My Husband Should Make… pt.2

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[@CourtneyRyan]

Hi Aba & Preach! Thanks for reacting to my video. Since there were some unanswered questions about their background, these girls are all between the ages of 23-30. A lot of them weren’t fully comfortable answering details about their upbringing but I can confirm not all of them come from affluent backgrounds. One thing that has become clear to me from doing these interviews is that so many are unaware of the stats and reality. We just shot another video this weekend with a new group of girls so stay tuned lol

[@AbaNPreach]

Oh lawd. Thank you for clarifying

[@jamaelbaskerville4547]

@aba

[@ms_cartographer]

I got offered 38k for my first job outta college in 2020. Yet, these gals think six figures is normal.

[@arnoldfromspace7465]

Thank you for making these kinds of videos Courtney!

[@v1nigra3]

It’s abysmal the view these girls have on life, the men they want are at least aged 50…yet they would refer to such men as predators when they are surrounded by younger women 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@justenfinch5911]

Imagine putting effort into manifesting a man that makes 650K, but not manifesting to make that yourself.

[@jamieakahenry]

Because all these women bring to the table is pum pum. So they expect to get a man with that alone. They also think their pum pum is worth 650k, delusional !

[@PhilDave55]

This is the best comment so far

[@sarabt]

God daaaaayum 🤌🏻

[@bryanrodarte5205]

She needs to manifest a gym membership. If you want to throw out those numbers, you better be top of the line

[@LittleMissDeeDee]

Let’s be real here. How many multi-millionaires are married to women who were making even close to what they make prior to marriage? There’s no shame in manifesting a wealthy man because wealthy men do not care for a woman’s money the same way an average man would. I hear what you’re saying, but it means nothing really because a woman making $650k still wants a man making the same.

[@puremaster]

I'm a women myself and listening to these women is mind blowing. Make your own money but not spend it on the family? wtf who brought these people up. I can't believe people like this exist.

[@BilalKhan-kv7ti]

No the dad

[@joelwillems4081]

TV and the internet brought these people up. Eventually, everyone in the tv show Friends had a really high paying job at some time. Oh, sure, Rachel waitressed at a coffee house for a few seasons making $20k per year but then she magically became a Buyer for a major clothing cooperation and probably made $200k. And her clothing choices or spending habits never changed except for that one episode.

[@CorinthianIvory]

Welcome to our brave new world. This is what a lot of us have to deal with out here. Smdh....

[@nero.unleashed]

A selfish woman on the fringe, in my understanding does not represent women as a whole

[@ADayInTheLifeOfJames]

The Kardashians, Instagram, OF’s, Cardi B & Nikki Minaj brought them up 😂

[@Aqwtiny]

These women are confusing stay at home mom with trophy wife.

[@chavonjames8941]

This needs to be pinned 📌

[@RunFromCities]

Trophy wives don't ever get a say in the relationship. They still want a say while bring very little.

[@wotanmituns33]

underrated comment

[@hulkhatepunybanner]

*They were probably chosen for not having a mom in their lives.*

[@aaronsbestlife]

Can we start asking them to name 5 careers...not sectors....careers/job titles that make the money they're asking for?

[@Random-qi3vv]

world class surgeon, CEO of top 5% companies, world class soccer players, wprld class muscicians, movie directors, actors, ......literally the top 0.5% of any field. Most likely these people are very famous too

[@MrSub132]

theyd be like 'DOCTOR, LAWYER, DRUG DEALER, SCAMMER, ARTIST'

[@CorinthianIvory]

Courtney Ryan does this in the original video. It gets rough.

[@lucasbroome1048]

@@MrSub132 I'm pretty sure you'd have to be a criminal mastermind to even be the top 5.0% to have that much money when you scam ppl

[@aaronsbestlife]

@@MrSub132 how would a scammer or drug dealers annual income be calculated? You doughnut

[@TheGamingAudiophile]

This delusion is a SIIIICKKNNNESSSSS. 🥴

[@ninobrownz0313]

SICKKKKKKKNESSSSSSSS ABA VOICE 😂

[@Thessalin]

Cough cough.... mmmhhhmmm.... SSSIIIICCCCKKKKNEEEESSSSSSSSS!

[@woodside4life]

IT IS DEVIANT!!!!!

[@isaacwojo3273]

Of the highest order

[@rb919]

And HIGHLY CONTAGIOUS🤌✨😂

[@caseysams]

I'm a woman in my thirties and make median income and these women are HIGHLY unreasonable. LOL. I genuinely didn't think anyone my age thought like them.

[@mikeg3728]

most don't.

[@exchangAscribe]

oh they do

[@aldenduffieldIII]

Time to recognize…modern western women are the reason passport bros exist.

[@paulinejackson5861]

Its not unreasonable. Its a patriarchal society, men need to step up and provide for women.

[@aldenduffieldIII]

@@paulinejackson5861 Women are doing just fine in their own. EQUALITY is amazing

[@sincityquinn]

😂😂😂😂 650k!!!?? She’d be fortunate to get a supervisor at AT&T with benefits.

[@PaisleyK6]

Can we all agree that we would love to have the same women that say this be interviewed in 10-20 years ? I don’t even mean this rudely, just to see the outcome of this thought process.

[@Mew__]

Finally, sociology majors will have something useful to study!

[@obiwankenobi661]

we will. because there will be so many of them.

[@victorcode2075]

An equivalent of the 7 up series. Would be beautiful.

[@oeckstei]

A cohort study, yes 🙌

[@oeckstei]

A cohort study, yes 🙌

[@Cal-fr9mw]

Im hoping any man that makes this much doesn’t get with women like these.

[@TheJarlath9]

XD they do saddly

[@chadspro]

Hoping? Lmao you don't have to hope. Absolutely no top 1% guy would go for any of these average chicks, hence why they will all end up either single, or "settling" with a husband and then ultimately divorcing

[@halcyon7018]

@@TheJarlath9 no we dont

[@PeoplePleaser578]

@@TheJarlath9 nah they don’t - Most of these women are 7s at best and rich dudes don’t date these gold digging tramps. They can go to Eastern Europe get a 10 that doesn’t have demands like this.

[@piquelitojr]

@@halcyon7018 we?

[@sherlock7898]

Watching this video is crazy as a daughter of a working class man. I remember as a little girl, hyping myself and getting mentally prepared to marry a poor man and endure a lot of years of barely making ends meet. Because thats what my mom did to marry my father. And I want some one like my father, he is the best man I know. My father is an upstanding, hardworking, loving man. He sacrificed so much for his family and I am grateful for everything he gave us. I knew that if I wanted that type of man, he would probably be where my father was which is among the hardworking men around me. Not in the wealthy men that care more about making it then making a family. If I found a good man and he was well off, then praise the Lord. But if I found a good man who was barely making ends meet, then praise the Lord. I won’t have to worry because he will take care of me. My dad had to go through a lot of work before his small business was doing well enough to support a family. I was ready as a little girl to the same thing my mom did which was stand by my man. Women like the ones in the video just seem so shallow to me.

[@reck0n3r]

So like, this was written by ChatGPT...right?

[@carloscjr23]

You weren't born under Disney movies and didn't have parents who sold you lies and fake dreams. They thought you well and you learned well, that's the more important part, because you parents could have teach you everything they could and still you could have gone bad. And some of these girls probably have a hard working father, but him and mommy have spoiled modern women so much they are delusional and think they deserve way above the place they were born and raised.

[@TheAcademik]

@@reck0n3r I feel a bit validated that I'm not the only one who got slapped by the uncanny valley

[@charlesbabu5845]

Hey babe gal...did you find that man....?

[@shadowridin913]

I make 70k a year, hit me up lol

[@Theasiannoodle666]

If your wife spend more than you make you need a new wife.

