The Real Reason My Subs Are Seething Mad

[@MrRogsmart]

"He didn't lend a hand to help..." That pretty much says it all right there.

[@geo.miller7808]

Ask him if he needs help and wait 10 seconds for a reply. No answer, leave him be !!!

[@Labshharktrx]

He could’ve gotten down in the snow to hook things up. Instead he stood and watched Cody do the work.

[@nicholsworth2754]

You laid in the snow while he watched . End of story . No apology needed.

[@ArkansasPilgrim]

Agreed.

[@mechanicd7562]

I agree 100% some guys actually are so entitled they think they are above such a task, and if u look at the previous video it looked like the woman was doing most of the job, i dont know if thats the case but i got such impression.

[@the1plantguy]

Yep

[@nellayema2455]

The young woman was more engaged than the dude. Sad.

[@turgin9098]

Exactly! My very thought.

[@aaronb4936]

Just having someone say “how can I help” is the least they can do.

[@adrianorona2131]

Thank you

[@fourbyfourer]

Exactly, and if you don't know what to do in a situation like that, you simply say "what can I do to help?".

[@SoftwashKing]

The night I watched that vlog with my wife I said the exact thing. I said look at that guy not helping at all. WTH!!!!

[@jonasst11]

Why did his girlfriend not help - or do you think that a woman can't do the same???

[@ainsygray]

This exactly plumbers came round to fix a blockage somewhere from the top of the house to bottom said how can I help they needed access to a section of pipes narrow down to top floor, got the tools out and did my part help learn about internal structure of the house route of pipes to boiler etc and they saw I was more than willing to assist anything they needed also helped with a far smaller bill too

[@NicsITV]

"I was born and raised by two extraordinary men." -Wranglerstar

[@dBro4769]

My dad died when I was very young. He didnt live long enough to teach me even the most basic of skills that the average man learns from his father. I spent my 20s, 30s, and now my 40s learning “manly” things on my own. I often found myself very intimidated by guys who knew how to work with tools and such. So much so that i suppose you could say that when I could have been a part of what they were doing I felt like my participation would have turned out to be a hinderance and that it would have left me vulnerable for dirty looks and ridicule. I remember being asked to fetch a ratchet sometime in my teen years and grabbing the wrong tool and the utter humiliation that followed. So I’d just stand by and observe and hope that I could get away with it, despite wanting to learn. I’ve never put any conscience thought into it, but its obvious to me that its my quest for knowledge that I didn’t get from my dad that has brought me here. Anyway, something to think about.

[@gileslovejoy8581]

My dad died when I was 2.5. Mom never re-married. She signed me up for Scouts as a boy. That was transforming in my life. She bought me my first gun, 20 gauge Ithaca single shot. Arranged with neighbor with 3 sons to take me hunting. Will never forget their good-natured laughter when I tried to shoot over-head ducks 4-5 times though my first shot (I didn’t think to reload) was all that went duckward. Just let cocking the hammer and clicking the trigger. When I was about 12 she bought me a bare-boned set of hand tools and told me if anything was broken I had first shot at fixing it. She said I couldn’t hurt it if it was already broken. God drew me to faith in Christ as a senior in HS. And I clearly see how God strategically placed good, and often godly men into my life to mentor me whether intentionally or not on their part. The Lord certainly directed my mom’s deliberate effort to expose me to such men, and that is a blessing I’ll never repay. Mr. W is that type of mentor for many, not perfect, but striving to be what God desires. I’m grateful he and other solid YTers and other platforms) can be that for new generations. And I pray that for myself and other men who’ve developed skills and acquired knowledge (more importantly gained wisdom) that we will never be too busy, or proud, or self-occupied to ignore another person of any age or background who wants to learn like you. And don’t be afraid to be laughed at, or make mistakes, or show up stupid in the moment. We all have been members of that club at some point. I still do dumb things (God often graciously allows it to be when I’m by myself “don’t know how that board could be too short...I measured three times). And kudos to you for pursuing learning! Keep it up. I’m 66 and every day I realize more what I haven’t learned yet. God bless you and those who want to learn, and those willing to stand with them and teach.

