The Sad Story of a Boy Who Lost Everything to His Addiction | Hina Khan-Mukhtar

Porn addiction is a serious problem that is affecting people of all faiths, including Muslims. In recent years, there has been a rise in the number of Muslims who are struggling with porn addiction. This is due to a number of factors, including the increasing availability of porn online, the normalization of porn in popular culture, and the lack of education about porn addiction in Muslim communities.
Porn addiction can have a devastating impact on people's lives. It can lead to marital problems, decreased productivity, mental health issues, and even religious doubt. For Muslims, porn addiction can also be particularly harmful because it can lead to feelings of guilt and shame.
In this video Hina discusses the rise and impact of porn addiction in the Muslim community and provides an overview of the problem, discusses the factors that contribute to it, and explores the impact it can have on people's lives. The video also offers some tips for preventing and overcoming porn addiction.
Video: Muslim Community Center - MCC East Bay (@MCCEastBay)
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May Allah protect us!

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Blessed are they that hear the word of God, and keep it: Through the Holy Spirit, God has put it on me to preach to those lost in the devil's deceit! I tell ye, truly, Jesus of Nazareth is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. He is the anointed one, for he is, Jesus Christ. God the Father has raised him from the dead; who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God! Angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life: no one comes to the Father, but by him. They who believe and are baptized with the Holy Spirit shall be saved; but they who believe not shall be damned. For they who believe not on him, shall die in their sins! I tell ye now to repent of your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you'll receive the gift of the Holy Spirit upon asking the Father! There are *NO* sub-divisions of Christianity. You're either a disciple of Christ or not. A Christian is someone who follows God's word, not a religion. Who obey the Father and follow his will; not man's nor their own heart's. Unless you keep Jesus' commandments, think not the Holy Spirit will dwell within you! They who heed this message and did what was stated with an open heart to God... Read the Holy Bible (KJV) daily and every time before you read, pray to the Father and ask: "Lord I ask that you give me understanding of your word, that I interpret it the way you want me to, and none of my own. I ask you in Jesus' name, amen." 1 John 2:2 KJV 2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world. Acts 13:26-33 KJV 26 Men and brethren, children of the stock of Abraham, *and whosoever among you feareth God, to you is the word of this salvation sent.* 27 *For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him.* 28 And though they found no cause of death in him, yet desired they Pilate that he should be slain. 29 *And when they had fulfilled all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree, and laid him in a sepulchre.* 30 *But God raised him from the dead:* 31 And he was seen many days of them which came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, who are his witnesses unto the people. 32 *And we declare unto you glad tidings, how that the promise which was made unto the fathers,* 33 God hath fulfilled the same unto us their children, in that he hath raised up Jesus again; as it is also written in the second psalm, Thou art my Son, this day have I begotten thee. 1 Peter 3:22 KJV 22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him. John 14:6 KJV 6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. Mark 16:16 KJV 16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned. John 8:24 KJV 24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins. Acts 2:38 KJV 38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Luke 11:13 KJV 13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him? John 14:21-24 KJV 21 *He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.* 22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world? 23 Jesus answered and said unto him, *If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.* 24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and *the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.*

[@teykay5790]

Ameen

[@nyinechan277]

Ameen

[@hijabshorts]

Ameen❤

[@sonofsparda80]

Ameen

[@muhammadhashim73]

I was also addicted, Daily morning Exercise (Running till I broke my body), and five times Prayer took me out. I also realized things are totally different in real life. Alhamdulilah

[@salyoutube7023]

What you mean things are different in real life brother ?

[@muhammadhashim73]

@@salyoutube7023 it is secret😂

[@Insaan7660]

​@@muhammadhashim73explain plz

[@amirabdullah3220]

​@salyoutube7023 I believe he's referring to the whole fantasy that is played out in those videos and how it is nothing like that in real. I read articles about this and because of this addiction, people become disappointed and have unrealistic expectations when it comes to the real thing.

[@Asdfghjkl-yl7yi]

Bro please keep this kind of thing private

[@rafidahnaf07]

This is quite serious of an addiction. I am almost 16, but I can confirm that it has been quite hard for me to leave such an horrible addiction. For me, this is even more addictive than drugs nowadays. I absolutely hate those who made this kind of disgusting and horrifying thing publicly available among the mass people. I now want to control myself for good now as of writing this. And please, do not hate me for this. This is already the worst addiction anyone can have right now. My dear brothers and sisters, I would highly recommend you all to recite the Al-Quran, offer Salat 5 times, study or do your work properly and do something like regular physical exercise every single day. Quit being so much involved on the internet as we all have a life outside of it. Do pray for me and for every Muslim who is/had suffered from such a dangerous addiction. May Allah S.W.T guide me aswell as all of us to the right path.

[@NaadAli1115]

Ameen

[@azimjamal9726]

Aameen, stay strong brother

[@pilotnajuu]

Ameeen bro can we be friends ,,,,,mashallah u did good job

[@integer9655]

true brother, Don't be upset.👋👋👋 may Almighty ALLAH help us from all evils 😢. Ameen

[@harmac521]

اللَّهُمَّ أَعِنِّي عَلَى ذِكْرِكَ ، وَشُكْرِكَ، وَحُسْنِ عِبَادَتِكَ O Allah help me in remembering You, in thanking You, and to worship You in the most excellent manner“ recite this dua everyday and do a dhikr, when you remember Allah, shaytan can't whisper into your heart, remembering Allah is what works for me so far.

[@mahammad]

The biggest thing that helped stop many addictions for me is salah, I would feel immense regret and over time I sinned less. Also I guess quran recitation, it speaks and softens your heart I think.

[@molaher5250]

Salah is key to change totally agree. Salah and constantly repenting straight after sinning.

