The Power of No Contact | When You Level Up Everything Becomes Clear

[@JostenJ]

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[@jft2nd]

Just cut people out of your life that weren't good for your health, your peace or your growth/progression. Don't worry about how well they're doing in life or who your ex is with now. Just keep grinding and focused. God will sort everything out so you don't have to.🤞🏿

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for bringing value and great advice to the comment section brother 🙏🏾

[@rastafit23]

@jft2nd Amen god knows I’m that lion ! Hunter in the field and I AINT afraid to lose these people god told me I don’t need them on journey to better myself ! 💪🏾🙏🏿

[@josealoera4986]

💯😎

[@ryanpaige7435]

"If you're not trying to help me win, then you cannot be my friend" - NO CONTACT

[@JostenJ]

YOU ARE HIM! & THEY ARE THEM!

[@yungdynamic471]

I get a surge everytime josten says "you are HIM, and they are THEM".

[@JostenJ]

My brother YOU ARE HIM!!!

[@EIGHTY8OfficialMusic]

Once they show you who they are the FIRST time , believe them

[@JostenJ]

Brother SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!

[@EIGHTY8OfficialMusic]

@@JostenJ life gonna make you bitter or better. We choose Growth kings 💪🏾🧲

[@GarrettxGainz]

Bro is ON POINT as always. When you level up… everything becomes clear. Title of the year

[@JostenJ]

YOU ARE HIM & THEY ARE THEM! Keep making content for the bros 🙏🏾

[@mkwhole]

Straight up bro. Its lonely at the top but its true peace, strength, and freedom. A blessing in disguise.

[@JostenJ]

I couldn’t agree more

[@dtf.trevino]

Maaan you’re on it bro. Leveling up should be the primary goal of the NO-CONTACT mindset. I tell guys all the time, self-improvement should be your main focus anyway so that you get the most out of your life, which by proxy is going to make the people who you NO-CONTACTED regret losing out on you. Great advice my guy🔥💯🤲🏾

[@JostenJ]

Bro everything you just said is gold! Thanks for bringing value to the comment section you have a champions mentality!

[@fitforfreelance]

I think a lot of people miss this point when it comes to no contact. It's when someone treats you less than you deserve, and you grow so it's more apparent to everyone how you're meant to be treated

[@JostenJ]

I couldn’t agree more brother

[@Gematria142]

I needed to hear this. A girl I was with for almost two years. Did me wrong and then she was bitching about me to her friends. I finally woke up and realized I need to go. I went no contact. It's been difficult but you know I know it's the right choice

[@JostenJ]

She did you wrong ok so how has it been difficult to let the chick go? You like being disrespected? Enlighten me please

[@Gematria142]

@@JostenJ when you realize your worth more than you once thought. That's the difficult bit. But since I've been working on myself,gym,earning money and working on projects I never would of done. So to answer your question? It hasnt been difficult 💪 thank you for remind me

[@13sprintuser]

@@Gematria142and it’s ok if it’s been difficult, as long as you’ve learned from it and leveled up!! How are you doing now brother?

[@Gematria142]

@@13sprintuser I'm doing good man. Two months away from being debt free. I promised my dad before he died to get out debt. So I've achieved it ☺️

[@zKsery]

8:06 Nah....this guy is the TRUTH. No love lost. Guys, don't hate your ex's and wish them bad. When I see my Ex's girl friends out and about I tell them I hope she's doing amazing and that she's a smart girl with the potential to achieve anything she wants. They can't wrap their head around me being no contact but still saying such nice things AND still being no contact and not reaching out. But the truth is I have no hard feelings. I'm over it, I look back fondly at the good times we shared and I have new experiences with new girls with my improved self that is always improving. If you're improving your life everyday why would you hate your ex? Why would you hate anyone? People treating you bad? Feel sorry for the trauma they went through that made them how they are. Guys get on that "I have no enemies" algorithm. Everytime they hint to me she wants to see me, and it's kinda sad sometimes lol ESPECIALLY if you actually treated her good lol. She knows someone else is getting that treatment and her worst nightmare is that girl is obedient lol. Guys understand that someone doing you wrong, as long as you learn a lesson, they are DOING YOU A FAVOUR. Your girl did you bad, but at least she did it now instead of 9 years from now. Be grateful and learn from every experience. Thank god for this channel i can't listen to 99% of red pill content for too long they're all just too pathetic their mindsets are poisoned before they even try anything. Get this guy to 1m subs

