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@rushellleonardo7345Ай бұрын
I did all,I became feminine but still cheating on me,just be yourself and love yourself,speak when they show no respect because no one will love yourself except you.
@MJordangame6Ай бұрын
💯
@12brownbeautyАй бұрын
A man can respect you and still cheat.
@NasrumiiАй бұрын
💯% don’t change who you authentically are to appease anybody. Be yourself.
@@12brownbeautywhen someone cheats it’s because they don’t respect you actually. It’s the opposite, man or woman.
@shonacampbell2001Ай бұрын
Respect yourself and keep you boundaries
@Beautifultome1221Ай бұрын
💯 simple
@m.o.s.h.183624 күн бұрын
absolutely correct 👍 Respect begets respect
@heiditugersАй бұрын
True! When you don’t give a damn and treat men like they treat women you will have them chasing you. You can’t fake it though. You really have to not care.
@Apocalyptiseptical10 күн бұрын
And if u genuinely don’t care it’s not attractive anymore
@n0426Ай бұрын
“This attraction to hyper masculine men will naturally go away by you asserting and becoming the person you want to be with. So rather than you develop your assertive energy you rather become attracted to people who are hyper assertive. Because it makes up for YOUR lack of assertiveness. So you got to find someone who not only has some assertiveness but has enough to make up for your own!! Develop your own assertiveness! This is so true. Because I stayed celibate in my early years of life I became more confident in myself and i am a narcissist repellent!! Ladies don’t be scared of being assertive. It doesn’t mean you are less feminine. For the right healthy man it actually means you are healthy and happy because you know your worth and what you want!! But for a narcissist it’s a massive injury because they want someone to puppet around.
@gjinkalla2319 күн бұрын
💯
@catspyjamas7944Ай бұрын
I think this is why men seem to love those of us who can banter with them. They can’t get enough of it. It’s because it gives femininity an edge.
@esmeraldarodriguez8385Ай бұрын
😂😂 exactly!! I can banter with a few guys at work and when they throw a joke, I sometimes act mad and they automatically go into feminine apologetic and then I just laugh and they start laughing and feel they can be comfortable around me!! But, they truly respect me, when I'm assertive in problematic situations !!
@noanoa8991Ай бұрын
I needed to hear this! Men on social media are trying to make women feel bad about their masculinity, but I believe these are weak men. I would love a video on this topic father Alex!
@CupcakeChan261127 күн бұрын
This I was just about to.comment the way woman get put down for being masculine.
@unwrittenbyljАй бұрын
Oooh, that makes sense! He enjoys and likes the feminine of a woman, but ‘respects’ her masculine! 🤯👏🏾👌🏾
@Anelewx3glАй бұрын
I think its also the same for women. We're attracted to the masculinity in a man but respects those who accept their feminine side too
@LilfairyxoАй бұрын
@@Anelewx3gldefinitely. it makes for a well rounded person.
@Lorrv29 күн бұрын
This makes a lot of sense
@amandanxala2580Ай бұрын
Sprinkle Sprinkle 😂❤
@BravobravogrlАй бұрын
😂
@InezPavionАй бұрын
😂😂🎉🎉
@iwantcrystalsАй бұрын
Right! 😂
@amandayouksee172429 күн бұрын
Lol i swear everyone knoe this sprinkle sprinkle lady
@amandanxala258029 күн бұрын
@@amandayouksee1724 it's because they may hate her all year long but they know she's telling the truth.
@hgbgakdflndbz6921Ай бұрын
Loved it! I used to be more masculine (and more toxic 🤣) and I just instinctively knew how to f*** with men. Now I've reeled it in, but there's a new masculine trait I've picked up, which is non-reactivity. Holding the power of not giving into people's BS and acting petty, is not toxic but still effectively masculine
@softlife45Ай бұрын
If you did you wouldn't be talking about it , wouldn't have a fake profile pic and two subscribers. Stop lying to urself boo.
@softlife45Ай бұрын
I highly doubt it , you have two followers and no profile pic. That's a self esteem issue
@M2NT4Ай бұрын
@@softlife45orrr get this, she’s not a KZbinr & has a real life 😃
@softlife45Ай бұрын
@M2NT4 you have no subscribers and no profile pic . That's called an insecurity, low self esteem and no friends learn to love yourself.
