The switch - start to finish

People have asked how we accomplish the switch twice a week. This covers the switch from arrival to exit and captures my dad‘s reaction to moving from one sons house to the other.

[@Ms_Mary69]

Mark walks like grandpa, just noticed that❤️

[@sandrabunyan4235]

Mark walks and looks like his dad the most lmo even the softer voice like grandpa

[@toddboden972]

Me too lol

[@tanyamj39]

She does

[@barbaraweekley6152]

He walks just like dad

[@nkyimkyim8734]

And mark sounds like him too!

[@chellagirl3664]

Even if he is confused at times, he sure isn't confused about the love for his kids. He is so sweet!

[@glom1732]

Yes indeed, it shines out with his interaction with his kids

[@trudyramgren8817]

That's for sure!!! ❤

[@Jay-Leigh]

Myself and brother did the exact same thing for our mum. Did it for 20 years. She was diagnosed with dementia in the last 10 years but we both took turns in her care it really helped. She passed aged 92, four years ago now. You and Mark are doing a great job Dan. 🙏🏻👍🏻

[@user-vo5ox8ef5g]

I think we've all been there.

[@user-gh4vu2kq6e]

I like how the two brothers take care of their dad. I'm fascinated sometimes when grandpa can't remember his age.

[@susanotim792]

👏👏👏👏

[@trini_baddie5553]

The fact he can walk without a walker or a cane is a blessing I love your videos of your dad it really warms my heart

[@bettyboop4263]

I love how diplomatic Ed is. He wouldn't commit to the favorite kid question😃

[@cbass2755]

He never does..bless his heart ❤

[@danieloliver4558]

🤣

[@freedomring757]

I interpreted it as he couldn’t remember their names.

[@161sun]

Ed is brilliant. He is very respectful with his dad. I love it ❤

[@tg5951]

Never😂❤

[@caribbeanqueen7406]

You and Mark are role models for how adult children should treat their parents. Every single adult child should strive to be just like you guys. Thank you so much for your endurance and unconditional love. It’s heartwarming.

[@justjane805]

I completely agree. I also think that Dr Ed is a great role model of how to be an old parent. It's my goal to be as gracious as he is if I'm ever dependent on my adult kids.

[@venicerookwood8372]

​@@justjane805 that part on how to be an old parent

[@JohnnieV]

Unfortunately it is almost impossible for many 35-50 year olds to take a parent in

[@charmedone8able]

You're exactly right. I see so many keyboard warriors criticizing but how are they with their parents? Do any of them have an elderly one with some type of illness? And how many don't even try but stick them into a facility? Both Dan and Mark should be poster people on how to take care of the elderly. I look up to them ❤

[@chanelname49382]

Not every parent deserve it tbh

[@sectoristo8920]

Dan and his siblings are good example of a loving and caring children...

[@patriciap9307]

As a healthcare worker, (RN for 23 years and still going), I adore y’all for your care of your father. That calm demeanor that yall exude makes this so much easier for him, and he is just happy. Y’all are excellent caregivers and deserve applause! ❤

[@user-jv9uv6pu3w]

❤

[@elvapaco4903]

El hijo es muy simpatico y SE Mira muy Buena persona

[@mynamestes]

One thing that Grandpa will never forget... his great love for his children. And one thing I will never forget in these videos...Dan's and Mark's love for their father. You guys are a blessing.

[@josephinamokoena6865]

Ed he will Rest in peace the day God call him l wish my Children can look after me like Dan and Mark 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@lisabutter6181]

reminds me of my Dad

[@clarawella2636]

Upsolutely

[@catherinecage9244]

I love watching these videos. Dementia is hard on everyone! I also noticed that Mark walks like his dad❤

[@ednabagnes284]

You guys are so kind to your Dad, God bless you all!!!

[@adadockery2404]

I am a stage 4 cancer patient and that's tumbled across you guys some weeks ago. I cannot stop watching, I just love love the family dynamic. How you take care of your dad. We also share a responsibilities taking care of my mom and her last days. It's a job but God pulled us through it. You have all these memories to look back on. Love you all. Keep up the good work. Godspeed!

[@annsowers4591]

Ada, prayer for you. May God's love shine upon you.

[@dsalnorcal1434]

I hope you beat it. Thanks for the words.

