the sugar babies boom

[@zoeunlimited]

Does any of this surprise you? Comment your thoughts on the sugar baby trend on TikTok!

[@noo9144]

Well, another silly trend of tiktok, what's next?

[@nittynotkitty]

I didn't even know this was a term in the 19 hundreds 😂

[@adira9264]

not even gonna think, it's a compete bullshit

[@StefanyDjuba]

Please, this is important. You mentioned that your youth only comes once in a lifetime, and maybe you shouldn't waste it on a man, however, what would be a good use of youth? I've had this question for a while, so I'll just ask: how should one take advantage, and enjoy, their youth to the max?

[@ariannemanalo1399]

you should buy a mic, just a suggestion, i love your content and analysis!!

[@crunchykarat4389]

“In case you don’t use tiktok, which by the way, is an accomplishment” I have never been prouder to not use tiktok

[@MONARCH_FLIES]

bro sameeee

[@Hughjasslol1]

you're missing out 🤷‍♀️

[@lavliness]

me too ♡

[@mb9893]

Tiktok is banned in my country 😂

[@emjee663]

@@mb9893 same!!

[@lilbitscandalus]

Once cher's mom told her " Sweetheart, settle down and Marry a rich man" and she responded with "MOM, I am a rich man"✨ this is what we girls should manifest " Become a rich our own"

[@stronkmoosceles]

reminds me of the lyrics of tomboy- destiny rogers freakin amazing.

[@Jess-ci8re]

I 100% agree but I feel like I can become rich when I am probably 40 years old and by then I have spent most of my adult life living paycheque to paycheque. So for some it might make more sense while your young to have a nice life given by a sugar daddy AND hustle to make yourself rich. You get what I mean?

[@IndigoDetry]

i think women should do whatever they want as long as they’re happy.

[@Speaking841]

@Tinker Belle You can get replaced while looking for "true love" as well. The divorce stats don't support the value of it.

[@emptycinema]

Thank you

[@GwendolynnBY]

I couldn't help but think that when she (the girl in the tik tok) said she was too beautiful to be treated badly, it also implied that if you aren't conventionally attractive, it would be fine to treat you badly.

[@KAMZA.]

YES! it's literally ruining young women's idea of self-worth because you're totally and completely basing it on your looks, youth and weight. So it's almost inevitable that all these girls become bitter middle aged women with eating disorders

[@Blueberryminty]

that doesn't make logical sense though. "if it rains, the streets are wet. if it doesn't rain, the streets can still be wet." there are more reasons (and probably better) for not being treated badly. her statement of being too beautiful to be treated badly, doesn't logically exclude other reasons for not being treated badly. it does not logically imply that being ugly is a reason to be treated badly.

[@affectojfgidi1246]

​@@Blueberryminty "being too beautiful to be treated badly" does not exclude other reasons for being treated badly, but it implies that being not beautiful can be a reason to be treated badly

[@naurrrr6719]

Tbh I dont care what these people do, but seeing this being a trend and people making being a sugar baby their whole personality and life makes me proud of myself even tho I did nothing productive today.

[@yyovng331]

Nauuurrr 😂👌🏻

[@山田太郎-u7b3v]

This

[@bratbarbie444]

bro that last sentence made me laugh cause thats so me but what you're saying is facts

[@audrey_bc]

can i just say you've inspired me to be myself and not care about what other people think of me? thank you.

[@él.3s.mi.uníco]

Same here ! She is definitely making our lives better :)

[@theshortbisexualfinn2547]

We love her❤

[@lucysour]

The intense materialism is kinda cringy and, maybe I'm a bit jaded, but tiktok is really romanticizing sugar daddy/baby relationships. There is a dark side to becoming dependent on older men with more money and power than you. Work does suck though, so I get it lol

[@ΑντριάναΜιχαηλίδου-χ4ω]

Totally agree.they make people think that money is true happiness and our only goal in life.

[@Belle-zq3xc]

I've read from sugar babies on reddit/tumblr that because of this romantization the market is becoming oversaturated, the website they use is a joke now and full of women accepting lower pay, which means not even making much money compared to a regular job except now you have all these risks. I've also read that it's not sustainable and that most aim to transition to spoiled gf/trophy wife kind of thing

[@Belle-zq3xc]

Also from what I've read sugar daddies don't like being on social media since the older ones tend to be married lol these TikTok sugar babies are romantizing it on the next level

[@RoxyWinx786]

Ikr, being financially completely dependent on someone else seems terrifying, especially an older man with more experience. There's a clear power imbalance and who's to say he won't just wake up one day and replace you with someone new, younger, prettier, etc. and leave you with absolutely nothing

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

Honestly I get getting money to pay off your bills but i dont understand how does buying a lot of stuff which you will never use give you happiness.. I guess sugar babies have a natural tendency to be materialistic

[@khalilahd.]

