The Role Of Women | Commenting On Comments

[@ExpectTheSpanishInquisition]

A really smart lady (not me) once said, "If your man isn't coming home to a home cooked meal and regular sex, you might as well go out and pick his side chick".

[@Cryptoversity]

That's gold! I have learned that, if you don't leave a shitty woman, your just a coward. People use kids as a lame, patronizing lie of an excuse; you always leave unless you are a chickenshit. Same is true in any partnership.

[@drewdown826]

well keep in mind regular sex is better with a fit woman...so stay fit

[@ty2010]

That chick is the anime Wendys girl - obesity epidemic

[@keithjackson4985]

😂 lol. Lady, you have me laughing out loud!

[@Nick-zz6xl]

These days a lot of men don`t want the wife, or side chick. Too much risk.

[@wi4305]

When the genders flip a society falls.

[@bigjimcrawdaddyx8731]

Unless you're a metaphysician & think there's some deep essence to gender, that's incorrect.

[@Dbjjr26]

Facts

[@looseygoosey1349]

No it doesnt

[@looseygoosey1349]

@@pramod119 No it wont the past as gone through worse fucking times like wars and plagues and such but you think Women being more in control in what they do is going to collapse civilzation? LOL DUDE I THINK YOU DROPED YOUR BALLS

[@alexwalker2582]

Well....there HAVE been matriarchal societies in the past that have lasted for several hundred years, however, generally, yes you are correct that patriarchal societies last longer and are more stable. I WILL say though that those matriarchal societies recognized men for what and how they are, and didn't deny them what they needed to feel fulfilled.

[@coachpowers5923]

You are so freaking REAL. WHY aren’t there more people like you on KZbin? You have so much wisdom it’s ridiculous.

[@rodjackson9652]

I got full custody of my son 3 years ago. I know - solo dad - strange eh. He is now empowered, knows what respect looks like and feels like. I am teaching him to be a Gentleman - until there is a need for him to *not* be a Gentleman.

[@jean-marcandjoshua-petsjournal]

Rod Jackson you did the right thing Rod. Your son will be better for it.

[@paulbucklebuckle4921]

Second that , I was raised by a single Mon n a step Dad, disaster took me years to make something of myself , after they met I was a gooseberry in the relationship .

[@henryf5001]

@@paulbucklebuckle4921 Single moms are terrible for the child

[@MrMrbrianbechtel]

There has been a renaissance for men, cultivating themselves for a few years now. Women are overdue and could use some serious introspection

[@emilkadd]

Brian Bomofob agree, tables have turned

[@backwatersandbackroads]

Well said

[@stanspb763]

Every movement dies eventually of its own excess use of imbalanced power. The woman's movement started with simple clear objectives such as voting rights, control of her own property and to be able to sign contracts. That movement evolved over a number of waves over a number of decades to be abusive and extreme and has captured a much more dominant power over life in the west that is reaching the point of self-destructing due to to the extremes of imbalance and in another decade will fade, but the laws and policies it created will last far longer. Men isolating themselves are avoiding the battle for balance but women see men avoiding them as abusive and selfish. A generation or two of useless men will come and go before balance will be seen as the optimum state of being, by both sexes. The greatest resistance to 4th wave extreme feminism is simply being happy and not having their actions have an influence on your life. If it takes avoiding contact, that is fine, if it takes avoiding sex, there are alternatives and from when humans evolved there were females who traded sex for material gains, such as escorts or hookers. There is a natural drive to raise another generation but there is no need for it, there are far too many people as it is, and most contribute nothing to the human race so not having kids can be an act of responsibility to improve the survival of the species.

[@MrJordwalk]

Cultural Marxism has utterly ravaged men's faith in God, faith in women, faith in marriage and faith in society in the West and self-preservation is all that remains. New possibilities become apparent when faith crumbles away though and men are currently withdrawing inward and outward en masse in order to find/cultivate faith in themselves because of this. The liberation of men has begun and Feminists are worried because men who practice self-affirmation can become forces to be reckoned with, as self-belief is an immeasurably deep well of power. History and social change are written by men who believe in themselves. Self-affirmed men become revolutionaries, teachers, innovators, trailblazers, leaders, the lights in dark times, and beacons of hope who inspire others to follow them out of darkness. THIS WILL BE THE DECADE OF MENTERPRISE! and we men will commit to entrepreneurism, self-investment and self-actualization. The metamorphosis of men is beginning, and we will burst from the weak and corrupt shell of modern society like moths from a cocoon 10, 15 , 20, 25 or maybe even 30 years from now. Women will be given a choice: Join us in the new order and reap the benefits, or stay in the old one and reap the consequences.

[@roninsjourney7560]

Introspection and taking responsibility are the hardest things for women to do.

[@jons1992]

Withholding sex is a form of emotional abuse. It's a form of punishment because if you bring it up you get attacked. Narcissists are notorious for doing it because it gives them a feeling of control and they enjoy hurting their victims emotionally. Also remember if they're not giving it to you they're probably giving it to someone else on the side. There's nothing worse than being essentially a roommate and feeling alone while living with a selfish asshole. It's better to leave and be alone than to suffer in those circumstances.

[@iamthatiam4496]

Pikachu fan And tripolar fan Then she has no complaints when your eyes begin to look at what is out there

[@jessejones7701]

Jon S If up put up with that shit from a woman ,you deserve it , I wouldn’t feel sorry for any simp that is a doormat

[@vohnmartez9820]

Anytime this happens I laugh. Then proceed to go to my other bitch house.

[@Doug5614]

'Been through it too. 2011 was the worst year of my life. Was the year I realized we were really going through with the divorce when she was seriously withholding sex. That was the year this Jedi turned Sith Lord. Was left with little choice and made some cold decisions.

[@garnhamr]

unless you enjoy abuse ;)

[@hassanchop3622]

Been single 4 years. Sometimes I miss a relationship but really not enough to risk what I experienced in the past. I'm too happy and calm now to get caught by another narcissistic woman.

