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The Unpopular Opinion UG

The Unpopular Opinion UG

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@nyakatocatherinezion8882
@nyakatocatherinezion8882 2 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a married woman ,you would rather be happily single than be in a bad marriage , marriage is good extremly good with the right person .
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
Claire I share your views on getting married young. I met my husband at 22, married at 25, now at 35 I feel like I am a whole new person. What I excited me then is different, my needs are different. It does not mean that young marriages don't work, but I tell my single friends over 30 that they are actually going to make way better decisions when it comes to a future partner and will also be more aware in their relationships which in turn means a healthier relationship.
@theunpopularopinionug
@theunpopularopinionug 2 жыл бұрын
If we could like this comment over and over, we would. Thank you sharing so honestly
@kyarisiimacathy7520
@kyarisiimacathy7520 2 жыл бұрын
You will also be different in 40s from 30s. Are u ready?
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
@@kyarisiimacathy7520 am I? 🤣🤣 I think if you're evolving with your partner things work our great. The trouble comes when you are growing into different directions and your needs are not aligning anymore.
@surpeleisurpelei7501
@surpeleisurpelei7501 2 жыл бұрын
@@kyarisiimacathy7520 not as drastically different as between 20s and 30s, though, as the life and mental gap become smaller the older you get: a 11-year-old and a 20-year-old are at very different spaces both mentally and in life; the growth/age gap slightly reduces between a 21-year-older and 30-year-old but it is still quite big, but when you slide down the thirties, the gap reduces drastically, like a 35-year-old and a 45-year-old (or one in their 40s and another in their 50s) share a lot of similarities, from how they see life to what they now value in life to how they move around life.
@richauntie316
@richauntie316 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you tinah
@DignaK
@DignaK 2 жыл бұрын
“I was cute then but now I’m a legit hot babe” ~Fiona 2022 😂😂😂😂 a whole mood!
@theunpopularopinionug
@theunpopularopinionug 2 жыл бұрын
We love it too ! "😂 Why do I think this is now my defining statement?" -Kemi
@DignaK
@DignaK 2 жыл бұрын
@@theunpopularopinionug because it is😂
@iotgirlnextdoor6808
@iotgirlnextdoor6808 2 жыл бұрын
it's the confidence for me... yoh!
@rhodahaley4258
@rhodahaley4258 2 жыл бұрын
In the 30s you move away from the “tall, dark, handsome” fantasy. You start looking at values😂
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
Lol true but why can't you have the tall, dark handsome guy with values🤣
@Callmehildaglosh
@Callmehildaglosh 2 жыл бұрын
So true😍
@Debby142
@Debby142 2 жыл бұрын
Rhoda Haley you are right that's where I am right now but the physical appearance has be put into consideration I think 😊.
@richauntie316
@richauntie316 2 жыл бұрын
@@LindaTinahTV absolutely I have begun adjusting my list😅😅😅
@dr.michaelonjiko8287
@dr.michaelonjiko8287 2 жыл бұрын
@@LindaTinahTV because probably you have let other men have you juice and you have nothing value wise to offer your husband
@twesigyeprecious4633
@twesigyeprecious4633 2 жыл бұрын
I'm that big sister, my 2 young sisters have brought their men home. The whole clan thinks I was bewitched. My ears are shut to their words🤣🤣🤣🤣
@rehemanampeera6510
@rehemanampeera6510 2 жыл бұрын
Being 26 and single i feel like i really needed to listen to this conversation i love you guys i like how each of you is so authentic you make me a better citizen I swear thank you for adding to my knowledge ❤️
@fionakemi
@fionakemi 2 жыл бұрын
We're glad our conversations resonate so deeply ❤
@joys_dressy
@joys_dressy 2 жыл бұрын
Sis me toooooooo
@nabukalucaroline9841
@nabukalucaroline9841 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@elsiemuhumuza395
@elsiemuhumuza395 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I have to really disagree with this. When I was 21 I asked my supervisor (much older married man) which girls got married first, if it was the pretty ones or well behaved ones or what. And he said it was the mature ones. For any young girl reading this, marriage and many things in life are about maturity, wisdom, planning and not age, otherwise we wouldn’t have any young billionaires or happily married young couples. I see that a lot now that I’m married. I got married young, & now I see so many of my unmarried age mates coming to the realization of the things that I realized way earlier not bse I was so pretty or lucky but bse I was a seeker. So seek maturity, seek wisdom, seek truth, know yourself early, you don’t have to wait till ur 29 to know who u r & guess what, that self discovery journey never stops. Ask the right questions, prepare urself for what u hope for. It’s not news that the options reduce as u grow, that may never change so how do u prepare urself for that time? There’s a season for everything & sadly sometimes u can miss it. In life you have to be intentional about some things, it’s not about luck, it’s about preparation and being deliberate. If u want to get married young u can, and u can choose the right partner. Yes it’s possible to make a wrong marriage choice at 20 but it’s still possible to make a worse choice at 30. At least earlier u have more time to make it right. Find people who have gone ahead of u and made the right choices and let them guide u. Plan ahead, Don’t fall for the deceptions of your time. Most of all invest in ur relationship with God, in a true authentic relationship with Jesus as ur personal lord and instructor. I promise u won’t mess up.
