THE REASONS THE NARCISSIST PUSHES SO FAR

[@tenleychristine4962]

They can’t help themselves. It’s an addiction to them.

[@deb2319]

TRUE they have no self control.

[@seamusmcmanus3089]

​@deb2319 they do have self control. Their behaviour is 100% intentional, which means it is controlled. Don't be fooled into thinking they have no self control. That'll have you pitying them or excusing their behaviour.

[@flowerpower4944]

​@@seamusmcmanus3089absolutely they done their homework,,,especially the Grandiose Overt ones,,they would sell oil to an oil sheik,,,their Deviant,

[@flowerpower4944]

​@@deb2319they have calculated out everything ,,they are Experts @strategies.and outcomes of situations,, they stick to what works for them.all their life,

[@cc1k435]

It IS a lot like living with an addict. They know it's wrong, but in the moment they choose to act on their impulses, as if they aren't in the driver's seat. If they do feel remorse after, they also choose to quickly brush it away rather than confront themselves. At least, that's how I've heard it described by a rare diagnosed narcissist who's trying to get it under control.And even then, I would guess they are still having dark thoughts about everyone else, just not acting on them all the time but hiding the urge better. ❤

[@DonnaLambeau]

People don't believe me when I talk about narcissism. You're so right. Unless you've experienced this abuse, you can't understand it. Now I don't care if other people understand, I know the truth. And the truth always sets me free. I pray all of you who are still being abused can get out. God bless you and may he give you peace, strength and courage. Thank you, Andrew. You're a great teacher and you're helping so many people. I appreciate all your videos. They help me stay clear-headed, focused and wise.

[@archiehendricks6093]

Lots of people do understand, some will act like they know. Ask whats a narssist, if after a while you are convinced they understand, then maybe be open

[@donnahalsted7718]

I so appreciate you, too. You are wise and loving in all your comments. Too bad narcissists can't appreciate the treasure they have. You are one of those treasures. Blessings.

[@jhavajoe3792]

One didn't believe me and I was disappointed. Then, outside my window I saw his silhouette of a flying monkey flapping away. Know who your real friends are.

[@NarcFreeFinally]

Same here. “He did what? No, nobody does this to anybody, this is crazy.” While their inner monologue is - this woman must be a nutter, she’s probably the one that caused all this. Yeah, no one listens but victims. If they would listen before they became victims, well, we could probably put a dent in their impact. But they can’t, their brains are saturated with “I love this man fiercely, I can’t live without him. I just can’t.” That’s what I said. And though I know I will never ever love any man like that again, no man will ever be that perfect for me again (the false self of course) I could never ever be with that demon from hell ever again. I disgust him because I exposed him, so that would never happen, but should there ever be that tiny thought in his very damaged brain - I’ll move to another state!

[@archiehendricks6093]

@@NarcFreeFinally your right on target, funny while your explaining to someone, you also have your mind thinking , why am i even bothering explaining anything , he is likely a flying monkey. Kinda funny,

[@mekalove8174]

Hi Andrew and my beautiful family! The Narcissist is just PURE EVIL. heartless, soulless and have so much hate! They envious and hate that we have empathy and they don't!! I hope everyone have a wonderful week ahead and as always take time to love yourself!💜💜💜 Namaste 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 😌🙌🙏

[@wayneelliott1180]

It always nice to read posts that acknowledge the family here. Some of us are quite alone in our battle with the toxic monster and some moments in the journey are quite desolate.

[@NikkiGRocks4Ever]

The narcissist seem to have a bottomless pit of need. No one person can satisfy it. Instead of looking within themselves to effect positive change, they get new supply and move onward. The wheel of dysfunction turns on and on. We are the fortunate ones here. We are gathering the knowledge and making better choices going forward. Thank you Andrew for everything you do.👍🦅💪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌🙏💯🙌

[@jessmason2112]

They collect men or women.

[@GatheringBitByBit]

It’s not so much need as it is supply they crave.

[@sabianstringer2112]

They Don't Love Themselves and So They Can Never Feel Fulfilled Because They Are an Empty Soul to begin with.....

[@lauracarstiou3505]

You nailed it. Like they are a vacuum inside..never happy or satisfied

[@theresacooke5328]

They have no break pedal. No limit to their insanity

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@NikkiGRocks4Ever]

Well said Theresa.👍😊

[@deb2319]

VERY TRUE!

[@mr.F.Castle]

No it makes them dangerous.

