The Psychology of Ariana Grande: A DEEP DIVE

[@holbrooke7]

I get the feeling because she grew up wealthy, not very many people told her "no" while growing up.

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Yesss!! Once I found out she grew up wealthy I was like this factors in things as well because some celebs who grew up with nothing have a bit of a more humbling mindset even if they change into something worse.

[@mmgs1148]

Seems like it still is like that

[@be.A.b]

Nahh definitely daddy issues. She keeps trying to rewrite her dad’s emotional abandonment, by chasing taken men to “pick her” instead.

[@angelicawhetu]

@@ScandalousMediaTeagirl no they don’t. listen to any rap song

[@ravleen_s]

I totally agree, its her lack of exposure to real world consequences i guess

[@marby]

I can't wait for the day when Ariana leaves Ethan for another man 😂

[@clairei5171]

Another married man *

[@jinhub2175]

😂😂😂 ikr

[@ladyclairee2424]

Not only that but if Ethan isn’t that heartless of a man he needs to spend time with his developing child. Ari isn’t going to like that very much since she seems super territorial, and sadly if she’s not given the time & attention she demands from Ethan then she’ll more than likely leave him just the same 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@maverickbull1909]

I will have my popcorn ready. It's definitely coming. Just wait for Wicked to wrap. Once they aren't around each other constantly it's over because Ari is never going to be a step-mom.

[@ruthhouston9860]

@@clairei5171 Ya'll know Ariana was married too right? Is Ethan also a homewrecker? lol

[@fikasays]

I don't know if it's just me but the way she's so soft-spoken and classy all of a sudden, combined with the innocent youthful act is really creepy considering the recent scandal. Very manipulative.

[@lessismore8533]

She must rehearse her interviews

[@zuluzero4659]

I noticed that too even at the Oscar's yesterday

[@Poetic_Justice1962]

Projection, hater.

[@celimardejesus7857]

Makes sense. I was shocked to read she's 30. I thought she was mid 20s at most. What's with the little girl thing she has going on. Weird

[@Poetic_Justice1962]

@@celimardejesus7857 Weird? Then don't look in the mirror!

[@kuro.hitsuji]

She's like a teenager who never really grew up

[@Astonelle]

Exactly

[@gingermcmahon3479]

arrested development for sure

[@gulletteryn]

Well actually she’s talking about most of her young years haha. 2014 Ariana was like 20?

[@wenmar19]

Nickelodeon stars were manipulated as kids by monsters. That causes some people to remain in a state of youth trying to relive childhood in a normal way since their childhood was stolen.

[@marisolD4]

not even a teenager, they're better behaved, but it could be like a child

[@justanothernicole]

Even if she didn’t wreck the marriage herself, she did Lily so much wrong. Right after birth, when the pregnancy body doesn’t go away as quickly, when everything hurts physically because you just have given birth to a little human, when you’re not feeling the most confident and your time becomes all your baby’s, that’s when women need attention and nurturing the most. I wouldn’t be with a man that leaves the mother of his child alone in one of the hardest stages in her life as it is motherhood. And the fact that she had to deal with all that publicly, it also affects the child as the mother taking care of him is not well, it is demonstrated that it has an effect on milk production. So, so disappointing that the other woman couldn’t understand that

[@DeeLite220]

I don’t think Ariana thinks of anyone but herself. That wouldn’t even occur to her.

[@JENNIFAFAA]

THIS. Nobody can prove if someone cheated and no one really cares but this is undeniable!! This poor woman was postpartum and it’s just so wrong to get with a father of a child during the most important moments of this child’s and hers life

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Exactly!!! Wrecked marriage and dealing with postpartum and the media scrutiny all in the same timeframe

[@be.A.b]

Ikr! Like, slater could have at least waited a year if it was truly “love.” Not a good look for either of them. She has dramatically limited her dating pool, because ethical men all know she’s a serial cheater. It’s only other cheaters from here on out

[@DeeLite220]

@@be.A.b AND she herself is a cheater. Like no one should be taking her seriously. She’ll be two-timing SpongeBob soon enough if she isn’t already

[@putriazalia9248]

Her inability to stay single for a month tells me everything i need to know about her.

[@alpensoo6115]

oh wow we're slut shaming now

[@Ejejesksjs]

Lol

[@clairecunningham1271]

wdym

[@tzuyu9283]

what does it tell you? Don’t be so vague, share with the class, that's the point of the comment section

[@deniseluxoo]

girl u do not know her tf😭

[@J43862]

“She’s going through a lot” YES AND? that’s gna be my response whenever she plays victim

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂

[@HellYes000]

Honestly HILARIOUS, so accurate

[@lessismore8533]

EXACTLY. Taste of her own medicine

[@catkin-z8g]

Ariana made a new album called Eternal Sunshine.

[@randalorian5]

There’s a whole arianagrandesnark page on Reddit because of this lol

[@dreamchaser7603]

Not to mention how her fans have been bullying Victoria Justice for a decade, based on completely made up rumors, and Ariana never spoke up against it but was quietly enjoying the character assassination of her costar for over 10 years!! Heartless egomaniac…

[@duckyjournals]

Totally agree!, why would she just speak about it now?, not not 10 years earlier.

[@myth1c4lz]

What?? I like Ariana and Victoria too... Victoria is literally one of Ari's best friends.. why wouldn't I like her...

[@savanahh2848]

ARIANA IS NOT A GIRL'S GIRL! never has, likely never will since she keeps getting away w it.

[@zah936]

​@@myth1c4lz who is talking about you? Get help

[@myth1c4lz]

@@zah936 I'm just an example... Get help

[@ninispace6661]

wtf is so creepy how she changes her face and voice for every era now her speaking voice sounds like gypsy rose

[@grandetristesse3370]

Cry about it

[@grandetristesse3370]

And shes still doing better then you'll ever manifest to be in life

[@grandetristesse3370]

Her face card never declined dont be insecure + her voice changes shes singer duh, her speaking voice always was light. Next

[@Alo-Alois]

@@grandetristesse3370 Bro is so troubled he replied 3 times 💀

[@gulletteryn]

She literally hasn’t changed her face at all???? Are you guys that ridiculous with understanding how make up works? 😂

[@wellthisisinteresting4912]

she appears to be a deeply insecure person whose self worth relies on external validation. it gives her a rush to know she can take a taken man. and she has no actual personality? like, everything about her changes depending on what is popular at the time. she is ALWAYS acting. a person you would hate to have around in your own life.

[@mer-ced-es]

I see exactly what you mean. The constant acting, so unnatural. Somebody said she seems to be autistic. I can see that actually - autism on top of narcissistic personality disorder...

[@AnitaSmith-gc6ce]

Men are not objects that can be stolen or taken. Men go where they please.

[@grandetristesse3370]

Yet shes still one of the most successful and best selling artists of all time yall are such fans

[@trin999]

Its a thing for extremely insecure and histrionic narcissistic people to "take" other peoples man because it makes her feel exhilarated to be picked over another woman. Its confirmation to her thats shes better than the girl. Its pathetic, i would feel bad for her, but repeatedly causing people trauma because of cheating and home wrecking, just to make herself happy for a few months.... Is just inexcusable. No wonder the only person she married was a realtor who wasnt famous at all. She enjoyed feeling the power inbalance knowing that shes rich and famous and beautiful and hes an ordinary person so OF COURSE he will pick her. Sad sad, miserable life,....

[@CarolBrownlovethelovesongs]

@@grandetristesse3370 this is not about numbers, this is about her as a person. And i'm telling you this as someone who enjoys Ariana's music, but also can see that she's in the wrong in this situations. Why keep hiding the truth? it's so ilogical.

[@JayeKisses]

From growing up with money to daddy issues to serial cheater & possible ED Ariana needs serious help. She says she goes to therapy but clearly it’s not helping when she’s doing the same things over & over again. She very insecure & has co dependency issues.

[@laylascott6096]

She literally talks about her co-dependency and therapy in her album. She’s aware and is working on herself .