@akankwatsababrah3590
@akankwatsababrah3590 2 жыл бұрын
👌👌👌
@NormanOz
@NormanOz 2 жыл бұрын
You've made a lot of sense here 👍🏼
@ayebareclara9065
@ayebareclara9065 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@lukwagosamalie6612
@lukwagosamalie6612 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for educating me.
@mwamwarepublic7380
@mwamwarepublic7380 Жыл бұрын
While it is true that growth, maturity, wisdom and all other attributes that make for choosing a marriage partner when you’re younger are not linear, it is also disingenuous to claim this as a norm. The truth of the matter is that most people arrive at these attributes later in life. Yours is but an exception to the norm. Biologically (scientific evidence), the frontal cortex of the brain whose role is decision making, reasoning, personality expression, maintaining social appropriateness, and other complex cognitive behaviors only matures in your mid-twenties. So there’s lots of truth to waiting it out until later in life, to make pivotal decisions such as marriage
@avivkinyanjui437
@avivkinyanjui437 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you take turns to speak. Very organized. I love it.
@pearlaliza5342
@pearlaliza5342 2 жыл бұрын
There is no ideal age. You can get it right at 23 or 29. You can get it wrong at 24 or 30. And the thing about hindsight, you don't only look at decisions you made but who you were at that time. Give yourself enough grace for the person you were at 23, you did what you thought was best.
@joannambalirwa6997
@joannambalirwa6997 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@lizmwesigwa4713
@lizmwesigwa4713 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@livy2566
@livy2566 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! I love, love the feeling of sleeping in my bed and owning my bedroom alone. I just really love my space. Just made 30 and l refuse to be desperate just because people think am aging.
@brendaatugonza3932
@brendaatugonza3932 2 жыл бұрын
Same thought.
@fiffibytom
@fiffibytom 2 жыл бұрын
I love and enjoy my time alone too I don't understand how some people hate that to the extent of being desperate for a man
@bintokiria5338
@bintokiria5338 Жыл бұрын
Same here😂😂😂.
@claireakurut9918
@claireakurut9918 2 жыл бұрын
I got married last year at 33. I often told people dont count my time on your watch. I am glad coz i always say marriage is responsibility. No1 vows to eternal fun. The vows are there to make sure you're pushing the pinhead down yourself.
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
First of all it's ok and normal to feel a certain type of way when you see people around you in relationships and having kids if it's something you want for yourself. I mention this because sometimes single people feel like they have to prove that they feel nothing about these situations. To prove how happy they are or that they are happier single. There should not be a debate on who is happier because happiness is from within us at the end of the day not in singleness or marriage. What's important is that you then get yourself back together. Easier said than done at a certain age I know.
