The Pink Pill | pt.2 Ft Casiah West

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[@NaijaAmericana]

As a social worker and case manager, we often engage in what's called active listening. It's really a skill that is taught and learned and has to be practiced. What she's doing is called interruption and can often cause a convo to deteriorate. If she wants to agree or show that she's invested in the convo, she needs to learn active listening.

[@adrianwhitten4343]

Ummm... no.. It's called interjection! *talk to the hand* 🤣🤣🤣 Apologies, I'm just being a smart ass as I just finished the 12min section of Aba and Preach sarcastically imitating this behaviour.. best wishes, just acting the fool..

[@SIPEROTH]

I can listen fine but i have a problem just sitting there looking at the other and listening. I am gonna start doing something while listening if it is something that needs more than a minute or two to say and that makes the other feel like am not listening while i am listening just fine.

[@adrianwhitten4343]

@SIPEROTH that seems like a you problem.. and maybe you need a moment to reflect, re-adjust, and move forwards on that type of circumstance.. someone feels like they need a moment to speak their thoughts.. and you have a problem hearing them out? Yeah, that's a you problem..

[@SIPEROTH]

@@adrianwhitten4343 How is it my problem? I am hearing them out. I am just not doing it while staring them in the eyes and maybe using the time better by doing something else as well.

[@d2dar459]

​@@SIPEROTH U do know u don't *have* to just blankly stare them out while listening, don't u? Lol. U can nod to show ur following what their saying or just take ur eyes away from them for a split second or something.

[@InsanelyIrish]

A Buddhist spending 12k a month on rent is the most unbuddhist thing I've ever heard

[@lestwins8114]

It's like muslims who are Ufc/mma fighters

[@LogicTechno1]

I don’t know how anyone pays that. Why not just buy a property at that point? 12k a month is crazy to me. I barely see that in a year

[@Maelthorn1337]

Like our favorite champagne socialist, Hamas Piker.

[@mgancarzjr]

​@@Maelthorn1337sometimes, low hanging fruit like that is juicy and delicious.

[@MichieHoward]

Huh.. what... they just making Buddha proud!

[@ThatKidTony]

I can tell she's one of those who thinks that because of the lifestyle she lives she must be intelligent.

[@pheenobarbidoll2016]

This is what happens when your brain doesn't get the nutrients it needs from animal fat and protein.

[@celeste3100]

She’s a grifter and she’s banking on these pathetic women.

[@manuelanthony7256]

Meanwhile her carbon footprint is just as much a problem

[@GuessWhatHappened1]

😂

[@manifest2203]

Not really. She had some valid points.

[@ChaiLatte64]

Husband: "This is not real fur , we're vegan." *-immediately cuts to pair of genuine leather boots* Wife: "These are my favorite 😍"

[@clankfish]

how do you know they are real leather?

[@ChaiLatte64]

@@clankfish well, I'm really just using context clues. I see a lot of red bottoms in there , which would imply they are Christian Louboutins. If they are indeed real Louboutins , then I can say with 100% assurity that they are genuine leather.

[@TamTam9-15]

I can’t these type of people are actually hilarious

[@adim00lah]

@@ChaiLatte64 Facts, Louboutins don't come in vegan leather.

[@SuperDG333]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Bjorn_R]

Gotta say its impressive how she delivers that much word vomit with this much confidence. I bet she has a black belt in gaslighting.

[@Zwird]

Eh her advice was pretty straight forward. At least she's not a baby mama to a man barley involved with 10 kids and has something going for herself.

[@tonym1810]

I disagree. Her advice is based on her version of “science”. She’s full of s#!t.

[@andresf.3472]

@@Zwirdwhat advice you are talking about? All she does is throw up “smart” words so she sounds interesting. Bhuddist my ass

[@memsysr]

​@@Zwirdexplain to us what was she on about the quantum shit.

[@d3fqon_bl4ck]

@@Zwird she used "potentially and literally" word after word in the same sentence and you're like she's giving straight forward advice, lol.

[@hondissimod9188]

Has that painting always been there in the room, that shit is 🔥

[@AbaNPreach]

We hired one of our fans whos an artist. She makes amazing work, her name on IG is @dorispringle

[@oxide9717]

LFG doris

[@tonykim5069]

Doris FTW

[@theezenriarinze9203]

​@@AbaNPreachWhat was the brand of the jacket you wore in your last video Aba? It was 🔥

[@athens1005]

@@AbaNPreach I really like it aswell, shout out to the real artists

[@taipan8021]

She actually defined, 'Talking much, while Making No Sense '. These are the Monsters that social media can create

[@mctbaggins2084]

Biggest pet peeve for me is when I am talking to someone and I can actually see in their eyes that they aren't taking what I am saying into their brains, just waiting to say what THEY want to say even if it's not entirely in the line the conversation was going. Hot damn

[@kathyp1563]

I don't see how this pet peeve is gender specific, as the woman on the video supposes. As a woman, I really don't like being interrupted either. Although, as a wife, I realized that "now" may not be the proper time.

[@Antisatan7771]

@@kathyp1563Nah women often are the ones doing it though

[@willdegra317]

That’s called every conversation I’ve had with a liberal post 2016

[@caleighhraee]

I used to be like that in high school. Half listening just to rebut. It’s a terrible thing to do to yourself. I learned to actively listen and take what the other person says to see if what I’m going to say back even matters. People are just not mature for their age and it’s gross. I know an 11 year old who’s more emotionally intelligent than most grown ups. It comes down to respect and controlling your emotions. If I’m mad about something that is no one else’s problem but mine

[@MrTmax74]

Yep, I like to cut those conversations short

[@paulkaehn6203]

I dated a girl who used to constantly pull up recordings of our conversations (I didn't know at the time she was recording) to try to prove to me that I was acting a certain way, when the recordings themselves didn't even back up what she was claiming. My life has improved dramatically since I got that restraining order.

[@lilgreen561]

How do you pull up receipts and still lose.

[@lonewaer]

Honestly the recordings will benefit you as a man. She still might be crazy, but records, they're objective, they're not trying to twist things like your girl will be doing. Like you said, they didn't back up what she was claiming. I'm gonna guess that they backed what you were saying instead. Here's essentially why you benefit from them as a man : you don't hallucinate things during an argument, she does. Any recording will support you, because you live in reality, even if you get mad, and she lives not in reality but in her emotions. You're not trying to make her say things she didn't say, she's trying to do that. The record brings back what has been actually said. Personally, past text histories have saved my sanity when I was dating a crazy.

[@Zwird]

@@lonewaer Who's to say there isn't more to to the story. Nobody goes around recording convos unless they feel the need to prove a point. If I started gaslighting my boyfriend or kept making promises I can't keep and he started recording our convos I wouldn't even be mad 💀.