The educational comedy I didn’t know I needed 😂😂

[@reisatee5504]

My main thought regarding sugar babies is that I still have no idea how and why someone would deliberately do something that risky??? I'd rather take my chances with low income than rely on the "generosity" of the kind of old man who's willing to throw away money to keep a pretty young woman around....

[@AmIWhatIAm]

And guess what? Get replaced if he sees another one that looks better than you physically 😂 We are worth more than that lol

[@sweetthings3896]

Yeah dude it's gross... I had a sugar daddy but only for wants and it was more of a job than anything. Disgusting

[@naglfar6305]

@@sweetthings3896 you're just as disgusting as the sugar daddy tbh

[@sweetthings3896]

@@naglfar6305 eh I suppose... I was at a low point in life but what's more gross is 50 yr old men going for someone who is barely legal. So not quite as disgusting.

[@naglfar6305]

@@sweetthings3896 men want youth and young women, once I'm done with my masters I'm going to try to land a job at Goldman Sachs or a major branch and once my income is high enough, I will keep a few sugar babies too. You know what they say, free tail is the most expensive kind.

[@jerlisandoval6605]

One of the things that Zoey always taught us through her vids is that self-worth is important. We should always value ourselves more and to always be true to ourselves. By the way, I'm early yah? I mean I don't know why but it kinda lits my mood lol. ㅋㅋㅋ

[@song-kangsfirstwife7941]

Another thing that bugs me about this is the fact that most these men are probably married and have kids but are chasing younger women to blow all their income on them being the backs of their poor families. If I was 20 and found out my dad was blowing cash to sleep and cheat on my mom with somone my age, I would be sick. I was on Reddit and I actually saw people encouraging this lifestyle while being in a relationship. It's so sad honestly

[@Someonefreshandclean]

I was spending my twenties to become a doctor. And now I 30 and a doctor. I cant explain this feeling because it is something only you can give to yourself. No money or bag can give you a feeling of worth or self accomplishment. That is something you can achieve by overcoming obstacles. I find this overly materialistic world a bit scary sometimes. Why spend your most valuable thing: your time, with someone you don't love?

[@inthesameuniverse]

I am so proud of you 💕

[@donuthetic]

It's been a year.. how is it going??

[@Someonefreshandclean]

@donuthetic it is has been hard ofcourse. And it takes a lot of sacrifice. But I am still learning and I putting my all into helping people and trying to listen as much as possible instead of dismiss them or solve things quickly. I have noticed that unfortunately in medicine the things that we as doctors not yet understand are often dismissed or misdiagnosed. I think being vulnerable and open as a doctor is very important and asking for help when you are a doctor yourself is crucial in helping others and becoming better.

[@donuthetic]

@@Someonefreshandclean Best of luck for your future

[@mariam3030]

becoming a sugar baby has crossed my mind once or twice, mostly in my very early 20's but now that im getting closer to 30 I realized I didnt want someone else to have that power over me. even with today's fucked up economic system in America I'd still rather have control over my self worth than have someone else decide that for me. I want to be my own god damn sugar daddy. im only speaking for myself and I dont judge or shame other women/men who are sugar babies :)

[@weronikakaczmarczyk8232]

'I want to be my own god damn sugar daddy' this sentence is iconic i love it

[@chaos5104]

Good for you! You are mature and wise.. through experience life.

[@johnnastrom9400]

Please explain "fucked up economic system in America".

[@simonboucher5170]

Ho you can judge them don't worry, we all do, internaly.

[@CR-oc3vy]

I feel like these drives for wealth and beauty have everything to do with gender socialisation and power dynamics (not evolution) and sugar babies are simply capitalising on their looks/sexuality in an economy that has a) reduced them to their looks and sexuality from the beginning and b) limited their financial mobility and work opportunities relative to men. Like for most sugar babies it is probably a choice, maybe they could work at McDonald's instead if push comes to shove, but many women do not see upward mobility as a possibility without a man's help and that's a real reason for this phenomenon. Obviously it's been more popularised and glamorised on the internet recently

[@automatic5]

id rather be a sugar baby than work at mcdonalds. no shade to mcdonalds workers tho.

