The Real Reason Why We Aren't Married Yet...

[@chelseabarnts1245]

Please please hear me out, a Christian man waiting this long to want to marry you because he's waiting for some other shoe to drop isn't God. There will never be a right time to get married in this earthly life. The right time is when you are in love, equally yoked, and committed. If he's not there after years of dating, HE IS WASTING YOUR TIME

[@yo9979]

Sometimes people can be in love and it isnt the right time to be in a marriage. They are waiting for God's confirmation

[@richardbranson8117]

I hate to say it but as a Christian man, your right. I like noah schnacky too but there's something else going wrong here.

[@hippychick420]

The imaginary sky daddy? Riveting 😂​@@yo9979

[@ari3lz3pp]

I hate to say it but .......I do think that's good advice. I'm new to this channel to be fair but it's possibly a red flag. My husband didn't want to marry me however ....we had a very bad start but for most of the past decade we have been a very happy couple. We weren't Christians at first though...once we were we agreed to serve one another. So it's odd to me to see a supposed Christian couple that is dragging feet as adults. But he's gone a lot isn't he? He seems possibly too into his own thing. Also if he's Catholic he's not Christian probably....just saying. You can be but once genuinely into the word more it's more likely one will recognize why Catholics is false. 😢

[@xTwinVipersx]

100% Sista!!!!!! 👍👍👍

[@samanthasmiles9112]

I dated my ex for 6 years (we dated 16 - 22 years of age) and waited for it to feel right. It never did. I loved him but God told me no but it took me years to finally listen. I ended the relationship. A few years later I met someone else. On the 2nd date, God told me this man was going to be my husband. We were married 1 year into our relationship. When you're listening to God, it shouldn't be this hard. My husband and I just celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary. When it's God's path, it's easy and smooth. When it's YOUR path, it's anything but smooth. I just get this strong feeling Noah loves K-cup very much but he refuses to admit that she is not the one. Do right by K-cup and LET HER GO. A woman has the MOST options when she is in her 20's. People may hate me for saying this but I PROMISE K-cup will be pissed if this guy leaves her in her 30's. She has EVERY right to put a time limit on whatever it is that Noah is doing. I get that SOME people date for a million years (especially while living together before marriage) but not Christians who are waiting for marriage and have access to the Holy Spirit.

[@MissModernprincess]

SO Many good comments from people who have life experience!!

[@juniperfields7505]

Preach!!

[@thebrokenheartedwoman]

God is clear. God wouldn’t do this.

[@BamaDerry8469]

@samanthasmiles9112 Absolutely after 6 years of dating, that's a long time. But they were friends. Me and my late husband and I were friends. First, we didn't want to admit we had feelings forever because of friendship. But he accepted another job and moved away. He called me about a month, maybe 2, one night, and just said it. I think about you all the time and I missed him terribly and he quite there transferred back and we got married 4 months later. Because he'd been hurt, I had been badly hurt and scared maybe to take the next step. But once that last guard was down. I was never happier in my entire life. So there's many cernios but when when God let's you know. You know it's meant to be. I just wanted to be sure. I never wanted to have hurt like I did b4. I felt safe. He earned my trust.

[@Sydthesloth45]

I agree with you

[@Name-qy9du]

Noah doesn’t want to marry her, but he doesn’t want to let her go, either. Kcup deserves better. She’s such a sweet girl.

[@brittanykarlena]

I’m just confused, because if ya’ll truly LOVE each other and can’t imagine life with anyone else, wouldn’t you want to get married and grow with one another / chase God with one another and grow in your faith? Life is way too short to keep straying someone along and play with their heart/ emotions. I’m beyond blessed and grateful my now husband proposed on our one year and now we’re happily married. Couldn’t imagine still waiting for a ring and wondering if we’re ever going to get married 😅

[@djm322]

I see & hear two things with Noah. First of all when they talk about marriage he acts super nervous. Secondly, he’s using God as an excuse for his timing on marrying her. Neither is a good sign KCup. I’ve said for a long time now that there’s something wrong with Noah. He’s not being completely honest with himself, you, & God. Most likely that’s the reason that he never hears that answer about marriage that he’s waiting for. That’s what I see from the outside looking in. Make sure you protect your heart KCup!

[@sassysucculent6291]

I couldn't agree more. Seems he's more into playing a stoic Christian than truly feeling things out and hearing from God.

[@sassysucculent6291]

I couldn't agree more. Seems he's more into playing a "stoic Christian" than truly listening to God or feeling things out. Definitely something off with him.

[@colourqueen22]

I really hope they never slipped and slept together, which could give him doubts about their future together

[@hippychick420]

​​@@colourqueen22"slipped and slept together" could you imagine having BAD sex for the rest of your life? Also, if THAT is causing his issues, that just proves he doesn't really care about her. It's pretty obvious if everyone is pointing it out.

[@luz5835]

​@@hippychick420Are you a Christian? And living in purity like these kids?

[@clintnamy3]

If you can't imagine life without her then don't be afraid to take the next step.