[@Taphiez]

@@laylascott6096I find it odd and manic that she’s “working on it” yet this is the most absurd and crazy she’s been all in 1 setting. Home wrecking, actually clapping back, mocking it, Ed ontop of it.. she may be aware now, she may know what needs to be done, she clearly ISNT doing that though. She can say she is, but she isn’t, which is even more dangerous than just ignoring it like in the past. She’s setting up an idea and future faking and it’s gonna crash even harder than what she’s got going on rn… which is horrifying.

[@WW-vm7uh]

Surrounded by yes men

[@lessismore8533]

@@Taphiezit’s JUST like the girl said in this video. If Ariana is mentioning specific things in her new album it could just be to get ppl to shut up and move on,kinda like the Botox/filler comments. But who knows

[@JayeKisses]

@@Taphiez omg I’ve been saying that. Just because she says she goes to therapy doesn’t mean anything if she’s not getting better. Like she can say that she goes to therapy but in reality doesn’t really go to therapy. Or goes to therapy but is just saying “Uh huh. Yep. You’re right” just to get it over with. Or goes just to cry & rant but doesn’t take any of the advice the therapist is giving her. It’s sad but this stuff really happens all the time.

[@Stargirlinterlude22]

In Cassie’s book she said that she would cry whenever she’d hear an Ariana song playing in a store or on the radio. So sad. That’s Pete Davidson ex.

[@lessismore8533]

Ari really doesn’t care about the ppl she hurt huh

[@idgafbutok]

​​@@lessismore8533"You can go ahead and call me selfish (Selfish) But after all this damage I can't help it (Help it)" she pretty much justifies all of it in the song needy even though she's been doing it waaay longer than the "damage" she refers to

[@mmgs1148]

Macs ex (naomi leasure) also made some essays on the internet where she remembers the whole situation, i sympathize w women who got dumped by a guy because he became famous

[@user-gk4bl9nz8f]

girl who cares imc rying

[@la6136]

Poor girl. I hope she realizes now that Pete Davidson is a complete loser and not worth crying over. Ariana has the worst taste in men.

[@jasmeetsandhu229]

So many people defend her actions by saying she's suffering trauma from Manchester and mac's death that's why she's behaving the way she is but she's been called out for cheating since 2013 by her exes also if she is suffering from trauma why can't she a millionaire go to therapy and fix herself. It seems like everyone wants to baby her as if she isn't in her 30s and using childern who passed away at a concert and a man who tragically also passed young to justify her past decade of bad behavior just leaves a bad taste in my mouth

[@mrdad-zl9zl]

I'm guessing these people are her ride or die fans/stans? She has a lot of them and they will pull anything out of their butts to justify anything she does. The point is I don't think these insane takes are coming from the general population of observers and that's important to keep in mind. That's why stars cultivate these kind of fans, they are easy to manipulate and mobilize

[@lessismore8533]

@@mrdad-zl9zlexactly Ariana KNOWS she has certain fans who will blindly follow her no matter what

[@alpensoo6115]

Arianator here. She hasn't said ANYTHING. She KNOWS what she is doing is wrong and disgusting, hopefully, she'll come around and apologize. But damn there's just A LOT of hate coming Ariana's way, people are just forgetting about Lilly?! Instead of obsessing over Ari not being a "girls girl" ya'll should be sending love to Lilly and CANCELLING Ethan Slater. This situation has certainly affected my view of her, but not enough for me to stop listening to her music. Straight up she has the best pop sound in the industry right now.

[@babygirrrl5147]

@@alpensoo6115there’s enough room to hate on Ari and send love to Lily. Ariana is a POS

[@zah936]

From Manchester? Lmfao

[@alixthompson2836]

She acts so heartbroken about the death of Mac Miller, but conveniently forgets that she cheated on him. She’s a homewrecker

[@Seraphina93]

He died lol They may have gotten back together You don’t know what Mac did on drugs also?! And dafuq he DIED what is wrong w u

[@alixthompson2836]

@@Seraphina93 my point is she only started acting like she cared AFTER he died. She certainly didn’t care when she was using Pete Davidson to deliberately make Mac jealous… Instead of asking what’s wrong with me, maybe you should be asking “what’s wrong with Ari?”

[@gweters]

@@alixthompson2836 ydk her? do you even know how hard it is to be with a drug addict? she loved him and tried to help him but it was too hard. dont compromise your own health to prioritize someone elses.

[@gweters]

@@imbhagyah no

[@idjshsid4797]

@@gwetersdon’t cheat it’s easy just leave 💀

[@melovetolaugh6417]

I need people to start referring her timeline as: African-American era Korean era And British era It’s easier to tell based on her look and reminds people how she got away so easily for doing these as if she’s just playing cosplay

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂😂😂 omg

[@alexdavis360]

😂😂😂

[@dawn3589]

korean era when??

[@claudiokabanata3325]

😂😂😂

[@Ricky-kg8jo]

@@dawn3589 positions era

[@kate2create738]

I think Jennette was onto something describing Ariana's lack of humility and how she was always handed everything in life has likely been the strongest contributing factor that she'd turn into a social cheater. The lack of concern of others is not going to make her reconsider how her flings are breaking up marriages and families. Reminds me a little of what happened to LeAnn Rimes except LeAnn wasn't a social cheater, and tried to get support with her new husband after both dumped their spouses to cheat on them.

[@mkelly534]

I wonder how Ariana will handle getting older and less "desirable" She will not be able to get men to cheat on their wives and GFs any longer and the public will no longer look past her suspect behavior. I think it will be a very rude awakening. I cannot help but like her but she does have some serious personal work to do or she will be facing disaster

[@catcat9582]

What was wrong w divorcing someone for another?

[@lunarblake]

@@catcat9582they had a whole affair before getting divorced is the point. they were actually caught on camera in a restaurant

[@alansmithee5595]

@@catcat9582Because that literally defeats the purpose of marriage. Why you are married there is no one else. Ever. For the rest of your life. If you can’t handle that then just don’t get married.

[@Joejoyoyoyo]

@@mkelly534 or she will handle her grandma dying or especially her mother… They’re her closest friends and supporters, I know it’s gonna be tough for her

[@lmm8960]

She’s regressing imo. Like what’s with the baby voice? Where’s the husk to her voice? This spiral started at a minimum 10 years ago.

[@Poetic_Justice1962]

You're regressing, as are all her haters.

[@judigemini178]

She definitely has a fake voice she uses

[@Poetic_Justice1962]

@@judigemini178 Her haters are all fake and project their own fakeness.

[@gingermcmahon3479]

@@Poetic_Justice1962here i’ll give you a good one to refute. what happens when you continue to love someone who will never notice or acknowledge your existence despite defending them with your every breath? what happens when none of what you’ve done to defend this behavior will ever mean anything in your life? what happens when you grow up and remember how hard to defending a narcissistic individual who will never never never care about you? i understand that people on the other extreme side of this person’s public opinion can be monsters. i’d recommend you reflect on stan or anti-stan culture a bit more to understand why you feel so offended on behalf of someone who doesn’t know your name and would not care if you drained your bank account in the name of supporting them. please stand up

[@Poetic_Justice1962]

@@gingermcmahon3479 Your attempt at character assassination of Ariana, and then myself, has failed. You project your own narcissism, as do all her haters, and so you fail at grasping the psychology, and psychopathy, of it all. I would advise you to reflect on that, but you will fail at that as well.

[@micahmarielceballos6213]

Ariana talking about tabloids "...doing this to women..." shows that she does not want the accountability of cheating. It's all about what the media does and the public misinderstanding their truth and NEVER about what they did. 😂

[@lessismore8533]

She’s like my younger sibling. ALWAYS gaslighting when getting exposed for behavior. Everyone else is always the problem 😒

[@micahmarielceballos6213]

@@lessismore8533 That is some serious narcissistic behavior.