[@Zwird]

This is the most based thing I've read on Yt. When you cant gaslight her because she recorded the Convo 💀. I think there should be cameras everywhere like china, less crime, less people lying, and less people getting away with stuff.

[@idkjackman4418]

🤣 I usually want to record my conversations to prove what the woman was saying or implying.. but either way, if possible, stay away from them or dont even engage in that manner.

[@Kjenthegoat]

🤣 she reminds me of those people who say a whole lot of nothing, but articulate it so well that it sounds like something.

[@AEric7]

Politician

[@Tony-mw-533]

@@AEric7 exactly😂😂

[@kennethsmith6367]

Except it still sounds like BS

[@TheAlwaysPrepared]

A lot of bullshit

[@veriveryluvr]

“we don’t murder animals” “fake fur though because we’re vegan” “this is where all the vegan cooking happens” bruh 😭

[@user-tx6lz7pm3y]

Im vegetarian, not vegan . I like leather jackets it just looks good . But I don't like eating meat it gives me an extremely repulsive feeling. Well i don't care when others eat it, all my friends are heavy meat eaters and i constantly eat with them .

[@adamjohn2795]

@@user-tx6lz7pm3ymeat is yum

[@khanshiranyor3974]

@@user-tx6lz7pm3y I don't eat meat either. Been a vegetarian since birth. And I still have multiple friends who eat meat regularly. Never once had a fight with them over this shit.

[@crystaleunoia3974]

They're pushing that shit so hard like it's a cover. I wouldn't be surprised if they're secretly cannibals 😂

[@LimblessAnt]

​@@khanshiranyor3974 If you dont mind me asking, is that due to a medical thing or is it just the lifestyle you were born into?

[@veronica-mew]

There is definitely a difference between active listening and interjecting, but it's a fine line. Listening to someone and nodding every so often, adding a "mm-hmm" or "yeah" now and again, adding some relavent/clarifying questions like "so this was in the office?" or "she said this to him?", etc. are good ways to show that you are actively invested in the conversation and what the person is talking about. However, adding commentary while someone is in the middle of making a point/statement or derailing the conversation to a slightly different topic when the person isn't done isn't active listening. At the end of the day, it really depends on who you're talking to and what the conversation is about. Sometimes it's good to stay as silent as possible if someone is talking about something personal or serious and other times it can be okay or welcome to add your own commentary when talking about something exciting or less serious. Good communicators can learn the difference and when to do either.

[@talyahr3302]

Red Pill: Men mansplaining how all women work. 🙄 Pink Pill: Women womensplaining how all men work. 🙄 Normal People: ... Just vibin with each other on a personal level and working out issues on a case by case basis ✨️

[@altaccounti6520]

Pure facts right here, all this pill shit is getting outta hand

[@Cynophileandavianenthusiast]

Well said.

[@browndapoet]

Straight up

[@ohyeah4003]

Normal people do not use the terms mansplaining or womansplaining, so don't lump yourself in with us.

[@mafamac4069]

​@@ohyeah4003She's part of the buzz words community 😂

[@RELAXcowboy]

"Potentially literally" 10% of the time she is right every time.

[@pennyproud1621]

Smh

[@hippoafrojagger1392]

I'm glad I wasn't the only one to catch that lol.

[@derickwatson3881]

I've been married for 22 years......my wife still interrupts me LOL. They never stop and never will; you just have to tell them sometimes "my turn to talk and please be quiet"

[@caleighhraee]

Yuuuup I still interrupt my husband but he gives me a look of “could I please just finish what I’m saying” and then I say sorry and shut up lol. I talk so much it’s only fair he gets a word in every now and then haha

[@pedrovpa1]

"Man can't see or find things in the house because you MOVE THEM" My Man is right on the money here! Everytime I get used to where my mom put anything, is already somewhere else... FOR NO REASON JUST BECAUSE SHE FELT LIKE IT FRICK

[@anna8968]

Ppl don’t realize how much “peace” they naturally have when they don’t have to worry about bills and basically live in luxury. Take ALL of it away and see how zen you still are 😂

[@mac1bc]

Correct

[@DejiiJones_]

Are you single 👀

[@easy8077]

I guess that's why money and power show the true self - rich people don't have to worry about the daily struggle by such a degree, that they can afford to show their true self and don't have to face any consequences... Actually wise people will be just as wise when poor as they are when rich. These people here became rich and suddenly they are vegan buddhist, lol

[@Maxibo234]

I wish i could watch ot unfold lol

[@ItsBabaEro]

I literally blurted out laughing when she brought out the quantum physics 😭

[@10onit]

She's right tho 😂

[@olivermatos4889]

Quantum physics was actually a psychological study before it became physics - source : my non existent degree and lack of intelligence

[@igobyplane]

quantum mechanics - physics field for describing behavior at the size of atoms or below. quantum physics - pseudoscience nonsense peddled by idiots who couldn't pass high school science.

[@Trevelan]

@spakrwk are you joking? Because no she isn’t right

[@fetB]

@@10onit elaborate

[@eppsislike]

She masters the art of saying a lot without explaining anything.

[@MrTchupam]

Yeah… women now are intelectuals, men would be just mansplaining.

[@geargrinder7714]

As for the vision thing, I heard from a professor once that men's eyes evolved to pick up on movement because they were out hunting all day. women's eyes evolved more for object location because they were taking care of the house and putting everything in order

[@user-ri5ex9xl9e]

Yeah this woman had some vapid takes, but I think it's disingenuous to say that there aren't communication differences between the sexes. She was mostly saying don't get mad a your male partner because they sometimes think and communicate differently---which is actually pretty solid advice even if the woo woo stuff is a little over the top. They were dragging her pretty hard in this video.

[@beingme._.eilonwy4571]

@@user-ri5ex9xl9eI disagree. I think the way we communicate is different, but that doesn’t make one way wrong or less adequate. It’s just different.

[@autumnmusic22]

​@user-ri5ex9xl9e do you think it's a nature thing or is it more of a nurture thing when it comes to communication? People are vastly different and thus, so are their communication styles. Has nothing to do with sex but more so, the way they were raised, and maybe the way they were raised according to their gender.

[@user-ri5ex9xl9e]

@@beingme._.eilonwy4571 But that's what I'm saying as well, I just said they are different not bad or good. In fact that's also what the spiritual lady is saying as well, her advice is to accept these differences, try to understand them, and have generous interpretations of the difference---she literally said don't get mad at men for how they communicate. So I'm unsure why people are mad at her as if she was being mean to men when she was actually being really defensive of them.