[@gardengirl7446]

❤ here's a prayer for your comfort joy and healing ❤

[@medaz01moumni84]

Prompt rétablissement

[@suzannewoodgate4661]

xo

[@cathedral94]

He’s truly blessed to have sons like you and Mark

[@Bunny-ur8fd]

Love that he gets walking in and is so active. That’s so important with this disease. You guys are wonderful with your dad.

[@michellebyrd9017]

I just love how Dan tries to slip in that favorite kid business, but Grandpa is not having any of it reply. All of my kids are my favorite" 😂😂😂

[@nana_mcstuffing5030]

I nursed both my parents to the end with dementia. 20 years in all. I had amazing support from my hubby & daughter. I gave up my career to be a full time carer to my dad. He died 3 years ago my mum died 11 years ago, best decision I ever made was being their carer. Your dad reminds me so much of my own dad, same questions etc especially my dad couldn’t believe he was 91. Keep doing what your doing, it’s fabulous 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@dsalnorcal1434]

Thank you for sharing your story.

[@prewgeeq7416]

Wow you are a blessing

[@user-cb8bb4qr2r]

Love how much of a family man grandpa is, never choosing a favourite, a real hero 👍🏽

[@mayn-s.5535]

This is such a great example of the whole family coming together to take care of their elderly father. God bless you all! Love how the umbrella lined up perfectly with Grandpa’s head looking like he was wearing a hat 😂 so adorable 🥰

[@comfynlux5695]

it’s a delicate balance when the child becomes the parent. Your dad is so very well taken care of. I loved when Mark went into protection mode

[@natalielawrence8809]

When Dan said "it's good to have you back Dad" - Dad's whole face automatically relaxed and became so relieved and childlike happy. Such a precious soul. I love him so much. It was really nice to get to see Mark too 🙏

[@ernestinebatts1464]

DAN, YOU'RE ONE IN A MILLION... YOU HAVE THE LOVE AND PATIENCE OF JOB...A LOT OF LOVE FOR YOUR DAD AND BROTHERS...😊😊

[@snst4929]

Grandpa he loves car 😂😂😂💖💖💖

[@natalielawrence8809]

@@snst4929 LOL.. he is definitely a car man 😅

[@olgaavelino2789]

I would love to see how dad is when he spends days with mark just saying. Thank you for your love and patience to dada Dan. You are so amazing...God has given you a gift of patience un ending. Thank God...

[@ZeeAdventures15]

❤

[@tammyetheridge8240]

Dad loves being with Dan ❤ thanks so much Dan for making your Dad’s days so precious while being so kind to him!!! ❤❤❤

[@louise8752]

Honestly Dan, you and your family are remarkable. You're undertaking so much for your father and just re-paying him for all he's done. Treasure the time. It's so valuable as I'm sure you fully know. Truly impressed and I know it's not easy. This is the power of love pushing you forward.

[@Ms_Mary69]

He’s always so sweet, glad to see Dan, and then comes the questions…. You guys just warm my heart everyday❤️

[@dsalnorcal1434]

❤️

[@saraschneider6781]

​@@dsalnorcal1434 I don't know how much Mark likes the camera but good to put a face with a name at least. Maybe one day we'll see grandma. Gotta see this gorgeous smart woman grandpa is always taking about.😂 But if not, that's fine too.

[@michaelpulisic9873]

​@@saraschneider6781he don't seem to happy

[@Pozorrogo]

@@michaelpulisic9873 Regardless of what Mark feels about being on camera now -- he will eventually look back at all these videos of his dad and him with great fondness. I wish I had even one video with my dad, they will have a whole archive.

[@deniseharris4376]

It’s not an easy job but you’ll never regret the wonderful care you gave Dad. The patience, love, respect and dignity you give your dad is priceless

[@bonniekerr6890]

Thank you for sharing your awesome Dad with the rest of the world. My Dad passed away many many years ago when I was in my 20’s & I love seeing the love y’all have for each other. Thank you for taking such good care of Grandpa. We love him❣️

[@suecharnock9369]

thank you - to all your family. Your patience in caring for your father is amazing and an example to us all. I have just helped nurse my 56 yo brother on his journey through cancer. He passed three days before his 57th birthday. Seeing you all interact and deal with your dad makes me realise that we are never alone in our struggles with our families, but with love we get by.

[@sharonporter8027]

You handle your dad so good. You don’t add to his confusion. You never seam to tire of telling him the things that reassure him.