[@albania329]

It’s not that easy especially when women marry for the money 😂

[@randono213]

@@albania329if you think that kcup would marry specifically for money than you have not watched any of her and Noahs other videos

[@SharonReid-ce1nm]

Are they covering someone up now he's under lilly Kahan and not posting anything but by himself or with Allie so is he already married to Allie Sarah really confusing

[@janeferguson7608]

Crazy idea

[@marniemonfort7719]

@@albania329 kCup makes her own money

[@lyricaltunes2137]

God loves marriage, it honors God, the devil hates it. There will never truly be a “right” “perfect” time for marriage. Once God gives you your person, it’s act on it by FAITH because the devil himself will do ANYTHING & EVERYTHING to stop you from getting married.

[@KY331-b1q]

She needs to move on for someone who really wants to marry her she deserves better

[@marianapereira2130]

Girl, you deserve better! If he wants you in his life he needs to do is part. He wants freedom then he can be free but without you, not just when he feels like it.

[@Desiree-Laine]

👍👏👍👏👍I CANNOT believe she is actually this dumb!!!!🤯🤯🤯

[@marywesley2942]

I wonder if his strange childhood affected him,he said traveling across USA thousands of miles in the car with just his da d missing out on mum and sisters chasing F&F makes him obsessed with wanting to be home. At nearly 28 most men are ready to begin their own little kingdom Kcup deserves everything for her love and patience

[@thebrokenheartedwoman]

@@marywesley2942 except he’s not even living at home he basically has a content house. He doesn’t know if kcup is the one, and that should be his answer.

[@ቤዛእንድርያስ]

Noah you are not special, no one is special, your relationship is not special, we all are special as a Body in Christ. I think waiting this long create sin temptation, she is so beautiful, young, she needs strong figure who knows what he wants and when he wants. Please do right by her. Sometimes we need to be cruel to be kind. I pray for you guys

[@meybemartinez1123]

Dating is not to meant to be a long time !! God wants us to get married to start following his purpose for both of you!

[@lyricaltunes2137]

YEESSSS!

[@xTwinVipersx]

Thank you for sharing this truth! I get so tired of people using the “Gods Timing” excuse to drag a relationship on. 😞

[@albania329]

It’s 2024 men don’t want to get married for a reason because these females only marry for money. If he was a bum they wouldn’t be together but if the woman was a bum they would that’s the difference

[@josie4peace]

Amen! Are they equally yoked? Do they live together? (have never watched a vid, YT recommended)...thanks.

[@danieltakawi9919]

Its different for each couple. There is a purpose for dating and a purpose for marriage. There is a time for marriage and a purpose for marriage. How long should two people date before getting married?

[@victorianewton2426]

Lets be honest, Noah is still stringing Kcup along because she beautiful and complacent, the girl his family would approve of, and it gets him views when they do videos like this. At the end of the day it's pretty clear that, he wants someone more exciting and challenging, someone he can't control so easily. He might like her but he doesn't love her and he is waiting for someone else. He keeps making excuses and putting things off because she's hot. If he really cared about her, he would have put a ring on it already or would have walked away so as not to block her from her potential husband. If God was going for the "eventually brought them back together" story, it would have been one time MAYBE two and it would be sincere. God doesn't yo-yo people like this. These are two grown adults who won't walk away from eachother and both are trying to claim that God is the reason. God is not the author of confusion. This relationship has been on and off for years. Men that care about you don't tell you constantly that they aren't ready for marriage and then continue to hang around you. They get out of the way if they think they aren't the one so that God can bring you the right man. I wouldn't surprised if the woman Noah is waiting on is nothing like Kcup, she probably won't even be blonde. Kcup is a placeholder and if she doesn't decide that she deserves better and the girl Noah really want's doesn't come along like he is hoping, she is going to end up with a "shut-up" ring and have a very unsatisfying marriage. She needs to drop him and never look back. They both need to get off the hampster wheel. Especially Kcup because she is wasting her youth on a man who is never going to find her to be good enough and unlike him, she has biological clock that is ticking.

[@juniperfields7505]

Preach!!

[@lyricaltunes2137]

Never have I ever saw in the Bible the word or the concept of “dating”. It’s us who came up with it as a society. So once God brings two people together, (like he gave the girl the guy, and the guy the girl). They already have the green light to get married. The more you wait for marriage, the more you’re likely to fall into the temptations of the flesh which would lead to fornication. If God is in the relationship, then there’s no such thing as not the right time, or fear. This is about acting on your faith and trust in God that he will be in the relationship when they take that next step into marriage.