[@user-ri5ex9xl9e]

@@autumnmusic22 I think everyone is an individual, but when you are a woman or a man you go through life that way and are raised in that context. So I'm not sure how much of the differences are due to something biological, or how much of it is that through centuries of having one set of expectations for one gender and another set for the other. Through how we're raised and how people around us teach us how to be when we are developing socially, different patterns of behavior emerge. I think that this is not a blanket statement for all men and women but if you take a sample size you'll see certain patterns emerge. Neither is inferior, and it's likely a survival mechanism in our species to have differences in the sexes. Any given person might have a mix of traits but when you look at the larger group you'll see patterns of thought processes emerge.

[@DoUbLeH9]

When I heard her say "we can be quantum entangled with our future selves" I paused and went OOOKAAY that's enough, I got the memo 😂😂😂

[@orielsy]

If this were true we'd be able to see the future.

[@mac1bc]

Exactly. She can have these convos with herself. I'm out

[@decepticon8000]

She 1upped Jada 😂😂😂

[@briarmason8737]

​@@orielsy"I CAN SEE THE FUTURE!" -This woman

[@real_rsaNoob13]

I forgot what Quantum entanglement was but this lady had me creating new Quantum physics equations to prove she was talking nonsense Jk lol

[@PomsNTomsMom92]

The older I get, the more I appreciate having my father as my father. If I didn't grow up respecting him I definitely would have had a harder time in this life as a young woman.

[@Zwird]

I appreciate that my father never sugar coated about this world and men's intentions, life doesn't play out like a Disney movie and people need to make their daughters aware of the negative out there because they will learn and resent men.

[@miah6781]

same, he was a strict man who taught me to respect, sit, listen then argue

[@PomsNTomsMom92]

💯

[@virginiashynes5295]

💯👏🏽👏🏽May my Dad rest in peace , the daddy’s girls that get it get it !

[@manueladasilva8492]

Take you to burger king out of love or force you to eat those veggies. Which one would God recognize more

[@CaulkMongler]

People have different communication styles. Some conversations are very dynamic and “interruptions” are common both ways, sometimes I’ll get in a state where the conversation bounces back and forth and zingers are gonna be dropped left and right, but the main point is we both feel heard, we both feel like we can “take the mic” to get a point across at any point. Some people don’t like being interrupted at all and prefer a more ordered structure. It’s all valid, but we gotta let the other person know. If we’re just finding reasons to be bitter, that’s a bigger issue than simple interruptions during conversations.

[@dayit6260]

That is how I feel! I have been blown up on for saying something as simple as "yeah, okay" to agree with someone in a what I thought was supposed to be a conversation, but it made them mad. They never before communicated that it was not okay to ever say "yeah, okay" in agreement or that it bothered them. I am a person who regularly does that in conversations with people to stay invested and show I am listening. So when I got yelled at about it, I am just baffled. Why could that not have been communicated before? He just held in his irritation that I did that until it festered? Weird. It could have been as simple as mentioning that it was a bother. Also, the person I had this issue with commonly spoke in the same manner when I was talking now that I think about it, which means he is a hypocrite. You can not ban someone from doing what you do when everyone involved is an adult. No one is anyone's child or anything like that. That makes it a control issue to me. It is even worse now that I remember conversations where he said "yeah" in agreement to me. Just a total hypocrite. I've written this a few times in response to people, and every single time I write it, it is no less true than when I first wrote it.

[@olayanjuakanni1791]

Whoever your editor is I love them and how they are able to capture your interactions. Love the video and the vibes always. Bless Peaches & Cream!!

[@tiredbylife.5589]

I am going to need the people to start following the chill pill movement, because y'all got to chill AND start being normal human being with common sense who work on themselves to be good partners in relationship while also having some self-confidence, self-esteem and self-happiness...

[@celeste3100]

The OG Pill Movement

[@tiredbylife.5589]

​@celeste3100 the only pill movement that ever mattered

[@tovlonia1594]

😂😂

[@mafamac4069]

Nah Gonna have to choose Red Pill Or The Pink Pill Reality Or Delusion It Is What it Is Or Should Or Could You Gonna Have to choose you might delay it but inevitably you will have choose

[@carlospthedon]

@@mafamac4069please tell me u being sarcastic

[@awesomeness24158]

Still questioning to this day why we give so much credence to blatant sociopaths. The plethora of terrible advice held up in the modern world is quite disturbing.

[@willdegra317]

Most people are sheeple. Sociopaths and psychopaths have behavior that is appealing to sheeple.

[@leviswranglers2813]

It's designed to push critical thinking people away and drawing in those who have a difficult time thinking logically. We are all bombard with this stuff constantly and it works on all of us to an extent. For example if anyone that has purchased an item that they wasn't on their list or if they've picked up a candy bar or something while standing in line. Pretty much every we interact with has some of this deceptive marketing associated with it. It's fascinating to me how invasive deceptive marketing is in our societies, and it is absolutely everywhere.

[@donnafreeman1571]

Exactly 💯

[@shershersher]

because life’s a mystery that everyone tries to figure out and navigate by themselves and they find answers that are right for them. and some people are just so lost and confused that they’re willing to listen to people like that just for the comfort of knowledge

[@caleighhraee]

I like hearing bad ideas from these nut jobs so I know what red flags to see in others lmao

[@JeffBobb-yu5hd]

Him: Did you chea- This woman: I didn't 'cheat', I had some quantum entanglements 💅 In all fairness, I feel like dudes not being able to find things is sometimes a real things. My mom's ability to find things in the drawer I thought I checked twice has been crazy for as long as I remember.

[@beewest5704]

My mom gets triggered by anyone looking for something. She will start searching for you then moan abt you not being able to find something & how she is supposed to know where everything is. Mam I did not ask you to help me. 😂😂😂

[@caleighhraee]

I used to be baffled by my mom’s ability to find shit. Now I’m married and I have absorbed my moms powers 😂 but I learned it’s because I’m the one who organizes everything and moves shit around so that’s the secret tbh hahaha

[@L-M-O-1]

Men don't ever seem to know where anything is. They catch a case of temporary blindness to the item they're searching for lmao. I could tell him exactly where something is, which side of the drawer, under which items, etc; he'll go into the exact location, look exactly where I told him it was & (in front of me) not be able to see it. Start asking me where I moved it to, what happened to it, it's not there, etc. I go to the exact location he JUST searched & pull out the item in half a second. He will proclaim it was NOT there just 2 seconds after he looked & moved all the things & Start asking me where the hell did I find it. Exactly where I said it was & exactly where you looked for it. Lmmfao

[@WedDy-lx4kw]

Again this is just a generalisation, everyone is different. I grew up in a family of 4, mom, dad, sister and myself(male). I’m the only one in the house that’s good at finding things/not losing them. I can’t keep track the amount of times I’ve found things for my mother and sister when they’ve been adamant that they’ve checked every area only for me to find it in less than 1 minute later, while my family members can count on one hand accumulatively how many times they’ve found something of mine that I couldn’t find myself. It’s not a gender specific thing, everyone has their own personality, quirks, good qualities and flaws.