[@MujaheedQuotes99]

for someone who has overcome this addiction 1 piece of advice is "Man has no control over the wind besides his own sail, realise this and you will find strength"

[@FaisalKhan-md2tj]

The best way to overcome this addiction is to go on semen retention for a year or so and then get married because there's always chances of hyper-libido arising due to a healthy lifestyle which can lead the man into real life zina which is more heinous. Unfortunately settling down with a good career and getting married is really really difficult nowadays, this further leads into fitnah.

[@YukkiYoshiko]

@@amj76425 god is not mortal. mortal = weak. god not weak to die especially by his own creation.

[@ChaoZz07]

@@amj76425 Islam is the only truth. Not chrisinsanity.

[@furkanbozdag8198]

​@@amj76425Jesus is not God God can not die

[@aheasanhossenabid7299]

He was very satisfied when he was pursuing the deen But when he was pursuing the duniya ...he brought his own suffering upon him .... May allah help him and guide him Turn back to allah before its too late !

[@chengv.4912]

others are also following dunya yet dont have this addiction, big overgeneralisation

[@azulamazigh2789]

the best solution is the obligatory prayers. if you have to pray 5 times every day. you become more conscious of Allah and you become shy from Allah knowing he sees you.

[@pSycHoXiFiCaToR]

Yes and you also try to stay pure because of this obligation 5 times

[@mrakaflame]

20 years of addiction, let me tell you this is serious and every parent needs to watch out

[@focusgrindwork]

20 years??what about now

[@cutecat8744]

@@FansTalk-WithNeuball if you don't give up then the brain works like celeron processor

[@jamalmustafa2174]

​@@cutecat8744& if you cut off your peepee you become super computer.

[@Afghangoat7]

Slave of ur mind get stronger astaghfirullah u control ur brain not the brain controlling u

[@ROSUJACOB]

50yrs of addiction right here bro!

[@bhatsuhaib5061]

One of the worst thing that ruined muslim kids, I was also addicted , I wa so intelligent, when I got addicted, I lost my everything like I started to avoid salaah memorizing power, eye sight,, hair, body shape, face looks, I lost interest in everything, my body became so, weak, I almost lost my precious 4 years in my life, now thank I Almighty, I am back on track, my imaan became so good nd I started to pray salaah from last year, started to work, nd study, quite good

[@snowworld1641]

Alhumdulillah. May Allah keep you on the straight path.

[@Faizan39318]

Kashur chukha laman aas kam

[@bhatsuhaib5061]

@@Faizan39318 thank god main quite kiya aik saal se, aab nhi krta, shukur khuda ka bhai ❤

[@Faizan39318]

@@bhatsuhaib5061 mai bhi addicted hu Mai bht zyada nek tha maine aetikaf kiya, 5 time namaz padta tha, quran me 5 para hafiz the aur school mai topper aata tha lekin 11th ke baad se mai bht zyada addict huwa din mai 3-4 baar krta tha. Ab mai ek zinda lash ki tarah hogaya hu. Meri sari intelligence aur energy khtm hogyi. Aur mere demag mai sirf yehi khayal aata hai ladki dekh kar. Mai nhi chahta lekin mai bht addicted hu ab😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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@@Faizan39318 exactly yehe mere sath bhi ho raha tha, lakin aab aik saal se chnge aaye, mera imaan acha hogaya, bhai agar kch chahiye toh mujy bolna

[@sullybully]

Before I decided to be a Muslim in 2019, I couldn’t help but be addicted as well, at the point where it was every single day even! I wanna have the strength to kill my envy for pornography, and be closer to Allah

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Al7amdulillah ❤️

[@Adam-no6zy]

Keep asking Allah for help

[@drive-2786]

get married bud ..after i got married prono was thing of the pass for me :)

[@Faith_Channel_One]

You will have endless pornography in Jannah.

[@kenanhadziedhemovic6945]

me too brother

[@crnicerak]

as a person who was addicted from the age of 8 until 15, I am currently 15, I can say that it will be very difficult to quit but you mustn’t stop trying, just know God is with you and as a Christian I respect and love all my muslim brothers and sisters, may God forgive us for our sins, and help us all❤

[@Informafacts]

i wasnt conscious at the age of 8

[@Akena.._..]

thank you.

[@TupacMakaveli1996]

Yolo bro it's ok

[@faquiratemalik2866]

May Allah Protects You And All You Love Here And In The Real Life Ameen

[@realiti773]

I was at your position at 13. It was hard. I hope you find strength.

[@azzamsbsenglish]

Masha Allah, thanks for your beautiful advice. This video is really helpful for parents to deal with their children.

[@Sharik.io.]

I was once addicted to the pornographe. In week I watch 2 to 3 times. I was tired I wanted to leave this mess. This started at the age of 14 and now i am 20. And now it’s 6 months i have not watched pornographe and allah s.w.t has guided me to the right path now its 6 months i have not almost missed my any namaz and al hamdurila i pray 5 times and never thought of watching pornographe

[@minhaj9802]

Come on, those are rookie numbers, at my peak i used to watch 2-3 times per day

[@Asdfghjkl-yl7yi]

Do the permanent sulution if u can is ''nikah''

[@mkhorsandi9998]

Brother now you quit porn are you still tempted by photo or is like nothing to you

[@HebrewMadeEasy]

I'm an atheist and still think porn is the worst thing that happened to the world sense the beginning of time. In the future the world will see the damage it creates and be amazed by the consequences of it.

