I just dealt with the worst case of this in my life. The person was stuck in a negative mindset but seemed to be seeking change. So i gave away so much time and energy trying to help until it was so clear that they didn't really want to change, they just wanted to constantly vent their negativity to me and just be around me to absorb whatever benefits they can but give nothing in return. Then when i started to withdraw to have my own space they became cruel and vindictive. To the point of threatening to purposely cause harm to my life. I stood up for myself and let them know i will defend myself and won't tolerate threats and thank God it's all over now except some spoofing phone calls. And i learned that i need to be more assertive from the beginning.
@SecretUnlocked5608 ай бұрын
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@levaaaaaanah2 жыл бұрын
We Empaths & HSP/HIP carry guilt in our energy signature that attracts nassholes...this is new to me thankyou. Shadow work is a good way I feel to release that xx
@mschoy1597 Жыл бұрын
CORRECT. We seem to only get "nassholes" or nasty holes LMAO!!!
@RosesAreRed999 Жыл бұрын
My God , thats me
@nomz401 Жыл бұрын
What a powerful observation
@Texasgirlinacrazyworld Жыл бұрын
Oh brother, this paragraph is everything that is stupid in the world today…..😂
@Texasgirlinacrazyworld Жыл бұрын
@@nomz401😂😂
@battlevain Жыл бұрын
Excellent video and insights. The kindest people are always targets for manipulators and exploiters. We have to switch off our feelings of guilt and learn to put ourselves first.
@basilia_terrazas2 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is exactly what I've dealt with all my life. I will no longer feel guilty for taking care of my needs ever
@7thKrownTarot2 күн бұрын
Become dangerous(and loving). Becoming dangerous and having a line and ACTING on it when that line is passed is also incredibly important. Fuck around and find out. Be BOTH. Lead with love until you're given a reason to otherwise. Try this next time: Allow yourself to overreact when someone crosses your boundries. It's okay, and it's going to take practice to learn to balance that energy out that you've been repressing for a long time. In your private journal or on a piece of paper or maybe record a video, ask yourself why you were so triggered, because you will be. Understanding what makes you tick takes away two things: Guilt, and your lack of confidence. You will return to being able to trust yourself and have a solid foundation in yourself. Unshakable. Vampires hate that shit.
@neilvaughan66752 жыл бұрын
Definitely agree about the guilt. Also dont feel guilty about being more selfish and strong and breaking free of your social circles to become the person you need to be to achieve yourself best life. Also because empaths have a lot of humanity we appreciate people are falliable. Have to watch this one as it can keep you trapped
@TheFireflycam Жыл бұрын
Energy vampires are like a worse version of ‘time-burglars’
@zinknot Жыл бұрын
They will steal your time too, by distracting and draining you.
@Costa9989 ай бұрын
True
@musashimiyamoto5868 ай бұрын
Yeah, like Time Bandits. What a great movie that was.
@wisdomdantecourt81795 ай бұрын
@@TheFireflycam this seems more like a epidemic of sorts these days, especially since there’s so much inflation and everybody’s looking for a come up. Be careful out there folks!
@k.e.l.58893 ай бұрын
So well said
@MauriceRivers415 Жыл бұрын
I had to slowly separate/ghost from a clique during COVID, because I noticed they talked shit about each other when one person was gone. But when everyone was together, they did all the fake smiles/fake love and pretended it was all good. Behind the scenes, I knew how certain people really felt, so I learned to mind my business and just wish the best for everyone. The problem with that is that they see you as a threat, because you don't co-sign their BS, or you have your own life outside of the clique. You can still be supportive to them and their work, without being directly involved in the spiderweb of toxicity, jealousy, narcissism, back-stabbing and envy. It's best to keep a respectful distance once you peep the BS. Because even though they'll now see you as the enemy, you have your peace and freedom from the silly shenanigans they play with each other.
@musashimiyamoto5868 ай бұрын
Welcome to the modern world of Social Media. You wanted it. You got it. Now deal with it.
@AA-lq5pu Жыл бұрын
I got a Real Vampire Reiki attunement....I did this months ago and have not had somebody take my energy since. From an energy level I just figured out how to not give energy to them. I feel the psychic chord almost as it goes in, they can't even get a chord in because I cut it. I can't feel guity if I can see what they are doing and see through the guilt tripping. Being able to see through people means they no longer have an effect. Becoming psychic in a sense is what saved me.
@musashimiyamoto5868 ай бұрын
Real Vampire Reiki? My goodness. Becoming psychic? More like psycho.
@bpassion4fashion5812 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!! You just explained yearssss of theraphy. GUILT. That’s it!!!! Not a lot of people talk about this. I had to discover this through hard inner work and STILL after discovering the fact that I have been manipulated with and by my own guilt , it still has a hold of me . Will look into your classes to further work on this . Thank you .
@debrawilliams1693Ай бұрын
Many empaths has soul loss. I have taken plant medicine, and partook in a soul retrieval ceremony. I called back the parts of my soul that I had lost.