[@JB_46]

Love that video. Bringing back that good old fun vibe while spitting facts 😂 nice dynamics between the two of you

[@daveblackman816]

This pill stuff is just so goofy lol. I can’t be believe people actually follow any of it.

[@AliFrostinho]

Fr bro, star signs for men

[@tracym8952]

Yessir. They're not even useful as quick hand metaphors

[@mathieul4303]

It has some merit

[@369ZIR]

It depends where you get you message from. Redpill is filled with mostly hypocrites, traumatised men, men with no real experience and cucks! 😂😂😂 Bunch of clowns. It’s the young men that are suffering.

[@wh3elson]

I think so many people resonate with it, because it makes sense!

[@SauceBause]

When preach said "because you moved it" I felt that 😂

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

lol guys who live alone don't lose stuff in the house because they know where they put it

[@mathewjones5294]

@@Aaron-kj8dvit’s a guy thing to keep key items in one or two spots. All my roommates done it

[@WhatTheFWAFA14]

Thank you for keeping us grounded and entertained. One of the only normal KZbinrs 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ryrez4478]

This one had me rollin 🔥

[@jontaejohnson5194]

$12,000 for an apartment? Bruh I'm buying a house. Screw that noise.

[@TheDeadlyBlueWolf]

Pretty sure they said he makes 12K a month selling books.

[@heroinmom153]

​@@TheDeadlyBlueWolf That's irrelevant to OP's point.

[@j0fiz986]

It’s not. She’s doing this fake it till you make it thing on social media. She has a fale podcast where she has Tik tok snippets with what looks like her being on a podcast but no, it’s just herself and a phone on a tripod. The “house tour” was a set up. It’s just an airbnb. Notice how it’s not lived in at all. Even people on mtv cribs used to do this. Shes renting it for a few days for the purpose of making that content. Even the painting she claimed to have made is a print of Gunter wenzel.

[@JadedeaJade]

Yeah I had to learn to not interrupt, and not make a lot of movements because I've seen it appears as if I'm patronizing, mocking, rude, or not taking him seriously. I had to watch guys interacting with other guys to get a gist of how to interact, and then making it more feminine. Has helped a lot.

[@CaulkMongler]

Definitely that, when someone has come to me to vent before they won’t give me context that they just want to vent. And then when I try to come up with solutions it’s all “I don’t want you to solve my issues, I want you to just listen!” Like my bad, you didn’t make the assignment clear beforehand?

[@feliciab5019]

Precisely. I’m noticing that I’m behaving in that way so I’m working hard to be mindful of this so I break such habits.

[@Antek_S]

Men don't tolerate other men interrupting us. It's annoying. Who would want to live with an annoying woman who interrupts you all the time? Interrupting or "interjecting" someone literally means you don't give a shit about what that person has to say. This yuppie-ass White girl in the video is just trying to justify her shitty behaviour with mental gymnastics.

[@caleighhraee]

Yeah men have a harder time communicating their feelings, not every man obviously, just on a general basis. Interrupting my husband just shuts him down so I actively try not to when we’re having a heated conversation. I also don’t assume what he’s going to say or how he feels about something just because I know him so well. Whenever we argue we sit at the kitchen table across from each other and hold hands. If I feel like I want to raise my voice, I don’t, I just say “I’m angry about that and want to yell, but I don’t want to do that” so we just pause. We also never swear at each other or call each other names whenever we’re in the thick of it. It’s all about controlling your emotions which is very difficult for me but I’ve gotten light years better at it since we developed this system of communicating. And we barely do this, it’s like maybe twice a year that we have those serious talks at the table. It’s also easier for my husband to write things down so sometimes he just grabs a notebook and we communicate like that. It sounds weird but it works for us

[@caleighhraee]

@@CaulkMonglermy mom and I fought a lot when I was in high school because she didn’t understand that I just wanted to vent. It’s hard for her to turn off the parenting advice mode so we started saying to each other if we just wanted to vent or if we wanted advice. And we get loud and animated when we talk but we always assure each other “I’m not mad at you I’m just mad in general and letting it out” that way we don’t get mad at each other when we’re heated

[@podcast2116]

Were all being polarized, its a lot more stimulating to be frustrated at a topic and a group of people and relating to others similar frustration than realizing that in real life there is a middle ground when it comes to relationships n other related stuff, its all jus content for us to pick a side and interact, who wins? The content creators like this lady😂 love aba n preach

[@adrianwhitten4343]

11:00 😂😂😂 that sarcastic rant between Aba and Preach was absolute comedy gold! 🤣🤣🤣 that made my day.. been watching your content for 3 years now and this is one of my favourite clips already.. cheers lads, can't wait for you to come to Perth, Australia some day..

[@commanderwaddles3483]

That shit was genius 😂

[@mattfrosty8775]

Watching people assert their feelings or pseudo-science as fact & other people just eat it up has to be top 5 pet peeves of all time.

[@Antek_S]

"GOOP" 😂

[@juicejuicy]

She is actually right that women have better peripheral vision. It's scientifically proven. Women also perceive colors better

[@modus18]

@@juicejuicy OK? That's not why men can't find things when living with their partner. Her using that to justify a stupid domestic disagreement men and women have IS pseudo science. There is no evidence that slightly inferior peripheral vision is the reason men can't find things that their partners constantly move around.

[@ollyollyoxenfree1337]

My guy always tries to finish my sentences, because he thinks he knows what im going to say but hes usually wrong. I just tell him to finish the conversation with himself since he knows what will be said.

[@10onit]

Female Chad 😂

[@ayochayce8185]

Ok that I can understand!!

[@3hristopher]

She said put cameras in every room 😂 that sounds like crazy people chatter

[@Ivkovifi]

10:28 The eye thing is true but not to this extent. Hunters have a very slightly different vision than gatherers. Men in general can spot a moving deer better than picking the right berries. It's a near vs far thing. And color vs movement. But the differences are minimal all in all

[@jonahpatton8879]

Nailed it.

[@YourGodAresps5]

Why are most of these unmarried people speaking on relationships

[@OperationLove2000]

It's not even that, their advice isn't the advice they would give their freinds, just like the agents Andrew T, Sneako, F 'n' F, Pearl and all the other pinkpill podcasts they are there to push an agenda of dividing the genders. It's a Jewish thing... it's weird 🤢

[@NavarreSkyyeRocks]

I thought the same thing about Kevin Samuels

[@SupernovaX72]

I’ve never been murdered but I can have an opinion on murder.