[@sinclaire0632]

I felt that, being single for 2 years now, ain't gonna go back to a shitty relationship with a bad sex life and everything that will cost m'y inner peace and serenity, ain't go back with a fucking selfish and narcissistic crazy women, that's it, that's the right way to be an happy man today

[@JettBlast]

I wish I knew that knowledge at 20 years old!

[@hindenberg507]

same.

[@nbody6942]

I've been divorced for 7 years now. I don't miss having a full time relationship, pump and dump, but I'm close to 50 so I don't need sex that often, just a couple times a week I'm good.

[@hassanchop3622]

@@nbody6942 I can probably do without sex all together really. Given the luck I have on dating sites it's probably a good thing a feel this way.😂

[@joeldalton473]

This video really touched me. I served 25 years in the Army and now I have certain ailments. My wife should have left me long ago, and in truth I have tried to give her every excuse to leave. But she refuses to give up on me. There are great women out there. That's why MGTOW makes me feel sad.

[@Dcypled]

I feel like your wife is super rare

[@bulldozer7656]

I feel you brother.. but my wife gave up and decided to divorce. Although we're still friends, I feel betrayed. For better or worse, yeah right. Moving to the Yukon now. 8 years in Iraq left me w severe PTSD AND *Issues* too.. life goes on.

[@j.w.31]

If you were to give a percentage of the population, in, say, The United States, how many women would fall into that category? 0.5%?

[@markmolen9039]

Why do I need a woman. My ex wife taught me to live without sex for over a decade. Now I simply don't need it but also don't need to pay for her overpriced house, car, clothes, dinners and vacations. I don't even talk to women if it can be avoided. I know what women want which is for me to provide resources and act as her work horse. I am done with that role.

[@johnboy6594]

Good for you brother. You know what you want. Enjoy the freedom that comes with your life.

[@yahknow01]

Why provide for someone who hates you? Lesson I had to learn the hard way. Oh, and turning the other cheek only works for so long. Great comment Mark.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

It's not about Men and Women needing. That's the problem. It's about desiring a partner. I'm really sorry that you went through that.

[@JettBlast]

I wish I knew that knowledge at 20 years old!

[@hindenberg507]

exactly ! they contribute a miniscule amount to civilization and to mens lives, the main part is sexual so why do we break our backs for a creature that does very little ? we are better off leading our own lives and creating and just using them for sex when we need. they arent much needed anymore. forget whamen.

[@cultofmalgus1310]

I'm a guy that hasn't cried in years but last month my dog died and I was crying for 2 days almost straight.

[@JenniferMoleski]

Oh! You're one of my community! I'm sorry to hear that. What kind of dog? Name? Sex? Age?

[@cultofmalgus1310]

@@JenniferMoleski her name was Thunder, she was an American Pitbull Terrier and she was 6 years old. She had stage 4 lymphoma. Nothing could be done.

[@drewdown826]

@@cultofmalgus1310 who isnt gonna cry, i love my girl to death shes 2 a german shepperd and I dread the day. but i dont think about it

[@zil5296]

Mans best friend understandable since dogs are the only other creature that evolved and gained the same trait a men has loyalty.

[@GentlRebel]

I am convinced that dogs show us the purest form of love that exists. I am sorry for your loss.

[@harlequin2280]

The surest sign of tyranny by a woman in a relationship is to withhold sex from her partner WHILST simultaneously holding the position that the man having sex with someone else is the greatest violation ever. Why someone would covet your exclusivity and not cater to it is beyond insane.

[@randallmason9687]

The fear of getting divorce raped in court, and having Your children ripped away from You are the only reasons that a Man will stay in an abusive or sexless marriage! Those consequences do not apply to Women. So most Women do not see or consider them. Videos like these are a great start, but not the big picture. Many Men are living in misery just to stay with there children. In some states Men have to pay alimony. How would You like to have to pay someone for the rest of Your life? Men are court ordered in some cases to pay for a child that is DNA proven to not be His! Lots of Men would love to have a Wife and a family, but not at this price!

[@rp1645]

This is my personal opinion only when I see the # of homeless MEN out there I feel some of them just gave up. Thay had a Court order on there pay. So thay feel why work I am going to loss everything. For men today it's staked not in there favor. Every other week end & 1 day a week is not a parent. The schools want to teach sex ed to very young children. Child learn how to master mind the single parent you abused me the parents life is ruined. Men are waking up the walk away group is saying why get in a relationship with the opposite sex. It's not worth it.

[@hominem3731]

Not fear of marriage. Men are problem solvers and the marriage equation has been found to be not worth it.

[@brianwenzel8791]

I among most men are afraid of being in a relationship for fear of being lied to, manipulated, cheated on, taken advantage of, and generally getting screwed over. That's the reality men have to face now days. Marriage, dating, or even thinking about being close to a female is a anxiety situation that doesn't make logical sense. After being married and now divorced, I will never be put through the psychotic mind altering disillusional relationship experience most drama filled woman want a man to go thru. Which I must say, too many times men follow up on the married life BS, yes dear, no dear, how can I bend over backwards to barely please you type of crap. I honestly think that if most men would truly be themselves and not bow down to any and all of a females bidding, life for guys would be way better. Just let them try to figure it out. I've learned the hard way, a marriage is a license to bitch, whine, and complain, with no recourse. A never ending problem/ nightmare. I'm not going to take she it from anyone. Freedom is having money to not deal with peoples stupidity. Drama / stress is not what a man will ever need or want. They are unfortunately out there. Just haven't been screwed over enough to know the difference yet. It's just a matter of time, and things will eventually change. Us real men will wait while laugh at all the silly schmucks who enjoy kissing an undeserving female ace. They're out there still. Just haven't figured it all out yet. I'm sure when they do its gonna be Good luck finding that perfect man / idiot Lady's.

[@barelyaverage2051]

I mean it would be understandable that your children are “ripped away from you” (even though courts like when both parents are involved, but ok..) since the mother is often times the person that stays home with the children and attends to their needs the best and probably has a better connection with the child(ren). And you only have to pay alimony if your partner makes significantly less than you (example : you work and your former wife is a stay at home mom) and those cases of having to pay for child that isn’t your own is so rare.

