The Only Thing Men Respect In a Woman (SHOCKING!)

[@shonacampbell2001]

Respect yourself and keep you boundaries

[@AHealersP.O.V]

💯 simple

[@m.o.s.h.1836]

absolutely correct 👍 Respect begets respect

[@rushellleonardo7345]

I did all,I became feminine but still cheating on me,just be yourself and love yourself,speak when they show no respect because no one will love yourself except you.

[@Metamorphosis2.0]

💯

[@Nasrumii]

💯% don’t change who you authentically are to appease anybody. Be yourself.

[@Nasrumii]

Unless you’re being blatantly damaging then…you might wanna check yourself lmao!

[@thegabbiedoll]

@12brownbeautywhen someone cheats it’s because they don’t respect you actually. It’s the opposite, man or woman.

[@LaLabutterfly]

Feminine not synonymous with doormat/stupid

[@heiditugers]

True! When you don’t give a damn and treat men like they treat women you will have them chasing you. You can’t fake it though. You really have to not care.

[@Apocalyptiseptical]

And if u genuinely don’t care it’s not attractive anymore

[@n0426]

“This attraction to hyper masculine men will naturally go away by you asserting and becoming the person you want to be with. So rather than you develop your assertive energy you rather become attracted to people who are hyper assertive. Because it makes up for YOUR lack of assertiveness. So you got to find someone who not only has some assertiveness but has enough to make up for your own!! Develop your own assertiveness! This is so true. Because I stayed celibate in my early years of life I became more confident in myself and i am a narcissist repellent!! Ladies don’t be scared of being assertive. It doesn’t mean you are less feminine. For the right healthy man it actually means you are healthy and happy because you know your worth and what you want!! But for a narcissist it’s a massive injury because they want someone to puppet around.

[@gjinkalla23]

💯

[@noanoa8991]

I needed to hear this! Men on social media are trying to make women feel bad about their masculinity, but I believe these are weak men. I would love a video on this topic father Alex!

[@CupcakeChan2611]

This I was just about to.comment the way woman get put down for being masculine.

[@catspyjamas7944]

I think this is why men seem to love those of us who can banter with them. They can’t get enough of it. It’s because it gives femininity an edge.

[@esmeraldarodriguez8385]

😂😂 exactly!! I can banter with a few guys at work and when they throw a joke, I sometimes act mad and they automatically go into feminine apologetic and then I just laugh and they start laughing and feel they can be comfortable around me!! But, they truly respect me, when I'm assertive in problematic situations !!

[@unwrittenbylj]

Oooh, that makes sense! He enjoys and likes the feminine of a woman, but ‘respects’ her masculine! 🤯👏🏾👌🏾

[@Anelewx3gl]

I think its also the same for women. We're attracted to the masculinity in a man but respects those who accept their feminine side too

[@Lilfairyxo]

@@Anelewx3gldefinitely. it makes for a well rounded person.

[@Lorrv]

This makes a lot of sense

[@hiddenname9809]

lol

[@amandanxala2580]

Sprinkle Sprinkle 😂❤

[@Greekalittle]

😂

[@InezPavion]

😂😂🎉🎉

[@iwantcrystals]

Right! 😂

[@amandayouksee1724]

Lol i swear everyone knoe this sprinkle sprinkle lady

[@amandanxala2580]

@@amandayouksee1724 it's because they may hate her all year long but they know she's telling the truth.

[@arivera268]

My favorite example of this feminine/masculine balance is Joan Harris fictional character from the "Mad Men" TV show. She had this Marilyn Monroe curves and feminine aura but when it came down to business or when she felt disrespected she was a different person. She would turn serious or "masculine" and she was not to be played with.

[@wandathomas8962]

I totally agree with this message. I am feminine, but I can be masculine when I need to be.

[@Fortheluvofgem]

I think we should all strive to be the best most BALANCED versions of ourselves and all love ourselves so we are not relying on anyone to feel whole again

[@hgbgakdflndbz6921]

Loved it! I used to be more masculine (and more toxic 🤣) and I just instinctively knew how to f*** with men. Now I've reeled it in, but there's a new masculine trait I've picked up, which is non-reactivity. Holding the power of not giving into people's BS and acting petty, is not toxic but still effectively masculine

[@softlife45]

If you did you wouldn't be talking about it , wouldn't have a fake profile pic and two subscribers. Stop lying to urself boo.

[@softlife45]

I highly doubt it , you have two followers and no profile pic. That's a self esteem issue

[@M2NT4]

@@softlife45orrr get this, she’s not a KZbinr & has a real life 😃

[@softlife45]

@M2NT4 you have no subscribers and no profile pic . That's called an insecurity, low self esteem and no friends learn to love yourself.