[@janiegetyourgun]

When I met my husband he was making 10.00/hr as a security guard part-time. He was struggling, living with his mom. We manifested the life we want TOGETHER by working hard for it. Now after 11 years we are finally financially stable enough to save money every month, we bought a house, and we are going on our first real vacation in February. These girls think life is just gonna be a fairytale. You gotta make your dreams come true with blood, sweat, and tears.

[@Fckyourfeelingsboo]

Yes Jane, exactly!

[@rewy64]

I like it when women say they want someone ambitious or with a growth mindset because it shows the maturity and understanding that you need to be there to play support sometimes to get to the place you both want. Men also need to be able to do that because women be getting money nowadays.

[@schrodingerscat3912]

People crack down against racism and homophobia but this kind of delusional behavior held against guys is just as bad, imo

[@lela_x]

Nice

[@janiegetyourgun]

@@rewy64 That’s the thing, a lot of times you’ll meet someone who may not be where they want to be, but they have goals. I never expected my husband to maintain me, my parents instilled me with a work ethic and ambition. So when my husband was down, I picked up the slack, and he’s done the same for me. We are a team. We work together to create the life we want and we support each other. For better or worse.

[@qc6057]

I know a woman personally who said and I quote, "If a man before the age of 27 isn't making over a hundred mil a year, that's not a man. That is a child." She's 34 and single. Still lives with her parents, and let's just about anyone hit.

[@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986]

What country does she live in to think 100 million is normal? Zimbabwe?

[@rumpelja4922]

😂

[@joaquin67]

Christ, it’s like they double/triple/quadruple down on their delusion as they get older

[@DMSrunit]

She must’ve been drunk

[@Snoop_Dugg]

oh wait, 100 mil?! Dafuq? I initially read that as thousand.

[@Ataraxia_Atom]

As a top 5% man, I'm in a commited relationship and would never consider dating a person like most of these girls. I take my gf and son on vacations yearly and would never be so generous to someone who expected it.

[@valv3277]

How hard was it getting to where you were?

[@Ataraxia_Atom]

@@valv3277 it wasn't that difficult, it's really just time and dedication. I started on the ground floor as an apprentice tool and die maker, while I was becoming a Journeyman toolmaker(which took about 5 years) I taught myself how to use this engineering design software and started taking over some of the overflow design work in that same company, and also bought my own house. I moved from that position into a design engineer position in an aerospace company, just using all the skills I had gathered and have been basically job hopping every 2ish years maximizing my wage and happiness. I'm now about 11 years into my career making over 125k as a senior process engineer and legit work at a company that I can retire from. And I started late. I didn't begin my career until 23, I graduated and turned 18 in 2008 when the economy was collapsing. So with time and dedication, I truly believe anyone can do what I did. I spent many nights teaching myself new things and still do to this day.

[@kbere4142]

I grew up in a household with a SAHM and dad bringing in approximately $200k and I didn’t have half of these expectations when I got married. I like nice things, but I recognized what it meant for my dad to have to work 12 hour days and be super stressed so we would have good things. I dated a man making $150k and all he ever did was try to buy me, but it wasn’t a genuine relationship. It was like he was waiting for me to be impressed by his money and felt no need to connect with me as a woman. I married a wonderful Christian man making average money and I’m sooo happy with him. People who emphasize this need for money are often very empty inside. They want to make up for everything they are missing internally by getting things. I had a lot of things and I can guarantee that if you cannot be content without them, you won’t be content with them. Also, I had a great relationship with my dad growing up. I wanted to marry someone like him way more than I wanted to marry someone with money. We should look at these girls relationships with their parents and see whether they’ve been fulfilled in any of their family relationships.

[@Coryindahouse81]

"Manifest a husband" I guess husband's come on Yugioh cards. These women are pretending to special summon the husband of their choice while in reality they are sacrificing good men into the shadow realm.

[@CellAndroid.]

Before ending up with one of those they go voluntarily to the shadow realm. To hide from them

[@marlom7882]

I sacrifice average man A, broke bum A, and average man B to tribute summon top 1% Tyrone! Top 1% Tyrone Level: 10 ATK: 3000 DEF: 1500 Special Effect: out of most women’s fuckin league but they don’t even know that.

[@masterofevilshadow]

🔥🔥🔥

[@adrianchatman5734]

Now I activate my trap card: DIVORCE and I take half!!

[@markuhler2664]

@@adrianchatman5734 Quick spell: pootang - prevents men from activating spells/traps and summoning. Effect backfires if man is playing field spell "Bullshit, I'm out".

[@mildchaos6037]

I recently dated a girl with two surgeons for parents. It was literally impossible to please her as a guy making 60K. She wanted to go on trips every month, wanted to go shopping at expensive places & go out to eat every day. I just couldn’t keep up, that’s just not a reality I can live in. I grew up poor (family went bankrupt twice), it was way too much for me.

[@HMJKS2000]

My biggest thing in a partner (after religion and kids) is similar financial goals, future, aspirations, and PROGRESS! If she wants an early retirement or high income but isn’t on track because she spends her least dollar she isn’t for me. Trust me you’ll see how many marriages end because the wife is a spender and then when things get bad she’ll go into debt, hide it, then leave the husband on the hook for it and take half of his assets.

[@Law19157]

Eating out everyday is a good way to wreck your health. That girl is going to get obese and wrinkle quickly because restaurant food simply does not have the nutrition to support your health and maintain your youthful skin. It's good you left her, she was going to get fat and wrinkled anyway. Health is more important than wealth.

[@mimi.w667]

That's why they say date in your league she was out of your league you got to date someone poor try the Philippines 🤣

[@mimi.w667]

Go be a surgeon then

[@mildchaos6037]

@@mimi.w667 such insightful advice, thank you for sharing such thought provoking wisdom

[@mikeg3728]

I ran into this once, and the girl was shocked like I had just told her her entire family were dead, when I said "okay bye". She called me a loser, then later on switched gears and started begging (it was point of no return for me, she gave money of mine to a relative because I can "always just go make more money"). I found out two years later she was with another guy, and they were looking for anyone who could let them live with them for a few weeks "while they get on their feet financially". This was a woman in her 30's at the time, dating a man in his 30's. How long you need to "get on your feet", I was paying my own way entirely by age 17 FFS.

[@kaitheguy7832]

New title: Women that haven't worked a day in their life judge all men based on their income.

[@charlottheharlot]

Sometimes I think that I'm a bad person. Entitled. Lazy. Selfish. Then you watch these brats and immidiately realize, no, you're alright. Could be worse.

[@Trp6gng]

Factssss

[@octopus4925]

Same lmfao like I'm lazy, but I have a job and expect to pull my weight in a relationship. I'm just looking for an equally lazy guy lol

[@ingloriousMachina]

I'm still entitled, lazy, and selfish. I just have a lot of competition.

[@JohnnyZenith]

They make me feel physically unwell.

[@Ihavegivenup825]

You're right, you could be a woman.

[@TawniGuy-cb3mh]

You can tell that none of these women have had a job. Even when I was making almost 16 dollars an hour which is a lot considering the state I live in which is Texas when most jobs here pay 8-11 dollars an hour, I made 17k a year. Even that one women who blamed social media for people's high expectations of how much money women want a man to make didn't even take accountability. This is absolutely appalling to say the least.

[@penguin12902]

Exactly. They say $250k and have no clue what that means. I'm convinced none of them have ever taken home a paycheck for an honest day's work. I grew up in the 80s, my Mom stayed home and I bet my Dad was only making $30k a year at best, he was a janitor...we were poor. I do really well now, but when I had my first child, my wife was a stay at home Mom and I was making $65k and we were doing just fine.