[@abdihamid2001]

Atheism takes the title of the worst thing that ever happened to mankind, porn might be 2nd

[@AshishKumar-if4dt]

​@@abdihamid2001it's your belief not ours keep it to yourself atheist could have the best life which muslims cant

[@abstractpuma]

@@abdihamid2001 religion is the worst thing that has happened to mankind

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@@abstractpumabro says this when atheistic regimes caused the most human suffering ever recorded (stalins russia, mao’s china, Hitler)

[@abstractpuma]

@@blackgold3584 what about the religious oppression towards minorities that has exsisted for thousands of years? (for example women being burned for "being witches" or homosexuals killed for being seen as sick and sinful)

[@salmanc1]

Marriage has been made difficult, and pornography is everywhere.

[@mistressannie2742]

Marriage is still mot the solution tho if you r addicted to porn

[@LivelyFig]

@@mistressannie2742 I think that's unfair. For many people who are addicted at a surface level, marriage would most probably uplift them from that darkness. For others who are addicted to the more heavily n-rated stuff, marriage would likely still provide the same comfort, though other psychological side-effects may remain. Perhaps therapy can assist in untying those particular knots for good.

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@@mistressannie2742it is part of the solution “mistress”

[@salmanc1]

@@mistressannie2742 It could definitely help millions of people. Parents have made marriage difficult and society has placed unmanageable dowries and expectations on men. Expensive Jewellery, Pre Nups, holidays to Dubai, it is getting so out of touch with Islam that marriage itself is losing its blessings.

[@GrimOverIord]

You're right it's almost like there is some sort of wicked force out there trying to cause harm to humanity itself.

[@mhjeechan1171]

May Allah protect us from this kind of addiction

[@mistressannie2742]

Aameen

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Ameen

[@LimitlessGK24]

Thanks a lot sister, sharing this story. As a parent this is a learning to keep an eye on our kids. May Allah protect us and our children with this Sin. Aameen

[@jafarmohamed1353]

May Allah protect all of us and our young children that horrible situation 🤲

[@nafijahmed1710]

MashAllah, right point found. Awareness needed. May Almighty Allah SWT protect us.

[@millitarykay09official54]

As for someone who had suffered from this addiction and now got rid off it, always never let others tell you what to watch. Because if you watch this you will be stuck in to this and it’s extremely hard to quit, so always ask your parents what to watch and don’t watch random sites May Allah protect us all.

[@matthewn2559]

You do know Mohammed was sexually intimate with a 9 year old and hadith record him having sex with at least 9 wives in one night without bathing in between, right? Islam may not be your best resource for sexual purity.

[@DownShifted]

Not just stuck but it develops serious physical issues in the body like erectile disfunction,

[@ayy17amn]

i started watching it regularly at 14 and stopped watching it at 18 when it didnt feel good anymore which is really messed up. it also destroys ur confidence throughout your teens as masturbation lowers testosterone which all men require for proper mental and physical development

[@confused_shayan]

Any tips dude i am struggling with it.

[@abstractpuma]

@@ayy17amn It does not reduce testosterone levels and there's not a single negative thing with masturbation itself, there's only positives to it

[@ulfathassan611]

May ALLAH (SWT) protect us all from the trap of shaitaan and cover our evil deeds. Aameen!

[@m1szn38]

Ameen

[@imaan.]

I am very glad to hear the boy has that type of relationship with his parents and they did not punish him but instead found him a solution.

[@garythesnail7631]

For older men and teenagers, 1 advice is when ur life is in order, routine exercise, diet, work and u keep busy everyday, it's easier to say no to addictions.

[@PesKing-ht6mn]

💯

[@Sugarysugarcane]

A big W to his parents.👏 👏 Instead of being judgmental, they actually had an open conversation with their son which is why it’s important as parents to be supportive in curing his addiction.

[@safina2022]

An extremely serious issue which is spreading in the Muslim world like a disease. I found my adult student having this content on his phone. He’s a married man from Syria with three children. May Allah SWT protect us from this demonic filth. Amin. Most boys in the UK are exposed to this. Parents and families protect your children.

[@Cheguevara2.0]

U were snooping his phone? N advertise it to e rest of e world now?

[@ap7football933]

@@Cheguevara2.0 shut up

[@MrAlyyy]

​@@Cheguevara2.0Did she mention his name and home address?

[@user-rn7bz4wj6v]

One of the worst calamities that can befall a young man/woman is being addicted to pornography.

[@DownShifted]

True

[@milkshake_sweet]

I have respect for you because you included women because we struggle too ❤

[@AshishKumar-if4dt]

​@@milkshake_sweetwhat really 😮😮

[@Ayesha______]

@@AshishKumar-if4dtyes women have desires too!

[@AshishKumar-if4dt]

@@Ayesha______ thank God they choose masturbation over sex because you how easy for a girl to get that gutter

[@mohammadakhtaralhadi3264]

جزاك الله خير الجزاء Thank you So Much, Bless you 💛

[@qamarmukhtar9698]

may Allah reward you for such a great work you are doing sister

[@eliw.1197]

I'm non-Muslim and I've been feeling depressed and consumed with Western degeneracy. I'm considering converting to Islam and studying the Quran.

[@zet6467]

Yeah you can go look up about Islam and found out why is it the right religion may Allah guide you to Islam

[@tulipbubbly3748]

Do some meditation daily for a hour in the morning. And pranayama like anulom vilom. Do it daily. Better would be if you get with a meditation camp nearby. You will be healed of depression, anxiety and every emotional disorder. It has been studied and proved that meditation can change the brain structure within six weeks. You can look it up. Meditation will be very hard in the start, but gets easier.

[@ramziddinkhudoyorjonov8655]

Coming from a guy who also used to watch Porn i can tell once you see and feel it for the first time its addicting but once you realize what it does to your mind you start to struggle to ignore pornography especially if you do daily but all i recommend is dont use internet for a couple of days and do what you love like hang out with friends, pray, read quran and do sports this helped me overcome my addiction to pornography

[@kinghazem924]

For me I was addicted but I would think about watching it but then I am like nope not gonna do

[@vertigo2930]

How long you've been away from porn? Curious.

