The Rise of Married Men PAYING for Intimacy... With Their Wife???

Married men are now paying their wives to be intimate with them?
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[@lorenza2589]

Fact: 90% of men on Onlyfans are married.

[@AnthonySforza]

I saw that recently, as well. Which gave me pause. In that "Holy CRAP"... but also "Well, can't say I'm that surprised."

[@stonesfan285]

Men can do onlyfans? I would try it out but doubt anyone wants to see a 40-year old fat guy with an average package.

[@d3ltaking419]

That’s pretty sad

[@ADifferentVibe]

Source?

[@Son-of-Krypton]

Bro fcuk marriage for real 🙄

[@alexanderb4465]

Getting married in 2024 makes zero sense. Thr attitude shift of modern women has made that option no longer viable.

[@masterblaster1502]

That and the laws that pay them to leave. Only a f00l would sign up for that.

[@paulboissiere1278]

Not married. But I’ve seen chicks/girlfriends go starfish after 6 months-1year. I just bounce. Just one reason I don’t think I’ll ever get married. Nothing in it for the modern western man.

[@microfarming8583]

Never had that problem with any of my south american girls

[@mikebenge2853]

If only I had that mindset years ago. I caused myself alot of pain

[@jetsam12]

What's wrong with starfish

[@kiuk_kiks]

Same thing. I was tired after 5 months of negotiating with my girl so I broke up with her. She magically responded and started having sex again 😂

[@microfarming8583]

This is a defeatist and loser attitude.

[@paulskopic5844]

He is better off hiring a pro at this point.

[@williamosgood3565]

Do her in the marital bed and deduct the cost from her household budget.

[@Stryk3out]

With self control, the idea of pros not that bad

[@stevejames3857]

Doesn't that make his wife a pro? Haha

[@rp7r54]

SOMEONE SAID THAT MARRIAGE IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE FORM OF PROSTITUTION

[@user-ci2mn1oy3w]

except the pro is a LOT more likely to give you a disease.

[@NWCRYPTOADVISOR]

This story sounds A LOT like my wife and I…BEFORE our divorce!🎉

[@epicepicenter715]

Congratulations, don't do it again

[@shanea9613]

Stale is no good.

[@robertadams4656]

Glad to her it fellow king

[@liberator9248]

@@shanea9613can you translate

[@liberator9248]

@@robertadams4656what.?

[@jimmytwotime6875]

And women wonder why we trade them in for a younger model?

[@fugu4163]

Exactly, who wants the old version with a bad attitude when you can be with a beautiful younger version that are pleasant and fun to be together with.

[@jimmytwotime6875]

@@fugu4163 and not fat. That's the sad thing about this video. He's trying to get it in with a disinterested butter golem.

[@zapbranigan5099]

​@@jimmytwotime6875 You haven't even seen what she looks like

[@jurgschupbach3059]

​@@zapbranigan5099are there any technical specs available?

[@jimmytwotime6875]

@zapbranigan5099 so? It has all of the classic clichés of a failing marriage. Why not assume a disinterested wife isn't a disgusting pig?

[@drtox06]

What's crazy is paying for it after a lifetime of paying full price already in the form of provisioning, protection and paternity knowing the whole time that Chad and Tyrone got it for free with zero effort and before the extra 50 lbs.

[@shaikthegangsta]

They are still getting it... When you are not watching

[@AmorosoGombe]

Bro Chad, Tyrone, Pookie and Ray Ray are getting even while you're paying the price.

[@codyleekelly]

Sounds like taxes on taxes

[@davidmiletic6647]

Lesson? Just be a Chad or Tyrone. Chyrone!!

[@tractorback76]

Youre not wrong... I hit a rut a few years ago and played whoa as me for a bit. Said fck that and changed as best as I could. Just starve yourself and lose weight. Get the lbs down and then start lifting again and eating the right way. Clean up, shave or take care of your beard and hair. Buy some good fitting clothes that are in style. Fix your teeth. Act like you're getting your ass ready to go date someone else. And if your best isn't doing the trick for her to want to fuk you then it's probably time to move on. Chances are her fear of loss will kick in and it'll take care of itself.

