The Power of Letting Go; stuff, weight, the past, people, comparisons...

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

✨Tell me, what are you letting go of, need to let go of, going to start to let go of... ?

[@mickrozycki451]

Allan Watts - On letting go.

[@sarahb2652]

I am letting go of old clothes, books, shredding old paperwork, helping my son sort his room out...lots of things. Next is the garage which I am not looking forward to!!!

[@cyndigates]

I've donated clothes I will never wear. Art supplies that were duplicates. Books that I no longer need.

[@rubystar2045]

Clothes not worn. Going to friends and charity. This is an endless for me as I love op shopping!

[@dsan5825]

Does having to pack up all my art supplies due to getting ready to sell my home. Realtor said they have to go and it could be months till I see them… 😢

[@stephanieb120]

I'm so opposite these days after a huge declutter and downsize in 2023 to follow my heart from Canada to my new home in Ireland at age 69, I now have to learn how to slow down and create again. Now, I need to stop worrying about building up clutter in my new space LOL. We humans are a complex bunch. Saying this, as long as we continue to create love and joy on our human journey, all is well ❤❤❤

[@Dingle1234]

I'd love so much to hear more about this and how you accomplished it. 59 and counting, S Ontario. 🙂

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh gosh yes! i was like that after our vanlife days... no to stuff i really needed!! we were still using van plates a few years later!! xx it's a fine balance indeed! xxx and the journey with our stuff is v complex indeed!! xx

[@lisasheridan5482]

Hello from the sunny South East of Ireland. Welcome. I hope your new life and new home makes magical memories for and with you. ❤❤

[@shmataboro8634]

Wrong way round with the Ikea unit made me smile. I recently put one side of an Ikea table together wrong way round myself. Happily it came apart as easily as it went together, so I was able to correct it. Team Gypsy are doing a great job on the studio renovation. ❤

[@selenaramos4650]

I am from florida and have always dreamed of this move! How did the move go for you? So awesome to hear

[@Theclevermuse]

I just lost my home and all my belongings to Hurricane Helene in Asheville, NC. I watched your video for inspiration. Thank you for helping me focus on creating and what’s important.

[@zlatahume3134]

I am 71 this year and realised that for me the people I love mean a lot, so I do nurture my relationships better, I stopped buying stuff and now I do still get books and plants and the rest is scrutinised before purchase as why I want it or do I need it, make life easier. I also say no easier if I do not want do something, that took me years to do, there is no come back if you are definite about it. 😊❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh so wise,love it indeed... i also think; 'is this going to complicate my life if i get it?' and then it's easier to say no... not always... but it helps!

[@Lynette-qh3tw]

​@theunexpectedgypsy what a great question to ask in decision making. Love it.

[@SaralinaLove]

​@Lynette-qh3tw yes great question!

[@marthasimons7940]

Lovely. I am an older lady and because of serious health issues, look at the stuff I have continued decluttering for 50 years. Lessons I have learned and am learning. 1. If you are buying a lot of storage tubs, you aren't seriously decluttering, you are re arranging 2. Don't wait to ru-use, gift, 9:29 recycle, donate etc., most people don't want you stuff, and you have to throw it away

[@reeseosbornestudios]

There is no way around it, James is the BEST! 😊⚘️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

true indeed!!

[@KW-K985]

Love a man who makes things happen

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh yes, me too!! xx

[@txspacemom765]

I left my heart and my son at University 3 weeks ago. I came home and was just down- not depressed, just in a very weird head space. I also turned 50, which is another huge moment and weird head space. The house was a disaster, from pulling stuff to send with him and just not having the time to take care of things. Add in normal life, and well, here I am. I pulled EVERYTHING out of every nook and cranny and have been putting like with like. If I know I do not need something, out it went to my vehicle immediately. I'm still working through and it may not be the fastest way but I'm getting it done. I like your idea of layers. I can breathe a little bit more now. It's been nice.

[@HellCatt0770]

I remember crying while shopping in Aldi when my girl went to Uni. It suddenly felt like the end of an era you know? I think you have to grieve sometimes before you focus on the next stage of life.

[@sarahpauline4904]

My children are leaving the nest too, when the last one goes I know I will be so very sad. Kudos to you for finding something to tackle while you are in this liminal space between this and life's next great adventure!