[@aretwodeetoo1181]

@@barelyaverage2051 You couldn't be more wrong... Modern research shows uniquivocally that children require both roles for their development. It's not that the "mother does it better" because the mother can't play father no matter what the feminists say and the child delinquency evidence backs this up cleanly. Many of the social and relationship issues described in this channel are directly caused by boys and girls who never had a father, or who had an effectively absent father dominated by the mother because he couldn't leave and keep his kids. The solution is equal parental rights from age 1, with sole exeption being child abuse proven beyond reasonable doubt. End of story.

[@floridaman7786]

Have to agree with Jen. Sex as a bi-annual event is hell.

[@reclaimer1178]

@@arnieus866 if they are physically capable but saying no, then it is their fault. Tell me, would you consider a relationship where both people only met the needs of the other when they felt like it a healthy one? Would a relationship that has 0 sacrifice encourage love?

[@richardmiseljr2413]

I don'r even get bi-annual sex. haven't had sex in 4 years.

[@LivieLiv723]

If a woman doesn’t want to give you sex she doesn’t want you.

[@mstandenberg1421]

You’re bi twice a year?

[@justincarlozmaxino1100]

That well is dry kimosabe, why white man still dig?

[@slimdout]

Adam Walsh, was abducted and murdered in the early 80s. His father, John, started the show America's Most Wanted afterwards

[@hughsnyder891]

Exactly. She was off by a few decades . I would say since I’m 68 I grew up in the 50’s and 60’s the helicopter parent thing started in the 80’s .

[@truepatriot1959]

I like your definition of your ideal man. I would add to that Does not lie, Keeps his word, protects the weak and treats others with respect. I am old fashioned that way.

[@andyt3938]

I am a man. My wife is a woman. We are now an oddity in today’s culture.

[@twoprayingbuddhas892]

My bf and i are the in the same situation. Let us all keep strong and respect each other. This is how men and women should live together

[@urmomgay2794]

Heterosexual relationships have never been and will never be an oddity. Accepting those who were born with different sexual preferences is not a threat to heterosexuality. It may seem like there are a lot of gay and transsexual people as of late, but that is just because they aren't being beaten into the shadows anymore, they have always been living amongst us. Biologically, they will always be a minority; that doesn't make them different, that doesn't make them monsters, and that most certainly doesn't make them a threat.

[@JoJo-vm8vk]

@@urmomgay2794 Sure, but they are making too much noise, and the media are all too happy to talk about it. In a connected society like it is now, it isn’t doing any good for anybody. Too much “attention whore” out there. Beware of the backfire...

[@doha057]

When did things went beyond out of control? Women used to nag or complain, men used to ignore but still cared. Now I don't really see a feminine women anymore, I see snakes, venomous, pretentious and cunning. And the guys who are still advocating for marriage are like foxes who lost their tail, now they miss it but since they can't regrow it, they want all other foxes to lose their tails too. How do you think you can bring back the good old days?

[@Macheako]

Men have to get off their ass....because it wasn't women who GAVE US the "Good Ol Days".... It was our Forefathers.

[@jironsr9558]

I once dated a woman.. Sexy woman I might add that always acted tough, and was not in her feminine.. 5 months later got tired of her shit and left her ass

[@Spookdookin]

Dave Todd Hahaha, “Total collapse of civilization”. Thanks man, needed a good chuckle...fuck me hahahaHAH

[@justincarlozmaxino1100]

Wait where do you live? I have never seen a guy who has not complained about being married at one time or another. And i'm a millenial my married freinds tell me to fucking enjoy being single because it sucks balls, including our older dudes who we work with.

[@SebastianLong]

It all starts at the parenting, or should I say lack thereof. When I was younger, I had to work to get what I wanted and was punished as necessary. The biggest thing was affection from the appropriate adult. Most kids are tossed a video game, or cell phone, taken from them when bad. That's not parenting, the only affection felt is role playing in a video game. Taking that from them isn't effective as they will just go to a friend's place to play. That doesn't teach survival and what's right and wrong, most importantly, not learning what true love is. Love is parenting and teaches more than most people will understand. Just my take.

[@ericmancillas62]

I believe that cell phones are just the newest way people can practice narcissism. Let's look back to when the mirror came to the world.

[@robertgaron9057]

In the 1970s we sat at dinner with the family. No TV. We spoke with one another, fought with one another, supported one another. Dads spent time with their sons. My dad took us to baseball practice although he couldn’t make it to every game. He reinforced the male role for my brothers and I. It could still work in our time.

[@CraigThomas2070]

Sexless relationships are a rejection of the man. This causes other severe problems in the relationship such as resentment, and anger that a man has as a cover for the hurt of rejection. Never again.

[@sinclaire0632]

Yeah, that's the hardest part, when you are the hostage by sex and everything around that

[@mojomanmurph1925]

Dating after divorce, met many divorced women who would drop their panties on the first or second date. If they were like that being married, they would still be married. No sex is not healthy. Be careful out there, so many with STDs. Staying in a monogamous relationship and having sex is a far better alternative; herpes is spreading.

[@miyagifatghost2684]

Man I like the way Jennifer is working the net🌍. One of two females I can listen to she speaks with Logic first. I hope this channel grows to it fullest!!💪🏿💯

[@shieldoffaith7099]

Who is the other woman please

[@michaellamont2605]

Dating is so Dead now.

[@brianbrown1955]

This woman is more intelligent than most women that are on network television.

[@phoenixbillion1842]

I clicked on this to hear a woman bag on feminists, and now I'm finding myself gaining insight into men, including myself. Stop tricking me into self-improvement!

[@dopedreamz]

We’re here for you ma’am, thank you for your time and effort!

[@thomaspeterson5693]

I've thought for a long time that men would be happier if the wife would treat him half as good as she treats the dog.

[@LootGoblin4510]

or cat ! LOL

[@artorhen]

My dad treated the dog better than my mom in her face, like used that metaphor daily. :') so maybe you'll feel some retribution.