[@Myownboss35]

Once they get what they want (the ring, the house & the kids) the bedroom fun starts to decline.

[@gregorylatta8159]

Breach of contract!!!

[@kyprisdragonscale257]

yeah because you gave her everything she wanted and now you slowly become a beta in her eyes.

[@costafilh0]

decline with their husbands. never with their lovers!

[@FreedomTravels720]

Once he signs the government marriage contract then she stops the blow jobs...marriage is a scam 😮

[@scratch57]

this guy's wife would be more comfortable working a street corner than fulfilling a marriage. he'd be happier without her in his house at least.

[@jim-se5xc]

But why walk the rainy streets when she can do it from the lounge.

[@countrygirl432]

I must be the weirdo here. I've been married to my husband over 30 yrs and still have regular relations with my husband. Many women will disagree with me but I was raised that a wife prioritized her husband before children. If you don't do this, when children grow up and leave the family home,your husband becomes a stranger or at best,just a room mate.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

And as a result you two are probably much more happier than others around you.

[@brettwheeler7753]

Sounds like you're a God fearing woman!

[@kriztoppa]

Are you Asian?

[@DivineGoddessOnEarth]

This is biblical, and I agree.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

God bless all the good thoughtful and loving wives.

[@gsquared2394]

At that point, she is daring you to cheat so she can take half your shit.

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

She wants a bit more but butthead gone

[@horspla2000]

Then, of course, blame him for all of it.

[@PlebiteBaller]

yes, women are devious af... They plan these things sometimes for years. And then they start these games where they cause emotional trauma to force the guy to act out or do things which she can use in a case. Play the same game, play dumb to start with, then start planning the seperation by hiding all your assets. Transfer money and sell off things (cars whatever) to things that can't be tied to your name to crypto/gold/offshore/whatever. Once all preperation and planning regarding this is done, hire a lawyer and initiate divorce.

[@etiennedegaulle3817]

Yup. This dude is about to have his net worth decline by >50%.

[@DeniseFriendo]

​@@etiennedegaulle3817Yep, setting him up

[@gugy68]

I can't wait to finally divorce my wife of 27 years once my youngest son goes to college. Sad to break the family but I cannot hang around anymore. Freedom is EVERYTHING and no headaches and BS from an older woman who finds everything is a problem.

[@dgfpv1988]

I have kids involved too... The only reason I can't breakup for the love of my daughter and baby son...

[@Rog76]

@@dgfpv1988I think that’s more common than we all might think.

[@PlebiteBaller]

@@dgfpv1988 buddy, if your gf has no desire for you and it's a sexless relation then she made it clear that it is over. I would start by asking for the reason for lack of intimacy if you haven't. Maybe you yourself have changed, got fat/lazy whatever. But she wont tell you. Ask her. If her answer is not acceptable or reasonable where you can do anything then leave. Don't waste your life. Start by carfullly hiding all you funds/assets then start planning step by step, then initiate divorce/seperation. I believe the kids will by more unhappy with fighting unhappy parents than having them live seperated. In most western places you will get 50/50 custody.

[@WyldStallion-bs9oo]

Yeah my wife has told me for years now she has no inteest in sex and has become asexual. The "problem" is that she does everything else well. Good mom, works hard, helps financially..he he

[@mhaas281]

I'm at year 27 as well and in a mostly sexless non affectionate relationship. Pretty much a roommate situation.

[@AnthonySforza]

This is why I hate seeing these "therapists" responding to guys asking about how they could incline their wives to be intimate again. As they go on with a bunch of BS that doesnt pass the sniff test, like that she needs to feel safe or emotionally validated, etc etc. No man, just leave, your marriage is completely over. The first time it goes a month, you're done. Oh, she'll have lots of excuses and ma6 even swear that it will get better... just leave. As what's going to happen, is that she gives him nothing, but will be in bed with the next guy on the first night. Oh, now she feels safe and like she's emotionally validated? Not with her husband of XYZ years, but with the guy she met four hours ago? Riiiiiight...