[@SaralinaLove]

Wow congratulations!! Love to hear how it's going!! You're an inspiration ❤❤❤❤

[@SaralinaLove]

​@@HellCatt0770yes grieving is key 🔑 ❤😢then slowly making ine step at a time to rebuild ❤

[@leptir7110]

Niste ih ni trebali imati ,manje biste trošili vremena ,novaca i ne biste tugovali za njima

[@debbierasmussen9617]

Wendy, I am exactly where you are. I have collected/accumulated so much stuff that was supposed to be inspiration. I have spent the past few years shifting boxes and baskets around depending on my current project. But, at 61, this isn't how I want to treat my body anymore. If guests came to stay, I would have to load up boxes in my van, then unload once again. I have am having shoulder surgery two weeks into Dec. and have spent the last six months in a serious deep purge and organizing, building new storage, etc... Everyone around me is used to me saying, for years, that I'm organizing and decluttering. But I need to come back during recovery to relax and rediscover where my creativity will lead me for the next chapter in my life. So, thank you for sharing. There are so many of us creatives that understand how we can get ourselves stacked behind the wall of our creative clutter. Cheers!

[@iamzeffyandilove2scr]

Wendy you space looks awesome….James is a wonderful creator too…tifs your videos are always a pleasure to watch.

[@helenbird1664]

Thank you 😊nice teamwork .Its always a great feeling after a much needed declutter👍

[@SN-sz7kw]

My “other half” doesn’t believe in reading Ikea instructions. So the first years of our marriage involved me speed reading directions before he completed anything & tossed the “spare” bits. 😳 Eventually I managed to purchase & assemble things myself on the sly. Then I bought tools for both daughters & henceforth made them the masters of all furniture assembly. 😂

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

love it!!! hahahahaha!!!!!!

[@dissidentfairy4264]

I wish I was one of your daughters....I hate directions and my mechanical ability doesn't even register. lol I always say, "I'm an artist not a mechanic." I know it's a cop out. I have the intellect, I just have an aversion for things like that, but I also feel it's somewhat of a mental block too. lol

[@leslievincent8565]

That is brilliant!! Your kids are lucky!

[@Autodidactz]

Clever idea! I just fixed a nightmare toilet seat that no male has successfully tackled: my ex I'm trying to let go of, repairmen, etc. I thought, "In your FACE." Going to teach my kids these things.

[@Musecollective]

I’m so glad you showed up on my KZbin! I was with you through some of the pandemic and you were a breath of fresh air for my soul many times. Thank you for sharing your experience and light. ❤

[@lady_v_101]

My children have expressed they don't want any of my stuff, so I'm trying to get rid of it all and just keep the essentials. Every time I see something I'd like, I remember and don't buy it.. There's a KZbin video from a woman who organises people's homes "your kids don't want your crap" and it's SO true!!.

[@julied.9528]

I stumbled upon some videos on Swedish Death cleaning, and it's made me reconsider what to keep and what to let go, for the sake of my kids.

[@tarahskinner923]

So true! Reiterating so TRUE! However`~ here is a little perspective: i was sharing w/ my now grown (34yrs old) cousin in how i need to clear out my Cottage-so that my grown kids or grandkids don't have too .... Her words being (exactly) in responding to me: "Don't worry" about that now-i can only wish that i had a huge cottage for cleaning out after losing my parents! ...as i said perspective! She lost Her Mum @ age 3 and Her Dad @ age 13. "Possession Vampires" (adults) having been stationed all around her-having saved nothing for her ... soooo yeah needless to say i am working on balance for what to keep and for what to give away .... just my story-that's all ... Love the Tube here! Thx for sharing your comment. 🙏✌

[@kiwi007]

My Mum passed a few weeks ago and I've kept some things because she treasured them, even though they are now in a wardrobe!

[@leptir7110]

Vaša djeca očito niti vas ne žele

[@francescachecchin6191]

I understand you, but you are still alive and can "godere" your properties. I think your is a sense of responsability towards the things you love, it is sad they are thrown away (perhaphs this happens only to me). I do the same... avoid buying for the same reason... i am not sure it is a good thing to do.

[@KittieMcG]

I'm turning 50 this year and I'm going through many of the same things you've shared in your videos. I absolutely enjoy your vlogs. I believe that for some of us, a time of pause/procrastination is needed before we tackle the changes we need for the next season. I used to fight it or feel guilty for an "unproductive" season but over time I've realized it's part of the process, especially for us creatives.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

it is! it is! exactly that ! xxx percolation time! xx

[@SaralinaLove]

Yes so well said. There is something that needs attending INSIDE of us before we can tackle the outside ❤❤❤❤❤🎉

[@martin7878]

James!!!! He is a FOREVER KEEPER!! What an amazing, loving, supportive partner you have. Wow!! You are blessed to have him by your side. You two make an amazing TEAM. ❤❤❤

[@pennywollett3953]

Oh my, my husband helped me build quite a bit of furniture and he is not good at reading instructions and therefore would make lots of mistakes! So glad we didn't film it! Lol!!