@Lucy-ck9mn
@Lucy-ck9mn 2 жыл бұрын
Very true n well said
@snmar256
@snmar256 2 жыл бұрын
👍💯
@floraselez
@floraselez 2 жыл бұрын
True happiness is within and always we may think that we girls can't be happy, without a man, after getting someone,you even become more unhappy
@nadiaayaakiseka6436
@nadiaayaakiseka6436 2 жыл бұрын
The natural selection and self-awareness that happens at 30 is real! I personally do not miss the attention from the 20's stress just!
@beatricenabwire6862
@beatricenabwire6862 2 жыл бұрын
So so true , I am now just happy chilling in my house than being out there
@linzie111
@linzie111 2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, I just want to say that you're amazing. You can't imagine how good it feels watching you, if cosy was a person it would certainly be you ladies. Keep it up!
@fionakemi
@fionakemi 2 жыл бұрын
🥰 thanks hun
@osy777
@osy777 2 жыл бұрын
Am a 45yr old man with 5 kids and married for 20yrs. Ladies, please revisit this video in 10yrs time and you'll be shocked at how much your views on life and relationships will have changed. Much love 💗
@rahmanansubuga2032
@rahmanansubuga2032 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you say so? I would love to hear your take on this
@gracecherie256
@gracecherie256 2 жыл бұрын
Not helpful 🤷🏾‍♀️
@brendaatugonza3932
@brendaatugonza3932 2 жыл бұрын
For marriage, I have no perfect advise but in my wisdom ,I think study more your character,correct what mistakes happened. So that other journey won't be messed up. Be strong
@carolinenankabirwa2102
@carolinenankabirwa2102 2 жыл бұрын
Your current opinion is affected by the choices and journey you have had over the years. Anyone mature should know that times change and humans have different experiences and situations.
@hallejudy
@hallejudy 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Claire and Prim on highlighting the issue on loneliness. Single or married we all struggle with a void of emptiness
@beatricenabwire6862
@beatricenabwire6862 2 жыл бұрын
True , there is a void that not a partner or anything can fill , only God can fill it
@davedalph8719
@davedalph8719 2 жыл бұрын
We finally get some real life legit content from UG🇺🇬.Very honest conversations. Meanwhile, the lady in a black dress feels like the adult sister i never had.👏👏👏
@mediaskukunda8179
@mediaskukunda8179 2 жыл бұрын
Aside from aunties, can we talk about that stage when all our friends and ogs are getting married naye nga everytime they drain Yiu with their bi convos of where is your man, pressurising to hook you up with their lousy male friends, ooh simanya I'm praying for you. Guilt tripping just 😂
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
Lol I know people think they are helping sometimes but hooking up single friends with every Tom Dick and Harry must be annoying
@winnienakabuubi4047
@winnienakabuubi4047 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mediaskukunda8179
@mediaskukunda8179 2 жыл бұрын
Some even offer to hook you up with their exes. I'm like take your garbage. I've not asked for help.
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
@@mediaskukunda8179 🤣🤣 you've killed me at garbage.
@fionakemi
@fionakemi 2 жыл бұрын
🤣 I hear you. I think their intentions are good. Best to express how you feel about it so they know not hook you up. As for pressure, I'm thankful none of my friends have ever said any of this to me.
@miriambusingye2113
@miriambusingye2113 2 жыл бұрын
Maaaan Claire I'm with you! I'm equally shocked how some ladies will choose to throw their happiness outside the window for the ring.
@doreenk.arinawe
@doreenk.arinawe 2 жыл бұрын
It’s better to be single a while longer than to be married and be miserable for the rest of your life.
@Flourish_today
@Flourish_today 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I left Uganda before the pressure of get married. I enjoyed being single I told myself I cannot be unhappy in marriage because I know what happiness is. There can also be loneliness in marriage and its not happiness all the time but there are certain things I will not tolerate.. I have lots of friends who are single in their 30s and even 40s. Please don't allow social media to dictate how single you are. Marriage has its own set of issues. Enjoy being single and live your life to the fullest. You will attract that person that sees your happiness in your singleness. My closest friends are single. These are people that cheer me on in life vise versa.