[@airthrowDBT]

I remember telling my ex wife before I left her, that she'd have no problem blowing the next guy who had never done a thing for her. She just glared at me cus she knew it was true

[@JaguarKnight110]

I remember posting about this on a FB dating page.. all the she-spawns made it where I got kicked off the page 😂

[@gugy68]

So true.

[@americandissident9062]

The articles and therapists always focus on the man chasing his wife’s emotional comfort, which is impossible of course. The solution is always just to do more chores in the house, and that it might not work but you just need to do more anyway and be happy with no sex forever. Literally, that’s what most articles say.

[@Giopowered]

@@americandissident9062very Demasculating

[@NinjaWarhol]

Paying the wife for sex? Isn't that what marriage is anyway? A contract a woman signs to have a man be her exclusive client!!

[@gregorylatta8159]

My thoughts exactly, and we get ripped off frequently! 😆

[@yveje9720]

You could put it that way, but the man is the one who wants the exclusivity. Most of them don’t like it when the woman they’re sleeping with goes and sleeps with some other guy right after. So yes, she is exclusive to her husband generally speaking and likewise he is to her but that’s something they both benefit from. It’s not a one sided thing.

[@costafilh0]

That's called sugar baby, not a wife.

[@NinjaWarhol]

@@yveje9720 you're in for a rude awakening pal.

[@NinjaWarhol]

"If" .... let me know how that 'if' works for you.

[@Joe-gl8sr]

If it floats, flies, or f()x, it is cheaper to rent

[@TheZX11]

Haha. All the guys I knew who owned their own plane, said that. Boats were holes in the water that you threw money into.

[@Joe-gl8sr]

@@TheZX11 Here are two more for you all: Boat is actually an acronym: Break Out Another Thousand since each repair is expensive. And the other is this: How do you become a millionaire in the aviation industry? Answer: start with a billion dollars. Enjoy!!

[@sophiabulgaria3687]

@@Joe-gl8srPlease stop

[@christophmunch4796]

Anyone who believes that you can get "intimacy" for free is plain dumb. You ALWAYS have to pay, in one form or another.

[@PapaLejskov]

The main idea here that the guy has already paid (being her husband), but she requires additional payment.

[@christophmunch4796]

@@PapaLejskov Anyone who believes that you at some point can stop paying is equally dumb/naive. You will always continue to pay in one form or another.

[@nikes4444]

@@christophmunch4796you shouldn’t have to “pay” your wife for sex

[@benjaminstarks4071]

​@@christophmunch4796yes. Just listening to the mindless nonsense that comes out of her mouth is in itself an exorbitant fee.

[@craigsmith9876]

Not true but maybe for you

[@Chris-qv5mc]

We often talk about fatherless women but this has to be an example of a fatherless man. The last time I was a doormat for a woman I was a young teenager and once my dad heard me on the phone he set me straight BELIEVE ME 🤣

[@lifeisbetterwithj]

The wisest father son lesson - ever!

[@jasondueck9130]

Tom Leykis did an episode on the spreadsheet guy when it hit the news. I can still hear Tom reading off the spreadsheet, listing dates, excuses, and the very occasional Yes! 😆

[@benjaminstarks4071]

Tom was way ahead of his time.

[@CobraR1993]

Blow me up Tom!!

[@gd515051]

With their wives? Lmfao!!! This would be like going to the store to buy underwear out of your own hamper.

[@antoniosalazar565]

Dirty ones

[@colinroper3887]

Lol

[@josedanielrodriguez1126]

😂😂😂😂 Good one

[@stonesfan285]

At that point I'd rather just pay for it and then go home with no wife. Yeah it sucks when you don't have a partner to do anything with, but it beats being in a sexless or hostile marriage.