[@em2140]

Hey man I can relate I'm 28 grew up without a dad but my grandfather started taking me to a trout pond outside the city. He was a salesman for a cleaning company and he would bring me with when he installed soap dispensers. My mothers highschool friend owned a contracting company and I worked with him for a few years. I would say that even though I didn't have a father to show me the ropes I was still able to acquire knowledge from other resources. Of course I think it would have been easier to learn and take advice/criticisms from a father. But who knows maybe there are some guys raised by fathers who know less then we do.

[@jayehuu]

My dad didn't die but didn't teach. I hear you about the difficult journey of self teaching.

[@zacheryandersen]

Well said man. You know if that guy tried to help he would have complained anyways.

[@OutoftheWoods0623]

This East Coast guy is on your side, we finally agree on something,

[@traocheckbeforeyoubuy4609]

I just watched your video it was great

[@OutoftheWoods0623]

@@traocheckbeforeyoubuy4609 thanks appreciate it,

[@MishaDaBear]

I'm an eastcoaster as well (4 hrs east of Calais, ME) 🇨🇦

[@Mike.Jones2]

Yeah here from the southeast

[@ColinQuinnuniverse]

Northeastern here too. Raised in the great white north. No patience for people unwilling to help their situation, but always willing to help those in need.

[@BlackMetalSchecter]

The dude stood their shooting the shi* instead of helping. No apology needed.

[@miken5413]

@@AssNuggett Cody could pass for Armenian

[@blackf350]

Those offended just saw themselves in that guy.

[@heresmytake2782]

100%

[@powercam9771]

Ok boomer not everyone has a winch not everyone lives in the snow not everyone enjoys working like a lumberjack day in day out

[@gabrielferaud8360]

@@powercam9771 Ok snowflake, you are a classist, millennial.

[@c6q3a24]

@@powercam9771 Not everyone is so pathetic as to not even offer a helping hand to a benevolent stranger helping them out of the goodness of his heart.

[@aaronb4936]

Powercam Gaming I used to play games too.. then I grew up

[@jlollboo]

Teach a man to fish... don’t apologize for being a good man. Though we can always grow from any of our experiences . I look up to you for your values.

[@daycowhite6947]

Don't teach a man to fish and feed yourself. He's a grown man and fishing's not that hard! Ron Swanson.

[@Bwc556]

Well said

[@chomama1628]

As my husband says,” there are doers and there are chewers” . You sir are a doer.

[@zeus.the.mechanic5616]

Or or there are doers and there are donters.

[@creekboy2893]

I’ll just say it! Being raised by a married couple has now come to be called a privilege, it was an expectation when I was young.

[@pughconsulting]

Nobody has sense of duty anymore. Marriage isn't always about happiness or love. It's about commitment.

[@Selfsufficientme]

Back in the 90s I was in an Army vehicle travelling in a remote outback area of northern Australia. We came across a couple who had broken down so we diverted our mission and towed them an hour to the nearest service centre. When we got there he promptly unhitched his car (without talking) and walked off with no word of thanks or goodbye. As a young soldier (at the time) that was my first taste of many experiences in helping the ungrateful. The world is full of wonderful people but there are a few that have no idea and you're bound to come across some of them at some point 👍

[@foofeefog8908]

Glad to see my favorite channels crossing paths!

[@wobblysauce]

That happens, but you get that. I have used fire extinguishers on multiple others, you don't do it to get something out of it but it is the right thing to do.

[@AssNuggett]

Egon Spengler warned us not to cross the streams.

[@JimsEquipmentShed]

That’s pretty sad. Some people should just be left in the bush.....

[@taylorswink9653]

Nice to see you here! Such a small world, god is amazing.

[@edreguera2739]

The waterway behind you should be called: Honesty River, may it never stop flowing.

[@chriswhitehead8746]

Amen 🙏

[@jkpq8738]

Yep new segment nomination "Down by Honest Riverfront." One of many great new places on the new homestead for Manly Manners episodes too.

[@brianleya9072]

Honesty River 😂😂😂😂😂. I love it

[@brandonmillion6130]

"Professional homeowners are use to being hero's" new favorite quote

[@DefensorFortis]

I was taught to never put your hands in your pockets if someone else is working...

[@garydietzel6730]

You're 100% correct in your thinking. The entitled "man child" should go back to his sandbox and play.