[@TTAG01]

Your channel is a total breath of fresh air. Truly!! Are there many other women who think and share the same values as you because I would absolutely love to meet one??? I am serious!! I am that guy you described. And you are a total hottie too. I love how you present and represent yourself and how animated and full of life you are as you speak. And the way you answer back on points in such a straight and direct way.... sh*t, it’s just so refreshing and reassuring. Please don’t stop. Just continue.

[@thoughtfulthreadsAI]

Really enjoying your videos! My wife and I finally are on the right track after 15 years of marriage. Her father is completely ok with being ran over by his wife (my wife's mom). My wife finally sees this. It's taken me 15 years to get her to see this and acknowledge it. During that time, I spent a lot of time on myself and learning who I am. I come from a single mom situation and never really saw my dad (maybe once every other year). He died when I was 14. I've been working to buy my own school clothes since I was 12 (farm work with a family friend from church) and didn't have to do that after my dad died (Social Security benefits) and was able to focus more on school than keeping myself afloat. My grandfather use to tell me how much of a loser I was and even that I should just end it all. I can't even make this crap up, he was a real piece of work! I joined the USAF to get the heck out of there and haven't looked back since, even going as far as breaking everything off with my family after my mom died a few years back. My entire family tried to make it my fault and totally defend my grandfather - he threw books at my wife and started to go down the path of abusing her as well. I've worked in several Operations jobs within the Government and have pushed myself as hard as I possibly could. I have some kind of autoimmune issue (still trying to figure this out) and the stress of constantly fighting to save my marriage has taken a really large toll on my health due to whatever issue i have going on - stress is a real killer and under constant stress for 25 years has taken it's toll. But my wife is finally catching on to my drive. With this virus, she sees it. We live on a 40 acre property (almost 4 years) that I pretty much have been building out by myself and under constant negativity from her family. It got so bad that I couldn't even talk to my children without them crying... not even correcting, just try to have a conversation. My in-laws say some pretty nasty stuff about me behind my back and directly to my children, so it's made me have to fight much harder to change their view of me. But that view has changed me. I'm glad that I fought this hard. My salivary glands are shutting down and I have odd things going on in my neck (not a smoker and a light drinker). But I'm still thankful that I worked as hard as I have so my children can see me for who I am and who I have become, instead of letting someone else tell them who I am. I will continue pushing forward with my family, knowing full well this virus could take me out, or do a hell of a lot of damage to me. I wish life for me could have been a little different, a little less fighting and a lot more supportive, but I think I've played this hand as best as I could. For anyone interested, I read and listen to a lot of Stoics, listen and read Eckhart Tolle as well as read and listen to Jordan B Peterson. Keep pushing forward, Jennifer and thank you for the videos!

[@williamjeffreys2980]

"Real man?" John Wayne's character in "The Searchers". Strong, mean as hell if crossed, will kill if necessary, but has a soft side, is also loving, faithful, and good with children.

[@Swagdoodle]

Gen x guys trully appreciate you , keep up the great work!

[@stevencournoyer4191]

After a 20 year marriage and working my ass off to pay for her degrees and raising our children, I came to the realization she was using sex as a weapon. The hoops that I had to jump through to get her in the mood got really thin really quick. Expressing to her that I work harder to get laid than I do at my damn job. She constantly expressed to me that she didn’t need me. I never wanted her to need me, I wanted her to want me. I never thought I would ever be divorced. But I decided that I can’t live my life that way. I dreaded going home. And she acted like she just didn’t give a shit. I’ve been single since. I don’t date much at all. I’ve thrown my entire life into my work. I really enjoy your content I love how you attack these issues head-on.

[@_calculator3257]

I thought western men wanted strong independent women since you gave western women feminism.

[@keithodem2424]

Simply an unbelievably smart woman..such a breath of fresh air...you should offer a class for both women and men. Divorce rates would surely drop. Men are very simple and you have absolutely figured us out. Food, sex and an intelligent conversation with my wife... what more would most men want or need..

[@yaimavol]

Most overused word now is "empowering". It's used to describe the feeling a woman gets when she engages in some act (normally a traditional male action) that suddenly makes her feel "empowered"! She's now arrived at some new mystical plateau. The implication, however, is that she was somehow deficient and lacking a key personal component and/or personal power and had to engage in some action to fill the void. Only the deliberate action made her worthy of our respect. Real men do the traditional eye roll every time they hear a woman talk about being empowered.

[@Firewood551]

Most men I know, will go a long way to please a woman, who actually loves you back.

[@ericwiitala5407]

I came across your channel by accident several months ago and I don't regret it. The more I watch/listen, the more I appreciate you. I lived through a lot of what you mentioned and grew from those hard times. The past few years I did a full evaluation and was really honest with myself and moved on... Happily. At some point I will date. I don't know when, but I'm open to it with a much clearer understanding of myself.

[@jacobbcox1985]

So a man's definition of Man. A real man doesn't fear loss of wants but the loss of action. Isn't patient for needs but is patient with his wants and wants of other's he care for. A real man takes responsibility even those of others and does so not begrudgingly. A real man has desire to be something more and even if he doesn't know what that something is. Face it in life many don't know who or what they want to be even in their 30s 40s and some never do. I think finding goals and reaching them is more important even those goals are small and insignificant to others. So every real man is goal oriented. Every real man loves their partner completely and wants them to find happiness together not as a one way street. Every man has pride in himself and those that he loves. A real man fight for what he believes in and will not back down. A real man doesn't care what anyone thinks of him but himself and the small portion of people he respects like his father mother and spouse maybe grandparents if they are still around and maybe a couple of friends. A real man is Independent and doesn't accept what anyone says he thinks for himself he doesn't need a party a group he will be his own group. A real man will lead. If that is his family or those around him. I think the problem today is men need more men in their lives. I don't mean specifically a father but we can cultivate each other. Make each other better and with it make a better world. Not some fairy tale horse shit lollipops and rainbows bull to save the world for what ever SJW is fighting about. But to push each other that we create and cultivate more and more for ourselves and to make a world a better place for it. Not some hand out. Pass on knowledge that way we have a world of do'ers and not just takers.