[@jeffhalla777]

Had that problem with my first relationship, sons mother. So I dropped her and upgraded. Got a girl 8 years younger married. Took a long time to de program myself from my mothers and all the women’s advice they gave me while I was a kid about how to treat a girl… none of it fucking worked. I mean I may have not have had the communication skills but I had at least the looks and the body at that time. Now I have the mind set to put them in their place which you still have to even while married.. I’m not a rich guy but I’m working on it. Wife can be impatient but if I’m growing what I’m doing is working for me. Most of the time you don’t become what you want overnight. Women are impatient. They need to be brought back down to reality every now and then. Hard Life lessons! Love that’s there is material out there now to help younger guys understand.

[@2Petya]

Same here. Took me till my 30s to realize the feminist programming is bs. Fun fact is my mother respects and loves me since. I have to put her in her place ever now n then. I was treated like the lil btch before.

[@mikewiner3559]

1000% correct Rich. Where were you 15 years ago when I needed this advice most?!

[@njjj3338]

Divorce her! I had more sex in the first year after my divorce, than I did in my 13 year marriage. My girl never refuses or withholds sex from me. This is because the government is not involved in my relationship. Laws need to change and the government needs get the F out of peoples relationships or marriage will never work.

[@yveje9720]

It’s cause some men marry “hypergamously” they only agree to marry when the woman is clearly out of their league, and would not really be that into them otherwise. If men would marry the “fwb/side chick” it wouldn’t be this way. But we all seen it. A guy had some ugly slightly chubby girl chasing him but he didn’t want her went for the really hot girl to marry and then she divorce him. It happens to older men who try to marry younger all the time. These men have the highest divorce rate.

[@jca65lb]

Sad state of affairs. May as well go look for some strange.

[@PeterErikson-rd5tj]

They Ask, Why aren't you married -- with a hostile tone ---- The only way to Survive is Don't Cave into the Marage trap.

[@dormandavis2767]

Well, I can tell you from my experience. There are good women out there. My wife passed away after 30 years of marriage. She was a chronic alcoholic. I had thought about years ago about divorcing her for just that. But something told me to hang on anyway, her health started to fail and she died of Covid, I had it too because my health was a lot better. She passed away and I found a girlfriend almost immediately. After two years, we are getting married and she is the most loving woman I have ever experienced. We’ve been together for two years. We’ve lived together for a year and a half and things could not be better. We are both 63. I briefly dated a woman that was 15 years younger than me and after one date, I decided to break it off. I felt like I was going to be an open Wallet.

[@sideman7117]

I hope you’re just as happy 3-5 years down the road.

[@whocarescrapsa]

In my experience, the married part is what changes it every time. I hope it stays the way it is now. I wish you all the best.

[@dormandavis2767]

@@sideman7117 well we are both retired and just want to enjoy ourselves. Sex is the best I ever had at 63 both of us.

[@dormandavis2767]

@@whocarescrapsa I know there’s a possibility you can change. This is my third marriage. My last wife died unexpectedly.

[@dormandavis2767]

The only thing we both want to do now is ride off into the sunset and just be there for our kids and our grandkids that’s all we wanna do and go camping. We both have the same interests and which that is very rare. You find the significant other that would like to do that.

[@scratch57]

it should be frequent enough that you can't keep a count and should have been recent enough that you can't remember exactly when anything less is jeopardizing your man's commitment to you.

[@ArmyWolves]

I find it perplexing that a wo*man will lovebomb a man with intimacy to accelerate him developing feelings and committing to her meaning she knows how strong and powerful physical intimacy is and then the same wo*man will starve her husband for years and then wonder when he cheats or divorces her.

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

​@ArmyWolveshe cheats and divorces, is the go 🤔

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

He is her dupe, 🎉

[@danieldpa8484]

It’s unacceptable from a wife to act like a paid escort. No way! If she acts like it, that’s 100% divorce.

[@hocuspocus9713]

You can't divorce without losing half your stuff. She wins either way.