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
Preach🙌🙌🙌
@bonitasprings3479
@bonitasprings3479 2 жыл бұрын
Well said love! Don't allow society dictate what you should/not do
@JabiRSmith
@JabiRSmith 2 жыл бұрын
It's always some single friends
@trendeous4070
@trendeous4070 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks.we shouldn't allow society to dictate how we should live our lives
@JabiRSmith
@JabiRSmith 2 жыл бұрын
@@trendeous4070 regardless of how you may feel the reality is if you live in a specific society it's going to have an impact on the decisions and choices you make while in it, you may not like or agree with the expectations but that's what makes that specific society
@CMUGASHA
@CMUGASHA 2 жыл бұрын
Single, divorced, married, cohabitating, situationshipping, parenting.. whatever it is, your wellbeing and relationship with yourself is still, and will always be the most important thing. How are you relating with and loving You? Are you getting to know you, understanding who you're evolving to become? Falling in love with you over and over again? If this process is off, you'll either blame yourself when you're alone or whoever you're with, be it a spouse, a child, a parent, a business.. Etc.
@carolineamulen9900
@carolineamulen9900 2 жыл бұрын
Claire thank you for talking about loneliness in marriage. I didn’t know that was a real thing until I got married. Sometimes it even has nothing to do with what your partner is doing or saying. It just hits so hard!
@lucyboboh3024
@lucyboboh3024 2 жыл бұрын
How did you deal with that?
@janettekatende406
@janettekatende406 2 жыл бұрын
yep.. that right there!
@favouredrytah3738
@favouredrytah3738 2 жыл бұрын
I recently clicked 30, out of marriage and ready to enjoy this single life, it really feels peaceful and can now get time for myself. Thanx guys for this episode.
@brendaatugonza3932
@brendaatugonza3932 2 жыл бұрын
If it's out of marriage, I think its painful but gal forget the hurting experiences you had.
@lyds2548
@lyds2548 2 жыл бұрын
Love love you ladies. Being right on the doorstep to 30 I really appreciate such convos. Big sisters, y'all so gorgeous 😍
@midlenialske2998
@midlenialske2998 2 жыл бұрын
As a young girl in her twenties.... This is so timely ☺️.... Lovin' it 🇰🇪
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
Take your time dear. Better to marry right than to marry fast.
@midlenialske2998
@midlenialske2998 2 жыл бұрын
@@LindaTinahTV thank you sis
@estherarinda64
@estherarinda64 2 жыл бұрын
This channel is a gift that just keeps giving!!! Thanks ladies!
@rehemaparmena4714
@rehemaparmena4714 2 жыл бұрын
Watching from Kenya, lived in Uganda for 4 years back in uni- Makerere- you guys make me miss Kampala! Hilarious 🤣!
@elizabethadhiambo41
@elizabethadhiambo41 2 жыл бұрын
I love how honest this episode is 🥰 watching all the way from Kenya I'm glad I clicked on this channe.l 🎉🎉🎉
@evephibe6453
@evephibe6453 2 жыл бұрын
Each time I see couples match together, I always tell myself that the Lord is my shepherd 😂 And ever since I realised that I have got different goals and desires in life, nothing brings me down. Because I made a choice by myself. I postponed child baring and marriage by myself. I chose to first settle my parents before I get married and have children. I vowed to do this at a very young age. So I have grown up focusing on my goal and I thank God that am done with all that I wanted to do for them. I knew it would take me much longer if I was to do it while staying in the country so I had to sacrifice the happiness for only a limited little time and get done with it. And by his grace only my one Yr kyeyo savings solved them. I also want to thank my God that I didn't get married at early age because am sure I would by now be a very miserable housewife somewhere or be a single mum by now. Staying alone has really opened my inner eyes and am so grateful to that.
@Betty-ti9sl
@Betty-ti9sl 2 жыл бұрын
Sending hugs
@makokhasammy
@makokhasammy 2 жыл бұрын
Reasoned truth...I relate
@katekioko6046
@katekioko6046 2 жыл бұрын
LydiahKm and Murugi brought me here, loving it so far 💓❤️ just gained a new subie from Kenya
@Cikanyoro
@Cikanyoro 2 жыл бұрын
I agree on being single on your 30s , your standards change. You no longer go on dates and worry if they will like you. You go on a date and the question is do I like this person.
