The Reality Of Being An International Couple [AMWF]

[@MilarMemories]

잃어버린 댓글을 찾습니다! ㅎㅎ 엄청엄청 길게 작성해주셔서 필라랑 저랑 잘 읽어 보았습니다. 솔직한 감정과 경험을 공유해주셔서 정말 감사드리고 저랑 비슷한 또래이셨던것 같은데 저도 힘내보겠습니다. 항상 응원해주시면서 가끔 댓글달아주시면 반가울것 같아요 :) 다시한번 감사드립니다.

[@bryanstrider]

¡Oye! Buena suerte, Minyong y Pilar. Mantente ferme. Love from Sydney 🇦🇺, Elena 🇪🇸 y Bryan 🇲🇾

[@candleproducer]

4주전에 쓴 글이네. 지금 댓글을 달았어요. 꼭 보세요. 진심으로 쓴 글이니,,,,,

[@richard202]

We're an international couple too.. Husband is Asian and I'm french...married for 18 years and 4 beautiful biracial kids ....it wasn't easy at all ..I lost friends because they didn't like him because he was Asian. My father still doesn't accept him. If you truly love each other. You will overcome everything and anything... Me and my husband enjoy your videos because it reminds of us when we first me. I moved to his country to be with him .I spent all my money on the plane ticket and came with just one piece of luggage. It wasn't easy but worth it. Remember...lots of people are cheering for you mantenerte fuerte :)

[@churleeable]

👏👏👏

[@연랑-s5z]

Your husband is a lucky guy

[@johns80schick]

I like Pilar's plan. Minyong should take a month off and go to Korea, after getting the visa and finishing his dissertation. He will come back with a fresh head. Then stay in London for 2 years to gain some work experience and earn your permanent residency visa. I am sure its hard for Minyong being away from Korea all this time. I remember it really helped Pilar to go home for a month.

[@jovkhone9785]

I guess this is a serious matter for you, and perhaps to any other couples around the world. You two being an international couple brought you many opportunities but also hardships such as this too. I can see Minyong and Pilar both try to consider each other despite the painful dilema you two are goind through which I think is great. But I hope you two don't see this as a zero sum game where one choice would mean a sacrifice from the other. Against all odds, I think there should be a way you two could both strive in one's career. There could be a foreign country willing to accept both of you and give good job opportunites, or there could be a job offer along the road that you guys didn't notice yet. I'm sure you guys are still looking for options which would benefit both of you, but please keep looking and when the time comes for you to make a decision, keep an open mind for every options on the table. I'm also sure most of your subscribers root for both of you being happy. The cureent situation might be painstaking but I'm sure "Milar" would find a solution.

[@jovkhone9785]

Also, I would consider using this channel as a way to "PR" or present yourselves as jobseekers to potential employers out there. There could be sponsers or MNCs willing to hire you if you two present yourselves with the potentials you have which I think is huge 😃.

[@MilarMemories]

Haha thank you so much for your comment and advice, we really appreciate it 😭💛

[@genevieveshaun]

I have the same struggle. My Korean boyfriend and I (Singaporean) were living together in London. I was living in London for the past 4 years and I moved back to Singapore a few months ago (well it was a holiday at first then it became permanent) because of the covid situation... my boyfriend came to Singapore with me on a tourist visa for 3 months, then he had to go back to Korea. Now we are in a long distance. It is very difficult for him to get a job in Singapore because Singapore companies are not issuing any foreign work visas at the moment, even his previous company (he used to work in Singapore) cannot hire him. So..... we are in dilemma. I received a couple of job offers in Singapore and I have signed a one year lease with an apartment here so I have to here. Our last option, like you guys, is for him to work in Seoul for a year or two, and we visit each other as often as possible (6 hours plane journey, not a short journey, not cheap either). But we really do not want to do that because we were already in a long distance for more than one year before we were living in London. Thanks for sharing your experiences, it is kinda nice to know that we are all in this together, as international couples

[@MilarMemories]

Good luck! I hope everything solves itself your you guys too!

[@beatrizherrero1804]

Guys, maybe if the uk doesn't work out you should think about moving to the Netherlands it's easier for foreigners to get a qualified job and they use a lot of English, and also corona wise things aren't that bad so it shouldn't interfere too much.

[@MilarMemories]

Yeah, it's one of our options since we've heard many things about it! But we've heard from some acquaintances that without knowing Dutch getting a proper job could be tricky, but still!

[@beatrizherrero1804]

@@MilarMemories Te escribo en español que me expreso mejor. El tema del holandés depende un poco del sector, mi hermana es ingeniera informática y ya ha estado en 3 empresas distintas y todas en ingles y su novio es brasileño e igual ha estado en un banco y ahora en temas de marketing y todo en ingles. Y todos sus amigos mas cercanos son extranjeros y todos tienen trabajos cualificados y 0 holandés. También tengo entendido que si tienes un trabajo cualificado y eres extranjero tienen una ayuda fiscal en la que te retienen menos impuestos y también existen pisos de renta mas baja para los que están buscando trabajo. De todas formas si que he escuchado que con todo lo del coronavirus están intentando contratar gente que esté ya en holanda, pero bueno en unos meses cuando todo se calme si os animáis podéis mirar por Internet ofertas mientras esperáis lo de la visa. Siento el parrafazo. Animo chicos!

[@MilarMemories]

@@beatrizherrero1804 Muchas gracias por todo de verdad, nos ha servido mucho tu ayuda 💛💛

[@HeavenlyHeII]

I was going to comment the same. I’m living in The Netherlands already and I know plenty of foreigners who live here with just English. You can easily find a job in any field, with good salary. Only finding a house is a difficult thing. Honestly, I don’t know how the things are now with the virus, but if I were you, I would really consider this option :) buena suerte!!!

[@fatisummer9106]

@@HeavenlyHeII maybe for her as EU resident but for him getting a visa is hard he only get 90 days to get a job

[@marlenedeleeuw5508]

I feel like I am your Grandma. You have outlined your problem very well! Your first decision is: Is your relationship worth fighting for? Is your relationship your number one priority? If no Breakup! Minyon goes home to Korea. You stay in the UK and get your permanent visa in 2 yrs time. A long distance relationship with no end date will just lead to heart ache for you both. If Yes: Then get the couple’s visa for Minyon. He should go home for a month maximum and you need to go with him! Come back , set up your lives. Minyon will find work with a more positive attitude. You will find work in your field. The two of you need to learn each other’s languages. This will open up a lot more opportunities going forward. International relationships are challenging but also so very rich. My parents were one. Hugs to you both!

[@jongyunchoice3984]

제 여자친구도 스페인사람이라 저는 한국에 여자친구는 스페인에서 장거리 연애를 하고 있어요. 저희는 반년에 1번씩 서로 가서 2~3주 정도 같이 시간을 보내면서 연애를 이어가고 있어요. 물론 코로나 때문에 못만나고 있지만ㅠㅠㅠ 제가 연애 초에 여자친구한테 했던말이 있어요. '앞으로 우리가 같이 살아갈 날은 몇십 년이 될거야 지금 당장 우리가 헤어져 있는 2~3년보다 훨씬 긴 시간이야 우리 같이 견뎌보자' 물론 주제넘은 소리이지만 저희 둘은 잘 버텨내고 있습니다. 만약 두분께서 장거리 연애를 하시더라도 힘이 되었으면 좋겠습니다.

[@MilarMemories]

감사합니다. 사실 함께할 몇십년을 생각하면 당연히 짧은 시간이니까 잘 극복해봐야겠어요. 응원댓글 정말 감사드려요. 힘이 납니다!!

[@scottsmit1115]

On the plus side both of you think alike. Both are wearing matching shirts.

[@MilarMemories]

😂😂 TRUE!

[@clairekim5820]

Being in an international relationship+LDR, I can relate to this so much.My humble opinion is dont be afraid to sacrifice/lose what each of you have if that's what takes to be together. If language& career is important and you cannot make an agreement on where to live even after a long discussion, you actually are prioritizing the language/career over your relationship and it is a big sign that your relationship probably will be ended. It's extremely unfair for international couples to go through this, including me &my bf, but that's what happens to a lot of us and we cant avoid it :(. I will pray for you so that you make the best decision that both of you agree on!

[@KoCoCouple_]

I’m agree with you. As international couples we have to make sacrifices and difficult choices. It’s not fair at all.

[@marikainho8211]

Wow definitely a struggle I can relate to! Except I've had a student visa in korea and now that it's gone we really have to try to find a plan for our future... I had to come back to Poland and getting a visa to Korea is pretty much impossible right now... Finding a country to stay in as an international couple is so hard... Wish you good luck ㅠㅠ

[@luke-ql8pk]

sound like it's not easy for all of international couples who are supposed to decide what to do next step for future. Hopefully, u guys are able to overcome the currently complicated situations and find the best solution for........good luck.

[@MilarMemories]

Thank you 😊

[@xocxox]

두 분은 지금 당장은 함께 지내는 것보다 자신들의 커리어 쌓기를 더 원하시는 것 같네요. 그렇다면, 덜 후회할 일은, 일단 각자의 삶을 살아보는 거라 생각합니다. 장거리 연애를 하다 보면 그 과정에서 서로가 평생을 함께하고 싶은지, 아니면 어쩔 수 없이 소원해질 수 도 있겠죠. 영국도 외국인 취업이 어렵지만 한국도 지금 취업은 굉장히 어렵습니다. 게다가 코로나까지 겹쳐서..

[@MilarMemories]

다 어렵죠 ;) 그래서 사실 함부로 떨어지기도 쉽지않네요 ㅠ.ㅠ

[@J.H_Bang]

두분 상황이 비자문제도 있고 직장이나 그런 문제들로 많이 힘드시겠네요. 저는 비자도 잘 모르고 해드릴수 있는건 두분 응원해드리는거 밖에 없네요. 무슨일이 있어도 서로를 믿으시면 될거 같습니다. 힘내세요.!!!

[@MilarMemories]

지호님 이번에도 빠른 댓글 감사합니다 :) 응원댓글을 보며 에너지를 정말 많이 받습니다. 필라랑 같이 잘 헤쳐나가 봐야죠!

[@mar___664]

Espero que os vaya genial, os mando muchos ánimos, ya que es una situación muy complicada. Orearé por vosotros. Dais muy buen ejemplo y parecéis personas maravillosas, ojalá vaya todo bien. 💕

[@KoCoCouple_]

My husband and I went trough something similar years ago. We met while studying abroad and I had just graduated from university. I ended up following him to Korea. And even though now I feel like it was worthy, it was very difficult to adapt to live here at first. We had to make many difficult decisions in order to stay together. We as international couples sure have a lot of challenges that other couples don’t even think about. I wish you guys luck and wisdom in your journey.

[@sevilush]

I have a wild idea.. u love each other...u are living like a married couple..and u both want to stay in london..and u see a future together.. pilar can stay because of her EU passport right? ( i have one too) how about getting married? Not the ceremony and stuff as u just finish university and probably not financially there..but on papers... it can fix the residency problem..and it will fix minyong visa status which will help with finding a job.. But its a Wild idea that u can think of :) 😃 I hope u don't get discouraged...finding a job in this pandemic is hard all around the world...I'm searching 5 months now..what does minyong degree in? If u are an engineer of something i think u can find a job everywhere! Or you can start with a job that isn't in your profession until the market will be better.. i saw even High Tech people here that works in whatever just to get by... because corona virus is killing our economy.. I hope u will find a solution that will make both of u happy.. but remember that someone should sacrifice a little for it to work ⚘

[@Oliviaheckel]

I also think like that and it would be more easy if you move to an European country. Cause England would be difficult cause of brexi. Also like the comment form holand, the Nordic countries have more English options.

[@fatisummer9106]

yes i think getting married is the best option for them

[@BaboonTheMoon]

비자문제가 진짜 머리아프죠... 100프로 받는다는 보장이 없으니까요... 저도 2주전에 뉴질랜드 영주권 신청을 했어요. 근데 경제가 안좋아져서 그런지 영주권도 비자도 심사가 엄청 까다로워졌다고 하더라고요. 지인분중에는 신청 거부당한 분도 있으시고... 변수들을 잘 고려해서 신중하게 계획하시면 좋을듯 해요! 그래도 저희는 유튜브채널이 파트너쉽 증빙역할이 되지 않을까 싶네요. 저도 그래서 유튜브 하고있는 거 서류에 넣었어요ㅋㅋ 굿럭입니다 민용님 필라님!!🙏

[@MilarMemories]

ㅋㅋ 컴백 축하드립니다. 벌써 영주권을 신청하셨군요 ;) 그래서 변호사끼고 준비중이랍니다. 저희도 유튜브채널 참고자료로 넣으려구요!! 얼른얼른 좋은소식있길 바랍니다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@bibimbubu7497]

That is such a hard situation...This is a problem almost all international couples have to face, specially if we meet when we are students. In my opinion, unless you can find a job in the UK, maybe outside of London where it's cheaper, what you said is kind of a good idea. Being separated for a year can be hard (We were separated for 8 months) but if you have a clear end goal you can bear it. It will be great if you can get the permanent residency in the UK, never know what happens in the future, and maybe staying in Spain or Korea will be hard, so it's good to have a third option. I myself consider the UK as an option for the future. Good luck guys! Can't offer you a job, but we cheer for you from Spain!

[@multipolarworldtoday]

You guys are an awesome couple that I really like. The global pandemic has really put the world in a position to do a reset. I suggest that you both try a long distance relationship for awhile. You are both young and should focus on your career development in your respective countries (or Pilar in London). In 2-3 years, the world will get back to some type of normal which will in turn create new Visa programs and new business opportunities. The world is ever changing and new technologies and new business things will develop. Alternatively, did you guys think about applying for jobs at your respective countries Embassy's in London, Spain, and Korea? Is this something you would consider. Also, Minyong is Samsung UK an option? I have seen and heard of many couples breaking up in the USA after graduation from University and working on their careers. Sometimes they get back together years later and sometime not. Most importantly, be happy, safe, and make the best decision you can. Pilar, I agree that Minyong should go back to Korea for awhile to reset and recharge. Remember, whatever decision you make today could be changed later in time. Good luck

[@wingtsang7635]

Really sorry to hear that, I sincerely hope that everything works out for you guys at the end. I love you guys especially Pilar, you always make me laugh! I want to be here when you and Minyong say I do!🤞

[@crosbyong]

If I were in your situation now, (1) I feel it’s important to recognise at the onset, that c’est la vie, at least for both of you, that the current dilemma is a combination of many factors, ie planned personal goals/ambitions and unplanned personal factors, ie emotional needs and impulses. All are contain objective and subjective elements, are real and normal, and should be validated. In a nutshell, I personally believe that if we truly want to savour life as fully as we can, then we have to plan to live it as though all can be planned, yet knowing that life is and will often be peppered with lots of unplanned and/or not-possible-to-plan decisions. And therefore, you are seeking a “best-possible” resolution/decision and not a “perfect” resolution/decision. (2a) Capture on a visual matrix. This could be either a separate or a common matrix. List vertically as much relevant issues affecting your decision and/or dilemma as necessary. Whether true or critical or not isn’t important at this stage. You just want to validate concerns and feelings. (2b) Laterally, you may want to categorise if the above items listed are factual, emotional, negotiable or not, possible consequences (if any), and add side notes (if necessary). (3) I think this matrix (or a kinda mindmap) helps to visually organise all the normal conundrum of such life decisions one often have to make alone, not to mention, with our significant other, and provide a cerebral, emotionally validated and organised approach. (Xa) Alternatively, begin by day-dreaming of your most ideal “future” or “scenario”, and then scribble the above matrix as a pre-execution plan. (Xb) don’t limit your plan to Korea, Spain, or UK, or career, or visa, or...? Last but not least, when 2 people love and truly want to commit to each other, and want to embark hopefully on a lifelong journey together, sacrifice is a cornerstone factor, and emotions often drive cerebral considerations. In life, we can only plan not to fail, but... Thank you for sharing. I sincerely wish you the best as you discover your future together hoping always hand-in-hand with incessant kisses.

[@장짱-k4s]

Never never give up and keep your love forever. 절대 포기하지 말아요 지금의 상황에서는 공통분모를 갖고 있는 런던에서 커리어도 쌓고 직장을 찾아보시는게 좋을것 같아요 민용씨는 한국에서 직장을 찾을수 있을거 같은데 필라님은 조금 어려울것 같아요 그리고 동거인 비자를 받지 말고 결혼비자를 받으면 안되나요? 아무튼 두분다 사랑을 기본으로 하고 해결방법을 찾아보시기 바랍니다 행운을 빌어요 Out of sight out of mind!!!!

[@MilarMemories]

비자문제는 잘 해결해나가고 있는 중입니다. 다행히 길이 보이더라구요. 사실 현재 비자로는 제가 원하는 기업에 갈 수 있을지 잘 모르겠지만 지금까지는 더 노력해볼 생각입니다.

[@Samuel-nz3fo]

많이 힘드시겠어요.. 구독자로서 부디 잘 해결되길 응원합니다😢

[@MilarMemories]

감사합니다. 잘 극복해서 영상 계속 올릴수 있도록 해보겠습니다!!!

[@BeaA.26]

I’ve never experienced something like this, but I’ve lived in different countries due to my dad’s job. Has minyoung tried to apply for a Korean company that has offices in London? I lived in the Netherlands and you don’t necessarily need to know Dutch to work there (plus it’s really nice to live there). So that could maybe be an option? My dad knows zero Dutch but worked for an American company for some years and everyone at the office spoke in English (being Dutch or from any other nationality). Like 95% of the population knows Dutch so it’s very easy to live your daily life there. Visa wise I don’t know how it works because my dad was the one dealing with that stuff 🙂. I hope you guys can find a solution that works for both.

[@patriciaplus-one]

Good afternoon to both of you. I do understand your concerns. Right now you don’t have anything that is for sure, and that is why is hard to make a decision. You are in a “LIMBO”. My advice is apply for all the options you want. Even the jobs in Spain ( if Minyong, was consider living there), the visas in U.K. and the jobs there, the job in Korea(for Minyong) When you have something more concrete it will be easy to make a decision, because you will be force to do it. Right now it is all assumptions. Try and do all from your side and then you will decide. Maybe one of both of you will have to compromise, but who knows. When the time comes you will make the choice. For now live the moment and be diligent also because the time is ticking. Many international companies hire people even if they don’t speak the language of the country they are stablished. Best of wishes that everything workout for you.

[@swita_mohan]

Don't worry everything will be ok...❤️❤️❤️ Positive vibes+++

[@karenhall1345]

So sorry you both are having to walk thru this difficult time. Would you both being married now help the visa situation? It looks like some compromises will have to happen for one or both you....are you willing to do it to stay together? What this boils down to is what is most important to you both.....your relationship or your job? Lots to think about.... Praying everything works out.... You both are special!!!! Hang in there...something will work out♥️♥️♥️

[@frontlinerkk3182]

Face the problems head on and let the time take it’s course. Min’s VISA situation at UK or any other countries always going to cause an issue except in Korea. Pillar’s desire to become a career woman in which she has a degree on is perfectly normal. With pandemic, everyone, every companies are suffering somewhat which make it even tougher situation. You are not alone. Here is what I see for you guys. Get marry before Min return to Korea and get a job what Min is good at. Pillar start a new career in the field she desires. After few years of long distance relationship, it’s easier for Min to move to foreign country than Pillar to move to Korea and continue her career in Korea. By than, both of you will gain sufficient work experiences to work in same country or even same company who knows. Until than, solidify Min’s VISA situation in UK or Europe. I see fire in Pillar’s eyes and Min’s careful calculation will bring happy ending for each other. 💕💕💕💕

[@MilarMemories]

Thank you so much for your comment 💛😊

[@clementoy]

Yo podría decirles que una opción sería que cada quien regrese a su País y cuando pase esta situación del bichito 19 con más calma, cada uno ponderaría a lo que tiene que renunciar para formar su hogar. No es una situación fácil y más cuando se está enamorado. Deben cuidar mucho su corazón y no lastimarse cuando estén hablando de esto. Siempre tratarse con mucho respeto. Deseo de todo corazón que encuentre la mejor solución. Cuídense.

[@thediabyfactor]

Having listed out your options it seems like staying in London is the best choice given the language barrier each of you will face in both Spain and Korea. I'm not sure if you guys have considered it, but have you guys looked into temporary roles? These positions are typically shorter term and not as glamorous usually. But I feel like these companies might be able look past Minyoung's visa situation, while Pilar can gain some professional experience. I'm sure there are many recruitment agencies for temporary roles, but ones that I know of are Robert Half and Randstad, which are more focused on Accounting & Finance roles. Different agencies specialize in each field so maybe it's something you guys can look into. Hopefully you guys work it out together :)

[@QueShiok]

We're an international couple too, from Spain and Singapore, and we had to go through an LDR for over 2,5 years 🥲 In the end to make things work, one of us had to sacrifice everything. In our case David chose to move; he left his stable job and his family/friends in Singapore and came to Spain not knowing how things will be... But we became "pareja de hecho" (similar to getting married) so he was granted the visa as my partner ☺️ Things were difficult at first, because of the language barrier he couldn't find a job, but things worked out in the end with lots of effort and we've been living together in Spain for 5 years already! 🤩 Good luck guys, we're sure you'll do anything possible to stay together and this could be an idea 🙏🏻

[@rianxx2023]

Jo q mal vuestra situación, ojalá pudiera decir o hacer algo para ayudaros pero solo puedo mandaros mi apoyo y deseos de que todo os salga bien y podáis estar juntos ❤️ ánimo!

[@meganrojas]

I get u guys so much! I’m in a similar situation with my bf 🤧 we’ve decided to stay in a long distance relationship. At first I thought like Pilar, I didn’t wanted to have a no end long distance, but I can tell u its been working out very well. We videocall everyday and watch movies or go on dates, its just different. We now we will gather at some point so in the meantime we can build up our careers and grow as a couple as well. I wish u guys the best 🌟🌈

[@Kat1010SC]

Hi guys, I think moving to Ireland, Canada or countries like these where foreiners are really welcome, there are a lot of job opportunities and English is their first language could be a great option. My husband and I lived and worked in Ireland for 5 years and it was an amazing experience. Irish people are lovely. I suggest contacting recruiting companies, vía LinkedIn for example. This is free and they can really help you to find a job wherever you want and quicker than you expect. My husband and I are Spanish, work in IT and both of us got the job in Ireland in few weeks. My best wishes for both of you. Follow your dreams and, if possible, don't give up on your career and relationship. Both are equally important

[@socalsp3]

Its a tough situation but theres always a light at the end. Tough situations are usually temporary. You guys will have each other for a lot longer than that and will appreciate each other more after you’ve gone through the struggle. Best wishes

[@rf5106]

coronavirus is making everything hard. It's been a year I am searching for a job and now with corona it isn't helping. So job wise Minyoung don't put a lot of pressure on yourself, corona is a situation you can't control. I think bith of you should apply for jobs/paid internship to many countries and maybe you'd be lucky to get accepted in the same country. It can be an option. Until you have enough experience and if Pilar is ready you can go to Korea. Good luck guys!

[@Erdf3542]

I’m very sorry to hear about these struggles! The pandemic made it even more difficult for you guys😭 However I believe that if you guys really want to stay together, it will work out in the end! It might be hard but hang in there💪 Btw* I’m also from Europe and living in england. I’ve been waiting to apply for permanent residency as well so I totally get it

[@StefanieTorresAnlas]

Chicos creo que aun tienen mucho que decidir, por lo que veo no es que esten mal o equivocados, solo estan escogiendo lo que es mejor para ustedes. Pienso que cada uno ha hecho un sacrificio por estar juntos lejos de sus familias, al mismo tiempo siento que Pilar no se siente con ánimos de quedarse en Corea y por el video Minyong esta haciendo todo lo que está en sus manos por los dos. Mi punto de vista, con todo respeto, es que se sienten y tomen una decisión en pareja, porque si ustedes piensan individualmente está perfecto, pero deben considerar que es prioritario como pareja y si quieren mantenerse unidos a pesar de los buenos y no tan buenos momentos que toda pareja pasa, y que podrían pasar más adelante. Les deseo de corazón todo lo mejor!! ❤

[@ellgimogi_internationalcouple]

Its so hard.. i understand You those the best choice ti apply fir a partner visa for now. Ling distance should have an and goal. I'm glad neither of you are giving up on your careers. I truly believe London is the best choice for both of you

[@lucakim27]

How about working holiday in Australia

[@ezyryder11]

In Los Angeles lots of people speak Spanish and there’s a really nice Koreatown area as well. People of many different backgrounds and couples like yourselves. Maybe you would like it one day!

[@patrickbaek7336]

I hope everything will workout for you guys. this is very difficult time for many people but if you love and care about each other you will find the way. love and support from Canada.

[@silviacorcobado3249]

Jo que pena😢, espero de todo corazón que todo os salga bien ❤️

[@메롱-f7g]

내가잘몰라서하는말일수도있는데 브렉시트 때문에 영국에직접진출하는 한국회사많아지지않나요 코로나가어느정도지나가면 가능할것같은데 조금관망하면서 한국에서 쉬기도하면서 내일을설계하지지요 살다보니 급할수록도라가라는말 이해가갈때도있더라구요

[@MilarMemories]

오 이런 혜안이,.. 당연히 기회가 저는 있다고 보고 있습니다. 전 제가 운이 엄청 좋은 사람이라고 생각하거든요. 버티다보면 좋은소식 전할날이 올거라고 생각합니다. 잘 버텨보겠습니다 !! 직접진출 많이 하셨으면 하네요 ㅋㅋㅋ

[@pstarke1066]

요즘 국내 대기업들이 영국에 투자를 많이한다는데 제 생각에도 일단 한국에가셔서 유럽이나 영국지사가 있는 회사에 취업을 노려보심이 좋을거같단 생각 여친분은 영국서 2년버티시고 영주권 얻는게 좋을듯 그럴려면 롱디는 불가피할거같구요

[@strayframespod]

As a person in an international couple too this is a very familiar topic. There probably isn't a "best" solution but in your place I would try to stay in England a bit longer and get a permanent residency, London is way expensive and everyone I know in London desperately wants to get out. Maybe move to another city like Manchester or Bristol or somewhere less expensive where you can save money? Then when the COVID-19 situation is better look at moving somewhere else once the job market picks up. Me and my partner really want to move from the UK to Spain but it's very difficult due to the pandemic and other personal problems but we gotta stay strong and patient and hopefully we all end up getting where we want to in life. 🤞

[@leeeddie2604]

I’m rooting for you both to stay together. Just hang in there and stay positive. By staying positive changes outcomes. When one door closes there is another door will opens or even many other doors will open

[@alinecaune5423]

This is a difficult situation 😭 and Covid19 is making it even more complicated... I don't have any advice.. but I hope you will stay strong together!! 💕 Hope it gets better!

[@MilarMemories]

Hahaha, yeah it’s too hard! Thank you for your support anyway! 🥰

[@dangheo8659]

즐거운 영상만 보다가 오늘 두분의 고민을 접하니 답답하군요 힘내시라는 얘기밖에 드릴수없군요 화이팅!

[@vegastation24]

No one wants to say it but I'll say it. I was in the exact same situation. Met in states, she went to korea, I went to korea 6 months after and did 1 year there. Had to go back to US, long distance again. And we encountered very similar situations, where literally EACH CHOICE only benefited ONE PERSON and not both. Sorry to say, I don't see this going well with the mindset now. It did not work for me, I was already giving up on my side, but she wouldn't pretty much give up anything. Its a push pull, anyway I broke up with her, and all I see is one of you breaking up with the other. This WILL not work. There is no compromise. Sad to say but I am betting this relationship ends. No one wants to say it here, but this is the truth. You guys remind me of me, and this is just a recipe for eventual failure. Of course, things change if both equally sacrifice OR if one can sacrifice and not hold any anger towards the partner. This just doesnt work how you are both thinking now. -From someone who did this for 3 years

[@withlovejohanna7150]

I think you guys should apply in all the potential places you could think and are qualified for. If you wanna find a solution to stay together, you will,no matter what.if not, get ready to be apart and move on with the chosen way. Xxx

[@elialuciomarcos1092]

Uff this is a really difficult situation! I feel sorry for you both guys, but I think is a difficult situation for everybody. Let s see if the coronavirus season finish and you can solve some of your worries. Fighting dear couple!!!!!

[@june5344]

sounds like he feels like leaving and she wants to stay

[@jackelineonofrecachique1744]

I don't really know what advice can give you, but guys, i wish you good luck on everything and think this: "nothing lasts forever, there's a light at the end of the road".

[@stitch-kun]

Wish you guys the best in deciding. Us the fans will be supporting you guys with whatever decision you will make 🙌 I was supposed to apply for a visa and go to uni in Madrid this year since it's always been my dream to study and live in Spain, but of course it all got canceled including my application because of COVID-19. Love from the PH 🇵🇭

[@MilarMemories]

Thank you! We hope you can end up studying in Spain in the future!

[@trauddien2250]

Luv is about sacrifice... it’s not easy but something has to give in life. If you 2 truly luv each other, the job/ career is second nature. Anybody can find any jobs anywhere with the education you both have. It’s all about getting out of your comfort zone and be willing to struggle and try new adventures together. Life isn’t always easy. Move to Canada, the Korean/Spanish community is huge in Toronto!!!!!

[@rociolalinde8101]

Your situation is really hard, I hope you guys can solve it in a good way. I wish I had some great advice but I have never been in a situation like that, the only thing I can say is that I think you should do what you think is best for your goals in life. Fighting! 💪🏼

[@Michael_Lee_6887]

지금은 특별한 상황 속이라 떨어져 지내는 것도 선택이 아닌 그냥 외부적 요인이 더 큰 상황이라 함께 하지 못한다고 해서 뭐라 할 순 없는 상황인거 같아요. 두 분이 생각하는 정답은 두 분 안에 있습니다. 타인이 가진 생각은 그냥 타인의 생각일 뿐이죠. 두 분이 맞다고 생각하는 방향으로 행동하시면 됩니다. ^^

[@MilarMemories]

감사합니다. 잘 논의해보겠습니다 ;)

[@tani6462]

I totally understand your situation my beloved "Millar". I wish i could provide work opportunities for you two. We have the same situation in India. Just hang in there guys and everything is going to be fine very soon. Loads of love ♥️♥️ Stay blessed 😘😘😘😘😘

[@MilarMemories]

Thank you so much 💛💛

[@710liz]

I don't know if you might have considered living in a scandinavia country. I live in Denmark and its a very international friendly country with many international companies and therfore very good job opportunities. Of course the weather sucks but you're already used to that from living in London i guess 😅

[@sahibabhullar3982]

Thank you both for sharing your struggles, just know that we as your subscribers are always here support maybe not physically but virtually at least. You will get through this even though it may seem difficult now it will become easier down the road. :)

[@황인성-i4y]

Hey guys! It's such a trouble indeed. I am not in the position to say something to do, but as Pilar mentioned, it's the realistic option that she works on her career in London and Minyong to come back Korea and look for a job in Korea (obv if he wants to work first, if not, he can go back to the UK like 6 months and come back and forth). I understand how difficult it is getting a job in the UK (I graduated from Birmingham) especially situaion like thesedays. Hope you guys find a good solution. Espero que tengan buen solucion. Es muy bonito que ustedes esten juntos. Estaria bacano me responden :)

[@plhs1878]

Primero que nada gracias por confiar en nosotros chicos y contarnos hacerca de que está sucediendo en sus vidas en estos momentos. 🤗🤗💜💜🙌🏻🙌🏻 Estamos para apoyarlos 😊 Creo que lo más cómodo sería para ustedes permanecer en UK mientras sus visas se los permita y que ambos puedan conseguir un trabajo en UK y él poder alargar su visa o sino aplicar por la otra opción que mencionaron. Ese es como el camino ideal. Les daré mis ideas a continuación, por supuesto respetando sus preferencias y sus metas☝🏻, en caso de que no pudieran seguir su camino en UK. La primer idea sería que ambos se movieran a otro país en el que no hayan solicitado la Working Holiday Visa o como estudiantes de algún master o doctorado. Y podría ser un país de habla inglesa o un país Asiático cerca de Corea, por ejemplo Japón. Y la otra sería que pudieran hacer el registro de su matrimonio un poco antes de cuando lo planeaban porque aunque este fuera un poco apresurado y aunque no tengan aún una ruta para el futuro, les garantizaría practicamente poder ester juntos en cualquier país que decidieran si las cosas llegaran a ponerse más difíciles😣. Les digo esto basado en mi experiencia, estoy casada desde el año pasado con un coreano y pues ahora que lo pienso fué como un poco rápido aún después de que estuvimos en una relación por un largo tiempo, ya que nunca pensé casarme tan joven, pero si no lo hubieramos hecho así, no sé que hubiera pasado con nuestra relación este año con la llegada del coronavirus y casi todos los vuelos internacionales cancelados durante meses😖😖🚫✈. Aún no hemos podido tener nuestra boda ni poder viajar debido al coronavirus 😢 pero hemos podido estar juntos gracias a que nos casamos antes😊. Les diré que teníamos miedo de casarnos y esperamos bastante tiempo ya que aunque estabamos seguros uno del otro👌🏻 no teníamos todos los recursos o ahorros que queríamos o no contabamos con el trabajo perfecto🙀 ni el apartamento perfecto amueblado y decorado en Seúl🙀 pero decidimos que era lo mejor para nosotros como pareja internacional hacerlo pronto ya que las visas a veces son un gran impedimento para las parejas internacionales🙁 y tarde o temprano eso podía ser de mucha tristeza para ambos. 🤗 Un abrazote chicos y ¡¡muchas fuerzas y muchos Ánimos que se puede!!💪🏻💪🏻😊 Les deseo lo mejor en cualquiera de sus decisiones y muchos éxitos 🙌🏻🙌🏻🤗🤗💜

[@MilarMemories]

Muchas gracias por tu comentario 😊😊😊, si no te importa que te pregunte ¿vosotros vivís en Corea y si es así, tú trabajas? Muchas gracias 💛💛

[@plhs1878]

@@MilarMemories De nada 🤗 Sí vivimos en Corea, solo mi esposo trabaja aún. Pero no hay ningún problema para trabajar con la visa de matrimonio aquí para las extranjeras. Vamos paso a paso pero casi todos comenzamos así 🙌🏻💪🏻¡Ánimos!😊

[@jojodoandj5335]

사랑과 일 둘다 잡기는 쉬운일이 아니죠 언젠가 선택의 기로가 올겁니다 그때 후회없는 선택을 하시길 ㅎㅎ 제 경험상 몸이 멀어지면 서로에 대한 관심이 멀어지고 일에 대한 집착이 거리를 만들더군요 두분이 함께 있을 기회를 꼭 잡아서 소중한 사랑 지켜나가시기를 바랍니다.

[@MilarMemories]

모쪼록 잘 해결되어서 꾸준히 영상 올리겠습니다 !!

[@crk316]

현실적인 갈림길에 서 계시군요 두분 다.. 저 또한 스패니쉬 남자친구와 연애중이고 서로의 언어는 구사하지 못하고 영어로 대화해요. 그리고 저는 한국에, 남자친구는 스페인에서 각자 생활하고 있습니다. 코로나때문에 6개월 롱디네요ㅠ_ㅠ저도 남자친구와 거주지에 대한 이야기를 정말 많이 하는데요! 국제커플의 숙명인 것 같아요.. 어디에서 정착하고 사느냐.. 사실 그게 해결되지 않으면 관계가 끝나는거잖아요. 영상을 보면서 제가 한 가지 의아했던 점은 필라님께서 "I don't really want to live in Korea"라고 말씀하신 부분이었어요. 물론 외국인 파트너를 둔다고 해서 꼭 그 나라에 가서 살아야하는 것은 아니지만, 파트너의 나라에 가서 살 수도 있다는 것이 아주 높은 확율의 선택지가 되어야 한다고 생각하거든요. 내 나라, 파트너의 나라, 제3의 국가 보통 이렇게 선택지가 있잖아요! 저 또한 스페인은 거주지로 단 한 번도 생각해본 적이 없는 나라였지만 지금은 그 나라에 가서 살 수도 있다고 생각이 바뀌었습니다. 남자친구가 한국으로 올 예정이긴 하지만 제 남자친구도 역시 원래는 미국으로 갈 예정이었고요. 필라님께서 "We have international companies and there might be a good chance for him"이라고 하셨는데, 역으로 필라님께도 충분히 적용되는 말이라 생각합니다. 한국에도 기회가 많죠. 물론 그에 대한 노력(언어 등)은 필수이고요! 제 생각에는 민용님께서 이미 많이 노력하고 계신 것 같네요. 학생비자, 인턴쉽, 워킹홀리데이 등등.. (절대 필라님이 노력하지 않는다는 말은 아닙니다! 오해하지 않으시길 바랄게요ㅜㅜ) 또 필라님께서 하신 "장거리연애는 괜찮지만 끝이 있어야한다"은 말씀, 정말 1000% 공감합니다. 민용님께서는 한국에서 사회적으로 어른이 되어야 하는 나이, 필라님께서는 아직 20대 초-중반으로 이제 막 커리어를 시작할 나이이니, 현실적으로 충분히 부딪힐 수 있는 상황이네요 에구.. 저의 포인트는, 외국인 파트너를 만난다면 그의 국가에서 살 수도 있다는 것을 인지해야 한다는 것, 인생의 또 다른 기회가 찾아올 수 있다는 것입니다. 누가 알겠어요! ㅎㅎ 예상치 못한 기회들이 기다리고 있을지요! 저희 커플도 힘들때마다 "희생"이나 "포기"가 아니라 "인생의 계획을 바꾸는 것", "새로운 방향을 설정하는 것"이라고 긍정적으로 생각하려고 노력하고 있어요. 제가 두 분의 모든 점을 알 수 없고, 그 곳의 상황도 잘 모르기 때문에 감히 함부로 말할 수 없지만, 제 생각을 조심히 찌끄려 보았습니당..ㅎㅎ두 분 모두에게 만족스러운 방향으로 해결되길 바래요! 모든 국제커플들 응원합니다ㅠ_ㅠ 한&스커플이라 왠지 더 마음이 가네용... (쓰다보니 너무 기네요! ㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎ)

[@MilarMemories]

아이공 .. 여기또 한스커플이 계시군용. 사실 필라도 제 3국을 선택할 시에는 한국이 높은 선택지에 있답니다. 아직은 근데 엄청 두려워하더라구요.. 사실 영국비자를 잃게된다는것도 엄청큰 패널티구요. 그래서 우선은 더 있어보려고 생각중입니다. 어렵겠지만 힘내봐요 ㅠ.ㅠ 얼른 코로나가 빨리 해결되서 재회하셨으면 해요.. 국제커플 화이팅!!!

[@andreiliviu6296]

You guys are about to begin a new stage in life. I didn't expect you to have so many obstacles, I'm sure everything will go well for both of you as long as you're together. _

[@MilarMemories]

Very true 😊

[@hyo3377]

두 국적의 사람이 제 3국에서 만나 제 3국의 언어를 공용어로 사용하니 국제커플중에서도 난이도가 더 높은.... 게다가 한명은 한국어라 영어나 스페인어와는 매우 동떨어진 언어라 어느 한명이 다른 한명의 모국어를 배워 함께하는것도 제일 어려운 난이도. 정말 서로가 넘을 산이 많겠네요. 힘내서 꼭 좋은 결론을 찾아내시길 기원합니다.

[@jpkoo5339]

Min young, apply to Korean companies with branches in Europe... either apply in Korea or London. Pilar, you should definitely pursue your career and not give up your opportunities... long distance relationship seems like the only solution for both of you to be happy with your careers for the time being, but if it’s true love, nothing can stand in its way!

[@georgespel5101]

Wish you guys the best. You guys hang in there, everything will be ok. You guys are smart and beautiful. Stick together, work as a team you will find some thing.

[@street_girl]

My parents are a international couple. I would recomend you try living together in a country where you find a job and it would be better if it was a country where they spoke English because you both understand English and you would be able to pass the tests to get the nationality in the future. The best place would be some country which has the same travelling distance between korea and Spain for when you miss your family. In case you want to stay in England for Minyoung I would recommend you to apply for Bank od America because they have diverse nationality of people there and the job is easy and well paid and for Pilar I would recomment you to get a job as an accounts payable clerk (administrativa de pagos) for English and Spanish since it's a easy job and that works for wherever country you go. Suerte! ;)

[@lili.-hernandez2284]

Hola... Me encantan sus videos Y su estilo de vida.. Desde mexico👋 saludos

[@MarLopezz]

🙁 what an hard situation you guys may need to find other places like Canada or USA I wished the best

[@Reiko027]

OMG WE HAVE TO SUPPORT THEM! So at least they can keep making youtube content.

[@darksword1]

I think the best option is to stay in UK. Get that couples visa, and Minyoung can return to Korea for a break, and come back and try to get a job in UK in his field. Maybe it will be hard but if you want to remain together, that is the only option.

[@allenlyngdoh3713]

Good luck in the future. Hang in there, you will be fine together stick with it..all the best.

[@팍꿍디]

두분 다 만족하는 쪽으로 잘 결정됐으면 좋겠어요 전세계 코로나로 인해서 많은 커플들이 어려움을 겪고 원하지 않게 떨어져서 지내는거같아요ㅜㅜ 장거리 연애 정말 쉽진 않겠지만 다시 만날 커플은 만난다고 생각해요~! 그래도 떨어지지않고 함께 윈윈 할 수 있는 방법이 있으면 제일 좋겠네용 화이팅🥰❤️❤️

[@MilarMemories]

잘 노력해봐야죠!! 항상 응원해주셔서 감사합니다.

[@lucialuz8730]

If you two love eachother what I think you two do!!! You will find a solution and make consessions ... I know it is a verry stressful time now for you two! But when you gonna find the solution everything gonna be better!!! Love you both!!

[@핵꿀잼-i4v]

구독자인 저희와 성격이 비슷하여 공감하면서 적어 봅니다 저희 와이프도 영상보고 코로나 상황에서 저와 의견이 다르지 않네요 민용씨를 누구보다 사랑하는 필라님 심정을 조금이나마 알수 있을것 같습니다 세계 경제가 어려운 이 시기는 모든 사람들이 힘들고 민용씨도 도전해볼 기회가 많지 않다고 보여 집니다 저희는 필라님이 제시하신 의견이 어쩌면 이 상황에서 합리적이라 생각 합니다 필라님은 많이 웃고 밝은 성격이라 어떤 현모 앙처보다 좋은 동반자라고 봅니다 저희집은 와이프 때문에 자녀들 성격도 긍적적이고 분위기가 넘 좋아요 저희가 살고 있는 현재로만 봐서요 ♡ 민용씨는 저와 같이 보수적인 성격 때문인지 속마음은 그러지 않는데 표현이 적극적이지 않아 보입니다 저는 노력하여 도와주고 양보하면서 "미.사.고"를 많이 표현하다 보니 내게 다시 돌아 오는걸 실감합니다 민용씨도 지금은 한국 남성들이 예전보다 집안일 뿐만 아니라 육아도 같이 한다는걸 아실겁니다 민용씨는 최고의 지성과 글로벌 인재인데 제 생각을 이야기 한다는게 맞지 않을수도 있습니다 다만 조금 더 살아본 경험을 말씀 드렸습니다 천생 배필 두분 ! ! 어려운 현안들이 잘 풀리시기를 바라면서 많이 많이 응원합니다 ♡♡ ^^ ^^ ♡♡

[@MilarMemories]

조언 감사드려요. 어디든지 어려운 시기이고 필라가 옆에 있어서 얼마나 든든한지 모릅니다. 사실 브레이크가 필요한게 가장 맞는 이야기인것 같아요. 일이아니라 공부였지만 어떻게보면 일년내내 달려왔거든요. 아직 논문이라는 마지막 관문이 남았지만, 이것까지 마치면 꽤 성취감이 있을것 같아요. 둘이 잘 논의해서 합리적인 결론을 내려보도록 하겠습니다. 감사합니다!!

[@핵꿀잼-i4v]

@@MilarMemories 진심 어린 두분의 답글 고맙습니다 제가 작은 도움도 드리지 못했네요 필라님이 걱정하는 만큼 민용씨를 사랑한다고 느끼고 그렇게 보여 집니다 스마일 아이콘 필라님 ! ! 이~~런 상황속에서 밝은 모습을 이후 영상에서 보여 주셔서 감사 드립니다 민용씨가 속마음 만큼 표현이 적지만 일등 반려자라고 봅니다 많이 많이 사랑해 주시고 파이팅 넘치는 모습 너무 좋습니다 저희 와이프를 보는듯하여 더 사랑스럽고 정감이 갑니다 누가 뭐라고 하여도 찰떡 궁합이고 민용씨와 필라님은 하늘에서 내려준 인연 입니다 모든 구독자분과 팬들은 사랑하며 응원하고 있으니 앞으로 희망찬 미래를 위해 달려 가시기를 빕니다 ♡♡ ^^ ^^ ♡♡

[@camilaguadalupelazo1505]

Estar en una relación a distancia es difícil, pero no imposible, si hay una meta final, y amor sobre todo, todo realmente pasa, ánimo!!

[@henniekim3176]

제가 그 입장에서 생각해보면 당장 일을 구하는 것도 좋지만 두 분이 정말 사랑한다면 결혼하셔서 한국에 가서 한국생활을 해보는 것도 좋을 것 같습니다. 영국에서 두 분이 다 직장을 잡는 것이 최선이겠지만요. 아니면 같이 스페인가서 생활하는 것도 생각해보세요. 직장을 얻는것에 포커스를 두면 결정하기 힘들 것 같아요. 너무 급하게 판단하지 마세요. 인생은 생각보다 길답니다. 돌아보면 짧지만..

[@MilarMemories]

ㅎㅎ 길게보려고 합니다. 우선은 영국에서 버티는 쪽으로 방향을 잡아가고 있어요.

[@엉두-v5o]

저도 아무래도 비슷한 상황에 있어서 고민이 많아요 ㅡㅠ 남친은 이탈리아인으로 영국에서 일하고 있는 직장인이고 저는 아직 한국 대학생 이랍니다. 저희 같은 경우엔 처음엔 제가 어학연수로 영국에 반년?넘게 있으면서 만났습니다. 그 다음엔 남친이 일을 멈추고 한국에 육개월정도 지냈습니다. 대학교 어학당 다니면서 학생비자로 온거예요. 그리고나선 제가 방학동안에 다시 영국에서 한달정도 지내다가 현재 코로나 때문에 오개월 넘게 못보고 있네요 ㅠㅠ 아무래도 제가 대학생이고 남친도 직장으로 돌아가야햇기 때문에 장거리를 시작하게 됬고, 원래 계획은 방학시즌? 마다 번갈아가면서 오고 가는 것이었습니다. 그러다 제가 졸업하면 워홀로 영국에 갈려고 했는데..아무래도 한국에서 커리어를 쌓고 해외에 취직하는게 더 나을것 같다는 생각이 있어서.. 잘 모르겠네요..ㅎㅎㅎ 무튼 저희는 결국 끝이? 없는 장거리를 하고 있습니다....

[@MilarMemories]

에고 커리어를 쌓고 영국에 오시는건 괜찮은 아이디어 같습니다. 사실 전공분야를 말씀해주신다면 조금 디테일한 답변을 드릴 수 있을 것 같은데 혹시 문과시라면 영어능력이 가장 중요하다는걸 말씀드리고 싶네요. 모든 국제커플 화이팅입니다 ㅠ.ㅠ

[@paularamirezruiz931]

Que pena que estéis pasando por momentos así...Yo no tengo ninguna experiencia como tal, pero creo que cuando todo esto, este mucho mejor si minyoung no pudiera encontrar trabajo en uk pero si en Corea (dado que es coreano y le seria muchísimo mas fácil encontrar trabajo la mejor opción seria que os fuerais allí, y con la visa de casada Pilar podría encontrar trabajo como youtuber a tiempo completo, estoy viendo muchas chicas en youtube que lo han hecho así, y creo que suele ser fácil por lo que he visto, obviamente todos queremos trabajar de lo que hemos estudiado pero dada la situación hay a veces que hay que sacrificarse aun que uno no quiera... Sé que seguramente no sea el mejor consejo pero quería ayudar, Solo espero que todo se mejore para vosotros!! Un beso desde España🥰

[@susanamedina000]

A nadie mas le paso que en la mirada de los dos se nota como la impotencia de no saber que hacer?? *insertar carita triste*

[@k-man-wz3bx]

드디어 올라왔다!!! 하고 신나서 봤는데 내용이 ㅠㅠ 슬프네요. 역경과 고난이 있고 이것을 뚫는다면 더더욱 단단한 관계가 될수있을거같습니다 ㅠ 그래도 2년은 영국에 더있어야 필라에겐 베스트같은데 민용님도 2년더 있으면 영주권나오나요? 그럼 그때 영국에서 제대로된곳으로 취업하는건 어떠신지. 그리고 제생각엔 어떻게든 영국에서 커리어 만드시는게 유리할것같습니다. 한국은 선택지에서 지우셔도 될것같은게 한국에서 취업은 사기업말고도 공기업이나 시험쳐서붙는 직업등 여러방향이있고 공기업과 시험엔 나이가 중요하진않아서요.. 사기업도 외국에서 경력이 있다면 오히려 취직하시기 더쉬우실지도... 정리하면 한국에서 얻을수있는 기회들은 나이들어서도 가능한기회들이 많지만. 필라와의 시간은 지금놓치면 다시 돌아오지 않으므로 저는 어떻게든 유럽에 있으시는걸 추천드리고 싶습니다. 만약 시간이 남는다면 스페인어도 공부해서 영국에서 스페인까지 구직범위를 최대한 범위를 넓히는게 최선같아요.

[@MilarMemories]

ㅎㅎ 기존에 커리어를 잘쌓아둔다면 가능한 이야기일것 같습니다. 사실 부족한게 많은 사람인데 필라가 진지하게 같이 고민해주고 하는게 너무 고마워서 혼자 두고 한국에 갈수 없겠더라구요. 어려운 시기지만 잘 극복해보도록 하겠습니다 :)

[@margaritamarrero8264]

I think you guys are excellent together. It’s a shame the whole barriers the governments put on couples. My son had the same problem. I guess one option is for Min Young to go to Korea like a month or two. And stress out a bit. Just like you went to Spain. After that consider the couple visas. Stay in UK, for the two yrs. and afterwards go with Min Young to Korea. That’s if you guys love each other. I was willing to move, just to be with my husband. I love the guy. I know your situation is not easy, but you could try. Hope this advice could help. ❤️😍

[@mariaortiz9943]

We hope you the best!!😊

[@Woestheboss]

This is what every couple faces at some time. For example, after marriage and children, one of the two normally will work less. I think you both should try as hard as possible in London first. After Corona settles, it should get better again with opportunities everywhere. Winners are always those who keep going, even in terrible hardships. Good luck in whatever you guys decide!

[@MilarMemories]

Thank you!

[@마쿵-c6d]

무엇이든 행복하시기를 바래요 ^^♡

[@Username-1u]

😪 Esta pandemia a traído mucha incertidumbre a todo el mundo, entiendo la posición de ambos, los estudios, el futuro profesional y la vida en pareja... Espero puedan encontrar un solución pronto... Mucha buena vibra para ustedes chicos ✨✨

[@chinaman5348]

I'm sure things will work out for the best it's fate what ever happens, I hope it all works out for you both

[@melissabarreiro6453]

Buen video! Espero que todo se solucione para ambos y puedan estar felices y tranquilos otra vez! Saludos desde 🇪🇨 Ecuador

[@stevenlee9064]

very well explained guys. The reality is a man is nothing without a career this should be kept in mind.

[@boomyitv]

요새 스페인 이나 프랑스 사람이 영어강사로 있고 그래요 영어 선생님 자격증있으면 몰라도 근데 또 봉쇄 당하고 이런걸 2~3번 당하면 한국에 오셔서 치료 받는것도(아 결혼안하셔서 안되곘네요 결혼하셨으면 한국에 오셔서 어떻게든 하면되는데 봉쇄 당하고 이런게 있으면 한국은 집에서 사먹는게 비싸도 밖에서 먹는건 싸서 어느정도 생활이되니깐요) 상황을 보시고 판단하시는게 지금은 영국에 계시고 재봉쇄 한다 이런게 2~3번 되면 한국 고려하시는게 너무 심하면요

[@MilarMemories]

맞습니다. 더 경제가 망가지면 사실 취업가능성은 제로에 수렴하니까요. 더 잘 살펴봐야할것 같아요.

[@boomyitv]

@@MilarMemories 그쵸 지금은 도전해보세요 ㅎㅎ 한국은 최저임금 무식하게 올려서 안뽑는데 그래도 또 다시 봉쇄 당해서 아무것도 도전 못할바엔 더 당하면 한국오세요 저도 그게 맞는것같아요 2~3번 더 봉쇄 당한다 하면 공부한게 뭐가되요 한국이면 최소한 봉쇄는 안당해서 공부더하면서 할거 찾아볼수있으니깐요 그리고 혹시 모르니 Pilar 보고 한국어 배우는것 어떠냐고도 권유해보세요 나중에 결혼했을때 또 이런 일이 발생할수도 있으니깐요 그리고 백신이 언제 상용화 될지도 모르니깐 그때도 될지도 모르니깐요

[@cerezakinomoto6243]

I’m also in a international and long distance relationship. But is closer than korea and London. My boyfriend is in a different state studying his PhD and we are staying months without see each other. It’s hard but I know it’s temporarily. That’s the thing, can’t be a permanent thing and also need to be trips in between to see each other if not is impossible. Good luck what you decide. Ahh se me olvidó decir que yo también soy española y mi novio coreano lol y los dos viviendo en Estados Unidos lol 😂

[@ssd367]

Don't break up plsss🥺🥺🥺

[@내가니형이다]

원하는 걸 모두 가질 수 없어요. 그게 인생입니다. 모든 결정은 100% 자기 책임이고 남탓하는 사람은 절대 희생하지 마세요. 분명히 나중에 상대탓하며 불행해질 것이니...

[@MilarMemories]

네 꼭 명심하겠습니다!

[@Kerim-t4i]

I think you should try to do what you like. Sacrifice can make you unhappy in future. And I think Pilar at least should try to work in media (as I understand right) as well as Minyong in his field. I also graduated journalism faculty but I don't work as a journalist because it doesn't suit me. I realised it after working in media. So first you should try. Life is very interesting thing and unexpected things can happen. It can give your oppurtunities that you have never expected. Maybe someone offer Minyong cool job. Bondary that you have made can help you to struggle long-distance relationships. Of course it wouldn't be easy, but you will contact online and meet three or maybe more times a year. I know it's strange to compare friendship and love but I have friend who lived in a different city, it was difficult but we saved our friendship. I think you should trust yourself. And time flies fast. When you will be again in a stable relationships you could say each other: We overcame it and did our best, we should be pride of ourselves. It's really good point about the main goal. You don't have to rush your marriage, as you are young do what you want in career. It's good if you find a job that you like in your age or at least would be sure that you enjoy what you do. It'd be wonderful if you saved both love and your career dream. Any decision that you will have at the end is right for you and only for you two. I support you!

[@MilarMemories]

Thank you for your comment!

[@yoon2128]

요즘 정주행하고 있는데 안타갑네요. 코로나가 세상의 삶을 멍들게 했고 졸업하는 대학생들에게는 더 할 것도 없이 안타까운 현실입니다. 이 또한 자나가리 어려움을 이겨낸자 만이 행복도 두배를 얻겠죠!!

[@MilarMemories]

저만 어려운게 아니니까요. 그래도 옆에 누가 있으니 훨씬 의지가 되서 괜찮을 수 있는것 같아요.

[@soowonan1238]

Life will be too board if everything comes easy. I hope your bright future... Stick together!!!!

[@돌프-m4k]

이 또한 지나가리라 언젠가 이런 어려운 시기도 추억이 될날도 오겠죠 ~ 너무 큰 기대와 욕심을 버리고 현실에서 취할 수 있는 최선의 방법을 찾아보세요 물론 양보와 개인적인 타협도 필요합니다 제일 중요한건 서로에 대한 믿음과 사랑입니다 인생 좀 살아본 50대 아제

[@MilarMemories]

ㅎㅎ 욕심쟁이라 어쩔수가 없나봐요 선생님. 한국사람이니까 워낙 열정적이고 치열하지 않겠습니까. 서로에대한 믿음과 사랑은 확실하다고 생각해서 더 버텨보려고 합니다. 감사합니다 선배님.