The Simple and Kinder Life Among Expats in the Philippines!!!

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

I came here from Hong Kong. There it is a 12-hour working day, six-day week, and constant socialising, very little sleep and extremely frenetic. It took me a couple months to adapt to life in the Philippines and I am cool with it. Blood pressure, stress and the risk of a heart attack have diminished considerably. And, instead of working non-stop, I spend time with my family.

[@samohtsolacad229]

I said this before, speaking slowly to the locals makes çommunicating so much easier for them to understand you (English speakers...).

[@KC-in9px]

That applies to everyone who tries to communicate with non-native speakers. I understand quite a few words in Spanish and am learning words in Tagalog and Bisaya but at regular speed forget about it. Translating individual words takes time.

[@RCDM606]

Great! Say it again!!

[@Ilove-zc1zm]

As a filipino, my favorite subject in school back in the 90's as a high school student is Values Education. I think they already took this curriculum away nowadays, however, I believe that Good moral and right conduct is still part of Philippines School Curriculum.

[@quigleyzee4033]

I'm so looking forward to coming to the Philippines, not least because of your topic in this video! It sucks being invisible in the USA.

[@timgunlover2050]

This makes me feel so good. This is how my neighbors treat each other. I love that it can happen 7000 miles away. Thank you Steve, you give me hope.

[@saintluke2nd]

Very sweet. It's really nice to hear about storirs friendship abroad. Comforting and gives confidence to people looking to make the shift!

[@howardrewald9817]

Was at a birthday celebration 2 afternoons ago on the walk home my neighbour said to me at my gate if any one starts to give me trouble just give him a call, I said thanks and if you need help don't be afraid to call. That is what good neighbours is all about.

[@paulthurson]

i lived in japan for 4 years and have lived in south korea these past 13 years .. i resonate wholeheartedly with all of what you said Steve .. a "family" of expat friends is essential if you're going to live in another country and very different culture for the long term .. all well said Steve!

[@danielpasterp5837]

I’m 42. I wish I could retire now and to go to live in the Philippines. I’m planning to become semi-retired in my early 50s and to go to live in PH. Each time I go to the Philippines I feel like a guy who just getting out of Plato's Cave and seeing, discovering and enjoying life differently. I just love that country! ❤️🇵🇭👍

[@MyIslandRetreat]

WOW great video I hope one day when I come to the islands I can meet you and other Expats and become neighbors/family too!

[@RaoulLaoyan]

Very recently retired. Arrived last week and temporarily renting a condo in Pasay. Shopping for a permanent place to live. Thank you for your very informative videos. They were very helpful in guiding my decisions.

[@throughblindeyesmyphilippi2015]

Although I won't be living in Trece Martirez because my Filipina works and lives in Santo Tomas amd that would be way to far for her to travel to work and I don't want to do that to her. Jobs are tough to find in the Philippines as we all know. But even still I would definitely like to stop by from time to time and hang out with you Steve you seem like a pretty level headed guy. I'm a little younger than the average expat over there (Im 40) but Im humble, chill, hate drama, and you will certainly never get any hassle outta me. One things for sure I will definitely need some guidance when I get over there because I will be lost. I can do all the research etc I want but nothing is like having your feet on the ground and seeing/experiencing it all live and in color. Anyways take care and good vlog 👍

[@michaellukehart4276]

It's Good to have a friend...especially if you are coming for the first time... I have lived here 4 years...I live in Lancaster..General Trias Cavite... EVERYTHING here is Different... JUST be Safe and Friendly and you will be Good... Welcome to the Philippines...

[@jacked6]

I am a year younger than you and I think before settling down in a certain area it's best to travel the country as a tourist first and get to know the place. I did it a ton in 2017 all over the Phils and was the best moments of my life. Sadly it's not what it used to be pre 2020 but just have to be happy with what we have. It's good to be humble and chill because it seems a lot of older expats get here from damaged backgrounds and they are on a pathway to disaster.

[@michaellukehart4276]

Thanks Steve..I hope to meet You and your group of friends sometime soon Im from Oklahoma City...been living here 4 years...Thank You...

[@MrSteven5975]

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[@katzkatzi5139]

Pag nakaratay ka at masama ang pakiramdam mo tapos dinalaw ka ng friend or friends mo nakakagaan ng pakiramdam . We Filipinos bring something to eat to our friend who is sick and we will say to him kainin mo Ito para lumakas ka . Pero pag ang tao sobra ang sama di namin sisilipin yan kahit sa burol nya .