[@Pinkalicious112]

💯

[@TheGamer2001]

I bet she has learned that shick from that minaj itch. Both are friendos and both love using "I am an abused (black) woman" card while abusing other women.

[@agustdrip1960]

She sound like narcissistic

[@rightofcenter2967]

Is it just me or did her voice completely change? I remember when hearing her talk with a weird wanna-be ethnic accent & now she completely pronounces all her vows. Am I crazy?!?

[@leena75]

it did, people claim its for the role, but in 22:00 in zach sang interview she has a minute of speaking in her deeper voice and gradually hopping back to this one, funny because she claimed the sweet voice was fake when she was talking in a deep one and now suddently its the other way around again

[@grandetristesse3370]

Yall are the biggest fans 😂

[@grandetristesse3370]

It takes intelligence and intellect to be smart. EVERY RACE have ethnicities. A german, italian russian french speaking English in thier accent is counted as "ethnic" accent

[@grandetristesse3370]

​@@leena75putting up timestamps, knowing every word she said, watching 2 hour interview. Fan behavior

[@Some_guy_passing_by]

​@@grandetristesse3370 nah you're the biggest fan . People have eyes and ears and some people have brains to process:(

[@michellecgb]

Her forehead never wrinkles and I’m supposed to believe she stopped Botox for good? Okayyy

[@Faith.M22]

She has literally altered her whole face and we are supposed to believe that she only got some Botox and lip fillers, yeah no.😂 Her toxic fans may believe that

[@mer-ced-es]

One eyebrow is so much higher than the other 🙈

[@tekgid433]

Why do you care? Lol 🙄

[@naritruwireve1381]

@@Faith.M22 legit there are still fans who believe she has never touched her face lol because "she said filler in the PAST. It doesn't count"

[@ipuke_glitter]

She's only 30 😂. I know she's had tons of work done but most 30 year olds dont get wrinkles yet unless they are in the sun a lot and don't protect it or have lived a hard life.

[@AllYellowJoshua]

Rose from Titanic : A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets... Scandalous Media : Let's take a deep dive...

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Haha I like that!

[@sravyayadavalli3136]

Lmaooo 😂

[@Bozeki]

Haha y’all are so obessed with Ariana it was proven she didn’t break up any marriages by Ethans ex-wife and it was also proven Dalton cheated on Ariana he never wanted to meet her while she was filming wicked even if she paid instead he was making out with some girl in a bar and this was months before she even met Ethan. But y’all are so quick to judge people and never get ur facts right and this proves y’all were never true fans to begin with because you believe what anyone says and actually doesn’t get ur facts right just proves how boring of a life you have and how insecure you are like Ariana isn’t the problem the media is because u act like y’all are perfect 🤦‍♂️

[@emilyann4504]

God my parents would disown me if i ever break up a marriage, especially with a kid involved. She literally has no shame.. or heart apparently

[@lessismore8533]

And her family dont care apparently

[@Ejejesksjs]

@@lessismore8533apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

[@bizzarebanana3041]

God some of you are slow. Its really not hard to figure out their marriage was FAR gone by the time ariana got involved

[@alinetty.doratie]

​@@bizzarebanana3041 even IF it's true, it's not the only time she did it. Ariana ALWAYS starts dating taken men. isn't it even suspicious to you?

[@mkelly534]

Ariana reminds me of those old-school Hollywood Divas who were always in a scandal or marriage/divorce. I mean Judy Garland, Elizabeth Taylor, Marilyn Monroe, etc.., She has some of the talent they had but all of the attitude. When the next distraction comes along Ethan will be dumped and nobody will feel sorry for him. I will be laughing myself.

[@DanieB322]

I do agree on everything except on “ some of the talent. She is extremely talented as a multitasking artist. She has the same amount of talent of them. And the bad attitude as well

[@tminus21]

she did say she always looked up to them, to the "classic actresses" maybe she looked up to them too much

[@alyx1854]

“next distraction”??? Ariana was not only going thru a painful divorce & getting cheated on but also had to go thru everyone calling her a home wrecker. i don’t think ethan was a distraction AT ALL.

[@analog_wav]

@@alyx1854but she does change her mind on them once her “honeymoon phase” is over. Didn’t she say that dalton was the best thing in her life and how he was oh so perfect? Now, he cheated on her and him watching tv while she was crying and how he’s absolutely horrible. She said the same things about ricky, pete and mac miller before he passed away and was her “one that got away”. They were all perfect at first and she's the happiest she's ever been, then somewhere along the line they're horrible and they can't get their shit together and it's not her responsibility if they can't get their shit together for goodness sake!!! I would like to give her the benefit of the doubt but her pattern of behavior makes it almost impossible at this point. - it sucks to have the whole world going against her but she brought this whole thing upon herself, maybe she's the one who can't get their shit together and it's not men's responsibility to fix her.

[@lessismore8533]

@@DanieB322many artists/singers multi task. Like Beyoncé. If it’s a “talent” it ain’t a special one yet can still be admired Despite the old Hollywood ppl they’re highly regarded a legends today esp Marylin I don’t see any of Ariana’s stuff being in a museum one day

[@Faith.M22]

I’ve always loved her music and looks, but damn. She’s messy.

[@LiamHiiiiiiii]

Messy? Ariana isnt like this video... Scandalous media should be ashamed..this video is just a hate mean girl attack on ariana and bullying her for no being perfect and stuff she did 10 years ago??

[@rakkurankaiyo]

Not this again, this happened a FEW MONTHS AGO?? What do you mean by 10 years, as an Arianator who adores her even I can see through this.

[@Gimlgsi]

@@LiamHiiiiiiiistop supporting the girl who just ruined a family. You were manipulated and gaslit by what she wants you to think.

[@rosecoloredtimes]

@@LiamHiiiiiiiidude. Calling her messy for what she’s done is kind.

[@elephant4053]

​@@rakkurankaiyo did you think the video was just talking about arianas cheating? Because it's not.

[@picklej5313]

I remember when she first started getting famous, everyone from her town, Boca Raton, FL, were saying how mean she was and they was super dramatic and a bully and then all of a sudden I didnt hear anything again until this scandal lol. guess it was true from day 1

[@Speakup117]

Same I'm from there

[@Kiran37369]

Her fans are crazy! Same with Selena

[@jessicarichter6436]

@@Kiran37369don’t bring Selena into Arianas drama.

[@dommiedarkoh8816]

Girl stfu Selena is worse. She took someone's kidney and literally treated them like a nobody and drank and got even more sick Girl BYEE ​@@jessicarichter6436

[@isabel2051]

@@jessicarichter6436if it applies why not

[@wtf8508]

She gets bored very easily and something new is more exciting than being in a long relationship also she falls in and out of love real quick she crushes really hard for someone gets bored and crushes for another guy

[@lessismore8533]

Whew. Reading this made my brain spin 😂

[@maverickbull1909]

Another thing... the lack of shame and the boldness she shows in this new album is astounding. She's literally like "na na nee boo boo" if you read between the lines. "the boy is mine!" "yes, and?" "we can't be friends (wait for your love)" I mean it's spelled out. She's gloating to the wife about winning the married man, "I can't wait to try him, the boy is MINE!" She's triumphantly happy over the man she's taken from another woman. In her eyes, SHE WON! And in response? "yes, and?" It's like, so what I took him get over it "why do you care so much about whose D I ride, loser?" It's hilarious honestly. She lays it all out on the table hidden beneath an angelic voice. She provokes, condescends to, and giggles at the audience in a bratty, mean-spirited way. It's like she's saying, "and you're still gonna love me in the end. I'll still be rich, famous, beautiful, and I have a man!" She basically says this in "we can't be friends" which is a song for and about the public. "Just wanna let this story die (get over it) and I'll be alright. Wait until you like me again!" And she's right... the songs are doing well, fans are riding for her, and it'll be forgotten soon. All the people judging Ethan will be cheering for him soon enough just like with Pete. It's inception levels of gaslighting, half-truths, lies, and blatant revelations all mixed into one. The girl is smart. She hides the true message under angelic ballads and seemingly relatable/ empowering lyrics (like tying the snarky mean girl "yes, and?" which is about cheating to a gay anthem with "boy put your lipstick on noone can tell you nothing!), but the reality is based all around one simple truth: She cheated on her husband with her married co-worker, dumped her husband, started dating a married father, he dumped his wife, and now they're living together in NYC to live out their happily ever after (don't you dare bring it up!). That summarizes the message and inspiration of the whole album... period

[@k_singsss_1556]

thiiisssssssssssss. society just wants accountability. she is acting proud of her wrongs. ewwww

[@TalareeStaunteec]

@@k_singsss_1556 no society is f-d Society never wants accountability Soicety is usually the common issue with cheating and the reason why bullying exists Society does so much harm it's no joke

[@Stephanieyogibean]

No forgiveness for either one of them. But he made the vow to his wife, he broke that covenant.