[@DorkThink]

You and James are so lovely! ✨ Thank you, Wendy, for keeping your light shining bright and being an example to all of us. ❤️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

and thankyou for shining over there and keeping me company! couldn't do it without you!! xxxxx

[@heatherhoff3657]

You are doing an awesome job inside and outside!! ❤ I love your artwork, creativity, and excellent communication skills. Also, I always feel my best when surrounded by living plants. They provide oxygen, clean the air, and give me "green therapy." (Something about green makes me feel more energetic and alive!) Keep up all the wonderful work you have been doing! 🥰

[@sparklemint2458]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us 💖

[@beauteoussounds1156]

I find that when it takes me longer to find the ingredients than it does to do the craft itself, it’s time for a big declutter session! Thank you for the inspiration❤

[@jeanie8831]

Maybe reorganize first.

[@TerryL421]

I've been working on changing things in my life the last couple of years. I started with what I was eating and have lost 74 pounds and kept it off. My Fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis are much better, but I'm still working on my energy level. It's been a bit of a tough year of ups and downs with my ME/CFS. I'm also working on a major decluttering of my home, but it's a long process when you have so little energy. One small step at a time with lots of rest in between. After watching your videos I am always happy and smiling. I really do look forward to them. Much love to you and James. 💜🤗🤗🤗

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

sounds like you are doing a fine job Terry, well done indeed! and yes, step by step, a little at a time... xxx much love to you too xxx

[@jeanie8831]

Sometimes we get in a rut, I think easy to do, we're human. Reminders are wonderful and they just appear before us in all forms of media. Yes, a little here, a little there. Look at decluttering as a treasure hunt. Change, no matter how small, has such a positive effect on us.

[@jasminestreet2418]

Thank you for sharing this. It has helped me not feel alone in my process at 74😮. And what a kind friend to come alongside you and help you through your process; we all need a friend like this.😊

[@loriburgess1866]

There comes times in our lives where some of us contemplate, question, regrets arise, we celebrate the wins we lived whether intentional or by grace. I’m right with you Wendy.

[@ladyhawthorne1]

I have been decluttering my sewing and crafting room. It's definitely a work in progress, mostly because I have more fabric than I have places to put it. What doesn't fit on the shelves are in plastic totes, but I can't see inside without taking it all out. I will work through it all and then attempt to not have more than the shelves will hold. I have donated some fabric I know I won't use (a lot of this was given to me) as I use mainly cotton and cotton blends for the charity quilts I make and give away. I'm also going through each shelf that holds other crafting items and I have donated 3 bags and a box full of stuff so far. I've donated about 8 reusable shopping bags to a local group that gives free organic produce to those on a lower income, which includes me. I can't help garden but I was glad to find a small way to help them out. One thing I declutter often is my bin of scrap fabric, and it needs it again, I make very colorful and scrappy quilt blocks from the smallish pieces from the bin and save them until there is enough for a whole quilt. I've donated some books to the library here at my apartment building, gave a stand mixer to a lady here who had a broken one, bought a diy cabinet to fit in the hall that replaced a smaller one and gave the smaller one away. I need to go through my clothes, some are really worn and I have some new ones I need to hem shorter. I have one of those drawer units like you and James put together and I'm thinking of getting another to replace the plastic 3 drawer unit that can't handle the weight very well. I'm doing my best to let something leave if I bring something in.

[@dmat7148]

Wish I had a friend like James…you two make a lovely couple!

[@cyndigates]

I love that you gave fly lady credit. She has done so much for so many. I saw her live years ago in Tulsa , Oklahoma. She is such a kind lady.

[@DebraofSENC]

Flylady has YT videos regularly too. She is a blessing to the world. She makes cleaning and organizing so much fun. I recently purchased two of her books, I read them in no time even though I have been following her for years. I like the 23 Sling Boogie and the House Blessing among other things.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes, her wisdoms have really helped me move house, declutter, and just move on and let go when i needed, xxx she was the original and still is the best imho! xx

[@jd-um4jw]

I love your work space. Lovely. The plants, the warm fairy lights, makes me smile. ❤

[@KahuLahela]

I just came upon your channel today and am really enjoying watching you going through your process of reorganizing your space. You are fun, delightful ,and fascinating to watch! Thank you! ☺️

[@CourtneyMersch]

I can’t even begin to express how much I needed to hear this today, Thank you! You’re doing amazing, keep on, keeping on! Love and light.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

So glad! xxx much love back xxx

[@clc3897]

I highly recommend you get the book “Good Energy” by Casey Means, MD. It’s going to be life changing when you’ll be able to pinpoint exactly what changes you need to make in order to become healthier. Love all the verticality of your studio space. The best way you can declutter a space is by using the vertical space as efficiently as possible.