[@JostenJ]

Real recognizes real 💯

[@zKsery]

@@3ayembeats brooo you get it, the actually need our prayers. Once you mature, you realise the way people treat you, is just them telegraphing to you the way that other people have treated them.

[@kennethyoung4892]

This is definitely powerful. No contact works it's amazing the affect it has on women

[@JostenJ]

Facts!

[@joshuadevsimmz6396]

Girl I really cared for but was playing games and being disrespectful. She was taking granted that I was there for her tryna save her. I did this shit for like 7months I had done NO-CONTACT in the past. But it was on Some childish BS to get her back 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ The disrespect become too much i cut her ass off.. no more 😑👎🏾 She called today In the morning she is blocked my G 😎 Old me would have felt "guilty or immature" 😂 because her feelings would be hurt. But now I don't Give a fuck ...... The man who has lost everything has nothing but everything to gain

[@JostenJ]

How have you leveled up tho? I wanna hear that part!!! Fuck her… see how I speak on both sides let’s hear about what she missed out on ….

[@joshuadevsimmz6396]

@@JostenJ Man's being hitting the Gym, working on my content marketing business and game development Studio. And studying philosophy. Learning how to live life in the present moment, Cutting off my anxious attachment style. Controlling my stress and anxiety. Not watching pornography or fapping 👎🏾😑🤦🏾‍♂️ Educating myself more about Human nature (why people do what they do, not just female nature) and accepting it.

[@rayhanes1347]

This is No Contact but on a whole other level. I'm dealing with this right now, and I'm in the gym, improving. Sometimes, you gotta fall back and improve.

[@JostenJ]

Bro I deactivated all social media for damn near 2 years and whenever people saw me face to face they looked like they saw a ghost. Sometimes you have to be alone and just put in the work and BOOM!!! YOU ARE HIM!!! took me 3 months to get in shape and a new apartment and car and 2 jobs everything followed after that just happened out of nowhere from staying focused and staying to myself.

[@rastafit23]

Thanks for this my brother I been feeling this ! I went 3 yrs off an on social media n I didn’t really care for it n have small followers base just because OF gym shit ! I try not to post tmi personal life . IAM doing better for myself also got into sales / marketing n I do healthcare . I think I’m goin ghost mode . I honestly don’t need the outsiders tryna look in !!

[@rastafit23]

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[@kieran6617]

I know I have grown as a person when I can peacefully ignore what other people think…had a couple walk past me today and the bitter guy commented ‘’oh he’s probably a drug dealer’’ to her, it got me thinking people are so quick to judge and not worth listening to them! self care is not selling drugs (never have or will) I’m not going to let it affect me if they chose to neglect it.

[@laminendiaye8870]

A man from Sénégal a contry from Africa watching ang applying the advices and damm i am seeing the result. Thx u bro

[@JostenJ]

My brother! YOU ARE HIM!!!

[@Gunsmoke4L]

When you become him, the light They’ll see you because they will always live in their darkness

[@JostenJ]

This comment is pure gold

[@MrAngrysonadam]

I needed this today. Im tired of being tired. Ready to be the best man I can be.

[@JostenJ]

This comment means everything to me man you don’t even know. Keep elevating and never let anyone dim your light brother.