[@marypalmer1062]

The one that hurt you the most is your best teacher

[@gratefultobehere]

Listen to Andrew ❤🙏💪

[@kathleencondit1660]

I'm no longer a source of supply for my aging siblings. In 1981, I promised my Dad that if my siblings ever needed help from a flood or a fire, I would help them out. I've had to realize that I have to release that promise in my present and future. My siblings pushed me way too far when I was a a low point in my life. My Dad is passed. I'm responsible only for myself. That lifts some weight off of my shoulders.

[@irismartinez5753]

Yes narcs loves to be around younger people, an old narc sorrounded by young girls that could be their daughters, that is sick. So glad that I finally realized it. ❤🙏

[@rubyjet9513]

The worst thing is that they drag you into their matrix of darkness.

[@jessmason2112]

After the bait and switch ( love bombing, and or nice.)

[@rubyjet9513]

@@jessmason2112 Terrible feeling.

[@jessmason2112]

@@rubyjet9513 They like gremlins. All cute and fuzzy. Feed them(their egos.) after midnight they turn into monsters.

[@Temp97]

Got burned but like you say… we are like the phoenix rising out of the ashes and that is great! Thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏😌🙌💪

[@flowerpower4944]

Temp that's TRUE, 🌟🦋🧘💖💖💖💖

[@cc1k435]

There's no other way forward if you want to be happy. ❤

[@dinamiller9744]

Damage. That's all they care about until you get to the point where you just can't take it anymore

[@jennifernewton4637]

I made the mistake of allowing this to happen. I did not have boundaries and, as an Empath, absorbed all the negative energy/ toxicity. This is what I’ve come to realize over the last several days while I was taking a break, Andrew. I had BECOME a toxic person, and I just couldn’t admit that to myself. And I owe you an apology for disrupting the channel. I said a prayer to send all negative energy/ toxicity back to it’s source(s), and I can FEEL the difference! I don’t feel the heaviness of the toxic energy anymore! I feel lighter and more positive! Have a WONDERFUL Sunday evening, and I’ll catch you on the next post! 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗😇🙏😌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌🙏🙌

[@jennifernewton4637]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I felt myself becoming a different person there and I let a lot of things get to me that I shouldn’t have. Everything just seemed to be going south in real life and here and I was kind of at my breaking point. 😔😔 but for _my_ part I take full responsibility. I shouldn’t have let things get to that point.

[@BJBlaskovichGaming]

We’re all learning, Jennifer. I am too.

[@rubyjet9513]

Welcome back to us all ❤️😊 The room is more beautiful with you ☀️🌈

[@jennifernewton4637]

@@rubyjet9513 Thank you SO MUCH, Ruby! That means a LOT to me!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@marieeakin8534]

Its all about control & abuse..... their way!!! Blessings 🎀😘

[@nicolemurphy2629]

Indeed Even telling you to get with other men. Sick.

[@RS-ms1bz]

It’s crazy. When I finally said enough and ended the marriage, she asked “what about all we’ve built and all our dreams for the future?” What a complete delusion. I built everything, my time, energy, money, love. And dreams for the future? Those were ALL her dreams. She couldn’t have cared less about my dreams.

[@BionicBunny333]

I have been surrounded by narcissists my entire life starting with family. I have become a dark empath, which I learned in self défense. It’s a crazy form of mental abuse that destroys the empath.

[@Patricia_Stewart337]

Sleep, LiliBoo1975, and meditate until you reach your lost soul

[@BionicBunny333]

@@Patricia_Stewart337 I sleep very well btw thanks

[@cc1k435]

Empaths have to learn to make boundaries and stick to them with people who have proven toxic. While in theory, I think people should not necessarily have to change themselves around others, it isn't realistic to think that narcissists are going to, so empaths must if they want to survive. ❤

[@angelalewis4213]

I am sorry. It is so hard to live in a world surrounded by these people. We have to make our own families sometimes

[@GatheringBitByBit]

Pray to Yeshua Hamaschiach/Jesus Christ The Messiah and you will be changed. I promise you will be glad you did. It’s just that simple.

[@fairyprincess911]

I give myself gifts 🎁 therefore no one can take money from me😻🙀😹.

[@emilywilson7308]

I used to buy flowers every week for myself. ❤

[@judyyates2763]

He berated me so much that I sat in my car and screamed just to release it. I'm glad my neighbors weren't home. I tried to get away from him but he called me 20x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@cc1k435]

As used to be the case with landlines, just because the phone's ringing, it doesn't mean you have to answer. Block their number and leave them in the ditch along the side of the road. ❤

[@judyyates2763]

He's gone now, and I'm trying to heal. At that time he would've been very punishing towards me if I didn't answer.

[@donnahalsted7718]

Sending you my love and prayers. God bless you.