[@booksnstuff1563]

Thank you for the book referral. Just downloaded it on Spotify 🎉 cheers x

[@ehpeachylove]

A beautiful video with you and James today. I really needed to hear this message today of “Letting Go and we have no control over what we cannot change”. The Serenity Prayer was a good reminder for me. I also have been changing my eating habits and have lost a few pounds but at time resort to eating those foods I know are bad for me. It does no good to beat ourselves up, we just need to press on and get back up. I’ve had such pain with my sciatica that it’s been very hard to get anything done really. Finally got my home cleaned up which took all my energy. I too have fibromyalgia as so many that watch you Wendy. Thank you for being so honest and sharing your journey. I stopped going to thrift/charity shops as it’s so easy to buy, buy, buy. I started the process of decluttering and it’s a slow process. Trips to Florida due to mother passing and brothers radiation treatments stalled the process but started the process. It’s hard to let go but much needed to clear the mind and freeing too. Love the way James is so-loving and supportive and is marvelous at all the stuff he does to make life easier for you Wendy. He truly is wonderful. You are such an adorable couple. Love the banter between you both. Loved that beautiful church and the bells ringing. In America we do not hear bells very often… so sad. We are all a work in progress and deserve love and grace is a beautiful statement. I e been looking at my spaces in my condo and things need to change. Also I need to make changes in my courtyard too as I lost a lot of plants when I was away. Two days this week in the garden space while sitting down to ease the pain but felt so good. I love how your studio is looking and that beautiful IKEA paper drawer storage is great. Thank you Wendy and James. Have a super, magical week. Love to you both. You look beautiful dear friend. ❤❤❤

[@ladyhawthorne1]

Hello from Colorado, I have bad sciatica as well. We just have to take things one at a time and rest in between.

[@mrstiggywinkle]

‘A Wendy in the future’ this is so powerful ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh it is indeed isn't it xxx

[@helanalurie9962]

Wendy, your videos are like medicine to me. You and James are such lovely people! You artistic approach in all you do is so much appreciated. I jusy lo e the fact that your plant babies are so important for you! I need to do a mind declutter... to do lists and resposibilities overtake so many lifes. Your videos make us more mindful and we appreciate you!! Cannot wait for your next video! I am watching your older ones in between!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww so glad you enjoy the videos xxx encourages me to keep going! i know fortnightly is not as good as weekly but i just couldn't keep up!! xxx big loves x

[@helanalurie9962]

​@@theunexpectedgypsy No worries, you release videos if and when time allows it! You have a life too!! We shall still be here! ❤

[@gentianvandewerken929]

Me being a highly sensitive emotional person -(you )help me get going/selfstarting on my beautiful hand stitching art (thank you so much )/I freeze up in life to much and you help me get going /i've sold my second ever piece/ both went for over 2000 /and the collector is interested in my big 5000/7000 pieces /you don't know how much you help this happen/helped me get out of freeze mode/xoxo-keep them coming on/love you/and James of course too!lol!

[@pamelasusanne22]

Congratulations on selling your art!

[@gentianvandewerken929]

@@pamelasusanne22 thank you!

[@user-uc3ep6qc5o]

We are into a year long journey of decluttering our home and garden . Most the rooms have been done . The difference is amazing so much stuff has been donated, past on or put in the skips. My craftroom was a huge sticking point , I’ve put loads out to charities and friends but still struggling to tame the beast. Then needing roof work urgently plus a replacement Velux everything has been packed in boxes. Seeing your video has inspired me to sort every box and thing I have so I can have the calm space to create. Thank you Wendy and James

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh yes, do it... its feels AMAZING! xxxx so worth the tears!!! xx

[@sherrymacdonald261]

I feel like you. I am 67, have fibromyalgia and IBS and must seriously change my eating habits. Stress eating as well. I too must declutter all my are/ craft area. I get overwhelmed and procrastinate continually. I have to talk myself into following through. Everything,all your feelings you talk about, I totally can relate.Please share with me what is in your diet now. I crave sugary things all the time. My grown kids will not be wanting my " things" , so, must down size. It's not easy parting with alot of my " stuff". Your video's are uplifting and inspiring.Thankyou xx

[@barbaragittens7424]

you are so inspiring for me, just amazing timing dear thank you ❣

[@loricrawford8426]

I love your daybed! My studio is in pretty good shape as I organized it a couple of months ago. Now my home is the problem. After living here for 34 years and raising 3 children, it's packed. I know I have to clean out but it's so difficult. Has to be done at some time though, however I'm going to do it gradually so it doesn't hurt so much. I loved your video. Thank you.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

gradually baby steps that's the way! xxx you can do it!!

