The seventh house and the shadow side #1

How the descendant(7th house) functions as a mirror to reflect our shadow self.

[@helenk344]

Jewel is the best astrologer I ever met in my life. She is a real Teacher and Guru. Thank you, so much for this!!!

[@HannahsElsewhere]

The shadow side/unconscious fascinates me the most in astrology! It’s so insightful! I look forward to hearing your interpretations on the shadow! I also have a Virgo Rising and shadow work has been helping a lot 🌻 I have accepted parts of myself that I repressed!

[@alicia.george]

Hannah's Elsewhere Same Virgo rising, 7th house Pisces sucks sometimes

[@lelurve]

Im your opposite. Im a Libra Sun in 7th but my rising sign is Pisces. I feel like this works the opposite way for me? I feel like my sun is stronger than my ASC.. most of my planets are on the right side of my birth chart so feel like im more of a person who learns myself through others if that makes sense?

[@mollylance6702]

when you see it you can't unsee it

[@schooldeep619]

Any thoughts on what happens when the south node conjuncts the shadow (7th house) ?

[@mpuppybreath]

Stunningly beautiful explanation of the shadow and the 7th house. thank you.

[@Laura-vl6db]

I am a Taurus rising with Mars in the 7th with Mars in Scorpio. I always attract people who are borderline narcissistic or overtly sensitive. But I crave emotional intensity. And that’s all forms. All the Scorpio risings I’ve dated… were either too calm, apathetic and didn’t care much about my feelings. So, that didn’t help me at all. I attract Libra risings as well. They calm me down. Or they agree with everything I say. And it’ll piss me off, but I like them. Or I attract men those who don’t fit with my values, try to control me, those who are too busy.. so, I’ve had a field day with this whole thing.

[@Liud_Mila]

Thank you for a great video! You explained the shadow side in a very clear and relatable way, thank you. It would be interesting and helpful to learn more about shadow work from you.

[@littleflower1826]

Thank you. I am really looking forward to this series, and cannot wait! Thank you for taking the time to do these, as your wisdom and experience has helped me overcome a lot of difficulties. God bless! Thank you so much!

[@63earthlover]

Great video Jewel! I'll be looking forward to this series. Neptune in the 7th caused me so much heartbreak when I was younger ☹️

[@jeskad1716]

Doing some great work jewel, It’s beautiful to see, where only chasing our selves, and what we think we need, we have right here within us

[@keamokoofdasun]

Thank you Jewel. Thank you for taking your time to study and arrive at these truths and ideas that you so wholeheartedly share. I believe this is as much beneficial to me as it is yo you therapeutically. This series on the Shadow work is absolutely great and substantive.

[@priceseasy]

jewel you're amazing! really appreciated hearing a bit about your own journey. would love to hear more :)

[@TM-ng1pk]

Music to my ears. Thank you Jewel. :)

[@niiwiin1407]

You Ms Jewel are a beautiful astrologer !!!! and Thank You

[@oliverlee4713]

I’ve started watching a lot of Astrology videos lately, including many of yours. I’m a complete beginner on the subject and know very little about the houses or synastry, but am slowly becoming familiar with the concept and overall attitude of commentary on the human experience. As a reasonably young and extremely dumb adult male I’ve found the field to be effective in stroking my shallow self-confidence by the simple process of applying the strong qualities described to myself with a moderate attitude of fantasy. And simultaneously applying the weaker human descriptions to people I don’t like or who are actively opposed to me. Living in such a powerfully deceptive fantasy world I have always found it helpful to be Jung at heart.

[@CatBuds]

Thank you for this, my sun, mars and mercury are all in the 7th house of Taurus. Still discovering how these energies will influence my partnerships and myself... Your videos are always so helpful!

[@4000angels]

Another awesome video from my favorite astrologer, Ms Jewel Mayberry. Thank you, Jewel, you're the best.

[@elaineekberg113]

Thank you! I'm going through this and am NOT going to settle! ♥

[@jl-np4sl]

This video literally changed my life. Thank you.