[@softlife45]

@M2NT4 Alex has a life w/many followers and a profile pic. You have no subscribers and no profile pic like her. That's a sign of insecurity and low self esteem.

[@Candacerosequartz]

With all the messaging about how you have to be feminine all the time I really appreciated this message. Balance is key.

[@haitiqueen0119]

There's truth to his points; in my experience, I am treated with a great deal of respect the moment I've embraced my masculine energy. When i showed my soft side from before, I was taken for granted. Totally resonates with me his points.

[@Rella_sky]

Ages 18-21 I was operating mainly out of my feminine energy and fell into a lot of manipulative connections because I was too soft/naive/submissive/and meek. I thought this was me being my "authentic self" thanks to all of the spiritual practice and self-work I was doing. It wasn't until I finally started doing for myself instead of for others and got out of that people pleasing role when I finally stepped into my more masculine side. Now I am struggling a bit with having an overactive masculine energy or "wounded masculine", I believe it's called. At this point, it became a means of survival for me so I find myself being more controlling instead of flexible, having perfectionism in most areas of my life, being hyper-independent and having a hard time allowing myself to receive help, also not allowing myself to just "be" like I used to. I am trying to find balance within, but I appreciate the message of this video, since I tend to feel shameful for not being a real "girly girl" and operating more in my masculine. I have some insecurity that men won't want to court me because of how much I am in my masc energy, or that I'll end up attracting a more feminine man which I don't actually want.

[@ListenTuShelly96]

I Relate to this so much.. it’s so weird how this works because when I was younger and in my masculine I had tons of male friends, I was fearless, I was a tomboy, was super competitive n outgoing. Then I went to private Christian academies that forced us to be more “lady-like” and I started falling into abusive relationships with guys that had no respect for me. Even some of my guy friends turned on me n started treating me like a bimbo smh… I appreciate the softness I’ve found in myself but like he said, I’m defenseless and vulnerable if I discard my masculine side.

[@spicy-peach]

I am so happy that you shared "girls sacrifice their assertiveness and boys sacrifice their empathy" while discussing how little boys seem or come off as "more emotional" and little girls try to learn/change/alter their environment. Watching this first hand for years, in and out of my family and personal circle, I can agree with this 10000%

[@Andreapresseralbo]

Unbelievable! I am exactly like this, Brazilian born arrived here USA at 5 yrs old, NJ , must I say anymore, my backbone is of steel now. I had a fantastic father mechanical engineer, I can fix a lot , men are super attracted to me everywhere I go they bow , haha , now I know why, thank you for the enlightenment. You are a breath of fresh air to talk about this , no one else mentions here on utube.. God Bless you.

[@softlife45]

This was real i see too many of these chics that are dating gurus that give advice to be super girly. It just seems annoying . Ive always been a tomboy growing up, look feminine but i played sports, had pet reptiles and sports car. This was on point alex great advice because if you dont have the balance how will you relate to the opposite sex to form a relationship outside of just attraction? BUT...😂 YES BUT Lets be real, men are never satisfied. They will find some way to blame the woman for being too masculine, too feminine, or call her imbalanced if she has both

[@crisscross333]

I 100% agree, I admit that I've a rather masculine energy, I guess that's why I've always had more male friends than female friends but at the same time that tempts men to compete with me, I have even had male enemies for this reason.

[@XiangXiang90]

Story of my life

[@Ambika5364]

Excellent. Robert Greene has also written about this in Laws of Human Nature.

[@ginamarciano]

Thankyou 🙏💛

[@homebody61]

Yes, he talked about the “dandy” in that book

[@merladyneptune3908]

Finally! Among the sea of advice adking us to be hyper feminine, the Truth is out there! Feminine+Masculine Edge=Dark Feminine ❤❤❤

[@Sweet_Hart]

This is a good video. I haven’t heard many men saying this lately. Although I think it’s true. I played d-1 volleyball and am a lawyer. Men seem to like to talk to me about these subjects, but they are still very accommodating, open doors, want to treat me nicely at the same time. :)

[@Solov_d444]

This was Golden! ❤

[@ladyfxllc]

"Ditsy bitsy, freaking, butterfly flying, teletubby walking, feminine energy." 😂😂😂 I need this on a T-shirt, Sir. With the words, "Father Alex told me not to have," or maybe just, "not found here." Hahahaha

[@pmgumeebear]

😊

[@oyinemaria1940]

😂😂😂

[@softlife45]

🤣🤣🤣 that had me rolling

[@emilylambert8106]

😂😂😂

[@lee-f1611]

All 101 watching hit like button, Alex is so awesome and knows his stuff

[@louisaatkinson4828]

I love to use this in my dress code. Mixing army fatigue with pearls. Men love it.