[@awake2479]

i’m 21 rn currently i’m living with my mom. i’m trying to help support her and my sister since we all we got. i’m about to lose my second apartment with them. we all gonna have to go out separate ways. i feel like they don’t appreciate the things i was doing for them. i’ve been helping out since i was 18. trying my best to keep everyone together. it’s time for me to go on my own and boss up. it’s time for me to start living for myself and stop living for others.

[@JostenJ]

Listen to the song “8 Mile” by Eminem and it’ll create a spark I promise you…

[@13sprintuser]

My ex gf always said “people don’t change.” I disagree. I’ve leveled UP and will continue LEVELING UP and CHANGING!

[@DG38594]

Real world advice! The right people in your life always shows up. But be ok, with being ok!

[@JostenJ]

Facts!!!

[@swixdon]

A Josten J video AND a Denmo video just as I'm bout to do my night rituals. God is great 🤞

[@JostenJ]

Keep elevating brother remember YOU ARE HIM & THEY ARE THEM!

[@franciscozamorano2927]

Bars!!! Cutt off a 5 year toxic relationship.. she thought she was slick now keeps hitting me up.. I got two high caliber ladies.. now fit, good fun loving easy to get along with beautiful women.. no kids too.. drama free bro..feels like a cutt off many old friends, never made time to hang out and money.. best past away I left the friend group.. not people hit me up..

[@enow0049]

So glad i found your channel bro, you are helping me through a tough break of a six year long relationship. Thanks brother.

[@JostenJ]

Brother you should be celebrating YOU’RE FREE!!!

[@quantumechoes991]

Thank you Brother! Everything you are saying in this message I know to be true.. Sometimes life will beat you down, and you start to doubt yourself.. That's when you need a friend who can tell it to you raw. I appreciate you!

[@JostenJ]

Just know I got your back 🙏🏾

[@TexanByNature88]

Beautiful 🔥🤘🏾🔥

[@zahwavyTV]

Once you level up EVERYTHING becomes clear - Josten J 🔥💯

[@JostenJ]

Let’s go! This is for the brotherhood

[@100JK]

Thank you Josten. Content the world needs keep at it. 🙏🏿

[@JostenJ]

This is for my brothers 💪🏾

[@jakedill19]

Once you see certain people around you are content with their life while you're trying to improve everyday it does become clear that you should not waste your time associating with them. No contact has never been hard for me due to my cynical nature but I do struggle sometimes to surround myself with like-minded purpose driven people.

[@JostenJ]

NO CONTACT! Feel free to apply it whenever you feel like it… YOU ARE HIM & THEY ARE THEM 💯

[@neilsmith8839]

This one was different 💯

[@JostenJ]

I’m really trying to help out here 💯

[@Mike-li7et]

Great video G

[@juwanturnipseed8637]

You’re doing great bro. I had to cut my cousin off recently, shit hurt but I’m boutta get my masters electrician license at 28 years old

[@JostenJ]

It’s all good just keep elevating you can’t save them all 🙏🏾

[@K-Solo]

This is your best video yett!! Much power back to you brother

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in brother

[@neekogregory1885]

I’m not hanging out with who I considered my best friend still do but he still does the same stuff and doesn’t care about the consequences he stills argue with the supervisors even after being told he will get fired soon all I can do is laugh at the hard headed bs I’m just gon sit back and let him lose his job not my problem

[@MXsouthafrica]

Lessgooo boyzz!! Thanks for the information and energy Josten 💯

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for listening and really getting the message YOU ARE HIM!

[@aKingNamedMac]

I show your videos to every dude I know. Your videos have helped my mindset, now it’s time to cook.

[@jayhenderson4533]

needed dat bru i’m him and they them💯

[@JostenJ]

Sure

[@andresgboa3749]

You are the real brother! Justen

[@sammuelpclark]

Just cut off a chick she was low interest, I got no time for games, time to level up💯

[@zeppkfw]

NO CONTACT FOR EVERYBODY

[@JostenJ]

That’s how you do it NO CONTACT!

[@sammuelpclark]

@@JostenJ Yessir!

