The SAD TRUTH About India's Gen Z! | The Neon Show

India Quotient Founder Anand Lunia speaks about why today's generation of Indians are not as motivated like previous generations.
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[@TheNeonShoww]

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[@devjyotipandey2227]

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[@honestindianmen7629]

Is speaker ka paisa udaya kya? Ye dumbo ko kisne bolne ka haq diya logonke bacchon ko??? Ye idiot palta hai kya teenageers ko??? Saala rascla... iske liye mere pass ek job hai...mera toilet clean karne ka...karega kya yeh...agar nahi kiya toh yeh apne baap ke paise par pal raha hai aisa manuga mein..😂

[@achinkansal]

Can u provide the hyperlink to this video as the link is not clickable sharable

[@AyushSingh-o7x8f]

West is not best Westernization is not modernization Grow ot of this mindset that if west has done this then it must be good. Grow out of your slavery mindset.

[@PseudoProphet]

These people are talking about the top 10% bottom 90% will work everywhere and their parents can't afford even budget phones for them.

[@rohitrahamatker192]

True

[@SupraD87]

Couch economists..

[@AgnostikChele]

Exactly

[@AgnostikChele]

​@@SupraD87nice wording

[@manumaunman]

exactly you said is correct and this is what happens when any stupids can come and bark on social media showing themselves as influencer

[@mirzeyar1355]

Superficial observation. If a student works in small Indian restaurant which will demand 14+ hours of work, he will screwup his education and end up uneducated.

[@sourabhacharya9492]

I have not seen students working in thr vacations also

[@mealtime542]

​​@@sourabhacharya9492bhai a student get 1 month holidays and in that to they have to do homework and businesses don't hire a worker for just one month either

[@siddarth3955]

​@@sourabhacharya9492I have not seen as many parents in old age home or homeless also

[@controlhorizon9818]

​@@sourabhacharya9492 Vacation is of more than 2 months in Foreign countries where School Projects are less and have a lot more freedom than us Indians with 1 month or less Vacation and School projects of 10 subjects with submission period in the first week of opening of school. So, it cannot be compared till it comes to a common ground

[@arundhatichatterjee]

Leave everything aside, if a kid start working and any acquaintance of parents see them, they will immediately start taunting the parents "kya ji, kya majburi thi aapki jo aapka baccha waiter giri/jamadari/anything similar kar rha hai. Kuch paise waise ki dikkat thi to hume batate, ye pure khandaan ki izzat kyu daw par laga di" These are not my thoughts, I am just telling what those people will go around and say that's why even our parents also don't want us to work until it's necessary

[@nicesed]

In US you can work for 2hours but it was not in India. All boss expect you to stay for atleast 6hours even if you come only in the evening.

[@ObitoUchiha10089]

Bhai west mein parents 80 saal ke umar mein akele sad raha hota hain. While my grandparents as well as a majority of Indian octagenerians are getting the best of care from their close ones at home. You can never compare an Indian family unit from the West. There are always exceptions of nalayak beta/ nalayak parents but majority of Indian family units have their own pros.

[@TheNeonShoww]

This is a very fair point as well... Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for tuning in!

[@shrutisharma4586]

That is a massive assumption and a bit of an outdated idea. I live in the Uk and I see so many white British people supporting their parents. The one amazing thing about the western world is that no one is a burden on anyone else. Older people plan their future properly before retiring rather than assuming help from their children. Younger people also will study full time and work part time jobs so as not to burden their parents. My boss’s elderly mother is unwell, so she’s moved her into her own home to look after her, even though she has 3 children and barely any space to accommodate. Also, increasingly grandparents are helping out their children with childcare duties. I’m 4th generation British and have never burdened my parents with anything. I financed my education, paid for my wedding ceremonies (I had 2 because my husband and I are not of the same faith) and my house. They help look after my children as I work full time. They’ve made proper provisions for their retirement, but we’ve adapted our house so that we can accommodate them in our house if needed. 80 year olds in the uk have many social opportunities, many of which are free!

[@ramadevimahilap.g.mahavidy4582]

Bullshit argument here, it's mostly because parents spend a large chunk of their savings on full filling their Raja Betas desires.

