"The Self Sabotage Manifesto" by Julien Blanc (How To Overcome Self Sabotage)

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@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 3 жыл бұрын
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@Joystik718
@Joystik718 5 жыл бұрын
Julien look like he's about to defend the lightheavy-weight title
@JustMe-999a
@JustMe-999a 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, if he gained 50 lbs of muscle
@Siloquid
@Siloquid 2 жыл бұрын
Dat boi dripping
@MentalHealthWithNyibol
@MentalHealthWithNyibol Жыл бұрын
😂😂... Damn!
@philipps.7101
@philipps.7101 3 ай бұрын
what does your posting tell yourself about yourself bro? 🙂☀️🫶
@enriqueavalos
@enriqueavalos 5 жыл бұрын
Julien about to knockout everyone’s ego.
@GoogleAccount-po1gl
@GoogleAccount-po1gl 5 жыл бұрын
lol. Good one.
@chraosta
@chraosta 2 жыл бұрын
Gold
@thatsrandom737
@thatsrandom737 Жыл бұрын
hahaha thats so true. So many egos about to make a massive hit. But then be put together and restored for the better.
@darko.ristanovic
@darko.ristanovic 5 жыл бұрын
As soon as I stopped my self sabotage , I got the job I wanted. Literally 7 days later. I was my own worst enemy before that.
@AlignAGI
@AlignAGI 5 жыл бұрын
How did you do it?
@СтефанЋирковић
@СтефанЋирковић 5 жыл бұрын
Kako tacno si "pustio" to druze?
@СтефанЋирковић
@СтефанЋирковић 5 жыл бұрын
Skapirao sam da moram da ga pronadjem i da gledam obrazce, sad samo jos taj deo
@davecopp9356
@davecopp9356 2 жыл бұрын
@Darko Ristanovic How did you stop your self sabotage?
@effortless4588
@effortless4588 2 жыл бұрын
Been 2 years man do you have answers
@gpeel1
@gpeel1 5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant! This is probably why you see life repeating itself throughout different generations in one family.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 5 жыл бұрын
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@JulienHimself 5 жыл бұрын
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@hodeneofficial
@hodeneofficial 5 жыл бұрын
Why do I self-sabotage to begin with? Why I am stifled to begin with? Why do I secretly like this? What is the pay off? Why do I like being poor/alone/sucking at life/staying stuck/a victim?
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
Good questions
@dorian7215
@dorian7215 2 жыл бұрын
I asked that question for sometime. The answer is: it’s comfortable. Living a life in which you are thriving had never occurred in my life in a real way. When you experience it, you will have a new level of awareness. When you do, the old habits will no longer serve you because you want to maintain this new level homeostasis. That was the conclusion I came to. I can only hope it will help you.
@DenNationishere
@DenNationishere 5 жыл бұрын
Never in a million years would I think I'd be getting life advice from Naruto
@InsideTheJoshMind
@InsideTheJoshMind 4 жыл бұрын
DenNation Hahahha OMG this was great 😂😂🤣🤣
@aaronvaunts41
@aaronvaunts41 4 жыл бұрын
All my best life advice comes from naruto 😂
@tapashyarasaily1373
@tapashyarasaily1373 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 5 жыл бұрын
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@Sirch100precent
@Sirch100precent 5 жыл бұрын
Julien out there looking like Santa Claus's private magician.
@allthe3970
@allthe3970 5 жыл бұрын
I am already a pimp I just watch these videos to see what Juilen is wearing
@shewantsme638
@shewantsme638 5 жыл бұрын
so true... the idea of momentum or the zone that Owen sells for so many years, haha - yes it works, but as soon as you make a break or go to sleep, you get back to square 1, it never stays, same resistance kicks in - you might just become more efficient at it - but it's not a true change
@dochmbi
@dochmbi 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree. This happens to me too 😅 just gotta keep the faith and keep going
@harrisonlaible2225
@harrisonlaible2225 5 жыл бұрын
Really fire video. Everyone should read "letting go" by hawkings if you want a better understanding of what Julien is talking about.
@gokuskanji
@gokuskanji 5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful book!
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
Is this a great book??