[@midoriorio7806]

No, just no

[@lilaclatte882]

I think you are right. Ive seen that most people blame everything on 'biology and evolution' when doing disagreeable things

[@midoriorio7806]

@Stellar Sphinx theu want money but dont want to work, they said it themselves.they could get a job if they wanted to, even if its a burner like MacDonalds, and work their way up. They just dont want to work. Its a mutual thing, stop trying to switch it up on aociety and men.

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

Thats what.. Instead of critisizing the system they have started just to comply with it.. See there is nothing wrong with being a sugar baby but it comes with a lot of negative consequences and most of these people who glamorise even talk about it. And being independent is wayy better than being dependant on someone else

[@heatherstevahn417]

I feel like a sad fact of this is that some if not most portray that they just get paid for existing when really there is a little more to it and what is happening is young impressionable girls are seeing this and going to think that they if they became a part of this, they too would get paid for just being there and then they will find out the harsh reality that they were never told

[@cetriyasArtnComicsChannel]

I'm also curious what happened to those above the age 29? What do they do, where do they go?

[@heatherstevahn417]

@@cetriyasArtnComicsChannel What do you mean?

[@heatherstevahn417]

@The DisaStarWars Oh thank you. I was slightly confused by what they said.

[@cetriyasArtnComicsChannel]

@@heatherstevahn417 sorry about that, but yes just me thinking out line

[@emimew]

@@cetriyasArtnComicsChannel I have some guesses: a. some do manage to marry and become the WIFES of this old man and “settle down”, waiting for this man to die to inherit there green. This includes childbirth and looking after them or possibly getting divorced. B. They become desperate prostitutes that work in even worse places then we can imagine. Or it could be option c: this young woman are sugar babies to support financially there career and actually “close that chapter” and keep working for there success

[@AB-wq3ql]

I used to be friends with a sugar baby. She was mostly just entitled and thoughtless. Horrible to live with, totally stuck up and inconsiderate. Would make messes and never clean them up. Ruined other people's Tupperware and kitchen items then just throw it away. Ugh. I'm glad I kicked her out if my life.

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

I mean it makes sense that most ( not all) sugar babies would be entitled and like to be spoiled. That's why they go after ugly men in the first place for their money to be spoiled and not work hard in their life

[@AB-wq3ql]

@@thesevenkingswelove9554 couldn't have said it better myself.

[@abimich8955]

Agree 100% also knowing that you worked hard for what you’ve earned boosts your self confidence. Very good and inspirational!

[@gamergals9707]

im honestly just obsessed with the rhymes the sugar baby is spitting I love her vibe ngl cause you can tell she's kinda joking

[@AlenaCantFly]

I am a bit concerned at the stereotypical "Russian" accent in a lot of these tik toks :/ like idk if the creators are Russian, but it still feels icky to perpetuate that stereotype?

[@주누스아시야]

99% of them are not even russian🤡

[@AlenaCantFly]

@@주누스아시야 oh yikes :////

[@Belle-zq3xc]

This along with the recent And Just Like That(Russian rich girl must be a sex worker) and Emily in Paris(Ukrainian sugar baby is a thief) stereotypes about Slavic women is so annoying, those same people would complain if they were stereotyped :/ they've probably never met a Russian woman in their life smh or know anything about Russia

[@АннаВасюкова-м1ъ]

So sick of it, glad non-slavic people call out this stereotype as well

[@franz3810]

Zoe also did one with the accent hahaha

[@rujutaparanjape7082]

The cons of sugaring that you pointed out are sooo true. This can bring affluence but for a limited time and rest of the time there is a chance to feel humiliated, vulnerable and unworthy of true love. Kudos to you 👏

[@mayoiayaseswife]

My biggest fear is someone loving my money over me, its scary to think about.

[@LaCréé.e]

I mean sugar daddies love their babies' youth and beauty, not them. It's a transaction. Both parties know what it is.

[@malinasworld]

It’s not really hard to avoid? Someone not being serious about your relationship is a risk all people face but being stuck with someone who only wants your money and nothing else isn’t really something that happens accidentally a lot.

[@GwendolynnBY]

there was also a time (sorry if it was mentioned, and I missed it) where women legally couldn't have their own finances. you would have to marry, and marry financially well, in order to have any kind of wealth or financial growth. in the u.s., women couldn't open a bank account until the 1960s.

[@chisomo8088]

The things young teens are being exposed to is so scary cause if we (young adults) can act this way, imagine what the ones coming after us will do.

[@pilar2406]

The mere thought of economically depending on someone suffocates me. That situation can become abusive really fast.