[@morsaw10000]

Ngl what helped me was doing the Islamic prayers, putting my phone screen on black and white and also buy a fleshlight (male sex toy) + masturbating using my own imagination for the first few months until all the pornography left my body. I’m currently 7 months free, it’s been working!!!

[@yuucola4145]

i really hate addicted to porn, I'm now less addicted to it. Porn addiction really ruin my mental health, whenever i watch porn i get more anxious, depressed, overthinking and less confident. But when i once try to quit for a month, my life felt happier and my anxiety has been insanely reduced. But of course sometimes I'm still fall into the dark hole and i hate it. I exercise more and read more Quran these days. I hope I'll managed to fully quit the porn addiction insyallah

[@nauxsi]

That was the light within you shining and coming up to the surface. It was your mind remembering who you were and are and resetting. You felt normal, spiritual almost L. But the main thing is if someone attacked your mum would you not try and defend her ? Would you anger not come to the forefront ? That’s what porn is.

[@chetanyamundachali5612]

Thank u Madam for shedding light about this menace in society

[@user-ge7zh2tb3t]

😢 thank you for reminder

[@harissahab2743]

Struggling for 4 years now since I was 16 and haven't been able to quit. Longest I went was 3 months and then I broke, and trust me, when you break its like a boulder rolling down a hill. It just keeps going and going and going and you can't control yourself, you do whatever you can spiritually, psychologically, and physically to stop it but you keep doing it and doing it and doing it. To any parents who have kids who are addicted, please do not blame and insult them. They need someone who will listen and help them, the only thing that will happen from yelling and insulting them is damaging them further and making them more suicidal.

[@itizwhatitiz4265]

I’ll make dua for you Insha’allah. Keep praying and find other means to keep you busy and away from your phone

[@enmei__________]

(ATOMIC HABITS) a book you should read if you are going through this

[@petercaulker943]

We pray the Almighty Allah 🙏 will continue to guide and protect us Ameen. Thanks for the lecture 👍.

[@m1szn38]

Allahumma Ameen

[@imjustvisiting5397]

That’s why children should not be allowed personal devices. Let them use the family cpu in the living room with parental controls. If they need a phone, get them the simple older ones that are now becoming popular again

[@sunnyfitnessandworkout]

Actually only alternative of porn or xxx is violence WWE wrestling teenage boys girls should be encouraged forced persuaded to watch WWE old and new wrestling fight s on youtube this way they can divert their mind to WWE instead if watching pork or xxx ur views person above

[@dylananderson20023]

Women is nothing but a skeleton of bones realize your brain is playing games with you realize this you will have not interest in porn

[@ax_1771]

Simpler older ones? Can you recommend some

[@hudakristall3139]

​@@ax_1771without Internet, no Smartphone

[@imjustvisiting5397]

@@ax_1771 the light phone, minimalist phone, some older Nokia models are still available

[@Anonymous-yb5sy]

Let him read the books called "Your brain on porn" & "The Porn Trap". These two books are great tools to stop this addiction.

[@K.j01]

be consistent with your salah and read quran daily, no addiction can overcome you my brothers and sisters, may Allah protect all of us from every kind of filth

[@jabraanali7759]

May Allah Guide us All and protect us from evil

[@mrihusain]

Thanks for sharing

[@Avlunax1]

mashallah that was a story to be reminded about. may allah give their son iman and takwah and may he give the parents sabar and hasanat

[@Medunjanin91]

Mashallah Tabarakallah Sheikha.💚 Thank you for speaking out about this topic, this is a serious problem that effects more people (Very much including yours truly myself). When people make marriage difficult we roll the red carpet for shaytan. So when two people want to marry and everyone gets involved with their noses and hands instead of their hearts it doesn't help. There is a hurma in people's relationships and this modern secularist liberal world is utterly opposed the the Theological and conservative values that have permeated society since the stone age. It's our responsibility to love for others what we love for ourselves. I'm a man, I stopped counting how many young ladies and women I have crushed over found love with other men, it took a mountain of help from Allah (swt) for me to realise, that those brothers that the Women I crushed for is a bounty from Allah (swt) to them and that I should seek from Allah (swt) what is provided for them without diminishing what they have or them losing it. We're not believers until we worry what the person next door is eating, if that's the standard for belief what makes you think Marriage is no less important. You can't force marriage, but you can definitely make the way easy. Believing Men for Believing Women, Believing Women for Believing Men, Charitable Men for Charitable Women and Charitable Women for Charitable Men, Righteous Men for Righteous Women and Righteous Women for Righteous Men, Chaste Men for Chaste Women and Chaste Women for Chaste Men, Pious Men for Pious Women and Pious Women for Pious Men. Allah Humma Barak Tawfiq Ummati Muhammad (SAW) Ajma'een.

[@ansariafzal6634]

Wallahi..i am also addicted to this bad habits.. almost 10 years ago I trapped in this addiction and really i couldn't leave it 😭😭😭😭

[@selenophile02622]

Offer ur salah and recite quraan it vll be reduce

[@habeebabello5776]

Try to stay in a state of wudhu as much as possible and increase in your istighfar

[@another_healingSoul]

The biggest sign you can leave your bad habit is.... That.. You are still breathing. You are alive. Allah is keeping you here to turn back to him. To repent and start living your new life. Don't ever go near the things that triggered you without ayatul kursi. The shaytan or your own evil self can't harm you. And imagine the situation where you again turn to the sin, the shaytan swarming around you happily, while you are sinking in distress and guilty.