[@Eliseu.90024]

You cannot say that if God is in it, there’s no fear. We are still human, living the experiences of our flesh. Even WITH the Lord’s presence, look at all of the trials that every man and woman experienced in the Bible. Their feelings were VERY real and very human; but God was still there. Yes, it is our decision, and God gives us that freedom. But I don’t believe God will punish us for not fully understanding His plans, or maybe taking longer than he would. Why would you rush a couple who is trying to do the right thing? If God IS their center, then why rush? Why criticize? God sees our fears and doesn’t punish us for not “taking the leap yet.” God is a gracious father, and He sees our flaws. It is just our responsibility to make sure that all of our choices honor Him! That’s what I’ve learned. I’m in a 6 year relationship, high school sweethearts, and we aren’t financially stable. There are a lot of things that determine our readiness. And it is a scary step! That’s our humanness, not God’s punishment for taking our time. God is merciful. I really respect your perspective! But I think it’s not true for everybody. God bless you. Yes fear isn’t powerful OVER us, but it doesn’t mean we will never feel it

[@PrincessMajara]

!!! Preach

[@BloomingInMotherhood]

My brother took 7 years to marry his girlfriend, and yes, we his family all pressured and asked why not now, but he said he knew he was going to marry her but was waiting on the time from God. He even had a ring that she didn't know about. They have been happily married for at least 12 years now with 2 beautiful children. Only God should have a say in your relationship and how it should progress.

[@alyssawedemeyer]

Amen 👏🏽👏🏽

[@nitrobitde2609]

Exactly, and because God should have the say, the couples should get married before getting physical with each other.

[@melissalaw6634]

​@nitrobitde2609 AMEN! Things have just always seem off about these two. And they know it too. That's why he has not even proposed yet.

[@BloomingInMotherhood]

@nitrobitde2609 yes. I agree!

[@BloomingInMotherhood]

@nitrobitde2609 one of my friends married his wife because while they were dating the temptation to be physical became too much. He knew he was going to marry her so they didn't wait long. They also went to the courthouse and had a wedding later. They're still happily married 20 years later.

[@marimarxuach7180]

My opinion is that God’s timing is the reason why the two of you met. You already know each other extremely well. I think Noah has cold feet and blames it on timing.

[@CF.]

When you meet the one, you’ll know. No hesitation, no doubt, just love. Good luck on your journey. 💕

[@Eliseu.90024]

I think this can be true for some people!! Life is complicated and there are many things that can cloud our judgement. Not everybody will be doubt-free…think of every other choice you make. Some are simple, some are harder. It’s different for everyone. Hesitation, doubt, and fear are all normal-especially if you’re not blinded by infatuation and unrealistic expectations like so many people these days. Your decision should be driven by the ability to make and DECIDE that choice. Not driven by butterflies and feelings of love. Love is more than a feeling. No disrespect, because your experience may be different! But not everybody just “knows.” That’s not realistic for everybody

[@EricaBaker2023]

​@@Eliseu.90024it's just like what the girl said, when it comes from God, you will know. It's a power you can't deny!!!

[@rebecatorres2859]

I mean no disrespect I think this such an amazing couple and as a supporter for years it hurts to see him say “I THINK I found her” and that “he thinks it’s just a matter of time” when speaking of his lifelong partner like he’s just waiting for someone better to come a long. Like he’s not sure. It feels like he’s just stringing her a long. I hope I’m wrong and he doesn’t break her heart. Truthfully it seems like kcup is ready and just waiting on him to make him happy. Finding your life partner does take time and it’s a serious decision but men typically know when they find the one and don’t really waste time. Also when your abstaining it’s not really recommended to wait long because of temptations.

[@marywesley2942]

100% agreeI we had 60 years married. But would have been heartbroken had he kept making so many excuses and using Gods name as an excuse not to commit [ NOT SURE A LOVING GOD THOUGHT 4 PLUS MONTHS OF NO AFFECTION AT ALL WAS A GOOD IDEA] MOST young men could only dream of getting a girl like KCUP BEWARE

[@lowusua2416]

He doesn't want to marry her. And he's using waiting on God as an excuse. And Christianese about seasons as justification. God says he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor and blessing. There's no extended dating mandate in the Bible. I feel for her because she's giving him lots of years of her life when they both could have gone on to find the person that they feel emphatically sure about.

[@kelcimurphy1651]

That is such a judgmental and wrong comment. When you commit to someone, you always “think” you found the one. There are so many people you will meet in life that you could think could be the one. But there’s not just “one”. There’s choosing. So the fact that he thinks she’s the one, he’s also CHOOSING to think she’s the one. Love is so much about choice. Life is not a fairytale. You take good with the bad and choose to love a person with all of that. So I think his answer was mature and real life. And comments like this make them question themselves when they shouldn’t. It’s their relationship, not anyone else’s.

[@Eliseu.90024]

@@kelcimurphy1651Amen. I think that’s the kind of maturity that God hopes young people have when they enter into the covenant of marriage. Maybe you aren’t religious but I know these two are-but either way, your comment is very realistic!!! 100%

[@jaimeschimmel5065]

You hit it on the spot!

[@wonderexplorer7155]

Yeah, hopefully Kristin reads these comments. I can very much appreciate waiting for God's timing, but when you are a few years out of the college age, if you haven't felt a peace to propose after 2 years of dating (not sure how long they have been dating), that is not a good sign and using God as an excuse. Genesis 1 and 2 show that marriage is the pinnacle of his creation story (before the fall) and it is meant to be taken seriously, but God wouldn't make it unclear for that long. Hopefully she sees she is worthy of a person who sees and cherishes are inner beauty. They meet her and sell their treasure for the pearl.