[@royalsfandan]

Thank you for sharing your dad with us, he’s such a wonderful man.

[@Caroline_Homeschooler]

Your Dad is a gem, when asked about his favorite kid he is ever the diplomat and says, “All my kids!”with a smile. This video made me smile from ear to ear! ♥️

[@JustasIam143]

Dan’s is the most caring son, He got Ed grandpa’s personality 😊 Mark is very supportive and cooperative, awesome siblings, father and sons bond, you make your father very proud ❤

[@amyvassel4879]

Mark is his dad’s child to the T!! Voice, walk, gentle demeanor. Wow! It’s so visible in this clip…

[@kathyhuff8935]

I was thinking the Exact same thing !!

[@lydiaweir4259]

Definitely!!

[@Clearglass246]

I just love how you all give him a “normal as can be” life. Glad to see you don’t keep him in pajamas laying in bed all day. ❤

[@nancyowens9076]

Your dad's such a precious soul! You guys are awesome sons!!! Thank you for protecting and taking care of him!!❤ Marvelous sons! That tells me he was and is an awesome father❤

[@tariraimandoreba5753]

Mark is a carbon copy of Grandad❤😂 the gait, the looks everything. Bless you all for preserving your dad's dignity. Can't fool him...i haven't ordered, i wasn't here yet😂

[@mddell58]

I noticed that Mark walks exactly like dad. Mark also sounds just like dad. Wishing y'all a beautiful week. 🌄

[@chrisragona3945]

Dan you look like your Dad. But Mark is definitely his Father’s Son.

[@Cool12_782]

Seeing him fills with laughter and the need to take care of the elderly, its lovely

[@Novemberrain111]

I noticed Mark walks like grandpa. Thanks for being great son’s❤

[@maryhollins5876]

Mark is the mini me of his dad ,he walks and sounds like him,💕

[@ArmyForTheAnimals]

I didn't know Mark has a tortoise! I'm a huge turtle lover. I have a Russian tortoise. Dan, do you think Mark would sign a release form allowing his tortoise to be on camera? LOL 😝🐢 Lots of love to you all! ❤️

[@dsalnorcal1434]

😂

[@taj8231]

"They're all my favorite kids." This is a wise soul. 😊

[@nixwestlake9196]

He’s so patient …everyone should have dad like that ❤

[@rowenaacain936]

i love when he says they're all my favorite...what a great dad...God bless all

[@pamela-gw7xo]

Bless his heart!! Always smiling inspite of his confusion! Such a loving father. Always looking out for his kids!! Thank you Dan for taking such good care of your Dad. ❤❤❤❤

[@robertoibale7756]

I can’t help but love your Dad. I can see what a good man he is and was. And Dan, you and Mark are wonderful sons who look after your Dad well. -Ava 💕

[@diza1926]

I love how patient you all are with your dad. Dementia is tough to work through. But you guys handle it like pros.❤❤❤

[@kerryadams9100]

Every day is a challenge and answering the same questions constantly can be frustrating. But you miss it so much when it's gone.

[@Pozorrogo]

I think Dr. Ed is just the living embodiment of the phrase "He's a little confused, but he's got the spirit!"

[@rashidatajibola189]

Dan is so patient…it’s amazing! He is genuinely happy to have dad back. I guess with each kid taking turns it help. I love watching this.

[@dawn4999]

He’s so blessed to have his family love him and take care of him. You guys are great for taking care and honoring your dad the way that you do! God Bless you! ❤

[@nosaoyemade9618]

Thank God he can walk and exercise, there’s no assisted living facility that can ever give him the quality of life you’re giving your dad. You are helping to prolong his life. Great job👍🏾. God bless you and your family for honoring your dad, he loves his family and cares about the wellbeing of all of you.

[@yvonnekidd8835]

Still can't believe how well 🎉you guy's are taking care of you're father. Such a joy ☘

[@sonjasimone8244]

Reset, redirect, and you did AMAZING! he's not angry at the confusion and CONTENT. a beautiful American family❤

[@fiona7591]

Anyone else addicted to these videos? I binge watch cuz I love this family

[@stephaniecomeau4880]

My grandpa had Alzheimer’s and sometimes when I watch y’all I cry but at the same time that I’m crying I have a smile on my face because he’s just the cutest, sweetest little man❤God Bless y’all always and forever!

