The Power of No Contact | Why The No Contact Rule Works

[@JostenJ]

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[@robertobernal5359]

If your absence doesn’t bother them… your presence never mattered to them

[@JostenJ]

Exactly!

[@ltchaz466]

@@JostenJ bruh thank you for this video cause this is exactly how i think, ive become so nonchalant with females, and so in tune with myself😂 im 18 and my mindset is where urs is at, i just have to create that routine and structure in my life

[@robertobernal5359]

@@JostenJ pretty simple quote with a powerful meaning behind it!

[@squadupbaby167]

@@ltchaz466wish I knew this at 18. I’m 24 and I’m just getting hip fr. I never really talked to girls till I got to high school because my mom never wanted me to go outside considering the rough neighborhood we lived in. I was mostly in the house with her and my brother. It sucks I missed out on a lot of chances since because I had no game back then lol. Don’t let these women that bring no value to your life, get you off track. Be careful when you get older, them young ones love older guys

[@BillClinton228]

This is what most people don't realize. If she doesn't care about you to begin with going no contact will make no difference to HER, but it will make a difference to YOU because the more space and time you put between you and her the better YOU will feel about yourself and more time you will have to get with women who want you. Any way you look at it you win.

[@divinehumans]

Law 16: Absence creates honor and respect

[@JostenJ]

Golden 💪🏾

[@sheed321]

I see you're a Robert Greene fan as well

[@carucci912]

The 48 rules to becoming an emotionless supervillain

[@calebmcgovern7002]

@@carucci912 😂

[@SP-iv2jj]

@@carucci912 Right! But if a man that has the tools of a villian and still choose to do good, is he not better than a harmless man doing good?

[@Percy_P]

It works. But you can’t fold when she come back.

[@JostenJ]

Facts! Deny access forever!

[@generrojackson746]

FACTS !

[@blackhawk6695]

Yup!!! Gotta be ruthless!!!

[@josephtanko]

damn, but what if I still want to hit it, Like I ain't gon act all thirsty but imma make sure she truly sorry for what she did and she really want it, then I'll hit and bale right out

[@Percy_P]

@@josephtanko you could slide on her, but don’t act like her boyfriend. Keep it playa, don’t ask who she been with or what she been doing. Don’t get jealous or feel some type of way, just slide when she need to be slid on.

[@thelongestjordan4462]

I’ve dealt with women who are STILL flipping out because I respected myself enough to walk away (Calls & texts from fake numbers, no caller ID calls, stalking my social media, painting me as a villain on social media, etc.). To me it also shows that they’re not used to dealing with men who value themselves.

[@JostenJ]

Exactly! They expose themselves when they play games with a good quality dude but it’s all good we just go NO CONTACT

[@jpowell2603]

​@@JostenJ Exactly brother 🤝

[@etfskullking28]

Facts.

[@wolfboy20]

Wait you deadass??? They're still on that??

[@thelongestjordan4462]

@@vTxnto I ran into one of the girls years later and she told me everything lol

[@jakedill19]

If someone disrespects you, male or female, cut them off. Focus on your goals and ambitions. Don’t waste your time and energy on someone if it’s not reciprocated. Josten, preciate you keeping it real 💯. Hard to watch some of these other people with all the clickbait nonsense.

[@Keepthefaith116]

Str8 like that💪😊🗣️

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

Dont not let them come Back either. ppl love to take people Back

[@02DDP]

My level of stubbornness is unmatched, so cutting people off and never contacting them again is like the easiest thing for me. Taking time to invest back into myself was hard for a couple of weeks, but once I found a routine, I was feeling better each day.

[@JostenJ]

Never put yourself through that again it’s amazing how a female can literally have a man acting and feeling like shit when he should always feel like “he is the shit!”

[@EzeICE]

​@JostenJ Exactly! Just staying in your masculine frame is the best way. It takes practice and patience. A man has to go through shit to understand it. I say, keep learning, growing. Stay focused, work on yourself elevate and create.