[@sassysucculent6291]

Yep it sure seems Noah is always trying to change her and make her "better for god" and all this weird crap rather than actually simply loving her and growing together with her. And using God as an excuse.

[@victoriayt1846]

I wholeheartedly agree with this. I question whether they will end up married. Take a page from Carol and Kaleb. Even Austin and Allie seem to have a stronger relationship and guidance from God. JMO

[@TheMissySue]

There’s actually no reason not to be, biblically or if you are praying about it you’d know that. It absolutely does not take 3 years to know. I pray kcup doesn’t keep settling for this, you deserve someone who’s so sure about marrying you tomorrow. That’s why she’s questioning it! She would say yes to you tomorrow, or 2 years ago

[@Frenchie_wolf]

I don't see them ending up together. I hope it is not true because I love them together. It just a feeling. I don't know. No haters because I am a total anchor and Koah fan!

[@marybillington8235]

Why is Carol and Caleb married so quickly but Noah/Kcup and Allie/Austin are still stuck in the middle of nothing but God hasn’t given you the word? Really? ❤ 19:12

[@Zzz3331]

🙄🙄🙄 if he wanted he would! And Carol is a great example if he knew you were the one he wouldn't wait. I feel bad for you because at this point your being manipulated. And don't shoot the messenger you guys click baited this for two years and still nothing happened. Idk what else you expect

[@samanthasmiles9112]

💯

[@janeferguson7608]

Yes and Noah said he thinks he’s found the one in Kcup. I would be feeling very insecure and annoyed

[@jons9218]

She seems like a difficult person, it's clearly not all is fault.

[@Gigi-Juliana]

@@janeferguson7608I noticed that as well

[@xTwinVipersx]

This 👆👆👆 …is correct!

[@RandyChilds-q2d]

Noah you need to put a ring on her finger and continue together as a couple,the best is yet to come,waking up beside your love is something special.

[@AmaraDavis-fu3bv]

It doesn’t take years to know who you want to marry.

[@courtneyawalsh]

Correct.

[@sharonemm56]

He'll NEVER marry you or any of be because he's not mature enough. In one breath he says he'd marry you in an instant and in the next he says it's not time yet. He's still a man child. Kcup you should give him until December to propose. If he hasnt by then, LEAVE HIS ASS. (unless you're codependent on him)

[@sharonemm56]

Unless this is also a business relationship and you're just stringing along your viewers for the $$ bag. And if that's the case, that's a shitty thing to do.

[@usernametaken99341]

I dont know who hurt you but it wasnt the guy in the video so maybe go to therapy instead of making decisions on people you dont know.

[@sharonthomas7073]

I am not pushing or expect people to marry before they are ready,but as a Christian,marriage is an important sacrament, that should not be played with. No man or woman on this earth is perfect, no relationship is perfect,. If you get a perfect husband or wife there will be no room for growth nor lessons to learn. Sometimes can be positive or negative.,However,what is beautiful about this journey ,is how you handle the situation when it happens. God is not here to call the righteous but he is here to call sinners to his glory. Marriage show respect and honor to both God and your significant other. Sorry guys ,marriage should be a beautiful thing ,neither the guy or girl entering this phase should be placed on trials .Trust in lord,no doubt and fear ,no overthinking. God cannot choose your partner for you,.You choose and your faith will be your proof of God's love. Please don't waste time,life is too short.

[@MissModernprincess]

Dear KCUP, you seem to have a lot of empathy, he seems not to. You seem understanding of his struggles and needs, but does he do the same for you? I dated a man like your boyfriend. I am naturally attracted to these kinds of men, being a recovering codependent and it's not easy. I remember being in love with him and him using God and religion for his bad behavior and the power of forgiveness to keep forgiving him over and over because the bible teaches to forgive 77 times...that's what narcissism does, takes the word of God twists it and re-sells it to us...all of us..codependents especially who are willing to be a groupie for them. I grew up with a distant father. Most people who had no father figure end up in relationships like the one you are in. I am not a hater of your relationship. I am writing this so that you can save yourself. I know Noah won't read the comments, but Kcup does, because she is made of the same kind that we are : An empathetic woman, perhaps codependent, but most importantly one who forgives 77 times. Finally, are you a God opportunity or a good opportunity for him?

[@LVASHLEY]

How is it that Carol and Caleb got married before you, yet you’re not even engaged? If you two are in love like you say you are, then why is marriage so difficult for you guys? There’s never a “prefect moment”, so act on your faith and go for it. Everything else will follow…

[@nicoleprocopio9104]

Exactly

[@naomid0226]

Let them be ! Let them do it when they’re ready don’t rush or pressure them . God and ONLY God will tell them when to do it . God’s guidance is best . Last thing they are going to do is conform to the world of when it says it’s time to get married . They will get married when God tells them . Gods timing is better and best .

[@LVASHLEY]

@@naomid0226 I am a firm believer in God’s timing, but God also gave us the ability to make our own decisions. In no way am I pressuring them, however, they talk a lot about faith, but seem to be unwilling to act on their faith. Time goes by fast, so why not cherish these moments as husband and wife and learn together?

