The Power of No Contact | When You Think The No Contact Rule Isn’t Working

[@JostenJ]

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[@malcostephens3]

this girl flaked twice so i cut her off & went no contact. 4months later she’s begginggg. stay cold fellas

[@JostenJ]

HIM energy 💪🏾

[@rastafit23]

💪🏾💯

[@Donbanks45]

@@nickelbothello6210 no lie 😂💯

[@classydyme113086]

How about we grow up and not play games?🙄 if she flaked move on

[@kku6857]

You know that she doesn't like you, she wants to know if you still want her

[@REGGIE142]

"When you go no contact, it's a win win." 🔥

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@raylemar2386]

No contact works extremely well. It's very important to continue taking the trash out.

[@JostenJ]

I agree

[@mosesacevedo]

Josten is a real one. Reached out to him about feeling down about a breakup, and he laughed at me and helped me put things into perspective. Crazy how I'm doing so much better in life shortly after breaking up. New school, huge scholarship, about to get a new car, came off corticosteroids, and lost 20lbs of fat. Don't lose sight of who you are

[@JostenJ]

Let’s fucking go!!!!! Only real real mfs can take someone laughing at them or telling them the truth and except it, use it and flip the script! You proved a lot to yourself I’m glad I could help brother 💪🏾

[@rccrforeverfrrdfortuneshav9823]

@@JostenJ MEN 👑

[@djmoney8004]

To all the simps...You either die a hero or live long enough to become the villain no contact is the way

[@JostenJ]

Facts!

[@DarkAngel201137]

“The power of no contact will work as along as you keep working to improve.” Very powerful stuff here. The objective of no contact is to use that energy you used to give to that person to improve yourself not for them to comeback. One thing I’ve learned in this journey of self improvement is not everyone is going to be a part of it. Yea you are going to be alone a lot of the times, yes it may take some time to get to where you want to be, but those who are your true supports you will show themselves and those are those are the ones that deserve to see that you are HIM.

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@Iamrjayhd]

Wow! Beautifully said !!

[@m2goofy760]

If a man leaves and finds peace and happiness, that wemon will always show back up. Wemons have an incredible ability to sense when a man is happy and at peace, and they always sbow up and try and fuk it all up. Wemons hate to see a man who is happy, since a wemons only happiness comes from a man.

[@steveRyk570]

The power of no contact real, and allows people to realize your value. Keep it up bro let's cook

[@JostenJ]

Exactly 💪🏾

[@Nolepower]

Damn man you hit the nail on the head. I can write a book about what I've gone through in my 49 years but you spoke on it in this video. I lost my mom at 2 months old, lost my grandmother at 20 years old and my dad died at the age of 21. So when i go through tuff times (especially women), I get on my knees and say "Alright Lord you're my Father now, Im looking to you for guidance now!!!). He's never ever failed me yet...

[@JostenJ]

Keep elevating brother!

[@Nolepower]

@JostenJ yes sirr. I have no choice but to do so bruh...

[@Gematria142]

Brother since no contact. I've picked up a book every day and read. Hit the gym and walk every day. Since putting the energy into myself that has really changed my perspective ☺️

[@JostenJ]

Good stuff brother. Keep elevating 🙏🏾

[@iamCrwly]

Moral of the story. DON’T ACCEPT NOBODY CRAP! IMPROVE YOUR CREDIT, GET A BAG, MAKE WISE DECISIONS AND ENJOY LIFE. LIFE TOO SHORT! 💯💯💯

[@JostenJ]

🎯

[@zikwamkpah]

It works y’all trust the process.

[@JostenJ]

It really does 💯

[@pnb1131]

2 months NC, reading, working out, just focusing on myself. Having my german shep def helps tho. Deactivated my social media too

[@13sprintuser]

Nice dude! You got this. 4-5 months NC and I’m finally doing well

[@dannyrobles6947]

This is true. I haven’t talked to my ex since jan, she calls from random numbers and also stalks my social media. Today she saw something she didn’t like and she called me saying she was mad at me after not speaking to her for 5 months. You can’t make this shit up

[@JostenJ]

They hate when they can’t control you and your feelings I love it! 5 months later still scratching her head as to why she isn’t that special 💪🏾

[@YoungMeskin559]