[@thedustthatsettlesj9231]

What's really telling is that to manifest her lifestyle and her vacations they never think what do I have to make or what career I should choose. It's someone else's responsibility to give her the lifestyle she wants. Someone else has to sacrifice and work hard for her dream life.

[@woodside4life]

The idea of wanting an extravagant lifestyle COMPLETELY funded by someone else is truly a SIIIIICKNEEEESS

[@caiotorres6156]

sickening as well hahahah

[@jasonmatt6081]

It truly is next level delusions

[@BBBerti]

The only time in life that's acceptable is when you're a child, but it should end in your teens already. You wanna go out every weekend? Get a damn job.

[@Fabrizio7171]

Lmaoooo imagine im sitting like dam i wanna drive Ferraris and live in a penthouse because thats the lifestyle id like. Women would lose their mind.

[@woodside4life]

@@Fabrizio7171 Bruh I’m over here like I’m in the wrong line of business!

[@kunya16]

There is a huge difference between a stay at home mom who takes care of 99% of the cooking, cleaning and childcare (or more depending on your property) and a woman who wants to work full time and also not contribute anything. She's keeping all of her money, not doing anything around the house and expecting everything from him. I put in at least 60 hours a week of straight up getting things done as a stay at home mom who homeschools. But I also don't expect the stuff these women do. We live humbly, well within our means. Our newest vehicle is a 2014, my car is a 2000. It's the sacrifices we make to have me home raising our kids. He definitely doesn't make anywhere near 100k and I'm okay with that.

[@safariboomin4313]

you the last of a dying breed 😪

[@avaliausd.]

If I'm the one paying for everything, she's not doing 99%, she's taking care of 100% of everything. If I was married to a wealthy woman and we could live off of her income, I would be doing 100% of everything too. She wouldn't have to touch anything dirty or go hungry. I don't see how people can want someone to pay ALL of their bills, take away their necessity to work these dry jobs out here (which is the worst part of life), and not be willing to do 100% of everything else around the house. You literally have no need for a job thanks to your spouse, you owe it to them for them to not have to do anything when they get home.

[@m.2891]

Wealthy people have maids.

[@ashleyalexander7388]

I think you understand the bigger picture. having a limit of 100k plus will make it unlikely to achieve the other criteria. guys who make that much plus, want a woman on their program and not a partnership. each to their own.

[@woodwyrm]

gods work, your doing things that will have immeasurable value in the long run, especially your kids, power to ya.

[@kgfes]

Imagine a group of MEN sitted somewhere discussing how much money WOMEN should make 😳

[@themannymouse]

"What a failure on the parent's behalf". Nailed it.

[@elrobbio1]

My ex wife did this. She also got more credit cards and lines of credit with higher limits to hide her spending habits. Was giving loans to family members. Etc etc etc. She said she has divorced herself from money. What she really meant is she didn’t want to work and I was good at my job so I could provide. We were short? I should go make more. It was disgusting. The amount of extra debt I uncovered in the divorce was amazing and more than upset me. Don’t get taken for a ride lads.

[@anonisnoone6125]

I hope u didn't end up losing half ur stuff from divorce. U know how biased divorce laws r towards women.

[@CarefulHowYouStep]

glad you escaped man

[@elrobbio1]

@@CarefulHowYouStep I will be paying off that crap for years. I guess I escaped before it got far far worse.

[@xtiphuny89]

Yikes! So sorry man, that's terrible.

[@purplegirl8036]

Wow, yeah guys say they don’t want an independent woman but there’s benefits to it.

[@blippacg]

Just ended a 29 year marriage. Money was a big problem. I made $100k annually and my ex makes $200k (lawyer). She was deeply resentful that she couldn’t stay home while at the same time living in a $5 million house. I got tired of the resentment.

[@hc7092]

Fair enough. Did you make efforts to try and boost your salary? That’s probably what annoyed her

[@blippacg]

@@hc7092 Don’t understand the argument. I didn’t get annoyed that she didn’t boost her income. She avoided the partner track ‘cause she didn’t want the hassle. Boosting income is different from making enough for her to stay home while enjoying an expensive lifestyle. Nobody can argue we didn’t make “enough”. This is an issue of entitlement.

[@ifeoluwaadeoye6557]

@@hc7092 will he kill himself? Some people may just be happy with what they have

[@danielgiselde5509]

Females can't date down and they are unwilling to understand that. Or else their slay queen society would crumble

[@scootaymildo1070]

​@@hc7092 dude is making 100k! Why tf should he have to "boost his salary"? Some yanks really are slaves to money. There's more to life than that.

[@nativefamilylife3741]

This is crazy. My father raised me to be independent and not to rely on a man in life to support me. I work hard and feel happy contributing to my family. I have a wonderful husband and he is an excellent father. Neither of us grew up with money and now we are comfortable and respectful Of each other’s contributions. Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but these ladies are giving off materialistic vibes. You should not spend more than your income and put that stress on your partner. Super unhealthy.

[@ScarFaceDom_]

a lot of parents grow their daughter in the “if he cant do anything for u leave” already setting her up for failure mindset

[@HungSuhLow]

9:23 absolutely love the way she said “we wouldn’t be able to live the lifestyle ‘I’ wanted” emphasis on the “I wanted” 🤦

[@Shanex250]

As someone who grew up in poverty, Aba was speaking factual on the idea that you can't even conceptualize what it is like to have money. My current roommate makes over 60k a year and to me the first year or so it felt like he was the richest person to me because he could do things like simply buying things he wanted, getting food from fast food restaurant casually. Mf when I was a kid, getting fast food was like eating at high end restaurant that you did every now and then when you came in with "some money" for it. Even now after my last job and realizing how little I would of made working full time a whole year, I realized that if I just simply made 50k a year I would living living and be making more money than any of my family members have ever made. I'm now trying to get there. These women just want to live like rich people with other people's money because they are used to it. Just as the saying goes, once you go up you don't want to go back down.

[@io-qo4ps]

you're absolutely right. let's keep working hard so can get there soon. to a place of stability 🙏

[@jonathanpusar5931]

Same. My first job out of college was $25k. I was barely breaking even with rent and commuting costs. Going from that to $55k in just 2 years felt like I was rich. Already making what my parents did combined. I was saving cash and having everything I needed. At 6 figures in my early 30s now and I buy crap I don't even need. Even to this day I don't really conceptualize more than what I make. The kind if shit these girls want and their 'lifestyle' would be too incompatible with what I want or raising a family. When someone says they want to be a stay at home mom and their ideal car is NOT a minivan......their priorities are fucked and coming from a place of insane privilege - butlers and maid servants kind of privilege. Like you can't even fit groceries in a Ferrari lol

[@tonysamosa1717]

Frfr. My first job out of college make a little ove 60 and I was ecstatic. I make close to 100 now (that’s with bonus) and I live very comfortable but to them I am broke? I have no consumer needs; I’ve bought all that I’d want to buy and could buy basically anything else I want but what I DONT want is buying labels and eating at fancy gimmicky spots. I’m good with some high quality Calvin Klein jeans and a dinner at a local Simple Mexican restaurant.

[@brennancarter7721]

Preach man.

[@ll2323]

My sisters fiancée family comes from money, and they were upset she didn’t buy gifts for her grown ass adult kids who are all over 30. Like we don’t come from money, we grew up very poor. Shit we had candles and blankets for when the light would go out. Like people need to humble themselves. Not everyone comes from or into money. I thought family would be a more important value but to some I guess money over family.