[@daydreamers710]

​@@shrutisharma4586And families being happy staying together in india is also a big bullshit. Many families crumble under the financial pressure of being many dependents on a single bread earner. There won't be any social nets here in India. Private education sucks on your blood. This is a growing country so you can see ever-growing cost of living, but salaries doesn't grow at same rate. Many families today are disfunctional and yet they forcefully live together. I can feel that discomfort among people. And as an Indian i know that an average indian is much more emotional than western people. And if a family has enough money, Indian families can make the happiest families in the world.

[@vibhutirg2931]

You are missing the point. They are not putting living together with family down. They are just saying how kids are so dependent on their parents and not understanding financial stability in life. They think till parents are providing we can ask everything but not wondering where that money is coming from. How earning in this day and age is difficult with the inflation and cost of living going up.

[@mannagarwal5390]

Right observation, wrong inference. Such protections help kids perform their best. In the West you have hyper independent kids who are having teenage pregnancies, OnlyFans work and massive life long student loans.

[@TheNeonShoww]

Fair point, thank you for sharing your Insights!

[@alishamornotmore]

Agreed! Having studied and lived abroad, I think we need to stop idolizing the West. We have it far better here. And the GenZ in the reel that's being talked about is happening only because of Western influence.

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

How does a protection bring out the best?? Best is found outside of comfort zone. There should be support but a shield makes them overdependent on them and very often they turn out to be lazy and dont work until they feel compelled to. If protection brought the best, we would have been far ahead. Those student loans u talk about are there in india too. Not every one can afford those mammoth fees of greedy private colleges.

[@dm5665]

'Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.' so going ahead hard times genZ need to face.Who is responsible for it. Genz extra protective parents.

[@chilpeeps]

@@ashutoshshukla5362because it doesn’t work like that if you parents can put you on better university you will get lot of money afterwards and if parents don’t bail out for kids at early stages they will mostly end up as Zomato delivery boys which will screwed them for life time plus the social infrastructure also fall

[@vijayalakshmibhati8331]

Agar foreign country ki tarah, we are started moving out of the house at age 18, then how many buildings or infrastructure we need , according to our population. We are unique from others and our solutions will also be unique.

[@abhinandanbhardwaj3393]

India is also the only country which treats family as family. Both parents and kids enjoy each others company. Unlike other countries , Its not like if kids get 18 , the parents get license to spend all their money on luxuries. Even if parents treat their kids as Raja beta or beti , in return kids love them the most and its true . Kids see how their parents goes out of the way for them. Please dont disrupt this culture. If kids got independent at 18 , the concept of family and interdependence will end.

[@VibhorSen1993]

Indian parents literally dictate their childrens lives !

[@SharkFishSF]

This is correct on the assumption that the kid will do the same, ie get married and act the same role for their kids...

[@pranav8893]

​@Drxyz-tk6lehow does it effect the Economy?,I have seen people running successful business and still living with their parents

[@dm5665]

​@Drxyz-tk6letrue this is happening across India. Parents are mainly responsible for it.

[@chilpeeps]

@Drxyz-tk6le😂 lol I have a apartment My father is 38 year older than me My mother is 32 year older than me They have big house but they can’t maintain it As a single son I have to go there every Saturday Sunday. You are a idiot who thinks there is no social responsibility but let me tell you how hard it is for a single child to do it by yourself how hard is to manage things while having a private job that don’t give you leaves

[@RaptorsParadise]

I am a single child 30 but I look after them as they are both 70+ not everyone has this leisure. We would be the last gen to take care of our parents

[@TheNeonShoww]

Well we have to wait and see about the next Gen too.

[@kunaljangale4620]

Bhai, you are not interesting enough for their discussion. Inko lagta hai sab baap ka paisa udaate hai. The fact that india is growing is not due to these uncles paying credit card bills. Everyone, including the young people, is working. Yes, they may have aspirations and would want to enjoy a bit, but on the whole, I don't think they are any more or less responsible than the previous generation. Pehle log chai stall ya paan Patti pe funde maarte the yeh log podcast banate hai.

[@SharkFishSF]

It's not because of single child decision, but the commercialisation of people and lives.

[@bpc504]

This is not for you. It for single child having affluent parents , raised in a cushy environment and not used to hard work. To maintain his living standards he will always be dependent on his parents.

[@dm5665]

​@@kunaljangale4620GenZ is the most laziest generation on earth.

[@Movieberr]

He is talking about a miniscule percentage of people... And if they have enough there is no harm in taking care of grown up struggling kids. Because in India family is everything.

