❤ excellent. Thanks

This was some great info

People pleasing .

They starve their children of love affection and attention and because the children have been taught to suppress their emotions they eat because they're in pain. That's why you see alot of obese children weighing more than their normal weight because of their primary care giver neglectful towards them. Adult who have eating disorder or stoma bags steams from neglect and criticism from primary care giver who criticed their looks or weight. Thats also why you see alot of adults who are very skinny or over weight due to neglect from childhood. My neighbour has 3 children and her middle child is over weight at just age 9 and she criticised her daughters looks and got her round glasses to make her look ugly because she envies her daughter. As an empath I felt sorry for the child because she has a disgusting mother who enjoys seeing her children in pain to feel alive. Other children in school pick on her daughter and kid comes home crying and mother doesn't care. She intentionally want her daughter to feel ugly about themselves. She has 2 daughters and a son and she's always criticising her daughters. Even heard her call them the B word because of a mistake. This people dont deserve children. Karma doesn't sleep

Excellent video. Overwhelmingly true, all of it.

Perpetrators include bad actors forever a loan in temporal debt.

All I want is to feel calm instead of overwhelmed and helpless 78 yrs old and Alton I’m getting worse than ever, I just don’t want to be here anymore

I have complex p t s d at 78 yrs

Thank you for validation. NM had every disease in the book but drs could never find the reason. Convinced me I was mentally ill and had several other physical aliments then started in on my son among other nightmares. Was perfectly dressed and well spoken. I’m still trying to get my head wrapped around this.Most people tell me how lucky I am to have had her for a mother 😢

That was very useful, thank you!

Thank you!

I really don’t like the way these definitions are worded by the medical system. In this world you should be paranoid because a lot of bad shit is going on. And I’m not overly paranoid but The wording makes you think somethings wrong with you instead of what’s really going on in the world. Then a person lets their guard down and Bam.

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Is it just narcissistic or is it possible people have a mild version of this? I'm thinking my siblings have this with me

Thank you so much for this…. This is exactly what I experienced

you have a solid grasp on your work with this....and I'd like to commend you for your empathic manner in narrative. Its actually very helpful to connect with in that you are seeing the issues with EYES WIDE OPEN.....because of the insidious nature of these disorders and their affects on the family at large. Thankyou so much for your videos!! ❤❤❤❤

Thank you. As a scapegoat, there was some agression. My mother set my sister up against me, bullying together. Feed of my emotions, used it to smear me. Story of my life. They told family there was something wrong with us, looked for help. Thank god theu could not see a problem. Otherwise we would have get medications. Want to say.. really happy to feel alive again. What people like you are sharing. It really helps people. Just need to know what it is, who they are. If you feel the truth, you are free. Keep on fighting people, never give up❤ Don't let them win.

I dislike my experience on planet earth. I have been destroyed

Thank you. That’s my plight.

I have difficulty to see my family members as narcissists... It makes me feel shame for even considering it, I love them! If I will see them this way... How will I love them?

It used to be a secret. A secret to myself. The mind was clever, I lived in denial, until I couldn’t. (Mum left when I was 7, burned into my nervous system) my dad was rotten and he’s all I had. Brother was taken out the family. He was 12. I was8. Then my 2 sisters died. I got away. I’m wrecked. Disorganized attachment. I have the insight, and my nervous system is destroyed. Self compassion. Old feelings are painful. Don’t give up.

The processed food now has been engineered to be very addictive which has caused a lot of eating disorders

Keeps children connected to their parents which is what they are hardwired to do

So the golden child is the narc, or the scapegoat?

this misses out school experiences and abuse from older siblings

I was 9 when I attempted to take my life. At 55, I remember like it was yesterday. My mom, whom I suspect has NPD more on the convert side. She parentified me and then punished me when I was assertive. She triangulated me with my sibling and wrecked our relationship. My mother called me mean, moody, and constantly criticized me. Still to this day she can't have one conversation without taking jabs. She saw obedience and compliance as love. She even thinks trauma bonding is love. At no point could a child ever be right about anything. We weren't allowed to have emotions, privacy, or to even to take a break. In no way did a child need rest unless it was sleeping at night. The impacts last a lifetime. I wonder who I would be, the person I could have been if it were not for all the hurt.

"The fifth column" is also a phrase used by politicians and leaders, it originated from the spanish civil war and means "The enemy within", it was being used by USA during the "red scare" against people that the state thought they were communists, it was used by authoritarian regimes to describe people revolting against the authoritarian regime. In general it means the people that are inside a certain group and trying to undermine that group in favor of an actual or perceived enemy. Using that metaphor, this kind of guilt is the kind of guilt that undermines your identity and your personality in the favor of an abusive caregiver or an abusive relationship

thank you! very helpful, I'm diving deeper :)

Excellent info, thank you.

I've been in therapy for 7 months now. Learned I've had CPTSD and ADHD my whole life and I'm in my 40's now - just thought I was broken the whole time. This is def one of the best informational vids covering disorganized attachment that I've seen. It's really difficult to get solid insights on this topic and I resonated with your description so well. Thank you.

Didgerigora (Dharug: Thank you) for this pertinent video and for your website.🙏🏼 1. I’ve been saying for years that believing one was born with ‘the devil 😈 inside’-afflicted with a medical condition called ‘original sin’ = Munchausen. And treating children or others as though they were born with ‘original sin’ = MSBP. And yet ‘Obscene Exposure’-style laws which conflate embodied existence (presence-unhidden-visible-undisguised (‘naked’)) with sexual forwardness-aggression-exhibitionism without consent, and so criminalise simply appearing in life-looking like yourself-looking human, seem pretty prevalent-perhaps more common than not. 2. (WARNING ⚠️ sexual violence content) I think scapegoating also includes engulfing spoiling-indulging-favouring…, love-bombing and pseudo-spouse, unilateral & monodirectional emotional incest.🤯❤️‍🩹👣

This was a fantastic overview. Thank you

Guilt for basically existing. Doing anything for myself, enjoying anything, expecting anything. Only self sabotaging feel natural.

This could be describing a mother I know at my own child's school. I have raised concerns with school

This is absolutely amazingly articulated. 👏 thank you

Thank you so much for this content, when I see that channels like this exist I feel like somebody cares about us, makes me want to cry, thank you so much!!!!!😭😭😭💗💗💗💗

This is how people become schizophrenic, it takes a ridiculously narcissistic home

Suicide is induced by menticidal covert psychological murderers. I know many people who have committed suicide and I know exactly who and how they were pushed over the edge

True intergenerational witchcraft that has largely flown under the radar, for far too long.

Excellent information. Thank you so much!

Thank you!

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❤Thank you ❤

I know why, it’s because people ascribe pedestals to themselves, judging you, changing reality, making assumptions, false beliefs, polarized thought.” 🤢👍💯absolutely annoying.

This is a most comprehensive and well detailed compilation of the single most important aspects of narcissism and it’s deadly effects that I have found. Thank you for sharing your insights.

The fucking bastards. I don't care how abused they were. I was abused and I did not disrespect or dehumanize children.

Thank you so much for sharing this.

I always thought this was normal but it’s not, now I see shady figures and tall men.

When you are starving emotionally you eat.

I find it curious when people who are likely Narcissists mistreat you and you react to it, then they come out in a fury and say something like "You must respect me!" Dealing with them on any occasion will make your head twist like a pretzel. They're ingenious at triggering a bad behavior in you and then setting you up to look bad. The people around them fall for it as well which may say something about the general lack of human intelligence or awareness, but that's a discussion for another day!