[@filipeborela515]

Sometimes i have no words to describe the effect of your spiritual honesty on my mind. I'm so glad I found you.

[@ayeshadurrani6408]

this video is profound for me. sun and north node in 7th house here(with moon in pisces in the 8th) ... thank you so much. i've watched this multiple times and feel like i will keep watching and unpeeling layers

[@GemStar717]

I have Virgo on my descendant/7th house & also a Virgo stellium. And from a very young age, I have always attracted Sun Virgo people to me. So much so that I started to question why because once one relationship phased out another would generate. I've learned through my relationships with them, what qualities I admire & to identify these same qualities I have within myself but also acknowledge the aspects I didn't like & what I needed to own within me. Then recently, I discovered I have Libra Pluto & Lilith in my 7th house & this just added another dimension & new realization as to how these dynamics played out in past relationships also. I appreciate this video so much because I'm on the journey to self-discovery & accepting both the light & dark within me xx

[@LowenKM]

Very insightful & helpful stuff.... thx much, Jewel!

[@bluebutterfly3816]

The best interpretation of the 7th house that I've ever heard. Jewel is a jewel 🔶 🔹 among astrologers.

[@wyltucker255]

You are THE BEST My Fellow Spiritual Warrior Jewel!

[@Randomgardenthings]

I love your videos, you are very helpful, thank you!

[@allanas6251]

almost crying at this. thank you.

[@monicaparker1443]

Amazing video, Jewel, thank you so much for making it and sharing your experience with us❤ I would also like to suggest a series in which we discuss how to "heal" the badly-aspected planets in our birth chart, as I have a few in my own chart, as I'm sure many others do and don't know what to do or how to work with them

[@alibee7609]

So true. Most stuff online just talk about the hard aspects and why they're bad, but, they don't mention what measures to take. Yes, there might be a bad aspect and there is a karmic lesson to learn there but, how can we learn the lesson correctly in order to know that we're growing and evolving into a greater or better personality and individual, you know.

[@Ad_Astra_321]

This is great! Thank you, Jewel =)

[@Darkever84]

very eye-opening. i have jupiter in the 7th pisces DC with mars+moon in virgo conjunct the AC.

[@wendy5116]

Lol I have Jupiter in Pisces in the 7th too! My first husband was a philosophy professor and my second is a Greek American. Quite literal, that Jupiter! Love your channel!

[@esrasahin2205]

That was so good. I hope to see more videos about this topic!!

[@ariesmoon8302]

This is brilliant. Thank you!!

[@ralam468]

Hello Love, this is my favorite video as you talked about the shadow side. Much love and have a belated new year. From a fellow Scorpio riser, life is all about learning to let go and accept.

[@euphylee6221]

AMAZING ANALYSIS AS ALWAYS...!!!

[@greencinnamonsky5488]

Virgo AC/ Pisces DC here as well. Yes, I've been going through this process of opening up to my shadow side as well. It's a long process...seven years earlier anything spiritual seemed nonsense to me. Since then a huge shift happened (I assume it had to do with Neptune transiting my DC). Interesting that before I hadn't been attracted to spiritual types, more like repulsed by them... Though for a while now I also feel like I don't need to be in a relationship...I've been doing a lot of work on myself but lately it's all just unfolding by itself. But I have a Libra stellium and it's somehow hard to avoid relationships. I think I still need them, but in another, redefined format.

[@anthonylopez6839]

i'm excited for this series ! i have a taurus rising with a scorpio dsc

[@qutiezai]

i have scorpio asc taurus dsc 😊

[@alicehagsss111]

Jungian psychology in my aspect astrology??? Yes please! Beautifully expounded Jewel

[@goldenaura949]

I have Sagittarius on my 7th house. And Neptune in my 7th house. The ruler, Jupiter, is in Scorpio in my 5th house . Jupiter is the only planet in my chart unaspected. Capricorn is on my eight house. I have no planets in my eight. Yet, Saturn, it's ruler, is in Libra in my fifth house. Saturn opposes my moon in Aries , trines my Venus in Aquarius, conjoins mars and conjoins my Pluto. I know what it means, yet I don't know what it means. Thanks so much for this video. You are truly amazing, Jewel!