[@seanhenderson9034]

I concur with everything in your monologue. You're a good man Cody.

[@opfor325]

Agreed....classic Cody....I have come to expect nothing but class.

[@allendorrell9845]

Best comment ever. The lord works through you in a ways a church never showed me Cody.

[@Galt4570]

You weren’t too hard on him. Not offering to help was incredibly rude, he treated you like it was your job to smooth his way. That much entitlement is nauseating.

[@agslegend]

I agree with anything you said I ve pulled many people out of the ditch both who were useless and ones that are quite helpful but in the end I'm doing because it's the next right thing to do. I'm up here in Anchorage Alaska. I love and appreciate your channel and wisdom 2 years ago I married my long time love and are starting our family I enjoy your wisdom and experiences I am too a retired firefighter EMT and I am carving out my little Paradise in our town thank you so much God bless you and your family keep you in many blessings. PS I did wild Land fire fighting for a number of years I actually preferred over structuralI love being a smoke eater.

[@Cmayz223]

All the man needed to say was, “how can I help?” And “thank you” of course.

[@lisamarie3878]

TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU ON ALL FRONTS!!! If he didn’t even try to help you he is without. So thankful for my husband of 40 years. There is very little he can’t do and had no proper raising. Learned it all on his own.

[@HawkeyeDJ37]

I myself have been in a situation where I needed a hand. But I did the work that needed to be done in the situation. I’ve never stood by and let someone else do the work for me. Even if I’m paying someone, I’ll help.

[@roycolglazier1061]

I’m another Old School, Old Dude who has YOUR back on this one Cody! Not only were you not out of line on this, your observations made me laugh. Indeed, I was glad that I’d had my coffee for the day, or my sinuses would’ve paid a dear price!!! 😂👍❗️

[@Darkwingdave5]

Well said, sir. One of the main lessons I learned in the Navy. "If you can't do the job, at least be helpful to those who do know."

[@paavokaleva]

You are just so right about modern men! All they can do is to swipe with finger on their smartphones screen and download an app.

[@Got2Learn]

I haven't commented in 10 years on this channel, but I gotta on this one. Cody, I agree with you at 100%, all that you said in this video needs to be reinforced, the people of today are able to talk a lot but when it comes to actually executing, they can't walk the walk, and this to me is where the men seperate themselves from the boys, there's a huge difference between saying you'll do something and doing it, and you do it, cheers Cody and keep up the good work.

[@madisaur0]

He was probably a grown child. I'm often saddened I fall into the Millennial era, I don't feel like a Millennial, I've fought in war, I change my oil, work on my car and house to the best of my professional homeowner ability. Everything I have is by the grace of God and am completely dependent on the Lord every day, he is responsible for every day in front of me and keeps me going. Again I'm a story of His grace and mercy! And yes Cody patience us not my strong suite, in fact you seemingly have way more patience than I, God Bless you brother!

[@markchase5323]

Hey, I think Millennials are terrific! Half of them are just fantastic and the other half is completely open and loud that they aren't what you're looking for, so, you can avoid them. Of the latter, much of the time it's related to how they were raised by parents who wanted a best friend child rather than a strong healthy, upstanding adult of excellent character. I believe I heard Dave Ramsey say about the same thing, once.

[@eamsden1982]

Mark Chase, that is an interesting point, I like your view. That explains a bit to me why Jordan Peterson has been able to help so many people . “Pick up the heaviest thing you can and carry it”

[@Russ0107]

Big guy fights arabs in the desert. Strong man. Tough fella.

[@oldyankeespeedco]

Thank you for your service 🇺🇸

[@joshc154]

You’re 100% on target. The majority of men now days are neutered and can not or will not stand up for their loved ones. The good book tells us that the man is the head of the household and there is such great wisdom in that! Lately the cream has been rising to the top. Thanks for all that you do!

[@cartergjenkins]

My dad taught my to help where and when I can. Don’t be sorry for this. People can be lazy and get away with it, not ok...

[@catman980h]

I agree completely brother. Nothing bothers me more than seeing grown men on the side of the road with a man in a uniform changing his tire for him. You said it best when you said privileged.

[@kevinl1854]

The people that are saying you’re to harsh are the ones raising children that are “ peacefully protesting in our streets”....

