The solution to your problems is companionship

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[@G43X]

Nothing comes ready made. I agree. I think believing people must be ready made will lead to a lot of disappointment in the long term. Thanks for your perspective.

[@TerryJulianLive]

You have a great delivery and presence. Keep going. Just remember that the average american has a 7th grade reading level and a 3rd grade math level. Unfortunately for our people, its even lower. So to reach the masses of sisters, you have to really keep it surface level. That might be hard for you because I can tell you're college educated but I can really see you with 100k followers in no time because your topics have such broad appeal among women.

[@Booksngoodlooks]

thanks so much for the kind words and encouragement.

[@Exmachin]

90% of female rappers, singers, models, actresses and influencers sell the Box. These are not Role Models. You have to know the Dark side of Life to Know

[@byronmcgee4118]

Really good guys, making 65k per year, with no kids, can’t get love. Women must be realistic on their level and pick appropriate

[@KevonnieElaine]

Good video. I agree definitely with going hard for a career. Don’t get me wrong, if an opportunity comes to boost my income and fits into my lifestyle (no mandatory overtime) I would consider it. But there was a trend on Twitter about BW getting degrees back to back because they are bored. I was like what?!?😭 I got my bachelor’s and my mom wanted me to go back to school until I got my doctorate! I’m like girl! Hell no😭! I barely wanted to finish college.

[@Booksngoodlooks]

lol no but fr. lol this is teaaaaaaa. thanks for watching!!

[@rodellwilliams871]

Beautiful location 🌞

[@Csj597]

Some women aren't worth the risk...

[@rosejames5172]

Neither are men

[@Csj597]

@@rosejames5172 u right. But that’s a different video lol

[@rodellwilliams871]

Real talk ☑

[@rosejames5172]

B W have no choice but ti be strong. What is your alternative? To be weak? predators prey on the weak. B W however need a quiet stength being loud, screaming is a sign of weakness. You can't live your best life without money.

[@mufasahanson5848]

Love the honest 👍🏾

[@MrsKre8ivetype]

It's so sad that anytime a woman encourages other women to be better women its met with name-calling 😢

[@user-ly9jg1ch5o]

I would like to express my opinion on the relationship of men and women and how important it is. You see, men are the Great protectors if we choose to acknowledge our job. Women are the Great nurtures if women would accept their job. What happens when a man and woman love one another and accept these roles as the same time is a reciprocating circle that is a perfect one. That is how nature is designed. What we must stop doing is violating nature the way God himself designed it. Everyone... take your role... your job very seriously.

[@Maxx-mw2zt]

Career and material things mean nothing if you don't have anyone to share life with. Love and being in love matter most! I feel sorry for women who never seen love between a man and woman so now they are jaded. Stop listening to other single women and stop looking like other women with weaves, tons of makeup, and false lashes. Stand out and be yourself. Great video though, I get your message.

[@Joshdifferent]

🔥🔥🔥

[@fatherdivine8005]

Great video. Except for the N-word use. Words have power.

[@Kuroyasha2099]

Regarding your statement that you saw yourself with a football player, the problem is that black American people primarily associate black "success" or wealth or whatever through the lens of sports and entertainment. If we go by the numbers there are more black millionaires who are not athletes and entertainers. They own theaters, real estate, software, clinics and run small businesses of various kinds. So from a practical standpoint black American women are not even maximizing their opportunities to meet "wealthy" men because they don't even know what to look for outside of sports and entertainment. 9:53 sold a lie. I'll give some pushback for this, I simply don't think we're "sold" a lie so much as we don't take the proactive steps to be educated. This is the age of information at your fingertips. We're not limited by school districts and textbooks anymore. Time to take some agency. 10:47 dreams and aspirations. Again, women can want what they want but do they have the "qualifications" to get it. Do they know what to look for? If you're only looking at athletes and entertainers you're severely limiting yourself to a neighborhood pool of men when there is lake over yonder. 15:06 giving settle. Exactly as you said many of these women put up with complete nonsense just to be with a man they consider high status. When you look at it objectively that is a form of settling. They solely measure success, happiness and fulfillment through the lens of money and perceived status. 18:55 career vs purpose. I really like this insight. Many of us conflate our careers or perceived image or status with fulfillment. They're not necessarily mutually exclusive there can be some overlap but we should all take the time to reflect and investigate if we're making the proper distinction.

[@jessicaj8083]

Agreed. Black people see entertainment is the only source of black success, and that’s the problem. Plus professional athletes are some of the worst men to date… that’s why they stay in the news for foolishness. That lifestyle shouldn’t really be glamorized

[@delconteeallmyharmon5526]

I already have 4 children I'm not about man hating I don't judge other Black women in reference to their singleness the way I look at life as far as companionship a man is always needed at the same time he has to make the effort to be with me then I'll compliment his efforts if he's my type I refuse to settle forever is a long time to be with the wrong person my only type Bonafide light skin Black non Latino Spanish descent my under age babies Nathaniel Emma comes first have a sweet day.

[@britneyt9253]

What do you use on your skin for skin care?

[@MRWONDERFUL-kk4db]

IT'S TOO LATE

[@bluestsea]

Angry lol

[@brandonf.6558]

Talking in circles.

[@tinkerbell8507]

Stop touching your hair, make up your mind either have it in the back or in de front. I am out🤨