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

She was the one who broke it first. The entire point of this album is narrative control. She cheated first. And the she got ahead of the stories by publishing an album with a couple sad boo hoo songs that frames herself as the victim.

[@be.A.b]

You have to also consider that Ariana befriended her. That’s what makes it most traitorous. If my man is a cheater, take his messy ass. Y’all both deserve each other anyways. However, please don’t look me straight in the eye, hold my child, and pretend to be my friend. That’s an extra level of messiness that takes a long time to recover from. She got manipulated on both ends

[@alansmithee5595]

So did she. Why are people just forgetting that she was married? She also made vows. She also broke her covenant.

[@mistypedhi]

She is equally as guilty though. And more so considering her past pattern of doing this.

[@mistypedhi]

​@@helen2197I'm a Christian and it is definitely possible to have a long lasting faithful marriage and no religion. I do hope for more and more people to get saved and have relationship with God..but that statement just had to be corrected. I do agree though that marriage is and has always been a religious ceremony but obviously loads of people get married even as atheists..and many agnostics or atheists have long happy healthy marriages anyways.

[@Marxnchill]

She kinda looks like she came from the uncanny valley lately

[@grandetristesse3370]

Still looks better then u

[@grandetristesse3370]

+ having the most successful album released this year

[@grandetristesse3370]

It only takes a mirror in ur house

[@grandetristesse3370]

Yall are just fans 😂

[@grandetristesse3370]

Incels like u shouldn't mention looks

[@lunarblake]

i thoroughly enjoyed her new album with maybe the exception of one song but it’s crazy to me that now she’s coming out of this as the victim because of a certain lyric on one song insinuating she got cheated on by her ex husband and now the vultures are attacking this man even though ariana herself said some of the songs are part of a concept meaning not everything is literal but they’re running with it anyway and trying to kiss ethan’s ass over it even though this whole time they’ve been saying how awful he was and now all of a sudden he and ari are the good guys and it erases what they’ve done. at this point idk who’s smarter her, taylor or selena but i see right through these women despite enjoying their work. this is crazy

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Sooo true! You said it best. The album has been on repeat for me all day because I do love her music but I love how you can see how well she can play the media! And people are already falling for it

[@lunarblake]

@@ScandalousMediaTea i get this is a game, they need to be liked so that they can keep selling well and making music but there’s something icky about the disingenuous part of it all. that stan mentality of making excuses for any and everybody even when they’re clearly wrong is sick to me and as artists they feed right into it. ariana knows she has full control over the narrative so she can be shitty and get away with things, i have grace because she’s a human being but i think this entire situation is wrong

[@catkin-z8g]

I don't think Ariana condones rumours on the internet.

[@lunarblake]

@@catkin-z8g i’m sure no one does. unfortunately she’s not the victim here

[@catkin-z8g]

​@@lunarblakeWho is the victim?

[@outerspaceykc]

Let’s not forget how she flaunted her relationship with Pete immediately after her break up with Mac Miller who was struggling with drug addiction.

[@ElenaBersan-k4c]

Honestly? She feels as a "victim", but surely Ethan's ex wife felt horrible. Not only she hooked up with a married man with a baby who is 10 months?.. she was going to a double dates with her, back then husband, and Ethan and Lilly (his ex wife). She held their baby, went to their house, while sleeping with Ethan. This is gross. The term is not even aligned with the "betrayal". This situation is just sick. Furthermore, she has been the other women. Entering into relationships (ALL of them) with men being into relationship o married... What she replies is just "yes, and?", "the boy is mine". All the fans that are defending her, I would say, imagine if she did it to you? She is a narcissist, who speaks with Cat Valentine's voice, she is so freaking fake and it is scary that she doesn't even realise it. The only "deep" is between her legs open exclusively to engaged, married or in a relationship men.

[@saanasalonen8684]

lmfao yup. every word is true!

[@STAR-LIGHT.1111]

Yes 100% she plays out the narcissistic playbook. Sometimes i wonder why i don't like a certain face and dive into it and well.. that's why i hate narcissist! I know that they are evil just by one look.

[@sempereadem1543]

Babies are very sensitive to trauma happening around them and internalise it, not caring about the mother of that baby being crushed and about the father leaving as he was just born, which clearly impacts the baby is horrible in itself

[@leena75]

yeah, attachment style is mainly formed when you are an infant/young toddler

[@attackhelicopter6910]

It’s not Ariana’s fault that Ethan left lmao. He left not her. And if not Ariana then someone else place blame where it goes. The only one who could traumatize the child is its own father and His choices

[@sempereadem1543]

@@attackhelicopter6910 The same way it's wrong to use money or sell goods stolen from someone even though you didn't steal it yourself it is wrong to pursue immoral actions indirectly, it takes two to cheat and the person choosing to be in that situation is no less morally reprehensible or responsible. It's one thing to act this way it's an other to play the victim after.

[@brucewinters-cr4it]

​Stans are so delusional. Ariana was friends with his wife, came to their house, went on double dates together, held her baby. All while having an affair with him and they both manipulated that poor mother. Your fav is toxic. ​@@attackhelicopter6910

[@HammietheCheesie]

@@attackhelicopter6910idiot

[@drvren030]

That little "cute" act she always puts really gets on my nerves, because it didn't seem authentic like that's who she really is. It seemed fake as if she wants to constantly put herself on a pedestal and play the role of the "cute girl with the high notes, beautiful voice" that will get picked by a guy. "Pick me" vibes from the start if you ask me. And either way, it doesn't matter, whatever. But where it ACTUALLY goes downhill is when that guy turns out to be already committed to another woman, and you are trying to put up this act to get his attention AWAY from his partner and to you.

[@STAR-LIGHT.1111]

I have no doubt that she is a narcissist.

[@moniqueboucher8011]

Agree

[@redfox033]

As many artists and famous ppl r 😅

[@zee981]

and bpd

[@moomoh123]

No guys... Its histrionic. She checks all the marks for histrionic personality disorder. Im surprised noone mentioned it ever. Her odd 'bubbly teenage act' that infantilizes herself stems from her being loved and sexualized by men (gross I know) from her Cat role in nickelodeon era. She was adored by that role and it stayed with her even till her 30s. All of her intentions revolve around male attention and male gaze.

[@zee981]

@@moomoh123 makes so much sense

[@dietdrpepper15]

I think also she sees other women happy, and WRONGLY assumes it's because of the man she is with, so poaches them as quickly as she can.

[@centuryfiles9558]

Yes!

[@OnlyLilynn44]

Celebrities always say that “I was at the lowest point of my life when you thought I looked my best”… And it’s always when they seem to look worse, thinner and sickly looking than before.

[@Seraphina93]

Maybe people get to decide how they like themselves best? Just A thought on humans etc

[@ctrlaltjess]

Calling a tragedy that k*lled 22 people a moment to “humble” someone is disgusting.