[@pimpnamedslickback7780]

It’s honestly so sad the state of the dating world in 2022. And for people thinking this is an exaggeration it’s not. I make 160k a yr and I’m a software engineer in NYC. Even in an expensive city like NYC I’m a top 7% earner. Dated a girl for 2 months who thought I wasn’t being ambitious enough and should strive to make 500k. Dated another one who said 300k income is needed every year. These standards are ridiculous and it’s destroying the concept of romance and relationships.

[@Jermaine2099]

Same, I'm a cloud engineer in Colorado and slightly over the 6 figure mark but women here are like "you should easily be at 200k" I'm like....lady! You ain't even at 60k!! Come on now 😂

[@sivl9964]

Once you date women outside of western feminist countries, you will never want to go back.

[@RandomPerson-tz7wk]

Meanwhile she barely a 6 while expecting 6s

[@jackpoopoo]

i live in nyc too! dating here sucks. everyone seems so confused about how to date...

[@oncetwice5942]

I totally agree 💯. You make a great income and for women to turn you down is crazy to me.

[@louielopes372]

650k girl had me dying 😂😂😂, does she know that less then 1% of people in this country.

[@user-gw9sk1zy4s]

Way less than 1%!!

[@petrri323]

There’s 7 Billion people in this world… for some perspective, if you make more than $40,000 per year you are among the top 1% richest humans to EVER LIVE. That figure includes the byzantines, the ancient Roman’s, and even all the way back to the creation of money itself. Just consider that. 40k. And you have more money than 99.9% of all humans to ever live.

[@HeidariReacts]

People are becoming more and more delusional. Some people think "manifesting" shit without putting in the WORK is gonna MIRACULOUSLY give them the shit they be trying to manifest... EDIT: I just have to add one more thing... THIS IS A SIIIIICKNEEES!!

[@MrSub132]

worst thing is 'I work hard so It will happen to me'. You can work your ass off and still not earn 6 digits.

[@dmwanderer9454]

People think "manifestation" is a skill. They don't know work

[@shadmahuda]

It’s like praying without actually trying too. You can just pray for a house or a job without making the necessary steps to get there

[@marlom7882]

EXACTLY! Wtf is manifesting without work! Wishing?!

[@shadmahuda]

@@MrSub132 yeah but most people who work hard know they won’t make six figures but at least we aren’t entitled

[@arkoisagoodboy]

"The man needs to be 100% the supporter but I'm still gonna work and have my own business." That means she intends to keep her money while spending yours.

[@frankcaggiano8282]

💯

[@xxtoptankxx6873]

And even use your money to MAKE her terrible business ideas

[@SamBrimos]

LOL I've had this convo with my partner. If he made ALL the money and 100% financially supported the both of us, its a clear understanding that I'd do all the house work, including "the expectations". And I think that's fair. On the real though, if it's a HEALTHY relationship, I don't see a problem with it.

[@gabdongipark]

This.

[@ebonyuiduldam6040]

Thank you for these wonderful men❤ I'm a women and grew up poor and my jaw literally hit the floor...why are there so many people in this world that think that way... Money isn't everything... In a way I appreciate my childhood because it has humbled me...

[@joshuaamado559]

“I want a 3 bedroom 2 bath house” That sounds good, I’d love to liv- “And a pagani” …

[@iansidon5579]

Yup, my reaction as well. Stay-at-home mom: Wonderful! Her choice, I 100% respect that! 3-4 bedroom house with 2 bathrooms: Absolutely! You need for you and your family some space, and there are reasonably priced houses. A Pagani BC: What...? Not only is that 2.5 million dollar car, but it's also not even meant for families. Especially when you live in the US and you need to drive your kids to certain events. And the jump to that makes no sense.

[@Aboguaboga]

She said in an ideal world she would have a pagani, the Ferrari is what shocked me bc she said that’s more realistic😂

[@kickingbackpunchingcones4099]

@@Aboguaboga yea LOL ferrari wont even sell one to her if she offered 5x the cash

[@Leftists_are_Losers]

I had to look up what a pagani was. I’d never heard that word before.

[@maxwest6595]

Imagine that goofy bint trying to get in a Pagani, let alone drive it.

[@salomonderisseau0718]

For all the parents out there, please teach your children about money and finances. This is ridiculous and hilarious at the same time.

[@napalmsf]

Not just money and finances but how about also teaching emotional intelligence and shattering the concept that partnering up with someone for life is the norm. We should teach our children about surviving alone and not depending on some partnership.

[@anitahiawatha6060]

No.

[@SkaterChick1972]

Agreed. Freaking nuts

[@aj3706]

@@napalmsf should we encourage them to not have a family?

[@jakes658]

@@napalmsf Partnering for life should be the norm. Being alone for too long is unhealthy.

[@heavycoughin6665]

I love starting my mornings off with your videos!

[@malotschino]

that one girl didn't just say she wants her hausband to give a 100% money. she even said she wants her own business and money that she will keep for hersels. so she gives -100%.

[@nedflanders4158]

Imagine average guys being asked these questions, and all of them saying casually. "Oh she has to be a Victoria secret model" as if they think there's millions and millions of Victoria secret models.

[@realjcoop182]

She has to be a size zero w d cups lol

[@RollingStride101]

Have you talked to the average guy? I would be perfectly fine with the girl from the local convenience store let alone Victoria's Secret model.

[@buriedomasta3375]

"a traditional virgin victoria secret model" lol.

[@mr.eliteaz2385]

@@RollingStride101 yeah hes making a example, but agreed most average guys go for average girls

[@cooljo5881]

@@naydd9459 wanting a man who's financially stable and wanting their man to earn 300.000 dollars per year are *totally* different things

[@2000ds650]

Best advice I’ve ever received was from my WW2 grandfather. “Don’t waste time, money and effort on somebody else’s wife.”

[@BEN-bg3sn]

This advice is going to go over so many people’s heads!

[@haydensimpson4422]

I grew up in a home that raked in about 45k a year and I thought I was blessed because some of my friends didn’t even have money for food. The delusion of these women is quite sad. I’m about to start a job making 70k a year and honestly I feel like I’m gonna to be living a dream.

[@dankmemes8619]

Mannnnn, my current goal is to work a job that lets me clear 60k CANADIAN, around 30 dollars an hour. (so like 45k American. Jesus Christ, I just realized how weak our dollar is. God damn). I just passed an interview for a job that would put me at 18.75 an hour after being stuck working a job that's barely above the minimum wage of my province. After a year of searching for a better job (150+ applications). Seeing this shit damn near blackpills me and makes me just go further down my newfound hobby of firearms, hunting, and sports shooting. I know full well I ain't gonna make it, may as well just learn and develop the skills for going solo now.

[@Darknight526]

Nah bro you’re being proactive with your life. You’re gonna make it my man.

[@dankmemes8619]

@Flozo thanks bro. I hope I can make it but this shit frustrates me to no end : (

[@Darknight526]

@@dankmemes8619 You've still made it this far, you have this community backing you up friend.

[@dankmemes8619]

@Flozo thank you for these kind words sir, good to know there's still people who support men in their struggles still. I wish you the best as well. We will make it!!!

[@melizm7019]

I agree in a relationship there should be intimacy expected. I am a stay at home mom and have my business but my hubby is our 1 contributor. He has MUCH pressure and as a wife it is my job to love him and provide him a sound home.

[@Jakeski87]

I'm glad they caught-on to the wording used in the question. "Dream" The girl still messed it up saying an F12 as a practical option.

[@papuga3935]

I make £20k and my partner makes around £40k annually, after tax. we spend around ~15k on bills living in a studio flat in central London, so that leaves us with around 3k a month. we eat like KINGS (spending around £120/week on groceries), and we go out to movies and eat out twice a week, travel often, save tons, and support our families. i am incredibly appreciative and happy with my lifestyle, because I know MOST people cant afford living like this. and knowing that these women think of my lifestyle as a complete life failure and think it’s poverty, makes me furious. what do they need the ~20k a month for?? most families live and raise kids on lower income than ours. they dont need to get uber eats everyday, they dont need a cleaner, they dont need to go to five star restaurants once a week, spend hundrets on cocktails every Friday night, or have designer clothes to be happy.