[@kevinl1854]

You are probably correct there to lazy to even start there own fire they just claim others..

[@skookumbuilds3282]

Jeriah went full badass and shoveled his path out and a whole spot down to pavement for you to park. Also crawled around in the snow like a man

[@ecleveland1]

That video of Jeriah getting stuck said a lot to me about the kind of guy"Jeriah", is. I was impressed at how he jumped in quick and was doing things so Cody didn't have to and he worked with Cody and listened when Cody grabbed the snatch block.

[@skookumbuilds3282]

@@ecleveland1 exactly

[@theycallmebeast1837]

Jeriah knew he would have gotten a whoopin back at the shop

[@davidhoman3807]

I thought that dry spot looked out of place. I originally posted that I thought another vehicle must have parked there when it wasn’t snowing, then drove off, but I could not explain why there were no tire tracks going away from the dry spot. Duh.

[@funnyfarmdad9997]

Cody, no apology needed. I noticed the only person out helping was the girl. In my opinion you weren’t hard enough on him.

[@MrWiggenhammer]

I noticed that too. I could see myself in that situation but I would help and try to learn how to prevent it or get myself out. I was wondering if he was camera shy or something.

[@tiddybearkush]

Is Cody talking about that short clip about "how can a woman date a guy like that" outside of the van? That was like nothing.

[@clayj1157]

When you state that man is suppose to be the head of the house, protector and provider, it is often left out that he is the "servant" of his family as well. It is working as a "team" that makes the family whole and successsful. You are a blessing Cody to your family, friends and subscribers. It's NOT what a man preaches that makes the most lasting influence but rather his example that is seen.

[@Kottenification]

Thank you so very much for the ending of this video, where you pray for mor patience. That really struck home for me. I often get irritated and feeling almost "surrounded by idiots" sometimes. But your final prayer - for patience - really stuck with me, and I realized that my view of people around me sometimes is mine alone, and that it's my own responsibility to be (or become) more patient and less judgemental. This was food for thought today. Thank you ever so much! (Oh - and excuse my bad English. I'm Swedish. I hope you guys get what I wanna tell you anyways).

[@lindnersawfilingandrepair322]

No need to justify to me, I get where you're coming from in that situation.

[@thomast8539]

I feel exactly the same way.

[@hkguitar1984]

100% agree I guess the hard truth has the ability to melt some snowflakes. At the very least the guy should have tried to learn something by helping. What do I know, I'm a 58 year old Male who (apparently) grew up in a different world!

[@jaredkean7841]

"Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak mean create hard times"

[@dutch1995]

Hey Bear says that

[@jaredkean7841]

@@dutch1995 I dont know who that is

[@dutch1995]

@@jaredkean7841 Bear Independent on here, check him out. If you like Cody I think you'd like his channel. It's a rough start but there is a ton of quality information over there.

[@jaredkean7841]

@@dutch1995 Oh, okay, thank you. I'll check it out sometime.

[@johncross3065]

I came across a young couple ( 19 or 20) at a convenient store parking lot who had a flat. The “guy” had managed to jack it up and get the flat off before the jack kicked out and the rotor dug into the hot top. He was ripping into the poor girl because it was her fathers car and he should change the tire. I offered to walk him thru how to get the jack in place and finish the job but I wasn’t doing it for him. He wasn’t having it. The girl looked at him in discuss and said she’ll be happy to do it. I walked her thru jacking it up again letting down on the spare so she had enough clearance to get the jack back where it belonged and she pretty much took it the rest of the way. She was pretty proud of herself. I told her there are only two kind of guys she should date, the ones who can change the tire or the ones who have enough money in their pocket to pay someone to do it, I see the guy you’re with now is neither.

[@dpeagles]

I'd say don't bother with the man that would pay someone rather than changing the tire himself.

[@johne9341]

I agree with your comment on the original video. We are raising a generation of helpless, needy, entitled children.

[@paddymack3224]

Some of these modern men did not grow up with fathers or grandfathers to teach them how to handle these type of situations. I grew up with neither, but was lucky enough to have an uncle who took an interest in me. I’ve started watching your channel to learn some of the things that he couldn’t teach me in the moment. Your a great teacher, ask the lord to give you the patience to teach that man how to handle the situation, instead of trying to handle it all yourself and getting overly frustrated.