[@TheBeggies95]

I hope a lot of young girls are gonna watch your videos

[@tee.m7216]

Alot of grown women need to hear this too

[@zil5296]

Only post Wall used up thots that want to be chameleons would listen to her, since they are one in the same.

[@ascend3654]

i literally dont care about women anymore

[@averiesoto4042]

I enjoy her videos. They give me a chance to look inside myself and see how I can improve as a person. I have a wonderful boyfriend and want to make sure I do right by him.

[@jerryrn5571]

Averie Soto then lucky for him👍

[@7digger3]

My definition of being a good man is: To be able to be completely and utterly vulnerable and not feel threatened and project fears on others.

[@7digger3]

Confidence in what I can do and a necessary acceptance (until next time) of what I can’t.

[@7digger3]

@Mourning Star and you may be weak.

[@independentcontractor1633]

Brad isn't alone. Too many men live with no intimacy or sex. It can really put you off on women for good. You are one of the only women out there who tells the truth. THANK YOU!

[@frankworley-lopez2282]

I enjoy your videos because you come across as being human and imperfect. Not pretentious, not arrogant, not pushy. I appreciate to hear from people men and women who have a point of view that is at least close to mine, who aren't selling hate. Keep up the work!

[@vicv9342]

@ 8:50.. As a Single Dad I have found that it's not easy to play Mom.. So no we don't have both sexes in us all..

[@hominem3731]

A real man doesn’t need external validation. There I fixed it.

[@pugnatiousgibbons]

Jennifer, your videos are informative and funny! I enjoy you immensely and wish that when I was a young man I had someone like you to listen to. Fortunately I found a wonderful woman that I have been married to for 37 years. Thanks for your channel!

[@MSaul]

You are a gem of a woman. Hopefully your message will spread to other men and women who will be moved by your words. I refuse to settle for a girl who thinks she will be the keeper of my masculinity and the decision maker in a relationship with me.

[@daemonlee6259]

Hello, just came across your site and watched a few videos. I am a divorced man who still likes the idea of marriage, but because of the crap I went through with my first wife, feel that I am less stressed not having to share with another person, let alone a live in. People ask me when will I get married again, my answer is always the same; "I don't see myself getting married ever again, because she would have to be very special woman to put up with my poop!" What I mean about this is I have learned my lesson, and in today's feminist world, I refused to put up with a co-dependent woman who wants a Ken doll to change and manipulate. Does this make sense to you?

[@MetalSlimeDrummer]

"Settling" should be a key word. Its' a big deal, definitely worth a discussion on its' own.

[@1angelicdemon1]

Really I was thinking Faithful but, ok

[@bigap2311]

Was a teenager in the 60s, was married 1971, had kids right away in the 70s. Wife passed away 7 months ago, 9 days short of our 48th wedding anniversary. I like what you say, if you would like my perspective on that period 60s / 70s and on being married that long. Let me know.

[@MrVein1983]

Amazing content. God bless you and your message. I’ve been trying to teach these little boys around me how to be real men for years. I’m glad I’m not alone.

[@mrmojorisin4387]

The 4th “A” you wanted is Absence. Absent for sex, absent for intimacy, absent for the relationship. Kurt Vonnegut called it once in Mother Night a “reich des vries” or nation of two.

[@Cryptoversity]

Interesting.....and thanks for that. So, I was wrong with "Asshole". ;-)

[@visaman]

Abstinence.

[@Tex-el7kk]

No Abstinence is better in my opinion

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Very well said, sir.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

@Dylan O'Hara Absolutely!

[@steventhury8366]

"I'm not saying anything is wrong with being a nerd" Yes you are! But that's okay!

[@ericdavis8875]

IRON JOHN!!! Your a fantastic asset to humanity Jennifer. Agressive abstainence is your word.

[@76MUTiger]

Jennifer, your definition of a real man is right on. I'd add that the man's focus on his woman would be, in addition to her safety and comfort, to support her development and growth to become her best self. And although it's her primary role to make a civilized and welcoming home, he needs to show his value of her by showing that no chore is too womanly to help with. In the New Testament Paul says "Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church." Christ's love for the church was total and sacrificial, to bring the church (the bride) to its full potential. Underscoring your point of the partnership between the man and the woman to build a life together. Love your stuff. Your thoughts about all this are an education for me. Thank you.

[@johntharp22]

Here’s what you need to know about my girlfriend - I found an investment property in an area that’s normally way out of our budget. It was was such a dump, she couldn’t go inside without coughing breathlessly the rest of the day. It would take every single dollar I had to buy it, and to rehab it would be a big financial gamble. She told me to do it; wasn’t at all concerned that I might fail, and if I it didn’t work, she believed I’d figure something out. She’s paid all bills, done all the laundry, and cooked every meal through this, and you better believe I made it work. How can a man fail when a woman only counts his wins?

[@mintiemoments]

Why don't you do the right thing and marry that woman dude?

[@johntharp22]

Funny you said that; we got married recently, and are in the hospital now with our brand new baby!

[@stevenprince763]

You qualify as a " real woman " to me..attractive..smart..free thinking..

[@fairplayer7435]

Simping ain't easy LOL.

[@stevenprince763]

@@fairplayer7435 simping ?? Finding a smart , well opinionated woman attractive is what MEN do.. sorry you been so beat down by bad choise women..I havent..I know the value of a good woman.. can recognize such.. guess you like pounding your pud more to your liking..lol

[@fairplayer7435]

@@stevenprince763 You have a very long way to go son, if your think validating women in public is 'what MEN do'. That's what simps do.

[@timjones1583]

Beta male

[@looseygoosey1349]

Damn I feel bad for the girls that have all that but just werent fortune enough to be born with the looks. Smh youre a loser pal

[@benjaminsteinsholt8807]

Since the "Carona Virus House Arrest" I have found your KZbin channel. I think you are a breath of fresh air in the hot-air world of KZbin. You just keep doing what you're doing! I think it is great!

