The Price We Pay For Our Defences (Defences Series Part 5 of 5)

[@friarpesel5646]

This is highly accurate. Well says 🙏

[@TinbirdCreative]

I discovered your content today and all these videos are so insightful. Thank you. Thank you ❤

[@childrenofnarcissists]

Hi Tinbird, Thank you, I'm glad these videos are helpful. Take care.

[@drameera]

" to be loved I have to fail" I didn't get that part Could you please elaborate?

[@childrenofnarcissists]

"To be loved I have to fail" means that some people will feel (consciously or subconsciously) that success will bring punishment, anger, rejection and jealousy (as narcissistic parents are very jealous) so they will underachieve in an attempt to get love and acceptance. This can be underachieving in terms of academics, physical appearance, work or in any other area of life.