@softlife45Ай бұрын
@M2NT4 Alex has a life w/many followers and a profile pic. You have no subscribers and no profile pic like her. That's a sign of insecurity and low self esteem.
@arivera268Ай бұрын
My favorite example of this feminine/masculine balance is Joan Harris fictional character from the "Mad Men" TV show. She had this Marilyn Monroe curves and feminine aura but when it came down to business or when she felt disrespected she was a different person. She would turn serious or "masculine" and she was not to be played with.
@wandathomas8962Ай бұрын
I totally agree with this message. I am feminine, but I can be masculine when I need to be.
@Rella_skyАй бұрын
Ages 18-21 I was operating mainly out of my feminine energy and fell into a lot of manipulative connections because I was too soft/naive/submissive/and meek. I thought this was me being my "authentic self" thanks to all of the spiritual practice and self-work I was doing. It wasn't until I finally started doing for myself instead of for others and got out of that people pleasing role when I finally stepped into my more masculine side. Now I am struggling a bit with having an overactive masculine energy or "wounded masculine", I believe it's called. At this point, it became a means of survival for me so I find myself being more controlling instead of flexible, having perfectionism in most areas of my life, being hyper-independent and having a hard time allowing myself to receive help, also not allowing myself to just "be" like I used to. I am trying to find balance within, but I appreciate the message of this video, since I tend to feel shameful for not being a real "girly girl" and operating more in my masculine. I have some insecurity that men won't want to court me because of how much I am in my masc energy, or that I'll end up attracting a more feminine man which I don't actually want.
@ListenTuShelly9627 күн бұрын
I Relate to this so much.. it’s so weird how this works because when I was younger and in my masculine I had tons of male friends, I was fearless, I was a tomboy, was super competitive n outgoing. Then I went to private Christian academies that forced us to be more “lady-like” and I started falling into abusive relationships with guys that had no respect for me. Even some of my guy friends turned on me n started treating me like a bimbo smh… I appreciate the softness I’ve found in myself but like he said, I’m defenseless and vulnerable if I discard my masculine side.
@Fortheluvofgem28 күн бұрын
I think we should all strive to be the best most BALANCED versions of ourselves and all love ourselves so we are not relying on anyone to feel whole again
@softlife45Ай бұрын
This was real i see too many of these chics that are dating gurus that give advice to be super girly. It just seems annoying . Ive always been a tomboy growing up, look feminine but i played sports, had pet reptiles and sports car. This was on point alex great advice because if you dont have the balance how will you relate to the opposite sex to form a relationship outside of just attraction? BUT...😂 YES BUT Lets be real, men are never satisfied. They will find some way to blame the woman for being too masculine, too feminine, or call her imbalanced if she has both
@PrettyGirlRock1115Ай бұрын
Makes sense why I attract lots of people I feel like I have a good balance of feminine and masculine energy
@AndreapresserschillerАй бұрын
Unbelievable! I am exactly like this, Brazilian born arrived here USA at 5 yrs old, NJ , must I say anymore, my backbone is of steel now. I had a fantastic father mechanical engineer, I can fix a lot , men are super attracted to me everywhere I go they bow , haha , now I know why, thank you for the enlightenment. You are a breath of fresh air to talk about this , no one else mentions here on utube.. God Bless you.
@haitiqueen011927 күн бұрын
There's truth to his points; in my experience, I am treated with a great deal of respect the moment I've embraced my masculine energy. When i showed my soft side from before, I was taken for granted. Totally resonates with me his points.
@louisaatkinson4828Ай бұрын
I love to use this in my dress code. Mixing army fatigue with pearls. Men love it.
@DontDooTooMuchАй бұрын
😍😍
@YiriyiriАй бұрын
My ex didn’t like that I showed my masculine side😅
@caem3603Ай бұрын
Same sis. Same.
@ms.donald5032Ай бұрын
What she said ☝️
@ehmypeaceАй бұрын
Same here😂
@tialynn1111Ай бұрын
What happened? What did he do/show?