[@FZAChannel]

You have to replace the habit , to change the wiring of the brain

[@MuhammadAli-qs4ck]

Brother my advice to you would be to just through your phone away or just don’t be alone or by yourself in a room, always be with a family member because shaitan will always attack a lone sheep, if your alone he will entice you to watch it, and most importantly remove any form of pleasure in the sense that quit music and offer fajr it should be Mandatory, I’m telling you brother your life will change

[@Khansroy33]

Sister you are saying true because this generation more than 50 percent of children are now watching this things Allah bless him and i pray to allah children leave that kind of habits in addition this things destroying the life

[@thinkagain1136]

From the very beginning, we must teach our children to stay away from dirty things.

[@dylananderson20023]

When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created. When people see things as good, evil is created."

[@Polygyny]

So you're saying teach children to stay away from sex within marriage? When taken to its logical conclusion that is what you are saying - and it sounds absurd Normal sex is not dirty a recording of normal sex can't be dirty either 👍

[@dylananderson20023]

@@Polygyny A good wife is one who serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night

[@uh-meen]

⁠@@Polygynyagain intimacy with another person and porn are 2 completely different things. lemme ask you a question, would you want to watch people having sex in front you? is that something that seems normal to you?

[@Polygyny]

@ynotamin yes they are two different things but that doesn't make porn wrong. Porn is simply a recording of two people having sex or being initimate (a perfect natural and good thing to do). Some people choose to share this intimacy for others to view, others don't. Some people prefer to eat in public, other's prefer to eat alone, other choose to record themselves eating for other people's viewing pleasure. It's either the sex is wrong or right but the media can never be wrong, because media is neutral, unless the people didn't want themselves to be recorded. If two people were having sex in front of me I'd turn my head same way I won't stare a people eating food but I'd happily watch people eat food on screen- does that mean watching people eat food is wrong because I'd give people privacy to eat food in real life? Nope. It's exactly the same with porn because eating food and having sex are both natural human functions and are good things to do for a fulfilling life - watching it on screen doesn't change this whatsoever You gotta take things to its logical conclusion instead of just focussing on the superficial parts that people rightly or wrongly have a problem with

[@kazuto10797]

I'm ashamed to say this, but pornography if far more deadlier than cocaine or heroin, It destroyed my whole life... I'm glad i started watching anime, Now i'm free from this deadly addiction. Took me 6 years or so to quit. Thank you for this video mam, kindly keep spreading the awarness to everyone mam.

[@orangewater5232]

@@EmaanIqbal-kd3li My brother remember we are Muslims. The solution here is not secular. Please listen to me here... work on your relationship with Allah. Try your best to understand the Qur'an- if you can get knowledge of the arabic language great. I'm pretty sure if you learn something like 100 specific words you can understand some massive amount of the Qur'an- you can search it up and find that iA. Read the stories of the prophets, the sahaba and the righteous people before us, and fall in love with the deen my bro. Please, please, PLEASE DO THIS. FALL IN LOVE WITH ISLAM. Work on your relationship with Allah and in sha Allah, over time, the addiction will literally disappear. Trust me. I know. You don't even have to go through fighting crazy urges or anything like that. It literally just becomes disgusting to you and it disappears from your heart.

[@orangewater5232]

@@EmaanIqbal-kd3li If you want I would be totally happy to get your contact over WhatsApp or something and we can stay in contact iA. Obviously I have so many shortcomings myself but perhaps we could work on each other. Just let me know my brother in Islam. May Allah forgive all of our sins and shortcomings and make us from his Awliyaa'. Ameen :)

[@motivatingpage1125]

​@@EmaanIqbal-kd3liit can be possible to keep yourself busy all day, in that way you don't get any thoughts of watching porn. Engage in conversations with family, friends and avoid using the phone as much as possible cause it is the main root to this kind of deadly habit. And if you are above the age of 20 then get a job in that way it will help you engage with people and you won't get a thought of watching it in front of people. Hope this helps 🙏

[@nabeelimam]

Anime is no good either

[@kazuto10797]

@@nabeelimam that's true if you only watch romance, ecchi, harem and hentai anime series.... It's your damn mistake to watch such series knowing you will be victim... There are almost many anime series that will unlock your potential... Guess, in the end it's all about an individual mindset haa....if you want to quit, become a beast that hates lust, if anything nasty appears in your mind to go into lust mood, go beast mode and work out af.

[@SiftedThoughts]

May Allah protect us from this evil.

[@m1szn38]

Ameen

[@Indocryptic]

Ameen

[@asnawiabdulshukor]

Masya Allah. Thank you for your sharing

[@learnenglisheasypeasy3822]

Today zina is very easy very cheap and Almost free but marriage is very very difficult and challenging. Parents are not Awareness about early marriage. Majority unmarried youth generation struggling every single day. Physical demand is also have time. Without food you can't live 1 week so, how you protect your private parts long time. We have to fear Allah for protection from zina. May Allah guide all of us

[@JahangirAlom-sh1qk]

May Allah protect us and our young generation 😢😢

[@user-nt6dr1zx4h]

Lol no one has ever died from lack of $£X

[@ibroahmed3740]

May Allah help us with his mercy

[@ToxicThug11]

"If you want to destroy any nation without war, make adultery or nudity common in the young generation." - Saladin My advice to brothers who struggle with this disease is to make dhikr. Before I found the light of Islam I also suffered with this evil addiction. I sincerely asked Allah for help, made dhikr at least one hundred of times daily and recited Quran. One night after asking for forgiveness, I fell asleep and felt a strong healing sensation. Making remembrance of Allah removed many of my old vices. The internet can truly be an evil place, tempting us into sin. I think this is a hard test for us believers. At any second, filth can appear on our screens, even without us searching for it. No generation has ever been able to witness adultery in a split second, on demand. For any brother reading this struggling, may Allah grant you the strength to remove this abomination from your life. You need willpower and strength. There is no power nor strength except by Allah. May Allah protect us all!