[@xxfox]

I used to do that too.

[@karinkingsley809]

The worst feeling in the world is to feel "isolated and alone," while being around others. I'd rather be by myself when I'm "Alone." (Noone likes to feel ignored!)

[@katemoffitt1641]

Was in a long-term marriage with one. This is why, IMO… He LOVED making me feel bad! Gave him TRUE pleasure! Especially in front of other peeps. That’s why he did it. Sadly, I had no clue his heart was that dark. I tried so hard. Much agony along the way. There’s no getting around it… no changing it. The price for staying in it… was too HIGH to pay! I don’t wish it on anyone. I liken it to the pleasure a serial killer gets. Scary. Isn’t it? I call it the real REAL! 💔

[@OSTARAEB4]

I’ve dealt with about eight of these types and suspect two were either psychopaths or sociopaths with overlaps. I now see clearly their motivations and they are truly manipulative users. I got a Hoover from one about a month ago and I didn’t respond to as I realised a demon was coming for me again. I’m now on guard with everyone now.

[@flowerpower4944]

Yes I'm the same and my senses are 6th,sense,. I can smell them and feel negative energy around me,🌟🧘🌟💖

[@lynettefarley537]

The monster I was married to for 40 years got everything he ever wanted. A sailboat, a 1969 corvette, a doge viper, a Rolex watch, on and on and once he got what he wanted he lost interest and on to something else. Our home was falling apart and I begged for a remodel for 15 years as the home got worse and worse. Next year would always be the response to my pleading. One day he walked in the sunroom and his foot fell through the rotting floor. It was then he decided it was time for home improvements. So disgusting, entitled, and savage. So grateful I am free since 8/25/23 when my divorce was finalized. Thank you again Andrew ❤

[@kathleencondit1660]

Thank goodness you are free.

[@carriedillmann4455]

I am so happy for you! ❤

[@jhavajoe3792]

Great images! One day, your love and patience fell through his rotting heart.

[@lynettefarley537]

@@jhavajoe3792 beautifully said my friend

[@lynettefarley537]

@@kathleencondit1660 thank you ❤️

[@lt827]

I still remember my ex trying inviting me out for coffee trying to get me to sign something so the government would no longer collect child support from his income. He actually thought I would fall for this after he disappeared for 6 or 7 years. No way in hell was I going to do that!

[@HAHA1266.]

Ive said it before, I will say it again. I was toxic, it has taken me almost 2 years to regain any sense of feeling like myself. I still have days of extreme sadness. I didn't understand, and unfortunately I learned the hard way.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💯🙌

[@mr.F.Castle]

The narc most likely made you toxic its infectious.

[@rubyjet9513]

Be fully present and have compassion for yourself. It was toxic relationship. ❤️

[@HAHA1266.]

@@rubyjet9513 yes. It takes two to have a relationship. Only one person trying doesn't work 😔

[@rubyjet9513]

@@HAHA1266. A narcissist cannot be with anyone. He loses, not you.

[@nanaof6angels]

I wish I would have found your channel 16 years ago I gave my younger years away

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏🙌💯

[@donnahalsted7718]

Rejoice! You're here now and that's GREAT!

[@BJBlaskovichGaming]

Better his and her husband’s money than mine. I’m sorry for the money and time I wasted on her for 3.5 years.

[@judyyates2763]

Evil

[@sleepytimeshecomes]

the narc used to tell me I was the perfect person for her. I thought it was a compliment until I realized what was happening and how I was being used, for my house, for financial support, and everywhere else. she put me in the darkest place I'd ever been in my entire life, it was hell on earth, I contemplated suicide. After I kicked her out my life instantly changed and now I'm on my way back to being me and doing me and my family again. Also, I have to add, I take care of my health and workout etc and I'm not a narc so ppl please don't go around thinking that all health minded individuals are narcs.

[@jhavajoe3792]

The majority of the videos, he states the opposite ( get healthy). The reference may be to some Grandiose Narcs you see at the gym, etc. Plenty of 'em. Your statement: "I'm on my way back to being me." That's a beaut! It's how I feel.

[@coral8313]

💯 they push you to your limit as an empath I took & took the abuse made so many excuses for them until I said enough I’m done not knowing what I was up against even after I left . Please keep yourself educated get the wisdom of people who have experienced narcissistic abuse Andrew is always here with great advice please listen, get away from all toxic people only allow beautiful people to enter your life and you will live the life the way your meant to 🙏💕sending love and healing to all

[@irismartinez5753]

I understand you, I did the same.❤

[@lailaa6662]

This is a powerful and important message thank you for sharing this coral.

