I'm pretty happy most of the time. The thing is, I don't know how I got here. But it took 75 years of not trying, and just living life as it happened.
@Avi-j6y25 күн бұрын
So good ❤
@4th_Disciple23 күн бұрын
Im sure being born in an age of unparalelled age of economic growth & prosperity helps. boomer
@baonguyen71644 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this amazing speech! It gave me such immense motivation to become a happier person!
@BeatlesBowieKrimson3 ай бұрын
Living a meaningful life will lead to happiness.
@Tracertme4 ай бұрын
To simplify and take the science out of it human beings are naturally gregarious and you stimulate their well being with emotive connectivity I use it at work with my teams all the time. 😂❤ social media does not help… so many young people don’t know how to engage authentically, same for most managers actually….
@kylecarter15994 ай бұрын
Who's coming to the Royal Institute to have the science removed?
@samarindt4 ай бұрын
Great food for thought.
@Stevros9994 ай бұрын
Emotive connectivity? You mean smile 😃?
@1wibble2304 ай бұрын
It's funny reading all the negative comments under this vid. They seem to be the very people that need this advice the most and lack any self awareness of their own situation :) Great lecture!
@colby651223 күн бұрын
Amazing. I think teaching and practicing these lessons are of of the best antidotes for the paradox of more developed countries becoming more mentally unhealthy vs less developed. The wandering mind makes sense for this! Hunter Gather tribes are very connected, hunt and gather food together, build, camp fires 🔥 etc. so much of what they do has clear purpose and focus. Americans, how many hours we spend looking at our phones as well as time in isolation and loneliness, and then in this isolation we have social media that compares and despairs…. And these ideas are just going off psych and brain ideas from the talk! Didn’t even mention how food, movement, sunlight, excess work and jobs that don’t feel meaningful anymore in the 7/11 and Starbucks / Amazon and Walmart take over vs small awesome restaurants and businesses.
@stephenarmiger8343Ай бұрын
I have preordered your book. I appreciate the work you and your team and the folks at the Royal Institute have done to bring this to the public and that you made it available on KZbin.
@claudesylvanshine65514 ай бұрын
Sustained and continued happiness is a new societal expectation imposed upon us. Holding the expectation over us makes people feel shame for not existing in this mythical state which then results in increased consumption to fill this "void" that was socially created.
@irtazaaliarab94423 күн бұрын
Now that i am will 93 tears old on dec 26 2024 and i think it is last year of my life because my health no more wants me in this world . I tell you this reality comparison kills joy eats up your energy it dries you from inside . And secondly plz live a married life . Don’t ever think you can survive alone because at the end loneliness will haunt you
@ruskinyruskiny16114 ай бұрын
Martin Luther Kings critical question "What am I doing for others" and doing it is the short cut to happiness.
@claudesylvanshine65514 ай бұрын
He definitely "spread happiness" as an adulterer.
@veronicavoehl4 ай бұрын
'Birthing Big Brains' would be a good name for a book. That video of the room was trippy. 💓
@coreC..2 ай бұрын
I focused on one small area, and noticed a change. Super proud i saw it! But when the begin/end frames were toggled,.. a bit shocked i did not see so many changes. Cool!
@geniusgirlus4 ай бұрын
"It’s interesting that we're teaching students about 'the science of happiness' while their mental health crisis is only getting worse. Are these courses really providing long-term value or just temporary fixes? And why isn’t anyone addressing the root causes of this psychological crisis in today’s educational environment? Maybe the problem isn’t a lack of knowledge about happiness, but rather how universities are run more like businesses than supportive spaces for emotional and mental growth."
@Stevros9994 ай бұрын
I find it quite boring at this point , it's obvious that social media is f-ing up people's brains 🧠
@empmachine4 ай бұрын
these "upcoming" posts just get lost in my feed. I hope I'll remember to watch it; 24hrs is a bit much to expect me to remember random things I want to watch on YT..
@Dumbledore6969x4 ай бұрын
I have a ‘Backlog’ folder where I add everything from my feed to. If I watched everything from my feed I would forget a lot
@empmachine4 ай бұрын
@@Dumbledore6969x thanks for the idea, I might try something similar.. but this time, LoL, simply complaining in a comment made me remember only a few hours late
@jonathanfilion73724 ай бұрын
You can add videos into your "watch later". There is an option under the vid to save it and you can keep videos there indefinitely
@daveac4 ай бұрын
He says 'those who continued went on to graduate' is that somehow implying those who didn't - then failed to graduate?
@EdwardWilliams-lv3cb4 ай бұрын
I think it means they only followed up with evaluations with the students who were still at the school.
@user-CIGAxScape2 ай бұрын
.... Interview Terrorist vs Interview Anti-Terrorist on Definition of Happiness ... .