[@MarkBreton]

I thank God that this situation does not apply to me. This is insane.

[@nitrosimharao54]

Past - Men were taught to be the leader's and women were taught to follow the leader. Present - Men are expected to be therapist and are shamed for leading and are left alone by their partner's for not leading, women are taught to not to follow the man and to question their man and take charge of leading only to wreck their family and finance's.

[@drip369]

That's really sad. I doubt these women are worthy of being paid for laying there

[@morpheus9281]

I have an iron clad prenup and zero marital assets. She does what I want when I want or she leaves with nothing. Simple.

[@kaijorgensen6940]

Serious inquiry here man. How did you go about that? And you are you based in the US? I sincerely doubt I will get re-married, however I haven't had kids so it's on the consideration list. I have yet to see a pre-nup be ironclad in my state of Utah.

[@morpheus9281]

@@kaijorgensen6940 we don’t have children and won’t. All assets and debts are identified and separated in the prenup. I made her pull a credit report in front of me to verify this. She forfeits any claim for alimony or my pension in the prenup. And as long as no future assets have both our names on them, there is no marital assets. And we maintain separate bank accounts too. So no co-mingling of funds. This is in North Carolina and I’m in the military. So being married has more benefits for us than with civilians. If there’s a significant lifestyle change for her, like not working anymore, I will have the prenup updated as a postnup. If she refuses to sign I’ll divorce her.

[@susanhaines7358]

Yes!!!!! THIS is the mindset I want in a marriage!!!! No coddling responsibility two people have with each other!! Fuck yeah!!!! You want sex? Yes! You want a certain meal for dinner? Yes! I want the bedroom painted that fucker best be at home depot picking out paint! Gtfo here with anything less than this. Excellent!!!! Each does what the other says now or get to stepping.

[@morpheus9281]

@@manofparadox believe what you want. I know what’s notarized in my gun safe.

[@savagesteve5894]

passport bro?

[@projectaletheia8707]

Has it really gotten this bad?

[@C0LL0SSUS]

Yeah this is 100% believable.

[@helbertcampos646]

yes

[@mikebenge2853]

Well actually alot of times you can't even bribe her for it.

[@infectaphibian]

Yes, it has..

[@tractorback76]

It's always been this way

[@PepeToTheMooon]

Isn’t that the entire point of marriage?? Giving half your ownership for one woman?

[@microfarming8583]

That's what pre nup is for

[@redcircuits110]

im buying more pepe

[@whocarescrapsa]

Seeing that he is already paying for it...he might as well shop around and see what the going rates are with professionals. Then negotiate with your wife telling her she is too expensive to be competitive in the market (just like she did with your gift). When she says she will divorce you if you do that...oh ok, so you don't want me to tell you when I do it. Got it. From this point on treat her naked body like an old smelly shoe. Have zero attraction towards her. If she wants to fool around...let her down nicely in a playful "rather do the things you like doing and are good at" kind of way. You will see how quickly the power shifts back. It drives them nuts when they can't manipulate you over that.

[@airthrowDBT]

As someone who has been married twice, professionals are way cheaper per session of intimacy, and they also wont be around to freaking constantly complain about you.

[@whocarescrapsa]

@@airthrowDBT They thrilled to see you ($$$) and have a smile on their face vs rolling their eyes like they are doing you a favor.

[@JS-sy8do]

Sounds like a temporary fix. Once you have sex the manipulation revs back up. Constant nonsense.

[@aml8997]

Well, he can stay for the children but he has to tell her that he is going to look for sex outside ...if she does not agree, leave her and try as best as you can to make it work out with your ex and the kids. I myself "exercised" outside because of the children but I should have told her instead. She would not have ever accepted it, I know that...well, why did I stay? I lost 5-8 precious years for myself. We are not together anyway anymore. Go figure.

[@pawelallable]

My dad pays my mom $10 a day when she gets out of bed before 7am. Before he started doing this, she was staging up til 1-2am and sleeping til 10am which annoyed him both at night and in the morning. Marriage is weird.