[@donnahalsted7718]

Thank you, Coral. So True!

[@hannastrack4310]

I'm old enough that my wants can't hurt me. Maybe one day I'll have real love. Great video

[@janetsmith9958]

🎉 done and dusted. Too many years uneducated about the narc pass me by and it was like quicksand🎉Now out and removed from that low vibrations my life is full of happiness ❤joy love and peace 🌈🙏.

[@cc1k435]

Good for you! If we all had the information we needed back at the beginning, I would like to think we might have saved ourselves some grief. Still, the knowledge is worth at least some of the trouble if it means better times ahead. ❤

[@jhavajoe3792]

@@cc1k435 I feel the same , wishing I had known, then I realize millions are out there totally unaware.

[@lt827]

My ex is definitely stuck in his twenties. He treated me like I was his parent not his partner. Yup. He’s stuck in 1985!

[@jessmason2112]

💯 ✌️😎. They are still on the same bar stool or place 9:52

[@elainenilsson5472]

Someone that will steer you away from your career, bettering yourself, your passions, does NOT love you.

[@carriedillmann4455]

Oh ,,, I forgot to say that I am forever grateful for your free therapy 😍

[@bubblesartgallery5081]

my ex told me about 4 times how he called his ex, several years after they broke up & she threw the phone & hung up on him. He took great pleasure in her response & in telling me about it, repeatedly. Now I understand why. Sick puppies!

[@bestm333]

Spiteful hey of them ...bet you're delighted he's out of your life now

[@bubblesartgallery5081]

@@bestm333 I thank myself everyday for being where I am now.

[@PatBlack-sj7tg]

Hi all ❤ They are not authentic never have an original idea they just copy people that’s why they are always watching your every move…they will repeat what you say to other people even if it’s personal .🤦‍♂️..just to embarrass you. ❤ from ☔️ 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@homespace1268]

I realized today that my life has turned into a nightmare similar to a Twilight Zone episode. I left him and he and his new girlfriend began stalking and copying me...I had two flying monkeys around me who began copying me too....from the way I dress to my hobbies. There are a group of them...its like that Single White Female movie. They are trying to trade identities with you so they can pretend to be good and accuse the victim of being the narcissist. They copy every aspect of you they can while lying about you and insulting you to everyone...I've never seen such insanity in my life.

[@RhodaStone]

If one thinks about it-you can see several discarded people-friends-husbands -some people get fed up with their nonsense-you can identify several if you think about it

[@tanyaa4266]

The irony here is, if the narc had a loving kind generous reciprocal heart, were deeply connected to spirit, and cultivated joy on the regular, as well as kept an active lifestyle, they would have found the “fountain of youth.”It’s not a mystery really. Keep the mind-body-spirit heart centered and activated, and the high frequency energy just radiates outward, out of the eyes, skin, expressions, and your creations. Even in your 60s, 70s, 80s…. ✨💫

[@MM-um3dq]

Excellent video absolutely the truth. The Narcissist is a master at reading and manipulating peoples.

[@bestm333]

Couldn't mention it better so true most sure

[@christopherbrubaker2070]

I just saw the ex covert narc and her new female lover pull up to the movie theatre. Just now. They saw me and took off. Good!! Any how, I realized today by looking back at my life, I have been abused by bullies, and narcissists my by my mother and older brother. So that’s good to see it now. Andrew, I’ve directed a few people your way to check out this channel, because they stated that they were forgetting the abuse over time. I said Andrew draws a very clear picture of it in every video he posts, and we love it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏 I feel relieved to realizations of my inadequacies, by knowing the why. It’s also a reason why I struggle to know who I am. I am my life’s situations, so I don’t know. ☃️ I’m sure this will be another challenge, but I know I can get through it as well. Stay safe everyone. Love you all. ❤️❤️🙏🙏

[@empressboateng7098]

Thanks Andrew, we are still learning Awakening and getting dedication, you are one in a millions ❤💪💪🙏🏿👋👋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏😌💯

[@Donnahodgins]

Still going strong. I have my moments, but all good.😁 💖💖💖

[@flowerpower4944]

Yes I saw and observed the words and actions,,,I also saw similarities between my ex husband,and the overt one,These Overt ones are like Cult leaders, they have the same playbook ,,They are the most Dangerous ones ❤❤

[@LindseyBauer-hg7hx]

Thank you so much, Andrew, for your wonderful content on narcissism and narcissistic relationships.. it’s very informative and I feel that it’s very relative to exactly the answer of what I’m looking for.. God bless, and all of my love to all of the warriors that have survived this narcissistic hell..