[@apurvajha9495]

They forgot that their parents don't care knowing their child r doing hookups n onlyfans for money too, nor their kids feel the need to take care of the old parents. India have a family culture of taking the responsibility of the weaker one. When young they take our responsibility, when old we take theirs. That's how family r meant to work. We r one team

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

Will these overdependent adults support their parents in their old age?? Are the youth of India not addicted to alchohol,cigarettes and distracted?? If these protected kids are so capable,why are they dependent on government to fetch them jobs. Sitting at home in age of 25-30 doing nothing and living on parents' expenses. Majority of these people dont even realise the responsibility on their shoulders. Who will support the family when the parents are old and retired??

[@apurvajha9495]

@@ashutoshshukla5362 knock knock. Come out of ur shell. Unemployment on India have always been a big prob since independence. N no, majority of ppl know in what situation they r lying. U wanna know why a big young population is into hookups n alcohol? Coz the previous generations taught them ki "kamao aur khb bhogo".Parents were always concerned of 100% attendence but how many of them actually tried to take kids to temple even for 1 day in week.Bachpan se English was treated as God n hindi wasn't valued. Kaha hi gaya hai dharm m ki jo dharmik praviti k nhi hoga wo vishayi bhog m jayega. I am a young vaishnav,what I hear from the older generation is "areyyy,itni kam umar m ye rasta?abhi kya jarurat".They literally shaped this generation with a mindset " Job n mazze " . What did u expect then?Their parents even being uneducated taught them of religion but they being educated instead of teaching thrashed the religion.But now this generation isn't in Hand they throw hate.

[@apurvajha9495]

@@ashutoshshukla5362 ppl don't like being jobless is the first thing. N tbh, I have seen the job one take the least care of parents

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

@@apurvajha9495 "People dont like being jobless", but they are,arent they?? U have seen the job take least care of their parents so will jobless take care or does he have any means to?? Unemployment has always been a problem coz it is not addressed. People are still stuck in rat races so they could get a government job. Colleges have failed to upskill these guys and they are not even fit to do a job. There is nothing bad in being independent. I m not saying leave your parents and move out necessarily. But actually put an effort in growing as a person, learning to do basic chores so u are not dependent on parents and also to make sure u r not dependent on them economically. Idea of independent is good for the youth and its not even a debate.

[@Coolname772]

​@@apurvajha9495bhai konse india me rehta hai?😂

[@wian-ex6qp]

Why is there no mention of how easy it is to get a decent paying job in the west and opportunities that allow you to grow. Had there been a decent minimum wage in India there would be more young people moving out and doing their thing. And you maybe right if you are mentioning most of the city kids but what about majority of India where no parents are buying their child an iPhone etc.

[@sriramyaponnada1946]

With the kind of competition we have in India, inspite of studying 10 hours a day, very few people land in good pay jobs. If they start working part time, most of them cannot focus on education. That's why Indian parents support the kids atleast untill they get a good job.

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

When the culture doesnt support innovation, where will the jobs come from?? How many parents would support their kids if tomorrow they decide to start a new business?? They will go after a government jobs which are not enough. These people at 25 after school and college are still unskilled. What will they do of the theories they crammed if they cant apply it??

[@abhijitmore3729]

We need more conversations on this

[@TheNeonShoww]

We absolutely do! We really appreciate you tuning in and thank you for commenting 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@kunalkksachdev]

More such conversations for what? For a sad boomer whose own kids probably take him as a joke, giving advice on parenting and consumer behaviour. Bakachodi chahcha hai yeh.

[@MY_FRIEND_SARAVANA_KUMAR]

80% mobile is under ₹12,000 Please note

[@dm5665]

Without any income 12000 also a big amount.

[@StartupIndia88]

I suppose this is what makes Indian culture unique also from other countries... For better or for worse

[@StartupIndia88]

@@akshaysharma3809 Hmm that's a fair point, I think having some independence would definitely help create more well-rounded citizens

[@TheNeonShoww]

This is a great insight into the topic and we're glad you guys can have a healthy discussion about it!@@akshaysharma3809

[@shubhamgoyal3890]

I am grateful my mom dad always made me independent even when they could afford to pay for everything

[@TheNeonShoww]

And that’s very important in helping you become a well-rounded human being! Thank you so much for sharing your story and for tuning in! 🙌🏾

[@RyanChristopher777]

Good for you. But as a parent it's my duty to cater to every need of my child. It was my decision to get this child into this world and not the other way around. That's 100% my responsibility to fulfill all his needs.