[@mistressannie2742]

For those who say the solution is to get married, you are wrong, your addiction doesn’t get fixed by it and the relationship gets ruined as well so stop saying marriage is the solution, first get rid of the addiction and then get married.

[@mdidris4414]

Actually, marriage helps a great deal. At the very least, it greatly limits the amount of times that one slips into such a bad habit. One can actually use their spouse as a means of limiting their exposure to watching porn, by asking their spouse to keep hold of electronic devices at times when they are most likely to watch the filth.

[@minhaj9802]

@@mdidris4414 " by asking their spouse to keep hold of electronic devices at times when they are most likely to watch the filth." This has got to be the lamest answer in the world, why not ask the family members instead then. I agree a spouse can reduce the problem only if the spouse takes place of the pornography.

[@user-nt6dr1zx4h]

​​@@mdidris4414 To support wife and family financially you need a proper job, to get a job you need to graduate

[@schreingeiss]

@@mdidris4414 even if that's true is that fair to your spouse? I doubt many people disclose this before marriage and it's a big thulm that causes much trauma and divorce.

[@mdidris4414]

@@schreingeiss yes you do have a good point. If I was a father, I would want a potential spouse for my daughter to disclose such a bad habit, although I still don't think that in most cases, it should discourage one from inclining towards marriage. I think it depends on how bad the addiction is. If it's a daily occurrence and such an individual does not have any intention of quitting the habit, then I would definitely seek help and refrain from marriage. However, if such an occurrence is a rarity, i.e say once a month or fortnightly, and the person has the intention of stopping but all they need is an halal outlet to overcome any random urges that they have, then I would seek marriage. Unfortunately, this is a calamity of our time and if we stop every man who has either m@stubated or watched that filth in the past from getting married, then 80% of men will not marry, because statistically, that's about the number of men who has slipped into these habits in the past, particularly if you live in the west. The mistake that most Muslim parents are making is not getting their children married off early. By the time a person has reached their late teens, they have already developed sexual urges. If parents don't get their children married early, they are likely to find haram means to satisfy their sexual urges when the halal is unavailable, as the haram means are a lot easier to access. I pray that Allah helps all the Muslims who are struggling with such an addiction and protects the ummah from being overcome by this calamity, ameen.

[@Iazuz]

😰Subhan'Allah sad reality in this sick world we live in… 😭 It is very scary and for parents, it is the worst nightmare .. May Allah protect our children from Shaytan and whispers.. 🤲

[@Asdfghjkl-yl7yi]

Let them marry at young age and continue study.

[@MohaammadShoebb]

A few tips for parents as I also work with people help quit porn addiction. There was a guy who was addicted to porn, upon my interrogation I found that when he was a kid, his mother would come out naked from the bathroom in front of kids thinking they're too small. Secondly, make sure your kids don't see you while you're in intercourse. There was also a case where parents of this girl were always fighting and verbally abusing each other almost every single day when she was a kid. When children like this are grown-up they are shy, introvert and always having a battle with themselves in their head and many a times they go suicidal too. Please pay attention to your kids from the very beginning.

[@amaanullah13]

This is a million-dollar advice. I have and still am vitnessing cases like this.

[@louisdeniau8571]

@@amj76425 get off of this page. this isnt for you this is for muslims. leave us alone you creep. you people are like flies. unwanted everywhere. no sense of awareness. quoting the bible does not prove your religion just like quoting bhagvad gita does not prove their religion. it doesnt convince anyone it just makes christianity look like an evil religion for bad satanic people

[@Exceedtherealm]

And the best advice of all : Marry your children young.

[@MohaammadShoebb]

@Exceedtherealm What a great advice. Absolutely 💯 💯 💯

[@misakimei3102]

@@Exceedtherealmdude nooo sigh, not until 18 and personally 20 is the best age to marry

[@infernoo365]

The best way to stop this addiction is to keep reminding yourself that Allah is always watching you, and every action gets recorded and you will be answerable to Him.

[@Midnight8869]

Lmaoo 😂

[@fazilahmed9416]

May Allah bless you as well as all muslim ummah including me and may Allah have mercy on us

[@mohammadsubhan3304]

Whatever she said that's 1000% truth...it's too serious issue. Ya Allah protect us.

[@ziam6210]

1:53 I can’t even make it past this part. Sigh…parents pls they will fight u for the phone but be strong and limit it. Restrict sites best u can..encourage them to come out of their rooms and be around u. Keep them busy in sports and other activities. God guide our ummah in the right direction. Give parents sabr. Help us strengthen our Iman against advancements leading us astray. Ameen.

[@hamzahsyed7485]

thankfully i wasn’t never into to this stuff (im 18 soon) and i always hear about this stuff at school and my auto teacher and i are pretty open (he’s catholic) so i talked to him about it and he told me that there’s 2 ways to break any type of addiction: a new hobby and religion. he also told me the main key with breaking an addiction is to find something that keeps you in schedule and keeps you busy. please stay safe from this brothers and sisters

[@thatiswhyali]

A very noble lady.

[@ahmedladhibi6893]

I've been watching since the age of 12/13 iam now 27, I start a journey to quit since 3 years now, since I start praying. Make duah to help me and other brothers and sisters to quit this malediction!

[@fazilahmed9416]

Lot's of love from Kashmir for you my dear religious sister

[@Faizan39318]

Aap bhi dekhte ho plz bolo isse kaise bache

[@Shazerus]

@@Faizan39318 bro reading quran is the pure solution , if u read it with your pure heart then you'll find the right path inshallah just remember he have only 2 choices deen over dunya or dunya over deen, choice is yours.

[@MrAlyyy]

​@@Faizan39318☕

[@gotranscrie5478]

You should learn about tazkiatun nafs@@Faizan39318

[@asifahsanchy5238]

Thanks madam for the video

[@noomankhan]

May allah guide us to right path, ameen❤

[@salimjuma8877]

Ponography is free and cheap but you pay with your soul! May Allah guide and protect us all.