@davidtolle9533
@davidtolle9533 5 жыл бұрын
Once we find those underlying beliefs then what? It's so deep seated. Affirmations, changing our habits, etc, help but deep down there's something there that keeps drawing us back even though there could be YEARS of "prosperity" or coasting until all of that seems to crumble all at once. All meaningless. Then we make some bs commitment then rationalize away that commitment weeks later. How do we get to that core??
@darkbuddha3307
@darkbuddha3307 5 жыл бұрын
just be present. but seriously its true.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 5 жыл бұрын
-> julienhimself.com/self-help
@davidtolle9533
@davidtolle9533 5 жыл бұрын
@@JulienHimself Starting the program now. There's so much content! I'm so excited! Looking forward to this. I can tell you put your heart and soul into this!
@hodeneofficial
@hodeneofficial 5 жыл бұрын
I view myself as the underdog (I need challenges before success)
@XavierFoley
@XavierFoley 5 жыл бұрын
THANk YOU Julian for this video. I really, really needed this. Now I feel free from my old self trying to live out the model of my parents relationship, which is was 100% toxic growing up.
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting
@patrickjade9349
@patrickjade9349 5 жыл бұрын
Bro, that stuff with the triggering and reprocess to release is almost game changing. I'm in the therapist tradition and we talk about desensitization, this processing behind what is behind it totally speaks a new nuance I have not grasped at; but it makes sense. I saw this when I started game shortly before your media fiasco, literally I had my own fiasco around that time; I think God was doing something to the tribe, anyway, after I got into a relationship, I was terrified of committing because I thought I would lose my game and all my desensitized exposure.; which yes, did end up happening. I cashed out at the wrong time before the trauma truly released. My inner poverty has me running a bear market in my external world lol. Anyway, Thank you!
@vammonaco649
@vammonaco649 5 жыл бұрын
Bro, don't hate on sidekicks. Some people aren't extroverts and don't want the main stage. Just look at Steve Wozniak. He never wanted fame and fortune, just to geek out, have some fun and make a little money. Sidekicks can be very successful behind the scenes and have fulfilling lives knowing that their contributions are helping and appreciated.
@sharonfisher1850
@sharonfisher1850 Жыл бұрын
Your birth day and lucky me I was born with colic. Ah lucky mom can't quiet me baby for 3 months. Easier to love first baby. So daddy's girl I became. Mom jealous of me and have another maybe boy baby 7 years later to gain love back to her. 7 years later divorce. Sad for mom not figuring out a lot but in the end it all comes back to loving and forgiving. Learning what not to do can be very important too. Thanks Julien❣
@Nobody71090
@Nobody71090 5 жыл бұрын
When you have to fight Apollo Creed at 4pm but have a Kung Fu class first
@alexwm369
@alexwm369 7 күн бұрын
the music at the end scared the living shit outta me
@ravindumirihana2784
@ravindumirihana2784 2 жыл бұрын
When I was watching Ben 10 Alien force as a kid, I always thought Kevin eleven was cool and I resonates with him. I never thought myself as Ben because Ben is witty talkative, extrovert and lovable by people around him but Kevin was rejected by society, silent character, do the heavy work without complaining, have a cool car, Introverted hides his emotions from others, feels betrayed by his loved ones. OMG this is life I'm living now except for his superpower. What happened to me? My childhood wasn't bad at all and my parents are still together and never fights.
@jamilshaban1534
@jamilshaban1534 3 ай бұрын
I just want to thank you for your amazing introspective analysis it's truly crazy how we live our life without focusing on the most important realm ever which is understanding ourselves so thank you for your amazing videos you really helped me a lot ❤❤❤
@farazsiddiqui7171
@farazsiddiqui7171 5 жыл бұрын
Does ending self-sabotage mean I will start looking as dashing as you in Santa's clothes too?
@oceangaming88
@oceangaming88 5 жыл бұрын
Do you think some things your are simply born with? Or things are stuck from childhood? Or there are forces outside of you that can affect you? I think some things you are born with, some are from your childhood, and some do come from the outside.
@emanuelheard3236
@emanuelheard3236 5 жыл бұрын
This man has boxing gear on
@misssummersalt
@misssummersalt 5 жыл бұрын
I'LL BET HE'S THE BASTARD WHO GAVE RUDOLPH THAT BROKEN NOSE!