[@JEPOYHEROBLOGG]

DONT OVER THINK JUST BE CONTENTED TO LIVE SIMPLE LIFE IN THE PHILIPPINES ENJOY PLANTING ENJOY TRAVEL ANYWHERE IN THE PHILIPPINES

[@davidevans474]

Good video Steve some will make it and some won’t it’s always good for while to watch and observe when we’re in different country . And like you said it’s good to have someone to have your back in time of need . Philippines is beautiful place and gives people second chance in life and meet new friends .

[@LB-ty6ks]

Slowing down is a good mindset to develop wherever you are, and it is something most of us have to develop.

[@durazellpcgaming]

Really like how you discuss real life issues. Shows just how caring you are about the Community and those around you. Very impressive. Each day, I am re-planning how I am going to move there. Lot of things to plan and make sure of. Your videos are really helping me a lot in this regard. Making me re-think a lot of my plans and making them better. Planning for bad things is a very smart thing. Of course not dwelling on it, just being prepared for what can happen. Thank you for another great video.

[@MrSteven5975]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[@MadeNCda]

I look forward to retiring in about 15 yrs. I also think it's very helpful and important to build meaningful friendships w people (expat and local) because if the pandemic has taught us anything, it's that we must look out for one another and not rely on gvmts to do so.

[@victoralcantara1350]

Hi..its the religion of the filipinos that makes us compassionate..it is being taught in the church and school to be kind to one another..of course nobodys perfect so there will be some bad people you may encounter but good people is more greater..im glad to learn about your experience in the philippines..just enjoy and make more friends …😇🙏

[@Dapper_Dean]

I'll be retiring in Bohol in a few years. Besides meeting many Filipino friends. I also hope to meet fellow expats like myself, to hangout with. What part of Philippines are you guys at?

[@DrDlane]

It's good to have a community of people that will be available for each other. Reminds me of leave it to Beaver. Back in the day, every community in America was like that. Until we ripped God out of the schools and removed all sense of morals and ethics, started killing babies and teaching human life has no value, and telling people to only look out for number one because nobody else is important or has value. And that's what has destroyed America. The land is the freely selfish, and home of the bravely inept. God bless America.

[@kevindonaghey4276]

As always good vlog. Sounds great the neighborhood w expats is going well Keep up up da good videos Thanks

[@lifeinthephilippines105]

I wish there is a group of expat here in bicol..

[@afvet5075]

You know I really wish we had an expat group here in Lipa City. I didn't even think about it after I got here but after a little while I found myself bored after a while. It is what happens when you move to a community with very few expats.

[@brettweary8491]

Absolutely Awesome Expat Community Steve

[@MrSteven5975]

Great bunch of guys

[@JEPOYHEROBLOGG]

MANY THINGS OFFER THE WORLD IS NOT REALLY OUR NEED ALL WE NEED IN LIFE IS SIMPLE BUT HAPPY LIFE ANYWAY WERE JUST SHORT LIFE CHOOSE WHAT BEST FIT ESPECIALLY YOU BECOME OLD ALL THINGS RICH LIFE OFFER YOU I S NOT VALUE ANYMORE YOU STARTED TO FIND SIMPLE LIFE AND YOU START TO FIND PERSON YOUR SOULMATE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE THAT ALL MATTER NOW AS YOU GETTING OLD JUST ENJOY EVERY MOMENT YOU DONT NEED A LOT OF STUFF BELIEVE ME YOU ARE MOST HAPPIER THAN EVER BEFORE IF YOU ARE BEING CONTENTED AND ENJOY EVERY MOMENT EVERY TIME WHY YOU STRESS YOUR LIFE FOR JUST TRASH THINGS THAT YOU DONT REALLY NEED ???

[@martingrover8044]

Love your videos. My wife and I will be coming in 5 years, hope you are still there. Would love to sit down and chat.

[@hg2.]

"Where do I sign?" Great work Steve.

[@michaelsuarez6901]

"Go with the flow" is indeed true. My German neighbor couldn't survive in the Philippines if he didn't "go with the flow" along with patience and trust.

[@dave-d-grunt]

I only lasted 4 years. 1977-81. Went for a visit in 2019. Kicking myself in the butt for waiting so long to go back. I didn’t realize how much I loved it there. Covid has really screwed my return up. Waiting now for the restriction to relax. I’d be very happy to live there again. Have kids here that are established. I also like being around the so I can’t go permanently. Easy living.

[@kenjohnson9654]

Indeed, everything is much slower here. One must go with the flow.