[@sinapenkubana517]

Love it isn't the only thing to base on while deciding to get married! According to what I have heard from this vlog "they're afraid" and that is not bad fear tho!! It's a good one! To be sure of what u are going to do! They don't want to rush into something they think will not last forever! Because, people in this days, they are getting marriage for divorce without knowing🤦 due to people are pushing them because they think they know everything while they know nothing! For us Christians marriage should be a big decision to make by knowing what God wants to produce from our Union🙏

[@Radiant_Glow8]

If you rush something very important to you, it’s not gonna go well. especially if God doesn’t want it to happen yet and He hasn’t giving Noah and Kcup the green light yet

[@stephaniekaye8515]

Yeah girl you deserve better! Your amazing and you need a man who doesn’t wNt to let you go! ❤

[@lisas2538]

He will date her for years and never marry her. They will break up and he’ll meet someone and marry them in 6 months. I’ve seen it happen many times. He doesn’t want to marry her. He needs to tell her. They can date and be a couple without any expectation. Good luck!

[@ari3lz3pp]

"If life isn't fun I'm not happy"..."I'm only fun on this"....maybe it's a bad joke but he seemed too genuine about it. Eek. This guy seems like most today, slow to grow up. He didn't seem to not like the idea of them being married eventually....but he's maybe too soy/lavender addicted. LOL 😂 Lavender legit can mess with your endochrine system. It's in a lot of men's shampoo now.

[@PrimBunnie]

i loved when Noah was talking about there's a difference between not having peace in a situation and having discomfort in a situation!! That's such a good point. Thanks for the advice, i really enjoyed watching thissss😊

[@LVASHLEY]

I get it, but stepping out on faith causes discomfort. We don’t learn and grow until we get uncomfortable. It sounds like an excuse to me, but hey to each their own.

[@Desiree-Laine]

Oh please. He had to come up with some BS, to continue to keep stringing her along, and what ever fools watching that still believes it.SMH.

[@PrimBunnie]

@@LVASHLEY i thought that's what he was saying. That stepping out in faith will be uncomfortable. He was saying some people use that as an excuse saying they "don't have peace" when in reality peace isn't about current circumstances. Like his point and your point i think are the same? Or maybe i mis understood you lol

[@kimnycz6329]

Wise beyond your years, being an example for this generation showing you don’t need to conform to what the world says is the right time but only looking to God and what he has for your relationship!! Thank you both for letting us be apart of this beautiful love story of y’all’s it been such a pleasure to watch you two grow into the man and woman of God you are!!!

[@FernandoMartins-tm9gw]

Noah and Kcup, God loves marriages! Just be honest with each other and with yourselves about if you guys really love each other and if you guys do wanna get married. I am saying this because its better if you guys are honest to one another and break up than to be waiting eternally. (This is not a hate comment, this is just a pro truth, honesty and transparency comment)

[@SusanneCarolineHoff-od2vr]

It's all about what God wants not what they wants. I love them as a coupple (even if I feel Kristen is far from ready!! She needs to be alone with God to HEAL). But..I always knew they were not right for eachother. And I really wish they were. But also, It could be Gods timing. Regardless I have never been wrong, this is just not Gods will. Sad but true.. I have prophetics gifts and never been wrong. Only ppl who walk in the spiritual world should speak out. Of course in the "world" it's "just get married, you love eachother!" Well it's bigger then that..

[@JaneFerguson-zl9yd]

when you know you know. how many seasons do you need. Also, "waiting for marriage" for many years must be very difficult. Anyway, each to their own.

[@joby3965]

Overnight? Rushing?? lol it’s been literal years. If y’all are not ready now- what in the world? We are NOT supposed to ask for and look for signs from God- get married and work hard on a God filled and centered life.

[@ArrantBliss]

I super love these two but I feel like Noah is not feeling K-CUP anymore but still doesn't want to let her go. Its like he's confused .Its like he had so many expectations that were never met .

[@justfacts9649]

Its not Gods timing. Its the timing of your brains, he would never punish a marriage so dont state things like that as if getting marriage is against his will. No, its against YOUR will.

[@albania329]

😂 stfu not gods timing he’s not real goofy and she just seems desperate that’s the issue 😂

[@Thehartsfields]

I’m one of your fans and I truly try and believe God has a different plan and He works through His own time. However, there will never be a perfect time. The enemy causes “confusion,” and marriage gives a commitment forever to work and change together. If Noah is this confused for different reasons, I question if he will keep leading her on and then find the one he jumps into marriage. Take it from me, I waited and would have waited on this one guy. He never intended on marrying me. He went back to his elementary sweetheart. Men usually do know, especially after 2 years.

[@jasongaray2764]

I am learning about your father, and I truly feel for you and your family. He was a hero, and was brave to risk his life to save others in a time of despair, terror, and destruction. God bless you all. 🇺🇸🧑‍🚒

[@carlszydlowski9828]

Me and my late wife dated for just shy of 3 years before we became engaged. We married after just over a year later. She left ( passed into Heaven ) after 28 years. She was brought to Heaven to completely heal her

[@tikaponsel7004]

Amen

[@alexusjohnson2610]

I wouldn't sit around and wait just because somebody isn't making me a priority.

