The Power in Practicing Silence as A Feminine Woman

[@erind2261]

I pray to God to tell me when to speak & when to be silent. I cannot tell how many times I went silent & avoided disastrous situations.

[@drmichelledaf]

It truly works. He will help you!

[@LB-ku6ry]

Thank you.

[@practicallyheidi8505]

Where there are many words, sin abounds. I need to remind myself of this a lot because it is true.

[@KarineAlourde]

Wonderful messages and gorgeous in pink. This is my favorite look 😍😍

[@s.crockett5457]

She looks GREAT riggght?!😊 What a B-E-A-U-T-Y, inside and out. God continue to bless her💛🤎🤍✨️

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you my loveeee 🤍 it's my favorite colorrr💕🎀

[@drmichelledaf]

@@s.crockett5457 thank you honey 🤍💕

[@Ms.Britt1822]

This was a good topic! I’m married and learned how important it is to think about what I’m going to say first. It’s so important to voice your opinion in a respectful way. Never damage your spouse. Please more marriage related content. 💕💐

[@carolrichardson3764]

I do struggle with saying too much when I’m upset. Thank You and Happy Mother’s Day

[@drmichelledaf]

It's normal, just something to work on for as you remember. Thank you honey 🤍

[@LATANYAL]

Me 2 I’m learning

[@amaamoateng4916]

@@LATANYALm

[@azucarweber2456]

I’m a Hispanic being following you for over 2y, thank you for providing such a beautiful content you have an amazing aura 💕💕

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you for your support honey. I truly appreciate it. God bless you 💋

[@lonnierashid6812]

“ALWAYS SPEAK LESS THAN NECESSARY 🗣”

[@bupe_mukuka]

You look amazing in pink! I love this video, I think sometimes, we get scared to be silent because society portrays it as weakness and failure to stand up for yourself. I used to argue a lot with my siblings over everything and they knew they couldn't get a conversation going with me because I was always trying to prove myself right. But after I started learning about femininity, being soft, being silent, it's like I became I knew person. My brothers appreciate me more and even when we have differing opinions, I always try to understand them and be kind still. Also, being silent about what im up to has helped me achieve many goals as compared to the times when I shared all plans. It's not been easy being this way, but it's one of the best things to experience. Thanks again for reminding us the importance of this rare gift.

[@kharyzma4u]

Thanks for this video. In the past year the Lord prompted me to start moving in silence a little more. I discovered that with some people, if I wasn't the one initiating a conversation, we really had nothing to talk about. All along it was me initiating a topic. When I stopped talking as much, some people felt uncomfortable that I wasn't sharing so much about myself and they were now scrambling to find something to say. So it taught me that there needs to be a balance of two people sharing in a conversation. Silence is very powerful.

[@quietandmildone]

@kharyzma4u I could have written this. The worst part is that it left me emotionally exhausted from trying to “carry” conversations and relationships. Thanks for sharing your thoughts

[@kharyzma4u]

@@quietandmildone Yes! This was a big revelation for me this year.

[@ce_u]

Please talk about postpartum; Weight loss, Loving yourself, finding time for yourself and for self care, your husband, your career, and finding time for God. Thanks ❤

[@thequeenmidas]

The meek shall inherit the earth. Meekness is not weakness. It is strength under control.

[@ZhaneAmali]

I can't stop listening to you. This was so eye opening it made me cry. I subscribed to your podcast and downloaded a bunch to listen when I can. Keep me in your prayers as I make positive changes in my life.

[@drmichelledaf]

Awww sweetie! Well I am thankful you enjoy the content and it is blessing you. Definitely praying for you!

[@richbeauty212]

Wow... beautifully said! This has been my significant other request for a while. I misconstrued his advise for ridicule. First time hearing it in this light. I pray for God to give me self-control & wisdom as I grow more into Femininity ❤🙏🏽

[@dahliadoll1110]

As someone who is always listening to something, I feel so called out right now 😬😢😂 Thank you for getting it through to me that silence is necessary!