@HG51_
@HG51_ 5 жыл бұрын
This one hits home! Great video, more on self sabotage and limiting beliefs please!
@JolinHard
@JolinHard 2 жыл бұрын
22:38 omg this stuff is gold
@babogoon
@babogoon 5 жыл бұрын
this is deep, i could see how we learn everything
@raymiller6351
@raymiller6351 5 жыл бұрын
You aren't born into the world you are born from the world. Alan Watts. Julien one bad ass
@spontaneousbootay
@spontaneousbootay Жыл бұрын
Heres a simple example involving money. Work smarter, not harder. But if you grew up around blue collar workers then you likely have been taught to work hard and to look like youre working hard. For many blue collar workers, looking like youre working hard is the main description of the job. However, if you are working on a high performance project that requires sensitive tuning then trying to or pretending to work hard will sabotage the entire thing. Like the old saying goes, attract, dont chase. Chasing worked when we were hunters and needed to feed the clan that day. But we are passed that. Funny enough, some hunters would have been hugely successful attracting their prey due to the circumstances.
@ayushakarsh6546
@ayushakarsh6546 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Julien
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@paulhurst8113
@paulhurst8113 5 жыл бұрын
Love the boxing walkout gown
@Sirch100precent
@Sirch100precent 5 жыл бұрын
Julien out there wearing some boxers stolen ring entrance attire.
@coopercooper8406
@coopercooper8406 5 жыл бұрын
That’s the best click bait title ever... Worked on me. Great work.
@frenchiegonewild7264
@frenchiegonewild7264 5 жыл бұрын
Love you greeting from Bucharest Romania😎❤
@raymiller6351
@raymiller6351 5 жыл бұрын
approach anxiety triggered it's not important what the label just how to improve the feeling
@aaron.social
@aaron.social 7 ай бұрын
My dad pushed my mom away. And i just did that with my first relationship at 30 years old. I lost the love of my life.
@darend8896
@darend8896 5 жыл бұрын
Holy shit...peacock to the max. I am gonna wear that to the club tonight..
@PavoMTB
@PavoMTB 5 жыл бұрын
Representing Poland today, respect brother 🤙 👊
@prettseralexey5759
@prettseralexey5759 5 жыл бұрын
Is this magic? Everytime I find this stuff out for my self and randomly check out a total random rsd video it just confirms the exact same thing that I JUST FIGURED OUT. It feels kinda cool that it allways confirms my theory but at the same time I "hate" myself cause i did not watch it earlier =). That feels weird. Quallity content - i even would watch an add to support your channel if there were any
@jandrymontanero2757
@jandrymontanero2757 5 жыл бұрын
my boy is wearing a cleto reyes boxing robe, classic!
@games68775
@games68775 5 жыл бұрын
I just had an awakening holy shit
@SHTennis89
@SHTennis89 5 жыл бұрын
Once we’ve identified these limiting beliefs, how tf can we get rid of them 🙏🏼
@NightzRoadx
@NightzRoadx 5 жыл бұрын
yeah what is this experimental way of letting go of them? im triggered now but how do i let go? someone mind chiming in
@SHTennis89
@SHTennis89 5 жыл бұрын
Arcalion the only thing I know is (and Julian touched on this) being present and allowing yourself to feel/process the pain as it comes up. Meditation is good for this. I’d also recommend the book The Power of Now. I’m sure there are better/other ways to deal with it too. Good luck brother.
@peeteri95
@peeteri95 5 жыл бұрын
@Charthers Letting go by Richard Dawson is the answer
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 5 жыл бұрын
julienhimself.com/self-help 🔥👊
@vanhalenps4
@vanhalenps4 5 жыл бұрын
I'm personally trying to forgive myself for mistakes that were in the somewhat distant past. I think guilt is holding me back from happiness bc of being raised in a religious school learning of this karmic justice that controls people and causes them to just themselves too harshly. I just think about it and change the narrative to "this person was young and hurting. They didn't know and nobody was telling them."