[@bconni2]

pursuing women who have low interest in you will destroy your self confidence. only give your time to the ones who show tons of it

[@JostenJ]

Golden advice 💪🏾

[@dannybulgin6658]

Had 3 dates with a chick and started to feel distance being built from her. No contact initiated a week ago. This video fallen at the right time thank you brother!

[@JostenJ]

Yea her attention is on someone else it’s all good because if you go by what they say ya know after 3 dates you should be in the clear…But we all know it’s bullshit more proof

[@massimo7219]

Don't be surprised if she hits you up in a week or two with, "hey stranger." If she does, just play it cool and act like you don't even care that she contacted you.

[@solodolo_mma3971]

3 dates, and didn’t even hit I bet, right? Thats why doing less, gets you more.

[@dannybulgin6658]

@@solodolo_mma3971 Hit twice. Tried to set up fourth date which she agreed to but there's been little co-operation for a couple weeks so I'm initiating no contact

[@solodolo_mma3971]

@@dannybulgin6658 At least you hit then. So you get the last laugh 👌🏽. You did better than what most guys would do.

[@kingmont5839]

He's 100% spot on ...no contact is a beast,and its the only thing they respect...me and my last girlfriend broke up in 2018 ...i NEVER CALLED HER ONCE💪🏽

[@New_Creature_]

Best advice there is: fall in love with God then fall in love with yourself because that's God's body you're walking around in. Everything falls in place after.

[@Regalman]

BROOOOOOOO you are so right. I knew I wasn't alone with this. I had to no contact exes and even family. It works so well especially if you were in the right, they have to sit a live with the fact they did you wrong while you keep on leveling up. I just bought my first house and it is only up from here.

[@JostenJ]

Champion Mindset 😤

[@freshfloentertainment9281]

Working on the same fam. Congrats on the house

[@Regalman]

@@freshfloentertainment9281 keep grinding you will get it and honestly it is the ultimate therapy for a man. My place is clean and quiet the way I like it.

[@GISamurai]

@megamatt991; Flawless victory!!

[@porquefresco585]

Shoutout to the male and red-pill community out here, it’s a beautiful thing to see us holding each other accountable and giving each other brotherly advice! This is one of the best videos I’ve seen on KZbin lately. Keep it going G!!

[@JostenJ]

This is that energy we need 💪🏾

[@jbe162]

Follow her actions not her words Gentlemen! I tried the marriage thing twice… Never again. Have your fun and keep it moving. It doesn’t matter what you drive, where you work, what you make, if she’s feeling you…she’s feeling you! Strap up and have fun and wait for her to leave.

[@JostenJ]

I’ll never get married but I just want to ask brother why a 2nd time? Marriage is something that’s supposed to be special a one of a kind thing that should only happen once if it’s so worthwhile. I get how a woman would keep getting married but a level headed man who’s proud of who he is why would he think a 2nd time would be any different?

[@jbe162]

@@JostenJ she was an old friend that i met in college back in 1990. We reconnected via the phone in 94 and I used to talk to her all the time. I drove to see her once or twice back then she lived near Detroit I lived in Virginia. I met the first wife then. We moved down to the A. I had the new house, the cars, etc. but she couldn’t keep it home. So that’s what happened there. The second one was the one i met in college. She liked to travel too much. That’s when they cheat. The girl trips. I had a health issue and left the city that was killing me. Her idea mind you, shortly afterward she divorced me. Never again Brother.

[@1n1ernet]

THIS COMMENT 💯

[@jbe162]

@@dtgotthatflight Yes and she claimed to be a Believer but her actions didn’t match her words. I’ve learned as I’ve gotten older some relationships can’t be fixed. It is what it is.

[@Keviekev115]

@@dtgotthatflightrun from “devoted” woman. They will sign and pray for it to be forgiven the next day. Imo, the worst woman I’ve dated are the church ones. Get a girl that believes in God but not one that is consumed by it

[@mrlanza81]

It works. I didn't realize it did until I got fed up and stopped caring and just focused on me.

[@JostenJ]

Right and you see them coming back it just makes sense and clicks in your head 🧠

[@paulmoore11]

I always go no contact and she always comes back. I don’t expect it because I would rather move on but somehow, someway, she’s always back because she will never find someone like me, never chase girls, chase the money first.