[@SeeHang]

because they believe coaching is a real career right next to influencers

[@alaysiab]

That’s pretty much all of TikTok

[@nikosspyris]

"Be silent or let your words be worth more than silence"- Pythagoras (I think) A quote she could really use

[@semarasco]

I swear this video just changed my relationship life. I totally understood what the woman/women were saying and you guys gave me such a different perspective. I seriously LOVE videos like this. When you guys were fake “arguing” it sounded exactly what my man & I sound like when we argue. Apparently I owe him an apology😅

[@commanderwaddles3483]

WE LOVE A SELF-AWARE LADY!! Hope y'all are doin better now

[@branatma5442]

I need to show my husband the time stamp 2:56. This had me rolling! 😂🤣😭 she’s something special! I would suggest she explores attachment theories to better understand herself and her spouse.

[@Welcome28487]

I been married 13 years I remember when the “red pill” was more for advice and information. Seems like ever dating apps came on the scene everyone got jaded and bitter and want to figure out a way to manipulate a partner or to just purely hate on the other gender. Let the loser soak in the hate. Some of them will grow up and mature and some won’t. Life goes on.

[@10onit]

Pearl clutching.. Seems like people expect women to endure while Andrew Tate and fresh and fit have spoken down on women and gain a following. With time and certain actions comes a reaction. Pink pill has more substance because they speak about more than dating and things we see on the news that could generally help women keep safe. I don't think we can tell women to "choose better" but when there's advice right there for them to choose better now people are pearl clutching.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@@10onit If you think Red Pill is all about Andrew Tate and F&F then you don't really get it at all. Pink Pill is just as toxic as Red Pill, and one big problem with it is that (from what I've seen) it still gives women terrible dating advice.

[@vinceee_r]

@@10onit they dont have substance at all. Incel beliefs never had substance. Thats why youre single and bitter while the rest of us are in relationships. Thats why you hide behind a sock account with no pfp

[@allenellsworth5799]

Nah the internet has just reveled how garbage many people are. In my opinion. Same reason some people think the world is more dangerous now because they have so much more access to information

[@michaelwaninger3155]

It really started in the 80's as a byproduct of feminism. When women were told over and over men were bad. Women were perfect. The biggest difference now I that women come right out and say it on the internet for everyone to hear.

[@eyeofodin01]

9:48 has a fellow married man. Preach is absolutely correct! Women move stuff all the time! Every single one of my friends who are married or live with their girlfriends goes through this! None of us had problems living on our own finding things because we put things in the same spot every single time. They'll put something back in a different spot without noticing, or they'll try to "organize" The space without communicating they did so and talking about what they changed. I know it's that way with my wife. And even after all these years, it drives me UP A WALL.

[@10onit]

Women move it to it's designated place instead of having it everywhere and scattered.

[@eyeofodin01]

@@10onit lol. The problem is that the "designated place" changes every few days...

[@John-Doe-Yo]

​@@eyeofodin01I witnessed that constantly growing up 😂 my mom would constantly reorganize things and then go "ugh, men" when my dad would ask where something was. Lol after a certain amount of times it feels like it was on purpose to mess with him or make it seem like she's needed.

[@simonwinn8757]

One time my mom dropped by, I had to pop out to get some milk and I kid you not, she rearranged some of my living room.

[@MissSimone02]

For me, it's that I will organize stuff and try to put everything in a single space, tell my partner and then he forgets so I'm constantly reminding him where things go. They haven't moved since, he just forgets.

[@onekoolfella]

This hits home for me because there's a woman I was seeing who was a paralegal that dealt with litigation cases and that's all she did was interrupt. She stated that was part of the culture at the workplace, if you didn't have something quick and snappy to say you were thought of as weak. *sigh*

[@zackneely8968]

17:30 she basically just said let your women be ignorant 😩. Sorry can’t do it, I can’t have a dumb dumb be my #1!

[@reservationatdorsias3215]

Man sometimes I love this goofy red/pink-pill stuff.

[@Autism_Obama]

It's fucking hilarious 😂😂😂

[@hiroshi7025]

Thanos' cocktail of mental health issues.

[@TheOnlyTaps]

​@@hiroshi7025😂💯

[@thehighone3175]

need white and black pills

[@KingRayn]

So hilarious😂

[@xxSweetySaraxx]

You know what makes me laugh/eye roll in this video, is the fact that the guy states the fur is fake because they are vegan and then the video cuts to her favourite shoes - Louboutin shoes are made from leather 😅 and there’s a whole range in that closet. Correct me if I’m wrong but that’s not vegan

[@TR13400]

He asks if there are food restrictions and she says "yea we don't murder animals" as if the average person is slaughting a goat in the back yard every night for dinner lol

[@xxSweetySaraxx]

@@TR13400 oh yeah 🙄😂

[@HiddenHandMedia]

Vegans are nauseating with their self righteous attitude

[@princedumebijonathan5193]

Yoooo😂😂 Preach was on fire in this video, Preach is preaching. Everyword hit home for me from you

[@K3V1N005]

I love the pink floyd in the background as she talks

[@amberbrehaut7045]

When my bf has a bad day or is stressed he will vent to me. He just needs to get it out, so I let him talk as long as he needs.Hes not looking for input. When he wants input he will always ask. Sometimes we just need to be good listeners! Just like we like them to be for us.

[@vinceee_r]

That is something my girl and I do for each other. Sometimes people just need to vent.

[@SlashRfnR]

I love how these 2 dudes play off each other. Always entertaining.

[@3DXJ]

Almost crash my truck when I heard him say “it’s because they move it” hahaha this is pure facts!!!

[@ThorlovesAyana]

15:17 im dying watching both of you guys and the lady speaking absolute bs on quantum entanglement lmfao

[@jasonandrews1770]

Genuine question: if women are so empathetic why cant they learn to listen and understand their partner rather than blame them as if its a one sided communication issue?

[@terracannon876]

Rather than empathy, I think women are sensitive to emotions and social cues. Whether they take it well (empathy) or take it poorly (over sensitivity) is up to their personality.

[@KingRayn]

A question we will never get the answer to😭

[@ButterflyyyXoxo]

Sounds like you attract what you are.

[@jasonandrews1770]

@@terracannon876 i like that. Its a more nuanced way to put it. Of course people are going to jump you for calling women sensitive

[@Mr_megido]

@@terracannon876yeah that’s it they are just more aware of these things but just cause you are aware does not mean you are gonna take it well

[@NeoN-PeoN]

Most men CAN read the non-verbal ques she's talking about. The reason why men won't act on those ques is because those non-verbal ques do NOT count as consent. Men are held to a much, MUCH higher standard of behavior. Women can be downright immature in their behavior and they won't get looked at as though they are behaving poorly. If a man does that, he can easily be accused of being, literally, a CRIMINAL.