My baby momma too blocked her from all social media but uses a insta account she made for her dad she pops up in my stories every night that account I haven’t blocked been working on myself log 20lb still working to improve more and man I wonder what will happen the day I get a new chick ima post her all over 😂

[@lyon5474]

I keep seeing versions of my ex everywhere I turn. I was crazy realizing I invested so much of myself in someone who isn't that special 😂

[@JostenJ]

WOMEN ARE NOT SPECIAL 💯

[@laerciopaiva1]

My ex broke with me after 9 years of a good relationship to “live her life”. So now, i’m trying my best to bring back my masculinity i have lost in the break up and your videos are helping as fuck. Thank you brother. 🤜🏼

[@newjerseydeals]

THE STREETS NEED THIS MAN!

[@JostenJ]

I’m really here to help 💯

[@garthyahudahandrews8504]

honestly no contact for most chicks means that its not in your interest to even acknowledge them because of low level of interest and mind games safe yourself the mental exhaustion trying to read this person lol.There will come a point they may hit you up again but at that point you ignore them or act nonchalant they hit you up to see if you still have the same level of interest for them but it isnt genuine

[@JostenJ]

Facts 💯

[@realbanger]

You’re quickly becoming the best channel in this space.

[@JostenJ]

I’m here to help

[@alberto_sauce]

My bruddah, you got me laughing, and agreeing and listening like talking to a brother. I’m speaking it into existence you’re going to be one of the biggest manosphere influencers in the game, you’re real, genuine, down to earth and straight up honest. Your energy is refreshing and powerful. You’re still on the journey and helping people start theirs, and that makes a world a difference. Keep doing your thing big dawg!

[@JostenJ]

Consistency is key and it’s my job to build my brothers up with me. Many men lack what we have right in front of us it’s crazy. I appreciate you and thanks for leaving a comment 💪🏾

[@mr_dianle]

3 weeks ago, she ended a 2 year relationship with me out of nowhere. She rarely ever communicated what made her unhappy, and the things that she did communicate, I acknowledged and actively tried to improve. I was so shocked when it happened and argued a bit, but past that point, I accepted that no amount of pestering or bothering her would change her mind. The first week was me mentally bargaining and begging her to come back, but during the second week, I realized that she was not as mature as I remembered, and finally stopped putting her on the pedestal. Been NC since the breakup. I’m not wasting time or energy on someone who decided I wasnt worth that. While its hard for me to say that I’ll never want her in my life again, I do know that I will not ask for her to come back. I will take the steps to make my own life better, for my own sake and no one elses. If she comes back, I don’t even know if i want her. Excuse my rambling but all in all, thanks for the video bro

[@Guyguyguy2]

How does it feel over a month later?

[@ankurghata3753]

Did she come back?

[@100JK]

Watching your videos just had to cut the girl I was dealing with off. Energy Vampire real shit. Keep making bangers. 🤧

[@JostenJ]

It sucks when you really like a chick but she still has to go because she’s on some bullshit 💯

[@pogoacct8611]

No contact works extremely well. I looooove that shit

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@realbanger]

This is one of the most accurate videos on this subject ever

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother 💪🏾

[@dagoat404duncan9]

This is definitely the hardest thing to do. I’m currently crushing on a girl who I know is drawlin and playing with my feelings or at least wants to. Ik not to talk to her and not give her the time of day. It be hard when you see them everyday

[@JostenJ]

You don’t think highly of yourself. Because you would immediately understand that when one chick is playing games there’s 4 chicks that won’t in the same room.

[@StriderGMT]

Bro I’m struggling with this Dime. She’s taken 3 days to get back to me. It’s hard. We had a lot in common. Banged. Etc….

[@reyale4204]

This is nothing but the truth. This explians my ex. We went our separate ways and i haven't reached out in months. Just yesterday she sent me a friend request on FB knowing she has another guy. Stay righteous fellas and keep improving yourselves.

[@JostenJ]

Yup works like a charm and it lets you know that the dude she’s with means nothing to her she couldn’t replace you as easily as she thought 😤

[@burakpeker529]

They cant manipulate u and then they get mad at u lol

[@JostenJ]

Facts! It pisses them off

[@seanlovi8798]

The no contact gives you an opportunity to analyse a relationship from a third person eye view... so then you can re-orient yourself accordingly.