[@JostenJ]

See how you don’t even care and get results! YOU ARE HIM 😤

[@Fireinvestr]

🎯💯

[@lilsiranthony]

What does it mean when a ex says I Dotn care what u do! I don’t care of you date it’s your choice… I’m like why woild you want to make me move that fast it’s only been a month since the breakup. They are very hot and cold they contact me then ghost me on the weekends stop showing there location but stil hits me up still has me on social media I feel they dating someone else I’m tryign to to keep my cool I want them and lvor them I already pleaded my case idk what else to do at this point 🤷🏾‍♂️ I ask do they see a future they say maybe idk maybe if u put the work in and they do as well it’s just very grey area. I hate being in this position HELP lol

[@JostenJ]

@@lilsiranthony I already answered this accept the truth

[@JayBee762]

@@lilsiranthonyfrom reading this paragraph…. SHE DONT WANT YOU. Not tryna be mean just tryna get it through your head. If a girl says she doesn’t care who u date then she don’t care about u. Girls that care want u all to themselves even if they know that’ll never happen.

[@jft2nd]

Take my advice on no contact fellas: If you were a good or great partner to them, they will ALWAYS come back. Can be years, and they will randomly check on you or hit you up.

[@JostenJ]

💯💯💯

[@jft2nd]

@@inspirationalshanae5129 lol no

[@jeancarlorivas9044]

I do this unconsciouslly. For example, had a chick that initiated contact, went straight up to tell her to join me and hang out that sunday. I got a luke warm reply with no clear yes or no. I literally Left her on read. Fast forward a couple days she hit me up again "good Morning daddy". Total different energy, set up the date again( cause she had shown me interest before), and she complied, no games. Since then energy been on point, with me in the position of power.

[@JostenJ]

Champion mindset 💪🏾

[@nafajonit8854]

You are not lying Going through this right now. Just leave that woman alone

[@JostenJ]

Yessir leave her where she stands

[@hotlucky5622]

they cry over your absence - but somehow, saying "sorry" and straightening up is just waaay above them

[@Vellust]

THIS 💯

[@bYz4rEel]

No contact creates and reinvents self respect, self discipline and self control as well….women will never drag you back to their goofiness if people like myself practice these 3 things for life Great explanation as always bro!

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for 💪🏾

[@bYz4rEel]

@@JostenJ and I’ll forever love these topics🤙🏾🤙🏾🙏🏾

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

yep. i was into a co wroker. He went for a women that he was waiting for after no contact. Glad, i never had sex with him but he was a gentlemen/ honest.

[@handsomeX]

It's funny cuz I was practicing "no contact" as far back as my teens without knowing what I was doing. It wasn't intentional at all, as I was very busy with school and music(I'm now a professional saxophonist and teacher). I was legit busy and didn't really have the time to get back to people in a timely manner, even my friends. I was constantly practicing, auditioning, and performing. Looking back, I stood out to girls because I didn't chase or contact them constantly like other guys did. And this was ONLY because my schedule was jam packed and didn't have the time.

[@JostenJ]

That’s why a lot of men focus on women because they have all of this free time that eventually gets wasted and they get used to it.

[@handsomeX]

@@JostenJ And back then, no cellphones. So the ONLY time u had to call someone was when you were home.

[@mobbinator]

Absolutely needed to hear this. I had an ex who was playing games and wanted me to take her seriously while still doing whatever she wants, and I got mad and cut her off. This really helps me realize I made the right choice Thanks man

[@JostenJ]

Let them do whatever they want you don’t have to be involved 🧠💡

[@maravilloso002]

It's a way to test high/low interest. If you leave and never look back, but don't hear from the chick again, she was never that interested in you. The greatest gift you can give ANYBODY is the gift of your time. Also, the quickest way to get someone's attention is to remove yours. Select men it's not as cut and dry as many women tend to always disqualify themselves or preemptively reject us, then yearn for us to make moves on them while they're being wishy-washy. Ppl who use manipulation are used to others being fooled by it and cannot fathom how someone can be immune to it. If a woman doesn't lust you walk away, plain and simple.