@claremomanyi4159
@claremomanyi4159 2 жыл бұрын
I just noticed your channel.. it's my first time here but I'm loving it alot.. 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪..
@ritakayeny8344
@ritakayeny8344 2 жыл бұрын
Recently, a certain man, on a date, boldly described to me how women above 35 years should be treated as cases of emergency... I am glad you had this very insightful talk. 👏 It is important that people get into relationships not because they are lonely (which is a state emptiness not aloneness), not because of society's narratives, but because one is self aware, know what they want and has found a person who complements their being and they would like to.spend the rest of their lives with. Singleness is such a beautiful time to get to know yourself more, and fall in love with yourself. I'd encourage taking on courses or activities that help you become your best version and just be you as there is true fulfilment in that. But also, prayerfully believe for a good partner- for every Good and Perfect gift comes from above.
@virginiawango3968
@virginiawango3968 2 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@nellyvinenekesa7531
@nellyvinenekesa7531 2 жыл бұрын
Great conversation, I really enjoyed this episode👋 🇰🇪🇰🇪
@mercyapolot7757
@mercyapolot7757 2 жыл бұрын
I can't say this enough but this channel is a gift to all of us. Thank you.
@queenndinda7536
@queenndinda7536 2 жыл бұрын
OMG I just discovered this gem! I'm from Kenya. 🇰🇪. Nawapenda ❤️
@brianmugere
@brianmugere 2 жыл бұрын
Hey ladies... This is very beautiful content! I'm just catching a few minutes of this, but ya'll ooze intellect. Real info. Real stories. Genuine jazz, natural expressions. I love your show.
@nyonyoziprim
@nyonyoziprim 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Brian.
@brendakerubo7398
@brendakerubo7398 2 жыл бұрын
hello. from Kenya here. legit convos.. 30s is a new level of self awareness thank you for the talk
@anitaiyke
@anitaiyke 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God I came across this,I just turned 30 and my family has been on my neck about giving birth and having a family not that I don't want to but I just feel like am very self aware of what I want and what I'd really settle for,I had quite a traumatic childhood and I vowed to do better for my future I always say I don't want to bleed on anyone so I have really focused on healing and making myself a better person,I love being single truly and the fact that my decision are singularly based on making me better and also I just feel like theres alot in life to do and marriage is beautiful and kids are beautiful buts it shouldn't be something that should be forced on anyone.I could write a whole essay lol but I think this is a conversation that's very important.
@lucyboboh3024
@lucyboboh3024 2 жыл бұрын
Just do you.your the only one who knows what you want in your world.
@tabbypeters798
@tabbypeters798 2 жыл бұрын
Kenyan view I loving ur talks been hooked n not getting out
@EuniceTess
@EuniceTess 2 жыл бұрын
If you’re as single as Fiona, we have a meeting at NASA.😌
@nyonyoziprim
@nyonyoziprim 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 gurrrl
@Callmehildaglosh
@Callmehildaglosh 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@brbinamara1778
@brbinamara1778 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂count me in
@gmediaassociates6417
@gmediaassociates6417 2 жыл бұрын
This is a great channel, explicitly real talk. Watching from Eldoret.
@ivytulesi3464
@ivytulesi3464 2 жыл бұрын
🇰🇪 Watching y'all for first time and I have loved it! New subbie 🇰🇪
@magrethmoshy4135
@magrethmoshy4135 2 жыл бұрын
Intentionally single in my late 30s and i have looooove every bit of this conversation. Thank you ladies
@miriam_miriam
@miriam_miriam 2 жыл бұрын
"And that wokeness was rebellion we had to rebel 🔥🔥"prim nyonyozi
@alexisjerop4387
@alexisjerop4387 2 жыл бұрын
Loving this.... From Kenya 🇰🇪
@georginahmumbe9959
@georginahmumbe9959 2 жыл бұрын
New subscriber❤️ this is very liberating. Much love from Kenya
@Toriluvsfashion
@Toriluvsfashion 2 жыл бұрын
I felt that aunties conversation in my soul! "When are you getting a husband? We need to see you have children" I feel like asking them to focus on their own marriages and why uncle has a wife and a girlfriend...... 😒
@fiffibytom
@fiffibytom 2 жыл бұрын
You know 😣😣 so annoying!