@frenchiegonewild7264
@frenchiegonewild7264 5 жыл бұрын
Father J
@clapton79
@clapton79 2 жыл бұрын
every time I see Julien in a crazy outfit the saying 'Just because you can doesn't mean you should" comes to my mind LOL
@SocialSecrets1
@SocialSecrets1 5 жыл бұрын
Wish you good luck for the next fight Julien :)
@SocialSecrets1
@SocialSecrets1 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome video like always by the way
@SocialSecrets1
@SocialSecrets1 5 жыл бұрын
I watch rsd vids with my girl. She says she loves you most of everybody. You can be sure I won't bring her to your events ;D
@dziwacznykanal
@dziwacznykanal 4 жыл бұрын
can’t thank you enough for this
@Onepoint21jiggawatts
@Onepoint21jiggawatts 5 жыл бұрын
Julien, Master of Disguises! Trickle charging batteries with that one two punch!
@kylemedeiros6907
@kylemedeiros6907 2 жыл бұрын
I will watch this video 15 times by the end of the week
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Glad this resonated with you so deeply!
@wayneyeung7355
@wayneyeung7355 5 жыл бұрын
this is just gold
@davecopp9356
@davecopp9356 2 жыл бұрын
For this hair cut, does one has to get a shock treatment at a hospital or can you just put two fingers in an outlet at home?
@kareemmohammed5270
@kareemmohammed5270 5 жыл бұрын
healing words.
@masonholt651
@masonholt651 5 жыл бұрын
I like Julien's drawings. Great video too!
@Svarou
@Svarou 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for everything 🙏❤️
@alessiocorrado3888
@alessiocorrado3888 5 жыл бұрын
Pure gold! Thanks !
@christianvargas286
@christianvargas286 5 жыл бұрын
I love the synchronicity @ 0:14 😂
@amaanahmed7376
@amaanahmed7376 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Julien, your videos are life changing man. Just a question, once I find the root cause of my trauma after asking the whys, what do I do next after knowing the root cause and letting go/accepting and not surpressing?
@chaz7
@chaz7 Жыл бұрын
Meditation from julien website, and action trigger release repeat
@Ray1006724
@Ray1006724 5 жыл бұрын
Another beautiful drawing
@shewantsme638
@shewantsme638 5 жыл бұрын
i think he took some drawing classes
@joncheung1378
@joncheung1378 Жыл бұрын
You don't serve the core beliefs. The core beliefs serve you
@siunegu
@siunegu 5 жыл бұрын
Do you think we can really change our personal identities
@moretrenmoremen3421
@moretrenmoremen3421 3 жыл бұрын
yes u can
@keeesh444
@keeesh444 5 жыл бұрын
Deep.
@Iankameel
@Iankameel 5 жыл бұрын
10 people just got knocked out by julians tyson hook of suggested inner work 🏋🏼
@elyas-noor
@elyas-noor 2 жыл бұрын
Your cloth alone made me click the thumbnail 👍
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Nice!
@karmaindustrie
@karmaindustrie 5 жыл бұрын
The underdog says: "Your butt is mine". And the whole world has to answer RIGHT NOW! - I feel like being cool is offensive by definition. Including making a compliment. It just depends whether somebody want's to be offended or not. Because offensive people are challenging. overt or covert extrovert / ex-introvert.
@michaborski7383
@michaborski7383 5 жыл бұрын
Very deep. TM is awesome
@michaelburton1970
@michaelburton1970 5 жыл бұрын
You own it? A g big changes?
@classicchillout7376
@classicchillout7376 5 жыл бұрын
I'm here just for the outfit
@Bryan-hx2cf
@Bryan-hx2cf 5 жыл бұрын
haha thanks julien. love the santa suit
@OldSzkool
@OldSzkool 5 жыл бұрын
This dude...
@farouthere6994
@farouthere6994 5 жыл бұрын
JUlien could improve on this drawing squiggels/presentation game but then it would not be as fun to watch :)
@bigwiggles
@bigwiggles 3 жыл бұрын
What about the people who don’t care about working on themselves, but still succeed?
