Honestly if anyone is having a hard time with no contact I’ve found that listening to these guys every day actually makes it easier
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Respect !!! 🙏🏽
@cdeze59783 жыл бұрын
Your absolutely right!
@SMOOTHD812 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@colegreenleaf97914 жыл бұрын
Don't waste your time ( your most precious gift ) chasing somebody who doesn't want to be with you, before you know it you'll be 60yrs old and you haven't achieves your goals or dreams because you were to busy chasing the wrong thing.
@mudduck7543 жыл бұрын
How about 61 playing Jr high school game's with a 46 year old flat chested getting fat ass getting flat red head with more baggage than two C-17's..
@joshah76274 жыл бұрын
Never return to a ex.... Ppl don't change... They either stay the same or get worser.... In my 40 years experience
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
Strongly agree Brotha. 👊🏽
@theeguerrilla2 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@lush12763 жыл бұрын
Good to see a man's view on this. No one should beg. If its meant to be then its meant to be
@TheOnemanr1ot3 жыл бұрын
Been struggling. 1 month of no contact. She dumped me on Christmas. her mom still reaches out and said she’s super depressed. You guys make me feel better and laugh
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thanks brotha, sounds like everything is working your favor. Stay focused on yourself right now homie.
@TheOnemanr1ot3 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez thanks guys, love ur stuff makes me feel amazing. Keep it up!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
No doubt 💪🏽🦈💪🏽💪🏽
@ElM_-nf2cw4 жыл бұрын
I begged n chased like a simp for 2 months now im on my shit! I stopped pleading n got my fire fighter career started got in the best shape in my life n started seeing other females n now she txts me saying how am i doing left her on read if she left me at my worst then i most definitely aint gnna let her have me at my best cant let the same snake bite u twice fellas so stay on ur shit, stay out of shit and dont say shit kill them with success 🙏🏽🙌🏽 im grateful for these guys they changed my life
@theBagheera224 жыл бұрын
You can't be in her head if you are in her face
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
YES !!! 🙌🏽 #RealFacts
@ManCave5724 жыл бұрын
Y’all give some of the best advice, I’m so glad I found this channel!!
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching man !!! 👊🏽
@CowboyEkim4 жыл бұрын
Just give it time and curiosity will start to creep in for sure . I’m so glad I didn’t beg or chase and gave her the breakup . Mine never blocked me on anything but I just REFUSE to call first & if it’s done it’s done I’m good either way. Another Good Ass video fellas 💯
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽
@JihadBunnydick3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@CowboyEkim3 жыл бұрын
@@JihadBunnydick contacted me about 3 1/2 months later . It’s not the same bro
@jonesslim65583 жыл бұрын
Been binging your content, always honest,
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thank You !!! 🙏🏽
@SAMEntalhealth3 жыл бұрын
The drug withdrawal after like 20 times going through it , eventually it gets easier to handle and you want to quit, you learn to hate the drug.... same with relationships
@ah25523 жыл бұрын
He isn't lying about them stalking. Its been 20 years my ex blocked my wife and I. We have literally not had a conversation since the breakup. However, she has been said to be bitter because I moved on, married, and had children. She is approaching 50 never married and no kids and no real relationship since that time period according to her brother in law. I only know know she blocked me because we have mutual friends and for some reasons she's Facebook friends with my family members even though she talked about them like dogs when we were together. Then I congratulated my cousin on her marriage and notice I was her 4th comment but only 3 comments were showing. So either I had someone blocked or somebody blocked me lol. I asked my cousin on who blocked me. She said her name I was like for what? I don't say anything to her not even liked a comment or acknowledge her. My wife has an account and I checked to see was it really her that blocked me and she had my wife blocked. I can almost bet she came to my page and saw some photos of our international travel with all of the cousins looking at my cousin's wedding photo and her lonely ass got triggered. The funny thing is she broke up with me. We didn't speak for 2 months and that is when I met my wife. So, yes they stay bitter if you're doing well and they aren't. When they wish you well it ain't real lol.