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Love that! Feminine silence is not about being secret but being selective! ✨🤍✨ 🌸Pink is YOUR color! 🌸

[@drmichelledaf]

Yes my dear! 💕 And thank you it's my faveeee 💋 God bless you ✨✨

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

@@drmichelledaf happy Mother’s Day!😘

[@da6356]

God is truly using you Dr Daf! So blessed! Watching from UK

[@kvi.199]

This was such a great video. I’m married now, but back when I was dating I remember a scenario where being more observant and talking less revealed that the man was not for me! When I first met him I was so talkative and was over sharing. However my girlfriend told me to stop doing that and to speak less and listen more. On the next date I did just that. Guess what? This man had NO ability to start or carry conversations. In fact he was so anxious and didn’t know what to do bc I wasn’t over sharing and I wasn’t initiating all conversations. This was a quick red flag 🚩 Silence can be so so insightful when dealing with others. Thanks Dr. Daf

[@Maggs3]

Love this video especially about not interrupting when my man or others are speaking. This has been my struggle, it's because I want to get my thoughts in and I don't mean to be disrespectful however I do understand that if they feel disrespected then my intentions don't matter much. I'm still working on this and tips from you would be helpful lol. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us. You're appreciated Dr. Daf❤

[@perpsfav6607]

I love your style. Can we please get a style video from you?

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you babe 💕 what kind of video exactly would you like to see?

[@AdornedbyGod]

@@drmichelledaf feminine styles ways to dress & appear more sexy/feminine for ourselves for confidence

[@perpsfav6607]

@@drmichelledaf I'm inspired by your personal style and I will love to have lesson on style

[@blossoms9503]

Finally, I’ve been waiting for a feminine to do a vid on silence. I figured out how beautiful this was for the feminine a couple of years ago. But not much was out there on this

[@Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice]

As always Dr. Daf, this is a wonderful message on when to use silence and when to sound our voice. Thank you.

[@drmichelledaf]

You are welcome love thank you for watching 💐

[@PhoenixMoonQueen7]

What a beautiful message. You delivered it well and made sure that you covered when to be silent and when to speak up. I am working on speaking less, which is difficult bc my initial way of recovering from trauma, was to speak up for myself and others. I think I am finally ready for this balance at this point in my life now. Thank you for this video! 🙏❤️

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

First I would like to say you look like a human doll Motherhood looks great on you! 💓💗💖💞💕Your silence videos are such a blessing..I have been working on it since you last “silent” video 3 years ago it does work and attract high quality people just not men..now I’m working on not commenting on things on IG that I oppose to.. I, Alia Dixon AM a feminine meek kind respectful woman who listens to the Holy Spirit.. I have changed my paradigms unfortunately my mother had to be masculine because our dad went along his partying good time life leaving my mother to fend for us and she was masculine (always wanted to get her point across so her voice could finally be heard) Bless my mother she did the best she could do but I AM now a feminine woman When you know better you do better 🙏🏿

[@Vessel_of_God]

I would love if you did that video on a gentle and quiet spirit

[@LOVVVVVVVVVEE]

God is on our side ❤❤❤ great advice by saying go to him.

[@takera7]

Yes we would like a video on a gentle & quiet spirit. Thank you for the content lovely!

[@DzignrGrl]

Happy Mother's Day Michelle! You are so beautiful and feminine in your pink wardrobe! I especially love your eye makeup! Thank you for this value video. The key thing I have had to work on is to stay silent and not interrupt those I am comfortable with. I saw a lot of family members interrupting each other when I grew up. I was very silent then but when I got older, I was worried I wouldn't get a chance to speak. A lot of times I know what they are going to say, but I cannot assume that. I would worry I would forget something I wanted to tell them, and interject. I have been working on this for the past year, and your videos have been a wonderful reminder to keep at it! If I take a deep breath, it helps me get more comfortable with staying silent and properly wait for when it is time for me to speak. Adversely, I used to be silent and not speak up when I was in an abusive situation, but I learned that I was harming myself by not speaking up.

[@comfortplacehome6242]

Dr. Michelle, I love your content!! Yes, please do another video on practicing feminine silence. Thank you for all that you do. 🙂

[@Destiny-cy8qs]

Yes! Would love a video on quietness and gentle spirit

[@jill616]

Ohh em gee! I super love your pink outfit and head accessory gurl! You look so girly and fabulouss!