[@smalefamily9806]

Love your new uncluttered, organised studio. Thank you to Dr Diy for his help, so lovely to see you two together. I need to get over procrastination and sort my art space out. A deep declutter and organising is required. Thank you for your inspiration.🧚

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes, a little corner at a time!! xxx you can do it!!! (when you are ready though!!)

[@fairweatherannie]

James, you are the absolute best. I love to watch you two working on projects together, and the back-and-forth banter, very cute and funny.. Wendy, your new shelves, drawers, and pegboard really ARE life-changing. Thank you for another fun to watch video xx

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh he is!!! xxx they are yes!!! hahhhaa!

[@stohandmadejewelrycraftcorner]

Your videos are so inspirational. I have cleaned and organized my art jewelry studio. I still have some things to do. I am declutter my bedroom closet, other clothes and the attic slowly. I give a lot things away. I definitely good about that process. I have a long way to go, but I am learning to be more patient with myself. Thank you so much Wendy.💕🙏🏾😊

[@SuretteSnyman]

Good for you Wendy for appreciating James and showing your love. I lost my husband way to early. Your space looks great ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes i really do appreciate him... you never know how long you've got together as you so rightly put... sorry your lost your husband, xx

[@pamsmith7369]

Also lost mine. Turn 70 tomorrow. A real life transition, this one.

[@MariaM-yn9tl]

Thanks for inspiring me to keep continuing to declutter & rearrange til I get it just right. I love everything around me in my studio & I get to enjoy all the things I love. Happy decluttering & reorganizing for our best creativity. Letting go of stuff if I haven’t had time to make an old idea. I have way too many new exciting ideas don’t need to work on anything unless I’m excited about it. Happy creating.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww well done!! xx

[@jeanettetobey3433]

❤I swore off new projects until I finished my UnFinished Objects (UFOs), but I haven’t done a project for nearly a year because of it. TYFS that great reminder!❤

[@lisagoeke9084]

Ok, a couple of things: 1. You two are the CUTEST damn thing to watch. Kindness, gentleness, and love are such beautiful food for the collective energy around the world right now. 2. I live for when the English say "bits and bobs." It is my favorite colloquial saying. I will have a bits and bobs drawer in my home (a junk drawer just feels icky).

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

awwww thankyou xxx we are a normal couple too and have annoyances adn frustrations taboot!! happy bits and bobs drawer to you!! never junk1! xx hahahha

[@beautifulmoontarot3494]

This really resonates with my energies and thoughts at the moment. Turning 50 this week I had been making changes for a while. I wanted to make sure old energies were let go before I entered a new solar year. I learn each day better ways to let go of procrastination and overwelm. I took a break from creating content for a few months whilst I got myself into a better energy. Thank you lovie. X🌻

[@juliaogara8794]

I appreciate your honesty. It's very refreshing in today's world. Best wishes to you both

[@VivianDamon]

Good job James! Your space is looking beautiful Wendy. Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us! 🥰

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww thankyou for keeping us company too! xxx

[@lisabradley7292]

Absolutely LOVE this!! 😍 You two are a great pair! Thank you Wendy & James for all the PUSH needed here! For all the ideas & inspiration 😀🎨 🌿 You're gorgeous Wendy the Peg Fairy!! 🧚‍♂️💞

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

teehee!! glad you enjoyed it!!! xxxx

[@songbird5266]

I could sit and listen to you all day long. You are so cheery !🎉❤

[@ClairtT4040]

Gold, a gold peg board 🤗 Thank you and James too 🙏

[@nicoladack368]

Loved this vlog! That pegboard and drawers are spot on! The drawers have been on my wish list for sometime! Love the paper! Talking of letting go... I hired a skip and have pulled down my old shed, built a new one and decluttered my home. I also burnt all my wedding bits as I am now single and it was a goodbye to that part of my life.

[@TheSweetsherrypie]

The wisdom you share is precious to me. Thank you Wendy ❤

[@Marianne_C_O_Art]

Another timely video as this week in particular I've been looking at boxes and boxes of books from my brother's estate that I just haven't been able to tackle and feeling the time is now right. It's coming up to the 1yr anniversary since his passing and I just couldn't face doing it but the organised-clutter of them is really starting to effect me mentally. This video has given me the final push to move them all on. Thank you 😊

[@sabinemetscher6449]

Good energy, Wendy💕 As a beginning artist I purchased watercolor tubes with cadmium. Now, decades later I don’t want to touch them. First I learned how to dispose of them where I live. Still there are newer half pans with cobalt colors 🤦🏻‍♀️This is my decade of: Use what you have, donate or get rid of. Clutter is a problem for me as a multi crafts & art. Great motivation video🐾🐾🌞🗺️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes, mixed media artists / mixed crafts is the hardest!! so many little bits and bobs!!! xx

[@realtorcarlyoptionone6474]

Your art is amazing And your spirit is beautiful

[@susanneschaefer2268]

Thank you, Wendy! Wonderfully encouraging and soothing!