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯😌🙌🙏

[@janiebutterfly5251]

Lindsey my heart goes out to you sweetheart I know how that feels so I'm sending you love and light and many blessings stay safe and well asking the Angel's to wrap their wings around you and bring you everything that you wish for 🙏🙏👼👼👼👼🤗🥰👼👼💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@elizabethflorez2372]

Oh Yes. It was a relationship of the purest form of convenience & usage .

[@GatheringBitByBit]

They are filled with many demons. The narcissist I know (dnl) learned about me by invading my son’s privacy and mine by reading my texts to my son on his iPhone. He has no privacy, We can only talk when he’s away from his wife. She’s now cut me off from contact with my grandchildren and working hard on alienating my son. I finally had to tell my son I don’t like her and never will because I don’t like anyone who mistreats my sons. And to do it my presence is the ultimate disrespect for not just him but me too.

[@theendtimesarehere]

*Narcissistic behaviour is on the increase!* Woe to the inhabiters of the earth and of the sea! For the devil is come down unto you, having great wrath, because he knoweth that he hath but a short time. (Revelation 12:12)

[@MichelleMM-e8j]

Yet again this is my story 🥺

[@mikeseitz2792]

Excellent Nailed it! Thank You

[@ladyvirgo013]

Fake husband for 12 years. I didn't realize hes a covert until he blindsided me with an abrupt discard. He got me good & left me spinning intentionally 😈 He was really smooth at future faking

[@54suzie]

Thank you Inch by inch Gaining strength It’s scary 🌻🌻🌻

[@JacquelineRog]

Thanks ❤

[@Honeychild5555]

My ex pushed all my boundaries. Persistantly, daily for 4 years asked the same things of me everyday, despite my protests every single day. He was playing a game. So persistant it gave me chills despite my protests, still continued. I became angry, a screamer, not me. He would tell me he had dark thoughts that tormented him. Would never share them. I felt like a fly caught in a web. Now I hate him for it. I will never see him or speak to him again. After leaving i was told he has 3 women on the go. He is 60, I dont care. Let them feel his pushing and mind games. I always said he was insatiable, nothings ever enough and would cycle himself to.point of a heartattack to keep looking young. No regard for his health. Good riddance . Andrew your so spot on!!! I thank god for your wise words!❤🙏

[@donnahalsted7718]

I'm so happy you're out of that prison! Now to get out of the prison of hate. That's one we create for ourselves. I regret the things the narcs did to me. But THAT is their responsibity - between them and their Creator, Someone they WILL meet some day and have to answer for all they have done in this life. That is what concerns me in their regard. I do pray for them and wish them healing. Even though it's not humanly possible! True, I am suffering greatly from the consequences. But even at 73, I can say "I can do this." I can overcome what was recently done to "finish me off". I trust in my Good Father who made me. I'll be okay. So will you. My Dad is your Dad, and Hes amazing! Blessings, Honeychild.

[@jhavajoe3792]

@@donnahalsted7718 Carrying my hatred around with a few I despised for years, occasionally drifting into thoughts, was a waste of time and energy. They all dropped dead ( seriously ) and I learned something. I'm living my life like a walk in the woods, still observant for a rabid weasel ( toxic folks ) out of the bushes, now and then.

[@Honeychild5555]

@@donnahalsted7718 I hate his actions is a more accurate statement from me, i know they live in a place they cant change from, I dont hate the person I hate the actions.and i can see them in others so easily now, opened my eyes wide so thats a positive thing. Thanks for your comment and your are right 🙏😊

[@Honeychild5555]

@@jhavajoe3792 yes i agree , i hate the actions not the person. Thankyoux

[@donnahalsted7718]

@@Honeychild5555 Beautiful response, dear sister!

[@luckylottoaustralia531]

Thanks 🙏 Andrew your a legend 🤛🏾

[@ryanodom2892]

Hey Andrew. Thank you for making these videos and this channel... I've been watching your videos for a year once I started looking for help on what the hell I sunk into... There's almost no real help in the mental healthcare system for this experience, but finding your channel and realizing that I wasn't crazy and my experiences were validated, it really helped me get to where I am today... New town, new home, improved health, improved relationships, but above all, I'm happy again. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯😌🙌🙏

[@usagiroxie]

I will never forget that creep, but he won't remain in my mind forever. He'll just become a distant unpleasant memory since I'm too busy taking care of myself, trying new things, and making new friends.