[@shelbylou02]

Grampa's face when he sees Dan!! It speaks more volume than any words he may forget. ❤❤

[@Starlababy]

Your dad is such a sweet old man. Im glad you guys take such good care of him.

[@rachaelpowell7354]

So glad for Grandpa . Always glad to see Grandpa and here him laugh it makes my Days . Love From Illinois 😊😊😊

[@scarletredmagic6724]

The Three Amigos roo cute 🥰

[@kennethparker6590]

I’m watching for money every time I walk thru a parking lot too. 😂 Love you guys

[@AthenaKama]

Lmao me too, since I was like 5 years old 😂😂 can't help it

[@susananacolarara8516]

Love your channel especially when your lovely wife respectfully treat her dad in law...❤❤❤

[@mbwell]

You are a blessed man. Your family instilled a tremendous amount of character in your soul.

[@comfortzone5618]

Love Grampa!! He is so sweet. “Having lunch with my kids” “ they are all my favourite”. ❤

[@gravity3268]

I love to see how much your dad still loves his boys, my dad just passed this month, with no memory loss thankfully, but your story still gives me comfort. I've been a fan for months, keep taking care of Grandpa ❤

[@Emkips]

I think some siblings should emulate how Dan and Mark are doing for their Dad.may God bless this family. Live long grandfar❤❤

[@EvaLaDell]

Dad is so cute. I cannot get enough of these videos. I am learning a lot too.

[@BelindaShanle]

He's such a great Dad and has raised great sons

[@foamrob6577]

He loves you guys....and his keys😅

[@121006mike]

You guys have the utmost respect for your dad. And the patient of a saint. God bless your family.

[@iluv2create576]

I love how the discussion is ALWAYS about the keys!!! So cute!!!❤❤❤

[@tinaxxxx2513]

Love to see Granpa laugh 😊

[@lorisheheen2198]

What wonderful son's Grandpa Ed has! Both you & Mark are amazing. You both have inherited many of the wonderful qualities your Dad has. God Bless. 🙏 ❤❤❤😊

[@dorothyhatcher4714]

I love you sons for what you two are doing for your dad. As a younger person I used to visit nursing homes. Wow what a difference it makes to keep loved ones home. Godwill bless You and Mark Richly for the love you have for your father. ( not that younger person now I’m 76 but healthy and independent. Blessed)

[@karotao6498]

I miss my dad😢😢.! Llegar a viejos con papá y mamá vivos es una bendición. Que bellos todos. Disfrutan a su papi😂❤❤❤

[@bigjohnconnect]

I overheard a conversation between my mom and her friend when i was 10 about what to do with my 84 year old grandad who just had a major stroke. Mom’s friend said you could put him in a nursing home. My mom said in return, No, we’re gonna take care of him. He provided and gave us a roof over our heads right up till my sisters and I moved out of the house to start our own families. at least we can do is take turns caring for him. My mom is in her mid 70s now showing early signs of dementia. So guess what my siblings and I are gonna do when she can’t take care of herself? ❤

[@JaimeReiter]

I’m glad your dad has great care… I have mental health issues and autism so I’m in 24 hr care and I love my staff who care for me and I’m glad to see that your dad is receiving great care from his sons and family cause when you need care it is great when you have good caregivers ❤I love watching these videos 😊

[@dlmsarge8329]

Wishing the best for you! To be cared for and to care for another are the true treasures of our existence!

[@sheilathomas8826]

All are his favorite kids. Wise man!!!

[@PlainAndy]

Thank you for sharing your dad with us! Just makes my heart full with love watching your stories and compassion! ❤

[@jonicko4517]

I absolutely love your dad. Having been a nurse for 24 years and mostly Dementia, I am off brain surgery and I miss my patients, I love them like my own. I just love you and your brother for doing this....sending so much love,lovingly Johanna from Canada ❤

[@whatever9480]

I wonder if it's better to be in gramps shoes and be oblivious to life than to actually have to live in this crazy world. He did a great job with you guys and that is his greatest accomplishment.

[@remediosreboja1837]

You made my day, Dan and Dad Ed! You both look good and happy.