[@joewalsh4685]

A friend of mine has to pay his wife one hundred dollars a time, it's been like that the past 5 years, they have been married for 15 years, and have 3 children, he is alright with it.

[@Weakeyedominant]

That's insane

[@licensedprofessional4742]

Imagine reading all the memos in Venmo! 😂

[@LadyJane222]

That’s ridiculous. She’s his wife and he’s her husband. Lots of crazy people out there.

[@rp7r54]

MARRIAGE IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE FORM OF PROSTITUTION

[@nikes4444]

She’s def stepping out

[@NofyahShemTov]

Recommended by a Princeton University professor..... this started years ago

[@pp-bb6jj]

Jesus Christ this is depressing. Men simply lose only leverage they have in marriage.

[@musafawundu6718]

The memo should go around that men should not tolerate this at all. Every man should receive it. Withholding sex is a cause for one to have it from some other woman. And with regards to sex, decide whether you want sex or intimacy. Sex is much easier to have than intimacy. Intimacy takes work. You can develop the mindset not to care about intimacy.

[@skatedd2451]

Love what you do thanks for sticking up for the guys

[@NofyahShemTov]

Wow. Get a divorce.

[@docjoe999]

He should, but the kids are going to suffer. That is IMO one of the other real problems. Women keep saying they care about their kids but if they did, they would keep their men sexually satisfied. In that way, this woman is saying she does not care about her kids.

[@jamesballard6564]

He will most likely loose custody of his kids. Seeing them every other weekend IFom plays along. Also possible alimony. If not child support is so high it's effectively built in alimony. Kiss goodbye half his retirement fund as well. As the old saying goes... cheaper to keep her.

[@stingingjwc]

I’m so glad I don’t have to worry about this. No need to make my life even harder

[@rbfarrell1]

If you take into account the sex life of most married men they are actually paying a very high price for a sexless marriage.

[@blatent]

ALL MEN PAY - Either DIRECTLY or INDIRECTLY.

[@law844]

Just brutal. He should start withholding paying the bills, fixing the vehicle, maintaining the yard, etc.

[@DeniseFriendo]

Wait till she wants it and try to get her to buy you free stuff in exchange 😂

[@davidkeljik7558]

I got divorced 4 years ago at age 56. Todays world is set up for us to get what we want. I'm with young beautiful women whenever I want. I'm not paying for it. Get some game, guys. It's so easy once you have true confidence. Never be intimidated by beauty.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

How are you pu pulling that off and what is your game? I mean if you where a photographer or owned a bar or restaurant you would get action by proxy in those situations.

[@jetsam12]

BS

[@lsgsrob2102]

Not BS at all and isn’t difficult. If you take care of yourself, their is no reason, as a man, that you can’t look extremely attractive to a women in the early 20’s to 30’s.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@lsgsrob2102 I'm sure you are setup where it's easy and natural for you. While many flounder in their frustrations.

[@SanDiegoBiz]

Garbage. You’re paying for it buddy. Women are not dating you as a senior citizen, “ 55 years “!, because you’re confident. Keep telling yourself that brotha.

[@ArmyWolves]

Withholding intimacy by a wife would be like a man who is the primary provider not giving her money for her maintenence and she is DEPENDANT on him and he blackmails her into allowing him to have a mistress, acts she never agreed to before marriage etc. . .

[@davetopcat4892]

This is a tough situation and i have seen several mates in this situation.Before marriage and kids the woman were aching for it.After marriage and kids no longer interested.Many guys stay for the children and try and make a go of it but you only have to look at how busy hookers and massage parlours are to see how some guys are dealing with no sex at home

[@haythamthabit42]

It’s crazy how busy they typically get because of what you mention

[@TheZX11]

Made the mistake of describing starfish seggs to the wife. Joking about it on the river tube float, she yelled "Starfish" and posed like it on the tube. Then the kids around us thought it was a water thing (starfishes) and started yelling it and posing too. Then yelling it on the whole river tube float with more drunk strangers joining in yelling it too. Funny and horrifying.