[@lilker1]

Had a chick reach out during no contact then block me and change her number after i don’t respond. Shit crazy! 😂

[@JostenJ]

They hate you when they can’t benefit from you it’s crazy

[@BowHunter55]

It’s important to do you, because you all you got. Once you learn to make yourself happy you weed out the ones who not adding value. No contact is for you. A good perspective to have is when you weren’t in contact with someone and they come into your life starting drama going no contact puts you back on an even playing field. Your life was good before them and it will be good without them!

[@etodillerx2095]

No contact videos are fire! Very interesting to listen, keep it up💪!

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother 💪🏾

[@rickgudino7866]

Absolutely perfectly explained. Bravo!

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@Rushhhh444]

You just never miss huh. Glad I, and hopefully everyone else who supports this channel, can confide in you and your lived experiences so we know what you’re speaking is real, allowing us to move correctly and make the right decisions. Keep it up.

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@kingdavid772]

2 weeks no contact after being left on read.

[@JostenJ]

What have you accomplished for yourself in those 2 weeks?

[@kingdavid772]

@@JostenJ Absolutely nothing because I’ve been dealing with a fractured ankle 😅

[@mauriciaga3266]

@@JostenJthis not a flex cause you still thinking about her

[@SeanGunz]

Anyone else watching while getting a nasty pump in the gym? Tearing up these battle ropes for an arm finisher

[@JostenJ]

Let’s fucking go!!!!! HIM GANG 👊🏾

[@davonjones9489]

Nigga josten be killing me with these thumbnails LMAO 🤣 🤣

[@JostenJ]

😭

[@isaiahwilliams9413]

sometimes you don't get rewarded for staying solid and doing the right thing, sometimes u wont bounce back for years. mans speaking facts.

[@assplundah]

Over 27 thousand subscribers already mate! Let’s go boys!!💪💪

[@JostenJ]

Consistency is key 💪🏾

[@KingDavidTBE]

Im impressed ! Great video! Went no contact ,paid off debt ,landed my internship and getting fit ,shit is crazy, no contact has be useful to me lol

[@JostenJ]

See now this is why you go NO CONTACT!!!! Good stuff brother 💪🏾

[@KingDavidTBE]

@@JostenJ bro I utilized your advice with semen retention and fasting, uber focused ! Magnetizing the succubus women lolol

[@Seanhmclean]

I went & blocked my ex’s number & social media. (She has a new bf now) A few weeks ago she called me, I quickly discovered she was seeking my validation & attention. I blocked her second account so she just reach out again.

[@JostenJ]

Good man 💪🏾 let the new guy have her she’s old news

[@TChalla-yg8bl]

Had almost the same thing happen. Made sure she was blocked, calling texting to talk about her ex husband and im her friend!😂😂Blocked for good beeotch😂

[@088621]

Bro you have changed my heart towards myself. I have to win.

[@justinm.5089]

definitely works, ex came crawling back after 4 months. 😭

[@JostenJ]

😂

[@Clvrkz]

Who broke up with who?

[@kauaichronsdan5146]

Great vid bro, my girl has premenstrual dysphoria or some shit that makes her psychotic during that time of the month, last 4 months she broke up over BS…. I’ve been married and never had a soulmate connection like her and I know it was reciprocal….but she kicked me out Memorial Day wknd and have been contact since. She kicked me when I was down and was terminated from my job since I had to move out of state. Although I’m curious, I’m happy that toxicity is out of my life. Thanks for the encouragement….. I’m already over her 💯, I hope to never come across, I’m just making myself into something she could only dream to be with.

[@JostenJ]

Let this be the last comment you ever write about this chick please.

[@bodystrongfitness7898]

Mental issues will drive you crazy! They do stupid hurtful shit and "don't mean it" I've been there! Hurts bad, but move on for your own good!

[@ClassicAndFreshCo]

Salute Mane I’m Coming Out That Jungle in a MINK 💯👑… Everything you said I’ve told myself before and after EVERY L never a loss just a lesson & it’s been YEARS but she came back and honestly I was HIGHLY OFFENDED. I’m Ace Of Spades baby NOT Hennessy, my presence is EXORBITANT Miss keep those lil bitty coins

[@JostenJ]

Real recognizes real. Yoooo I’m laughin! He said “I was highly offended” 😂 HIM ENERGY !!!! Facts these chicks are funny they think you’ll stay where you’re at like you won’t level up it’s crazy.