[@michaelsudsysutherland5353]

I think you make some very good points in both of your videos here. My wife and I pulled off a little swap about who stayed home for a brief time. When I got out of the military, my wife was the primary bread winner and I stayed home doing "Daddy daycare" for about five or six years. Mostly, it was survival, we lived in an area with an astronomical cost of living and she had a degree and work experience to earn our daily bread while I had neither. Honestly, it was what we needed at the time in order to save enough and move out to a place where I could use my GI Bill, train, and get a job allowing her to stay home again. We made it work out because we were in agreement that is was unlikely to be the permanent situation. With our eldest being born while I was deployed, I certainly enjoyed the extra time we had to bond during that time. Living that far north (in Alaska), staying at home was easily a full time job itself anyway; someone has to feed the fire at all hours! Thank you for deflating the radical feminist mythos!

[@SYNERSTAR]

…" she settled for a man who wasn't totally with her... " Jennifer, I like where you're coming from, but now the world is going to flip upside down and we'll see who is left standing... stay safe & strong EVERYONE

[@epicfantasy]

I love the book Iron John. I had a rite of passage for my two sons.

[@epicfantasy]

Thanks for the like. Another book that is great is "Fire in the Belly" by Sam Keen.

[@rosadoja2000]

Great book. Men need initiation

[@DarksteelHeart]

Thank you for not being totally biased. You got a good channel here for both men and women.

[@lloydkeith3061]

I definitely am a fan of stoicism. Those requirements you listed to be a good man are there. Finding and learning to be stoic helped to end my 'red pill rage' I felt after my blinders were removed. It really is a great outlook and way of life I have endeavored to employ in my own life.

[@visaman]

I still haven't found a good definition of Red Pill Rage. Can you explain what it was specifically that you were raging against? I am 55, so maybe my generation never experienced that.

[@JIMISPIER]

Recent gone "full monk" mgtow after being married for 22 years. I don't see another relationship on the horizon with the poor quality women that saturate the "field" these days. To all men: It's ok to leave. It really ok to leave before things go further south for you and your children.

[@BSmithPPG]

I have a lot to say, but I will just leave it at "Thank you."

[@michaelgourgy7286]

It’s so sad, western women want to get married but don’t want to be a wife, they want children but don’t want to be mothers. Keep up the good work, it’s very refreshing.

[@TymerTopCat]

Current events will dictate to both men and women, more than ever a natural order that you understand so well. We as a country need people like you etching in stone the role of Man and Women. Building a relationship as a "HOME". And thank you for FFFing the war out of your man.

[@Cpt_Adama]

Witholding of sex in a marriage IS Abuse, period.

[@JaimeAGB-pt4xl]

I would've only like you to address the fact of Hypergamy and how it affects the female mentality, since they are always looking for the "bigger better deal" and are willing to replace a good man for just the Prospect of another.... since you mentioned the word settle you know ;) .... while there are women that constantly feel superior and better that what they really are... Thanks for insight

[@garyseven5602]

Ms. Moleski, Your husband and family are indeed blessed to have you.

[@hdub7]

I am so glad I found your channel. The things you have said about man and woman and the roles. I wish more people could hear your word. Keep doing what you do. Onward and Upwards!

[@QuartuvLarry]

I posted your video on the Mary Sue Facebook group, saying “the mommy you can’t get in gender studies class”

[@Xardion55]

_Nevertheless, each one of you must love their wife as he does himself; on the other hand, the wife should have deep respect for her husband._ (Ephesians 5: 33)

[@carloskingston7343]

It's almost like they didn't tell women that they must love their husbands because, well, just watch "She'll never love you" Special Edition TFM video (mirror) on KZbin and you'll get what I mean. Best ever red pill video I've ever watched, after 1000+ videos. Nature explained perfectly. Very powerful stuff.

[@christopherhazell420]

X55, good verse, however this was written to followers of Christ, by the Apostle Paul. *You must be Born Again to be a follower of Christ.

[@mindflayer0319]

john connolly Respect should be on both sides of a relationship. Man to wife. Wife to man. Respect, however, does NOT entail bending to your every wish and denying yourself a career. Feminists don’t disregard this truth and neither do homosexuals.

[@djohnson3678]

@@christopherhazell420 - if someone is doing the works of Christ [ literally ] , then they do not need to. the baptism is meant for the ones that are giving up sin, to live and do God's work and live by his commandments all the days of thier life. so that the next generation will know what and how to live without faulting to the sinful ways of man [ the ones without or the ones that rejected God and the ways of God's commandments ] . the reason Christ done it , was to show them [ the sinners ] the way to God the Father that is in heaven.

[@jasonlisonbee]

@@theworldisastage1984 Did even Paul write that? A lot of the Bible was authored by unknown people who used the name of someone who may or may not have existed centuries prior.

[@TTAG01]

I am late in finding you (7 months) but wow am I heller glad I have..... your insights are on point! And you are really easy to listen to and watch.

[@snarkymcsnarkface1863]

The ex wannabe single mother at 30ish. Is a very real thing. I have personally received and declined four of these invitations. One of them was even stranger than the simple proposal itself. Which was impregnate her and girl friend. This came after ghosting me and trashing my house, four years earlier. What happened? From her perspective I went on vacation rather than giving it up for her. What really happened and why i am grateful for how it all played out. I had a ring in the RV for her. I had planned on introducing her to my family of choice and my community. The place where I belong the people that are the reflection of me. She left me the gift of who she really was, when she trashed my home. Although I am grateful for her showing her true colors and saving me from the nightmare that is her. I would never give her my child to raise alone. She would abuse the poor thing. I have the receipts.