[@LauraGomez-bl2so]

That was such a fun vlog! I just did a huge declutter of my bathroom, threw out 4 bags of old things (some medicines that went out of date 12 years ago!) And put some plants in there for the first time. I feel so much lighter now!

[@krismaki757]

I really enjoyed this video. Glad to see the wonderful organization, yes, I need to do all this too. Fun to see you and James working together so playful and well. The church and the bells were the show stopper for me for a few moments though! Oh to have such a magnificent building and bells. All the churches around me a quite small, but one does have someone training on the bells though I believe, it was wonderful to listen to one afternoon.

[@sherryliberto6749]

Please tell James hello. What a great video, Wendy. I just started sharing my journals and doodles and folios that I've made .so I'm proud of that. Hahaha. Ill start letting go of my junk drawer things as soon as I can sit for a while without my back don't hurt as bad as it does. Thanks for being you my sweet friend. Have a great evening. Sending love and big hugs Sherry 💚 ❤

[@beatereich5466]

Thank you 4 the wonderfull video. Such a inspiration😊

[@Bobbisox-wo7zu]

Thank you Wendy. I am struggling today so this is very welcome.... ❤❤❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

soft hugs for your struggle day xxxx it will pass x

[@paisleypeacock1001]

When James said "it's the bottom, stand it up", I was like, Huhhh???🙃🤔🤔🤪 What?? James was not giving good directions but he's very supportive, handy and seems to ground you. He's a keeper

[@_suse_]

It didn't make any more sense after he explained it, which was hilarious 😂 They are such a lovely couple

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

haaahhahha!!!! he might disagree!! haahahha!!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

@@_suse_ hahahahahhah!! brilliant, I will tell him!! hahahhaha!

[@RockyRoadCreationsbyDiana]

I'm using our dreadful heat wave here in California USA to procrastinate. I'm getting ready to "really" declutter my studio and rearrange it. It's going to be a very big job. Wish me luck. I love your blogs. You and James work so well together. Hugs to you, Wendy.❤❤❤

[@BethFarley-m8e]

You’re making amazing progress. Your plants look happier with their new haircuts! ❤

[@JoseeAlana]

OMG, James and your banter reminds me of me and my hubby. He is a scientist, and I’m a creative highly sensitive person (HSP) and our brains work so differently. He doesn’t get what I try to tell him and vice versa, but we are so bonded. Lol.

[@cwuhoo]

Thank you for talking about facing your ‘scary boxes.’ It helps me to acknowledge my own.

[@sessamii]

Wendy and James interactions just melt my heart, so cute 🥰

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

awwww xxxx

[@marisac66]

I needed this video today Wendy! Feeling the same overwhelm and low energy. Thank you for your words of wisdom! 🙏🏼♥️ Love your vids!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

soft hugs xx thanks for keeping me company x

[@honeygarden2222]

What a lovely video, it really made me happy. Watching you assemble IKEA stuff made me laugh to myself, because I remember how I was struggling with it. We moved into our new house about 4 years ago now and most of the furniture was from IKEA, and I still remember getting it wrong lots of times. Once, I even got stuck in a big sliding door cupboard while trying to attach the doors with my son and husband-oh, what fun! I do adore how you interact with each other, so much love and respect. And I do love your messages, it feels like you are channeling higher knowledge from the universe. Thank you again for an uplifting video.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

so glad you enjoyed it! my ideas for what I share do indeed feel like divine inspiration sometimes!! not every video but sometimes!! xx

[@honeygarden2222]

@@theunexpectedgypsy ♥♥♥

[@kathryndeloria1834]

I needed this today. When you mentioned taking a creative break I had a light go off. I have been creating maniacally without taking care of everyday duties…thank you so much for your words. I do not feel like I’m drowning in my art!

[@LaLadybug2011]

Came back to say, love the energy between you two, so calming and sweet. Thanks for sharing with us.

[@DaisyDebs]

I need a James😂 ...he's done a wonderful job ...as usual ..he always does ! Yep , I 'm letting go of clothes and books .💐x

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww!!! and yes, he has!! i'm needing to do my wardrobe again too!! eek!!