@Fortheluvofgem28 күн бұрын
Prolly cuz they want to control you 💀
@ladyfxllcАй бұрын
"Ditsy bitsy, freaking, butterfly flying, teletubby walking, feminine energy." 😂😂😂 I need this on a T-shirt, Sir. With the words, "Father Alex told me not to have," or maybe just, "not found here." Hahahaha
@pmgumeebearАй бұрын
😊
@oyinemaria1940Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@softlife45Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 that had me rolling
@emilylambert8106Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@CandacerosequartzАй бұрын
With all the messaging about how you have to be feminine all the time I really appreciated this message. Balance is key.
@cocomochaАй бұрын
Smh I’m naturally a terminator woman😭
@sybylxmediaАй бұрын
Lmaooo me too terminators unite
@n0426Ай бұрын
Lol. To the grave.
@softlife45Ай бұрын
Then why are you hear? Ppl who have to outwardly claim something truly aren't what they claim to be. You're hear for advice because men are terminators to u
@merladyneptune3908Ай бұрын
Finally! Among the sea of advice adking us to be hyper feminine, the Truth is out there! Feminine+Masculine Edge=Dark Feminine ❤❤❤
@Cheetah195Ай бұрын
Excellent. Robert Greene has also written about this in Laws of Human Nature.
@ginamarcianoАй бұрын
Thankyou 🙏💛
@homebody6127 күн бұрын
Yes, he talked about the “dandy” in that book
@crisscross333Ай бұрын
I 100% agree, I admit that I've a rather masculine energy, I guess that's why I've always had more male friends than female friends but at the same time that tempts men to compete with me, I have even had male enemies for this reason.
@XiangXiang9024 күн бұрын
Story of my life
@Solov_d444Ай бұрын
This was Golden! ❤
@oddinaustin19 күн бұрын
Masculinity is what makes the man view you as an equal, and you can actually develop a friendship along with the rest.
@lee-f1611Ай бұрын
All 101 watching hit like button, Alex is so awesome and knows his stuff
@Xianne027Ай бұрын
This was really insightful, Alex! I like how your content is evolving. I'm getting more and more out of it. You're keeping me hooked (except when you wave that silly stick around 😉)
@royalecalingo9653Ай бұрын
This is great Father Alex. I like how you have grown and improved your videos. ❤
@Lala.IntuitiveАй бұрын
Thank you 😇 Background music is wonderful too
@inettawalker93876 күн бұрын
Sounds like a Zelda lullaby ❤
@cielnguyen1308Ай бұрын
Love this video ❤ Thank you
@bluebirdie7241Ай бұрын
This is masterful stuff, great teaching, great video. Thank you Alex❤❤
@CeciledeLuireАй бұрын
*Love* this one! Very good
@blackkitty1111Ай бұрын
Alex, you are gold dude. Thanks for your advice
@pranathik5780Ай бұрын
U r great Alex ❤
@609GeorgianaАй бұрын
You are the bomb skillet. Thank you
@Sweet_HartАй бұрын
This is a good video. I haven’t heard many men saying this lately. Although I think it’s true. I played d-1 volleyball and am a lawyer. Men seem to like to talk to me about these subjects, but they are still very accommodating, open doors, want to treat me nicely at the same time. :)
@alessia02starlightАй бұрын
I love how your content is so much more than just dating, and how it taps into psychology so we can become better.
@yourlovemattersАй бұрын
Nice Alex has topped another level
@pearlsb45wineАй бұрын
Truly wise words, young man 🙌💫 much respect 🙏
@erindewitt604924 күн бұрын
Reading my diary, sweetie. I have definitely chosen controlling people because I was taught to not care about my needs or be my own person. I never knew I had that right, and absolute RESPONSIBILITY to own my space and make this world a better place.
@onelove8118Ай бұрын
Lord, bless this man in this video. With abundance of love, happiness and peace of mind every single day of his waking life. Thank you
@carolechaney283029 күн бұрын
Me in all my power and being myself is strong and feminine at the same time. I just be myself, I can't put on an act
@vanessac196528 күн бұрын
Alot of great insights here
@WHaAteVaAАй бұрын
one of your best videos
@Risehigh47726 күн бұрын
Hey , thanxxx ❤
@edmarielafontaine3683Ай бұрын
Wonderful.
@ascensionvaldes141225 күн бұрын
❤I completely agree❤❤I like your style❤❤
@soothingglass26 күн бұрын
So true,so right, thankyou
@nanorubio28204 күн бұрын
Mind blowing analysis. Damn.