[@DontDooTooMuch]

😍😍

[@Lala.Tarot.Oracle]

Thank you 😇 Background music is wonderful too

[@inettawalker9387]

Sounds like a Zelda lullaby ❤

[@PrettyGirlRock1115]

Makes sense why I attract lots of people I feel like I have a good balance of feminine and masculine energy

[@empressastv6977]

This makes alot of sense..Balance ⚖️

[@blackkitty1111]

Alex, you are gold dude. Thanks for your advice

[@royalecalingo9653]

This is great Father Alex. I like how you have grown and improved your videos. ❤

[@brn2stndout412]

I love the enthusiasm when you’re talking about certain things… The verbiage and authenticity is refreshing. Stay REAL! Very informative videos, great insight - thank you!

[@alessia02starlight]

I love how your content is so much more than just dating, and how it taps into psychology so we can become better.

[@GTNAAT]

Wow… amazing. ❤ Thank you so much. 🙏🏼✨

[@amaliaesposito3942]

I'm always impressed by dalexis, He really grasps complicated subjects and articulates it in a way that is clear and understandable. I love how he has a genuine passion for these subjects and a drive for knowledge here and is sharing the fruit of that work =) I've learned alot and I enjoy it. I used to not like his teachings at all cause it conflicted so hard with who I was back then, But then I grew and this way of thinking has improved my quality of life immensely. I care so much more about respect, about myself, about being balanced and happy. It is liberating. Thank you

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Father Alex, reading your comment: 😊🤔🤨😳😀😁

[@amaliaesposito3942]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 here's mine 👀🤯😱🧐😂🤭🫢🤨...😌

[@Summerhaven97]

Reading my diary, sweetie. I have definitely chosen controlling people because I was taught to not care about my needs or be my own person. I never knew I had that right, and absolute RESPONSIBILITY to own my space and make this world a better place.

[@Xianne027]

This was really insightful, Alex! I like how your content is evolving. I'm getting more and more out of it. You're keeping me hooked (except when you wave that silly stick around 😉)

[@onelove8118]

Lord, bless this man in this video. With abundance of love, happiness and peace of mind every single day of his waking life. Thank you

[@PrettySereneTV]

Nice Alex has topped another level

[@Yiriyiri]

My ex didn’t like that I showed my masculine side😅

[@caem3603]

Same sis. Same.

[@ms.donald5032]

What she said ☝️

[@ehmypeace]

Same here😂

[@tialynn1111]

What happened? What did he do/show?

[@Fortheluvofgem]

Prolly cuz they want to control you 💀

[@Hs000_00]

Hi Alex, thanks for the great video. Why is your hair looking like a Japanese manga anime character ?

[@ExoticalT369]

You’re talking right, good sir. ♥️👏

[@auroramelissa8457]

Not the sprinkle sprinkle reference 😂

[@jasmine24K]

you’re 100% correct sir.

[@nanorubio2820]

Mind blowing analysis. Damn.

[@carolechaney2830]

Me in all my power and being myself is strong and feminine at the same time. I just be myself, I can't put on an act

[@Risehigh477]

Hey , thanxxx ❤

[@soothingglass]

So true,so right, thankyou

[@pranathik5780]

U r great Alex ❤

[@DailydoseofCats08]

Thank you sir alex, this is enlightening❤

[@bluebirdie7241]

This is masterful stuff, great teaching, great video. Thank you Alex❤❤

[@sabihakassamia]

Hey I must say your videos are very insightful.... But at times there are some roadblocks I wish I would know how to manoeuvre

[@rebekahjette6304]

This 💯 true about men being more emotional and having the world come down on them and cause men to become angry because they have no healthy outlets.🙏🏼

[@CeciledeLuire]

*Love* this one! Very good

[@pearlsb45wine]

Truly wise words, young man 🙌💫 much respect 🙏

[@609Georgiana]

You are the bomb skillet. Thank you

[@cocomocha]

Smh I’m naturally a terminator woman😭

[@sybylxmedia]

Lmaooo me too terminators unite

[@n0426]

Lol. To the grave.

[@softlife45]

Then why are you hear? Ppl who have to outwardly claim something truly aren't what they claim to be. You're hear for advice because men are terminators to u

[@nicolesnow7]

You realllly get it, and understand gender a natural human behavior like no other Awesome! Thank you for. confirming something I always wondered about. Nice

[@beluga8283]

😂 butterflies 🦋 and teletubbies I feel outed 😅

[@serolf.h]

GAAAAAYYY😂

[@sarahbanana1554]

I also think you would love the work of Dr Helen Fisher. She has a lot of interesting to say about love.