[@slimyjimmy1589]

Respect, not Many people understand that money on its own doesn't equate to happiness it's the memories and experience gained through the hard work is what makes it rewarding, or at least in my opinion, you can't appreciate the value of money when you have never struggled.

[@aziouss2863]

I think aba and preach's theory is correct they are just rich. Honestly, that one girl disgusted me. Is it like she is detached from our reality. It is like she looks down on a life where your daddy does not own his private yacht and where your mommy is not getting weekly massages from a male model... I try not to take these people seriously their version of happiness is my nightmare. Just get a partner you can have fun with. Someone you actually want to spend your time with. That is more than enough. You Sir/lady are living the dream i want to have someday.

[@ByeAlicia]

You speak nothing but facts! 👏🏾

[@antithoughtpolice7497]

The British pound is almost worth a dollar, it's worth $1.03 to the pound. You guys are about to collapse from borrowing. If you can afford, leave before it gets worse, or prepare for the worst, it's coming... Renting a bed, you share a room with 2 other people is $500 a month. It's bad, be prepared

[@raskyofficial5246]

I’m in dublin and even with the housing crisis we living in now, if there are more than 50/60k in a house a couple can live comfortably, like eating good, do 2/3 holidays a year and all

[@kslikk34]

Funny thing is, the women expect their man to make $650,000/year and if he dared to expect that she cooks dinner (not breakfast or lunch) simply dinner 5-7 days a week he would be enforcing the "patriarchy". As if making that much money doesn't require time in the office with a lot of late nights.

[@pranc236]

Great point. People that make that kind of money at any age just live to work. These women expect a 30 year old to have that much wisdom to be able to do a job like that.

[@v1nigra3]

As always ..those same women would eventually complain their men aren’t spending enough time at home and are working too much, I’ve seen this way too much

[@jennymelo2098]

Women putting a price tag on their relationship is 100% matriarchal.

[@Dnfdnu]

I don't agree with these dumb women but speak for yourself. I pack my husband's lunch and cook dinner for him every day. He makes around 30K a year but even if he made less a man deserves a good meal especially when he's providing for the household.

[@theworldmayneverknow3876]

facts

[@dreallday6814]

I just had to see the whole video after watching the clip on IG. This video is GOLD! 😂😂😂

[@miriamsilva6501]

most women are reading a lot of fiction book that the main character is super rich and they are chosen by the main character

[@nocheatgains]

What makes them think they’d make good “stay at home moms?” When you’re that self-centered and have the audacity to think you can take care of kids smh

[@adrian-dragosbalaban6401]

"Some hobbies" like what? Watering f'n plants all day?

[@nocheatgains]

@@adrian-dragosbalaban6401 😂😂💀 foreal smdh

[@iamamodel7]

I guess they need the high incomes to pay for the nannies, cleaners, gardeners, cooks...

[@nocheatgains]

@@iamamodel7 lol right? fucking delusional

[@DeathSlinger66]

With their thought process a stay at home home is put the kids off on the nanny

[@ChurchofPirateology]

So... we want equality but... Look after me?

[@waleedaslam9702]

imo its fair for the man to pay for his wife, but that means she should do the majority of the housework and take care of the kids. He's the alpha in the situation. If she wants more independence, she gotta pay more (50/50 and they got equal say but ofc the wife naturally has to take care of the kids to a certain degree)

[@suzirivera1608]

This is what makes women look bad.

[@LethalByChoice]

@@waleedaslam9702 Majority is not how you spell all.

[@MichaelJames-lz7ni]

If you live in a 1st World Country, you're going to need TWO paychecks to become middle-class, depending on occupation. Cost-of-Living is real. Don't bring your 3rd-World Economic fantasies into 1st World Economic truths then get all butt-hurt when you're poor.

[@sirspeedy9006]

@Waleed Aslam agreed, I'll pay all the bills and a little for her to buy stuff she wants, but she's looking after the house and kids

[@benpyeatt9986]

This video number 2 that I’ve seen of yours…. Subscribed. Love this sense of humor. Definitely my type of humor/content

[@deenyce2216]

This ish crazy!!! Speechless.

[@skyebaldwin3087]

Woah, I literally did the jaw dropped, eyes wide open, loud exhale out of my lungs when she said $650,000. Like damn! I think, if I made that kind of money, I would run from a woman like this!

[@Cugastratos]

If I made that kind of money, I would only live off of $40,000 a year or less... and find a traditional, down to earth woman overseas.

[@YesJellyfish]

Don't worry, 338k is also ok😂

[@lavonnealexander6936]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@plzletmebefrank]

@@Cugastratos That's what you'd think you'd do. Most likely wouldn't end up that way. Firstly because of the taxes in that income bracket. Second, because you usually have to spend money on equipment, material, employees, etc when you're making that much money. Third, vehicles and housing, and when you're making that much money you're probably not going to want to live in a one bedroom apartment because you can afford better. And a bigger nicer house means more upkeep costs, a higher electric bill, etc. You'd have to be spending more because you're making more. At 650,000? The income tax rate is 37%. Let that sink in. More than 200,000 of what you're making is just gone. In my state, the annual median property tax is about 4K. But as you'd be making bank, we'd assume double that at 8K and then for business expenses.... The average estimate for the first year of a small business is 40K. So at least 20K- if not more. I'm guessing you'd have to pay 50% or more just to be earning that much and living well enough. It's literally impossible to be making 650K and only spend 40K without committing tax fraud. Honestly? More income isn't exactly all that much better. I mean... Fuck. 37%? That's insane. It's 12% if you're making under 90K when filing jointly. Above that it jumps up to 22%. Which... Actually is really bad for some households, if they end up making more than 90K... Suddenly having 10% more money taken away.... That can be absolutely crushing if they have a large family or a mortgage, or are still paying off a loan or something. Our tax system is fucking weird.

[@Cugastratos]

@@plzletmebefrank You are talking about running a business, not how much is made in paid income for an individual after all is said and done. Those who learn how to manage money properly in poverty find it much easier to keep living expenses low (if they so choose) in wealth. Even if someone is making 6 figures in annual income, if their after tax take home pay is over $200k+, one can still live frugally and save 75% of their income.

[@djblue056]

Shout out to Courtney for trying to educate this young women and bringing them back down to earth. I hope you guys can collaborate with her and ask her some questions.

[@lucasbello117]

my money is on the fact they will still expect a guy to earn a shitload of money for em

[@OT_concerned_citizen]

Agreed. The problem is super obvious, it's the women. They are ignorant. They all say the same answer no matter what podcast, show, channel you go to. Delusional

[@Cantetinza17]

I like her channel. She gives sound advice.

[@mememachine5244]

@@lucasbello117 And still not even understand that they should have been tradtional women, and should be traditional women if they want anything close to that.

[@Charles2k]

She gives great advice, but to think she is educating her _friends?_ Anyone can google any statistic and have a reality check. It's not like her or any of her friends will learn since there has been countless videos on a plethora of related topics - do they learn? No.

[@PersonaN007Grata]

The sad thing is that these vapid girls, that literally bring nothing to the table, WILL date rich men just because of their looks. It’s a perpetual cycle that will never end.