@TLW36926 күн бұрын
You’re talking right, good sir. ♥️👏
@jasmine24K28 күн бұрын
you’re 100% correct sir.
@jam20230Ай бұрын
Hi Alex, thanks for the great video. Why is your hair looking like a Japanese manga anime character ?
@brn2stndout41222 күн бұрын
I love the enthusiasm when you’re talking about certain things… The verbiage and authenticity is refreshing. Stay REAL! Very informative videos, great insight - thank you!
@amaliaesposito3942Ай бұрын
I'm always impressed by dalexis, He really grasps complicated subjects and articulates it in a way that is clear and understandable. I love how he has a genuine passion for these subjects and a drive for knowledge here and is sharing the fruit of that work =) I've learned alot and I enjoy it. I used to not like his teachings at all cause it conflicted so hard with who I was back then, But then I grew and this way of thinking has improved my quality of life immensely. I care so much more about respect, about myself, about being balanced and happy. It is liberating. Thank you
@MindfulAttraction2.0Ай бұрын
Father Alex, reading your comment: 😊🤔🤨😳😀😁
@amaliaesposito3942Ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 here's mine 👀🤯😱🧐😂🤭🫢🤨...😌
@spicy-peach10 күн бұрын
I am so happy that you shared "girls sacrifice their assertiveness and boys sacrifice their empathy" while discussing how little boys seem or come off as "more emotional" and little girls try to learn/change/alter their environment. Watching this first hand for years, in and out of my family and personal circle, I can agree with this 10000%
@senorita-qh6bmАй бұрын
I was very lucky to be raised in a household that didn’t instill society’s values but my own wellbeing instead and have never been afraid to connect to my masculine
@thatgirlyami332Ай бұрын
Same huge blessing
@zainabalhashmi6173 күн бұрын
This guy should have millions of subscribers
@oyinemaria1940Ай бұрын
Thanks
@MrsGoodbrainPresentsАй бұрын
Thanks.
@liliarohmann8707Ай бұрын
A los latinos les encanta que las mujeres seamos medias mandonas 😂
@rebekahjette6304Ай бұрын
This 💯 true about men being more emotional and having the world come down on them and cause men to become angry because they have no healthy outlets.🙏🏼
@auroramelissa8457Ай бұрын
Not the sprinkle sprinkle reference 😂
@namasteaАй бұрын
Men and women need to balance both energies, its that simple
@beluga8283Ай бұрын
😂 butterflies 🦋 and teletubbies I feel outed 😅
@serolf.hАй бұрын
GAAAAAYYY😂
@sabihakassamiaАй бұрын
Hey I must say your videos are very insightful.... But at times there are some roadblocks I wish I would know how to manoeuvre
@annmarieknapp24 күн бұрын
They can respect us leaving the building. Am 4B.
@mariecruze2597 күн бұрын
My peace is not a debate I lov my life 😊🎉
@Beautifultome1221Ай бұрын
Balance is key 🔑
@nicolesnow729 күн бұрын
You realllly get it, and understand gender a natural human behavior like no other Awesome! Thank you for. confirming something I always wondered about. Nice
@TaKyraDivineАй бұрын
I used to be into men who had a lot of toxic masculinity, like aggressive even but then I got into weight lifting as a hobby and my type is a lot more balanced now. I’m still very feminine lol but I used to try to do the whole damsel in distress thing when having to lift something heavy but now I’m the opposite, watch me lift this like it’s nothing, I bet you didn’t expect it. It’s great.
@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoachingАй бұрын
Yeah I look at men that play with the weights in the gym. My competitive side comes out. Most men do not like that side of me. 😅
@softlife45Ай бұрын
Perfect example is nicki minaj. Men respect her .
@tissanyx1167Ай бұрын
No they don’t…. That’s why she had to marry….. nvm
@rahmasamir90929 күн бұрын
They dont she is a low standard and vulgaire
@UrbanAlchemystic22 күн бұрын
🙄
@mariebaker3992Ай бұрын
This is me without trying. I should be on your show 🤣❤️
@alchemicalsoul26 күн бұрын
Human beings aren't either feminine or masculine, human men and women enact feminine AND masculine traits. It's energy. These are the labels we use for characteristics. This system needed us cut off from our faculties so it could control us.
@makeishainniss2440Ай бұрын
I love the music in the background
@edmarielafontaine3683Ай бұрын
Same! I Shazam it and get no results.