[@keystonekid7451]

Absolutely no apology needed. When I was watching I thought “is the guy he’s pulling out even helping “. I also thought “why is Cody laying on the ground in the snow hooking this guys car up?” I get it man, this guy will have to pay people to do everything for him, cause he never took the initiative to teach himself.

[@stephaniebernal6285]

I'm a woman in charge of my household and make my husband better for it. It's a support system. I am just the stronger leader and I teach by example. However, there are certain things my husband is better at and in those areas I let him lead and follow his example. We trade off based on our strengths and that makes us a unit. I don't think there's anything wrong with sharing a role based on your strengths.

[@davefrancis4529]

I wouldn’t have a clue what to do but I would offer every bit of assistance. You were right to say what you said. 👍🏼

[@tblbaby]

It's the willing spirit that's important, though knowhow is helpful, not everyone learns that and nobody thinks to teach that in some areas of life. We all have areas of ignorance.

[@tblbaby]

Better to admit you don't now than to BS and cause problems too.

[@andrews2190]

I don’t understand how people believe you’re in the wrong for this.

[@fat-n-happy1421]

@@MisterBoy316 agreed, and many people don't want their inability video taped. i don't like the scrutiny when I'm not confident in something. i don't know anyone who does

[@mikemetheny1086]

@@MisterBoy316 the criticism was anonymous and a accurate. If Cody had shown his face, license plate or any other revealing info, then you would be correct. But as it stands, the only mistake was not clarifying the reason for his criticism.

[@jsayles1757]

Exactly

[@woodywoody5696]

Quickly Wranglerstar speak the truth BROTHER. These men today are useless; can’t change a tire, check oil, hunt, start a fire in a BBQ cooker let alone walk more than a mile.

[@dillonprentice1968]

Some people just aren’t raised that way. I have 2 steel rods fused to my spine but I’m the type of guy that would still shovel myself out. I’ve had doctors tell me to go on disability for years and I refuse to because that’s not how I was raised

[@lenholt7419]

Well Us Southern Men are not as sensitive as West Coast Men. We just pass on and say Bless Their Hearts. Agree, He could have maybe should have, but he didn't. Next.

[@amysuggs5661]

If a man has a hair bun ..and wears mandles and women's capries or manpries Then you can not expect her to get his hand dirty.

[@jesseison-bowman3964]

Like when your buddy asks you to help him move and when you show up nothing is packed and he is eating cheetos

[@mattl1758]

I knew this was gonna happen. I was just waiting for it. The fact is men are few and far between anymore. Never fault someone for not knowing. Fault him for not giving a damn

[@tommyb8046]

as a man of faith it makes perfect sense for the man to lead his family. we understand this because we have faith that God set it this way for a reason. People not of God can not understand the things of God and despise them!

[@alanholm401]

I admire you saying what you believe. Often wonder were have all the men gone that have integrity, and stand up for what they believe. Obvious we sure don't have many in government that can make good moral decisions. Todays men as you phrased it are definitely a product of feminizing America. Thank you for expressing what you believe in. We need a lot more of us men to do the same.

[@billpownell1446]

The only thing I disagree with you on in this video, is you referred to him as a man. If he were a man you wouldn't be having this discussion. We are raising a lot of boys in this country and few men.

[@aDrummerThatisBored]

Whats the saying. Tough times make strong men. Strong men make good times. Good times make weak men. Weak men make tough times. And its a cycle. We have had many years of good times.

[@brown7002]

What he said

[@russellmurphy3835]

I once had a similar experience. But I was on the receiving end of the help. I did jump in and do a lot of the work, but my friend just watched. When we were on our way again I went off on my friend. After hearing him I apologized but to.d him to just ask. He was embarrassed and had no clue what to do. He actually felt inadequate and uncanny. I learned from that statement. Since I have helped a few people out couple initially didn't help. I just asked if they expected me to do everything and then looked at them. Both times they said they didn't know what to do, I said I would happily guide them. The guy might have been embarrassed. Include them in the process.