[@josegarza7719]

Oh it’s gonna get worse sadly

[@dotanuki3371]

nah, these chicks are already past that age. that expires at like 22

[@DemiGoddess92]

“That was south LA” 🥴. 🤣🤣🤣

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

The hilarious part about women who say their man should make 6 figs, is that most of those women don’t want an older man who’s 10 or 20 or 30 years older… but are they that disconnect from reality to honestly expect a man in his 20/30s to make that much money? Smh

[@diabolivirtusen-tavares-ea4645]

Very very true... women tend to like men within a few yrs of their own age not realizing those 20 somethings are bums financially 😂.... the real money is with guys like me in our late 30s+++ and surprise surprise who has the home and career? Us older guys. Women should automatically date guys 8-15yrs older it's in their best interest

[@aliciai]

10 years isn't too bad in term of age gaps but 20+30 years?!?why expect them to date someone old enough to be their parent? That is a bit unrealistic just like their expectations of a certain salary.

[@TheIsaacm1994]

Fair points for both sides here

[@solidsnake5644]

Yes, they are that disconnected from reality.

[@naglfar6305]

@@aliciai I think that's the point Alicia, the expect way too much in salary and that expectation cant be met by most people within the 20s and early 30s in some cases.

[@ShewedDude]

“Strong, independent women” work jobs making $50-80k and think they’re big and bad. I met women making upwards of $200k and women like her-by far the most down to earth women I ever met. Great personalities and all. They also came from rough backgrounds as well.

[@andrewrogers3067]

Lemme guess, she’s married?

[@Ratgodx]

If you think that’s average you’re lying

[@ShewedDude]

@@Ratgodx what are you talking about..?

[@ShewedDude]

@@andrewrogers3067 A few were. Most had not been married yet.

[@graveleater9746]

I grew up in a household that brought in less than $30k a year, usually closer to $16k. This shit is completely incomprehensible to me. What do you even spend all that on?

[@matf5593]

Honnêtement là, ce vidéo était drôle 😂 J’ai bien ri. Merci les gars!

[@1doobiedoo]

If my wife spends more than I make, I’m finding a new wife 😂

[@joanna0988]

Or just don't get married because now you'll be supporting a new woman and paying your ex alimony 😂

[@purplegirl8036]

Well can you stop her? My mom spent 20k of my dads money and he stopped her and corrected it. They are now doing well financially and have been married 42 yrs and counting. If you can work it out that would be better than throwing in the towel.

[@DragonCrane04]

That was the first thing I was. I remember one of my first girlfriends who's mom was "different" was spending her husband's money like water. She was buying stuff like microwaves for random people like stocking stuffers. They were divorced not that long after it seems. You could tell she was oblivious and entitled.

[@ginorivera6859]

SIMPer

[@salasyk8708]

@@purplegirl8036 thats actually really nice. Congrats to your mom to and dad for sorting it out.

[@danf1862]

My wife used to spend more than we made. Then she started a fight and we split our finances. Now she spends all of her money and I have a built-up Jeep and several firearms I've been wanting and a savings account full enough to not worry about a whole year of mortgage and utilities. Equality feels good

[@Onibyron]

She is better now right? In the sense of being better to you and appreciation of your sacrifice?

[@joelwillems4081]

If your marriage is still rocky, hopefully you are hiding some of those savings. Like buying gold coins and keeping them hidden from her type f thing.

[@quincyileh3250]

If I were you I would start spending mine aswell because saving yours doesn’t make it yours when she takes you to court for a divorce , be wise

[@getinthespace7715]

Problem is if you get divorced she has spent all her money Probably racked up a ton of debt and still gets half of your money and you are on the hook for half her debt unless you setup legal protections for yourself.

[@phillipjohnson4156]

stop the cap, no way in hell

[@Pangolin-Mandolin]

😄😂🤣!!! I love every time Aba brings out his canny, candid and indelicate African uncle to give us his uncut opinion on whatever topic they are talking about 🤜💯😄👍

[@stuartloudon341]

These two are absolutely brilliant 😅

[@danielle6228]

You know what making “good money” is? Being able to pay your bills, pay for food and clothes on your back, save some money and having something left to either get something nice for yourself sometimes (I don’t mean something extravagant necessarily, but if you save up for something sure!) or save it to go on a vacation perhaps with people you want to make memories with. I don’t mean extravagant vacations either btw. That’s, to me, a good amount. And bills and other expenses are being taken care of by both, not just the man, unless you have other agreements. You don’t need extremely high incomes to be happy. It makes finances easier, but it sure will not make you happier. And I personally don’t want to spend my life making money, i want to enjoy my time. Making money to live instead of living to make money.

[@iamamodel7]

Jordan Peterson quotes research that found that happiness increases until about US$ 60k, but doesn't increase past that point, which holds your statement true. From my own personal experience, every word you said is spot on. As a child I was oblivious that we were raised with a substantial amount of welfare and charity. Having to sit with another class all day because we couldn't afford the school excursion my classmates were on is not a pleasant day. I'd say $60k is enough to save a child from that embarrassment. My clothes were always clean though. Holy shit I just remembered my mother used to save the first rinse water from the washing machine into buckets to save on laundry detergent.

[@danielle6228]

@@iamamodel7 Jordan Peterson is a very smart man. I don’t always agree with what he says, but he has a lot of points I definitely agree with. I do think there is one flaw which is that his statement is based on a certain part of the world, so it won’t apply to everyone exactly. I also remember some of the hardships, but I also remember how value was completely different back then. Playing a board game with the family and enjoying quality time, instead of being sucked into a phone all day. We needed different things back then, just like the need is different in other parts of the world right now. 60k might be a fortune to some, otherworldly, while in other parts it might be barely enough. That’s why I didn’t state a number. I think your believes on what you desire are a grand part in your happiness. If you always want above your means, you will never be truly happy. The part where embarrassment became a problem is when the school planned trips above people’s means. There was a time when we all depended on each other to live. When did that become something to be embarrassed about, because we still depend on each other. Yet we now make it a competition to see who makes more money and who has the nicest things, while true connection is something we forgot how to accomplish. It’s a strange world. I remembered sharing a book and being excited to work closely with my mate and we had a blast playing in the fields and climbing trees, making little cabins with wood we could find. We didn’t need anything. Ofcourse my parents were worried, because they had to pay the bills and pay for food, but they also were present. I dare say that those were one of the happiest times though and right after when we were Financially stable. I honestly miss those times today.

[@khalflavian]

Women or better yet people that think like you are few and far between especially nowadays unfortunately but agreed a good amount of money is like u said being able to sustain yourself ure family and indulge every now and then in things u love ,people now are so obsessed with lavish amounts of money power fame and want it In the shortest amount of time ,I for one would be more than happy In a small house in the countryside with a woman that loves me for me a god fearing partner with whom I can build a family have kids and live life for the moments u have with them a simple life but plentiful In so many other ways ,so many of these rich people are so stressed and miserable behind their extravagant houses Cars and lifestyles they show on all social media displaying a fake outlook on things when their reality is so different

[@iamamodel7]

Geez you type fast, LOL. Again, agree with every word. I quoted JP quoting 'some study' just so I have at least some basis in the 60k figure.

[@iamamodel7]

Found the research. Daniel Kahneman. Figure is 75k in 2008, wow. Other research in Australia found similar results. The level is higher than the median in both cases but nowhere near what most of these ladies are asking.

[@SaltPepperEconomics]

As a person who is a child of immigrants who came here with nothing and is now studying Econ in college. This entitlement and disconnect from reality is honest unbelievable. Your point on the failure of the parents is unbelievably true. But the fact that they choose to ignore reality is crazy to me

[@YoutubeChannel-pd2xf]

Fellow Econ major? Neat! The information you uncover in those courses would definitely be enough to kill some of their delusions of grandeur. Luckily, they don’t represent everybody.