[@ccb6013]

The pink and the bow are too _cute!_ 💗

[@politaaaaa]

It always makes me happy whenever I watch your videos ☺️ Later, we're having a familiar lunch and I do thing this video is right on time!!! God is so GOOD! Sending blessings your way, dear Dr. Michelle! 💕

[@drmichelledaf]

That's wonderful! Enjoy your lunch love! Blessings and love to you honey 🎀

[@evolutionofarose]

You're my favorite person to listen to on KZbin. Your wisdom and words always resonates with me. Thank you.

[@aliyahguess8967]

I needed this Dr. Daf. Thank you for helping women like me. I’ve been struggling with this for a while now.

[@lakeishasmith3569]

Thank u for disciplining me with such love and correction! ❤ I appreciate your great work sis❤ ive been following you a year and you have silently help transform our relationship! ❤ I thank Yah for such a strong feminine and gorgeous lady

[@iwonan-k]

Love this! You are very intelligent and classy ❤❤❤ greetings from Poland 😘

[@ifyalexis]

Thank you for this! You’re such a blessing xx

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you for watching sweetie 💋

[@GR-fs3vj]

Men are always asking me why I’m not happy and smiling while I’m at work I’m like isn’t it obvious? I never know what to say.

[@lorrainetate07]

Hey Michelle, thank you for all you do for us. Please could you make a video or provide tips on how to be a fierce business woman and still remain feminine. I find that the more I get interested in chasing success the more I get concerned that I’ll start to appear very masculine

[@briggettmumphrey3226]

Please do a video on a gentle and quiet spirit

[@drmichelledaf]

I will love 💕

[@divinelymade4721]

Great work Dr Michelle❤ I’d really like a video on having a gentle spirit

[@tabi1010]

I needed to hear this.. especially when you mentioned about talking to your children

[@LianaHakobyan_]

Thank you, God.I’ve found the KZbin channel I’ve been looking for.❤

[@shamikiabanks3946]

Happy Mother's Day Beautiful Dr. Daf❤ 💜 💖 💗 💘.Thank you for your great content 🎉

[@bm-zy3gv]

I love this. Thank you so much for holding us accountable. Phew 😮‍💨

[@alhassanfirrdous7292]

Infact this is the best video, I have watcted on sillence!

[@netsanetsortland2367]

I just find you on KZbin, and I really feel God led me to you… I love you channel, thank you for sharing helpful material 💕 I would really love to watch a video more about gentle and quiet spirit . God bless you 🌹

[@meeknessmasukume7217]

I have been following your podcasts and I’m so inspired

[@jucxox]

This video was made for me. I needed so much help thank you!

[@juliediaz9978]

Yes, please make a video of gentle and quiet spirit. Love all your videos.

[@Elinal23567]

Thank you for this soulful video, you answered some of the questions that I had for God...Thank you! ❤️

[@natasha.parker]

Thank you so much this video is very informative . Lots of wisdom 🩷✨

[@chobleu]

Amazing , simply amazing episode. Thank you Dr. Daf ❤️

[@scruffylookingnerfherder1983]

One of the biggest mistakes I've made is thinking it was my job to impress men by telling them all about my accomplishments, goals, and ideas. It screams, "Look at me, pay attention to me, love me! How could you not when I'm so WORTHY and ACCOMPLISHED. I have so much to offer, I bring so much to the table!!" It's horrible. I think educated women like myself who are eager to please can really struggle with this after getting validation from these things all our lives in school and work. We're so used to having to prove ourselves and our worth that we think these things matter a lot more than hey actually do in dating. I get so wrapped up in wondering about how my date feels about me instead of relaxing into the moment and into my own body. I am going to be praying to god for the ability to know when to keep my mouth shut going forward.

[@kenamasunsmith3976]

Girl, You look fabulous! And you are fabulous!

[@drmichelledaf]

Wow thank you so much!🩷

[@Myythandle782]

Just clicked on - haven’t watched yet but have to tell you, you look (and are) absolutely gorgeous) love you!!! I always love your content and I appreciate you. Xxx

[@efuasenchery3]

Hello Doc, I would love the gentle and quiet spirit video.🙏🏿

[@DonDiariesNYC]

Love love this video! & love love your style and colors in the video ❤️

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you so much sweetie!

[@alhassanfirrdous7292]

Todays make up us excellent!

[@sekhohliweyisraelmoloto8926]

Hi Dr Michelle 🌸, thank you for this content, can you please do a video on a gentle and quiet spirit.