[@rolandbartelink2332]

God you are an amazing human

[@menoyuno8430]

The best books are “the myth of male power” “The boy crisis” “Say good bye to crazy” “Red pill psychology”

[@blackpillcommando4927]

@Mourning Star : lol it has been banned in Canada I believe for decades. I knew a guy who had it back in '92. He listened to Dissident Voices broadcasts on his HAM radio, and it was surreal to be in his house in the area we were in which was overrun by gangs,swarmings (chain & shoe snatchers), and all kinds of drugs. One day I read the book on his shelf and man that book is PROPHETIC. Now here we are.

[@blackpillcommando4927]

@Mourning Star Yeah it was a real war zone and I just noticed your response at "14 minutes ago". Coincidence...I think not.

[@MrJThomps22]

Watching videos like this help motivate me to be a better man. It's a big turn from what you normally hear about men. Im sure im not the only one that appreciates it

[@fox5now]

Jennifer your definition of a real man is 100% fact and true, I was raised by my grandparents and my grandfather was the pure definition of what you defined as a real man and my grandmother was the pure definition of the woman that took care of him. I was born in the 70s. fortunately I inherited those traits. The sad fact is that these traits are not being passed on and are diminishing with time due to the family structural breakdown and all of the above that you have discussed in your video.

[@dansdojodevotional2419]

Withholding sex falls under abuse imo.

[@michaelblacktree]

agreed

[@starboy2013]

If you with hold than you agree to have it with held.

[@colehunter1529]

Show your garden when you feel good about it.i really like your content you are very brite.

[@johnrodgers2018]

I was the sole earner in my house for 20 years until I was disabled by work. Within a week we flipped our roles. My wife went to work and I stayed at home for two years and did all the cooking and housework to the best of my physical capabilities without fuss or complaining. We did what we did to survive and were too busy to give much thought as to our socially defined roles. Being a good wife or husband isn't what you do but how you act and treat each other.

[@christophers2930]

I lean on the liberal side on political issues. And mostly everything you said I'm on your side. And I am this alpha male you speak of.

[@DeltaEchoGolf]

A real man does not make a point of telling you they were ex military/police.

[@vyctordraco948]

I find it very interesting that the "man" that made the comment first defined himself by jobs that force you into the mindset of a real man, Protector, justice giver, provider. And then proceeded to say that the man she describes doesnt exist. Maybe he is EX those things because the role didnt fit HIM.

[@tankiesbot6578]

That's a lie

[@tankiesbot6578]

@@vyctordraco948 a rela man is not a provider. Stop defining yours le by how useful you are to women 🤦‍♂️

[@Steelhorsecowboy]

I'm a former Army officer. I don't have to tell people that. They usually sense it. I don't think it has much to do with being a real man. It was just a part of my life years ago.

[@TTAG01]

Facts. Know yourself. What you do is not the only thing that defines you. You define You! I like Jennifer’s definition of an ideal man. It’s on point.

[@David_Creyke]

It seems like this kind of awareness is absent from most women, it’s almost as if the encouragement of feminism went to far and created generations of entitled brats. Most ‘ real men ‘ are going to have limited patience for the complex and neurotic choices out there. It’s just an easier path for men to focus on self improvement and career. Also at 53 with a grown son, it’s been startling easy for me to leave relationships behind.

[@Joseph-Colin-EXP]

The Brad guy, needs to say to his wife after giver her dinner on the couch, get out. After she laughs and says are you serious, that's when the boundary gets drawn. With out boundaries being maintained, they don't exist.

[@laurieharper1526]

Agree completely about the over-availability of credit. When I grew up, the saying was "If you can't afford cash, you can't afford it". With the exception of a mortgage (a property usually appreciates, so you end up owning more than you owe, provided you buy wisely), being in debt is stupid. You are no longer free if you have to keep your nose to the grindstone just to make the payments each month. When your employer gives you grief, you have to swallow it and keep your head down. This is not good for your self-esteem. Live within your means and be happy.

[@rodneyreese6133]

I enjoyed hearing your cat , I just wanted to let you know that

[@steventhury8366]

When I first heard the cat, I thought it was my cat.

[@OUigot]

8:35 Lol! Standard womanese; "we're all outside tilling," no the guys are outside tilling and you're inside making videos telling other people you were tilling also. All my ex's were like that, I did the work and they took the credit. Lol.

[@JenniferMoleski]

True! In fact, before I came in to make the video I said to everyone, "we look like government employees; everyone standing around watching one man work." He loves tilling and working the land and he loves what I do, and I love him, and our agreement is that he works the land and I tend it. I've got the seedlings ready to roll. We're happy with our roles. Maybe you had shit relationships, but it doesn't represent ours. Do you want it to? Would it make you feel better if everyone were miserable or in an unfair relationship? Sometimes I get the feeling people want others to be miserable.

[@OUigot]

Hang on, you're jumping the gun there. I just found it amusing, not wishing misery on anybody here.

[@visaman]

@@JenniferMoleski Maybe you could wear a sundress and we could all love one another. Sorry, couldn't resist, that was something, Leigh Nash, said on an Instragram post.

[@MrTempest96]

@@JenniferMoleski I cannot agree more with your statement. Too many people focus on what HAS been as opposed to what COULD be.

[@donniemathis2770]

If all women in America were like you we would be an unstoppable nation.

[@tyrellkelley6339]

So by your definition, there are lots of men! I’m 34 from Oregon have a daughter, from a woman that walked out on us at 6months old after 3-1/2 year relationship, I maintained the life we had and was choosy about who I let in but had free time to date away from my daughter. I own my own business, I’m an arborist. Met a younger woman patched my family and we all work and play together. So basically if your a man that has his own life and are passionate and loyal then your in the clear 👍🏾

[@dannyhughes2680]

A common since women...AMAZING 🌼

[@Tate.TopG.]

Common sense...

[@garrett3441]

Spelling!!!’

[@Tate.TopG.]

@Common Sense was just trying to help tho. We all make mistakes tho

[@poeperdhe]

A lot of these dudes in the comments need to read “no more mr nice guy” by robert glover and “Anatomy of Love A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray” by Helen Fisher

[@jibrael5705]

Could you give me a quick run down on what it's about so I can see if it's worth the buy.

