The Secret to Great Sex

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@dsimmons8836
@dsimmons8836 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jimmy for giving me a voice today when talking about a woman's needs, as me and my husband, both watched. Tears just rolled down my cheeks. I am working towards becoming a marriage therapist and believe in your purpose and donate. Hope to give more once out of school. Again thank you!
@camuyana
@camuyana 6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly the reason why I like to listen to advice first to a person who is married and is also a Christian because the advice is based on experience both personally and spiritually.
@cathrindaphee692
@cathrindaphee692 5 жыл бұрын
What garbage advice
@piyabiswas9475
@piyabiswas9475 3 жыл бұрын
I am very happy to get this beautiful message...how wonderfully pastor made to understood the meaning of marriage..thank you so much..
@lauratrahan3020
@lauratrahan3020 Жыл бұрын
I agree, there has to be attraction both ways. I thought we married because we fell in love, not because the man wants HIS needs met😮
@bobianna5345
@bobianna5345 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Thank you so much. I listen again with my husband
@lesedi428
@lesedi428 2 жыл бұрын
My man be dropping that succulent wisdom🤧💥
@happyhaptoe5653
@happyhaptoe5653 4 жыл бұрын
this should be done in all churches take back the marriages for God
@crystalthow5533
@crystalthow5533 2 жыл бұрын
Bang! U r so right!
@cmoss95
@cmoss95 6 жыл бұрын
..."Non sexual affection and LEADERSHIP. She wants to be respected as an equal but she wants you to initiate the well-being of the home" No truer words spoken. I need to put this on a T-Shirt!!
@cathrindaphee692
@cathrindaphee692 5 жыл бұрын
sorry if you want non-sexual affection then you are a sexual marriage is not for you marriage is for sexual people especially hetro sexual people we can get non sexual affection from our parents and friends
@Android-ds9ie
@Android-ds9ie 5 жыл бұрын
Shut up lesbian
@dumfriesspearhead7398
@dumfriesspearhead7398 5 жыл бұрын
@@cathrindaphee692 Why can't you have both? One doesn't negate the other.
@cathrindaphee692
@cathrindaphee692 5 жыл бұрын
@@dumfriesspearhead7398 of course you can have both
@tedmalley7636
@tedmalley7636 4 жыл бұрын
It's got to start with attraction..men overwhelmingly desire women who are classically "feminine" , have long rich hair , warm inviting eyes , a classic " hourglass" figure and a loving loyal personality. Too many women look like creatures out of a horror flik..with red/green/yellow hair , disgusting tatoos all over , 5 lbs. of chains/metal/peircings and have vile narcissistic personalities.
@dee9588
@dee9588 4 жыл бұрын
There are PLENTY of you Men that look the same! Lol Everyone would be better to take pride in themselves 😊
@rebekahlampre1700
@rebekahlampre1700 2 жыл бұрын
Your comments are so rude and judgemental.
@buick586
@buick586 Жыл бұрын
After 13 years of emotional abuse over sex by my wife, I now find her wanting sex again and it's extremely hard to think of her that way anymore.
@User-72430
@User-72430 7 жыл бұрын
Oh this is so true!
@trishapaniagua9192
@trishapaniagua9192 6 жыл бұрын
me too
@kamillaiqbal6521
@kamillaiqbal6521 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks 4 the info Those of u who get some be happy because some of us don't I appreciate the informative vids
@chivonnelong2046
@chivonnelong2046 Жыл бұрын
❤ you Jesus ❣️
@coconutluxenaturals
@coconutluxenaturals 6 жыл бұрын
Oh how I wish I'd seen your videos sooner. We are seperating as we are not sexually aligned. Never had been . So sad. Yet still so much love.
@VincentNBridgetMoses
@VincentNBridgetMoses 6 жыл бұрын
There is still a chance for God to heal your marriage! Start by watching Jimmy's videos on redeeming your spouse, and by applying what you learn with your husband (even if you're separating!). There is NOthing impossible for our LIMITLESS God honey!!! Don't give up on your marriage, you have a 100% chance of success in marriage when we do it God's Way!!! Stay blessed dear!!!💜💜💜
@KrisWolf4
@KrisWolf4 6 жыл бұрын
I must be the odd woman out, I have the higher drive for sex than my husband. He has no worry to be sexual with me, cause I always want it!!
@abisamraj4408
@abisamraj4408 6 жыл бұрын
ricekristysquares snacks welcome to the world of 95 percent of men No Mercy here
@lexie02jones25
@lexie02jones25 6 жыл бұрын
you are not odd!nit's just how you are! pray about it
@freemanontheland507
@freemanontheland507 6 жыл бұрын
You must have a lot of SCORPIO placements in your chart???