[@realpurplegoldminnesotavik7829]

No contact provides your own self clarity !

[@Ju-to4dl]

extremely common Josten W 🤝🏽

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@davidhoward5687]

She started going cold at 2 months and then I sent her text that it wasn't going to work out, but the funny thing is she said she didn't know how to act when someone starts to pull away except for her to pull away too and then agreed and then proceeded to unfriend me on Facebook but not block me, kept me on Snapchat for a day. What I noticed was she was posting pics of herself on Snap but I wouldn't check them I could just see the thumbnails of what she was posting. She then proceeded to block me on Snap but not on Facebook. This is hilarious, she is absolutely angry LOL. She's keeping that door open with me is why she didn't block me on Facebook but I've already moved on.

[@GalestianMusic]

Real talk. Thank you, brother 🙏

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@bando6969]

Golden advice. Every man needs to learn these lessons

[@JostenJ]

This is true

[@jaymoney8512]

You've got the same versace shades as me! 💯👍🏾🇬🇧💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

HIM RECOGNIZE HIM 💯

[@jaymoney8512]

@@JostenJ no doubt 💯👍🏾💪🏾🇬🇧

[@erickcapella7913]

Bro thank you this video came out at the right time for me

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother

[@erickcapella7913]

Appreciated

[@Maroboyy_2Ss]

LETS COOK BOYZ

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG 🔥

[@Steven-L]

That's how I've felt..I've never had a problem getting women. But once I get into a commited relationship it doesn't work out. I've been with a lot of good looking girls. This last one she chased me for the most part. After 16 months she left me for someone else. Then 2 months later she came back. Within that time I upgraded myself in every area. I took her back and shouldn't, I just missed how things once were. Then a few months into it she pulled away & here I am with oneitis. I truly deserve a better woman. I think I'm more upset that she doesn't see my value & here I am dealing with. All her friends like me & I actually want to text them but know it'll get back to her..lol I'm not sure what to do now, it's all a mess

[@JostenJ]

“I upgraded myself in every area” that’s a lie because you didn’t upgrade your mentality and thoughts you want a woman to want you so bad wtf bro 16 months was a good run man things come to an end! Do you get upset and start crying when milk goes bad? No because you know it has an expiration date.

[@99AND9TH]

Why did you take her back after she fucked somebody else ? I had to leave my girl Alone cause she was following dudes on ig and lying about it , had to cut the bitch off cause I knew where that was headed , I miss her very much like you did w/ ya ex but we gotta move on , it’s better out there , at least you know now not to go back to her or anyone after her , life and you learn fr

[@Bunmi__]

* Tuned in for my daily episode of handsome men’s game 🔒

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@dannhymarcos8903]

Talk your shit Josten💯

[@JostenJ]

I gotta keep it real

[@treyskiifoe]

Needed this Josten I appreciate you man forreal still going no content fuck shordy😎

[@extrabaron]

Good vid bro 💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother 💪🏾

[@speedybats9558]

Man you are awsome and so real thanks for this.

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@ankurghata3753]

Thanks man, gave me a new perspective ❤

[@Howardkinga]

Masterpiece lesson 💯

[@JostenJ]

Thank you 💪🏾

[@KingDavidTBE]

Yeah I'm impressed Subscribed!

[@Perceptionofduality]

This video was dope helped me a lot

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@AnthonyMassarelli]

Your videos help me become strong,thank you!

[@JostenJ]

That’s what these videos are for 💪🏾

[@PiperMackie]

Started talking to a woman that seems interested. Now I’m only getting one word answers in return. So I decided she isn’t that into me so I’m going no contact and moving forward.

[@Stop_please_]

How is your situation now ?

[@nickfittipaldi5741]

Powerful video !!!!

[@houssem711]

If you really value yourself and have abundance mentality...then no cantact will come naturally to you and not faking it...and worriying if it works or not cuz you just dont care.

[@carlosgarcia-ut6sy]

First time I saw your video and brother you are on point 👉☝️

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother

[@flykeymikey4106]

Yo just wondering, what is this song that you use in all your videos man? It's so chill & makes me really focused on listening to you speak.