@Stevros9994 ай бұрын
When you're older happiness=defacating
@TheOwlman4 ай бұрын
29:18 Damn, isolation is my preferred state - I do not thrive in a social setting; having spent decades trying to fit in it is just too exhausting these days! The good news is that I am fine and I feel no sense of loss or worthlessness (though I drink and smoke, so my morbidity remains high). Edit:34:07 But pessimists are *never* disappointed: either things go as badly as they expected, which is hardly a disappointment, or they turn out well, which is a total and surprising bonus. At best optimists get what they expected, but mostly they are disappointed that their expectations were not met - that has to get to you eventually. 35:20 Not my experience, certainly with exams. If you fail then you were inadequately prepared so you can definitely prepare better next time - it has never been a case of _I am a complete failure_ or _I am not good enough._ For the optimists I have known, it has generally been the end of the world with much metaphorical wailing and histrionics. I guess we have a difference definition of pessimist.
@Stevros9994 ай бұрын
So you're saying there's an advantage to me being miserable all the time ? 😊
@TheOwlman4 ай бұрын
@@Stevros999 You make the fundamental error of assuming pessimism is equal to being miserable. Not at all, in many respects it is being realistic, and thus not disappointed. I am perfectly happy, I expect little and get so many bonuses.
@ns1extreme4 ай бұрын
Bro really put the bust of Epicurus(hedonist) when talking about Epictetus (stoic)
@brucehood52124 ай бұрын
Thanks for pointing this out. I'll change the image. The dangers of relying on Google Images search
@Jay-ep3io2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@NathanDudani4 ай бұрын
Forget happiness, embrace 🐒
@TheAlchemistZero14 ай бұрын
The Meaning of Life: Imagine an endless clear glass tube (representative of Time), within which exists a diorama of life on Earth. The left most section depicting our earliest single-celled ancestors (3.5 billion years ago), leading through our present and into a future yet to be experienced (farthest right). Notice the tube (Time) and the diorama of life displayed within - exists Simultaneously; Past, Present, and Future all occurring concurrently. Every life form within the history of existence, an interconnected narrative: as 'Futures' cannot exist without Past events. Similarly to reading a book, we can only examine moments of our lives which had already transpired (Past), those pages yet read (Future) remain uncertain until experienced (no cosmic spoilers). We can only surmise possible outcomes based on prior events (pages read), although never guaranteeing accuracy of predicting Future events. Without the existence of Conscious experiences, there would be Nothingness. Life experiences, Experiences, simply for the sake of experiencing - which is why Life chronically craves varieties of stimuli. Our corporeal forms are assigned avatars, which allows Consciousness to experience material reality. Works of fiction (books, cinema, video games, etc.), allows individuals to experience an extended Consciousness, whereby our emotional states carry-over into fictional narratives (frustration, anger, joy, elation...). All of this, despite understanding such events are merely virtual (occurring within said individuals imaginations). Books are experienced in chronological order instead of a randomized order; in order to maintain a cohesive narrative flow. Within fictional works, every character arc has their entire fate sealed; from inception to demise - luck/chance has already been decided throughout. This is also why every Life is experienced through a predetermined progression. Reality is a sensory experience, simply for the sake of experiencing a physical Life. the Alchemist -Ø1
@Justin-xs2yo3 ай бұрын
Wow, so many people who clicked on this video and then commented are so angry or sad. Nit picking this video or his points. Reminds me of when Elmo asked how everyone is going. 😢 so sad so many people are so sad or angry
@bokchoiman4 ай бұрын
Happiness is less bad feelings, more good feelings. So if you feel bad, just stop doing the thing that makes you feel bad.
@jonathanfilion73724 ай бұрын
Wtf. Why haven't scientists thought of this?
@Stevros9994 ай бұрын
@@jonathanfilion7372😂😂😂
@NilsExp3 ай бұрын
Just another bs book promo 😢
@u0000-u2x4 ай бұрын
Seems like buddhism got things right 3000 years ago
@4th_Disciple23 күн бұрын
Bhuddism is just a revision of Hinduism.
@CrashingThunder4 ай бұрын
Good talk, unfortunate it's littered with AI generated slop images.
@Dumbledore6969x4 ай бұрын
Who cares who made it.
@CrashingThunder4 ай бұрын
@@Dumbledore6969x It's mostly just tacky, but using them so heavily also displays an ignorance to the ethical issues revolving around generative AI. He "credits" ChatGPT in the images, which is also kind of offensive because there should be no reason to credit images generated that did not take credit into account when training the systems required to generate those images. Or copyright, for that matter, which is the more pressing legal issue.
@kylecarter15994 ай бұрын
Someone didn't pay attention during the talk
@Dumbledore6969x4 ай бұрын
@@CrashingThunder who cares.
@1wibble2304 ай бұрын
You sound very unhappy, and ironically the person who needed to really listen to the words in this video the most :)
@sebastianthomas42864 ай бұрын
Sorry to say that the strange noise that you make frequently is very annoying especially when headphones are used. I say this because if you try, you can control it.
@OldSwiss3 ай бұрын
RI presentations are usually really good and substantiated ... this one unfortunately is the opposite. Cluttered with opinions sold as facts. American way of 'selling science' is a real disappointment.
@AlexdaCunha4 ай бұрын
What we conclude is that people love BS subjects 😂 600? Really?
@spindoctor63854 ай бұрын
I think this guy's view of happiness is deluded. Very little science going on here.