[@Desiree-Laine]

👍👏👍👏👍👏

[@Sbullo]

It always ends bad….

[@LoriB11]

Loved this vlog because there is nothing more beautiful than seeing you and Noah happy. Your relationship is such a great example of how to be committed to each other without worrying about the outside influences. Thank you for sharing with us an update on your love story. Watching this it's obvious that you both are exactly where you are meant to be. Can't wait to see the next vlogs!

[@vanessabalderas870]

Noah coming in with a whole sermon( God opportunities vs. good opportunities) 😂😂 preach it!

[@twistedhearts96]

Does Noah have his own channel ? ( sorry iim new 🤦🏻‍♀️ )

[@chaelayankah808]

@noah schnacky

[@pietwouters2019]

😊1ww33⅓ ​@@twistedhearts96

[@randono213]

Please remember that the waiting season does not mean to sit still and do nothing. It’s a time of progression even more towards the Lord ;) love you guys!

[@PrincessMajara]

Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't let noah block you from the man of God that God has ordained and prepared for you!!!! Noah just might be a man of God, but maybe he isn't your man of God! . Girl, Leave❤

[@movingmontanas5054]

When you know you know I don’t think he knows tho

[@shawnharney7176]

Everyone that truly follows you both and watch what's going on knows when good things are going on and stressful things are going on between both of you. We do not judge, we do not show hate, we might try and help in some form or another, but most of all we stay loyal and on yall side and show love and support and compassion. And everyone that knows of me I'll do my best to protect you both as I can along with others, don't get me wrong, we that are true love to heckel and throw little cracks in about proposal and marriage dont do it for hate but out of love and being silly. But we do love you both and together your love for each other is definitely supported and fruitful thru God. This was a fun and delightful vlog as always. Kcups vlogs always great. O and little Easter eggs are always something we see it's the when and where we wait for. Keep doing what you both are doing and on your terms no one else's. We love you both 🌛🔙⚓️❤️

[@maureenblandford41]

You always know what the majority of us are thinking and you say it with such grace . Thank you Shawn

[@diverbob8]

Kristin, you really need to examine your priorities....ask yourself if this guy is ever going to put your needs first....

[@sassysucculent6291]

Never will. He will always put his own first no matter what, and claim it's "God". I love the lord don't get me wrong. But Noah ain't it.

[@KP-nk7fo]

This couple makes me uncomfortable with how much they’re trying to fake being happy with each other. Noah is still correcting K cup, the beginning was just so uncomfortable and isn’t erased by a more giddy ending. I think yall both know you aren’t right for each other and that’s why you haven’t made any serious steps.

[@gretaneufeld4338]

Pretty sure you don't know noah sarcasm very well 😂😂

[@zoey-cw1yn]

no but i get what ur saying, it’s almost like they use god to avoid things? like “god will tell me this, god will tell me that”. but if you really know something in your heart you’ll do it. there’s something def lacking. i’m a newish watcher but i’ve seen their older videos and they seem to have the exact same convos over and over

[@gretaneufeld4338]

If they make you so comfortable while you're watching then bye 👋 no need to be navigate 😡

[@gretaneufeld4338]

​@zoey-cw1yn so I see you are a troll using 2 account 🤣 😂 🤦‍♀️kcup does not deserve this hate is there life if there happy that's all thats matters

[@gretaneufeld4338]

​@@zoey-cw1ynThere were doing the same thing before they started dating have a God Timing. is aways the right choice have a blessed day 🙏

[@monig_11]

loved this so much…your honesty, the way you both pursue God in everything you do, and your over all genuine conversations is a breath of fresh air in the world we live in. Thank you for showing others you can stay true to yourself no matter what or who is watching. Love you both so much and I feel blessed to know you. 🤍🤍

[@MbongisaVoyi-s1y]

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not into your own understanding and he will make your way prosper". Proverbs 3:5-6

[@colourqueen22]

When she said the title of the video he got so uncomfortable, drank water and changed his posture to try and convince us, her and himself that it's because he doesn't want some "short-term social media relationship" 😕 come on now, Noah

[@lexischlagenhaft]

YOU ARE GLOWING KCUP! 🌙🦕❤️ So happy that the VLOGS ARE BACK!

[@chantelouellette1152]

Sweet Vlog ❤ You both look incredibly happy and we all know it’s only gonna get better for both of you. Thanks for sharing your beautiful love story ❤

[@TimelessnessGrant-ux7kw]

This is the kinda guy, most dads scare away from there daughters

[@StacieF80808]

Don’t waste a woman’s fertile years. If she is not the one, move on.