[@CherineMuirheadArt]

I am so inspired by your art, living, processing and sharing 🌸🙏🌸 Thank you 💝🌱✨

[@juliaogara8794]

I've spent 2 days moving my bedroom around. My bed turned 180* and other side the room. Means I can now open wardrobe doors fully plus increased my floor space. Still work to do as my sewing table is still in parts. Good week wishes and much joy in your revamped studio

[@susanorban3059]

Wendy, you are looking happier and healthier too! Ive GOT to stop the sugar its so bad for me!!😢🤬❤️🥰

[@machelleshappyhobbies4977]

I love the way you two work together and relate to each other. You are just the sweetest couple. I have been decluttering too. It takes a while. Love y0ur channel and it makes me so happy everytime you have a new video. Ha e a wonderful week.😊

[@LaLadybug2011]

True story: my grandmother, who was in her 80's and drove BY HERSELF 6 hours to see me ❤was visiting for a week. She noticed I had a large pathos ivy like yours in my kitchen. She asked when I got it and I told her maybe a year ago. She said-you need to give it away, ASAP! I asked why-it was thriving. She said it thrived off chaos and drama and was horrible for relationships (meaning wife and husband, girlfriend/boyfriend, parents/kids. I laughed at this and regret it now because as I thought back after she went home-there had been trouble in my home. I know this much, you don't live to be 93 (born in 1920) and turns out, her words were prophetic. Just sharing an older generation's observations. Congrats on giving up alcohol, your brain cells are grateful as is your entire body and it sure helps the bank account too! ❤

[@HellCatt0770]

Well they do call it Devils Ivy…

[@LaLadybug2011]

@@HellCatt0770 and I didn't know that!

[@DeAnnaG_KissingFrogsMedia]

I always heard lore of it being a "money" plant, and the devil's ivy part was because it was hard to kill it, even in low light situations or forgetting to water it weekly (I spaced watering mine for about a month and it only had a few dead leaves on it. Bounced back quickly.) And the only time I have ever been completely strapped for money has coincided with the times I haven't owned one of these plants. for the last 20 years I have been sure to at least bring a cutting or two of plant with me if I have to move and am not able to take the whole plant. The one I have now is a child plant of the one my mom has raised almost my entire life and its vines run from a plant stand in a corner of my dining area of my kitchen and trail up to the ceiling to a plant hook that is somewhat unstable (SO used the wrong hardware and missed the stud, he means well,) and from there I've run the vines along each wall. .... HAHAHA, and "MONEY is the root of all evil"... lol, hmm yeah, just had a good think... maybe your gran is right... SO and I bicker about money... plant is great, our relationship has been ... well, not so much the last couple years... so do I keep my legacy plant (which my grandmother was the original carer for, mom took her plants when she died and this is a cutting of my gran's/mom's plants) and ditch the dude? (who's been a total wanker for the last 5 years) or do I ditch the plant and see if the wanker pulls his head out of his bum and gets a job? Decisions, Decisions... and to be honest, I'm kinda leaning to plants, pets, peace and personal space rather than another 30 with wanker manchild at the moment. I'll go ponder this with my tea before I tackle my closet......... love and light and blessings all.

[@Savannahstitcher]

That church at the beginning of the video is absolutely stunning. I envy all of you living in the UK because you’ve kept so much history. You have so many buildings that have been there for as far back as anybody knows and statues. Unfortunately in the US we’re losing our history. I won’t go into all that, but I really do envy y’all

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww glad i could share it with you then... x if i had a teleport so you could come... xx

[@chrystalchapin6152]

I am from the USA, and I know exactly what you are saying! Hopefully we will be back to normal after this election in Nov.

[@learnbyheart7]

So agreed...sadly. NC, USA. I love my History of all things and places. Tks.

[@DebraofSENC]

My goodness! I hope they do not ruin Historic Savannah. Savannah is so beautiful. I love visiting there esp. In early Spring. It is so steeped in history and it has that mysterious southern atmosphere. Our little town in NC is very old. There are very few historic buildings left. Local governments do not think a thing about tearing down old buildings for so called progress.

[@KATIEKATEish]

Exactly the architecture and scenery is enviable!!

[@mrs.e3909]

I laughed at James asking you to stand that section up, yes, my husband and I have different interpretations of what we are asking each other to do or help each other with. Bless James for being kind and patient with you. Love your refresh in your spaces!

[@elizabethcameron6045]

Very nice Wendy and James. Good job you two! Go home and have your dinner and tea. I think I will clean out a pesky cabinet. Woo hoo!!

[@jeanettebarto2774]

Procrastination I totally understand that!!! I have a friend that comes and keeps me on task when I declutter; She is now terribly ill with cancer. Her illness has my mind worried about her. Thanks for posting this video. You always are a bright light in my life. This is a true inspiration. I am so cluttered I can't use my table for art/crafting. Thank You so much! Bright light of warm breezes to you.