[@Zyrock]

i feel like some are Choosing to ignore reality, they want to seem like theyre shocked that theres people making less than 100k a year out there lol

[@mmmaaannnyyy]

Right bro

[@ReelGreezy]

Yeah girl u manifest girl, you go girl

[@residentlou4410]

I can’t believe these woman aren’t rage baiting. The lack of self awareness is astounding.

[@joeyexos6567]

It sucks being reduced to a wallet. Truly makes you lose trust for many women

[@tonyvinga]

You people own wallets? That means you actually have money to keep😖

[@youtube-nutzer2895]

@@tonyvinga nah only bills

[@ponternal]

Women are sex objects, men are success objects

[@Womenlovefishpics]

If I make a half million a year I'ma have a backup apartment in the hood and a Nissan Altima. They will only see those till we hit 1 year dating 😂

[@joeyexos6567]

@@ponternal it's objectification from men to women and commodification of men from women

[@ohnoajellyfish]

I'm with Preach. Been married 14yrs. If there's any advice I can offer younger ppl like these, it's that your respect should be built around your partner's effort, not their paycheck. My dude's a hard worker. At 25k or at 125k, he has a dªmn good work ethic, and my respect for him and his efforts have carried me through times when the warm fuzzies of love did not.

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

😌 i appreciate your words and I agree 1100% I have almost always known that finding someone with money is easy, but finding a compatible character with my ethics and values is far harder. Alas the material is the first thing people see(its hard to see character from a far), and sort people out by. It has made Dating so frustrating that for the longest time I had a pretty aggressive attitude, or was made kinds depressed because of it . Hearing these responses, and remembering my own interactions has me definitely feeling some kind of way

[@NotReallyAEvilMorty]

This is solid advice.

[@bailmasterflex]

there's always one of you in every comment section of a video like this.

[@harrisindustries314]

Unfortunately that's not what young people value these days.

[@hassanjrt.9475]

100%, you go for the moral, ethical aspects of the personality and double down on potential, success is a road, hard long bumpy road. Those who wait to harvest what they didn't plant, will always harvest a big disappointment.

[@patriecebreland]

3:47 It’s the fucking sign for me! 😭😂

[@dominicsamson1]

I love you guys! C'est pas mon style de contenu, mais j'essaie de passer laisser un like de temps à temps. C'est vraiment fun de vous voir avoir du succès et rire à fond pendant l'exercice. Des québécois qui thrive!!! Yes sir!

[@nicwolf1370]

The look on their faces when they realise that if they want a luxury lifestyle, THEY'LL have to make the money 😂😂😂

[@jackhhun2698]

or they will have to be traditional wifes. It really shows the mental gymnastics they have in their head but they still haven't worked out that the Man in the 1% has more options than they ever will. They are just realizing that there is competition for this man and that he is rare they have yet to even realize that when they meet said man they have nothing to offer him. They may think their vajajay is worth 1million but no most 20 dollar toys are better than some women and a man with options has had his fill if not better Vajajay than theirs but they still think their box is golden without even considering the idea that bed room fun won't be enough to hook that man. I'd love to see that idea put in their heads and watch them melt or the rage build as their lifestyle/atm man they felt entitled to since birth was never really in the cards

[@shadow-man8715]

nobody makes 650k working a job that i know. The only way you get to that is through investing that money and seeing it grow over the years

[@alexchainger]

Why someone just give it to them tho? CaUsE ThEy ArE PrEtTy -Gents you is gonna tell them?...

[@jackhhun2698]

@@alexchainger we all know about sugar mama's thats an age of winter

[@isaa8521]

@@jackhhun2698 as a woman I agree. I don’t care what anyone says I’m proud to be a career woman that works for her $$$. These women scream desperation. It’s embarrassing.

[@Gaby9968]

It is very hard for me to fathom just how delusional some people are Edit: some of you are so pressed😂let me be clear: most people who think like this are female, but there is at least 1% of men who think like this, so no, I'm not gonna say only WOMEN. Just like Aba&Preach I think that people, not only one gender or the other, should be held accountable. Have a good day everyone.

[@torachan23]

Stop the cap. You act just like these girls and want the same things

[@briannaroper5965]

@@torachan23 bffr, most people aren’t that outlandish in their desires because they understand the reality of the world we live in.

[@TeleologicalConsistency]

Women confuse sex with commitment because they project their own thinking patterns. Women think that because they can get a man to have sex with them that can get them to commit. Men don't commit through sex. Men commit through their attention and resources. Sex is as trivial as taking a piss for men.

[@Gaby9968]

@@briannaroper5965 let him/her/them be delusional as well, it is, after all A SICKNEEEESSS

[@anthonym840]

@@briannaroper5965 mmmm alot are. But that person has a poor judgment of who is and who isnt.

[@rapidretrovenue563]

0:57 BOTH yo asses got knocked tf down LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@AdoptedPoo]

na, they cant be this disconnected

[@xtiphuny89]

I’m gonna throw this out there: i agree with Preach. As a stay at home mom with a husband who runs his own business, i am fully willing to give him the goods whenever he wants it. He is respectful to me and doesn’t push it if he can see it’s not a good time, but i never turn him down if he really wants it. In fact, there are times i come to him to offer it, even if I’m not in the mood, to make sure he’s getting his needs met. S3x matters, y’all.

[@ralphfraz]

I can't speak for every man, but I will honestly say that physical intimacy with my lady deepens my passion for her and fuels my desire to protect and provide for her. The more wanted I feel the more I want to stoke that flame. The minute the passion begins to wane in the bedroom, it starts to spill over into others.

[@xtiphuny89]

@@ralphfraz yes, that’s how I feel! We go weeks at a time without it because i keep having babies and getting sick for the first trimester, and I feel more distant than he does. He takes it in stride because he’s grateful for the babies, but I know sincerely that our intimacy brings us closer and without it, we would just be best friends. Which is fine, but the intimacy is such a wonderful connection, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’ve told him before that if either of us suffered from an accident or illness that took s3x out of the picture, I would still be committed but something would be missing and I’d find another way to make up for it. That bond matters!

[@lavellelee5734]

@@ralphfraz preach my brotha 😂

[@Raeannabanana00]

Not a stay at home mom but I didn’t realize how important/necessary sex was to my husband until recently and we’ve been together 8 years. And even if I don’t want it, I understand that it’s not about me. And that I need to fulfill his needs the same he would fulfill mine even if he didn’t feel like it at the moment. It’s all about a little give and take.

[@TheRealJonster]

@@xtiphuny89 "... But I know sincerely that our intimacy brings us closer and without it, we would just be best friends." exactly why I lost my ex-girlfriend whom I had a long distance relationship with. She viewed us as friends after months apart because we couldn't be intimate. While I would look at things logically, she would turn to her feelings immediately and felt she needed to call things off instead -- eventhough I tried to reason with her about why she felt the way she did. Most frustrating situation of my life.

[@daveblackman816]

I love how Courtney Ryan exposes how out of touch they are. This is what happens when you have a generation of people raised on social media. “They need to make $650k for me to be comfortable.” LOL

[@MildChunkySalsa]

Out of touch for regular people but these women feel like they come from families with money. They already grew up with people with big houses and fancy cars, so it’s not crazy for them.

[@Jazzmaster1992]

Is she exposing women or is she vetting for them to get content that feeds the algorithm and helps her channel grow? I'm always a little skeptical of these videos, in this day and age when it's somebody's job to make money by getting clicks and views.

[@redwall1521]

@@MildChunkySalsa Yeah, and it's funny because back when they grew up in those comfortable homes, the household salary might've been just 100k. That can easily lead to "people with big houses and fancy cars", especially if you live in a low cost of living area.