[@JostenJ]

Yo brother everything you said is accurate to the T 💯and I like how you said people who use manipulation are used to fooling other people so when they try it on you and it doesn’t work they give you energy of distain which proves they never liked you just wanted your attention.

[@maravilloso002]

@@JostenJ aye the vids be apropo my boy. 🫡💯

[@hotlucky5622]

​@@JostenJ some women try this shit thinking it is cute and a way to hook you to them. Especially if they see you as a long term option (don't want to seem easy etc.). It seems women instinctively know how to be desirable but not loveable. But when the games fail, they just feel stupid. And sometimes, they were just lukewarm and just wanted the attention.

[@lupitaserrano3379]

Goes both ways. If either side can't value or respect the other than cut them of completely. Never waste your time.

[@dialac1]

This is pure facts. I had to do this to a girl I truly loved the second I suspected there was another guy she was talking to. I did no contact in 2019. Till today she’s still trying to reach out on every social media platform

[@JostenJ]

Looks like the other guy was just a guy and you are still THE GUY they play themselves time and time again they can’t help it

[@dialac1]

@@JostenJ 100%. It’s one of the best things I ever did for myself because even tho I truly loved her, I had to respect myself and walk away

[@lilsiranthony]

@@dialac1 any update I’m trying to do NC it’s so hard especially the breakup is fresh we both at faults I admit to my faults… is there an update? Did u go back or ?

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

chasing someone for 4 years is insane. She needs to give up

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

@@lilsiranthony Only take back if time apart was 6 months to 1 year. let her prove that she changed. Do not be intimate,take it slow

[@DAWNg444]

It works at the same time if you’re in a relationship it’s better to communicate what you want and if she doesn’t reciprocate you leave

[@JostenJ]

👍🏾

[@johnmccarthy2179]

You aren’t teaching me anything I don’t know, but you have a great way of putting it across.

[@JostenJ]

Great

[@marshallnash5705]

This is so true, I stopped talking to women I use to chase. Than after a month they were all in the DMs all talking about hey stranger, you mad at me , why you don't talk to me anymore😂😂😂

[@JostenJ]

Bunch of goofies NO CONTACT!

[@jjwms33]

Your attention is valuable. Give it to God and yourself. Not another human. They think they're gods!

[@rose2zero]

Amen Brother! When I see someone setting up on me I Strike First, I Strike Hard, and I show No Mercy.

[@rubenburger2621]

Just like cobra Kai

[@JostenJ]

Winners mindset 💪🏾

[@deuceswild117]

COBRA KAI!!

[@4U2Want]

Love it.

[@spencewolverton4923]

I'm currently playing the no contact game with my gym crush. I hit once and she been movin wonky ever since she saw me post another chick. Lol now she just keeps trying to walk past me and smile anytime she sees me in the gym. These broads are savages. 😂🔥

[@JostenJ]

She’s pissed 😭💪🏾

[@threethrushes]

I'm 47. Run my own business. Unmarried w/ long-term gf. Never heard of Josten before, but young guys - listen to his words, he is legit. I wish I had known this when I was 15.

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother 💪🏾

[@DC-cp1op]

No contact really worked for me recently! The chick was complaining to others that she has no idea why i am ignoring her when she displayed the red flags and talked shit behind my back 😂

[@JostenJ]

See when you go no contact it shows her true colors and how she really feels about you! A chick could act all nice or put on an illusion. Once you stop giving them attention all of the sudden you’re a loser and blah blah blah

[@hotwheelsindallas-fortwort7932]

He's telling the 100% truth just went through it and now there's no contact but unfortunately I let it go too far

[@muzyy8978]

I can’t agree more with everything said on this video. When you have self respect you have to know when to cut BS off✂️ 💯

[@JostenJ]

Exactly your HIM instincts should kick in immediately and you vanish.