@rafybj19812 жыл бұрын
Torqued i cracking up bad with your jokes, it made my day
@opusandtarquez2 жыл бұрын
😂
@johnnypreer52763 жыл бұрын
2:18 “fuckin jill...” i died laughing 😂
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@sbw893 жыл бұрын
I just walked away last night. We'll see how it plays out...
@thetraveldynasty7915 Жыл бұрын
How did it go
@RudolphManor2 жыл бұрын
I don't have no fears of loss over no one and nothing because I walk alone with God everyday to keep myself spiritually strong & fit. 💯
@manuelwhite94543 жыл бұрын
I fucks wit y’all content fr, went thru break up 2 years ago and got hip tithe game back then, still come back and watch theese type videos so I learn more bout the games theese females b playin, y’all add humor to it makes y’all stick out Stay up y’all
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Word, thanks brotha !!! 🦈👊🏽lol
@redstar73114 жыл бұрын
Good video. The glare from the background takes away from the look a bit. A matte black would fix it. Keep up the good work!
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
We were just talking about that. Thanks bro
@maribelg49414 жыл бұрын
You guys are funny, Love it! 🤍
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
Thanks !!! 😂
@sumanthsheshagiri17234 жыл бұрын
Damn these videos kinda give us confidence.. You boys killin it 🔥
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
Thank You !!! 🙏🏽 Thanks for watching homie !!!
@mrmarcusdmorgan4 жыл бұрын
Another one !!! 🥳🥳🥳
@marland19754 жыл бұрын
Would that also include if a woman keeps disappearing and pops back only get something to only disappear again
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
That’s a clear sign that she doesn’t want a relationship.
@marland19754 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez Guess that’s the cold 🥶 truth even tho we dealt with each other for a long time time gotta stop ignoring red flags 🚩
@austinwetzela1493 жыл бұрын
My ex replaced me within two weeks after I completely broke her heart because I was liking other girls pictures and posts lol
@antilaw99113 жыл бұрын
How old are you? That's why!
@Giovanni-013 жыл бұрын
Seriously? There's nothing wrong with you doing that ,she's petty
@gstar4xl9533 жыл бұрын
Y’all wylin 😂😂😂😂 5:10
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😂
@joncarbone2 жыл бұрын
These guys are hilarious. Aside from the good advice, the laughs keep me watching. 'Pee on her grandma.' lol
@phoenixhwang56964 жыл бұрын
Popcorn playa salute🥇
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
Respect !!! 🙏🏽
@tjadolson18163 жыл бұрын
You guys are on point.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thanks homie !!! 🙏🏽 lol
@amandastarotllc40613 жыл бұрын
I love these videos they always keep me up on games men play
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Walking away when your ex says to leave them alone is playing games?
@lennymcshits22882 жыл бұрын
I have created models of you in my head. They yell at me when I am tempted to break silence.
@opusandtarquez2 жыл бұрын
Thats awesome man !!! 😂
@terran64712 жыл бұрын
🤔🤔 @Black Book Basics I like how the both of you brought up the oxytocin subject. That oxytocin production level for women is no joke, especially if the s3x was good for that woman, but most wonen will try to deny this on a surface level, but we all know wats up 💯💯💯
@davidpetersen96034 жыл бұрын
you fuckers are funny! I thought I have made every mistake in the book, but calling her mom to beg..... I've drawn the line on that one thank god. Keep up the good work guys. It's good to be able to laugh at how stupid I've been!
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
😂
@cbcarlson5008cc3 жыл бұрын
Did this today with the ex , didn't put up with her shit , I replied with one word text , I had her text like crazy . Me and the kiddo had a great time had the little one calling her daddy , it was so powerful brothers . It fells great to have the power just gotta keep it , and I fu#king plan on it , love ya brothers
@desio67634 жыл бұрын
Mine has a new guy spending the night after a month. I broke nc after 1 month telling her I miss her and cant sleep been thinking about us. Any hope for me? . She has lots of options and guys waiting in line to be with her .