[@maryw4609]

Thank you Andrew the verbal abuse is difficult and you realize not everyone is like this so there is hope you have hope you can experience this state of peace harmony joyfulness intimacy before one dies ❤

[@AlwaysHope2019]

Thank you ANDREW You made my day brighter with your time

[@wayneelliott1180]

@ 10:03 - "...There is an energetic exchange with the narcissist when you fall into these relationships..." I had a gut reaction from day one with the narc that targeted me. My words - unusually - got stuck in my throat, which I later surmised was my Soul limiting my exposure to a toxic black hole. I also found I could not look her in the eye, probably because she would have seen the disgust growing within me at her every lie and manipulation. My instincts were bang on. We had about twenty interactions over three months before I withdrew completely - not a word to her since, not even a glance. That was five years ago and her pursuit to try and ruin me continues, unabated and pathetically desperate.

[@carriedillmann4455]

Andrew Every so often now I listen to you. I am 5 years out of the devil relationship . I am happy and healthy and financially secure and you helped me get here. I love you 💞 Thank you ! Carrie

[@donnahalsted7718]

Blessings, Carrie. We love you, too. So good to hear your success!

[@magneticzen]

Best explanation ever out of all the vids

[@TommytheEmpath.]

Andrew You are an inspiration a truly blessed human being. Keep fighting the good fight and keep showing us the truth of these horrible tortured souls. I left her two weeks ago. I'm having to implement Gray rock because we have two small children together. But I feel my light growing and I'm healing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏😌💯🪨

[@Cat-oj4oz]

Though I've seen a thousand videos on narcissism and have come a long way in my own recovery, for whatever reason I came very close to calling the crisis line today. On my shelf is a stack of unopened letters sent from my narcissistic mother in retaliation for my silence. I have been inundated since I stopped calling her over a year ago. Rather than responding, or simply tossing the letters, I have added the word, "refused" to the envelope and am sending them back. My heart is pounding, and I am very concerned about the repercussions, including my own hospitalization as I am very near collapse. Please pray for me.

[@kathleencondit1660]

If, it helps. I once buried a letter under a tree, and put rocks on it. Somehow, you need to feel safe inside your home. Having the negative letters inside with you is likely adding to your stress. If, they are still on the shelf, put them outside. You might wish to not bring any more inside. If, you can, move fifty things in your home. That sounds crazy. It is an Art of Placement/Feng Shui principal. It gives you something positive to do, but it also changes the energy. Put some objects that you love that make you happy on that scary shelf. See if you can find someone to talk to today. Keep on, keeping on.

[@flowerpower4944]

​@@kathleencondit1660yes good advice truth,,, sage is also good for clearing out negative energy🌟🦋🧘💖

[@Cat-oj4oz]

@@kathleencondit1660 This advice was so helpful! I'm so intrigued by Feng Shui that I'm going to study it... I walk past that shelf a hundred times a day and thought that it would remind me I had a choice to make, but the energy there was so evil it broke me. I have removed the letters and cleansed the shelf and replaced them with candles and kitty cat figurines. It astounds me how well your advice worked...it all makes so much sense since I'm a highly visual person. Bless you!

[@marypalmer1062]

I meant Step Back from Thought with This 20 Minute Meditation - Eckart Tolle utube

[@sabianstringer2112]

They Don't Love Themselves and So They Can Never Feel Fulfilled Because They Are an Empty Soul to begin with.....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@Mariah.B11]

The rain looks great 👍

[@lynnfincham6839]

They are very sad individuals 😢

[@GatheringBitByBit]

Run silent and run deep!! Prepare to leave or you will be financially devastated like I was. I gave an ultimatum and the narcissist left me financially devastated and with a child still. They don’t care about yours or even their own children. Everyone and everything is expendable. Even the pets.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@lailaa6662]

Thank you thank you .. I truly needed to hear this.. it’s a powerful message.. thank you for describing those reasons and especially at the end when you say “they realise they’ve taken all they can from you or you wise up and leave them”.. I feel this applies to me at this time.. and those examples you brought up such as trying to appear younger rather than trying to be healthy .. and blaming their poor behaviour on others .. it makes sense and it brings me more clarity.. i liked the background today and the bird that kept flying past in the trees behind you.. hope the rain didn’t get you too much.. thank you.

[@donnahalsted7718]

Didn't it seem as if Andrew was describing what we went through almost day by day? WOW!

[@lailaa6662]

@@donnahalsted7718 yes that’s very true. It’s quite interesting. He’s been through it all too. Sometimes I think there’s a peep hole here that he can see through and sees what we’re dealing with 😂

[@donnahalsted7718]

Laughing, too!