[@devontezp347]

I'm definitely trying to do no contact with my ex-wife. Its just tough due to us having three kids together. Eventually I will have to be in contact with her to see my kids. For now I'm just focusing on getting back on my feet. Fellas listen to this brother. No contact is the best thing you can ever do for yourself. Focus on yourself & level up.

[@JostenJ]

Ok so when she sees you the next time. You have your body right, your skin right, your money right, your life right…. It’s her loss

[@EricBCalhoun]

Talk to her sibling or parent or someone close to the kids, doesn’t have to be her. I text strictly with my ex’s sister, even though I see her from time to time when I get my kid, I keep it extremely brief, as brief as possible. If there’s no doctors appointments or small trips where one needs to watch the kids for longer than usual, it doesn’t need to be talked about. Boundaries, and self respect. It takes time, but that’s what it is. She lost her time with you and her opportunity at a structured family, you did your best, leave the rest to god.

[@GISamurai]

There is tremendous power in being indifferent.

[@Kickinitwithd18]

Another banger bro, and your right. I lent my cousin $700 one time because he owed someone money and they we’re coming after him. He said he’d pay me back quickly but that didn’t happen, so I stopped answering his calls and eventually he got the message. Fast forward a couple of years and out of the blue he hit me up from a different Number and sent me the bread. Straight out of the blue. I didn’t understand it back then but now you’ve put it in perspective.

[@mohitdarla1254]

Ahhh man you're amazing. Earned a sub. I'm 19 yrs old, first love, first breakup. In the end, it was me who was at fault for the break up, but I have matured and I have become a better person. Still in No contact. It's the best way to move on. She was a real amazing girl, but we both had problems and immaturity, but I have def matured~ I'll see what the future entails with or without her

[@JostenJ]

WITHOUT HER! if it was you that was at fault cool let her be with whoever and you go on about your life BOSS UP!

[@imabigbaby]

I’ve been doing the no contact thing for years since I was 13, once I feel that they are hurting me and kept on disrespecting me.. I will straight up cut them off without even warning or explaining to them. I just let it go and let me tell you its 100% worthy especially if the energy is not reciprocated you’re just gonna waste your time with somebody that don’t even value you. And it goes both ways.

[@newjerseydeals]

Ay bro, some of us young men who had long relationships in our 20's need to hear this message. I've watched all your No Contact videos but we need one of these jams once a week bro. Started no contact 1.5 years ago and have held strong. In the last 6-9 months I've started answering her with very short answers just to let her know I'm good and not butthurt at all. Can't lie though, it's still hard all this time later

[@JostenJ]

Why is it hard? She’s a woman she’s not special. The fact that you answer her at all is just ridiculous. Bro fuck if they think you’re butthurt wtf!!!! ITS ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT! you didn’t get her so there’s no reason to talk to her it’s not about being butthurt and who cares what she thinks ok if you care what she thinks so much understand this she doesn’t think highly of you so why don’t you care about that and have some self worth and leave the damn woman alone

[@SP-iv2jj]

Have you dated since?

[@Bob1332s]

@@JostenJ ​ 😂you really passionate about this subject, writing that long ass explanation for a viewer. subbed to you

[@newjerseydeals]

@@JostenJ I was with her for 7 years and I’m the one who cut her off but I haven’t seen her in almost 2 years and I still love her somehow 😐

[@newjerseydeals]

@@SP-iv2jj once but didn’t last long. I’ve been on monk mode for a year now.

[@ItsThicc]

Facts. Always ignore them. It does work.

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@flyaway6671]

It's easy to do this when you had the reference experience with the right girls, then you can go back and compare her with the good ones and you will just know she ain't it if she's playing all these games. You'll lose attraction to her as well and you're going to want to do no contact, don't even need to be told to.

[@JostenJ]

👍🏾

[@timshaq520]

Facts man when you with a good one and then you date a fake one you notice it

[@dillonsantanam]

Fantastic video. The no contact rule has genuinely saved my life at times.

[@JostenJ]

Yea man why go crazy over a chick when you can go no contact

[@shellz600]

This the best video i ever watched in my life. I was already doing this in my life. I felt insecure about my decisions to initiate no-contact until i watched this video. Listening to you has given me the confidence to continue doing what needs to be done. I thank you so much for this black man. Lets goooooo!