[@anjalyb6935]

where are those parents? i want to see.. here many of them are paying parents bank loans..

[@bharsanta5029]

So true… The working and being independent culture , the way to value money.., must be inculcated in children .., right from their young age…

[@colinyay]

I propose that when a child turns 15, during the summer they do some summer job in retail or hospitality like Starbucks. It'll teach them respect and work ethic.

[@TheNeonShoww]

Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for your comment!

[@saurabhwarudkar4459]

Good video.... explained just because a grown up person is saying something doesn't mean they are right...

[@holymowmusichd8229]

That is the best part in Hindu Culture we take care of our loved ones 🕉

[@moonchild1866]

One thing ppl miss out in these discussions is the fact that the ethnic groups performing the best in western countries are actually from indian,chinese,japanese etc(mostly asian americans). And they are able to do this because they keep the family unit intact. They dont force their kids to leave at 18 and actually save up money to fund their educations. And all the kids being told to be "independent" and leave their house at 18 are from white, black etc. communities which are near the bottom of the list. So the ppl actually performing well in the west are from asian communities who dont force their kids out of the house.

[@scientificatheist9381]

It's not because if family. It's because for Indians It's status symbol and ambition

[@siddhant...]

​@@scientificatheist9381 That just means our society has managed to instill shame. Which is a really good thing.

[@niks5march]

Ye saale foreign se aane k baad sirf India ko gali dete hai... Bhul jaate hai unhone hi ye culture diya hai youth ko cool banne ka

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

Cool banne ka ni, independent banne ka. Ghar par baith ke kya ukhad liya tune??

[@meeiiiii]

At least stop embarrassing us

[@meeiiiii]

At least stop embarrassing us

[@yogogames1821]

​@@ashutoshshukla5362kisne bola India me bacche independent nahi hote .....most of the 28-30 yr olds are independent.....aur hum West me kyu dekhte hai inspiration ke liye ......unke waha koi culture nahi hai...... lonely hai almost sab .......unka individualistic culture ab regret Kara wahi hai unhe

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

@@yogogames1821 West ke culture ki toh baat maine ki hi ni. Khud hi assume kare ja rha h tu. Independent unke liye exclusive h kya?? Tujhe shayad video samajh ni aayi.

[@Nik_Heal25]

Meanwhile me who thinks 10 times before buying a single t-shirt 😢.

[@tejasbhawsar3703]

I believe this is half story. The same kid for whom they paid tution and rent etc will do the same for his kid as well. Also the parents who provided him with all this care, he will take care of them in their old age😊

[@dollysingh727]

In my case, I began tutoring at 16, self-funding my education, buying essentials, and my first phone and my first PC. I financed my bachelor's in computer science, secured a job, and independently pursued an MBA with my savings and a bank loan. I also contribute to my home every month. I've been independent for ages, but still, a 'Rani beti' of my parents. 😅

[@TheNeonShoww]

Thank you for sharing your experience!

[@ashirwadgarg174]

Didi aapne ye sab kaise kar liya 😮 plz suggest some tips so that we can become like you 😅

[@navalkiran2917]

100% correct

[@TheNeonShoww]

We’re glad you could relate to it and thank you so much for tuning in 🙏🏾

[@SiddharthaAhluwalia-h2x]

Very true!

[@TheNeonShoww]

We are glad you could relate to Anand Lunia’s words!

[@willywonka89976]

We need to start being more independent or we will never be able to grow to our fullest potential.

[@TheNeonShoww]

This is absolutely true... Thank you so much for tuning in!

[@anujkhanna2428]

So basically leaving your aging parents up to themselves is your way of independence. Mukesh Ambani never went out of his dads house and he started his family in his parental house, I am quite confident that he is achieving his full potential. You can live with your family and grow what you inherited. By this way if you plan to have your own family then your children won’t be brought up by some paid help or stupid day cares instead they will be brought up by people who would love them that’s called grand parents, we have had a family system and it worked for us for millennia’s and now you guys want to change it because American culture is always cool.

[@willywonka89976]

@@anujkhanna2428 Mukesh Ambani was born into a billionaire family so that is a moot point. The idea is not leave your ageing parents but rather understand the world through your own eyes rather than through the views of those around you. You are looking at it through a "grass is negative on other side" lens and I am looking at it through "how green can the grass be on the other side" lens. We will never know the answer to that unless we go an explore that other side as well.