[@csingle25]

I love the message. I've experienced it all and ive made it thorough 🎉. I am still recovering but im free 🙏🏽

[@carlosgiron1246]

Great video Andrew. Yes my ex narcissist was very good at taking things from me. It started slowly first losing my friends little by little I wasn't allowed to go around them. Then my finances he loved to take from me he would always tell me to prove my love for him by buying him things or giving him money. Then my family became off limits I couldn't help them in any way because they hated him, so if I loved him I would choose him over them. It was like that with everything and everyone and if I disagreed with him I was a horrible person and I really didn't love him. I'm so happy that the relationship is over and that I will never go back to him ever again or any narcissist or anyone who behaves like that. I deserve better. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words. Stay strong everyone.

[@donnahalsted7718]

Carlos, you sound so much like me. I think it's the fear of offending someone we are devoted to. Maybe? I let certain "friends" use and abuse me till one day the light came on! Would you do this to someone you love? Would you abuse someone you love like this? Would you demand this from a loved one... The questions kept coming. I began to write things down... I resent when she forces me to buy something I don't need, can't afford and will never use. I resent when she comes into my house with muddy boots. I resent her lies about silly things...and so on. It became clear to me I needed to start DOING "no". When I did, my circle of friends disappeared. She hated them anyway because she wanted me exclusively for herself, even though SHE had other "friends". My finances had long vanished. My phone calls were unanswered, messages ignored. When I greeted her in public she grunted at me without looking and turned away. She was DONE! WAHOO! I lost a lot but gained my freedom. It's hard. I do know. You are traveling a rough road. If your back teeth get loose at least you'll get to the other side. You're stronger than you know. You've already come a long way. The finish line is up ahead and you're going to make it! Me, too! Blessings, dear Brother! This is a good family to embrace!

[@christopherbrubaker2070]

I’ll add something to my last post of being bullied and abused my whole life. I still decided who I was going to be by not retaliating feeling like my life was unfair. I made that choice. I refuse to make others pay by attacking them because of my life situation. I defended myself the best I could. I will continue to support and defend the members of my community. So I guess I kinda figured out a little of who I am already.

[@donnahalsted7718]

You are precious, brother!

[@christopherbrubaker2070]

@@donnahalsted7718 Thank you. Tough days are tough days. I don’t have to tell you though. I hope you are doing well Donna.❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@frankkrischick3906]

i forgive my former narcisist for if they knew that ?Jesus died for them too and the whole word and would have understood that this fact takes all the accusations away these narcists would never have done it onto me. I have several accounts been pushed so far untill Jesus stepped in to break the bond so i can heal later on.

[@izawaniek2568]

Focus on yourself. You are the priority. We must heal our Self Love Deficit Disorder so that we will no longer be attracted to the narcisists but on the contrary we will be repulsed by them. Thank you Andrew. God bless you❤

[@jhavajoe3792]

"Self Love Deficit Disorder"-- I like that description. I can never say I'll be 100% healed, but I am happy I feel like I don't want to be within a 100 yds. of a Narc or any similar toxic people.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏😌🙌

[@Artisane23]

He infiltrated in my circle of friends in the art scene. He took over, as he always took over my life. It was also my business. I had to remove myself to avoid contact. I'm trying to rebuild my life, but now there's no way he can trace me. I don't actively use social media anymore, so he can't track me. In the meantime he influenced my daughter. With lies he managed to get her to disconnect with me. Hope she will see the light eventually. After 10 years apart, he still triest to break me .Hope he finds another hobby. He used my reactions to his abuse against me with my daughter. Don't see him failing yet. Hope he will. Thank you Andrew. ✨💞🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌🙌🙏💯

[@jazminolivari5554]

Thank you Andew, for this inspiring advice! As an empath who suffered with narcism abuse, I finally left after 20+ years, Im 36 now, I was in my early teens when my charming grandma( So I thought) charmed me in her manipulation and abuse until I finally stood up for myself and said enough! and never looked back ever since. Aging narccisists are the most exploitative and entitled!

[@Light_1966]

Thank you ! Your messages allowed me to help my adult daughter as I explained “Hovering”…. And tried to guide her with a NARC romantic interest!

[@MEL2theJ]

Thank you again NARCDAILY 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌😇🙌🙏

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

Great topic Andrew. For my part i have changed the word supply for resources in my vocabulary because that's all i was for my ex husband for twenty years. Sadly so. Have a beautiful evening coach. ❤😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙏😌☺️🙌

[@jennifernewton4637]

Hey Marie! Hope you’re enjoying your weekend! 🤗❤️🌻🌷☀️🌺🌸☀️

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

@@jennifernewton4637 hey Jennifer, yes i am. It's my last day of my two week vacations. Back at work tomorrow morning. Hope you are well my friend. Have a wonderful evening 🤗🙌💜

[@Hatbox948]

Are you sure he didn't want to terminate his parental rights and/or have you sign something that would lead them to think he was dead?