[@CEOsario]

Married 42 yrs...It ain't good...and I am getting madder and madder about it...I have tried everything...but paying somebody else... :)

[@craigsmith9876]

Been there done that left the Tee shirt. Leaving is probably more expensive than paying and staying but the very fact that you have to even be thinking of living a life like this is the green light to leave.

[@SA-vz7qi]

Terrible situation. If she is like that move out of that bedroom. Use another room in the house as your bedroom. Go out more, be absent. If she doesn't start to recognise you are not a fixture and up her game, then look elsewhere and prep for divorce. Some wives freak out when the husband moves out because the kids talk and other parents work out she isn't pulling her weight.

[@simoneades7327]

I have no words for this … mind blown

[@pentrubarbati]

WTF WTF WTF .... so good being single ...

[@G.M85007]

Wft. If my wife pull some stuff like or some how we dont have sex anymore over time I told her already i will get a divorce.

[@marcusp905]

What a carry on !!

[@user-wg3bu5wh6d]

I recall in my 20s often trying to go for sex on the first date. That often scared them off. Glad I did. This is what I'm missing out on, marriage. Sounds like hell.

[@budbrudis5213]

You have to look at women like a used car. You turn it over and it won’t start, you trade it in. Gets old and rattles, you trade it in. 100k miles or 10 years which ever comes first, you trade it in on a young model but only lease with a trade in option after 2 years.

[@jetsam12]

I have recently went from reverse cowgirl to starfish / froozen catfish action

[@simongl1985]

This is wild! I should have known this will happen. You just always think you have heard the worst but then something like this comes along😂

[@ianmoone3323]

Thank god I discovered the Red Pill years ago. Fully digested it. Saved my life. I find it both funny and painful that the majority of men don't understand women, or their wives.

[@MrJujitsu62]

Let’s face reality. Any married man is paying for it whether he thinks he is or not. If you don’t ; then divorce is going to be an unwelcome surprise. Don’t get married, go rent a girl when the desire hits you. Save yourself a ton of grief and money.

[@haythamthabit42]

I agree

[@josephroussel3195]

Isn't that what we have been doing for ever?

[@troysmith5749]

It doesn't matter how awesome you are, eventually she will get bored of you.

[@valentinoborrelli387]

The refusal of openness to life is the first betrayal of the marriage vows... after comes the refusal of intimacy...

[@joannegibson-lucas3791]

I'm glad I had a husband who could warm me up for the loving. We still are lovers after 30 years and no body does it better.

[@haythamthabit42]

How do you guys manage to maintain that for so long?

[@fg6147]

Yeah that shit started happening to me. Freaking extorting me.Things came to a head after I mentally decided to stop being a Beta male. Surprise, surprise. We're now separated.

[@zeroplague]

Sounds like it's over.

[@conorblue]

In my marriage, sex was regular before having our baby last year. Obviously suffered after, but re emerged strong. Then suffered - now back. We have strong desire for one another. After giving birth, she’s had some body issues. She’s used to being the 10 in the room (not bragging just reality, I’m lucky), and has gained weight. So she’s hard on herself. Pre period has been harder some months. Big swings of hormones. So we are communicating, being honest, and working through it. When she lets go of her insecurity and is even keeled after a period, it’s just like the good old days.

[@shannonpickens7695]

🙋‍♀️ yep. Sounds like my household. severely lacking here.

[@antoniosalazar565]

Run !!!

[@extremisttotheextremeantid7554]

I plan on making a video where I will be discussing the current crises situation regarding marriage material women facing young men who are looking for a wife & family and the solution to it which is the passport bro movement. I am 26 soon, I speak fluent Arabic and will be flying back home to the Middle East to tour it in my late twenties in hopes of finding the right woman and to raise a family there as I have given up on finding a wife here in Australia. The degeneracy, high standards, rampant feminist mindset, godlessness, biased unfair family courts towards men & child support custody etc. all have made it very unappealing for myself to find a woman from here even among. In addition, with the LGBTQ agenda being promoted to young kids in the school system, it has me very concerned for my children and why I want to raise them back home. I will vlog my travels to the Middle East, show the audience the beautiful people and conservative culture.