[@MishaDaBear]

Bingo, you 100% pinned it!🖖

[@TheBereangirl]

Lol...ugh! I have the same prayer, "Lord, give me more patience with people"..then he answers by giving me more opportunities to practice using the patience I got.🙄

[@stevenpdxedu]

Cody, I was a professional long haul truck driver for decades. Back 'in the day', a truck driver almost never passed up an opportunity to help the stranded. I found from this experience that whatever you do, know that it's a form of charity. One MUST give with an open hand & heart, expecting thanks or help is too much. Often I would grumble to myself that I was a fool to help out, but then the next time I would feel good about it for weeks. Just remember the good.

[@DeathinTexas]

This goes back to what I believe is the solution to most of our country's and our world's problems...parenting. Raise your children on a strong foundation of love and faith and from that stems genuine kindness, empathy, respect, hard-work, disciple, and every other characteristic you desire in a human being. When parents fail to lead and teach their children the way they are obligated to, they fail them. And, in some way, shape, or form, their children fail themselves and the world; albiet not always. Being an outstanding parents is a difficult and endless obligation and what should be the greatest joy and accomplishment of your life. If we want to change the world we have to start in the home and we have to start with the individual. We can tear down the house and re-build it to whatever grandiose specifications we could desire, but if we fill it with the same shitty people than nothing ever truly changes.

[@MJPeddler]

Two things I know... 1) My son is being raised not stand idly-by when something needs to be done. 2) My daughter will be able to get herself out of similar situations, and won't tolerate a boy/man who can not keep up with her indoors or out.

[@elgringoec]

Haha great! We successfully completed that phase and are on the grandkids phase now.

[@elgringoec]

@@mmm365 Mine had to change a tire, drive manual, and perform controlled skids and slides in snow before I'd sign off on their license. You should see em drive now - they can drive rings around the vast majority out there.

[@MJPeddler]

@@mmm365 They’re only 6 & 4 years old right, but learning life skills every day. They each have appropriate chores, and like to help my wife and I with our own chores/projects.

[@roberthardwick231]

does not take any skill to say "how can I help"

[@fergusonlandmanagementweld1039]

That's the Marine Corp sprit lmbo! You might not know how, but you can ask if they need to help.

[@debb3428]

Yes!!

[@pasqualecuda605]

Exactly

[@THENEWWRANGLER]

It seems like he was quite poorly equipped to be up there in the mountains in the snow ..

[@ronhinds6257]

Amen and well said, also do agree with Mrs W and my wife would say the same thing to me when making those comments. But I think all we can do is try teach young men and shine the light.

[@chrisevans2098]

Cody, you are absolutely right on this and no need to apologize for your observation and evaluation of this person. The girl was at least willing to try and help the best she could. The oh so sad truth is this is a whole generation and mind set that surrounds us . Thank you for having a manly view that is so lacking these days. We enjoy your work.keep it up and God bless you and your family.

[@nutsbutdum]

That's also how I understood it. You were not mad at him for not knowing how to get the car out but for not even trying. It seemed that his girlfriend was doing everything

[@GDHoneyAcresandCraftWork]

The girlfriend seemed to be more of a man then he was.

[@MaxGriffinJames]

I got the impression it was her car. No excuse though obviously.

[@GDHoneyAcresandCraftWork]

@@MaxGriffinJames exactly no excuse. He should’ve been helping.

[@RichSalmon2016]

“The truth is like a lion, set it free and it will defend itself. “

[@mathbrown9099]

Our attitudes always take us to judgment. Either forget it and help or let the person alone in their predicament. A Good Samaritan doesn’t judge, they help, regardless.

[@MountainRoots]

No apology needed sir- grown men should be such, MEN! CS Lewis nailed it: these are "men without chests"

[@richievallandingham9120]

I really appreciate that you left that part in the last video. I made a comment to my wife about it and we both agreed. Men need to learn these things I loved it!

[@happyhappyjoyjoy6497]

Don’t always feel you have to apologize to the mob. Keep doing your thing.

[@jonathanbrumfield2964]

Head of the household smart enough to follow wife when it comes to finance. A good leader understands others abilities and strengths.

[@amusingbear8762]

I agree, and he told us his wife basically orchestrated the entire sale of the old homestead and purchase of the new one. He’s making a lot of assumptions about that man and his generosity is not pure in this situation. To put it in Christian terms, he is lording it over them.