@alexandraviola9896
@alexandraviola9896 5 жыл бұрын
Killed that outfit ;)
@vaN1ty
@vaN1ty 5 жыл бұрын
Julien been dressing as Santa, cause he's getting all the ho ho ho's
@mrwilson4572
@mrwilson4572 5 жыл бұрын
When are you coming to Stockholm next time? :)
@JolinHard
@JolinHard 2 жыл бұрын
How do you release the triggering event exactly?
@spontaneousbootay
@spontaneousbootay Жыл бұрын
Mindfulness and regaining composure through breathing
@Jackson-e4k
@Jackson-e4k Жыл бұрын
That forehead and hair hahahaha awesome
@theblackpianist1905
@theblackpianist1905 2 жыл бұрын
Hah; I just realized. Content creators like Julien are the modern day philosophers.
@Florianpimpf
@Florianpimpf 10 ай бұрын
thats what i thought myself aswell.. truly inspiring!
@hodeneofficial
@hodeneofficial 5 жыл бұрын
What are my patterns?
@Foodie-o6z
@Foodie-o6z 5 жыл бұрын
I know something important was said here but I just couldn't process it
@aaronvaunts41
@aaronvaunts41 4 жыл бұрын
What movie characters do y'all relate to?
@kugelmanno
@kugelmanno 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! Time to work on some trauma release :)
@JeffreyMarr
@JeffreyMarr 5 жыл бұрын
Now that Julien's married he just stumbles straight from the boxing ring onto the stage
@derfettemoechtegern
@derfettemoechtegern 5 жыл бұрын
he's married?
@ladev91
@ladev91 5 жыл бұрын
@@derfettemoechtegern ya, he recently revealed it
@rager4able
@rager4able 5 жыл бұрын
It's hard as fuck trying to figure out what part of me like self sabotage if that's true...
@wrestling4sure
@wrestling4sure 5 жыл бұрын
Peacocking at its finest lol
@Jaccobtw
@Jaccobtw 5 жыл бұрын
Them Los Angeles clothes
@HG51_
@HG51_ 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen someone wear this in LA lmao, I don’t think he leaves the seminar wearing that
@georginajovanovic
@georginajovanovic 5 жыл бұрын
Why are you wearing Santa Clause's coat? :op
@simpletrade6850
@simpletrade6850 5 жыл бұрын
Fuck ! awesome vid man i would love more info on how to release those beliefs and emotions and toward the end when you talk about affirmations, what about the fake it till you make mentality ? and you gave the rubber band metaphor, about hustling and hustling but actually creating more tension and evamtually snapping back to start position, but, is it possible to hustle and hustle and create so much tension that you break the rubber band? is that possible? and if so, what does it mean in real life?
@owenkorzec
@owenkorzec 5 жыл бұрын
This one is the dopest outfit yet lmao 😂
@asimhussain2344
@asimhussain2344 5 жыл бұрын
I remember you from the Phil Moufarrege Marnell Sample forums.
@owenkorzec
@owenkorzec 5 жыл бұрын
Asim Hussain Suuuuppp!
@minarquistadasgalaxias4462
@minarquistadasgalaxias4462 5 жыл бұрын
Subtitles please
@houseofvalue
@houseofvalue 5 жыл бұрын
fml this content is so sharp..' MERCI
@respeezy
@respeezy 5 жыл бұрын
Something about him has always rubbed me the wrong way, but this was a great video.So thanks.
@erickgonzalez3732
@erickgonzalez3732 5 жыл бұрын
Why does Julien dress so flashy? Is it something like what mystery used to do?
@Casarzino
@Casarzino 5 жыл бұрын
1 year old kid: 'WHAT IS THIS SHIT?'
@devschannel3697
@devschannel3697 7 ай бұрын
27:17
@harryjezreel1653
@harryjezreel1653 5 жыл бұрын
haha love that 0:12
@TheSololobo
@TheSololobo 5 жыл бұрын
I guess Julian just returned from a trip to the future.
@colinbeirouty4798
@colinbeirouty4798 2 жыл бұрын
Life totally depends on your subjective perspective
@alensdeutsch3834
@alensdeutsch3834 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this video helped me see that i played path with fucking God himself my soul is pure and full here im 25 beated Mom and love i would say ggez
@the51king
@the51king Жыл бұрын
only 325k want to change ? what happenes with the rest 7 billion people ? or Julien is not doing agressive marketing
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