@dumfriesspearhead7398
@dumfriesspearhead7398 5 жыл бұрын
Jimmy did say that 30% of wives are more sexual than their husbands, so it's a large minority. So, you're not odd.
@pennsy6000
@pennsy6000 5 жыл бұрын
He's a lucky, blessed man!!!!
@marie-scott5045
@marie-scott5045 6 жыл бұрын
Your so right,only evil and satan is always around us,with that one need to be strong and good for the one you love,and only a couple can make each other happy for the rest of our lives
@marie-scott5045
@marie-scott5045 6 жыл бұрын
Can't plan making love,any time is the right time,with your hubby
@patrickmitchell7987
@patrickmitchell7987 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@chivonnelong2046
@chivonnelong2046 Жыл бұрын
I agree in Jesus name ❤
@juliereckard2530
@juliereckard2530 4 жыл бұрын
Need prayer, my husband doesn't want me sexually , even if I intiate, he rejects me saying he's too tired. But has time to watch TV shows til midnight. I'm at the end of myself. I stayed after he had cheated fir 7,8 years and now this is how he's treating me. I need him to want to have sex with me. I need him to be present.
@marygraham9893
@marygraham9893 2 жыл бұрын
Actually in this area he's still cheating you. You have a right to sex if he's able. When my husband was dying he still tried as he was able to keep me satisfied. How is the rest of the relationship? Ask gently if there is a problem. It's a touchy subject.
@marygraham9893
@marygraham9893 2 жыл бұрын
Enjoyable sex builds the tie between a husband and wife. Perhaps they need to learn to please each other. Building a loving relationship also builds desire.
@lexianndearden3422
@lexianndearden3422 3 жыл бұрын
I know by giving my husband sex when he needs it , it helps him to stay focused on me and not stray in his thoughts or become tempted.
@johnsonsmili9324
@johnsonsmili9324 5 жыл бұрын
U are a legend
@lauratrahan3020
@lauratrahan3020 Жыл бұрын
In my generation sex was a sinful word, even in a pastors home. It was a means to have babies but most newly married girls were virgins and many or most young men only new what animals did on the farm. I our strict southern Baptist home, we were told NOTHING. Most girls dreaded their wedding night, sex was almost forced on the bride, it was for the man only. Pretty soon the wives hated the act and the men did nothing to change that. That went on for generations. Boy, I could write a best seller!😓😓😓🙏
@dan020350
@dan020350 7 жыл бұрын
if there is no hero or wise elders serving the church -.- whom where the young people go?
@monkeymankyle
@monkeymankyle 7 жыл бұрын
David Sanders
@kirkshairpiece6741
@kirkshairpiece6741 5 жыл бұрын
How does one serve in love their spouse as described in this video without this devolving into a co-dependency relationship whose hallmarks are low self-differentiation and endless people pleasing, self hatred and bitter resentment?
@apiocatherine7116
@apiocatherine7116 5 жыл бұрын
The love spoken here is God's kind of love. You need a revelation of it before you can do those. Without it, its impossible. I learnt through it that happiness depwnds on you and not what your spouse does. Its a decision.
@lifewitholliethegsp9203
@lifewitholliethegsp9203 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a very worldly question. “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek with all your heart” I think it’s time to search, you will find the answer to your question.
@jhen494
@jhen494 4 жыл бұрын
This is one that catholic doesn't have ,the priests can't preach by experience bec they are not married ,its so boring when they do the homily but I like catholic solemnes ,I like it when it's peaceful & quiet when I'm in church ,I don't like a lot of singing & loud music
@lornaswasey4687
@lornaswasey4687 5 жыл бұрын
This a good saying,couldnt have said it any better
@glendoncarlton6984
@glendoncarlton6984 3 жыл бұрын
The no no in no o k o B
@glendoncarlton6984
@glendoncarlton6984 3 жыл бұрын
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@glendoncarlton6984
@glendoncarlton6984 3 жыл бұрын
I I’ll I k I i Yes
@glendoncarlton6984
@glendoncarlton6984 3 жыл бұрын
Ok I o Ok I noi
@FeelinFineFeelinFanc
@FeelinFineFeelinFanc 3 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why these video's are popping up on my recommended video's? Maybe someone should send them to their bi-sexual spouse/partner
@karenwright9736
@karenwright9736 6 жыл бұрын
I don't need sex " don't want no one telling me to give myself.
@Android-ds9ie
@Android-ds9ie 5 жыл бұрын
Then stay single if you want to get married then get a man with erectile dysfunction he will never want sex or become a lesbian
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 Жыл бұрын
I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination).