[@salinahobbes6464]

I can't stand the normalization of being a mistress and encouraging young people to wreck a marriage knowingly. Morals?? People might come back and say that person was going to be unfaithful anyways, why not benefit, but that's whack, man. Also, could just be how I was raised, but I could never allow myself to rely on NO MAN (or woman or other) for money. Who wants to be left helpless when they're alone? BE THE RICH MAN. But I get it, people say why work hard if you don't have to. Kind of embarrassing imo, but they be living it up, so.. to each their own. For me though, nothing beats the feeling of working hard and splurging on yourself or loved ones. W E L L - E A R N E D : )

[@phoenix5719]

Well said✨

[@breanab6103]

To be honest in this world you can't depend or rely on anyone to provide for you(even your parents). But you are right working for your own money is a great feeling and that is something no one can take from you.

[@kirtisinha404]

Yess

[@avalonsignoraalmas6150]

For me, I’m tryna find me a sugar daddy as soon as those student loans come in, and I mean that in all seriousness. Like, working hard for your own money can be rewarding, but also draining, and I’m not about to run myself ragged when I keep getting offers from men and women who can pay for my education in full. I’m not by any means helpless, but if somebody wants to pay me extravagantly for something I could be doing for free with somebody else, why would I turn that down? I’m just waiting to start college before I agree to anything.

[@vivit.8326]

It's a form of prostitution, basically. The glamorization is very disturbing...

[@bbh7808]

same.....i mean all these independent women fighting their life that they don't need to be sexualized cause they are independent and then these people exist

[@kitty_k4to]

It's really common and that's frustrating

[@jasmineshelton759]

Not necessarily, there are levels to it for sure, but not all sugar babies are practically prostituting themselves out. I mean what about hypergamy and ppl who date and marry out of their economic class?

[@repent.]

exactly. and the "Our Father" parody was super offensive.

[@DeezNutz-pg9io]

@@jasmineshelton759 hypergamy and sugar baby is not the same though. Hypergamy is leading to marriage. Sugar baby is just dating and ya know transactional

[@inspiredby624]

So basically the newest Tiktok trend is just glamorizing prostitution? Like hey if you're broke and need to pay rent I'm not gonna judge but selling yourself so you can show off designer bags on the internet does seem a little sad. I guess it could be a useful arrangement for e.g. a student needing financial support to get through college or an aspiring actress or model so basically anything that involves you using his support to build your own career. But honestly if you look good enough to nab one of the top tier sugar daddies despite all the competition you could probably also make a good living selling detox tea on instagram so why even bother? In the end the freedom to refuse sex whenever you don't feel like it without having to fear losing the roof over your head might be worth more to you than the newest Prada bag...

[@taposhirabeyamredu4778]

i live in a developing country so i cant relate to these whatever trend these are but i love absolutely love how you talk about sensitive subjects with so much fun. You are ONE of the youtuber i really really love to watch. you are simple and your videos are simple yet so much fun and light. i try to follow your lifestyle in cases of health and mind. its refreshing to see you Thank you zoe. take care!

[@Blueberryminty]

i never saw a problem in sugar daddy/baby relationships as long as they are in mutual understanding without anyone being trapped in the arangement. it's an understandable choice from both sides. there are far worse kind of relationships. personally it was never something for me as materialistic things never really interrested me that much, but i'm a sapiosexual and people have condemned me a lot for explicitely looking for a higher iq then me (to simplify it here, i want more intelligent then me, iq is only a number), so maybe i'm being sympathetic towards those sugar relationships as i know how it is like being ridiculed for having a specific request from a relationship outside of the accepted norm.

[@hilljemima7834]

My best friend got a sugar daddy and after that our friendship quickly turned awful and ended. I find the whole thing pedophilic and repulsing, it’s rooted in the superficial values of men, materialism and capitalism

[@naglfar6305]

Lol to most women, sleeping with women aside from pre menopausal women is pedophiliac.

[@phoenix5719]

But in the long term it's emotionally depleting when they realize that nobody liked them as a person because they didn't like somebody else as a person. They are young now. But as they grow old they will realise these things but by then it will be too late. I hope younger generation like ours who are currently in their teens or early 20s doesn't get influenced by these things and can realise their self worth.