[@amusingbear8762]

Even though I agree with his general theory of self sufficiency and learning, it should stay theory in the way you treat a stranger. What if the man had a hidden disability or any other infinite possibilities. You assume the best and teach when it’s appropriate, with the method matching the correct interpretation of the person as the information presented to you allows for interpretation, not before.

[@amusingbear8762]

His ego is outrunning his sense and his heart in this situation. I hope he ponders it more deeply.

[@andrewstuart9807]

@@amusingbear8762 thank you, I actually have an "invisible" disability and would be deeply hurt by what he said.

[@livnluframes]

Totally legit to give that guy grief. I can't stand going out of my way to help a man who puts forth no effort to help. I GET IT!

[@jeffgentry6728]

I totally agree with what you said, I'm tired of useless people just expecting people to do things for them.

[@TheDurbinCompound]

I have ran into these same situations and reacted in the exact same way. You're right. There are so many modern men who just don't care to learn how to be self sufficient and it burns me up. It amazes me that so many men are "ok" with being dependent on so many other people to live life. The main reason why I started my KZbin channel, teach the basics and build upon them to become that more self sufficient human!

[@OzMan9989]

From what I can tell, your opinion is justified. It’s natural you’re gonna get dinged on this unfortunately. So be it, I guess.

[@Mikesalloum]

I rewatched the video. Your disgust and anger toward the situation is totally justified. As an east coast man from Montreal I can definitely say that weakness like that is from lack of gratitude and “can do attitude”.

[@DeborahLynn1963]

That could have been a learning moment for the guy, but he let it go to waste.

[@mitchdenner9743]

Probably worried about his manicure and clearcoat. 😆

[@DoctorPrepperMD]

Being devils advocate - he was possibly embarrassed and confused and totally had no idea not only how to help but how to behave when faced with his own ignorance.

[@5150Lane]

If that was the case, then he should've asked, "What can I do to help here". I'm totally lost in this type of situation, but I feel I should help - please tell me what to do." I've had to utter those words myself on more than one occasion - it wasn't enjoyable to admit I didn't know how to help myself, but I have to think it would've been worse if I hadn't helped.

[@chrisolinger2862]

@@5150Lane it is understandable to not know how to do something when it comes to taking care of yourself and loved ones, but once that deficiency is uncovered, relieve yourself from that particular bit of ignorance.

[@MeldinX2]

@@5150Lane Some people are very weak and have no social skills what so ever. Some people don't even have the guts to ask a simple question.

[@trojanman315]

In the words of my father: "Some peoples kids man... you can dress 'um up, but you just cant take 'um out."

[@snoopycomputer]

The Real Reason My Subs Are Seething Mad: Not enough Sweetloaf.

[@thomast8539]

LOL Yes!!!!!

[@VanessaVasquez09]

More sweet loaf

[@davidadams7134]

It didn’t look like he was stuck very bad. I could have pushed that car out.

[@Mikael_Partti]

Yes and it was a god damn subaru wit the best 4wd on the market. You can get that out of anywhere

[@jlf9999]

I watched that video and wondered whether that was a gag or something pulled on you by some friend of yours with a weird sense of humor. I mean NOBODY with a front-wheel drive car gets stuck THAT easy unless he is a complete moron... or a Democrat.

[@Mikael_Partti]

@@jlf9999 dont judge democrats

[@joshuadoyle1224]

Jack would have been well able to push that car out . That man had no clue what to do

[@MegaDirtyberty]

@@Mikael_Partti Audi quattro says hold my 4wd.

[@ioneth1731]

I was raised by my grandmother. I can still shovel my vehicles out of the snow.

[@ashsmashburn]

Thank you for helping them. They obviously needed help, you wouldn't feel good to ever deprive them of that. No good man would. Thanks Wranglerstar family!

He wasn't a grown man... he was an adult male. If he didn't lend a hand or try or ask if he could help... or even asked HOW he can get himself out the next time he gets stuck. I'm on your side... I was thinking "Wait, is the dude just standing there?"

[@ThisTall]

You could almost start a 2nd channel for this type of thing called WranglerRants 👇???

[@dpeagles]

I love his rants.

[@kellyslifeadventures274]

Cody I'm a woman and if it had been me who was stuck, I would have tried to get myself out and then would have asked you how I could help you help me.

