics are relevant as well. Thank you for your work, have an amazing day

[@LuckyTods]

Hey Joey, thanks for this video. I guess I really needed to hear some of this.

[@dijarindh38]

I didn't know about this theory before untill now after watching. Thankyou Joey

[@Rose-xd1oo]

loved this just as much as the others!!🥰

[@joeykidney]

Glad you liked it!!

[@GrandMasterMex]

This really healed me thanks brother (:

[@AmelieRoger]

Thank you so much Joey. Such an insightful and beautiful way of framing this tricky part of life. By listening to you I realized how my light was probably off or only flickering some 6 months ago when I was in a relationship (the second one after a neglectful/abusive relationship of 8 years) I broke up with a very special man because of this. Because he deserves a big yes with a big green light. But the question is now ... when does the light finally turn on...

[@mirandaalexis]

I like the at least you're not stuck in traffic point

[@oliviaowens0525]

Perfectly said old friend 😁

[@themiamilife]

This made me think about my current situation 😢

[@AndiSchmidt-n8m]

Joey thank you for explaining 🙏 where I understand.. I think I've wasted my heart on a man that takes advantage 😢

[@nooorlangen1909]

My light was off and now its slowly turning on. Do I contact that person again?

[@jeyml8914]

Go for it. And if it doesn't work, at least you tried.

[@chellotrevino7323]

This dude is the sweetest softest dude on KZbin Waddup lil Canadian 😂 u out your feelings yet ? Hope so

[@snicholson8884]

I read this as, "The reason they won't COMMIT you." As in, 5150. 😂 i was hopeful if only for a moment.

[@chellotrevino7323]

There’s nun funny about that , if u can’t be serious get off the channel

[@Unidentified_UnknownUser]

I feel like God led me here...I guess my "light" isn't on...heartbreak really changes your life :/

[@casetheace1]

Glad you shared this. But could have been a two minute vid, you repeated yourself over and over.

[@Gspook19]

I have been there a lot of times, after my last breakup over a year ago i havent had anyone to date, or just hang out with