[@Harms361]

I know that some people might do this-becoming a sugar baby-because they might need the money for something important like school or so, (this just shows a country’s inability to assist students-anyways) but majority of them (what I’ve seen in the above TikTok’s) is so-idek, so questionable. Like how do people think doing this is normal. It’s really not. Using another person for their earnings for your own benefit. (The sugar daddy/mommy should also have some sort of responsibility in this problem) Sometimes money and the materials you get BY YOURSELF feels cleaner. This whole ‘boom’ is just people running off the unnecessary love of materials-which won’t ever be eternal. They only please themselves for a short time span and will get bored and will never b satisfied and they will probably never get out the cycle. So sad. T_T

[@phoenix5719]

Sugar babies aren't using them for money. Sugar babies are providing attention and s*x to their sugar daddies. They are openly saying that. Sugar daddies aren't gullible, they are either middle aged or old rich men who just wants a living doll. Like come on why would an attractive, young woman would date an old man who has one foot in grave. For the money (sugar) obviously. It's a transactional relationship. This is a transactional relationship. But in the long term it's emotionally depleting when they realize that nobody liked them as a person because they didn't like somebody else as a person. They are young now. But as they grow old they will realise these things but by then it will be too late. I hope younger generation like ours who are currently in their teens or early 20s doesn't get influenced by these things and can realise their self worth.

[@Belle-zq3xc]

Idk if the TikTok ones are doing it for school, being a sugar baby publicly is gonna impact your potential career I think that's something they don't talk about to their young and impressionable audience

[@twinkincarnate]

A lot of people in my life bring up the idea of me getting a sugar daddy. Don't ask why, I'd say it's because I'm conventionally attractive, but I don't want to sound conceited and get attacked hahahaha. Anyway, I was honestly considering it until what you said in the last minute of the video, about being your own sugar daddy, and that shit hit me like a ton of bricks :') I think imma head down that route instead. Being a sugar baby could go south at any moment, and I do not fw instability 🥴🥴😵‍💫

[@Currentlyprocrastinating37]

I mean, one can tell they’re attractive but not think they’re the most beautiful person in the world; recognizing it shouldn’t be shamed. 🤷‍♀️

[@lavcndcr2309]

My mama said, marry a rich man And I said mama, I'm the rich man 💅

[@cetriyasArtnComicsChannel]

What got me was how little that money was 33k? Just get a basic job in sales, banking or real estate (the office jobs like notary, lender, ect) and you'll make than that with out risking human trafficking

[@blackkoneko9367]

Oh great another thing that is happening and teaching young girls that this is life by only showing the good things that are happening to be a sugar baby. Not everything has a bright side. These girls really don't know how to value themselves. Thank goodness I don't have Tick Tock and I don't think I ever will. Great video Zoe.

[@wondersophiee]

I think many girls have more than once said that "I just need a rich husband!!" thing, because to be honest, working can be too much, for everybody - if I was a guy I'd be saying I'd like to have a sugar... mama? That doesn't sound right 😂😂. But here's an idea: what if we just went a bit more natural and less materialistic, and work just enough to afford a comfortable living, and stopped living for work? I know this is a very (Southern) European thing to say, but if you don't care for the most expensive bag in the market, you don't have to spend thousands on it and therefore you can work less 🥲 just saying...

[@zz5601]

I agree. People care way too much about material objects.

[@4evermcrmylife]

Yes, consumer culture has grown a lot with social media

[@dreamingnight2461]

I would like to agree, BUT... The pace of life of modern person is arranged that it's often impossible not working for sake of work (it doesn't depend on where u live city or village). A high level of competition and upbringing in poor or mentally unhealthy families lead to the fact - people have mental health's problems. So they want to avoid poverty, depression, losses and so on. That's the reason why people suffer from "workaholic syndrome", other people find "sugar daddies", others lose the meaning of life... So just saying u can work less isn't the most reliable thing....

[@lucyhannah1227]

sugar mamas are totally a thing but rarer due to gender dynamics explained in this video. i would love to hear more from the perspective of people who live in that lifestyle cause i find that dynamic way more interesting

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

I guess sugar babies in general are materialistic and tend to have an eye for luxury items.. I mean yeah sometimes it's good but I have not going to sleep with an older dude just for clothes and luxury items lol..

[@cndbear97]

Need a part 2 about like safety and when it goes wrong!!!

[@IsabellaTrancy]

"My mom said to me: “one day, you should settle down and marry a rich man“. I said: mom, I am a rich man“. -CHER

[@moonzdrop9811]

It's sad, degrading. Always great videos Zoe🌼

[@ashleyquinn5019]

Tiktok is glossing over the cons that come with having a sugar daddy/mama. This could cost people psychological issues if their not careful and end up with abusive people. They could have problems with having healthy relationship with people and money afterwards.