[@rosemary_of_aragon]

Thank you so much for this Jewel. I also have a Pisces descendant and boy is it tough. I never received unconditional love from men my whole life. I ran from all men that showed me true affection and compassion but that's going to change tonight.

[@empress_highpriestess3307]

Rose Sanchez good wishes Rose..:) I think Jewel..from her description of her " phantom lover " may, like myself, have Jupiter 's ruling sign as her 7th..namely Sagittarius.. But perhaps I'm mistaken..what say you- Jewel..? Either way, I can relate to your comments, and am also seeking to embrace this journey toward wholeness..

[@rosemary_of_aragon]

Empress_ HighPriestess Oh goodness, the man I have been running away from for an entire year is a Sagittarius.

[@empress_highpriestess3307]

Rose Sanchez Oh my indeed..Mr. Sagittarius wasn't just my seventh..but also my on and off partner for 5 torturous years..just laid it to rest in a way that I know is done..but I'm seeing that I still have a great deal of work to do in admitting that and changing my attraction to someone who doesn't give with reciprocity what I do..

[@anahid.11]

you're great, thank you so much!

[@rezamoradi4073]

Well said, as usual!

[@anelyguerrero]

Excellent!!!

[@MarenAltman]

7th house stellium (in leo), but my past partners don't seem to have anything in common with that energy... perhaps the aspects/house ruler in the 8th are playing a larger role. hm.

[@marit_]

super nice video!

[@sailorsaturn_]

One of your most important videos

[@nancyeileen128]

Hi Jewel.....I learned so much from this video😊 You do better work than a shrink...haha‼️ Seriously answered some things for me that I have been stuck at in relationships and with my partner‼️ Sorry to say I'm still working out my shadow side because my relationship feels a little unsatisfying 😟So thanks for this to open my eyes‼️

[@aliciaelliott15]

First, you are amazing! Thank you so much for your helpful videos. I have Jupiter in the 7th in scorpio, along with Pluto in there as well. I also have transit Pluto conjunct my natal Capricorn stellium. So much transformation happening for me right now ... this is so encouraging and just what I needed to hear. I am whole 💗 I’m also a Pisces moon in the 11th and this full moon today in Aquarius is all healing as well

[@mshill2406]

This was GREAT!

[@elisemartin8189]

This definently makes sense. I am a 9th house Pisces and I have Neptune in 7th house in Saggitarius! When I encounter myself in others I become worried but the answer may be that I need to accept myself. My gemini asc. is quite logical and i have emotional attachment as my moon is also in Gemini in he 12th house. Embracing my inner Saggitarian will hopefully help me see the bigger picture.

[@erikm8372]

Love this! I must contact you when I visit family in Oregon. I may have said this elsewhere, but I think I’m finally learning all that you discussed here; it’s been a journey and still is. -Scorpio rising (1st house w Mars+Pluto+So. Node) -Sagittarius (2nd w Saturn+Uranus+Juno) -Capricorn (3rd w Neptune) -Aquarius (4th w Mercury, Venus, Sun, Jupiter+Vesta) -Pisces (5th) -Aries (6th) -Taurus desc. (7th w Lilith+No.Node+Part of Fortune) -Gemini (8th w Chiron+Chariklo+Pallas Athena) -Cancer (9th) -Leo (10th w moon, MC) -Virgo (11th w Ceres) -Libra (12th) Sorry that was TMI. Someone help me make sense of my life. JK!

[@lunatuna34]

ur fabulous thanks for sharing

[@Geekella]

awesome. thank you

[@TheAnetteB]

This resonates to me so so much at the moment.... My oh my! It's what I do at the moment, I have to admit. At least it sounds like it!