[@JostenJ]

Forget how they feel it’s just NO CONTACT

[@darney7086]

Needed to hear this my man. I’ve still been snapping my ex after we parted on friendly terms, and I felt like I should go no contact but because I was still stuck on her I kept trying. Time to man up and level up.

[@JostenJ]

Friendly terms 😭 you guys are funny you wanna be friends with a chick FOR WHAT!!!! Answer that for me please

[@NAH14386]

Never be friends with an ex.

[@darney7086]

@@JostenJ lol i wasn't over her. Had to realize that It was ether friendzone or no contact, and no way I'm staying stuck in the friendzone.

[@Jay_Dearing]

Bro.. I didn’t even realize how much I needed to hear this. Man spitting straight FACTS!! insta subbed ✅

[@JostenJ]

🧠💡

[@Kodaviper101]

Needed to hear this! Learning this mindset of no contact and working on myself

[@JostenJ]

Keep elevating 💪🏾

[@classicprodesign1915]

Bro, is spitting facts……..I had this girl that I really liked and gave her a lot of attention but she never valued it………so I gave her the no contact and spoke to her like I would speak to a normal person after sometime she tried to make me feel jealous but I didn’t care what she did………then after some time she started giving me respect and wanted to do things for me and wanted to startup communications with me and also told me about guys that have been hitting on her………………the big rule is that ‘DON’T GET EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO ANY WOMAN’ so that when she begins to act stupid you can ditch her………..

[@dylanculani]

Bros channel GROWING, people love to hear truth in a world full of lies💯

[@JostenJ]

Facts!

[@WisemanChitenta-rc6cg]

I really love this guy and the speech he has given,am encouraged because that's what am going through

[@JostenJ]

Stay silent and go no contact

[@axaflaxar]

You give them the gift of goodbye. When you got it going on they will see it and want it

[@Dan-xp5ve]

This is the best video I could have watched at 1am . Thank you

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@bradley5973]

My now gf wasnt sure if she wanted to be with me or not after going out on a couple dates before ,and i told her "your amazing and beautiful but i want to be with someone who wants me too ,take care and wish you the best " not even a day went by and she texted me she wanted to be my gf . Guys you cant keep her if your not willing to walk away because by walking away you walk with your head up high and show her you can leave if things arent going your way .

[@jonthedawn]

I fucked up and it ended.. I apologized.. stated my case and then went ghost. While they think.. we grind. That way either way we win. Lets go boys 🤙

[@OGTrollTroll8]

Bro you are dead on point. I’ve been leveling up for the past 2 years and I literally have no genuine friends left.

[@jasperhippolyte3987]

All facts everything is correct your saying happens every time instant cooperation, when they want you no confusion no complications it’s just yes.

[@JostenJ]

Exactly 🎯

[@ridjauhnryan6882]

“Haters Love you, they just don’t know it yet” - Best Quote of 2023

[@JostenJ]

🔥🔥🔥

[@houseofmatrix6174]

You preaching bro. Women will put up with anything if your that guy

[@russopubgm1649]

Incredible Video sir! I’ve had this ideology for long but my friends say; “nahh, you should always talk to the woman so you’re on the same page” I’m like fuck that bro, as soon as I notice some BS I disappear, and it’s becoming more subconscious than deliberate. I used to talk to this particular female everyday but then I started noticing some new traits I couldn’t tolerate and I dipped. Saw her in school after and I walked right passed, she texted me to ask why I did that, and I lied about why, giving her a flimsy excuse, I shouldn’t have done that but hey, I’m growing. Focus on yourselves kings!

[@JostenJ]

You’re doing fine next time tell the chick why it is or stay silent and keep it moving. Your friends advice is garbage btw. Don’t let them tell you that garbage if a chick ever breaths the wrong way she’s cut.

[@bharper1816b]

You never miss a good thing till it's gonna.