[@zoolakes17]

3:35 At first I thought Zoe said "Women prefer fire SIGNS" instead of "fire sirens" and I was about to say heck yeah we do😂

[@tofu6274]

LMAO 😂

[@britneybij3997]

"Go find rich husband!" My tinder: **has 0 matches** Me:....I got no choice but to become the rich man 😭

[@molemohitsebela9206]

Don't cap

[@Solararisa]

There is something deeply disturbing about becoming dependent on a much older man than yourself, both financially and mentally. My mom always says become the rich man, instead of dreaming of marrying the rich man.

[@Michelle-fr1fw]

Having my own shit. Not allowing someone to take it away for the next new thing that’s in. This!!

[@alyssablunt7014]

"Why don't you become the rich man or woman ?" Well, maybe because some people just can't. Pay for education. Take the time to learn business or whatever when you have to work more than 12 hours a day isn't THAT easy. And even without all of that, some people just want to have a sugar daddy/mommy because they like it. That's their choice.

[@ClaireCraig]

not to mention you likely wouldn't become wealthy til around middle age. and then you spent your whole youth working...

[@deseraesahar8527]

Ok, but there are a million different ways to do it that don’t involve losing your self respect and risking abuse and trafficking.

[@nancywang1746]

its so true that it'll only feel like it's 'truly' yours if you worked for it yourself!

[@yan7655]

Honestly, I feel like as long you go into sugar babying with the right mentality (ie treat it like a job and that this job will have a short lifespan), you should be alright coming out of the other side when you've aged out

[@bo-oop2484]

Sou a única brasileira que assiste os vídeos dela ?? Essa mulher é tão sensata e necessária ✨

[@moonlighting612]

nossa hahah também amo os vídeo delas

[@yankads]

vejo todosss

[@michellevieiracordeiro]

Eu também gosto dela ☺️

[@keymepx4428]

Não

[@geovannaferreirat]

Eu tbm

[@Maritinylibrary]

Once again TikTok just shows the toxic nature of so many trends. Like the need for the effortless aesthetic really denotes a person's hard work. I might look like roadkill 6 out of the 7 days of the week, but I'm breaking my back to get my degree. Yet TikTok will tell me that if I'm not buying Gucci or having the "perfect healthy lifestyle" then I'm not good enough. Yet another reason that I left the app. Sugar babies and the stripper trend on TikTok really romanticize a life of wealth without considering the actual risks that come with sex work. Girlies, be your own rich man ✨

[@julesatthetable]

I’m not on tiktok so I didn’t know this was a trend. It’s quite upsetting and disturbing

[@terseduck]

6:01 his weak and doubtful "N- No...." tho😭😭😭🙏🙏 even the "No, not you" makes it even funnier😭😭😭

[@Itsfinelaa]

Some people call sugar babies "the overpriced prostitutes"...

[@Jess-ci8re]

Personally for me, I could hopefully afford a lavish lifestyle myself… but only when I am probably 40 years old and by then my youth is over and I would have spent 20 years of my adult life living in squalor and breaking my back hustling to achieve that. So it probably makes more sense for me to spend those 20 years working my butt off whilst also living luxury. So instead of the end of my life living in luxury I now have all of my life living in luxury. Because honestly life is too short not to do what makes you happy. So if you find someone who wants to spoil you and you are happy with that, go for it.

[@aubreyeveblush]

I look forward to your videos every week!

[@mckamy4711]

I wonder do these women think about their long term futures, and what they will do when their sugar daddy is no longer interested in investing in them (or gets old and dies). I think it would be a hard truth for many of them to face when they realise that their youth is temporary and struggle to value themselves in ways that don't resolve around appearance and material posessions

[@WorldofDaisyFlowers]

They need to go get a job or maybe two. It's one thing to genuinely fall in love with a person that has an age gap to you and there's another just running around and looking desperate for money. This is embarrassing

[@LisaMarieKaspar]

I feel like your videos elevated to another level and I'm totally here for it! ✨😁

[@jackyfeelsnumb6932]