[@chrisfleetwood6008]

Sometimes it takes an event like that to make someone realize they have a deficiency. Let's hope he learns from it and corrects the issue.

[@wwdiesel]

Your dialog is spot on! When it comes to young men learning necessary life skills, first and foremost they have got to have a mentor or role model who is willing to teach them and share all that knowledge. And then the young man has got to have the "WANT TO" or desire to learn those life skills... Many of us are so blessed that we had those older men like our dads and others who made sure we leaned so many skills.

[@jlautomotive6349]

I agree with you 100% and I don’t personally feel that you were wrong! I actually chuckled 🤭 when you said it but each and every man needs to learn !!! Love the channel ❤️❤️

[@alexpressley5918]

you could tell she was the head of the relationship. you were talking to her. she was gonna put the car in drive. she asked if she should pack the stuff back up. Society is going that way. I don't care for it. But then again, I'm a 26 year old man and it doesn't play in my favor.

[@the1plantguy]

Yep!

[@eamsden1982]

Women “deeply” want a strong partner, both men and women need partners they can contend with as that’s how you improve yourself as a person.

[@alexpressley5918]

@@eamsden1982 I'm not qualified to say way women want. Cuz ya know, the thing between my legs.

[@c6q3a24]

From the extra context you've just given your reaction was completely justified. And it's not about being a good man, it's about being a good person.

[@darz3]

Who amongst us can say they have never rushed to judgement, I know I can’t

[@jatpack3]

if jumping to conclusions was an Olympic sport I'd be a medalist

[@redwolfmedia1276]

Unfortunately many,many people have been brainwashed to resist the true order of life. I've even had quite a few people that completely think they hate me or despise me for these qualities but yet find themselves oddly attracted to them. Not in a perverse way but they usually end up finding themselves hanging out and overall having some of the most respectful moments or relationships 🤔. I tell them ,"See"! You naturally want a good Leader and respect these qualities even though you've been artificially taught to reject them. Best thing to do is teach and sometimes teaching is not being nice all the time! Thanks for all you do! I've seen young men and women act like that because either they never were made to help or when they did try to help they got chewed out for getting in the way or doing something wrong,etc. . Remember God doesn't always get through to all men and many are just left out of these blessings. Continue to be a Light shining the way forward!

[@ancient_gamerr]

I’m not a religious man but I do share your values. Stay strong in these crazy times.

[@rogerbelanger295]

Same here. I'm not interested in the religious stuff in this channel. But I've learned a lot about tools/forestry/etc. from him. He's a good man.

[@RHECMason]

Damm helping a man who doesn't want to help himself.

[@suspenc34]

you were right, that “man” was incompetent

[@upperprepper8233]

God created women to do everything a man can’t do. We are partners in life.

[@Nathankozak85]

I am with you on this one. These effeminate males today make me mad.

[@charless8641]

I agree with you that this is far too common today, when I see a person in need I try and help, I have found that people have not in all cases but much more often, people seem to have a in titled sense about themselves. Recently I found a couple that the woman had fallen out of her wheelchair at a cross walk, I pulled over and helped her back in and the hole time her husband just stood there yelling like that was going to help. After she was back in and seemed fine, the husband had the nerve to ask me for money also because he wanted to go to the casino. I have become less willing to help people because this is more common lately, I feel bad that the few seem to make it worse for the many. God bless you and your family stay strong and healthy.

[@tonyduque2143]

He said he was raised by two wonderful men, that must be a west coast thing lol.

[@jbrow397]

I laughed to. I know he meant father and grandfather but given the times, that sentence means something totally different now.

[@Stu_DLNGR]

Classy. Mature. Wise. Why I stay subbed.

[@sojournerabroad]

Not sure where the gentleman was from but one may want to look at any possible cultural differences.

[@markBUMP]

No apology needed! I totally agree with you. You were not wrong. They need to Man up!

[@tomkilty3192]

Totally understand where you’re coming from but in retrospect, like you said, maybe you could have mentioned to the guy that to get out of his situation he needed to get the snow out of the way and given him a shovel and “supervised” his work. God bless you and your family and a very merry Christmas as well! Keep up the good work. Love your vids dude.