[@Pnutbttr]

I’m watching this as a girl and honestly it hurts but I cannot let him come back, not after how much progress I’ve made.

[@Lil_yungy444]

Really needed to hear this thanks a lot bro ❤️💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for. Thanks for dropping a comment 💪🏾

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

Contact works wonders. I use to stalk mens page after I ended it. I finally stop doing that last year. I also learned not to give any more chnaces after the men decide to come back.

[@triniwarrior16]

Omfg I got played 😢 You spoke the answer to my questions 😢 Bro you helped me found the bottom of my sorrow.

[@francoismutombo9467]

Thank you bro for the teaching to man me up

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for G

[@joshuadevsimmz6396]

Man for did cook 🙌🏾👏🏾 truly bon appetit. Thanks brother

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@triniwarrior16]

Your frame of mind is so beautiful 💪 I have a lot to learn for dumm games 🤦‍♂️

[@lightmolasses]

Shiiiit speaking of Chucky they should make a movie where he finally transfers his soul back into a human body then it becomes a whole different serial killer movie

[@FinancewithEJ]

When I didn’t contact this girl I’m talking too for a day she said my vibe is different and she was like you can keep talking to me or we can just be friends and she told me she was overthinking and worrying 😭 I was telling her I’m interested in her but she keeps saying she’s worried

[@StoicSigma1775]

She beta testing you bro cut her ass off immediately refocus on your self

[@JostenJ]

More proof! No contact exposes how they really feel about you 💯

[@chiefs4xsbchamps161]

@@JostenJ Facts.. It works so well.

[@taras3702]

I go no contact and every time I do that I'm better off for it.

[@adolforangel1236]

Thanks unc 🙏🏽

[@chefstof]

Goat❗️

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG!!!

[@cqnnqn]

Goat 💯

[@francoismutombo9467]

I chased a girl from my church & dated her twice & she keeps Hibbing me the same answer also I was the one checking upon her. Never do it to me. I decided to walk away & stop texting her. I move on

[@JostenJ]

Yea just go NO CONTACT no more games can be played no more wasted energy 🧠💡

[@ThisisSuave]

Another day another lesson

[@JostenJ]

Facts! 🧠💡

[@freddymendez3655]

Awesome!

[@rastafit23]

💪🏾💯 FOCUS on you do you hit the gym , find a hobby chase your passion .

[@JostenJ]

Bingo! 🎯

[@TyeDye622]

I actually have female friends that I have no interest in, but only one of them is my actual friend. She check up on me and actually cares about me even though she has kids and is in a relationship she's still here. The others got married, had kids and disappeared lol but it's all good.

[@JostenJ]

Ok

[@432HzPhoTreeTu]

Bro I wanna film a interview w you for some advice. Keep it up bro, new watcher but I'm peeping all the game you putting out.

[@kennethyoung4892]

Great content

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother

[@Tony_Anthemz]

Good video champ...

[@JostenJ]

Thanks

[@preemopoblete719]

Thank you!

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for 💪🏾

[@Sjbjo]

Preach!!!

[@JostenJ]

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[@mikejohnston7111]

🐐

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@MrChristocentric]

When he started preach that fire @9:47 it was over bitches

[@JostenJ]

🗣️🔥

[@atkabi]

my ex still keeps making fake accounts just to insult me 😭

[@JostenJ]

🤣

[@PO-qr2zj]

"I'm a person who's taken so many rejections, so many L's, never let it stop me from getting to where I gotta go" Good to know I'm not alone brother. It's a mindset thing.

[@JostenJ]

Champion mindset

[@apap3029]

10:15 to 10:58 factssss

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@OliCrown]

Good video

[@bigplb2133]

🔥🔥

[@JostenJ]

💪🏾

[@milosmilenkovic4610]

I need a tip. I just had my first date and let her talk most of the time. Amazing results for not saying much. Do I now initiate the second one or do wait for her to contact me?

[@JostenJ]

If you want to take her on a second date then take her on a second date.

[@unknownlegend1207]

Bros. Move forward, Never look back. There's no point in it. Time moves forward. It never looks back, so why should you

[@JostenJ]

Facts!

[@franciskoomson7312]

Thanks bro

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother