The Reason Men MUST Have Boundaries

[@Forged88]

Been wanting to do a video about boundaries for a while now but kept getting shoved in the back of my head. Tell me what you think gentlemen. Cheers 👊

[@achalkmehta]

Loved it! ❤️

[@viktor4038]

5:11 perfection You're a huge benefit to your environment. Keep up the great work

[@Forged88]

Thank you for your words Viktor. Much appreciated

[@LionelKnight]

Excellent video and content as always, as long as you keep making content, I will continue watching and liking. Can't share any of it though, as I recently nuked my entire social circle and am all alone in building myself up once more. But again, thanks for your content, I can promise you, you are helping. You are helping alot.👊

[@Forged88]

Thank you Lionel. Much respect for the courage to leave your old circle that is holding you back

[@darkethereal]

As soon as I set boundaries for myself and started to have more self respect for myself, I’ve seen a change in peoples behavior when there are around me. They noticed I carry myself a certain way to where they cannot try me like they did before. If you see your self as high value they will too. But if you show no self respect, they will notice and they will dig their claws into you.

[@blackenedjustice503]

Thank you so much for teaching me stuff no one ever did, I am 16 and these videos really help me understand myself and people around me, also how to deal with problems within myself and with other people. Have a great day! Also, can you make a video on how to deal with people who wont respect you no matter what or will insult you, for example classmates, what do you do in those situations?

[@Forged88]

Thank you for your words my friend In terms of classmates who won't respect you & keep on insulting you, I have 2 strategies, 1) Ignore & Perform Most of people who insult you are looking for nothing but your emotional reactions/inferior admission to make them feel superior so that they can continue to exploit their perceived display of vulnerability in you. So it is best to not react & just ignore them. In the mean time, try your best to perform & prove them wrong, either in your grades, sports or other curricular activities. The easiest would be to go to the gym and build your physique, especially when you're still 16 years old and your hormones are just starting to rage, it is the best time to start lifting weights or just master basic calisthenics (push ups, pull ups, core work in your room/garden) to build a good foundation for a strong physique when you're older. Men respect display of competence, so if you just ignore their antics and perform in many areas, especially if other classmates/seniors/juniors start to admire you, eventually they have no weapon to use against you, and even if they did, they would be irrelevant. They might even want to be your friends eventually. 2) Defend & Counter Of course, there has to be contingencies. if the above strategy isn't enough. If you are studying in a sort of asylum full of future to be criminals & outlaws. If they are so soul bound to bring you down because of their god complex and keep on disrespecting you, to the point of crossing the line in involving other people like your family & getting physical, you can't just let them stomp on your dignity like that. It is time to defend yourself. Observe them to a high degree to exploit their weaknesses, like paying attention to rumors & gossips about them, don't need to immerse yourself or involve yourself, just take notes of what you heard. Learn self-defense as a last resort, if they cross the line too far, and Be very careful & calculative of the consequences of your actions to them in every circumstances, as it may jeopardize your own safety, especially if you are alone & have no friends. Hope this helps

[@katongochiwala6318]

Legendary!!!!!!!!

[@Afro_DigiWealth]

Well said, I will work on all these ❤

[@jimdaniel4412]

No...I remember a lady i was dating asked me of I ever said no and she was the one who explained to me that I was an enabler and a doormat. She was and still is the most honest lady I ever met. My life improved drastically when I started saying no...draw a line and cut toes off if they cross it

[@Forged88]

That's a rare one right there

[@leepressman192]

My favorite page ❤️❤️

[@nolancoates4856]

Personal growth 💂‍♂️

[@Ejfilmz86]

⭐️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@VincenzoCrawford]

Your videos are spot on ...

[@Forged88]

Much appreciated for your support Vincenzo. Hope you're doing well my friend 👊

[@trigelvza]

You're the man, bro. As if you know what is inside my mind. Self respect and freedom to be me is very important to me.

[@daviddimalanta259]

Im using boundaries until now. Even my toxic parents who try to guilt trip me in order to do for their biding, not even baby sitting autism, is no match for my boundaries and strong will and nothing can stop me to get what I want.

[@Zero-zm6uk]

Thank you sir!

[@lilcity29]

Bro you just got me to raise my standards 💯💪🏾

[@WarriorPrime1]

Excellent as always. Thank you.

[@Forged88]

🤜🤛

[@jblog9672]

Great video, very well said I admire the quality of these

[@Forged88]

Much appreciated brother 👊

[@BaconPvP101]

Your video are literally changing my life bro. Keep going.

[@Forged88]

Thank you once again brother 👊

[@Dj-nk7wb]

Great without watching i am commenting ☺️

[@Dj-nk7wb]

Always great content

[@joshy0369]

Agreed 👍

[@tojouhidatora4307]

Dayouth or Dayyuth (Arabic: دَيُّوث) is an Arabic-derived term for a person who is apathetic or permissive with regards to unchaste behaviour by female relatives or a spouse. I have noticed this issue with alot of men in my life and on social media. and this video completely resonates with these type of men. they have no standards set to the women in their lives, their daughters, their younger sisters, their wives or even in some extreme extents their mothers. like i don't know if this is normal to some of you men but how can i personally allow my daughter to bring her boyfriend into my house and take him to her room? like i just sit there in the sitting room while knowing this guy is railing my daughter or sister or mother and i just sit there like a fookin bum. this shows that they do not hold u in any serious regard and they do not value you as a man or even respect you in the least. they should atleast do it behind your back or meet them outside. if you do not hold any value to your younger sisters, if they do not respect you then its safe to assume that your wife in the future will see u as a bum and will never respect you and if you are a husband or a dad of such manner then its safe to assume you will eventually end up in a pathetic state. men are territorial. that's how nature made almost all male species. and if you cannot keep your territorry in check and men keep walking in and out of your territory as they please then you are a failure as a man. Modesty in women died when jelousy died in men. she tells you my dress my choice and you alter your standards and boundaries just to please her. you kill the jeousy in you. the fact that other men seeing her shape and booty and skin bothers you. you will all burry it inside and comply. thank you FORGED IN HARDSHIP for this video. we as men should never compromise with our principles.

[@Forged88]

"Territorial" thats the word

[@tojouhidatora4307]

@@Forged88 yep

[@jonathanunlimited]

INVEST IN ETERNITY. JESUS CHRIST shed HIS BLOOD and DIED for OUR SINS so we can be saved. We humans are imperfect sinners. We hurt others and do things that we ourselves know are wrong and regret. The punishment for our sins is death and hell. And we can't save ourselves. But God so loved the world, that he sent Jesus to die for our sins to receive the punishment that we deserve. And Jesus rose again and offers eternal life, forgiveness, and blessings to all those who believe. REPENT and BELIEVE IN JESUS and BE SAVED, my dear friends

[@peoplesever28]

Been thinking about this last week. I pissed off a couple of women cos I come across as "picky😑"

[@Forged88]

You should be. Don't sell yourself cheap when you know you aren't, cuz it will just devalues your time, attention & effort