[@frnkprz9061]

Thank you brother, for making these videos. A true light in a dark world

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@jrdnvis]

the instrumental you play in all your videos never miss bro 💯

[@JostenJ]

Thanks G

[@Gunsmoke4L]

Appreciate your energy and mindset brother 💪🏻💪🏻

[@JostenJ]

I appreciate you brother. That’s what I do this for to let my brothers know you have to level up as a man and stay focused don’t let all these outside events play a role in how you see yourself and what you want out of life. YOU ARE HIM & THEY ARE THEM!

[@gregmacklin9758]

DUDE!!!!! YOU TOLD MY EXACT STORY... UNREAL......

[@jasonr8535]

Love the elements of stoicism you work into your videos. There are some powerful roots to what you are saying. Thank you

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for 💪🏾

[@johnbuckeye9590]

Joston!! Man, Best video yet!!! Congrats on having it in you, to understand what men of all ages were never told or need a reminder of what they should be all about..-Being on Their Purpose... Keep up the good work! P.S. Motivation Speaking is in your future..

[@nicholasrtaylor]

I'm 20 living at an apartment near my university with 2 of my friends. I realized one day months ago that they both would only put people down and never did any of the self improvement things they talked about and were ultimately wasting their lives. I haven't spoken to either of them since I realized that. My lease ends soon. I haven't talked to them for months. I grew in ways that I don't think would have been possible without doing so.

[@JostenJ]

Your mentality leveled up 💪🏾

[@ClipzTDOT]

You spitting facts brother. Great advice.

[@JostenJ]

YOU ARE HIM & THEY ARE THEM!

[@TheGeneral6623]

NO CONTACT

[@JostenJ]

Feel free to use it at anytime someone’s trying to play games with you!

[@Esco76077]

Thank you I needed that so deeply It’s time to Level Up 💪🏻

[@JostenJ]

YOU ARE HIM & THEY ARE HIM !

[@TheBowie27]

Definitely relatable respect 💪🏾‼️

[@JostenJ]

Thanks G 💪🏾

[@TheBowie27]

Yup everything you explained in your Vid just confirmed what I’ve experienced or witnessed myself keep spreading info king they listening trust and believe 💪🏾

[@cataloiu]

Thanks for your energy!

[@cqnnqn]

GOAT!! This is all FACTS. I'm puttin all my homies onto your YT bro, by far the best content on youtube for leveling up etc. 1mil subs soon 💯🙏

[@JostenJ]

Yup we don’t shame, blame, and complain like other channels I spit the real shit so guys can boss up 💪🏾

[@shuqranjunaid]

Thanks Josten 🙏🏻. Really needed this. Your videos help a lot. Keep doing what your doing bro.

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother! Thanks for supporting the channel.

[@clintonfreeman799]

YES.... I DID THE RIGHT THING.... THANK YOU JOSTEN.....

[@deboii100]

Love you brother keep doing the work the world needs more men

[@JostenJ]

Brothers 🤞🏾

[@oz.bready]

Yessir my brother💪🏿

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG!

[@elephanteardrumproduction]

You’re AMAZING Bro! Best Healthy Masculinity Coach Yet By Far!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯💯..!!!!!

[@JostenJ]

I appreciate it brother

[@gregoryfosdal7935]

I think this may be your best video, and I’ve watched a considerable amount thus far. Thank you for the help.

[@joshuawalker4846]

Great video Jay! Real and honest Never let anyone play you as the fool

[@JostenJ]

Exactly! prove it to yourself that you never needed them 💪🏾

[@zabenash9170]

Perfect timing ‼️

[@JostenJ]

Never let them dim your light brother

[@KutthroatKutthroat]