[@agotay25]

Hey Jewel. Amazing Video! This video really made me think very deeply about myself and my Aries descendant. I often admire people who have Aries qualities. My ex had an Aries moon and Mars! I always wish I had Aries qualities but in reality I really do. The qualities I want I already possess. Idk if you will cover this in a future video, but what if the ruler of your first and 7th are conjunct?

[@profchronotis]

This is so helpful! Could you talk about Chiron in the 7th house? Thank you Jewel 🙏🏽 Your videos have always helped

[@idontknow-lc8bz]

wow amazing! this makes so much sense for me. i have mars in libra at 0 degrees at my ascendant, along with jupiter in the 1st house. and my 7th house contains lilith in aries. i guess i never realized how my own feminine dark side is something i have tried not to be, yet has always been a source of conflict. i also attract people who are married or in a relationship, and they want to cheat on their partners with me. ive never understood why i am always cast as the "other woman" for these men

[@anangelskissinspring330]

what a wonderful lady

[@KendollRay]

Me being. A Virgo Rising and having Mars in the 1st house as well has been a challenge to accept my anger and to acknowledge an equal give take relationship. Still experiencing my Saturn return as well being that it’s at 29° in ♒️ . So many lessons intense ones on life snd transformation thank you for this

[@KendollRay]

Sun in ♋️ 11th house with mercury conjunction Moon in ♊️ 10th partying with both the South node and Venus🎉😮

[@ld5952]

Haha: I have a 7th house Sun with transit Saturn in straight opposition with it, right now, which is quite confronting at the age of 51 (lol). Together with Jupiter for that matter who rules my rising, btw. Thanks for the video. Great timing!

[@cristanero]

yes. we've got the music back

[@saracampagna6212]

Taurus ASC/ Scorpio DSC here. Pluto is in the 7th, square to my Aquarius moon and opposite my Mars in Taurus. Venus is square my ASC and DSC. Life has been quite an interesting ride 😅 this makes a lot of sense. Once I started working on my Pluto issues, things have gotten better. Still have a long way to go :)

[@drivesanoldcar]

You are incredible

[@empress_highpriestess3307]

Funny..I love the sign 's qualities that embodies my empty 7th house.. And while the concept of tension or polarity in energies are so well accepted these days it almost goes unquestioned; obviously, if the 7th house is that of partnership..it must also be an established concept in astrology that the disowned or unaccepted aspects of ourselves are also a nexus of attraction. ??

[@Theconspiracychick]

I have 5 planets in the 7th house....Mars and Venus in Leo, Pluto, Uranus and Mercury in Virgo...but my 7th house is the largest in my chart. Yet...I have spent a lot of my adult life alone . With a Capricorn asc and sun in Libra in the 8th...I feel grateful for my life, but in some ways, it has been very difficult. However, you are so right...I started of working so hard to gain approval and totally subdued that inherent "show off" side of myself. It's surfaced in later life though....thank goodness :D

[@cellyspeaks1062]

Awesome!

[@marie-joseecharette4937]

What you say about separateness and what prevent us from connecting, it intrigue me, I am looking to explore more about that. And I have been.

[@Mandy3141]

I really inspire to become like you one day (and I'm a Pisces AS 😛)

[@aldeefilley940]

Thank you so much for this great analysis of the function of the 7th H. It is a real 'tour de force' to describe with such ease and clarity an unconscious dynamic that has such an impact on our lives and the concept of who we are. I have a Capricorn Desc. and kiron in aquarius in the 7th, does that means I wound my partners, or that their own wound reflects mine, both, or that I heal them, or they are wounded healers themselves ?

[@streamsofdreams6705]

I have Saturn and my moon in aries here and it’s my descendent. THIS IS SO TRUE!! learning I have to become my own soulmate in order to feel more aligned. Shadow work is so painful but I feel myself growing at the same time into who I’m meant to be.