@maxentiaomurungi4221
@maxentiaomurungi4221 2 жыл бұрын
Nice one. But I'm shocked Clare doesn't know that well known secret in Africa of women would rather be unhappy in marriages. It's in songs eg Sophie Gombya's song Spare tyre. Watch African movies, and lines are there.
@dennaesmith415
@dennaesmith415 Жыл бұрын
I found it very interesting when my friend got married and started saying she can't hang around single people. I have amazing friendships with other friends that are married so I don't see why it's a problem. Plus, it sounded like it was coming from other people and not what she really believed.
@doreenk.arinawe
@doreenk.arinawe 2 жыл бұрын
Until you are there, you can’t think like that. Yes, I agree with Prim, people want to first try things for themselves. Like marriage and singleness. For happiness. Just enjoy your singleness.
@candidwithtindi4329
@candidwithtindi4329 2 жыл бұрын
Queen Between here..Love TMI and I officially love your channel❤
@reine924
@reine924 2 жыл бұрын
Just discovered this channel. Lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪 I'm also a follower of TMI Podcast Ke.
@judysheyl6632
@judysheyl6632 2 жыл бұрын
Kenyan
@hallejudy
@hallejudy 2 жыл бұрын
You're all glowing. Loving Phiona's burnt orange shirt. You're all smart. I love the topic. I make 30 next year and I totally conquer with what your saying. About friendships...hmmm I made the choice before I make 30 I'll do whatever it takes to make my finances work,my career is on sprint. . .I have 2 legs and arms and even though I self pressure to be successful. I'm making 29 in August, I'm making my money,I've relocated,I've traveled and I laugh each time I see the man I cried over! I have peace and for some reason,I'm more mature when I'm even accomodating a man to waste my time. I don't give anyone space to give me room to feel less. I thank God His kept me in check!!! To growth!
@viviennenabukenya2568
@viviennenabukenya2568 2 жыл бұрын
To growth🥂. You're living my dream life already. I'm 24😄😄😄
@theunpopularopinionug
@theunpopularopinionug 2 жыл бұрын
love love love this for you, sis! Cheers to all the good things now and those to come
@lotus4725
@lotus4725 2 жыл бұрын
"I don't give anyone space to give me room to feel less" - profound!! Also as a 29yr old I totally relate. I'd love to be in an intentional partnership, but my career and finances are at the top of my list right now
@Callmehildaglosh
@Callmehildaglosh 2 жыл бұрын
I almost choked on my food when they said "the confidence of a short man"😂😂.
@fionakemi
@fionakemi 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@roryntamale1414
@roryntamale1414 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@fiffibytom
@fiffibytom 2 жыл бұрын
Same🤣🤣🤣
@lilshelsuzie5235
@lilshelsuzie5235 Жыл бұрын
😂
@gloriamikara6634
@gloriamikara6634 2 жыл бұрын
I love you women soo much, I love your talks watched all of them much love from Kenya and from TMI as well😘
@anitagrace9159
@anitagrace9159 2 жыл бұрын
I rather be single and happy, peace is priceless.Period*
@konaswed9737
@konaswed9737 2 жыл бұрын
Wegumye nyoo
@WahidaRamadhan-wn9nl
@WahidaRamadhan-wn9nl 2 жыл бұрын
The honesty in here is up the roof thanks for sharing a reminder that these thoughts are not isolated its normal
@sheilynananura9228
@sheilynananura9228 2 жыл бұрын
I love what Clare had to say on the friendship after marriage. Natural selection or not the foundations of friendship are tested most when you make fundamental changes in your life like marriage. It's important to maintain abit of your individuality even when you get married.I have single friends who understand me a whole lot better than the married people. And men don't give that entire sense of companionship in a marriage. You need your friends! This is by far my best episode! Sooooo much truth. 👏 👏 👏
@theunpopularopinionug
@theunpopularopinionug 2 жыл бұрын
If we could, we'd like your comment twice!