Thanks bro needed this video to stick with it now for good. My child’s mother broke up with me 3 1/2 months ago I was constantly trying to make it work, went no contact just to make it work, every time she initiated contact then or tried to meet up I was there for her instantly, we would have sex, chill out and that would last for a couple of days before she started drifting off again, this happened me at least 5 or more times with her in those 3 1/2 month period. A few days ago I got fed up with it after once again she told me we cannot be seeing each other anymore but she wanted to remain in contact. I told her that communication from me will only be about our daughter from now on and only jf necessary. She obviously didn’t believe me because every other time she just worked her way back into my life to take my power. She tried hitting me up yesterday and talking about her new job opportunities but I’m done with her like that, she just uses me for a comfort space and we hang out when she got nobody else to be with.I don’t want to hear from her anymore unless it’s regarding my child. This video was like a kick up the ass that I needed to start having respect for myself

[@JostenJ]

It’s ok bro

[@lorenzor7993]

Really needed this video ❤ keep up the good content brother 💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother I got your back 🙏🏾

[@tywzrd]

Looks fellas, don’t be chilling with fools that yell out your failures and whisper your accomplishments. I hate to say it but your homies and close ones be jealous of you when you level up. Most of 2022 was the worst time of my life. My comrades spoke loudly about me even behind my back. At the tail end of 2022 to present day, was the best time for me mind body and spirit. I’m coming for that all star selection in 2024. Not a word from the haters. Fellas, I promise you if you push forward you’ll overcome. Depressed? Up your workouts by 5%. Do that extra set. Shit, even add in some leg workouts. Smile at a stranger, compliment someone. Add value to your life and a by product of that is adding value to other people’s lives. Value creates value. Time is not against you time is for you. Stay up kings. No contact.

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for leaving a comment

[@KhalifBeats]

It’s refreshing to see actual practical advice on dating and relationships outside of dating too. I’m about to move out of California soon to get away from all the distractions of LA and OC. Will be back in due time, but right now I’m getting laser focused on mind, body, spirit and my finances. Now that I just entered my 30s, I’m done with the rest of the BS I was still entertaining.

[@JostenJ]

Stay focused bro

[@TheAyre95]

Appreciate you man. Sound like a big brother fr

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother

[@kelvinbattle8151]

Hey man keep this going Upreaching bro I had to cut some people off also I been out of a relationship for 2 years and working on myself because I remembered I told my ex that I’m going to level up and shock everyone when I was at my low during CoVid. But I’m slowly coming back I’m working on my mental health and about to take my exam for more 💰💰💰 that I kept pushing back you motivated me bro God bless.

[@JostenJ]

Keep striving for greatness brother

[@davidmuniz1479]

I appreciate your videos, they really help. This might make for a good topic, how to stay energized or motivated in rough times. My situation and mental makes it difficult to even lift a finger at times. I keep thinking bout crime but I know that’s the weaker thing to do.

[@JostenJ]

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[@wasbruder3059]

Just found you some weeks ago and I binge your videos. I really found gold by luck. Keep up the good work man, you change lives outta here, probably more than you think.

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in…the heart wasn’t necessary but still thanks for dropping a comment 💪🏾

[@sulaimanbrooklyn]

Yessssir🫡...once your circle gets smaller, your vision gets clearer 💯 and about expectations, if you don't have any, you can't be disappointed!

[@JostenJ]

Facts on facts no lies spoken here. Thanks for dropping this comment G

[@sulaimanbrooklyn]

@@JostenJ my pleasure my G✊🏾just recently started following you and love the energy and content! Keep grindin' and helping🙏🏾👑.

[@freemackillemm]

Great video man, keep it up you helping us all out🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother

[@KaelinSpeaks]

Great video. Always gotta focus on personal growth!! See who matches when you reach the new levels

[@JostenJ]

Exactly!!!

[@xhr7s]

Appreciate you there so many lessons in this single video.

[@JostenJ]

I’m glad you understand brother 🙏🏾

[@JethroStrydom]

Keep cooking... 100k subs incoming

[@JostenJ]

Consistency is key and this is my mission. Thanks for tuning in my brother 💪🏾

[@mr.observer4691]

Thank ya man.