[@kiasmith1569]

Literally good damn content

[@mikem32415]

For Me (ADHD) if you interrupt me frequently, then it's likely I'm going to forget the whole reason I started the sentence. So that can be really frustrating

[@streetside2833]

Just a side note, theres a lot of podcasts set up like hers that only make clips to go viral on Tik Tok to promo their other socials like IG and Onlyfans. Notice how you rarely see her speaking to somebody else even though shes acting like shes talking to someone or if there is somebody else in the room they give generic responses or font say anything at all. They buy a camera, a mic, a couch and farm clips that create engagement.

[@JPKelly-xr7tr]

This!

[@10onit]

Good there should be and why would they promote their OF to an audience of women that is less likely to buy it? You could have made anything else up but you went for that 😂

[@streetside2833]

@@10onit If they're talking about *MEN* and creating rage bait content aimed *TOWARDS MEN* who do you expect to see it, react/interact with it and share the content THE MOST. Are you actually slow? Do you not know how the internet works? Why do you think OF models keep going to redpill podcasts? Because they have a humiliation kinhk? No it's because the audience and anybody who sees any viral clip generated from that podcast goes to their socials and sihmps over them later. OF models even started doing fake street interviews like the redpill guys asking them relationship questions. I don't even know if this woman does have an OF, I just said that's one of the reasons people do content like this.

[@sugarzblossom8168]

​@@10onitwell the men who watch tp get angry especially on the opposite side the red pill can pretend to get angry and if she actually does have an OF they can click if not more views

[@j0fiz986]

Exactly, it’s all fake. She’s given the podcast “style” but she’s just by herself. She’s also not married. She also doesn’t live in that apartment, it’s an airbnb rental and the painting inside it that she claimed to have made is a gunter wenzel print. She is phony as hell

[@WolfamongSheep626]

I finally realize just how ridiculous the red-pill sounds a lot of times.

[@mcevan1222]

for real, im glad i took the red pill dont get me wrong, but i have strayed away since then to a now better understanding of different pills as well 😂

[@tootingcarmoon532]

I took what I needed from the red-pill philosophy and moved on.

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

*pink

[@NL-fg6it]

Almost all of the time. Even more ridiculous when they don't even follow their own advice. Some lost and bitter men on that scene.

[@andresrodriguez3708]

@@tootingcarmoon532 Exactly, "eat the meat and spit out the bone", meaning distinguish the good teaching from the bad teaching and hold onto what's good while discarding what's bad, that should be in every life lesson right there.

[@erowry22]

I like watching yall tbh

[@austin8151]

"because you move them" SOOO True Preach XD

[@hotdot10]

I'm a woman & I tried my best to listen & understand what she was saying...... it was a tough listen 😂😂😂 what aba said made total sense 👍

[@10onit]

It wasn't all that hard to get.

[@vinceee_r]

@@10onit it is with normal people who arent incels.

[@10onit]

@@vinceee_r I see you under EVERY comment section ranting about women even if it has nothing to do with women. What does that make you. She clearly has a partner.

[@antg2183]

⁠@@10onitBut you have been in every comment thread too? So how you gone be judgmental when you obviously have sexist views towards men?

[@melindaroop1346]

Her voice threw me off. She is boring...I lost interest, quickly

[@dakhariiballard9661]

by definition, a interjection is literally an interruption. I have no idea why she's trying to differentiate them

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

Yeah I didn't get that either, it's like saying "I'm not TALKING to you, I'm SPEAKING to you" lol

[@benja303]

Sounds a lot like "mansplaining" 😂

[@Zwird]

he's not a king. there's many reasons someone would interrupt another person.

[@dakhariiballard9661]

@@Zwird that’s not the point of the comment though so…

[@dakhariiballard9661]

@@benja303 if dictionary definitions are “mansplaining” then I guess it is 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@Reikoikura]

The faces when she mentioned quantum 😂😂

[@BasedPoliwhirl]

Its so funny that she would suggest that men are somehow not adapted to being aware of their surroundings and of objects around them. My experience is the exact opposite. Literally every morning, my girlfriend has to rush around the apartment looking for stuff, her keys, her bus pass, her phone, her bag, her wallet. Preach wasn't even that far off, my stuff is always left exactly in its place, and I can always find it easily.

[@rkb4897]

It's just about respect. The mental gymnastics people do to justify their shortcomings and never reflect on themselves is mind-boggling.

[@jobiy1999]

Self awareness is dead. If you see a problem in someone else and your first thought is not "I am just as capable of contributing to that problem" then please record yourself. I need more Aba and Preach content 😂

[@SakuraAsranArt]

If someone else's behavior really infuriates you there's usually some kind of protection going on. At least that's my experience anyway.

[@vinceee_r]

@@SakuraAsranArtor its usually because they have seen that behavior before in other shitty people.

[@10onit]

Why would that be someones first thought? Rationalizing someone's actions is just gaslighting and blaming yourself for someone else's actions, people know what they're doing when they do it, so why would it fall on your shoulders.

[@jobiy1999]

@@10onit read my comment again. I'm not making any excuse for anyone's behavior here. I'm not rationalizing anything. If there is a short coming in someone's character or behavior (narcissism, always late, over weight, rude, everything these women are explaining about mens failures in the original video) then you have to realize that you could be that way too. There's a quote I love but I can't remember who said it: "You cannot be good until you recognize your own capacity for evil." Before you pass judgement on someone realize you're not so different from them.

[@ScagAteHer]

@@10onithe’s literally talking about empathy

[@jennamarie2481]

baaaahahahaha "they're vision hasn't evolved to see the whole picture" Okay girl, enough internet for you today

[@MrningStar_]

a good interjection makes my fuckin day idk bout yall but when i don’t have to finish what im saying and someone just gets it and adds on to it is fuckin great

[@anjalisesen449]

To be fair, this is how a girlfriend of mine caught her husband cheating on her with HOOKERS in THEIR BED! 🤮 And I vaguely remember some guy just recently caught his wife poisoning his coffee with a hidden camera so... if you have a real reason to, it doesn't hurt. If you're just a crazy insecure woman then that's a different story.

[@mafamac4069]

Actually Have Camaras installed is a good thing. Even The Red Pill Does Advocate for This because there's many women who start domestic Violence Towards Their Man but when the police come she's Turns Into a victim. When there's a Argument, Fight In The Household having evidence of who started it can help a lot of innocent men.

[@10onit]

They're selfish. She could have gotten all types of diseases from that.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

to have sex with hookers is disgusting and good reason for divorce but in their bed? that's so disgusting and repulsive and almost feels like how a dog shits on the carpet when he's mad at you. It feels personal.

[@richardgibson2158]

Don't fuck crazy.