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

​@@anujkhanna2428Dude,your idea of independence is flawed. Understand the meaning of the word. It means not depending on your parents for money and basic chores. How many people in india have a big business in inheritance and billions to play with while being surrounded by smart minds throughout their life?? Why are u not giving the example of his father who built the empire?? How can people who cannot support themselves support their parents in their old age when they are not independent and cant sort out their life??

[@shikhargupta7552]

Kon hai bhai ye parents jo 30 saal ke bache ko apni marzi se Iphone dila rahe hai?

[@TheNeonShoww]

I think there is a small percentage who are very doting on their kids who would do it but yes iPhones might not be the best example for it… regardless thank you so much for tuning in!

[@VibhorSen1993]

My parents would absolutely ask me money to buy stuff for my brother who is almost 30 now and does not work ! Since i wont buy for him , they ask me !

[@stephenwilson4931]

Ameer parents. Apne wale to nalle hain 😂😂

[@RyanChristopher777]

My kid is young now but yeah I'm one of those parents you talking about. Phone is a very petty thing. I've made sure he doesn't have to work to earn a living. He must work out of choice and not out of compulsion. That's my responsibility towards him, expecting nothing in return.

[@SupraD87]

​@@TheNeonShowwwhat is the percentage? Any stat to back it up?

[@RS99863]

Interesting view and well said by the guest

[@TheNeonShoww]

We are really glad you could relate to his words and thank you so much for tuning in!

[@anvisaini789]

I'm a single child from middle class family studying and working at the same time and have paid my fees and trust me i never ever aspired for an iPhone. 😊

[@rohma220]

Ye na bhuliye ki aaj jo "young india" hai wo "old india" bhi banega. Aur agar japan aise haal nahin chahiye to ek balamce zaroori hai.

[@satwikskatti]

As a GenZ I feel proud that I pay rent for my home and my parents.

[@VVVedic]

Hindus must 3 or more child. This 2 or 1 child ,is very disastrous our economy,Hindu demography & society.😢😢😢

[@prathambharti7037]

Well but the good part of it is.. it maintains family relationships unlike western countries

[@supriyasaha269]

Then dont expect kids to take care of parents post the parents turn 60 and retire! The parents should fend for themselves and look out for old age homes

[@ToxicOp5]

Foreign countries ki tarah India mein utne jobs hai hi nhi India mein.

[@TheNeonShoww]

Haan woh bhi sahi hain, we appreciate your insights and thank you so much for tuning in 🙏🏾

[@VibhorSen1993]

If people eventually start making money ( teenagers and so) they will have purchasing power , which in turn would increase demand and hence jobs ? Just a thought !

[@sanketkapale809]

Jobs hai,Raja beta ke liye woh chote hai and that was they were talking on @TheNeonShoww

[@ashutoshshukla5362]

What do u mean by jobs ni h?? West mei bhi ni fir toh. Start a business then or become a specialist in your field. Yeh sab bahane h bas.

[@stephenwilson4931]

​@@ashutoshshukla5362 bahana hai to uganda me paise kama le jake... Country also matters... country provides opportunity

[@RajKarma]

I disagree, kicking out an 18 year old is a disaster, look at the USA, they are importing talent from India.

[@BlackSakura33]

Kicking out an 18 year old is not good. Catering to a 30 year old baby is worse.

[@BlackSakura33]

USA is importing talent because their own population is dumb. They believe in flat Earth and things. Nothing to do with raja beta syndrome.

[@siddhant...]

​@@BlackSakura33what's wrong if parents have the money for it.

[@mannedhandle]

In the West people complain that the new generation is not becoming independent.

[@TheNeonShoww]

Thank you for sharing this and for tuning in!

[@user-uq6ic8pw8x]

Everywhere it is similar. Unless ppl of india stand up for themselves they will bring western culture here too

[@jayanthlaxman9188]

One of my grand daughter aged 10 is a school bus patroller in Canada. Her responsibilities include looking under the bus before the bus drives away empty from the school. Teaches responsibility , independence and civic sense. My other 13 year old reads books to inmates of an old age home. Teaches empathy, responsibility. In both cases they get points on their resume that'd help in universities and also reading gives her hourly paycheck. They are geared to be independent yet empathetic. Naysayers will say that westerners don't care about their children or parents. That notion is wrong. How many middle class indian father regularly take his teenage kids to fishing trips, Ball games, camping and regular outdoor activities ? Once they are past teenage they are considered adults who should be able to independently take care of themselves. And elders should also remain as independent as they can instead of leaning emotionally on grown up children who end up dreaming of a day they can do what they want in life. Love your parent. Don't Suck them dry. And Vice Versa.