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree but I also leave that space that life changes sometimes mean you're not going to take everyone with you on the next journey and maybe even they don't want to come along.
@doreengift458
@doreengift458 2 жыл бұрын
I wish people realise this early enough! The way people carelessly say, "you are married"as if it's the end of the world! If your partner can't let you have time with friends,or family,do something away from them! It's not marriage but policing!
@kizitoruth8366
@kizitoruth8366 2 жыл бұрын
Watching from Kenya. First time here and I really enjoyed it.
@sandrabaweze2352
@sandrabaweze2352 2 жыл бұрын
This is actually good.... I appreciate the growth of the channel 🤗 I think Prim is being objective... people have weird mindsets hehehe
@lindawaweru74
@lindawaweru74 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you all the love from Kenya .I loved this episode
@solomontigan
@solomontigan 6 ай бұрын
Thanks so much ladies,i love love you darlings❤ you are so real
@bridgettekakai7013
@bridgettekakai7013 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. wow. Watching you ladies for the first time but what you are saying is so me right now.
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV 2 жыл бұрын
On the point of 'natural selection of friends'. I see and get where both Claire and Prim were coming from but it actually can happen that naturally the nature of friendships change when you get married and have kids and not in a bad way. Time, interests, priorities can change and naturally the friendship loses a bit of touch in some areas. That being said a conscious effort needs to made to maintain these friendships when our lives evolve and if the friendship loses touch, sometimes it means that that's where that journey ends and it's not necessarily personal.
@friedashifotoka6556
@friedashifotoka6556 2 жыл бұрын
I love how relatable and genuine the conversation was. I’m definitely hitting the subscription button
@raykay8009
@raykay8009 2 жыл бұрын
What’s the rendezvous for the live show coz I need a ka reminder on the 23rd….
@nebyebyoonalucky5416
@nebyebyoonalucky5416 2 жыл бұрын
This episode has been such an amazing one for sure☺️
@joymeb9190
@joymeb9190 9 ай бұрын
I totally agree, you would rather be single and married and sad. Peace and happiness is key
@mediaskukunda8179
@mediaskukunda8179 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 wooo same same life nyonyo. We are here bleeding out eggs every month in priority of family bcz, I get married and Yoo these siblings won't see a blackboard again.
@shirleethechristianchic
@shirleethechristianchic 2 жыл бұрын
Can't wait for my 30s now! Power, audacity and knowing myself!?! Am ready
@sandranakacwa2669
@sandranakacwa2669 2 жыл бұрын
You know....
@lizzymemoh153
@lizzymemoh153 2 жыл бұрын
Am almost in my 4th floor not married not engaged no baby but dating.... thou the current generation is just crazy i just pray my man is for me if not i just dust myself and move on. Looking lovely ladies
@kamungarofatia6017
@kamungarofatia6017 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys much love
@beatricenabwire6862
@beatricenabwire6862 2 жыл бұрын
Wow , I love how raw and real you people are in your conversations, i am glad i watched this. I have known Fiona from Sunsas and Prim from Africa hall and you ladies are amazing , I love your views and Claire's view too
@judykiptim9412
@judykiptim9412 2 жыл бұрын
New member from Kenya. really enjoyed the different insights.
@tk3268
@tk3268 2 жыл бұрын
THE VIDEO QUALITY WOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!!
@theunpopularopinionug
@theunpopularopinionug 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. We have such a great team Agandy Studio❤️
@anneobunga3897
@anneobunga3897 2 жыл бұрын
I've just come across this KZbin channel today and i must ask...where have you been all my life?😆🤣🤣...I guess i've loved this topic because i can relate. Am in my late 20's and single. I have a kid but i still feel the pressure of getting married. I just dont know why. All my close friends are single too. I have no reason at all to feel the pressure, but i really feel the pressure!!... What is even more frustrating is that all the guys i attract are below 25😂😂😂...i agree with Fiona, the older we get, we become legit hot babes😂😂...much love from Kenya guys
@evalynemwaura3431
@evalynemwaura3431 2 жыл бұрын
My new found podcast😍can't get enough of you people..