[@osopenowsstudio9175]

It ain't cheap, it cost something more precious than money, which is potential

[@freza6241]

costs your happiness @@osopenowsstudio9175

[@m1szn38]

Ameen

[@ahmedkc]

Its truly one of the worst sins. It ruins your mind, your physical strength and iman suffers tremendously. May Allah help everyone to leave it and heal.

[@m1szn38]

Ameen

[@allahmuhammad2528]

I relapsed after watching the short video 😢 it reminded me and the urge took over

[@mohamedjebril692]

May Allah guide their kid to the right path, amine

[@djibrilcoulibaly947]

This thing kills us and I swear by GOD we have the same thought as him "If there was no life after this existence, no hell, death would be very pleasant than this dependent life which deprives us of everything , self-confidence and a bright future " Only God Helps and can strengthen us and we need to don't give up on us 🥺🥺🥺

[@official_ashhh]

May Allah protect us Muslims . Amen

[@user-ow4bm5xy6l]

May Allah protect us 🙏🩶

[@AhmedAhmed-bb1rm]

It’s a vicious cycle , I accidentally came across a video when I was only 8 years old ever since my addiction kicked in, I’m 35 and still can’t get rid off of it

[@dittocto]

I hope you haven't watched it's been 12 days of your comment.

[@AhmedAhmed-bb1rm]

@@dittocto I just watched it today and I feel fucking guilty

[@dittocto]

@@AhmedAhmed-bb1rm bro where are you from?

[@abdooowd]

I can tell that his addiction is really REALLY dangerous, I started when I was very young, because I saw it everywhere. So I asked myself "What is interesting about it?"... Me wanting to "test" was the biggest mistake I've ever made. It's been almost 3 years. But Al-Hamdoulillah This addiction made my faith very strong. So brothers and sisters, I am asking you to never ever do the same mistake as me. I try hard to stop, but I keep going back to it... And I always tell myself "I am always repenting, I'm probably making fun of Allah" "I am miserable" "Allah will never forgive me"... So you have to try hard to avoid these "drugs" and remember the mercy of Allah. May Allah protect us from any evil thing. Ameen.

[@Trolldude21]

Yo i was in this stuff too!I stopped though and i continue to follow Allah SWT.Sad for the Muslim boy

[@saadkhan-hx4tr]

May Allah help this boy. Ameen

[@bunty4554]

The best way to quit this s addiction is to keep yourself busy the whole day. Just do something productive like exercising studies and try not to stick to your phone/laptops until and unless its a necessity.

[@lifeitself4377]

Here is what helped, sending salawat on the prophet Muhammad salahu calayhi wsalam❤ please try send at least 300 or even 10 times

[@kashfalam6139]

May Allah S.W.T guide us to the right path of Islam nd provide us success in Akhirah nd in life .

[@I_smelled_my_hand54]

Damn that is deep, may Allah guide this boy.

[@yasinyusuf6606]

Best thing to do is FAST , please try dawood AS fast where you fast one day and skip one day . The urge to release starts when your diet is too good . Fast a day and skip a day . And eat only what your required . Wallahi this works . Plus the blessings you get from fasting also help big time . Please anyone reading this . If you fear Allah and wana be better then please fast . One day and skip one day, try for a few months and in sha Allah see your life CHANGING

[@sajadahmadrather6464]

Practical advice.

[@Defense701]

Interesting it’s sunnah to fast Monday-Thursday it’s a form of protection

[@atif2740]

The views on this video compare to other videos on this channel shows , This problem is 3 times greater than any other problems .

[@aqibrashid1770]

Yes bro i want..i am not much addicted but after 10 or 15 days ,i do this shit and keep doing it for 2to 3 days consecutively.this cycle goes on ..if u can help me that would be appreciated

[@Chup-mh9hs]

@@aqibrashid1770 Play physical games like football , vollyball. Quit insta, facebook and do prayer. Its easy

[@horizon6984]

@@aqibrashid1770 Brother a suggestion is whenever you feel like you'r getting called towards this filth immediately recite surah al-nas . But a piece of advice if you want this to work you have to know and realize what the meaning of surah al-nas is first . Just look it up and inshallah you will immediately stop having thoughts .

[@autonomy1966]

alhamdullilah, mashallah this boy is making strides. many people are affected by this. Mola A.S will guide us to our best selves in our own beautiful way

[@conqueror7311]

I used to do the same, I was addicted to it, and then I thought what i'm getting from it I raised all the questions in my mind, Then I did the tawba and asked Almighty Allah for forgiveness... Now i offer salah, go for the walk and do the workout in the morning... And I'm feeling better now ..

[@mohamedhasan6264]

It plays with your dopamine circuits, and you become unmotivated to do simple tasks.

[@hariaaban107]

True

[@samiullahmeskinyar6407]

i really hope everyone gets rid of this addiction espically my muslim brothers it really breaks my hard to see them destroy their own lives i have experienece if my own of how i got rid of it alhamdulilah offcourse it's not easy but you must try. My advice for anyone thats addicted like i was is. Try to be as busy as possible start going out with ur cousins watch movies on ur spare time go back to allah the right path start worshipping and don't even try to think about it even thinking will leading u to that way inshallahwo tallah u will get rid of this evillness too in no time.

[@kimyoung8864]

Pornography is bad for mentality health too you will have low esteem and low confidence

[@samiullahmeskinyar6407]

@@kimyoung8864 yes correct and overall it destroys ur future ur life and everything. The bottom line is it’s harmful to ur life i hope everyone starts to understand this before its too late

[@DiscoverIslah]

Allah guide us❤no doubt you are best protector and guide Ameen.