[@jennifernewton4637]

@@mariefrancebourget1749 Thank you Marie! I’m glad to hear you’ve had some time off and enjoyed that! Have a GREAT day at your first day back at work tomorrow! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ladyvirgo013]

I went from a single mother and very confident to slowly being subtly chipped away at throughout 12 years, I thought i was married & happier than ever (after he got sober & a good job) he backslid into alcohol 7 nights a week and he was playing me the entire time, he couldn't even go to work without dropping his pants for the secretary 😈

[@nanaof6angels]

💯 true Andrew sad but true

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@blessedforsure2789]

I remember dreading hearing the garage door open and wondering what kind of mood my husband will be in. My kids and I always had to walk on egg shells around him as not to upset him. I remember working full days and then get home at 7:00 pm, only to start dinner for everyone, when my husband had been home since 4 pm. He yelled, cussed, blamed everything on me and the kids and I finally left him 4 years ago. Best decision I ever made.

[@Westcoastsoul]

43 years married to a narc ...but previous to that groomed by a narc aunt...wow lucky nice me

[@debbiehepler2007]

Nobody has addressed this before and it’s really important to know.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@susanernst9222]

Thank you Andrew,you are a very smart man.I appreciate your videos.

[@marylamb56]

Live in your mind! So true Andrew! 🙈 Please hold your grip when I share this. When my husband verbally abused me / interrogate d me, I literally left the room- into the garage. Embarrassingly- …. I beat my head with my fist until I bleed profusely! It really woke me up! I was determined to stop the bleeding! I did not want to expose myself to………. Calling Emergency…. For I had caused my own wounds physically. I put pressure on my scull and cleaned it with hydrogen peroxide. It healed, thank God🙏🏼🤷🏼‍♀️.

[@taraQcoo7814]

Omg...he knew how much I loved my children...and that was the way he caused me too fall in love,, he pretended like he care about them too...😓😓😓 OmyGod I went through this and my heart aches almost every day

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯🙌😌

[@Regan_MacNeil_73]

Spot on as always… it’s such a mindf*ck and only people who’ve been in a narcissistic relationship can relate and understand. It’s such an oddity and stays with you forever. Leaves a scar on all of their victims. It’s sad…

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💯🙏

[@Regan_MacNeil_73]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🖤

[@judymclaughlin6993]

Thank you Andrew. My narc has money. I dont have much. Yet they want to destroy me financially.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯😌

[@lourdesecheverria6209]

It was a relationship with a direct path to my demise. Grateful I made it out! Namaste ♥

[@Richard-h4c5x]

Another great video as usual.

[@eliseninesling6913]

Thank you, Andrew- excellent truths to share.

[@mapleleaf902]

He pushed me too far for too long.

[@collegegirl201418]

hi andrew it looks foggy their loved today's topic love your hair pulled back like that 😌👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙌🙌

[@jennifernewton4637]

Hey there Amy Jo! He _is_ a handsome one, isn’t he?! 😉😁 Hope you’re having a great weekend! 🤗❤️☀️🌷🌻🌺🌸🪻

[@collegegirl201418]

@@jennifernewton4637he knows he's handsome i am having a good weekend

[@bestm333]

@@jennifernewton4637 not sure his followers should crack onto him though...everyone in healing is vulnerable🙌

[@louisemorgan3237]

I like it flowing free

[@marshat.ordureau3121]

BONJOUR ANDREW❤😊A NEW WEEK ,,, I AM GRATEFUL, NOW I AM PUTTING LOVE TO ME & MY FAMILY HERE IN FRANCE😊❤🇫🇷🙏FINALLY😊❤

[@elizabethflorez2372]

Yes & beyond. Past the brink . Sick sick individuals. God save us from these demons. Thank you 🙏 Love 💕

[@lauraantic1384]

That is so sad Andrew wish all we heal and never let nobody to hurt us all again couse in this world are a lot of liars and those creatures

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏😌💯

[@vickipacheco9787]

I had a hoover friend request on FB. On the third text I DELETED him, I mean it, NO MORE ABUSE from these Halflings. Thank YOU ANDREW .PEACE .🌿

[@Westcoastsoul]

Thank you so much for your clear information and guidance...after 43 years in a narc fog...groomed by a narc aunt...I am out...navigating, fighting the war...but I AM 1ST, 2ND, AND 3RD NOW...looking forward one day to be free...at 64 but FREE

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯💯💯