[@MissModernprincess]

Yesss

[@krisa27]

Right! Especially since she said she wants to be a young mom yet he still says even if they get married they will have to wait for some years

[@tinamauldin2413]

Loved the vlog and love the update! At the end of the day it dosent matter what any of us think! It’s your relationship between you 2 and God! Thank you for sharing with us ❤

[@chi-802]

I agree 100%

[@olgasemenyuk8157]

To all of my young people, God is not against marriage. God created marriage. God created man and woman and has intended for us to marry and reproduce from the very beginning. Dating is a concept of man not a concept of god. dating leads to sin and sexual immorality. It’s not a question of “is getting married an opportunity from god”, it’s a question of is this the right person. And once you find the right person, then you get married. On the contrary god does not allow sexual immortality. That is sin and anything sinful will not enter the kingdom of God. God says FLEE from temptation ! The holy scriptures give us lots of direction, such as don’t be unequally yolked. That one’s pretty simple , it’s evaluating the person to see if they are headed in the same direction as you are. Another Example: Isaac and Rebekah: Isaak wanted a sign from god, he prayed and said “the girl who will give water to all of my camels is the one” He then STEPPED OUT IN FAITH and married the girl who gave water to his camels. The Bible says that We cannot please god with ought living by faith. Isaak prayed and asked god for a sign, he believed that God is faithful and he will keep his end, he did not receive a thundering voice saying this is the one when he saw her. Obviously I abbreviated this Bible story, but the message stays the same. Ask for a specific sign, fast , and then step out in faith. Anyways I really hope this helps someone and gives you clarity and peace . ❤

[@tikaponsel7004]

Agree. God is Good

[@rosesrred61]

There's no such thing as DIVORCE!!!! AMENNNN

[@lovehorses7615]

Please don't listen to all the mean comments. You guys are being honest and sharing the truth. You're relationship is so beautiful and it inspires me everyday.

[@Joy-od7xo]

My favorite kind of vlogs from you two. Felt like I am sitting across from you with my coffee and we are just chatting about life❤Only thing missing for me was a part of that sandwich, looked delicious! Love you two, love how you live your lives together❤

[@marianapereira2130]

Kcup, I fear you going to end up like me, single forever! I born in the same month and day as you, and my boyfriend was born in the same month as Noah, just days apart, and that man spend years saying that he wanted to marry me, we even had children, 25 years passed and no marriage. I decided I deserved better and decided to leave him only to be blamed for everything. He said that it was my fault for not getting married, he said I should have booked and arranged everything wish I felt really really disappointed. No engagement, but I was expected to do everything on my own and force a man to marry me, sorry but no. It takes two to tango etc When we fall in love we give everything to that person, but people like Noah love freedom more than anything else. Yes , they want you in their lives but not all times, just when it please them.

[@kl4888]

If they didn’t allow themselves to spend so much time alone with (each other), holding hands, hugging, telling each other their strengths and weaknesses, etc. before marriage they wouldn’t be dragging this relationship out. They are so entwined in each other’s lives(by appearance in videos) that to break up would be near devastating. I’m wondering if the whole thing is a prank on their viewers. Becoming husband and wife would certainly change the focus of their lives. If it’s not the time then don’t be messing with your emotions etc and back off the playtime. (Anyway, just checking in to see how things are going and finding out they’re still circling the mountain.) When you know who God has for you to marry, you have the rest of your lives to get to know each other as you become one. Just tying the knot doesn’t make you one, it’s just the start of your journey. And, most of all, the value placed on the commitment you make when you take your vows (based on Jesus) is what holds you together when life brings trials and tribulations.

[@LondonHerring-c2b]

ANOTHER VLOG!!! FINALLY

[@sumwhere08]

Noah had a whole word!! That good vs. God opportunities part was needed! Whew 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@samanthasmiles9112]

"We're not rushing anything." No kidding. 😂

[@SmithAndy24]

I'm starting to think he truly doesn't love her and she is wasting her time!! She is a Queen and he's obviously not her King!!

[@marywesley2942]

God blessed millions 0f marriages just wonder why he would pick out NOAH SHNACKY and not allow him to Just propose very odd or is it just a holding tacktic. Jacob and Julia had permission after a year NORMAL

[@alishamullen5921]

I agree​@@marywesley2942

[@Pacific21]

I believe God brought you together for a reason. Thats a sign by God that you are on the road to marriage. But, If you feel God brought you together, it may be a sign that you're on the right path toward marriage. However, being ready also involves understanding each other well, sharing similar values, and being able to communicate openly. It's important to discuss your goals and expectations for the future together. Trusting in God’s guidance and taking the time to grow as a couple can help you both determine if now is the right time for marriage. Waiting for God to answer about your readiness for marriage is a time for prayer and reflection. Focus on strengthening your relationship, communicating openly, and growing as individuals. Trust that God will provide clarity in His timing, helping you both recognize when you're ready to take that step together.

[@connieyearout5950]

Love that you guys share these special vlogs with us! I also admire you both for taking your time to work on your relationship and not rush into marriage. When God has given his blessing and it’s time for the proposal just know it will be one of the happiest days of your lives ❤️❤️❤️

[@chellebelle1595]

So much love and happiness in this vlog!!! Can’t wait to see what happens next in your story❤️❤️❤️ P.S. you guys need to try the new Diet Dr Pepper with coconut next

[@waynemiller7692]

Love seeing guys and how you will not let people pressure you, keep showing people that it is all in GOD’s time not mine 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@chelseymartinook474]

I loved this vlog!! I loved the honesty and reminds me the most love and admire about you. I just love seeing you so happy and grateful for sharing your love story with us❤

[@Abby-24]

Love seeing you both so happy 🤍 Such an amazing vlog, missed koah vlogs

[@kimnycz6329]

Love you 2 can’t wait for everything to come together in this next season for yall, noah that sandwich looks quite good I have to say!! And yall got my hooked on the spiced Coke Zero thanks!!!