[@maryvallarta]

This really spoke to me. Thank you so much Dr. Michelle. ❤

[@drmichelledaf]

I'm so grateful🩷 thank you for watching

[@Forthekingdom548]

This reminds me of the book “Getting to I do “

[@brendacrawford343]

Y’all please pray for me bc I talk too Much about me😢😢😢

[@tamaragatling2809]

This is so good.

[@ravenwatts01]

Hello Gorgeous! I love your life changing videos. I would love if you did a video about having a quiet and gentle spirit. ❤

[@drmichelledaf]

Thank you sweetheart, I will!

[@liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984]

Love this topic.

[@HassanJalloh-er6om]

Shalom Strategic beautiful ❤Dr Michelle Daf, Interesting teaching,, what feminist and mascunist, trust ur Concern Dr shalom,, Amen,.

[@MorningsWithMaria]

I love the eyeshadow hair bow and top combo so pretty 💕🎀

[@thobekamantshongo4458]

Thank you so much for this content, I sometimes speak a lot and then after I kind of regret it a bit

[@Nomvula26]

Thank you so much, you look amazing 😍

[@drmichelledaf]

Thanks love and thank you for watching 🎀

[@erinashannon3288]

Good morning lady ❤❤❤❤

[@lolytar.1271]

Thank you for another amazing and inspiring video! I love your channel and the helpful advice you provide! May God always bless you! Greetings from Panama!!

[@pearlfeather9326]

I definitely have an issue with this

[@Iamkarensafo]

There she is ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@keedasingz]

Lovely video

[@MrsAngulaHendrina]

Thank u soo much needed this, is it possible to make a video on how to pray as a feminine wife been married for two years and I think I'm a lukewarm Christian

[@rubylove9475]

Why do you say you think your lukewarm hun?

[@MrsAngulaHendrina]

@@rubylove9475 I believe that God does exist but I'm not truly fully following his ways

[@TheRealMsBlu]

You look so pretty in pink 🌸

[@Me.kwamby]

Happy Mother’s Day

[@sherrysunshinefreeman3434]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lexiswanson8112]

Oof... she pegged me on the always having to have something on. If I'm left in quiet for too long my brain literally does not stop and it's like 10 people talking at the same time. I get flashbacks and my mind isn't kind to me. 8 have aloooot of inner child work to do, but I don't have time to break down that way.

[@brendacrawford343]

How MUCH TO SPEAK& when 2,SPEAK -1.ON DATES/BE STILL IN YOUR BODY/ No spilling info/ is he only about sex?/ use THAT SILENT X TO TAKE HIM IN!

[@SkylitVirtue]

Ugghh I really wanna purchase your perfume but it’s WAY TOO expensive in Canada. 😩 I hate being Canadian!😭😭

[@liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984]

Looking so beautiful.

[@sbusisiwebhengu5987]

You look stunning

[@maryammalik1374]

❤ beautiful

[@happy2bhere706]

6:26

[@tialynn1111]

How to practice feminine silence when on Zoom date? I suppose it is the same thing? Pause when speaking, talk slowly, don’t reveal everything? Thanks for your valuable videos❤

[@tristybrooke33]

Wish I could press like 10 times 🙏🏽❤️

[@roypatra1509]

Is your perfume sold in russia?

[@lilykangai1598]

pretty in pink

[@sheleania]

Lol we have to get into that

[@brendacrawford343]

I. N😢Ever learned to flirt

[@RyzsDiary]

🥰🥰🥰

[@briamonyae1396]

❤👂🏾👏🏾🫰🏾

[@GARC1A996]

Omggggg❤❤❤❤

[@gtevda]

❤️

[@janekadequay]

We can't be respected and cherished?

[@drmichelledaf]

You can and should be. But with regard to gender differences in marriage, men value respect and see it as love whereas women value being cherished and see it as love. It like having a right and left hand. Both are needed but one is dominant. I'll talk more about this in the future because it takes more teaching to fully understand. Thanks for watching 💕

[@sidneyibiom2867]

Tou are like andrew tate but for women ❤

[@Aye_cutie24]

Wow. I actually just made this mistake BUT now I know better. Thank you for the wisdom. I’ve grown so much from your channel. 🤍

[@frankyavery]

This was gret, thank you.