[@streamsofdreams6705]

Realized that I always got triggered by rude and narcissistic people but guess what I also wasn’t setting boundaries and respecting myself

[@streamsofdreams6705]

I’ve also realized how much I fixate on other judgement and will have a lot of anxiety out of fear of being secretly hated by friends but it’s literally because I hate myself lol it’s okay I’m working through it but I’m realizing my projections

[@streamsofdreams6705]

Also stemming from mother that gave me conditional material and unpredictable love and emotions growing up and bullying as a child that caused me to want to reject my shadow

[@dee8391]

Wow, I have Jupiter along with two other planets in my 7th house and how you describe your ideal partner is exactly the kind of partner I’ve always wanted.

[@niiwiin1407]

always vital lessons

[@wytryszonka86]

that was very nice video.

[@luvybatac7968]

Me having my moon and lilith in the 7th house... Wow.

[@salmahola1145]

Jewel, this is amazing, would you continue it please?

[@carriesibbald]

Thank you Jewel 😊 Your videos always get me thinking and analysing in a slightly different way. My 7th ruler (neptune in 4th) is my sun/moon midpoint. Acknowledging my 'shadow side' in my early twenties was a very positive experience. Through doing so I was able to find release from some very defensive and inhibiting behaviours. Meeting my partner was key to my finding a new level of emotional security from which to grow and show my neptunian side which before 'wasn't safe' because I was not comfortable being vulnerable. I now have a tendency of surrounding myself with very gentle and non threatening people. Much more to consider but thank you for prompting these thoughts 🌼🌼🌼

[@robertmitchell7357]

you are so good.

[@shayg.4897]

thank you!

[@MissBanks777]

Your channel is sooo underrated

[@marilynzeinel-abidin1027]

This is great

[@NObodDEE]

So I've been basically obsessed with this Scorpio and now I understand why.. my seventh house is Scorpio.. this is intriguing

[@Natalie-rm5li]

I'm a Virgo ascendant. I have Venus in Pisces in the 7th.... My relationship issues... I dno where to begin. It's like a crazy rollercoaster all my life with love. Always confusion and affairs at times . I also have Lilith conjunct my Venus

[@Nefertiti18]

Thank you for this 7th house series!

[@olagrabus5941]

Thank you Jewel, as always super interesting! I will have to listen to this again, as I did not fully understand... My ascendant is at 29th degree of Gemini and my descendant falls in Sagitarius but in the 6th house ?? Both 6th and 7th house are emptyMy Jupiter is in TAURUS in my twelve house. Really not sure how to read this

[@geminim8]

I am connected to my shadow self. My dominant planet saturn is on the descendant line, and my draconic moon in pisces is at that spot as well.

[@mariapcespedes3481]

Wowowow thank you! This kind of explanation is what i need to real,y understand astrology. You are amazing teachear and astrologer🌟

[@m.n.d5949]

Hi jewel. Vry interesting. However for me this theory does not add up. I am a cancer asc. With saturn in the 7th lord of the 7th in the 7th. However its retrograde. My partner is 3 yrs yougner than me and were both extremely undisciplined and hate structure and work. So i guess the retrograde of saturn making these qualities of hard work , discipline, maturity, etc the opposite in both me and my partner. However i long to be able to be mature and stable and gain some stability in my work but it does not seem to happen. I dont despise the qualities of the 7th house in my case. I admire it but im jsut not able to encorporate it. Most astrologers say saturn retrograde makes it stronger but from my own life i can tell u that its strong for sure but its qualities reverse specially in its own home. So how would u explain this. Infact the shadow side of saturn in my and my partners life is so evident with the extreme lack of work stability and routine and we both try a lot but its an onnate quality for freedom of schedule and i guess laziness to be honest.

[@calypsosportal]

I'm a gemini ascendant with Sagittarius and my north node in the 7th house. Does this necessarily mean that I would be more attracted to Sagittarius people? Also read something about that meaning marriage abroad/dating a foreigner. I definitely have a hard time identifying with my ascendant though at times.

