The Pandemic of Divorce | Khutbah by Ustadh Umar Muqaddam

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0:00 Introduction
0:37 Context
1:28 Men vs Women
2:15 Equality vs Justice
5:05 Islam & Divorce
7:37 The elephant in the room!
11:09 Statistics & History
14:50 'Loveless' marriage fallacy
17:29 The Pursuit of Happiness fallacy
18:35 4 societal destroyers of marriage
18:50 1) Influx of feminism
20:52 2) Social media & comparisons
22:25 3) Selfishness & Individualism
23:40 4) Weak mentality
25:35 5 points to raise children for successful marriages
30:10 Salah

[@bibikarim1506]

My brother in Deen, thank you for sharing what Allah has blessed you with, this knowledge is what the Ummah is in desperate need of…… may Allah unite the Ummah and forgive us our shortcomings. May Allah enter us into the Eternal Paradise, Ameen Allahuma Ameen.!!!!!🤲♥️🕋

[@AbutaymiyyahMJ]

May Allah bless u Ustaz Umar

[@soumailasesay]

Ameen

[@JohnDoe-ji6ye]

We would like you ustad to address this issue as well. This feminism spreads into our houses and mosques and imams and administration adopts this feminism and proudly speak about it.

[@jeenadjo1238]

I hate divorce! I hate it with all my heart. I grew with a divorced mother. My mom did her best but it was hard growing up without a father. My father was absudive, alcoholic and a cheater. I grew up not knowing what it means to have a man in your life or how to treat a man. I actually grew up fearing men and having a negative outlook on them. The default was to become too socially aware from an an early age, too independent, mistrustful of people and pretty much a loner. I'm still single at the age of 32 and I fear settling down and getting married. This is the result of broken families and absuive parents.

[@shirleyasraf64]

Salaam alaikoem Don't be afraid to get married. My parents divorced after 25 years of mariage. I am married now for 40 years. In mariage you always learn to give and take. Every day. Because you have gone through the divorce of your parents does not mean that your distany is the same. Your heart is now close to meat a partner, just close your eyes and open it , let your heart speek and open your self for the rigth partner. May Allah SubhanW Ta'ala opens many beautifull doors for you in your life. Assalaam-alaikoem ❤❤❤

[@addisachannel169]

thank for sharing his is blaming women but now how men abusive to women

[@JohnDoe-ji6ye]

It leaves a mess in your head and creates more complications. I agree with you. Especially if the mother decides to marry again.

[@DawaKalsumMulayi-ni8tl]

May Allah bless you brother in this Dunia and the akhira.

[@fatimamohammed9295]

Great opportunity to mash the brakes! Save your marriage! Step back and stepback. This kutbah is remarkable! While a gen0cide is occuring of peoples in the world, another is occuring - death of marriage, families, May Allah continue to inspire brother to advise us aameen.

[@medwho959]

Eye opener lecture!! May Allah reward you abundantly.

[@filippodrammeh3903]

Masha Allah ❤️ ❤️

[@majestic6303]

I predicted that during COVID pandemic marriages will be tested and I swear so many been broken.

[@AdoraFabro-rl4uk]

Beautiful kutbah thank you sheik Allah keep you safe ameen

[@emranuddin3687]

Very good khutbah

[@mohamadrilaf707]

In the name of almighty l love to listen to your khuthbah my Bro, may Allah bless you more Knowledge. Alhamdulillah, my son also conducting jum ah sermon in our country language language sinhala,

[@jocelynburrell445]

The Quran mention this is a guidance for those who fear Allah ( Trangression ,)against the laws sent to Humanity)and believe in the Books sent before The Torah the Injeel and the last revealation to all of Humanity

[@naturallyaishaj]

Do you realize the main difference of why women chose to stay in horrible marriages in the past was because women couldn't support themselves. Now, women can support themselves. So are you saying that the statistics only show women are leaving for happiness only or now women can afford to leave and couldn't in the 70s

[@starsighting7167]

the divorce statistics are still way to high. The more divorce increases in a community it breaks down society as a whole with broken families. Its a sign we have to make healtheir choices and not rush into marriage. Divorce is for extreme cases and the last option

[@addisachannel169]

it's men fault not women stop manipulating women be grow men this it doesn't fixe anything women suffer for the c century know now they can move on because if they are independent

[@jocelynburrell445]

Knowledge of Islam back , or a Mercy given from those who forefathers was bont warned

[@allykhan8594]

Since the State law and not the Shara law is enforce, i would encourage marry nikkah only. The kufr system, the deciever system is taking over. Those who are too attach to the dunya yoiur eyes can see how they ehave.

[@jocelynburrell445]

Clear , read sacrifice our behaviors from world veiw,taught behavior and Parents tribe or learnt behavior,

[@jocelynburrell445]

You can under stand the wisdom how Allah dealt with those before the Aadd Thamud. Nuh Pharoes, a duty for man S-2: S-3_.Men took the devine worship S-72-

[@banirahman4926]

Why will a woman want to get a divorce unless the husband is abusing her in some way?

[@jocelynburrell445]

A S A so far none can deny what he has said

[@jocelynburrell445]

Even pre-marriagr a greeme t based on The Quran Contract

[@starsighting7167]

Yea its becoming wayy to much

[@addisachannel169]

not true I'm women I want be independent don't lie