@MindfulAttraction2.0Ай бұрын
It's Shiraz by action Bronson
@jenimolloy6152Ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0I recognize it from the Royal tenenbaums
@sarahbanana1554Ай бұрын
I also think you would love the work of Dr Helen Fisher. She has a lot of interesting to say about love.
@Lzz639Ай бұрын
I love your personality lol
@jonescherow1396Ай бұрын
A little "Sprinkle Sprinkle"👌🤩😊
@cgo7777Ай бұрын
He is confusing femininity with being a doormat. Femininity is soft on the outside but boundaries are gridlocked and strong on the inside. Maybe he is associating the boundaries part with masculine energy. In that case, I can resonate with that.
@fuqua9823 күн бұрын
No confusion here.
@ROWDYMIDGETZАй бұрын
😂😂 terminators. I became one of those because I always attracted creeps but, I do yoga and Pilates to help me feel more feminine I call it my offense playbook lol
@MinnieBlues4444Ай бұрын
I'm a brutal Red Dead player. I don't hide my masculine side. 😂
@melvisgumboАй бұрын
I've sajd it to myself one day ....man respect man not woman.
@thelaziestbeeАй бұрын
It's a paradox, the mother of all real truths
@CucKim-yd9cyАй бұрын
gold
@ketherwhale612625 күн бұрын
Wow you’re actually saying what I think. And the opposite of what all these dating gurus say. That men want this coquettish, feeble, sweet and weak chicks to appeal to a man. Thanks, because I don’t want to be nothing anymore.
@queenyassgoddessgifts9418Ай бұрын
What is the difference of masculine side or her dark feminine side?
@UrbanAlchemystic22 күн бұрын
As a femme Divine Masculine this is a flex and confirmation for me. I noticed that women who are hyper feminine tend to have imaginary beef with me, never been kind but they always come to me for advice. These types are always in some soap opera about some dick. On the flipside to this beta males who secretly know that I carry the masculine energy better than I do, they don't like me either. They tend to have a snazzy sassy attitude towards me because they know they cant get the energy they are accustomed to. I trigger these types a lot. I balance both energies of feminity and masculinity. Have you said all of that, Why I have more of an attraction to hyper masculine men that can beat me to it and doesnt mind the challenge. My men have to be more masculine than me for it to work .I can't deal with males who have a lot of feminine energy and their Natal chart. I have more mask in the energy in my chart.Which means more fire and air than everything else. Good video! 👍🏾
@StoneyloАй бұрын
Not Bob the baby 😂
@fromkimwithloveАй бұрын
In another video it was "Bob the B!tch" 💀🤣
@pinkbailey7829Ай бұрын
Coming from a soft and feminine woman this is good good!
@mgoncalves5596Ай бұрын
Alex, can you talk about why guys treat you as an ego booster, please?
@softlife45Ай бұрын
Do you listen to anything Alex says? He's discussed this
@mgoncalves5596Ай бұрын
@@softlife45 I'm kinda new to the channel, so I may not have gotten to this part yet
@mermaidtales4009Ай бұрын
I've always operated outta more Masculine energy for my career .. in love, I've clashed with Hyper-Masc men.. These same men didn't make me feel safe ... to actually drop back into my fem energy.. Hope yr nose gets better😉❤
@jessicas.4552Ай бұрын
Absolutely
@theresakamara269224 күн бұрын
I argued with my boyfriend every time we have issues I always switch to my masculine side and he is so in love with me ladies be yourself try to behave just like normal pple behave
@AM-xe4iq3 күн бұрын
Just be yourself. Don’t worry about who likes you.
@Serendipity1398Ай бұрын
Appreciate U silly 🙃 💯🦾
@cre8trixGАй бұрын
first of all, luv the dread! and what you got an apartment now or what? Father Alex thriving
🔥In Yin and Yang concept ☯️ the femininity which is Yin will only be balanced if there's a small dot of Yang to it (vice versa). Too much Yin will make a women passive, doormat & reactive. But less yin and more Yang will make a woman look too independent, rigid and cold which makes men pull away because if a woman is too self-sufficient, then what men could offer then? What will be the role of men if women could do everything? Men these days are becoming not marriageable material for women because they can't provide enough. One should be able to balanced their masculine and feminine energy.