The reality of the Sugar daddy/mommy situation is sad and the worst thing someone can do. I had the opportunity to see the reality of it by first hand; one member of my family, let's call her ammy, got herself a "rich" old guy when she was in her 20s I think. Her life is so miserable, she's currently in her mid 50s, the dude was married when she meet him (she knew this info and yes she accepted this and never once felt bad about it) and yes he had money but once she started to show signs of age treated her like thrash, even more badly than how he treated her, she got pregnant w/3 kids, the first one passed away because Ammy needed a C-section because of complications in labor BUT this dude told her she could not by any means get a C-section because it'll look ugly and thus will not be able to wear bikinis and low rise jeans... The baby needles to say was unable to survive, they did a forced C-section but it was too late. (Also he never once showed up in none of the 3 births because they were technically not his kids....) She turned into a bitter person and sadly is now a terrible woman, she turned jealous of everyone, she is constantly making people fight with each other and likes to break families apart, goes around making others feel miserable, is the staple of a Narcissist abuser, my mom says she was not like that when she was younger, but the dude abused her so much emotionally; she had to quit her job, she had to live a live in a low profile because he had a wife and no body could know about Ammy, if she saw the wife in the street she had to walk away and leave the place. I don't feel sorry for her because she knew what type of life she was putting herself into, she had every opportunity to leave the relationship but the money, the trips and expensive clothes were more important than her wellbeing and her happiness, she became a slave of the idea of status and a lavish life, when her beauty, her body, her youth started to fade away it was too late, she was stuck with the kids of this dude who did not love her, she ended in a lonely house, a "husband" whom would only stay with her one day a week and never sleep over in the house because he always slept with his wife in his beautiful home with his actual kids. The sugar baby life looks amazing, expensive clothes, cars, houses, trips, but in reality you're under the control of someone who feels nothing for you, someone who only sees your beauty, something that changes and goes away, is a dangerous game because you end with nothing, you end up depending of someone who can and will leave you because there's no attachment, you can't get attached to a pair of pretty eyes and curves. So yea, I hate that social media makes the sugar baby life looks so amazing because in reality it is not, it's a dangerous game, the only way to do things right is to work for yourself and be with someone who loves you for you, although the easy lavish life looks tempting you can have that, maybe not as early as a sugar baby would but you will, you can have a better and happier life.

[@kaattumalli486]

actually loving your all recent videos , not talking and adding clips in between is making the video quite interesting....

[@btsforever9771]

MY SELF WORTH COST MORE THEN ANYTHING!! THAT'S IT!

[@wolff14]

At this point, the sirens in the background is a given in your discussion videos😌

[@-Isa-4]

Her shirt is soo abstract and stylish

[@ahemi6011]

Personally is so embarazing the fact that our generation prefer marry someone just for money insted of working hard to get their own money.

[@poppycalliope]

You always have the most clever ideas for videos and such interesting topics actually ✨

[@lara_lara648]

I feel sorry for the guy who said no at 6:00

[@snehasyed]

Zoe I'm so thankful to you .... ur content really helps out a lot of people out there it brings confidence, self love ,positivity and wht not ... I'm really greatful we hv someone like you in the you tube community ❤ 😌😁

[@didee5219]

What is the Fair Value of Youth and Beauty?? 😂 loll you can't take the Accounting out of Zoe.

[@jaemin1027]

✨I love your videos thank u for motivating me I used to feel depressed I used to think I’m not pretty but ur videos help me a lot thank u for making videos ❤️

[@lena-trajkovic17]

Also, the very obvious stereotyping of eastern european accents that these women do, very problematic in my opinion..

[@wonliii3696]

i 100% agree with the sentiment, but i think it's a little simplistic (?) to say they could just buy expensive trips and designer clothes themselves. most people in the u.s. can barely afford college. and you would need a pretty good education to get a high enough paying job to afford such things on your own, unless they went into entertainment or something. on the other hand, i love your videos, and you're very inspiring

[@TheFuschiaDragonfly]

And then there's me who wouldn't buy a single thing if I had a sugar daddy/mommy and just save everything they give me

[@keymepx4428]

A girl in my country made witchcraft to become a successful Sugar Baby , and she needed too sacrifice her sibling,now her sibling have mental illness and she even pay for his rehabilitation,she made a post on Facebook asking for help cuz she's afraid of what she did and feels remorse for her behavior, she said that the spell worked but she needs to do a lot of drugs to be able to have sex with those man and bare with the fact she sacrificed her sibling for that kind of thing , the spell she did consist of became more attractive than other sugar babies so the daddies always give her money and pick her PS:.I know you guys may not believe but here in Africa this type of things happen a lot ! I'm Mozambican and witchcraft it's very real here

[@amokay746]

African witchcraft is no joke. GOD save them all.