[@JostenJ]

Exactly they find out the hard way

[@theboy2777]

FAX especially about the dating app one, if she dont wannna come through then hey another one will. And the part about realized our own actions that ultimately causes our own demise. Just like you said not all Ls are our fault but in most causes you gotta take ownership for the L

[@JostenJ]

the mindset of a real mf!!!!! 👑👊🏾

[@47WaysToGrow]

Attention is currency, know the value of your energy.

[@JostenJ]

Exactly!

[@gedward86]

Respect for giving game to the men that need it

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@kingmastersupreme4854]

This is excellent content!! As a Double-OG I already understood the power and effectiveness of applying the concept. However, you just made me realize that there are MORE People Who I need to currently apply it to!! #Salute!!

[@JostenJ]

😤💯

[@jia1596]

Sincerely, this video is speaking to me. Appreciate it King. Trying to make the proper adjustments.

[@JostenJ]

I got your back 💯

[@radsthetics]

Things I’ve known since Kevin Samuels. Always fucking great to hear this info again and again. No contact is so good and powerful. In order for it to be super effective you need to have an abundance mindset and lead an interesting life. This is the way.

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@seddikrayanbenfaida7165]

@@JostenJ bro I have a question does no contact also mean no reply when she texts me does that mean no reply to her messages

[@robertziak4560]

@@seddikrayanbenfaida7165 No reply, No messages, no birthday wishes, absolutely nothing... if you meet her stay cool and keep the conversation short and cold .

[@robbyrockets1]

Excellent video filled with truth, listen up young guys.

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@ronnieterrell7798]

Someone needed to hear this message..... Brothers to make a decision is at its root deciding to cut something out. Admittedly it's hard to tell someone this but in reality that only makes them want you more. Then they have to face the reality of how good you are and that someone important values that, You.... Love & Peace family

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for bringing value to the channel 💪🏾

[@justinrobinson9583]

Thank you for this video. She went no contact. It made me learn as soon as there is low interest, or reciprocation, to go no contact. Been awhile since dating and learning from mistakes.

[@isaiahwilliams9413]

facts. nothing greater than walking away. sometimes the no contact took some time, but it never failed after she gives weird energy, sometimes even apologizing for that bs later on...

[@iwasunknown]

Recently, I've been reflecting on some video clips, and it's become clear to me that amidst the struggles of a difficult divorce, I've learned one of life's toughest lessons: happiness isn't something we stumble upon, but something we actively seek within ourselves. It's in the journey of self-discovery that true happiness begins to bloom. So, to anyone going through tough times, remember to prioritize self-improvement. Be bold, leave the doubts behind, and focus on nurturing your own growth instead of external distractions. That's where genuine happiness lies.

[@marquisd.4867]

“No no no no no no no”, is right bro, keep up the great work fam!!

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother

[@bYz4rEel]

No contact is the best way to avoid walking into an argument with a woman too

[@JostenJ]

Facts straight silence

[@TheGeneral6623]

I like these longer videos. Thanks for the hard work

[@JostenJ]

I got your back💪🏾

[@Jfitmotivate]

NAH bro spittin serious game fr💯

[@JostenJ]

Thank You!

[@Bidness100]

The Power Of Moving On It’s A Fast Life 😀 💯

[@laurynspears4671]

As men we have to identify what we did that’s 💯

[@JostenJ]

Exactly 💪🏾

[@sozl]

Bro im a red pill guy and i really like your content. Please keep pushing through, i have a feeling that you'll explode on youtube. You have very good talking skills, and everything you say just feels pure and real.

[@jo2862]

Yes sir!!! Good work!

[@JostenJ]

Thank you brother salute! 💪🏾

[@nelsoncruz184]

Nice video and thumbnail ! I watched this over and over , until I could almost recite it myself

[@JostenJ]

Thanks bro

[@marlonious7650]

This one is right on time. Great content.

[@JostenJ]

I got your back 💪🏾

[@6And6rej6]

Indeed, every word is spot on. I'm also into coaching and studying this for 20 years. But I give toxic/narcissist girls false hope and keeping them in uncertainty. I hunt these girls because science, but staying with good girls who are into me and moving on when I need to. Be a hatchet I always say!