@Bella-in7fb2 ай бұрын
They stare at you too. That dark weird stare.
@catlover-s1x Жыл бұрын
You speaking about guilt almost made me cry. Firs time I feel as if somebody understands me and I'm not alone. Thank you. Words have power.
@TruthIsNot4Sale6 ай бұрын
I am an empath the day I became a reiki master my teacher who attuned me said you will now be a like a flame attracting moths. Like a moth to a flame it’s so true …I dont feel guilty about anything I haven’t done anything to deserve to feel guilty 🤷♀️ I don’t think guilt is the answer here I think ppl see how bright and shiny we are and we are great supply
@dentn4622 жыл бұрын
Thanks i feel so good for being aware of this...I recently had to cut someone off for the 100th time because it keeps coming back one way or another in social media etc And is honestly crazy how they will do anything to get into your life just to drain your energy...
@saaramohamed89212 ай бұрын
They also pick up on my autism traits. They think my lack of eye contact, fidgeting etc is signs of low esteem lol
@dbag579 күн бұрын
Thats a really good point and one im working on
@amy42912 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you! I'm highly intuitive and an empath, and have dealt with some scary energy vampires...some in my family, some not. They all contributed to ruining my life and career dreams. I dealt with one recently, and it's the last straw. Your video just set my wings free, I can fly now, after almost 30 years. No longer, will I let others put unwarranted guilt on me, so they can use me for their gain. 💕Big hug, thank you.💕
@lehablkwd10 ай бұрын
WHOA. I was not expecting you to say guilt, and that immediately felt true. This was so helpful, thsnk you!
@halfamo24223 жыл бұрын
My life, in less than 8 minutes.
@jamiewilliams81072 жыл бұрын
People close to me are the worst when it cones to energy vampires,they think they are owed a living.
@TheyDontKnowImHere Жыл бұрын
For me, yes it was guilt. I was a small child when I was taught that a biblical character died for my sins. My guardian was a narcissist, and it snowballed from there.
@Dagm1111 Жыл бұрын
This is amazing to see and right on time! I always knew that my shadow work was still ongoing based on fears I still carry of being a targeted empath. Even though I've come a long way in terms of discernment and boundaries, it's amazing that someone within all the online content can finally get at core issues! Furthermore, you're an actually real person not hiding behind logos, fancy filming, and synthetic voices. Above all, I feel you're not merely repeating what others are saying, as this is the first I've heard of this. Thank you ❤💙💜
@M155ABYSS Жыл бұрын
What you describe as guilt actually sounds more like shame to me.
@wisdomdantecourt81797 ай бұрын
Yes it does. It’s more like a combo pack of guilt and shame, which are lethal weapons when used together.
@stephenpalmer-zh9dq2 ай бұрын
you summed up eerything have experienced for many years - just like what the therapist said many years ago - GUILT ! is the reason - where do these people learn their game of exploytation ? what a travesty - yes i know everywhere i go it is the same the car sale the favor the money and when i dont comply i dont see them around anymore
@davyerni21362 жыл бұрын
Yes i do . Gift from my grandma . I guess. I am fixing it from within.
@ayoobkhan29152 жыл бұрын
You are speaking truth
@Quintpeterson11 ай бұрын
Emotional manipulators always seek out your weaknesses and use them against you ,,,,
@GoodHeartInfinityАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing this message🙏😇
@taratheholisticcoach8 ай бұрын
I am so much in love with your video , Thankyou so much for sharing this , this guilt always takes me over nd give control to vampires
@S.G.W.Verbeek7 ай бұрын
Have no guilt anymore. True Justice will always prevail. So be strong and bold❤️🔥
@alliarsenic3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing all this info!
@angramainyu84232 жыл бұрын
Perform energy vampirism on the energy vampire
@BarbaraBowenPhotography Жыл бұрын
I play the energy vampire. I act like I have empathy when I really don’t. I give them just enough attention/help so they can’t accuse me of not being a team player, then I go about my business. If they don’t leave me alone, I babble endlessly about nothing..and they walk away. I have to use these techniques because my energy vampire is vindictive and controlling.
@yemisiaderuku29022 ай бұрын
A very wonderful teaching she has done in less than 10 mins Which means when they come for help, support, assistance etc also give them a responsibility I don't think they will come back
@Greenplanet9494 ай бұрын
Yes in looking back this is true
@katec98935 ай бұрын
This is v interesting about the guilt. I recently met an energy vampire, I didnt realise initially as it took a while for red flags to appear. After several hours with them I was drained and depeessed for a whole week, I could barely get out of bed. I've been trying to figure it out and energy vampirism makes a lot of sense. They had already started requesting big things from me and using guilt saying they hated being let down by people 😮 I'm going to have to phase them out. I'd love some more friends but not people who bring me down and drain me like that!