[@marthareyes4024]

It cracked me up when Dan says 'Hes looking for money on the ground" cause Ive done that from time to time also. In fact for a few years my sister, daughter and I did a contest to see who could find the most money on the ground in public. When we'd find anything, we'd put it in a glass jar for a whole year, then at the end of the year, count it up to see which one of us had the most. It's amazing how many people will pass up a penny or pennies on the ground, but I was always told it takes a penny to make a million! I think part of Ed living so long is his GREAT sense of humor and happiness. He chuckles so often and it's so catching and refreshing!

[@nicolepeters6719]

Getting my daily dose of Doctor Ed/Grandpa. You guys are amazing under challenging circumstances. God bless you Daniel, Mark and Danielle. ❤

[@franny5295]

You know, that was really slick. Y'all organizing the switch around lunch. I'm sure that helps. He may not consciously remember but our bodies store memories. And that sense of familiarity is comforting. Like the smell of construction paper and paste. I bet you don't consciously remember them but if you smelled it you'd go back to grade school.

[@dsalnorcal1434]

You are absolutely correct. Dad may not consciously remember where anything is but still manage to retrieve and pour his cereal and milk all by himself. Same in the shower and many routine daily activities.

[@rozzettee8]

Love that you are documenting this. It's difficult to understand our parents as they get older.

[@christinepalmeri55]

I love these videos! What a wonderful father he is even when he’s losing control of his life. You are lucky to have him.

[@carolinestreeter975]

He’s such a lovely man so polite x

[@stevenrainwater8826]

He didn't even tell the lady thanks when she brought him his burrito.

[@sarahjane8949]

@@stevenrainwater8826 I take it you meant he did say thank you when she put his burrito down 👍

[@carolcanny4778]

Hello Dan, I was a nurse back in the 1980s and worked in a lock facility in Burbank California where there were many people with Alzheimer’s and just as you did today and you do many times out of love with your beautiful kind hearted lovely dad sometimes you have to go with the flow and set their mind at ease and not try and convince them of the realities of what is. Love your family 💖🙏🥰

[@KathleenMDaly-jc6hy]

When Dan said “Glad to have you back” Dr. Ed’s face light up.

[@robertahubert9155]

So much love for his sons. They have to be the apple of his eye.❤

[@tracygohrick]

I just love how you have worked it out to take care of your dad. Thank you for sharing part of your life with us.

[@shanemoran8260]

Beautiful such a beautiful family❤❤❤a credit to us all lots off love from Dublin Ireland🇮🇪

[@Bonitadorsey1970]

Hey I am from Dublin Georgia ❤❤

[@shanemoran8260]

@@Bonitadorsey1970 oh great how are you❤️🇮🇪

[@pattywarner]

I can’t believe how much I enjoy watching these! I hope gramps lives to be 120! He’s so cute! You should just give him fake keys and tell him your car is his but he can’t drive it.? Live is strange because I have fake keys for my 18 month old grandson and he thinks my car is his! He’s smart he’s starting to put 2and 2 together!❤️

[@bonniejulien8505]

Dan I love the patience and conversations you have with your dad

[@psalm6273]

Awe so sweet. I love how you and Mark have lunch with your dad.... a great way to transition....you never stop worrying about your kids no matter what age. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@reginacarr1545]

I really love the stance you have taken on Advance Dementia with your dad! I know its not easy for you guys but with all the constant reminding but you definitely show us that it can be done with love and compassion. Thank you for sharing such a very private part of your lives with us! All of you guys rock!

[@sarahsaydee7814]

Thank you so much Mark and Dan for your patience and time for taking care of your father. Not only because of the father sons relationship but because of the long life lesson you and your family are teaching people around the world, God's blessings.

[@emelitagorospe8567]

I admire the way you , dan, and your siblings are looking after your dad...put tears on my eyes 😢..GOD bless you and the rest of the family 🙏

[@CindyYr11]

Grandpa can walk quite a distance to get to your car. Those little legs can really go! Your a wonderful family! Mrs. S, I truly believe you can be my new bestie. I lost my parents by 26 so I can connect.

[@nuran2117]

That is really amazing to see, how Ed love his Kids so much. My heart is melting when I see, how Ed worry about Mark or Dan. ❤❤❤Father's love

[@Mdes7777]

No matter what ever his condition may be, he never never has a favorite child. He alwaya always always says ALL HIS kids are smart and his favorites. Wot an awesome father. Amazing. A legend. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Nicolesorkin]

Love watching your videos. Your dad is doing really well. You are helping your dad have a long, happy life with being with his loved ones. I feel that is so important.