[@elisestokes6961]

Cheering you two on in God individually and together if that's what God has for you. Proud of you Kristen for holding onto God when you didn't have a dad growing up.

[@tamaradragojlovic1155]

Every time I listen to Noah talking I get surprised all over again by how smart and full of wisdom he is.

[@joannemoore-ke9ue]

Such a sweet vlog, love seeing happy koah❤️

[@nicolefisher9199]

Thanks for the update, wishing you both all the best!

[@Cimfamm]

Hey kcup, I doubt you will see this but I just wanted to let you know that you may want to blur out your numbers on your house at the beginning of the video because there are creepers in this world that may try to find your address.

[@meybemartinez1123]

I’m sorry to say this, but when God puts you together. There is nothing that can stop it. Marriage is such a honor to God. It is something important and if he really loves you, he would have married you by now. You guys are not really meant to be. Maybe both of you are stopping what God has really plan for. Please pray and ask God for direction to see if both will take same path or part different ways.

[@Tarahlindsay]

I say move on it’s not meant to be

[@ericapeterson3748]

I'm glad you guys are taking your time to grow and develop before you get engaged ❤

[@janewright1126]

Love this so much and thank you KCup and Noah for sharing and your honesty is amazing ❤ Gods Timing ❤

[@jordanemi]

I relate to you so much. Me and my family recently moved away from our home overseas without knowing the future. Moved back to the US for a short, unknown time. We've been traveling all across the country, living out of suitcases for months. It's a genuine struggle to get into the word and desire to know God's heart. Feel for you girl!

[@Paola-lc2sh]

It’s not relatable it’s annoying 😂 if he wanted to he would

[@Nina_Lohr24]

Thank you so much for sharing!!! You two are a true inspiration to all of us!!! ❤

[@sandrasheppard7039]

Love this vlog so much KCUP you guys look so happy! You and Noah just keep doing what you’re doing!

[@lisaprice6389]

Yah!! So happy to see this vlog! Looking forward to seeing the next one.❤

[@saratompkins7304]

Loved this vlog so much ❤️!! Cant wait to see the house tour..

[@joshuamarino3087]

Love seeing you guys so happy, God has such a big plan for you!

[@alyssawedemeyer]

Me and my husband were together for 3 years before getting married, and we saw all of our friends get married and have kids in the time we were dating. We knew we wanted to get married, but waited until God gave it the green light. Had a 3 month engagement and were truly blessed for waiting. It’s easy to assume from the outside looking in, but Gods timing truly is best, and sometimes He calls us to wait! Proud of you guys and praying blessing over you!❤

[@wintererycp]

So sweet,,, some how, that left me full of anticipation… 🥰! Love you both!

[@jodiekingsbury1172]

Loved this so much. Glad the vlogs are back.

[@DebCanada54]

Oh How we miss these Vlogs. As always we thank you both for always sharing with us. Kudos on your Sandwich Skills Noah...

[@Jen_Pearson]

You guys are so amazing and I love seeing your relationship grow in love and a Godly way. Thank you for this Vlog and its content. It has given a new understanding on how to grow even in seasons where I struggle. Love you both❤ and Team Koah Forever ❤

[@maryjackson2946]

AWESOME VIDEO, Y'ALL LOOK SO HAPPY. YALL ARE VERY TAN, HAWAII IS DEFINITELY YALL'S SECOND HOME. I KNOW THAT THE RENOVATIONS ARE GOING TO BE AMAZING. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS. 🙂🙏🏿✝️❤

[@pamelabell5897]

Noah Could Be A Preacher Because He Sure Can Preach It, KCup You Have Been Missed On KZbin So Glad To See You Are Back, I've Been Where You Was Talking About Being Distant From GOD KCup But Knowing That His Word Says He Will Never Leave Us Or Nor Forsake Us, GOD KNOWS OUR HEART'S HE LOVES HIS CHILDREN, K CUP WHEN WILL YOU AND NOAH BE A GUEST ON ALLIE AND COLBY PODCAST? ❤❤❤️

[@MissHopeless1997]

I've been catching up with allie,austin,carol and everybody but when i was watching Noah's video the Forever,together my eyes teared up (two times,and that rarely happens to me)..i am so happy for you guys ❤ I've been watching you since your beginning on YT, I had a rough two years and lost touch for a while (around when Colby disappeared on yt) but i am so happy to see you guys again ❤️❤️❤️ 🌹

[@joyrachelfinn]

Awe! We missed you guys, love to see you so happy together 🤍 can’t wait for what’s next!

[@kaitlynblackmon753]

Loved this vlog, thank you for sharing y’all’s relationship with us. Can’t wait to see the next vlogs!! 🤍🤍