[@TheNeonShoww]

This is an excellent insight sir and we really appreciate you sharing your story with us! Your grandkids seem to be very well rounded 🙌🏾 Thank you so much for tuning in! 🙏🏾

[@diehardernxgt2161]

Lmao that's literally child labour

[@itsjakia2759]

Many western parents kick out their kicks of their homes once they turn 18 and some even demand rent from them to be able to stay together with them. Ofc it will give off the idea that they don't care about their children, because indian parents would want their kids to stay with them as long as possible.

[@tamoghnagangopadhyay2847]

Yes western culture teaches so much empathy and responsibilty that school shootings and mass shootings happen commonly.Also thats why they are on only fans with 55 percent divorce rate and 79 old people dying alone per day in Uk.Middle class fathers stays with their children till their death how many western fathers do that😂😂

[@tamoghnagangopadhyay2847]

I understand for u everything indan is bad and everything western is good so be happy with it and dont try to impose ur culture on us Indians .We have doing these things for thousands of years even before ur culture was born.Also remove Laxman from ur name its also our Indian God which may bring u shame brown coolie

[@swarupdas2443]

Exactly the truth I wanted to hear!

[@TheNeonShoww]

We’re really glad you could relate to it and thank you so much for tuning in 🙏🏾

[@honestindianmen7629]

So, do one thing ...from tomorrow onwards come to my house, i always wanted to employ a toilet cleaner. I hope you will be the perfect match for the job..😂

[@lavanyaeesarapu1503]

It's like balancing, when parents'have they give. And take care of their kids, after their period is over kids take care of their parents..

[@r_s_p_t1096]

Bhai Gen Z 30 saal ki hui nahi, un par ilzaam daal do😂😂. This has been happening since time immemorial, and it's not about one generation

[@richi6550]

We can stay with our parents and still learn many thing they are the best people to guide us. My mom always says "our job as parents is to make you self reliant and to make sure you can calculate what's right and wrong for you." Lucky to have parents like them and I still live with them although I'm independent

[@krirakayarthaya6846]

Failure is stepping stone to sucess. But today's (2023) Bharatiya Parents right from childhood protect their child from failure instead of teaching them how to overcome or face failure in life.* Fallout of single child family.* Already it has created havoc on cultural, traditions, social and other norms of India. Much more to come.

[@rash013]

He needs to widen his circle of observation from his rich affluent Birla Ambani circle to us common Indians. We have seen our parents struggle and realise how much they have up for us. And all we want to do is make them proud. Bhai saheb, cocktail ka glass leke high rise building se apni observations, keep it to your family, who you never spent time with for your social networking. We belong to hardworking parents and we are the ones working for our family and future prospects.

[@BlackSakura33]

I know one 30 year old 'raja beta' like this. And he is not even a single child. He is an entitled 120 kg man while his elder sister is like a bamboo stick. It also shows how they were fed during their childhood.

[@HumourusLAV]

Best part of growing in a affluent neighborhood is you don't see other people's struggles.... Our youth is running around trying to get the best education for the cheapest price... MBAs are doing 15k jobs at your companies because their parents support them. Compare the difference of a McDonald's wait staff salary to Engineer salary in the west and in India and you will get the answer why it doesn't happen here

[@rajpawar9343]

That's why some values of western parenting should be implemented. We do that my cousins moved on after 30. They're married earned way more than they spend. Even I'll move on till 35.

[@chadesh-var]

Now am feeling ashamed for making my father buy me iphone 14

[@AmitKumarSahoo]

Rightly said. The major source of spoiling any kid is its parents collectively. Now even if one parent tries , the other half may not consent in the way of upbringing the kid.

[@Aarav.B]

Bhārat has always had a dependent culture, families of previous generations were massive, with uncles and aunts and cousins all living together. There was no incentive to live elsewhere, either. Now, there is incentive to shift, but that dependency is still there in our culture.