[@rainbowerabymariah]

exactly ! she should be ashamed

[@moniqueboucher8011]

And she should have done more than just a benefit concert 😡

[@TalareeStaunteec]

she said that wow

[@TalareeStaunteec]

@@moniqueboucher8011 nah she don't ur not her manager

[@KCruz7]

She’s in her 30’s but acts like she’s still 16

[@user-kk4lt6kq8x]

Again, I think Ethan was a fool to leave his wife and child. Ariana seems to change men like most people change their undies. Ethan will probably beg his wife to take him back once Ariana finds a new love interest.

[@sadpotato420]

Can we stop holding celebs to pedestals?

[@1hcc994]

She sounds great in her new album but the lyrics are laughable she puts the blame entirely on dalton while asking him to sign papers where he can’t respond calling him a liar cheater ect. She completely avoids how she got between Ethan and his wife ya know the thing we were all turned off by? But she was right when she said it was for her fans because they’ll use dalton being crappy to her to explain away and victimize her. Side note: I find it odd/ funny how when she writes about the new guy in her life she always calls him perfect/ special.

[@alycebagnath464]

Your side note exactly 💯 I was laughing about this while listening to the album, and I am a big Ariana fan. I enjoy the production of the music but girl is messy

[@DanieB322]

@@alycebagnath464EXACLTY THANK YOU I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT EVERYWHERE THE WHOLE DAY AFTER LISTENING TO THE ALBUM AND I WAS SHOCKED NONODY COVERED IT OR TALKED ABOUT IT. WHEN DID HER CHEAT EXACLTY AFTER SHE DID ?? I don’t even know if it’s true cause, even tho I love her and her music, she is a notorious evermore victim who always flip the narrative for people to pity her. She is telling people that he sucked. But then after I listened to all of her old albums about her exes and a lot of the lyrics are super similar. Like she used them as excuses. For example : she said in multiple different songs “ when I cry in my bed at night and I know you hear me blablabla “ she always portrays herself as the ultimate victim. It’s quite chocking and hyper manipulative. And yes she always says about the new guy “ but with you it’s different” “ I’m not going anywhere this time “ “ you saved me “ etc

[@flowergirl-pl6mb]

@@DanieB322 I don't know this girl personally, but she DOES tick all of the boxes of not being someone to trust. The facade of an innocent aesthetic to help appeal her brand and messy slip ups like this one. Saying her husband "cheated", but then gives him hush money and never even explaining anything when she was first accused of being a bad person. She shows the signs of being a good manipulator. Possibly even on the narcissistic spectrum.

[@user-gk4bl9nz8f]

She never said he cheated actually lmfao. They were both seeing other people in the middle of their on and off relationship so its evident yall havent read a single real article@@flowergirl-pl6mb

[@la6136]

I have always thought Ariana wastes her vocal talent on making immature music. But that is just her mindset she can't help it when she writes music it just shows.

[@pinkrose372]

Lol rhianna laughed because ariana was tryna be sexy but she looked like child and she looked awkward.Ariana was never that great of a dancer but she has gotten better over the years.

[@ecemfendal2172]

Ariana got away with so much because she was a short petite innocent looking beautiful girl. She knew that as well. Also coming from a very rich mom who could provide her with a very good PR team they covered up everything she has done. But messing with a married man who had a child recently when she herself was married, became the last drop. All of the 10 year PR team work was damaged beyond fixeble. The fact that Ariana's parents got a divorce because her dad cheated on her mom saying this ruined her life was the reason why she went to therapy for the 1st time. Now she is doing what happend to her mom to other women what happened to her to other children. That's why I personally don't talk to girls who keep say I have daddy issues like Ariana because her dad didn't choose her now she has to be chosen over other women and that men's child. Why people are suprised to her behaviour Ariana was changing race through plastic surgery only insecure people do that. Specially divorced kids try to become famous so they can boost their ego with an attention they wanted to have from both parents being in the home. Ariana also changes men what she feels at the moment. Jay Brooks was boy band phase man, Mac was RnB Rap phase man, Pete was SNL phase man, Dalton was Covid phase man and Ethan is Wicked phase man. When she jumps a new phase she'll kick out Ethan as well. Thank you next mentallity. Angelina Jolie is like her as well. Her parents also got a divorce because of same reasons and she is always with taken men. Her 2nd husband Billy was engaged with Laura Dern cheated her with Angelina, Ethan Hawk was married with Uma Thurman has 2 kids with her. Cheated Uma with Angelina. Brad was married with Jennifer Aniston. Cheated her with Angelina. Angelina tried to gaslight the public by saying she didn't know Jen and Brad was married. Really? You think this will really work. Ariana saying those are "whispers" not truth is the same thing. What you say whispers are the things Lily saying you stole my husband my baby's father. As a veteran we grew up we don't buy it. Teens and kids who are on your side will see this as well. Whatever you and Angelina living are your karma. Also Frankie looking so much like Ethan is also something narsists will do. Dating men who look like your father brother. Angelina was also photograpged making out with her own brother. Ariana can't do that because Frankie is gay. So next best option for her to live incest narsist desires with a man who looks like her brother which is Ethan. Disgusting🤮.

[@lessismore8533]

I don’t know her mom but she’s a TERRIBLE parent if she used her money to help her daughter Ariana get away with bad things

[@juliagritzbach]

I had an ex best friend who used the excuses that she had “daddy issues” & cheated on her partners… that’s just disgraceful and not okay

[@leena75]

@@lessismore8533 most rich parents do that

[@svetlanaandrasova6086]

Im glad you brought up Brangelina. I never understood the craziness around their relationship. It was just an affair nothing else they cheated on their partners and people went crazy just cos 2 hot people got together.

[@beanii7339]

@bijpls4059thats not good parenting, and actually a lot of perents of killers have not stood w them😂💀

[@via-anghelmagahum2586]

Her daddy divorced her mom so she accommodated that loss by gaining “power” by stealing a man in a committed relationship

[@mystic5663]

the rumors were false...since when is the media a reliable source of news?

[@flam_buoy]

Wow, that makes “regain power by playing the villain” makes sense in many situations I know 😮

[@Seraphina93]

Everybody being a psychologist nowadays eww

[@Seraphina93]

@@flam_buoyomg y’all need help too

[@idjshsid4797]

@@Seraphina93it’s fucking true are u dense? It’s just plain facts

[@brazilianitboy]

I used to be a die hard fan of hers, but after Pete Davidson, it was hard to ignore all the things that were said about her in the past. after 2018 I tried to remain as a fan, but everything about her just seemed fake, forced and stolen from other people's personalities. that video of her and Victoria Monet talking got me feeling so weird like it seemed she was mimicking every single thing Victoria did. it was sooooo awkward. anyways. I was fan from Nickelodeon days till 2018, but I'm glad I left before it got worse. I hate cheaters. I really DO HATE CHEATERS.

[@la6136]

Victoria wrote so many of Ariana's biggest songs. Ariana would be nothing without Victoria Monet

[@ladyeowyn42]

Naya Rivera died saving her son. Shame on Ariana for causing her pain.

[@user-gk4bl9nz8f]

didnt cause her no pain lmfao they were friends

[@doggwater]

Not to defend that gross little woman but how was she supposed to know that Naya would die? You can’t say that man

[@alixthompson2836]

@@user-gk4bl9nz8fnot according to Naya’s book…

[@la6136]

And shame on Big Sean's dusty ass for doing that to Naya.

[@moniqueboucher8011]

She died from drowning google it

[@Beto-o1y]

Why fans don't like that people call Homewrecker to Ariana? She is a serial cheater. You know what fans need to do? They should convince Ariana of taking a break to fix her mind and soul to try to stop her of being a serial cheater.

[@GUCCI_FAN]

Do Not Disrespect Mother Goddess

[@missmusic4951]

@@GUCCI_FAN Mother Goddess disrespects herself

[@shinythings2017]

This is a very great example for skills and talent doesn't mean you can exploits character. Sure she is a great singer, but if your attitude and character sucks, people remember you that way.