[@willcresson8776]

That's the whole thing, though. They had damn good reason to be suspicious. If you're just inherently suspicious of your partner just because you don't trust them, you need to take some time to yourself and get some professional help.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

This is the type of woman that dates your best friend and you beg him to dump her because shes so awful but he stays because shes wild in bed and she ends up leaving him as a dried out husk of who he used to be while she's just moved on to her next victim. She definitely starts fights then when you talk back she goes "why are you screaming at me?" Lol I'm so triggered because ive seen this type of woman so many times in my life and they all have the same mannerisms and communication style.

[@10onit]

I don't think so. I think these type of women are the ones that can easily detach and move on if it disturbs their peace in more ways than one. That's kinda of the whole point of this advice, they don't want to deal with the same thing a lot of women endure when it comes to dating with men.

[@sunnyday4055]

@@10onit No she’s not. She’s 100 percent addicted to chaos.

[@BWolf00]

@@10onit "...ones that can easily detach and move on if it disturbs their peace in more ways than one." LOL...yep, will ignore anything that "disturbs" anything that doesn't support her POV...even facts. This is how we got to preferred pronouns, words are violence, "transwomen" are women, and no definition for what a woman is by a SCOTUS Justice.

[@arnitaxavier9446]

Man you're all so good a coming up with stories lol.

[@10onit]

@@sunnyday4055 Doubt it. Women like this take their own advice from what I've seen and tend to have options. Why be with a guy who's causing issues when your advising women against that.

[@aaronross6956]

that listen and talk and lash out quote is WILD!! HAHA

[@zmajoljupka]

Totally agree with you guys. Also as someone who's from Europe and worked hard their entire life the way money is distributed in the world is almost downright evil.

[@Waterpark201]

My husband and I have long conversations that usually go on for days (we're parents and don't want to have certain parts of discussions in front of the kids). We go back and forth like Aba was talking about. I thought that was normal. We come out of it understanding each other better and with a joint decision. He's better at communicating than me. I've learned how to communicate from him! This society of how women "talk" is a**-backwards

[@chocolatte522]

It's not specific to women. It's about emotional intelligence. I've had higher ups, men and women, in corporate constantly talk over me and interject. I've dated men who do so. I've got women in my family who constantly do this. It comes from a place of either exerting dominance or importance. Either case, it's meant to make the other speaker feel small and unimportant. Learning to how listen, knowing when to speak and how to speak, is a skill. It may just so happen that most women you know haven't had a need to learn.

[@Zwird]

You got a good one or you're too understanding. Most of them can't communicate.

[@dadistos4538]

I'm a guy and a lot of my male only co workers do it too, shits mad annoying. i don't feel like correcting them because a) they are grown adults and can mess up their own social situations by themselves, doesn't impact me, and b) they are older than me and should already know how to not be a knob. I am 23 btw.

[@mkat8505]

​​@@chocolatte522idk I think "excitement" is also a part of it. My girlfriends and I all talk like this depending on the *type* of conversation. If it's just a bs ideas conversation where we're more excited, we will all take turns jumping in. If we weren't finished with an important point, we will say as much. If it's more serious, we let the person speaking have the platform and won't speak up until they are done. The amount of time we intend to spend talking also seems to impact this. Usually in both cases, if we notice one group member hasn't had as much time to speak about their thoughts, we'll circle back to them and ask if they want to share anything.

[@Anotherguy1st]

Honestly I don't know how anyone came up with all this ish about body language or interpreting signals and crap. The best way to communicate with another person is just to ask them outright and be honest with each other. If you need clarification on something ask the person what they think or mean. If that isn't enough and you are still confused as to why their actions don't match what they said I feel like they are being deceptive and lying.

[@PomsNTomsMom92]

The older I get, the more I appreciate having my father as my father. If I didn't grow up respecting him I definitely would have had a harder time in this life as a young woman. Edit after receiving deflection in comments: I see a few of you took my comment in the wrong way. I feel bad for you. So judgmental and deflection shows. Good luck in life. 💋💋💋

[@manifest2203]

Ok pick me.

[@BVonBuescher]

You’re awesome

[@ceejayhaughton7360]

​@@manifest2203hurt much

[@ShowMeFaxxs]

⁠@@manifest2203Right. How dare she have a good father that she respects

[@phoenixjones7191]

​@@manifest2203you've got problems

[@brotherelf]

The explaining what a bar optic was as if it was magic got me.

[@vivianeborkholder2268]

Sounds like she's the type to make a scene, ask for a manager, etc. And her man has to back her up even tho she's definitely wrong.

[@theezenriarinze9203]

This is something else 😂😂😂😂. This is like a cop saying get out of the car but keep your hands on the steering wheel while giving me your license and registration 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mafamac4069]

shit, just imagining that makes my brain malfunction

[@theezenriarinze9203]

@@mafamac4069 exactly, that's literally what she's saying men can't do.

[@pingu6028]

tbf cops do say that

[@mafamac4069]

@@theezenriarinze9203That Example Put Things Into Perspective

[@Zwird]

What part sounds like that. She's real

[@LCP_452]

So we've had plenty of break-ins here at home. In response, we put up security cameras. Inside and out. I'm very happy with them since I am a homemaker and was home every time we had break-ins. All this to say, we still fight. 😂😂

[@ChelleSimon]

Right I’m like what do camera have to do with fighting. Further more, fighting is normal and honestly I think all couples need to have “fights sometimes.” Not like fist fights or anything lol but just normal disagreements. Then we get to make up 😏

[@caleighhraee]

Right like just live your life. If you’re arguing and someone suggests to check the cameras to catch someone in a lie is WILD

[@L-M-O-1]

😂😂😂

[@mpay503]

I always love what Chris Voss says in “Never Split the Difference”: “…There's one powerful way to quiet the voice in your head and the voice in their head at the same time: treat two schizophrenics with just one pill. Instead of prioritizing your argument-in fact, instead of doing any thinking at all in the early goings about what you're going to say-make your sole and all-encompassing focus the other person and what they have to say. “

[@LudwigVaanArthans]

Nah, imma talk, you can shut up, so hear me out, so, the Ancient Romans had this hyperfixation on buildin-....

[@mdiggler]

"Every sentence I say ends like a question??"

[@elusivemayfly7534]

One thing that has helped me communicate with my husband is to give him more time to answer a question or provide input I’ve asked for. This sounds obvious, but I used to think when people are quiet for a few beats, they might feel awkward about the topic or something, so I’d try to say something warm or funny. Now I just let the man think, lol. If it’s a little too quiet a little too long, he just wasn’t listening or trying to dodge a chore I’ve asked him to pick up 😂 I’m laughing at him a little here, but he is a wonderful husband, and I am grateful for him

[@adrianalexandrov7730]

From my experience, he's probably slow cause it takes time processing what you said into what you really wanted to ask. Being direct might help, when he'd get used to it.