[@roopb9224]

An Indian in Canada who deals with parents and teens daily. You are expected to be independent by the age of 20, pay for your tuition fees, and find a place to live. In college, it is mandatory to work one out of three semesters each year. Almost all immigrant kids work part-time to study as well.

[@bra195]

Where I live, is danger and hard as f@# to live alone. I'm too late, but trying.

[@keshavarao3995]

In west After 18 children goes out of house whereas in India children after becoming adults take care of thier parents

[@nansimishra256]

We really need to take our kids out of our comfort zone.

[@TheNeonShoww]

Seeking discomfort always helps people push their boundaries! Thank you so much for tuning in Nansi 🙏🏾

[@humblerajesh.9129]

Well said

[@perseusvlasov367]

BS if teenager starts working in McDonald's, what about other unemployed 40 year adults?

[@honestindianmen7629]

​​@@perseusvlasov367😂😂😂 the ln unemployed 40 yrs adults will live on streets then..😂

[@honestindianmen7629]

Unemployment is so high in this country that now some dumb overachiever uncle's are saying teenagers with doctor/engineer degree to work as waiter and clean toilets/floors in India... These successful uncles would be nobody, if there parents haven't given them money for good education and financial support in early years of their career. But now when these uncle's generation is ask to do the same for their children, then there excuse is teenagers should live on their own, so, parents can enjoy with their money on material fantacy

[@harshshelar]

India is so diverse that you will find every type of families and children in a huge number probably even greater that some of the European countries. This is why it is impossible to fit india into a framework

[@chandanshriguru]

I have a life full of dependent parents who only kept telling that they needed a child for taking care of them during their twilight years.. it goes both ways..

[@apontutul]

Yeah spending twice the money on house is a sign of very intelligent independent people

[@dm5665]

'Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.'

[@geonsorigin2108]

Absolute bs, for regular people the idea of throwing your kid out at 18 is disastrous. It leads to failure of people in life, struggling to pay rents at a young age, teenage pregnancies and so on.

[@pavanreddy4201]

Similarly in India we have "Reservation ka beta", "Government ka beta"..

[@TheNeonShoww]

We appreciate you tuning in!

[@wolfheart5408]

Exactly

[@VVan595]

Most reservation kids don't have the luxury of rich parents

[@tlatimes9251]

Cry more

[@user-uq6ic8pw8x]

Reserved candidates destroy natural social eco systems.

[@vk9180]

In India even students do part-time jobs can't pay to their college fees compared to other countries where they can do partimes and can pay to colleges only parents should work for that too

[@jayanthpaul9631]

India is not the only place from what I've it happens in asian countries like China, Singapore, Malaysia and more. One thing is that all of the mentioned stuff will not fly at a middle class family. I study and work but i automatically don't dare to ask for expensive stuff or buy expensive stuff. I just can't imagine myself buying the latest iPhone but my dad bought it. So i think it depends on the circumstance?

[@sayandutta9893]

It's a support system. There is nothing wrong about parents taking care of kids and vice versa. Ofcourse the line needs to be drawn if taking support turns to exploiting.

[@religionofpeace782]

First thing...the kids never asked their parents to bring them into existence. It was the parents choice alone, the kid never had any consent. Beat my statement with logic.

[@sanjay6596]

Humans would go extinct with your logic

[@religionofpeace782]

@@sanjay6596 So what's the problem with that? Who would be facing problems if humans go extinct? Did life on earth not exist before humans? Infact humans are the cause of all problems on earth right now.

[@DhruveelDave]

This channel is dropping a banger after another.

[@Stranger-jx4qd]

What about the children who were sent to foreign to study to become independent for better life and they settled there but their parents stuck here lonely for whole life?

[@Nirak1765]

Basically he doesn’t want handholding But what companies do ? They track your browsing history, track every damn thing like a web shadow and suggest their products accordingly. This is not influencing ,dictating, hand holding?

[@vishwakarma209]

Yes, but Don't Lecture one sided , What about Toxic parenting in India , Domestic Violence on Kids, and lots of things....what about that ????

[@pritamlaskar7265]

I am a single child who took a bank loan to study abroad and now in Europe I am working part time beyond limit to fund my expenses and reduce the loan usage amount. Even after having more than 2 lac + savings I am using a broke Android phone. These guys are wrong about single child.