[@lessismore8533]

EXACTLY, And thank the LORD that talent is NOT above character. Talent CAN be overrated if it’s put above everything else. Character comes first Plus Ariana’s rich family afforded her professional vocal training. It’s not like she was born singing. Anyone can do it with training and determination so I always thought Ariana got too much glory for it. There’s a Philippine vocalist who sings just as good if not better than Ariana and she seems to have good character. Name is Morsiette Amon. She’s got the range and everything

[@leena75]

we have brains broken by fairytales, like every morally good character in a fairytale is attractive and talented, like snow white can sing for example

[@user-zl1ry6wo2h]

Do you guys remember the video of her singing over The Weeknd and how annoyed he looked that she wouldn’t shut up 😂😂😂

[@lessismore8533]

😂😂😂😂

[@polisherci]

what do i need to search for to find this?

[@iamambitious2910]

dude lies it was her part to sing and the weeknd smiled and was astonished and they practise so it was planned you fool

[@user-zl1ry6wo2h]

@@polisherci acoustic version of love me harder at 2:59 Abel turns rolls his eyes and seems over it 😂

[@UserKKKK4444]

No, Don't imagine too much😂😂😂

[@Chrrinfj]

If her old self is lowest time of her life than explain what stage she is at now... She is addicted to drugs and she's internally destroying herself.

[@jessicarichter6436]

Addicted to drugs?!? Yall make the most horrible assumptions about people you don’t know.

[@Chrrinfj]

@jessicarichter6436 it's known fact & she has addressed it & admitted stuggling w drug addiction more than once. Currently she is not taking accountability of use.

[@Chrrinfj]

@jessicarichter6436 drugs eat your muscles, skin, hair, vision, teeth, bones, organs, will to live & awareness of yourself, others, & reality. Erodes your body & health of every aspect by depleting your energy source & replacing it becoming needed source of life. You will rapidly get wrinkles regardless of not having any prior and sunken extreme expression red lined eyes w dark bags. Chemicals aren't for a body that needs food & water. Dehydration is the silent kller. Her nose has pointed and high big uneven nostril holes, eventually her nose will reach point of calapse. Don't do drgs, learn from the professional fk ups.

[@jessicarichter6436]

@@Chrrinfj she’s never said she has a drug addiction don’t lie about such horrible things.

[@elephant4053]

​@@jessicarichter6436what do you think antidepressants are

[@dhrubaintisher8169]

"She gave us pop perfection with thank you, next She tried to do the same with yes, and? But it didn’t land." This could be the catchy verse of a pop song trust me 😂.

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂😂😂😂 maybe I should start writing songs for these celebrities

[@Μιχαέλα-ν9ζ]

Yes and? was SOOO bad. But we can't be friends is such a beautiful, heartfelt song ❤

[@dhrubaintisher8169]

@@ScandalousMediaTea Go right ahead!

[@laylascott6096]

That song wasn’t great at all but this is her best album by far

[@leena75]

@@Μιχαέλα-ν9ζ the mariah remix was on other level, i saw someone saying they sounded like cars honking at each other 😭

[@NatzTalk]

I bet Jeanette is like "mhm! Now y'all see!!"

[@NatzTalk]

I forgot about all the ish with Naya! I had no idea the stuff with Jeanette was more deep than what I thought.

[@leena75]

idk how can someone just bash it off as rumors since jennette literally told us everything with her gloriana character and tweets, the bf that was cheated on 8 times? we were willingly blind at this point

[@SarahFinds]

I’m on a binge watch at your channel just watched allll the Selena Gomez vids and I feel like my third eye just opened lol 👁️ 😂 keep up the good work

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂😂😂 thank you so much!! Welcome to the team ❤️❤️❤️

[@auroramichelle5450]

🤣

[@franciscaponcegonzalez5809]

In the interview with Zach Sang she basically said nothing... she just talked surface level but basically all the comments were ¨she deserves an apology¨ and I was like ¨For what?, she did not addressed anything¨ lol

[@bizzarebanana3041]

she literally doesnt need to. I love how so many of these comments act like she and her fans defending her are insane and crazy but honestly just read some of these hateful and honestly obsessive comments and its clear who really has issues

[@babyblue28]

I would love a Part Two- you're so eloquent, detailed, and empathetic in your analyses! I wouldn’t protest if you analyzed the lyrics from her new album.

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Thank you so much!! 🥰❤️❤️

[@sksmith8390]

I remember watching big brother when Frankie was on his first season and he finally told everyone who his sister was. No one knew who Ariana was except one girl lol. Neither did the audience, really.

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

👀

[@doggwater]

Boom, roasted 😂

[@gweters]

@@doggwater and all of them are khias and arianas still on top

[@iqraaaliya1230]

Kinda selfish mentality

[@moniqueboucher8011]

Kinda??

[@strawberryskygurl333]

I know exactly what it's like to not be healthy physically OR mentally because it's something that I've struggled with for YEARS... but I never once thought out cheating on my boyfriend with someone else

[@umakannan1330]

i think most of aris homewrecking comes from her daddy issues her dad left her mom and her when she was young and she was deeply scarred thus the lyrics ill be thanking my dad cuz she[her mom] grew from the trauma it kinda runs in a circle well someones gotta break the cycle and i hope ari's kid [if she has one] breaks it and does end up like her mom

[@rosary-os5yw]

This makes sense, it confirms her reality that fathers cheat or leave anyway , she is on winning side of infidelity & abandonment now

[@umakannan1330]

​@@rosary-os5yw yea these kind of scars can change children forever i bllame her parents and kinda her for not healing the trauma and giving in to it

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

Oh, Lord. I pray Ariana never gets pregnant and has kids 😭😢 The casualty will always be the kids.

[@TheHpnumber1fan]

That 100% doesn’t excuse her actions, though. Contribute to them? Sure. Excuse them? No

[@Kiran37369]

@@TheHpnumber1fan no one said this was an excuse. 😂 you just made up assumptions in your head

[@Astonelle]

NOW I KNOW WHY RIHANNA WAS LAUGHING AT HER XDD

[@lessismore8533]

😂😂😂😂

[@Mstorrance]

😂😂

[@sabi2557]

rihanna came out and talked about it when it happened saying it's cause she thought she was "cute"

[@beanii7339]

@@sabi2557thats rihannas pr💀

[@Joohee4]

They look like soul mates, both having dark possessed eyes- they deserve each other.

[@STAR-LIGHT.1111]

Demons

[@Dtzeo503]

Demonic

[@doggwater]

It is a bit scary how there’s absolutely no light or life behind either of their eyes. They’ll be happy together

[@beans222uwu]

Huh. Some pics are better than others butI see kindness in Slater’s eyes which is what I had figured Ari was feeding off of

[@HypemanMorton]

Ariana is petite and desperately wanted to be a diva. Her self esteem was on the line thats why she gets scandalous to prove to people that she can be the "IT GIRL"

[@artheaux666]

15:50 There is a clip of her being interviewed on the red carpet by Sway, and she asks her assistant to not do the interview and if there is anything he can do about the sun? GIRL. She truly was a diva.

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂😂😂 about the sun?? She’s so funny

[@starfiresilky]

When someone licks a cupcake (?) and puts it back, that says a lot about a person's character. I don't care how beautiful/handsome, rich/poor they are!

[@GUCCI_FAN]

She was high of dentist stuff

[@beanii7339]

@@GUCCI_FANyes, and? doesn't it make what she did okay

[@Aichukdebbarman7838]

God I have my medical masters in a week but still I'm into your analysis

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂😂😂 you’ll do great!