@blissfulbaboon3 ай бұрын
Yea,they are always the biggest victim in the room.Your pain is Nothing compared to what they've suffered.
@Vibration_Transmission2 жыл бұрын
Well explained thankyou!
@Truth_SeekR Жыл бұрын
Sounds like my "mother" and her mother. The rotten apple never fell off the moldy diseased tree.
@Gareth-j5i Жыл бұрын
Thank u for the video ❤
@Jean_Grey_11 ай бұрын
spot on! thank you. :)
@nicolecase82472 жыл бұрын
oh .. you don't know how bad I need this 💥💥
@TristanHolmes-yo9bo3 ай бұрын
My Dad is 1. 4 sure
@andreazadventurez8 ай бұрын
Please could you link the next video, which you teased ahead to in this one? Cheers!
@musashimiyamoto5868 ай бұрын
Isn't it wonderful this world of new disciplines and personality types which we then can target with special programs and techniques? What you call an energy vampire is certainly a specific type of person and I am sure there are dozens more. But just because we categorize them and strategize ways in which to deal with them doesn't mean you're helping people. It also doesn't mean they do what they do deliberately to hurt others. In the end this whole development shows me that we have grown way too complacent, passive, snow-flaky, whiny and need someone else (other than a proper therapist) to tell us what and how to feel and/or "defend" ourselves, forcing us into the victim role. There were times when people cared about each other enough to help out. But these are gone. And I would posit that anybody doing this kind of "therapy" like any social influencer has at least as much of a monetary interest than any other motive to do it.
@itsdarklikehell Жыл бұрын
I wish there was such a video for self proclaimed religious guru zealots like this. Then again I am a practicing reiki master and a vampire so I may be a bit biased, but at least I'm being honest about it.
@dennisruga86039 ай бұрын
I have attracted these energy vampires for real.
@billyalarie9293 жыл бұрын
G U I L T i will never get past this.
@levaaaaaanah2 жыл бұрын
Yes you can 🌹 have you considered Shadow work or healing spells? Xx
@Tojoj222 жыл бұрын
Shut it off they do not care about your needs
@TimeWarm Жыл бұрын
When's the next class in 2023
@thesouloftheblueroselavend20763 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this course is not in German !! Im from there !! My English is only OK ! Cool Videos
@Anilemable3 жыл бұрын
Hi, ich hab schon Kurse von Lauren mitgemacht, und ich finde, sie erklärt in recht gut verständlichem Englisch. Habe B1 bis B2 Niveau und konnte bisher alles verstehen :)
@1ghostchick7 ай бұрын
This person I've been talking to on the phone, makes me exhausted, sleepy then sick. Does she know what she's doing?
@VirgosGroove324 күн бұрын
Prob not. Tell her nicely
@goldenstandard1872 жыл бұрын
🔥
@Al.531 Жыл бұрын
Are you still running this task?
@DZ-jz8bj Жыл бұрын
Wait wait wait! What made you think that from all the emotions is GUILT exactly the one attracting energy vampires? Why guilt? What about complex inferiority? I just need some proper explanation.Because I don't see any proof about this. There can be so many reasons so I really wanna know why you picked only this one reason. Because I don't feel like someone can sniff out guilt of another person only online.
@kikthesheek899911 ай бұрын
❤ glad someone raised this question. I feel like its part of the issue but where is the solution?
@MariaPerez-sb1xp2 жыл бұрын
2:00
@S.G.W.Verbeek7 ай бұрын
Be free of guilt. You are the light of the New World. You are the arbiter of True Justice and Righteousness.❤️🔥 John 3:19:21 ¹⁹Now this is the basis for judgment: that the light has come into the world, but men have loved the darkness rather than the light, for their works were wicked. ²⁰For whoever practices vile things hates the light and does not come to the light, so that his works may not be reproved. ²¹But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that his works may be made manifest as having been done in harmony with God.”
@joycorcoran51232 жыл бұрын
Thanku
@christinamorales68877 ай бұрын
Energy Vamp=leech and that includes family and flick them off of your juicy energy
@cyesko2 жыл бұрын
I can't agree 100 percent
@clarenceworley81349 ай бұрын
Yeah I don’t agree either
@Sonofgod384 Жыл бұрын
💚
@passthegravy7688 Жыл бұрын
I like them because they bite.
@Ddeath.Eaterr2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@MannaMassage2 жыл бұрын
I'm speechless.
@lgroves3365 ай бұрын
NOBODY shows up in your life by accident. Are you to teach them or are they there to teach you? You are in Earth (soul) school.
@folday6169 Жыл бұрын
Guilt...try religious upbringing!
@energyisenergy Жыл бұрын
The title of your video is questionable at best. No one _attracts_ an energy vampire. There is such a dichotomy within your semantics here. It's titles like this on social media that have essentially put an end to civilization. Thanks.
@ELFWARZ_DOT_COM5 ай бұрын
This was interesting. I don't know if one attracts them. I think they are just there revealing their true colors.