[@SkinnyJT_YT]

Big bro, YOU NAILED IT!!! Shit this is bullet proof factual my guy!!!❤️🔥❤️

[@chrism4505]

glad i clicked on this video thought it was finna be some bs clickbait video but this man chose to speak facts and reminded me to stay in check.

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for watching

[@ElNelsxn]

This man has to go to the fresh n fit podcast. You‘re amazing!

[@JostenJ]

⏰

[@DJJmoneymaka13]

This even works within relationships too. I told my girl that I was done and she called me to try and fix it.

[@JostenJ]

Yes sir! Good stuff 💪🏾

[@Signify2K]

I took a girl out on a date Sunday before Mother's day and she barely text now. Last time we text was Tuesdays at 1pm it's Thursday! I refuse to text or say anything. I value myself too much.

[@JostenJ]

Man who cares get your muscles and money up these hoes ain’t special

[@AKASHSHARMA-uo4dj]

@JostenJ is the true OG. Learnt a lot from you my brother.

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother

[@CoachMacho954]

Crazy to hear another man talk about the same exact things I've been through. The wishy washy behavior. 🙄 These chicks be playin around. I used to feel some type of way about it, until I learned more about women psychology. This is why I tell men to always keep their options open. The minute a bih starts playing with you, giving you wishy-washy energy, you go ghost. 👻 Like you said, they know exactly what they were doing. They knew they were playing around with a good dude. They almost always end up coming back.

[@JostenJ]

Facts! The wishy washy energy lets you know they aren’t used to dealing with a real man. Being able to spot a real man and lock him down is supposed to be what they are good at…but most fail miserably time as time again and come back

[@CoachMacho954]

@@JostenJ you ever have a girl give you wishy-washy behavior and then you see her on social media and month later with some beta nerd boyfriend? 🤣 I swear this has happened to me a few times. 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@JostenJ]

@@CoachMacho954 oh yea bro it happens because they can control the beta. When she met you she tried you and figured ok this is a real man who I can’t manipulate.. months go by and you see her with a dude who looks like a dog on a leash all smiling in the pictures while she’s looking normal 🤣

[@jaymoney8512]

You're talking straight facts!! 💯👍🏾

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@artybojangles4153]

Only a wimp would put up with that behavior 💪 keep it coming bruh!!!

[@JostenJ]

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[@Humble_in_blessed]

Bro spitting facts 👌💯

[@roderricktarantino1136]

This one came at the perfect time

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for 💪🏾

[@alexismays6013]

Nah this is true, as a woman, I was that girl with my ex. He went no contact on me and got another girl and ghosted me, I was so devastated but wasn’t even sure if I wanted him fr. A year and a half later I was still wondering about him, thankfully I learned from that situation and I’m a much better partner to my parter now. Sometimes the most painful lessons are the most effective.

[@JostenJ]

Real men know the truth this comment just confirms what we already know

[@A24G27]

Josten, I absolutely agree with your notion on “actions speak louder than words” and I think most men overlook the actions that women willingly participate in because they can sometimes be subtle. I very recently met this woman who I invited over my house after we got sexually involved. In the past 2 occasions that I invited her, she said she would come over. When it was time, she never showed up, blaming it on “falling asleep”. At the point I said “enough”. I blocked her. No contact.

[@JostenJ]

That was perfectly executed! Her sleep was more important than your plans 🧠💡 NO CONTACT!

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

@@JostenJ 😆love this

[@daphillips83]

I have been that dude for so long. I definitely feel everything you're saying. I lost my masculinity by being a Simp for no reason. I never needed to.

[@Tony_Anthemz]

Facts .. going no contact .. going monk mode.. and quitting weed at the same time became my super power to avoid my toxic redbone ex girl 😂😎 💀

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@AJBuddha]

I wish I knew 8 years ago but I was completely clueless. But I’m glad I know all these things now

[@JostenJ]

👊🏾

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

Cutting my family off wasn't much to it. Cutting her off for good was a walk in the park. The motto from Heat was Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner. How i look at it, anyone and everyone is expendable. And vice versa