[@namastea]

Men and women need to balance both energies, its that simple

[@SarahWeber]

Lmaooo bob the baby calm the fuck down 😂😂

[@cielnguyen1308]

Love this video ❤ Thank you

[@vanessac1965]

Alot of great insights here

[@Stoneylo]

Not Bob the baby 😂

[@fromkimwithlove]

In another video it was "Bob the B!tch" 💀🤣

[@Nordicasian]

Always so accurate

[@AHealersP.O.V]

Balance is key 🔑

[@makeishainniss2440]

I love the music in the background

[@edmarielafontaine3683]

Same! I Shazam it and get no results.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

It's Shiraz by action Bronson

[@Jenishabadoo]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0I recognize it from the Royal tenenbaums

[@esmeramsay8179]

I’ve got way too much masculinity naturally , I have to fight myself to get any feminine out - i realized this so late at 51, I can see men have always been attracted to this side - always told I look very ‘cool’ - nothing wrong with that - but no man has ever looked after me due to this. Meanwhile all of my feminine friends have a provider man who protects her 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@TaKyraMoonlight]

I used to be into men who had a lot of toxic masculinity, like aggressive even but then I got into weight lifting as a hobby and my type is a lot more balanced now. I’m still very feminine lol but I used to try to do the whole damsel in distress thing when having to lift something heavy but now I’m the opposite, watch me lift this like it’s nothing, I bet you didn’t expect it. It’s great.

[@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching]

Yeah I look at men that play with the weights in the gym. My competitive side comes out. Most men do not like that side of me. 😅

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

[@tomachibald]

its always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me.i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@liliarohmann8707]

A los latinos les encanta que las mujeres seamos medias mandonas 😂

[@WHaAteVaA]

one of your best videos

[@karolinah12]

You are the baddest of all coach

[@ascensionvaldes1412]

❤I completely agree❤❤I like your style❤❤

[@Bebesands]

This was such a good video! There’s so much information on how to carry ourselves as a woman. I’ve heard wearing more dresses and be feminine for a man to respect you but now it seems men want a woman with edge and a bit manly lol so what is it?

[@zainabalhashmi617]

This guy should have millions of subscribers

[@ketherwhale6126]

Wow you’re actually saying what I think. And the opposite of what all these dating gurus say. That men want this coquettish, feeble, sweet and weak chicks to appeal to a man. Thanks, because I don’t want to be nothing anymore.

[@Spirit-Survival365]

my love life crazy right now, but these videos help!

[@cathrinesinna4889]

Anima & Animus shadows and personas , thank you father Alex ❤

[@janiezegers19]

“Ditzy bitzy butterfly flying teletubby walking feminine energy”. Don’t attack me Dalexis lmao

[@oyinemaria1940]

Thanks

[@jonescherow1396]

A little "Sprinkle Sprinkle"👌🤩😊

[@mariecruze259]

My peace is not a debate I lov my life 😊🎉

[@WakeUpLing]

Thanks.

[@oddinaustin]

Masculinity is what makes the man view you as an equal, and you can actually develop a friendship along with the rest.

[@melvisgumbo]

I've sajd it to myself one day ....man respect man not woman.

[@annmarieknapp]

They can respect us leaving the building. Am 4B.

[@triads333]

What is the difference of masculine side or her dark feminine side?

[@majdafaddoul4127]

❤😊❤ I like !

[@Lzz639]

I love your personality lol

[@pinkbailey7829]

Coming from a soft and feminine woman this is good good!

[@theresakamara2692]

I argued with my boyfriend every time we have issues I always switch to my masculine side and he is so in love with me ladies be yourself try to behave just like normal pple behave

[@softlife45]

Perfect example is nicki minaj. Men respect her .

[@tissanyx1167]

No they don’t…. That’s why she had to marry….. nvm

[@rahmasamir909]

They dont she is a low standard and vulgaire

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

🙄

[@MinnieBlues4444]

I'm a brutal Red Dead player. I don't hide my masculine side. 😂

[@mermaidtales4009]

I've always operated outta more Masculine energy for my career .. in love, I've clashed with Hyper-Masc men.. These same men didn't make me feel safe ... to actually drop back into my fem energy.. Hope yr nose gets better😉❤

[@iziz5691]

SPRINKLE SPRINKLE

[@luh2762]

Lmfao..I don't want any terminators out there time traveling and fucking up shit ....but just a little sprinkle

[@thelaziestbee]

It's a paradox, the mother of all real truths

[@Seraphim7]

A True masculine man likes a feminine woman. I think the terms are being a bit mixed up here. Femininity isn’t weak…, it’s our Power.🌸 It’s our Gift 🎁 ✨ Feminity is Having Boundaries + Not Allowing Disrespect. Blessings💫 Jesus Loves you 🕊️🤍