[@akif5903]

This is not gen Z, this almost all the previous gens of india

[@rajatverma360]

sadly True

[@TheNeonShoww]

Thank you for your comment!

[@zyxbody]

I am 20 yrs old student, my father is retired but works on 2nd job. He earns and gets pension too.I am aware of my responsiblities but I don't think my condition is desperate enough to seek job while I am still studying. I wanna pursue my career, give my dream a chance, perhaps then I can become an asset and share financial burden with my father. I think it's fine if you want to work for experience but it shouldn't be hopeless pursuit to just earn money but rather somethin that aperson wants to do which should guide their actions.

[@user-zw2vi9zh4m]

In India, parents help their children out. Do you guys know how things work in the West? Yes, people do become independent but some get hooked on drugs - some parents live a lonely life till death. So this co-dependency in India is what preserves a family culture.

[@lablinehra2564]

we prefer family over everything paisa aata jata rahega parivar kabhi nahi jana chahiye😊

[@akshaymankar554]

I am a single child and I have NEVER done this

[@bholebaba5664]

On west child sends parents to old age home...in India parents stay with children...big difference

[@chaitanyakunda8583]

If 18 y/o start to take these part time jobs, a lot of people loses their full time jobs in india!

[@divyanshbhargava2900]

That Raja beta he's talking about is less than 1% of the population. Most indian kids don't have that luxury

[@SalmanPadder25]

They have called out very good things but in comments some folks are taking it out of context

[@priyankashaw2617]

The person giving gyaan here got his children on the same safety net.

[@larrybaba5635]

In USA 18 year olds leave homes ..get in the wrong relationships, drugs etc and have no guidance. By the way same Indian culture is also followed in China and Russia.

[@pradeepveeramachaneni1201]

Culture in India and Indian businesses doesn't allow what is been referred to.

[@rapidash1995]

The foreign govt provides everyone above 18 a compensation if they could not find work !

[@pallavivatni5942]

I'm not spoiled...thank god Hence proved.. Paid my entire education loan and working and giving money to parents to fulfil their dream wedding of mine.

[@do_u_dsa]

Sounds like this episode is for people > "upper middle class" category only.

[@maitri98]

So many parents' statuses come in the way in the beginning of the work-life

[@anshumanchaurasia4956]

For the same reason, Indians abroad are more academically qualified and thus more successful abroad, because they have the safety net of parents that let their children study in college without worrying about student loans.

[@chickencurry7642]

India ke bachhe agar 18 ki age me independent ho gaye to duniya me doctors or engineers me bhari girawat aa jayegi.

[@shree397]

THERE IS A REASON WHY KIDS ARE DEPENDENT THESE DAYS, it's not just because of the kids. It's because of the competition , emphasis on over education, lack of opportunities corresponding to the education, incredible infrastructure inflation, general inflation, Need to maintain lifestyle(societal need). on the flip side- Increase in parental need for support in their old age owing to more diseases and lifestyle choices, Parenting methods to focus on society driven conventional yet non-fruitful education. I CAN GO ON AND ON AND ON .

[@tammoypatra3523]

This only applies to major cities where you have McDonald's fast food joints and supermarkets where 18 old can get part time job. Majority of India doesn't not have that luxury. In these areas even being a only child we don't have the luxury to think about getting a iPhone or a bike because we never know that by the end of month will there be food in our plates. We all want work and earn atleast the minimum wedge to support the family. So I don't think this assessment is applicable to the majority of rural diaspora.

[@babygroot50]

Well we cant do part time jobs to be independent in college life coz our society is not accepeted that we're doing job instead of study hard. So they focus on study and get a job and parents support them thats the culture of Bharat.

[@thanuthanvi5718]

If so India would not have such young generation with lack of proper attention. For eg Sunil Chhetri, Shubhan Gill. In India once a boy or girl reaches 20 they become independent with parents support.

[@Maha-jt9kg]

McD pays 100$ a day in US, in India it may be just 300 a day. Don't compare.

[@user-uq6ic8pw8x]

Millennials are reasonable gen z don't know where things came from neither where things lead to.

[@advaith365]

Oh please my parents kicked me out of house at 20. I scraped and managed my life. I got nothing from my parents

[@hasnilgotmare9073]

Who told you that the education loan of a single child will be paid by parents? That's totally rubbish.

[@boogieman8827]

Thats why put the boys in the army or navy mandatorily and teach kids in the college how to make money or be money worthy