[@jrbionic404]

@@jibrael5705 what he said. I'm curious too

[@cdtelting]

Another thing about the seventies is families started getting smaller while getting more protective. There's a lot to be said for having many children and not being so invested that you're afraid for them taking risks (where they learn the most). Furthermore they did not feel the pressure of success. Their lives we're more their own rather than to make their parents proud. Having multiple kids meant that at least a couple of them would have been successes. And when you sent a child to college it was because they earned it and it was appropriate for them and not because everyone had to go.

[@leeolson1]

I cry a lot, especially since I have been retired. 41 years in the Navy on submarines - I am tough and stoic when I have to be, but I sure do thank God that I have family who I have always been able to cry on their shoulders. I am tough when I have to be, but I don't really like to be tough.

[@xGWIxPockets]

Think its the "letting wrong penetrate your world" part hanging people up. I'm not the most masculine man by my own deffinition but it seems I'm manlier than most I guess. I feel like I fit Jennifer's diffinition pretty well. I haven't been watching very long but I'm going to take a stab at what I think this "World" being "Penetrated" is. As a man your responsible to protect your house, protect your mind, and protect the people you love. Thats your world. Your not going to allow your mind to be warped by the "wrong" that other people say, or the wrong on TV, not even the wrong your own loved ones might send your way because if you do its going to severely impact your ability to protect your home and the people who are in it from "the wrong" that might be outside of it. A stong man is like an uncrackable security system, the wrong can't hack your brain to make you a weak deafeated stagnant man or worse an angery rage machine that lashes out at everything around him. I have been both and neither is fun. Stoic and strong is much better. Also dont think that to fit her deffinition you have to be this gigantic ripped hulk of a man that can bench 300lbs, but if your afraid to look that guy in the face and tell him to piss off when he steps on your toes or thretens your family thats somthing you need to work on. You dont have to be the biggest you just have to be the best. I'm savage and dont fight fair and I use weapons, I will gouge your eyes, pull hair, rip your bits off with my bear hands and I dont care how big you are or even if your a litteral grizzley bear. Even if you get past me I will make you pay so dearly for it you'll wish I'd have just finished you off. Dont flip my switch and threten my family or in other words "dont let the wrong penetrate your world."

[@ShaunHensley]

I think you have quite a bit of thoughtful content. But my comment is to the men who inflate your ego constantly. It's not healthy, it's part of the problem. I think it's totally appropriate to say 'oh I like when you do such and such' or 'I like your point about such and such'. Better yet just engage in conversation with her about what she's saying.But to say oh you're awesome, you're rare, you're unique etc is just not the way to be. I don't think it's good for her either. I would consider it detrimental to any future relationship she might have, because as a man in a relationship, you shouldn't be telling her how awesome she is constantly either.

[@nisuperman]

You've described a ' simp '

[@ShaunHensley]

James Stewart It was advice to both her audience and to her.

[@happydazeharvick4399]

@@ShaunHensley I agree wholeheartedly, but most men if they're being honest want to bend her over the kitchen table and check out her smile, and make her coo... The rest is just window dressing.

[@rockm6685]

I love your point of view my intellect has increased substantially by listening to you thanks for the videos keep up the good work.

[@asmrmysticvisions1290]

I just came across your channel while I was watching a video tutorial. I was supposed to be studying all night, but have actually spent the last 3 hours checking out your videos instead. Your content is very refreshing and I like your style and delivery. Anyway, I have to stop because I have a class on Friday, so I really need to get back to work, but I'll definitely be coming back!

[@Pgeorgiex]

Would you suggest the book, "The rational male" to your viewers?

[@JenniferMoleski]

I haven't read it. But here's your exposure.

[@yd8104]

@@JenniferMoleski My goodness, that was cynical Jenn. Come on, you're better than this. Lol. Peace

[@JenniferMoleski]

If he wants everyone to read the book, I'm fine with that.

[@bronhanrylghan2712]

@@yd8104 To be fair, I took her response as a response to this: "She knows about it but won't give it exposure. Conflict of interest. Leave it at that. " It seems to me that that comment was a passive aggressive shot at her & she didn't respond to a flamewar, first shot. Maybe I'm wrong but her response seemed to be the mature alternative to a retaliatory lashing out.

[@Sahrokh]

@@JenniferMoleski You should REALLY read it. It explains everything you ever wanted to learn about "red pill" culture. Actually, red pill, MGTOW etc. are based on the concepts explained in that book. Funnily enough, it's based on female biology so it's a good read for everyone.

[@thomaskleven8314]

When I reentered my sons life, he wouldn't walk around without being fully clothed, wouldn't pee without sitting down, and would get angry when he got dirt on himself. I have been working on getting him back into enjoying being a boy, tons of wrestling matches with dad, walking around farting with our shirts off, and being a basic boy. We are still working on peeing in the backyard, but he will get there.

[@BlackSabbath1989]

i hope you do not only focus on the superficial stuff and you go into values, morals, ethics that need to be shown. fulfilling only the stupid stereotypes is pointless because it might make him look like a boy/man from the outisde but the more important aspects that are lost are on the inside, taking responsibillity is a big one for example, but i guess you know what i mean and you do it already. just wanted to have it written down as well.

[@thomaskleven8314]

@@BlackSabbath1989 you're absolutely correct. There are many lessons that can be presented by both parents and family members alike that are involved within children's lives in order to give them all the necessary tools to conduct themselves as fully functional adults. I truly belilve that my duty as a father is to not only guide my children but also to formulate a strong healthy relationship between us, one that when they seek guidance I'll have the answers, and I can only hope I will also have the wisdom in which to recognize when to refrain from giving them all the answers.

[@DavidTeleiosis]

Your description of a real man is a very good one. That "ex military/ ex cop" sounds like a liar (never either or separated from both unwillingly) . Im active duty Navy and that description is spot on. There are a few more things but those things are there.

[@delmccormack7001]

Estrogen vs testosterone. The chemical balance will decide the bias between masculine and feminine traits. I agree with your videos. I'm a former US Marine, former lifeguard and former rescue swimmer. I agree completely.