[@lindaedwards7840]

Thank you Wendy, James, every good woman needs an expert in DIY.The process of working together is what a good relationship is all about. Taking time out from the office and enjoying the day is a definite way to move on with any declittering , clears the mind and makes it less of a struggle to let go of unwanted unloved items. I like charity shop buying esp. unusual items, most often I take something from my home that I stopped looking at or noticing take it to a charity shop and often replace it over time, sort of paying to borrow an item , a big Thankyou you Both for a relaxed easy to watch video. Hugs and Blessings 💚🌹

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

what a wondeful way of looking at things... swapping things over... xx big hugs x

[@Barbara-JT]

Wendy your space is coming along so nicely, and love the piece from Ikea, great idea to store beneath the table! James is a lot like my better half, he's really good at putting things together, I'm a bit hopeless in that area, but like you I like to plan out a room to be workable and organized. I've got my little craft room all tidy and there is always room to improve upon. I try to think of ways to make my crafting more enjoyable when you can see where everything is, and put it back and know it will be there next time round to use it. Great video, so enjoy you both! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, you have a lot of insightful views and it is food for thought for me!! All the best to you and James, look forward to your next video! Hugs to you both from across the pond !!:))😊🎨🧚🧚‍♂🧚‍♀♥♥♥

[@golden1789]

Wonderful in every way,

[@AlisonGreenValleyCrone]

So glad that you are taking care of your physical self and benefitting from the changes. Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between pondering or sitting with something uncomfortable, and procrastination. It can take time to process things. A break from the norm, a change in routine, can help to clarify things. Lovely video. Thank you

[@DeborahPerry-i5o]

Sending love to you and James. I am always trying to improve my creative space too. Love you so much 😊

[@hilarywallace9927]

It's all looking fabulous Wendy ❤ James is such a great help , and you are cute together 💕 I have been overwhelmed with the amount of de clutteting I need to do , but I have made small starts and you are inspiring! ❤Thank you for your honesty

[@AndreaHallissey-qe4lb]

Just spent time sorting my craft room. Surprising how organising your stuff makes creating so much more fun.

[@teenpromqueen]

LOVE your art journal. I left the UK in the 70's (live in LA). Your video made me homesick. I want to come visit your beautiful studio.

[@sarahb2652]

Hi Wendy, I love all your content but would also love a video on how you changed your eating habits and what you eat now. I am slowly adjusting my eating too and would love to hear what you have done to help yourself. Also your favourite recipes to cook as I always struggle with new recipes.Thanks.😊

[@LucyGem98]

I'm also changing my health habits. I'm drinking more water, eating more fruit and vegetables where I can and making sure I eat regular meals despite not having any appetite.I've also gotten back into working out since I always find my energy levels and mood are better when I regularly exercise. The main thing though, has been letting go of mental struggles I've had for years and just choosing not to entertain that anymore. Also, I love a good declutter. Feels so good to just get rid of stuff you no longer need and reorganise. I always feel so much better

[@KW-K985]

wonderful idea for your plants and paintings.

[@heatherbrownlees3253]

What a marvellous video!! Love, love, love what you are doing in the studio and for your health. You and James are one of my favourite couples ❤

[@aselkiesdream]

At 50, I had a huge release from the stresses of the past. I am now, at present, at peace. But until that moment of release, I was trying to fill the void. Everyday is a place of calm and zen- but only if you set boundaries. We really do not need to do much. A simple life is rewarding!

[@stephanieb120]

Thank you do much❤ We have been here a year now, and feel very at home. The people we have around us are very kind and welcoming. Living near Dingle Peninsula, the scenery is 2nd to none. Our pace of live has slowed right down - loving it💚☘️💚

[@lynneglazzard5910]

Cheers to you, I’m enjoying a cup of oolong tea while I watch and swatching a few watercolours. I haven’t used water colours for years but hopefully I’ll able to go out to the sea on Tuesday and sketch a bit. My husband is going to the recycling centre tomorrow (Monday) with our next bit of clutter

[@suszc]

You and James are adorable together! I love the banter, humour, and obvious affection. So sweet! I also love your sparkly pink shirt.✨

[@lauriedunn6198]

Hunted for ages for a shallow drawer unit and finally drove 4 hours to an Ikea and got the same drawers you have. It has been just right!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh sooo worth it!!! life changing!!!! xxx you will see soon that i actually have 2 now 🤭

[@lisamorice4701]

Cheers to you too Wendy. Your studio is looking fantastic and I absolutely love your new plan drawers with their brass label holders 😍 I am mid declutter and sort out of a paper backlog, books and art/craft supplies. Your efforts are inspiring and I enjoy seeing your little outings too. Thanks so much for sharing, you and James xx

[@justjudy7320]

I’m breaking down the house and preparation for the renters. Just put the ad on Zillow. The sprinter is coming along. Counting my blessings, knowing that the universe always provides all I have to do is follow my highest excitement and appreciate the silver linings in every situation.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

wonderful! sounds like you have many blessings to count!!! xx