[@whatdupson]

Where can we listen to the full version of that theme song at the end????

[@mikebenge2853]

Going forward in my life, when the intimacy is gone so am i. Like rich says about genuine burning desire...

[@alexr6470]

Unbelievable! I don't fathom why some guys have so low self-esteem of themselves. He should have divorced her long time ago. Life is too short

[@australianknifemagazine2764]

Take the Red Pill and LEAVE!

[@djmickeyTV]

Would loveeeee to hear some reasons for this behavior from some women and let them justify it

[@nikosniko7092]

Book ticket to Thailand …ASAP

[@zandig666]

You will be paying regardless. If you sign on the dotted line she just got half your wealth minimum and they tend to make less because they are off, scale back on hours, change jobs or retire early

[@cal.712]

😆😆😆😆😆😆 this is hilarious!

[@svilenivanov3621]

So true

[@emartinezr]

That's what marriage is. It's a long-term rental.

[@Broker205]

6:25 “That’s where the butt, best stuff happens.” Freudian slip? I think not, you had it right the first time!

[@Angelo80907]

I started sleeping in separate rooms after I noticed how consistent her unwillingness to be intimate was. After 3 moths of sleeping in separate rooms she looks for me but, I can’t see myself going back to sleeping in the same bed with her. I was getting fed bread crumbs.

[@idonjohnson6999]

Oh man this is so wrong for too many reasons. RUN!

[@tenchuben]

Can’t believe things have gotten this bad, married once never again

[@gregpettis1113]

It's always been this way

[@lotusflower7597]

What a paradoxical video!

[@hastensavoir7782]

Women make relationships look/sound NO FUN @ ALL. They don’t hold their end of the bargain, it’s always THEM asking for everything in the world.

[@socratesvela8285]

There is no point. This is why young men will not ever get married. As soon as you put a 💍 on it, that is it. She does need to want you anymore.

[@tarheel181]

To some extent we all pay for it; depends on how it is structured and the potential benefits. I generally agree that getting married today has limited upside and lots of downside. Sort of like buying a house in SF and Austin....chop chop, Sam

[@ketoninja]

Ouch. That's all I can say, my friend.

[@Fontainebleauify]

Haha, I think this is common... I'll admit I did it a few times. We divorced 2 years later. Luckily I had a 90/10 no alimony post nup. Of course it doesn't start this way... part of what fools men.... in fact in this case it was literally all the time for 2 years... then dropped off slowly but consistently. It's the nature of women... guys look at the stats... for anyone married 5 years plus.. 90% of them do it 1/month or less. Understand that you are the stat, not special. Dont' believe anything else or that your special and have some magic game or your a rich great provider etc... it's all irrelevant.. once married, especially without a nup, they won and will act accordingly.

[@FreedomTravels720]

Your right it gets really played at the 5 year mark...doesn't matter how beautiful she is...best advise don't get married...😊

[@WWIIKittyhawk]

What a world we live in.

[@kyrilkaplan5011]

Under one form or another...we pay...

[@frenchmime1972]

If you want a long term relationship you are going to have to pay in some way

[@Charles_Muamba]

6:26 this is an old & tired talking point that seriously needs to be retired. “Burning desire” isn’t the end all and be all. Nor does it last forever. There’s a well known story about an interview with the late Hugh Hefner where the interviewer asked him if he was aware that the girls were only around because of his resources. His answer: “I don’t care why they’re here, I care that they’re here.” All human beings have a selfish gene and utilize it quite often. And all relationships eventually become transactional. I’d rather pay an enthusiastic transactioner for a good time than be strapped to a resentful unenthusiastic woman.