@norahnovuyo8663
@norahnovuyo8663 2 жыл бұрын
Fiona's description of her singleness! 🤣🤣🤣 but it's the truth!
@theunpopularopinionug
@theunpopularopinionug 2 жыл бұрын
😂 she is here nodding her head
@akiiki6051
@akiiki6051 2 жыл бұрын
Woooooooooow just Woooooooooow thank u ladies... I am 29 and I definitely know what I do not want!!!
@angeeashlee3135
@angeeashlee3135 2 жыл бұрын
It's Clare's " do you get what I mean,do you understand" always ✌️
@theresaaluong4988
@theresaaluong4988 2 жыл бұрын
This channel is amazing !!!!!!, I love the topics and the fact that they are so relatable!! .
@turyamuhebwaritah936
@turyamuhebwaritah936 2 жыл бұрын
Prim you've touched my life where you talk about making your mother comfortable, it's like your spilling my ka story out,,,, am really inspired to keep on.
@hansruyonga5408
@hansruyonga5408 2 жыл бұрын
love the set...Immaculate!
@aheebwasandra9705
@aheebwasandra9705 2 жыл бұрын
Single is the default status but relationships are necessary.. Truthfully, some people are happy when single and others are happy when in a relationship. Ofcourse, being born single, living your whole life single is just not an ideal. Thank you for the show... I love the confidence babe holding a 🎤 has... She is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@gloriawise2627
@gloriawise2627 2 жыл бұрын
I would recommend this vlog to 10 million people around the world
@thoughtsofgertrude8163
@thoughtsofgertrude8163 2 жыл бұрын
Happily Single it is. 😀 Also friends who are married should learn to accomodate their single friends, mostly the ones who are not toxic.
@mercyapolot7757
@mercyapolot7757 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my Fiona is so funny in this episode, such a mood.
@hallejudy
@hallejudy 2 жыл бұрын
I love the aspects of standards when Phiona says. I guess you become more selective with energies you entertain. There's too much pressure,there's too much to internalise on your own. I love love...
@Callmehildaglosh
@Callmehildaglosh 2 жыл бұрын
Dodging aunties at events is the new sport😅. But they keep on keeping on till they find you in a corner and then inject you with their words😅😅
@chubbybaby6757
@chubbybaby6757 2 жыл бұрын
You guys just gained a new subscriber
@Callmehildaglosh
@Callmehildaglosh 2 жыл бұрын
This was a very deep episode and all your opinions sunk in. Well done ladies
@emmakenagwah3603
@emmakenagwah3603 2 жыл бұрын
Just discovered your channel and OMG I'm in looove. I relate so much with y'all's sentiments. Love from Kenya🇰🇪
@lorineomondi4316
@lorineomondi4316 2 жыл бұрын
Me too 😊 rep 254
@Debby142
@Debby142 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting show, just watching you guys makes me miss Uganda 😢❤️🇿🇲.
@barbzyful
@barbzyful 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I’m with Fiona, I hate those “hi” “hello” “hi”….state your purpose man!!! Lol, here from Murugi Munyi, loving your content
@izukanjinakamba6494
@izukanjinakamba6494 2 жыл бұрын
That's so true, friendships shouldn't end because of one is in a relationship. Different friends bring kinds of help, just because I can't help in a certain situation doesn't mean I'm not good for you.
@izukanjinakamba6494
@izukanjinakamba6494 2 жыл бұрын
@Gracielanera there's still time to reconnect and those who are willing to and understand you will be with you regardless of the time you haven't been in touch.
@marilynochillo1614
@marilynochillo1614 2 жыл бұрын
When she said she misses " The joy of sleeping in your bed alone for once. " . I related !
@miriamkhlea5375
@miriamkhlea5375 2 жыл бұрын
This is your best episode I've watched so far💋💋
@makena.cherry
@makena.cherry 2 жыл бұрын
Heyyyyyy, New subbie from Kenya❤ Love TMI too!!
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