[@10onit]

You gotta ask your guy to put up a chore. Come on. You have too much patience.

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

​​@@adrianalexandrov7730For some people the slowness isn't a translation issue but a slow processsing speed issue. My dad is dyslexic and I can't remember what it is called, but basically how he struggles to read and it takes more time and effort, he has the same thing with hearing speech. I also think such issues are massively undiagnosed (my dad struggled in school and childhood but didn't get diagnosed until adulthood after my sister was assessed). My mum is autistic and is very direct, I am too, so that definitely isn't the cause. (Of course it could be just putting another explination out there too.) My dad says he just needs a bit longer to get his cogs going!

[@VonRibbitt]

Then whye are you cheating if he is so great?

[@elusivemayfly7534]

@@VonRibbitt ??? I’m not cheating on him. What did I say that sounded that way?

[@samaelcastroson9645]

15:34 that there was a violation

[@yordanoskinfe879]

😂😂😂😂 this very funny video I watched even though I never seen this lady or heard she’s done crazy and you make me to analyze the broadcast. Thank you very much.

[@peanutbutterdijonnaisesandwich]

The Pink Floyd - “Great Gig In The Sky” playing in the background of the crystal lady’s video 😂 I can’t

[@eviltacos7227]

This is the EXACT problem I have with my s/o when all I tell her is "when I talk, you listen. And when you talk, I listen". But for some reason that has been so extremely hard to do that its been going on for the last 2 years of our on and off relationship. That amongst other things has brought me to my breaking point, constant arguments over trivial things that shouldn't even be a problem in a normal functioning relationship between 2 adults. There's alot of context missing and at this point ik I'm just ranting in a random comment section but I kinda need to. It's so hard for me to let go of things even if they are actively hurting me....

[@Christorment5]

Jordan Peterson said it best, once there’s contempt the relationship is gone. You want advice from a friend or from your dad?

[@eviltacos7227]

@@Christorment5 dad wasn't there so that may be what I need to hear, maybe it's the reason I allowed it to get this far bc I wasn't taught about how horrible some women can actually be, I was only shown and told what men do wrong.

[@theirishsaint4324]

I’ve seen people ask their spouse, do you want solutions or do you need to vent? And based on that proceeding with the dialogue. It sounds like there’s other things going on outside of just this.

[@MsKwesi]

I feel your frustration. I hope you find a resolution either in the relationship or on your own . 😔

[@RatetheDebate]

You mentioned arguments over trivial things that shouldn’t matter…don’t spend your life walking on eggshells. You can find someone who doesn’t react to every imperfection with anger, or you can continue on as you are, and just try to not burden yourself with the responsibility of their feelings.

[@ManLikeBetty]

Her approach is the definition of Gaslighting…

[@pinchman2946]

Bruh right? She really came out here and said "I'm not rude for interrupting you, you're rude for being mad I interrupted you." and thought she was cooking.

[@1Plebeian]

​@@pinchman2946😂

[@10onit]

She's right. Interrupting isn't always negative

[@ManLikeBetty]

Why is she assuming all Men can't multi-task, or that it's the only reason why they might find interrupting negative? It's a silly argument and problematic lol...@@10onit

[@789blablajaja]

Interrupting is a skill. Yes, there is such a thing as 'good interruption' , and I've done it in every single job Interview I've had in my life, which all got me the job. This women, however, obviously LACKS that skill, because if you CAN interrupt correctly, the other person won't get mad. And no, its not the other persons fault for being mad. The definition of a good interruption is, that the person you interrupt appreciates it, so if they don't, you failed.

[@hybriddavinci]

"I don't want the rapport" 😅

[@mugabevictor2012]

Oldest antman trick in the book. Put quantum in front of any scientific words, and it will explain anything

[@ajtaylor8750]

*"The reason men get angry when you interrupt them, even when you're interjecting, is because it feels so confusing to them."* When a narcissistic person rationalizes being rude in conversation by blaming it on the person they're being rude to at the moment. Can't make this stuff up.

[@Mr_megido]

Exactly Just let the person make their point first it’s not hard😅

[@rabbit3212010]

You slayed it! 🔥

[@MommaSkelly]

🎯

[@10onit]

Everyone is a "narcissist." There's different reasons ones would "interrupt" it's not all negative and maybe they have something insightful to say

[@vinceee_r]

@@10onitif that was true, your comments would have something insightful, except they don’t. How do you expect anyone to believe an incel like you 🤣😂

[@daviddrughi3337]

6:14 Hallelujah my brother!!!!!!!!!! Spitting facts!

[@King_Of_Games]

20:52 this. This is perfect

[@cherryhazard8002]

I really appreciate you guys calling out both sides of the issue, a lot of the people that speak this unhinged relationship stuff out online need SELF IMPROVEMENT, not a partner.

[@wardiya3arbiya]

Pickmisha! No one is picking you😂

[@10onit]

The pearl clutching 💀. There's no "both sides" thing. There's no women saying the same this fresh and fit or Andrew Tate have said and made money and a large following for With actions and time comes a reaction, we see this in every part of history. The pink pill has more substance because they speak about more than dating and things we see on the news everyday. Women have to keep themselves safe out here.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

Damn, people are actually calling you out for saying women can be just as toxic as men

[@10onit]

@@Ash_Wen-li People need to stop pearl clutching, it's not genuine. "Choose better" "should have seen the red flags, it's your fault" until it's advice for women to choose better and avoid those situations. They just don't want men I hear the same things women have for years.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

​@@10onitNo, I'm glad women are learning how to filter out toxic men. But like with Redpill they are getting toxic advice with it too. Some are even going WGTOW instead of trying to date good men and just label all men the same as what they experienced.

[@junevictor8721]

When preach started to go off 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 14:58

[@kkkk-uh1cu]

I don't think you quite understood her point about communication differences at 5:00. When some men say: "I like butter", and even when he's finished, heard, etc... you say: "True, I also like apples", the reply is "so you hate butter?! You're an apple supremacist??" It's absolutely mystifying. It's not even most men, but I also have found this trait *exclusively in* men. You have to be very careful how you agree with them, to the point you're best off ignoring them. They low-key expect disagreement and can't see the trees past the forest. Even when you do something like offer a real life example that agrees with their point, as a way of saying: "that's my experience as well", they just get really defensive.

[@Peculiarimmigrant36]

I commute 3hrs total, to and from work four days a week, and you guys are the best part of my commute

[@greenprinceverdantenobilus4101]

Guys, please always keep making videos. You're like the only people that do FUN response videos.

[@kathyp1563]

I do like their personalities, too.

[@Marcomanexists]

They’re some of the only guys who consistently make me laugh out loud from every video

[@Rellikan]

Asmongold is very good at reactions too.