[@jilloneill71]

I have a Sagittarius descendant and the ruler jupiter is in the sign of Scorpio in the sixth house. It’s conjunct my natal Pluto and also exactly conjunct my juno. Also conjunct my Mercury and sun.

[@jesicaone-s8142]

I’m Capricorn ascendant with my south node and Venus in first and my 7th house is cancer with north node in cancer 22 degrees and my vertex in Leo 7th house. 🤔 I think I know what you’re saying 🙏🏼

[@IgaDziarnowska]

Jewel you are great! I love your videos! Big Thank You 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Can i ask you where have you studied Astrology?

[@mandimarling2470]

My ascendant is Sagittarius and descendant Gemini which are opposites so that makes since.

[@buenavidaestates-livingthe6333]

Thanks Jewel! I don't have any planets in 7th so was curious to hear interpretation of 7th house ruler (in my case Pisces) and what house it lands in in the natal chart. Some descriptions are much more positive than others. Also, can you relocate to put 7th house ruler in a better house or...as a female, put a male planet (Sun/Jupiter/Mars) in 7th for better partnership luck? Curious what you have actually observed...

[@METODOMIRKOVIC]

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[@devans2254]

Cap ascendant. Boy is it hard for me to be emotional and it gets frustrating when people are. 😫 But I'm acknowledging this in me more and more! Ruler of 7th in the 8th house. Moon square pluto & sun. Moon trine Mars. Learning to Understand. 😏

[@lelurve]

Im a Libra Sun in 7th but my rising sign is Pisces. I feel like this works the opposite way for me? I feel like my sun is stronger than my ASC.. most of my planets are on the right side of my birth chart so feel like im more of a person who learns myself through others if that makes sense?

[@arcanaenigma1508]

THANK U SO MUCH!!!!!!

[@JewelMayberry]

+Arcana Enigma You got it! And you obviously REALLY got it.

[@ziggystardust6418]

I was in a relationship with a man with a lot of his personal planets in his 7th house,also we had many planets in each others 7th house in both synastry and composite....After 13 months I realised that WE HAD BECOME ONE PERSON it felt disgusting because we had no boundries with each other, and the one person's fallacies manifested into both of us feeling utterly unhappy and disgusted not just with each other but ourselves....It was kind of horrible. We also had numerous Mars aspects, so we were really aggressive too. There was no positivity, our sense of self had died... I have quite a few Uranian influences so it was especially hard for me. Gosh.

[@jenplutoni138]

leon jo sorry but it was funny to me! I also have many personal planets in 7th house and I felt the same in my last relationship ... but I don't know if he had this feeling also... but it happened... that was really difficult when the relationship ended, I almost had to construct my entire personality again... that is crazy

[@spaceforthesoul6286]

I recognise that. Now, i hestated to ever fall in love again. For over 5 years single.

[@TheAlwayspondering]

@@spaceforthesoul6286 same here, stellium in 7the house, I hate people and decided to be asexual.

[@spaceforthesoul6286]

@@TheAlwayspondering it's quite tough yes. Last months i discovered i 'm gay. Didn't have a relationship anyway, but my deep feelings toward someone made it clear.

[@TheAlwayspondering]

@@spaceforthesoul6286 Good luck! 💖

[@raquell7]

can someone link me to the rest of the videos in this series?

[@rjuniper]

Could you possibly talk about having the sun or moon in the seventh house in relation to this? My partner and I both have 7th house suns, we actually both have 7th house stelliums, and it feels like I found someone for the first time in my life that has a certain presence and kind of awareness that I really resonate with. we also have rahu conjunct ketu, and his Saturn trine my stellium with Venus.

[@orchardjpg]

My 7th is in Libra with Pluto sitting in there 😓idk if it’s good or bad... I want to book a reading from you

[@Lena-pl7zr]

I have the sun in 7th house opposite my ascendant