[@evacabello6347]

Good vlog and nice to watch like this and hope some expats can enjoy in philippines to ..hope one day can meet a friend of yours

[@stateofmind4341]

my life experience growing up in fort Apache tells me my only true friend is Ben. as long as he's in my pocket im good anywhere in the world expect my own country. i have a bad out look on life in usa and it's change me. that's why im leaving. my whole demeanor changes when i smell the fumes from jeepney and piss mix together 😜 l love it lol and feel way healthier physical and emotionally.so close i can taste it already. can't belive it took me so long to make this move but my kids b4 me. im not one of those. 🙏🏽✌🏽

[@bradleymiller7375]

Yes Sir! I Dream to find this life in Philippines! It reminds me of quality Country Style of Living around Good Loyal Friends! Who's just like or better than Family! I really miss our Country Life Living!

[@gericornista8133]

Keep them friendship! With your neighbors too!

[@jackeisman8029]

I think may peeps who leave the west have left for many reasons. “Community” happens when there are “morals and ethics” … to a degree, “ do unto others as you would have them do unto you “ is not so much a conscious thing. “ Community “ becomes the effect of “morals and ethics “, which is the cause. As far as your “ OFF “ expat goes, I think you give people 3 chances to “ right a wrong “ .……. without being aggressive about it. After that, they can be as right as they want to be no matter how wrong they are, and then just walk away….. Hope all is well, keep the great content rolling…!!!!

[@bisayakaayo8595]

great insights!!!

[@carlosrabassa2229]

Thank you for all your videos I am new subscriber to your channel you are very sincere person on all your topics I will be going to Philippines on August I am currently living in Tampa Florida originally from Puerto Rico I am looking for finally retired in Philippines

[@wmurphy62]

Hey Steve sounds like you have a good thing going on there. It sounds like how things used to be back in the day In the USA

[@mar-rosesadventuresabroad5911]

You have a good life Steve.

[@Anglophile2012]

Your channel is inspirational Steve

[@MrSteven5975]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[@mkrampits]

I appreciate your views on retired life. I retired again (I retired 6 years ago, but went back to work after a year - I missed working). I now share similar views on being retired. I enjoyed what I did and it took a while longer to give it up. I just back from my first road trip in retirement and enjoyed it immensely. Not having to worry about work was so nice. I look forward to watching your vlogs. I am from Waltham originally.

[@MrSteven5975]

My Dad was born up on the hill

[@yourmarkie346]

Just live free and enjoy life here no matter what the situation is more Power to your channel new subscribber here 💓🙏

[@joem1070]

It’s hard to please crazy and even if you do, crazy is still problematic.

[@tomper2204]

I understand your point, but moving to another country and then hanging out with people from your own country does not appeal to me, it would be like I never left home. It kind of reminds me of the time a New Yorker friend told me he went to Cancun and sat in a nice tiki bar and all that was around him was complaining New Yorkers. No offence , but I personally would rather blend into the local community.

[@NoxiousVoodoo]

I very much having community, also something we don't have in most of Canada

[@smokymountainmodeler3054]

Brotherhood and fraternity is what you are talking about Steve, and you're right, it's extinct here in the States.

[@geofffletcher2539]

Great video..

[@MrSteven5975]

Thanks!

[@rickylee6129]

Good Video 📹 👍

[@willnavarro7116]

This is an awesome blog

[@MrSteven5975]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[@RLV_RLV]

Nice group shot, hoping that you like the PH, if not it’s ok

[@wademiller6978]

When we get there I want to find a group like what you talk about in this video.

[@marcusgraham9478]

Filipino time is one of your greatest enemies Steve in my experience

[@yourmarkie346]

Wahhaha 😂

[@candyman8055]

US hospitals are not like the Philippines. Everything here will be handled. People don't worry too much about your care. You absolutely need someone to help in the RP. I've never done so much for people in the hospital as I did there. Too much to go into here. Anyone planning on retiring there should first experience the hospital so you know what you are getting into. It's definitely not something you want to do without help.