@khamiahsimmons9573 жыл бұрын
Shoulda never told her that, just move on.
@RudolphManor3 жыл бұрын
Just walk away from her and have self respect for yourself. 💯
@mythicalgamer40763 жыл бұрын
She reached out about 65 days of no contact We met up for dinner. She asked to go shopping and help pick out a tv. We went to several stores. We held hands . We hugged. I thought I made a mistake by briefly telling her I know she is scared to try to reunite. I said it might be possible but not sure. We texted a few times , casual funny texts. . Haven’t heard from her in about 5 days. She has to come to my place in about 3 days to pick up her property. Do I return to NC?
@IlIamo Жыл бұрын
She got her dose of validation. How did it end up?
@jreycrx4 жыл бұрын
Shit my story is good, covid happened i got stuck in kansas and we still talked everyday, she found someone else on the side and started seeing him probabply april or mayish, came back for school amd we hung out one day it was pretty legit but she seemed distant. Asked of we could have lunch sometime and got declined. Few days later we had a face to face talknand found out completely about other guy and i said cool and walked out, a few times we talked since then which was mid september up until a week or so ago, shes facebook in relation now, dudes not. But ive been getting ripped at gym and finishing up school. Shell watch my snap stories and blocks her location when she hangs out with her dude. So i quit posting snap and hid my location blocked her on fb and tiktok. Doesnt seem like much else i can to to regain any attraction other than to ghost myself
@Montygbc3 жыл бұрын
Can you give me an update on your situation
@terronb4 жыл бұрын
Y'all boyz are straight nutty!!!
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
Yo that’s T all day, y’all need to check this kid out when the cameras off !!! 🤦🏽♂️😂
@DreamProphet4172 жыл бұрын
How about after a year ?
@jorgeriera33372 жыл бұрын
Let go after 1 year you should have moved on after 3 month. No offense
@whiskyngeets3 жыл бұрын
Love y'all's videos. Respect from ATL. If anybody needs a good ass whoopin' down in the A, hit me up. I'll do it for a Chick-fil-A spicy chicken sandwich.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kinGsaL15153 жыл бұрын
I spent 6 months with an extremely insecure narcissistic toxic girlfriend who always abused manipulated and accused me of cheating only for her to end up cheating in the end and sending me a pic to find out and telling me to fuck off and leave her life. A week later she came crawling back a little more humble because he dumped her ass and she wanted me back but she had too much pride to even apologize and tried to justify her cheating by saying it was a response to my actions and I should be the one accountable and apologizing. I've been ghosting her ever since and now she's trying the seduction tactic because she knew the sex was good (unfortunately toxic sex is lol) and she's trying to get me back for the sex without so much as taken any accountability for even acknowledging that what she did was cheating. Should I just use her for sex or should I continue no contact forever and cut her out of my life permanently? PS - She's been calling my mom too
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
They always call the fam
@phoenixhwang56964 жыл бұрын
Bros I called the moms ...I suck
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
Damn
@frederickhoward55983 жыл бұрын
Y'all also missed your calling as comedians
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
It's never too late! 😂
@frederickhoward55983 жыл бұрын
Y'all crazy! But Real
@thejulistikkandyman4 жыл бұрын
You can hire an Agent( I know one) to whoop those asses for you guys....REAL TALK it only cost 10 dollars in food stamps and EBT cards are prorated!!!!
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
😂😂💀
@WMartinez0013 жыл бұрын
Their always stalking. But too stubborn to talk to you
@TravelJones.4 жыл бұрын
4:01 👀 ummmm... 🤔
@opusandtarquez4 жыл бұрын
😂😂 I just noticed that shit too !!! 💀 Y’all know what I meant !!!
@terronb4 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez 😬😬
@angeliqueesprit86743 жыл бұрын
I would if these guys are married ( to other ppl of course😁)