[@nataliawashington872]

Because she grew up wealthy she prolly wasn’t told “No” a lot growing up, so when she’s told “No” NOW, she sees it as a challenge. The bigger the challenge, the greater the satisfaction maybe??? I mean she did go from stealing boyfriends to fiancés (big Sean cause him and Nya were engaged at the time) and now an actual married man who’s an even bigger challenge not just because he’s married but because he’s a father now too. Idk y Ethan was so stupid to literally give up his marriage, being a father to his son, fucked up his reputation. I didn’t know who he was before the scandal, but he seemed pretty successful at least but this scandal is gonna damage his reputation and he’s gonna be known as the asshole who wasted 10 years of his high school sweetheart’s life and time by leaving her for someone that’s notorious for cheating. Also something to note is that her relationships seem to be where she’s in control, where the power imbalance is in her favor and she has power over the men in her life. Cause a lot of her partners it’s where she’s the more famous one, and before Ethan-Dalton wasn’t really famous but he did work with celebs but he isn’t one himself (at least from what I know), that’s smth I’m curious about

[@lealmelisa]

She use SNL last night to regain her image. But didn't work. She is shameless.

[@raghdaalqaisi2789]

I wish the video included more about her childhood because it helps understanding her psychology more

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

I can do more research about that in another video! Thanks for pointing it out

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

Man, we females are too emotional for our own good. Ari releases a couple sad breakup seranades and tugs on the feminine heart strings of "broken love". Everyone starts putting themselves in her shoes in the narrative, and forgets the original story... and the entire public shifts in her favor, as if this entire album ISNT A P.R. STUNT? Always make yourself look like the victim so your own sins are diminished. She simply made an album last second to make herself look like the victim of her marriage despite breaking up another. God she is such a terrible person. Her fans are so blind.

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂😂😂 that’s why we here on ScandalousMedia put away all feelings to the side and say the harsh truth. Cause I like Ariana but I’m not gonna act like she’s some innocent lamb

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

​@@ScandalousMediaTea Love your channel. It's the only tea channel that doesn't "consume product then get excited to consume next product" and believe every single thing that comes out of a perfectly sculpted curated celebrities mouth.

[@Lucy-ug8qg]

Thank youu!!!

[@jessicarichter6436]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@ScandalousMediaTeayou said you didn’t like Ariana in your other video about her, macs & Pete’s timeline. Your own hypocrisy is the harsh truth you don’t admit about yourself when your attacking all these women. you should do unbiased reporting instead of becoming a hate channel.

[@DanieB322]

It’s not women. I never believed her. And a lot of my gaysss male friends WOULD FIGHT FOR HER. People are just naive and easily manipulated

[@VideosForYou90]

Can't believe that I used to be a fan of her until 2018, I should've seen all these reds flags way earlier haha. She has such good music but she truly seems to be a horrible person. I stopped liking her after she constantly insulted and sh*t on her own fans while she was dating Pete back then...

[@sageandsapphire]

as a black listener, i always find it annoying when artists go through their "black phase" or any other phase co-opting an entire culture and/or group of marginalized people. the way you explained where that might be coming from for ari, though, really blew my mind. an obsession with a current aesthetic/beauty norm-it makes sense! i'm still annoyed ppl with huge platforms and public images feel they can appropriate other cultures and cultural aesthetics/practices for any reason at all. just wanted to share that your input on that was really eye-opening. i never considered that perspective before. thank you!

[@F8thTheGr8]

As a black reader(who dates any ethnicity) I find it interesting you wouldn't consider her dating a variety of people as just dating and being open.

[@umakannan1330]

can you guys make taylor swift as a person video kina like video format of your ts as a person blog but it was like too long ago so some updates with like the eras tour and travis and stuff

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Yesss, say less 🫶🏼

[@umakannan1330]

@@ScandalousMediaTea omg you gys tysm

[@kimhminyee]

Yes please!!

[@aiaesthetics1124]

Yes plz. Swift is THE MOST toxic feminist on the planet.

[@Petlover97]

Yes yay !!

[@autumnnoahlea5223]

I'm not a fan of her as a person, I don't approve of her behavior, but bullying a bully just brings you down to their level. labeling someone as a fool, calling them hilarious, thinking you know why they did what they did without context & without proof.. it's not insightful, it's really just mean. if you want to sound like you're making educated assumptions about someone, & not just trashing them, a more journalistic approach is necessary.

[@Jassssss88]

100% agree

[@pokemontas8025]

I wonder if she has some nickelodeon MK Ultra trauma. The things Dan made her do....not to say it's excusing her behavior but it might explain more. Drake Bell is speaking out about it soon..

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Oh for sure they all have stories it’s only a matter of time 🥺

[@nataliawashington872]

@@ScandalousMediaTeawill you do a video on Dan Schneider? And possibly one on Drake speaking out

[@laylascott6096]

Of course she does. They all do, they have multiple alters and are 100 percent controlled

[@hb419]

Bingo

[@centuryfiles9558]

Yupppp

[@N_Forgotten]

Is it just me or Is Eternal Sunshine = Ethan Slater Idk why but my brain went to that

[@hayley623]

Yea a lot of ppl are saying that plus we know she likes doing stuff like hence the Pete Davidson

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

😂😂

[@floatmyboat721]

THIS ALBUM ISNT ABOUT SPONGEBOB WHY IS NO ONE LISTENING

[@ssfghjgghhgrdcbbnmjgddxcggg]

​@@floatmyboat721yeah dude, sure, keep believing this bullcrap, yes and is pretty much a self explanatory song, the album is absolutely about ethan and all of the recent drama, let's not play stupid please.

[@sophia9577]

@@ssfghjgghhgrdcbbnmjgddxcggg you literally have zero media literacy if you think that 'yes and' means that she's agreeing with the rumours.

[@ErinHonor]

I saw someone (maybe on Twitter?) say that for so long, Ariana was able to get away with bad behavior due to everyone still wanting to see her as the sugar-sweet Cat Valentine-esque character that she first entered the scene as. She had this kind of image that almost made people want to jump to protect her as if she were a child. Then the Ethan Slater thing happened and it was just such a distinctly adult controversy that people couldn't just keep pretending that she was some helpless little girl who didn't know better. Not to say that the sweet little girl image was entirely her fault (she didn't create Cat Valentine),but she definitely did seem to play into it when she knew It would help her.. I do kind of wish she had just stuck to being a broadway actor. She's incredibly talented but her lack of a sense of self and low self-esteem is SO toxic for both herself and others when she's surrounded by noting by yes men who worship your every word and action.

[@codezero7981]

the tea is scalding HOT today, u snapped 🔥🙌🏼

[@SummerSun-sg3wf]

Its really gross that she gets a high from taking men who belong to other women. Shes not a girls girl.

[@Seraphina93]

50%

[@iHeArTgLoRy]

I like some of her songs. But I have not liked her as a person since the donut incident and her terrible apology for it.

[@denedennie1516]

The red gloves on her albumcover and red outfit in the interview look odd and creepy

[@k_singsss_1556]

jezebel is depicted in all red and has all the same traits

[@houdahaoufi9556]

Maybe her father cheated on her mother, so she feels the need to be "the other woman" in every relationship she's in. I'm not excusing her behavior, I'm just saying that, since she's talked time and time again about her parents' divorce and how it affected her while growing up, but MAYBE she didn't deal with it or heal from it EVER, she just said so and lied, cause her behavior is telling a totally different story

[@houdahaoufi9556]

Or maybe just a spoiled 30 y.o. child

[@annelieseswaggerty8375]

The title of this video is a little misleading. While I agree with this, I don’t feel that it touched on the actual psychology and was more opinionated. I believe Ari has no excuse to be doing the things she does, but you also should also be looking at her time on Nick. More people have been coming out about how traumatizing it was working with Dan. I do think that could have affected Ari a great amount. Like I said this is not justification of her actions. Her actions are still horrible! I’m just giving criticism on how this could go more psychologically in depth on why she could act the way she does. Just saying someone is insecure and using that as an excuse for everything is not actually analyzing anything. This feels like more of a ranting to your best friend about the girl you don’t like video than a psychological analysis on someone’s behavior.

[@charlesjosiahmahinaysinoy8849]

This, and I have noticed she deletes comments not agreeing with the creator. Plus, the evidences she used here are all humors from pop culture ages ago, I can't help but laugh at this supposed master in psychology professional, but can't at least be professional in her reviews and 'analysis'. Embarrassing

[@la6136]

I believe Ariana loved being sexualized at a young age tbh. It fits her personality completely. She was already writing highly sexual music at that age even if it didn't get released which is what her mother confirmed. She was not like Jeanette who was forced into being in Hollywood as a child. She loved the attention.