[@liv-rp7qm]

I always wanted a man who would pay my bills, I wanted an easy life, study what I want without worrying about money but when I had the opportunity with an old man, I couldn't 😂 have to be with a man for that reason, it made me feel like I was trapped, as if he owned me, so I chose not to be with him and feel free, silly me maybe

[@balqisbatrisyia5158]

the siren should become zoe's official bgm by now

[@mercyfulfate666]

The girls protesting and the blonde with a russian accent are trolling, they are friends with Blair Wallnuts and always joke about being sugar babies, but it's only humour. But yeah they exist a lot. I could never, I understand sometimes, when you know you would never make it into life because of many factors, but you become a pet in a rich guy's hands. It can be nice but if the guy is a bad person...oh well.

[@lilymolly96]

Saving all these topics to pick the one I’m going to write my masters thesis on lol 😆

[@mariahwisdom-peters6309]

I love that girl, she's hilarious!

[@Nomevtp]

Zoe is the best advisor.. I love you 💗 Edit:- Lots of love from India

[@GYX2021]

“Lightly, caressingly, Marie Antoinette picked up the crown as a gift. She was still too young to know that life never gives anything for nothing, and that a price is always exacted for what fate bestows. She did not think she would have to pay a price.- Zweig

[@passingthrough6433]

Its basically instant gratification while when you work on yourself its delayed gratification... not saying sugar babies arent working hard to make themselves attractive coz i think some do or face other issues.... just, you know what i mean

[@hectorsebastianjimenezjime5316]

3:27 Here you can clearly notice that she is Fitness 😆💖

[@inquisitivepsyche7762]

Can we just appreciate the fact that Zoe researches a lot like a lot to make us understand that particular self worth idea, she is * The best Influencer * I love you so much Zoe and I appreciate your efforts from the core❤😘😘😊❤

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

4:29 "How my sugar daddy apologizes after his wife called my phone and I had to pretend I was his daughter's teacher" There's so many wrong things in this

[@cherrybean5796]

no judgements and good for them, i mean ITS MONEY, DUH! BUT I'd rather die penniless than to be called somebody's 'sugar baby'💀 i don't want my whole personality to just be somebody's love/wife/ or whatever they call it

[@meetaksharamishra3088]

Self worth and respect is everything ⭐👏

[@ejo663]

these men could be doing illegitimate/immoral things to sustain their wealth but these girls could care less because of “the chanel or Birkin”. Get a job girl.

[@elagabre]

i love the vídeo, but the end is not realistic, most of us can't and will never have the money to buy the things those girls get from their SD, it's really hard to get to the level were you are able to have this stuff without being in debt (unfortunately) and i say that as a girl who works since 16, saves money and live by herself

[@annmariyajose305]

Zeo keep fighting ✨✨

[@Alaa_edits]

Hey! I don't normally comment on these types of video but WOW! YOU AMAZE ME EVERYTIME! how can you be so convincing in such a soothing voice?! Love your work.

[@ivysunflowers4564]

The more i do psychological research on this topic , the more i realize that being poor is a trauma and one of many trauma responses it comes with is wealth accumulation disorder which most likely leads to a form of sugar babysm , nothing is as easy as "just buying your own things" .This is such a complex mentality . So whilst i agree on you on how morally incorrect it is to base your worth on a man's wallet , i also understand the trauma that comes with not having enough to be enough.

[@chanswall6265]

I love how Zoe makes her research and always talk about important stuffs

[@mirren5839]

you're so inspiring and funny lol

[@yxumi]

Be your own financial support never rely on somebody financially .♀️💕 Edit: don't let your looks determine your self worth it ain't gonna stay think of youself as a normal individual with goals/dreams.

[@jessicaribeiro8928]

I thought people were joking about sugar daddies but I guess they were not 🤣

[@lurker20]

Some people are saying this is a feminist choice when it's not.It's disgusting.

[@sammyallvord4668]

I just want them to pay for my college

[@CDOG14515]

On a lighter note, that dude at 6:00 had me rolling 🤣

[@aflowercloud]

Bro you are like an older sister to me I am grateful for u:)

[@AnkitaSharma-ho8oc]

Congrats for 555k subscribers!! ❤ Also girl thank you for creating such top notch content! Thank you for explaining how toxic the world is and you should make a right choice !

[@spicyfer]

I WAS WAITING FOR THIS ONE, TURN IT UP

[@kamoola503]

To have a sugar daddy/mommy is a personal choice I agree with that but I still think that these people don’t have enough dignity and I am very stunned of how many people living in this world with literally zero dignity and sometimes in minus, as a person who is working very hard to have a fortune in future (yes I am looking forward to be filthy rich) I can’t stand those people but that doesn’t mean I’ll harm them but I would rather them to work hard on themselves and to develop their mind and stop treating themselves as an object