@lauratrahan3020
@lauratrahan3020 Жыл бұрын
That’s Sad😓you give it to him when he NEEDS so he won’t stray. What does he do for YOU? Honey, if he wants to stray, he will!
@sparklessconnectionselectrical
@sparklessconnectionselectrical 3 жыл бұрын
What planet is this on?
@erinsmith7839
@erinsmith7839 4 жыл бұрын
Spreading a message that a spouse should have sex despite not wanting it is disgusting.
@grant.sabrina
@grant.sabrina 3 жыл бұрын
So true!!!!Absolutly!!!
@grant.sabrina
@grant.sabrina 3 жыл бұрын
🤢🤮🤮🤮
@lifewitholliethegsp9203
@lifewitholliethegsp9203 3 жыл бұрын
I never even let my husband “ ask” I let him know he is wanted. You must seek the Lord, or you will just miss the point every time.....
@straightup937
@straightup937 3 жыл бұрын
Listened to you until the servant needs to say my pleasure... Little arrogant sounding
@soyboytroy148
@soyboytroy148 3 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. Nobody is perfect so this must be a blind spot for him. It takes a truly self righteous pompous mindset to not appreciate “my pleasure” as a way of saying “you’re welcome”. I hope he’s Christlike to restaurant staff and retail workers.
@bethh.3751
@bethh.3751 3 жыл бұрын
Perhaps you should go back and Re-listen to what he said. He didn't say someone serving Has to say "my pleasure", but he likes when they do bc how someone words their response makes a difference. It's why Chick-fil-A workers are told to say "My Pleasure" meaning it pleases me to serve you, instead of "no problem" meaning I'll do it as long as it isn't a problem for me. He Never said he Doesn't accept "my pleasure" as a form of "you're welcome".
@tashawheaton4235
@tashawheaton4235 6 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute didn’t Jesus preach a celibate message... Paul also went on to say it is good not to touch a women.. Sex keeps you in the matrix you’re supposed to deny your flesh. I understand if you’re going to be married but why does no one preach celibacy?? We need to start. This is gross! You make fun of her talking yet you go on and on about sex. Did you know most women after they have children don’t have the ability to even enjoy it.. Men have become reprobates due to porn and Hollywood Celibacy is the Best Policy!!
@joncannon8973
@joncannon8973 6 жыл бұрын
1 Corinthians 7:1- 40. I think being single is ok if you can control your thoughts, but if you burn in passion for the opposite sex , you should find a GODLY person to marry, not easily done ... but GOD will provide .
@scatteredseedsofhappiness3285
@scatteredseedsofhappiness3285 6 жыл бұрын
Celibacy is the worst a person with sex drive can do, it will be a torture for them as well as impossible to keep pure in the long run. Some have the gift of being single and others don't. Read your bible and study more on the subject as your opinion is not in line with the Word of God.
@cathrindaphee692
@cathrindaphee692 5 жыл бұрын
The gift of celibacy is given to very few people if you got that then good for you many of humans or not like that
@marshahinson2360
@marshahinson2360 3 жыл бұрын
@@cathrindaphee692 Most are not eunuchs made by God. If we all were, there would be no children. Listen to a Hebrew who is a Hebrew scholar teach the Song of Solomon. Read: Love & Respect Sacred Marriage Sex Begins In The Kitchen S.H.E. The Act of Marriage The 5 LOVE Languages & (Maybe, I haven't read that one yet.) Holy Sex
@bethh.3751
@bethh.3751 3 жыл бұрын
If you're married, your gift is not Celibasy, and it doesn't mean if you're not married that your gift is Celibacy either. Just supposed to wait for marriage. If you don't give your spouse sex, and that is in either a man or womans case, you will cause your spouse to be tempted to sin by looking elsewhere. God's whole point is to keep us from that. Perhaps women who have an issue with not enjoying sex after children should look into all the resources that could possibly help so they can get back their pleasure. There are also women who have a hard time enjoying it before children bc of physical problems, emotional, and spiritual problems too.
@dan020350
@dan020350 7 жыл бұрын
devil man needs a devil woman
@Android-ds9ie
@Android-ds9ie 5 жыл бұрын
Lie lie lie don't fall into this trap
@dan020350
@dan020350 7 жыл бұрын
devil man needs a devil woman
@beforeiforget2153
@beforeiforget2153 7 жыл бұрын
dan020350 lol ya and she'll need six more behind your back Stud!..
@loriroman607
@loriroman607 6 жыл бұрын
And a Godly man needs a Godly woman....which ends up in eternal extacy
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