[@JostenJ]

I got your back

[@KingAnointedHands]

Beautifully put 🏆💪🏿💯

[@JostenJ]

Thanks G

[@aufrere]

Love this video - was right at the time I needed it. Thank you.

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother 💪🏾

[@makhiaustin754]

Great content as usual 👏🏾

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in brother 💪🏾

[@wyagpaul9130]

You look leval up in this video thank you for the tips let's go boyz yeah

[@JostenJ]

I’ve been like this for almost 4 years now. Consistency is key my brother

[@josephbailey7408]

This is the best vid ive seen of yours, IMO

[@JostenJ]

Thank you bro

[@pierrepastel]

Grateful to have came across your channel. Subscribe and will most definitely stay tuned in ! Big ups G 💪🏾

[@Job.Well.Done_01]

My brother I feel you on this. The problem I’ve had is that when I’ve moved into breaking contact with someone who showed me who they really are - they tend to wanna get physical and fight me or sabotage my possessions. Even in The Army I dealt with this kind of garbage. People get big mad and wanna lash out when you break it off permanently. What do you think that’s all about? Why do these people want to get violent in retaliation? Thanks brother nice channel.

[@JostenJ]

Bro who cares worry about what you think I literally just dropped the perfect video on this

[@alexz6478]

good post

[@JostenJ]

Thanks G

[@erickcapella7913]

Thank you bro ❤

[@JostenJ]

No problem

[@jorgepereramayo1057]

I’m him 🚀🌟🏅

[@JostenJ]

Say that shit in the mirror with a smile 💪🏾

[@Bryan_502]

Josten J....your story just goes to show you women make the most irrational decisions. She decided to sleep with bum (Pookie & Ray Ray) & will have to live with that bad decision the rest of her life. Actually, I feel sorry for these type of women. They are lost mentally or spiritually. The best decision you did was go no contact & move on. Excellent job bro!

[@JostenJ]

Thanks

[@Mr82sizzla]

Facts !!!

[@markmeadows7093]

My dad used to beat the crap out of me. We never had decent clothes growing up. My parents die drugs and we were homeless. Living in a car. Now that I’m older I gave him a chance and he started doing dope so I had to cut him out. Lies all the time and just keeps being a knuckle head. I can’t change him but I don’t want to hang around crap. I do t need to smell like crap.

[@zeppkfw]

NO CONTACT FOR EVERYBODY LETS FUCKING COOOOOKKK ‼️‼️

[@JostenJ]

Facts everybody can get it ! If they try to play with your time… NO CONTACT!!!!

[@jaysonruiz577]

LETS COOOKKKKK BOYSSSSSSSSSS LETSSSS COOOKKK

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG!!!! 💪🏾

[@g_underscore]

Hard truth, but this what I needed bruh, but I got a question should I go on private and not give them the Privilege of my life no more or do I jus stay on public and let them see my progress

[@JostenJ]

Well you aren’t an influencer so private helps you having it open let’s everyone know your business

[@frnkprz9061]

JOSTEN IS DA MAN!!!!!

[@JostenJ]

I appreciate it brother 💯

[@khalidshahzadkhan]

You are the Man

[@brodiebro88]

thanks brotha!

[@JostenJ]

I got your back

[@Jonjuan0061]

Thanks!

[@JostenJ]

I got your back brother! I appreciate you 💪🏾

[@koldheartedbam1064]

Like the video y’all GAME IS GAME

[@JostenJ]

Respect G 💯

[@danielarroyo233]

Josten is the fucking man. Thanks again brother

[@JostenJ]

Remember YOU ARE HIM! & THEY ARE THEM!

[@koldheartedbam1064]

Had to like the video twice 😂

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG!

[@juarezbenmindset]

Bro, “gangster archetype” lol

[@JostenJ]

There’s a big difference between that and a real gangster it’s hilarious

[@RealTeeroh]

I AM HIM

[@JostenJ]

Let’s Go!!!!

[@shercbt]

thank you