[@buffalomedicine3640]

Where can my husband and I find other xpats in General Santos City?😊

[@petepinal8415]

Hey Steve, great blog. That sounds like a great group of guys you’re putting together. It’s nice to have that peace of mind, that you all support each other the way you do. I don’t even have that here in the states. I’m looking forward to being part of your group, when I get there. For those of us getting ready to make the big move to the Philippines, I think that may be one of our biggest concerns, is will we have a good support group to turn to, if and when needed? Thanks again for a great blog, keep up the great work, and God bless…

[@peteh6063]

Good Video… Yeah maybe that guy had issues before heading to the Philippines wouldn’t truly know his story unless you knew him back in the US. You could always try to help… But you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. Plus you’re not living over there to be stressed out and a social worker lol. Looking forward to wrapping up loose ends and major stuff here… mostly selling off everything,So maybe in about 18 months heading your way.😎🇨🇦

[@jarrybrudz3716]

My advice all foriegner ho stay in philippine,is make a business...very important even a small income

[@steveford2626]

Steve, you got a new camera ? So clear today, I feel I am there 👍

[@MrSteven5975]

Just my iPhone

[@joeporter4616]

So that's the cast for "Oceans Five?"

[@stevepollard4783]

How can i watch EPL football and six nations rugby in philippines.

[@rexmascarina2169]

Mabuhay!

[@PhilippinesSunsetTravel]

I don’t understand the complaints about chickens and dogs and karaoke 😂 All i hear back here is the damn lawn mowers, crazy hot car drivers doing burnouts and thugs. As far as karaoke goes i love all of it its happy and they make the most of what they have -like you said just enjoy it for what it is and go with the flow.

[@davidherzog58]

i just discovered your channel, where are you at in the Philippines?

[@MrSteven5975]

Trece Martires City

[@KC-in9px]

Steve, whether you want to admit it or not the issues with that guy really bother you. This is at least the third time that you've mentioned him and have said that you've "let him go" but you haven't. As a friend I'd like to see you get together with him in a face to face meeting and resolve the issues. Not in a video but in a private setting. Only after such a conversation takes place will you be able to move on and be able to put the bad feelings to rest, hopefully as friends.

[@MrSteven5975]

He will not meet

[@djcoon7890]

i kind of dropped the kano stuff ,some i do intend to meet you and a guy whose here on leyte but in the 80s we had many many pervs and many playing games i stopped to protect my family

[@wademiller6978]

how do you get into the expat group?

[@sonnygram9457]

Dual personality

[@LAZBY]

Omg!!! It is retirement! NOT expat or local-- life is great in USA also-- any place if you follow your budget-- nothing magic about the Philippines!!!! It's all about the person

[@gladys8060]

Why you called yourselves EXPATS you came here to Philippines to work or live temporarily? Or do you plan to lived here?

[@willnavarro7116]

Hey Steve, I'm looking to retire in the Philippines in 2 yrs. I am currently 60yrs old and after 52 yrs in the U.S. I'm ready to slow things down. In thinking of Santa Rosa, Laguna but I'm open. Where are you in the Philippines and what areas would you recommend I take a look. I would love to have other Americans around to bounce off things to. Thanks for your time Sir

[@MrSteven5975]

I’m in Trece Martires

[@norrisbethke7770]

Is there any kind of organized expat club ? Chiang Mai has quite a good one, lots of benefits, activities, etc 🙏🏻👍🏻🕊

[@marklandoy7785]

Hellow

[@philipwood9526]

It is a bit of a culture shock, I hope I can adjust.

[@sweetrelinda7896]

Can I have one single man foreign man I am looking

[@snuckythehunchback683]

It has little to do with the Philippines and more to do with being retired!

[@graemewalk7779]

Steve even if retired make sure got some thing to do not just sit watch Netflix I know people worked 40 years full on life then stop and died 12 months later make sure excise every day even 20 minutes find things like do start something you dreamed doing before but never had time regular doctor check ups men are very bad for not doing that it be oksy attitude

[@lailabugtai9891]

Hello is your wife from Cebu?

[@MrSteven5975]

No

[@andregill2732]

His issues with the native can get him hurt/killed, he better be careful with that attitude, some ppl aren't made of goodness and kindness, just plain mean....

[@MrSteven5975]

I agree

[@redc8783]

He’s opening himself to the Scammers the word is out on him now

[@TETRARCHFREAK]

things go slow here and I'm fine with that go with the flow that expat needs to leave the Philippines he's in the wrong place there is no sense of community out here I feel like I'm on my own here province life sucks

[@cy3969]

The crew!

[@hechecraynes6635]

YOU JUST SO DEEPLY IN LOVED WITH YOUR BELOVED BEAUTIFUL PARTNER THAT IS REALLY DEEPLY IN LOVED WITH YOU, TOO!!! THAT IS WHY YOU MOST ALWAYS SO HAPPY EVERYDAY IN YOUR SO PRECIOUS LIFE OF YOURS!!!