[@sleeping2424]

I agree this “analysis” fell flat and didn’t really hone in on any of the potential psychological aspects that could be fueling any of her behavior besides the vague “insecure”.

[@Agonizeddeadrose]

I'm starting to believe this Ariana Grande really isn't that popular. Because she's boring. As she says herself in song "Break up with your boyfriend ...I'm bored". She literally a coquette influencer on Instagram and other places. The weightlosss and ballet core. Ariana doesn't know what it takes. Ariana influences young females of this world. Don't deny that she is absolutely trying to infiltrate the people and men to believe in her. From young girls, middle age gays to CEOs Ariana is just all over the board. And now she's all over another man. NO ACTUAL suprise. She mentioned I believe when she was 21 that she is "the hardest working female in the planet".😮 that is total attrocities with so many other women and upcoming celebrity women. Because it's giving homewreking vibes and That she is the best thing that man has ever seen. Like please. So I (big old me) I'm not littls like this one in video but I mean like I would NOT trust her with my family

[@lessismore8533]

That “hardest working “ comment was VERY arrogant of her. There are TONS of ppl that work hard and she’s gonna have to research the STATS in order to prove she’s the hardest working, esp back in 2014 when she was a freaking NEWBIE . Not saying she never worked hard but MANY of todays stars came from nothing, when she came from a rich family

[@user-gk4bl9nz8f]

she said that in 2017 and was clearly exaggerating, youve never used hyperbole in your life it seems@@lessismore8533

[@gweters]

no one asked and shes still an a list. you saying otherwise doesnt change the fact that shes still one of the most famous and renowned artists now.

[@Agonizeddeadrose]

@@gweters just because she an artist and rich doesn't excuse BAD BEHAVIOUR thank you for your sh t comment

[@SouriphoneLPhongsavanh]

Mariah Carey is a rich person You don’t see her going around stealing people’s husbands You know why? She grew up from humbling beginnings She was poor & had daddy issues too I’m just saying there is a correlation growing up rich and feeling entitled And then throwing sprinkles of daddy issues in it that’s a combination for a narc to be born That entitlement and that abandonment will mix in and you feel the world 🌎 owes you something She could care less if the wife was hurt Her only agenda is to get her own needs met I mean she’s going through trauma too though, her ex husband cheated on her What’s the next thing to do? Go take someone’s else husband

[@lessismore8533]

This Comment is freaking GOLD, you’re so right about a narc being born! Plenty other ppl have daddy issues like Mariah and Xtina but unlike Ariana , they came from humble beginnings. I really HATE entitled ppl who think they can have whatever they want. I grew up with a horrible younger sibling like that. As the youngest, he was coddled the MOST by my mom. And even now in his 20s he still acts like a child if things don’t go his way. Back to topic, we don’t know for sure if Dalton cheated. If so, there’s still a chance Ariana cheated first with Ethan. She made Dalton sign an NDA so he can’t tell his side of the story. Only she can tell hers!!

[@SouriphoneLPhongsavanh]

@@lessismore8533 My family members are Narcs So I grew up around Narcs…my daddy is and all my ex boyfriends are I’m a magnet too them Yes my Mom coddles ALL of them that’s why I’m so educated about them I can see and smell one a thousand miles away When I see Ariana this girl has all the potential of being a good person but she chooses not to be Any normal human wouldn’t go wrecking peoples lives and then act so sweet and normal about it Christina Aguilera her dad was abusive and she grew up poor I’m telling you it’s the enabling factor from her family that made her like this I sometimes look at Ariana grande’s Mom like lady…aren’t you ashamed what you had created Yes your daughter is talented but she is also messed up

[@DavidKen878]

Rich or not, Mariah is almost 50, has two kids, two ex-husbands, and broke off an engagement. But yeah, it’s the money.

[@la6136]

@@DavidKen878 So what? Those men were trash. That is not Mariahs fault.

[@DavidKen878]

@@la6136 They were trash? You're funny lol.

[@taerofluff1151]

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[@ScandalousMediaTea]

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[@Tully_23_32]

She looks like a skinnier version of Iggy Azalea, so maybe she did wake up one morning & say i want to look like an Aussie...also hun, we pronounce Australia as Straya & Aussie as Ozzy, we pronounce the letter "S" as the letter "zed"

[@StitchGirl94]

Excited for this one bestie! ❤

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

me too bestie!!

[@Negative_nelly]

Narcissistic personality disorder and multiple personality disorder and body dysmorphia disorder along with severe anxiety and depression, why id never want to be “famous”…. I don’t condone her actions but Hollywood is definitely a bad place to be especially for young women

[@Seraphina93]

Diagnoses aren’t relevant according to good psychologists, who CARES She’s a human being not a checklist

[@Seraphina93]

Also what someone has „multiple blabla“ because they tan and change their hair color and a singer has a different pitch over the years are you INSANE?

[@prostheticballerina]

Her eyebrows (and their many changes) are WILD

[@blinkie1114]

That interview she just did in red she’s giving Megan Markel so hard “we know this!” Megan says that all the time and they both say so much while saying literally nothing. Just so fake.

[@adamswierczynski]

Continuously calling her "not that good of a person" while proposing that your perspective is informed by a master's degree harms you and the profession. Please stick to more clinical or objective statements.

[@eatwasabiii]

I feel like she saved her image again with ' we can't be friends' song and mv, again using a movie (an heartbreaking one like eternal sunshine of the spotless mind), to shift everyone's attention on mac and her past traumas.. and I feel like people fell for it. the song is musically much better than yes,and? and it conveys this feeling of sadness and hopelessness for air, which is working out great for her -

[@angelicawhetu]

idk i just feel like she likes weak men. women do this to feel a sense of power in relationships cause we have been conditioned for a millennia to be subservient to men and expected to put up with their abuse or whatever bullshit they wanna throw our way. and ariana would never find a good man in hollywood and she needs someone famous so it’s a double edged sword

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Hmmm interesting

[@angelicawhetu]

@@ScandalousMediaTea it just makes her a bully.

[@__VR__8]

exactly, deep down shes a masculine figure

[@angelicawhetu]

@@__VR__8ya. women can’t do that. it doesn’t work and it doesn’t look good.

[@MariaAlmeida-su7cj]

she kinda looked like the girlfriends each time

[@opalgem01]

Can I just say that its good that Lily was able to weed out Ethan and see his true colours? Like if u think about it, she's been committed to someone with questionable loyalty all this time. If it didnt happen now, it would happen with a different girl some time later.

[@mmgs1148]

Idk, i would want to get out before i have a kid w someone i will have to see for years because he has a right to co-parent, she not only has to see them in media together, she has to look meet him in person Having a few month old kid is not the best moment to "weed out" someone

[@Anita_G_]

This video is AMAZING! I like your perspective and the way you analized Ari' scandals and actions. Ariana's scandals included here are not new but the compilation you made is great and the way you analized too.

[@cazcook2901]

I love your longer videos. Thank so much!! Really interesting xx

[@ScandalousMediaTea]

Glad you like them!🥹💕

[@overtremendouslyblah]

I kind of think she's another really messed up child star. Who knows what has happened to her. Not that trauma is an excuse. But it makes you wonder...

[@TamESQ]

She’s in her twenties, but still has the look of a teenager… playing dress up with her big sister’s clothes and makeup. She doesn’t give off sex appeal or dime piece… but she’s a great singer.

[@mi00kono]

there's nothing wrong wearing something childish or cutesy/appealing or playing dress up, even my 50 year old aunt is wearing a pink pajama with Disney princess on it and nothing's wrong. it's what Ariana's character matters 💀

[@TamESQ]

@@mi00kono Sir or madam…. Did I say there was anything wrong with it??? Yes or no? 👂🏾