[@markcampbell2702]

Courtney Ryan is great. She’s fairly reasonable in her vids and tries her best to stay objective to both genders. I’m glad she does videos like this to call out delusional women

[@phljawn]

This whole part of the internet with these women is mind boggling to me. The topic of salary has never occurred to me. Where I'm from you're doing well if you're making 50k a year. 😂

[@darney7086]

"I want to do nothing and have everything handed to me"

[@Needglory23]

“Doesn’t Batman drive one of those” 😂😂🤣

[@kronos1794]

We need a video of dudes who make the money they're talking about react to this and break down why that likely won't happen for them.

[@emiliolachappa2135]

His name was Kevin Samuels and may he rest in peace

[@kronos1794]

@@emiliolachappa2135 I mean this video directly. People need to hear it from the mouths of the men these women are looking for.

[@torachan23]

Men who make that kind of money have much more important things to do

[@bennywarren9866]

We don't need it actually. If you really look into the subject those high earning men get hung out to dry all the time. They don't vet their women and get half their assets jacked in the divorce.

[@atoephraim56]

Ask the top 10 richest women all of them got their money through the divorce

[@LoadedGunn47]

The irony is that each one of these “stay at home” moms are hiring a nanny day 1 that baby comes home. If they’re looking for this kind of money, they’re not looking for responsibility.

[@carolynngockel3670]

A lot of stay at home moms don't hire nannies, or they are the babysitter or nanny for relatives or neighbors so they don't have to leave their kids in daycare.

[@cheesesteakphilly]

No worries, they’ll just turn into single, 50 year-old women with 5 cats that drink wine every day.

[@ofekmizrahi3079]

These are daughters of CEOs without anything of value they just never realised how life works yet

[@nuni8185]

Exactly

[@lavellelee5734]

@@ofekmizrahi3079 they finna understand in a decade or two

[@RunFromCities]

To put in perspective congressional representatives and the president of USA make less than 300k a year and that chick wants more than double.....wtf.

[@wuddafxuppp]

Like....where did she get this level of confidence? Look at your hair, bro.

[@QuesadillaLover]

Funny story. A couple of years ago I used to work at a gym and this older man would come in to workout, in his 60s but was ripped. We ended up talking and he told me he was a retired dietician and physical therapist for 30 years. He even said he worked for the LA dodgers and Lakers for a while in the early 2000s. Had a house in Brentwood. Finally I ask "Hey, how much did you make before retirement?" And he said oh the most was around $550,000 annual. This was a man who was early 60s, had multiple college degrees, his own medical office AND worked with professional athletes. And these girls want a man who makes MORE? IT IS A SICKNESS

[@evaphillips2102]

Calm down, you’re being dramatic. It’s just ignorance.

[@QuesadillaLover]

@@evaphillips2102 hey guuuyyyy

[@mikeg3728]

Lot of delusional women out there. 2009, I went on a dating site, listed my age and stated age range of no less than 5 years younger than me, not more than two years older than me. So they were I think 36-43 range? These women were posting faked up pictures, old pictures from when they were younger, their profiles basically said "I'm a goddess and require worship", and were up front about requiring 250K or higher annual income. I found a profile of a woman wearing a chicken costume, and she was at a costume party choking some guy dressed up as a 1920's looking gangster, very little other data but I was intrigued. We dated, we were struggling at the time both making okay money in So-Cal. We're now 10 years married and are very well off. I'm gonna guess most of those "goddesses" from 2009 are drinking boxed wine and arguing with cats.

[@QuesadillaLover]

@mikeg3728 Those goddesses are still on dating apps waiting for Prince Charming. Personally, I think it's great for them to display their red flags out to the public

[@SarahXTsunami]

they don’t want husbands.. they want rich fathers😵‍💫

[@boxerchick702]

When I met my husband I made almost 3x his $20k salary. He had no motivation to make more, but when we met he started having aspirations to have a family, home, and long term stability. In less than a year, he more than doubled his income to $46k and grinds and evaluates his situation to make more so we have an even more comfortable life. I love him and could never imagine my life without him. No amount of money could make me happier than I am with a husband I love and who loves me.

[@zukodude487987]

and yet you became more happy when he started to earn more...

[@TayongoExplores]

@@zukodude487987 should she be sadder because of it? Everyone wants more money as long as it does not come with pain.

[@ruwhite1316]

Scooby dooby doo

[@zukodude487987]

@@TayongoExplores If his income went back to old levels then do you think she would be sadder because she was poorer or because woman cant date down?

[@wakaflakaflameon9892]

@@zukodude487987 yes he made her happy because he was making more but because he wanted MORE WITH HER. reading comprehension is crucial here, he wanted a life with her so that motivated HIM to MAKE more. thats some shit i could respect as a man but you wanted to be dumb about it smh

[@420MamaBear]

Preach- " u were in LA ABA- "there was a lot of black ppl😂 I'm dead. Preach was almost cryin😂😂

[@themissingpeace7956]

A relationship goes two ways. All I hear from these ladies is what they want, not what they can bring to the table.

[@ragu8256]

A lot of people are in love with this 6 figure fantasy but they aren't aware of how much time and effort goes into making just 100K. You will miss A LOT of family time, a lot of time with friends, and a lot of personal time. Its crazy that they think it's feasible to even live like that.

[@mgn3618]

Alice in wonderland they be living in

[@josuedavid3786]

Unless you're a "communications expert" working at twitter pre Elon lmao

[@Mimi-hn6iv]

Also, are they wanting to date someone over 50? I don't know many people who much over 100k (or even right at 100k), that are under 50.

[@CB-rv2lj]

it genuinely angers me.

[@dchiznit209]

Social Media skews so many expectations

[@dabombvoyage2906]

Imagine thinking making hundreds of thousands of dollars is more realistic than someone making 45 k a year 😭

[@lavellelee5734]

Aye you said it not me 🤣

[@realjcoop182]

They're sick and need help

[@Drieta18]

I completely agree with preach!!

[@koyance]

I believe in manifestation and affirmation. I journal my goals and bucket list. I speak my wants and needs into existence but I work my ass off to make it happen.

[@DrRhilTV]

I almost fell down the steps when she said 650k 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@purplegirl8036]

Please have a seat when you watch these ridiculous videos. 😂😂😂

[@austins.1102]

0:13 “You have to manifest a husband girl” shawty must think this is a Disney movie. Women like this be throwing around terms like *“6/7 figures”* like they’re talking about a Wendy’s 4 for $4🤦🏾‍♂️.

[@MrSub132]

its hilarious, she's like a 6/10 at best knowing men dont look at her like that hence why she has to 'manifest' aka pray for one XD

[@sniperpronerfmods9811]

Hey man I love me some Wendy's 4 for 4s

[@narusuke413]

@@sniperpronerfmods9811ong

[@444ytb]

This is what social media and simps has made women into. They all think they're the shit, big ass egos with little to no evidence to justify it. Why would a man that makes 6/7 figures even want something (other a quick fuck cus he's bored) from someone this entitled that most likely has more miles than a 90's toyota? I get better investment deals in times of a Recession than when dealing with women like these. ROI is better even.

[@Mark-if1yu]

Ya she's lessening to some good old con called Joel Olsen. See he and others thinks they are gods. Or they are God is a prostitute and they are His pimps. Sick manifest what delusional these people are not delusional they are sick. If this was a reality for most people how come they are not making that kind of money?. a woman talking about a family car that seats only two Adults. Over 2 million.

[@JayBrown-xs9ps]

Alot of people be capped-out nowadays, most of us would drop all this for the right person (even some stuff we probably shouldn't).

[@IsaacTui]

This delusion breaches the realm of lunacy. Just look at them they have no concept of money 😂😂😂😂