[@yourebeautiful9169]

May Allah SWT protect us all and heal those suffering from this destructive addiction❤ indeed Allah God the Almighty is the Most Powerful and the Most Forgiving❤

[@spoidorrmon]

I have been watching it from class 4 now its been 6 years and I'm still not able to break this addiction i always turn back to it, once after feeling guilty i made promise to allah but i broke it by watching again😢 i don't know what to do i know all the disadvantages of it i have watched numerous videos on how to break this addiction i have set no fap calendar for it but i failed every single time and lost many relationships and good company's and respect. Although nobody knows in my family that i am dealing with this Please pray for me as you read it now pray is the only hope i have😢

[@sarajwijati5373]

you can do it bro just keep going. i have a similar addiction and i promised myself that if i ever get a thought of doing it i would turn my phone off from the start before i would convince myself and it's working

[@azha12143]

The thing you need to also consider is draconian measures on your child will also do harm...You've heard the term rebellious phase. Its more severe with teens who have known nothing but restrictions their whole life. Mostly these kids go on and develop far worse habits later in life. There should be a balanced like everything in life

[@Miracleofnight__]

Exactly restrictions are and will and always are worst

[@anponmon]

Does anyone know where this video clip is from? I don’t like the subtitiles and the music and the black and white filter over the speech

[@ShafaatAli-re4id]

May Allah protect us and all brothers and sisters

[@comet6740]

If you are an adult and struggling with this. Please try and get married. Easier said than done but keep praying and pursuing.

[@comet6740]

@@Muslimah_Ukhti How long do you think people should stay away fromt this addiction? I believe one month of sobriety is enough.

[@Waqas_Khan02]

@@Muslimah_Ukhti I agree with this point. Pornography destroys your soul and it can only healed with 5 times Salah. Daily habit of Quran. Marriage can make you stop the haram relationship but it will never solve the pornographic issue.

[@foamontheriver]

Women don’t understand the struggles of men plain and simple

[@amaanullah13]

@@comet6740 No Not 1 months but 6 months is what it takes.

[@comet6740]

@@amaanullah13 You expect people to stay celibate, no sex, no masturbation. Living like a monk for 6 months before getting married? Lets face it, most people can't do it.

[@HaroonCopeland-fb1jh]

what's an adult? puberty means your an adult. This legal age limit thing is one of the biggest shams ever. The boy/man needed help!

[@fitnessabdul6811]

Yeah this guy is delusional, adults are individuals who are capable of making their own decisions. You’re telling me when your daughter is an adult, which is 9 years old when she hits puberty she can ask to marry someone?

[@fitnessabdul6811]

@@muneebrehman6288 yes I agree I’m not talking to you I’m talking to the commenter who says puberty is what makes an adult, I agree that the end of puberty is what makes an adult.

[@rafayg7376]

It's not a sham. This is how modern society is and things like that change. Below 18 is not an adult. This is not 1000 years ago. Even 20 year olds today are like teenagers. Islam even says to follow the law of the land. The law says that under 18 is a child.

[@rafayg7376]

@@muneebrehman6288 Yes biologically but not necessarily spiritually or mentally. Also those countries are different, the culture is different. Growing up in a village or in a lower class family kinda makes people grow up faster. They mature differently. They have to take on more responsibility earlier too. So it makes sense for them to get married pretty young. Can't use the same standards for the whole world. Not everyone is mentally matured by 16 or 18. There are kids that grow up rich in Pakistan and they are definitely not getting married that young.

[@rafayg7376]

@@muneebrehman6288 I never said it had to do with financial status my only point was that often people in those environments or backgrounds mature earlier, not physically but mentally. Biology remains the same everywhere and yes a person can be legally a minor and legally ready for marriage. But it's rare nowadays to find minors that are ready for marriage. Generally those minors that are ready for marriage exist in the environments that I mentioned. 1400 years ago people had families in their teenage years. They were mentally different back then. People would be ready for marriage by 15. It's just not the case in modern day society and I don't see a problem with that. Islam doesn't obligate marriage and certainly not by a particular age.

[@imtiyazgul3287]

May Allah protect us and our kids

[@Khaan_wahab05]

I also discoverd it like this a kid at school got me addicted for 12 years straigth and now i have recoverd from it. I have a 6 years streak of not watching it. Alhumdulillah i repented form Allah S.W.T around six years ago. And I got no cure to it because of Strict parents and no communication. In the end i fought with my Nafs and urges to controll it because its HARAM!!!

[@akrambaig2689]

This is really sad 😔 world we live in. Western countries these things are normal and really bad for your brain. I'm 42 years old guy. Since my mum passed away I felt really lonely. My older brother who I moved in with it's really worse. So I just kept to myself and pray to Allah swt.

[@XAE_A_Xii]

It’s not ok for western world, christians fight this too, the problem is that western world is run by atheists and may be satanists too, many have turned back to Jesus.

[@ribeyesteak9641]

nahh yall are making to big of a deal from it, it's just people having fun in the end

[@nocapnobs7845]

I was SEVERELY addicted for 20 years but I was also sexually molested and of course I didn't know that. No one understands the pain but once you overcome this addiction, you'll be like a new person altogether and the addiction doesn't di3 off until you cure any trauma you may have had FIRST!

[@Houdaiii]

I had this also, but my parents never knew about it, just did sport, fitness and a little of personal development and I was relived elhmdh.

[@fasihieducators]

May Allah protect us from devil and his associates. May Allah guide us all and show us straight path...

[@Marxism-LeninismInternationale]

At the first half I thought this was the end of that boy as if he lost his sense of moral, i'm surprised the parents of his never failed to give up parenting for this boy. It shows they have an impressive solution to recover from cultural decline. May the god shine the cause once again to this young man and the masses, and direct him with the ideal teachings of discipline.🌟