Women want a man that isn’t gonna be goofy, can turn them on sexually, can have a good convo and be on their purpose
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
It isn't deeper than that.
@eteold5 жыл бұрын
If most women told the truth we wouldn't be here. Nice video.
@GLERiko5 жыл бұрын
Exposing the Emperor facts ❗️😭😭😭
@coryedwardsdayl13755 жыл бұрын
Truth
@Aires_Nhambi5 жыл бұрын
Amen brother.
@38Fanda5 жыл бұрын
then there wouldnt be any providers would there
@bradmiller77418 ай бұрын
& men also need to be able to handle the .. truth, you’ll be surprised how many men can’t handle the truth 💯 we have to take accountability as will !!!
@MegaPsycho845 жыл бұрын
If a man fails to see his flaws (even his lack of charisma) and fails to invest into his own unique sexiness, then a woman will fail to invest into it as well. The body game, the mental game, the intellectual game, and timing is everything.
@petroglyph795 жыл бұрын
Tales from the darkside
@meanest_niceguy4 жыл бұрын
That screen name is hilarious (All up in the videos)! 😂 Real advice, nonetheless! ✊🏾
@sniper11n.d.345 жыл бұрын
Let women relax and feel comfortable around you. When you have that on point it's all good.
@knightyknight53995 жыл бұрын
Women wants a man that looks fit...Most woman love tall fit guys, if a man has a big gut or over weight thats a BIG turn off...Women know what they want ...
@swdelamentay4802 Жыл бұрын
Women say in public that muscles don't matter but her primal nature says other wise. Body game makes her quiver.
@BIZ-WIZ5 жыл бұрын
Yeah that goes back to the number one reason why your woman won’t leave you around her best friend. ALL WOMEN know that they’re wired to look for sexual satisfaction even if it means violating the so called “sisterhood “ LOL!
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Women do that all the time but jump on men for cheating.
@leoscarpoli1nonly5 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills Facts. Everytime I was around anyone of exes friends they would blatantly send passive sexual hints (like opening their legs in front of me in a skirt, on "accident") and all of my exes would blame me for that shit.
@DeshaunExitRealty5 жыл бұрын
I'll leave my husband with any dime. That's the difference between grown folks and those in the making. Good love has an accumulative effect. My man is thinking about me even when I'm not around and vice-a-versa. We know that the fantasy never even comes close to the real thing. :)
@Yay-hovah5 жыл бұрын
Yemaya Ra He’s the exception.
@keirons50985 жыл бұрын
@@leoscarpoli1nonly bro my ex's friends did the same thing and were very friendly and touchy and twerking in front of me and all that. she was letting me know hey this ass is here if you want it
@karimbennett56515 жыл бұрын
Being tall, muscular, and athletic is an advantage for men, but you must also have impeccable hygiene and a mouth that works as well (and deep) as your hands and hips! Black women these days want it all.
@deejones46825 жыл бұрын
You know it!!!
@swdelamentay4802 Жыл бұрын
Other ethnicity of women want it as well.
@BrainwavezzAdviceTopicsLLC5 жыл бұрын
Y-E-S! Side note: Dudes be hating on your "Hello Ladies" channel.....anytime as a man if we do anything for women, we automatically get bashed yet we are the ones in there with all the ladies lol
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@atrainay5 жыл бұрын
The gender divide is real. There are dudes in MGTOW that really, really hate women. Just like crazy feminists hating on men. Thank goodness at least that there are folks that do want unity between the sexes.
@ristobenjie5 жыл бұрын
Which is why I'm going to subscribe
@chestnutbrown93405 жыл бұрын
True and I thank the two of you!
@MusaDays8085 жыл бұрын
@@atrainay Lol, True. But Whose Fault Is It?
@earthsign285 жыл бұрын
Working on your sex appeal as a man is an art. Most of it is non-verbal
@mauricejackson94955 жыл бұрын
Woman are no different from men in that aspect. A woman wants a sexy man just as much as men want beautiful women 7 or higher! Just the way it is
@MeleķMiķaělShelomoh5 жыл бұрын
You always come with solid truth in the game. I’ve been watching your drops for a while now I haven’t seen one video that’s shaky, all solid concepts and philosophies, Respect Unc ✊🏾
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Thank you brotha.
@jeremiahgiles35935 жыл бұрын
This channel needs more subs. These dudes NEED this information
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
I just want the wolves.
@FlowPaigeRyan5 жыл бұрын
You knocked me off my square with that wall comment while I’m driving 😂😂😂 however I concur with this whole podcast. Facts on facts on facts.
@hermanbooger54315 жыл бұрын
Conversation and listening will get you farther than you think fam thanks for the lesson Rom✊
@Mcdowells5 жыл бұрын
spot on!
@r011ing_thunder65 жыл бұрын
I
@gsmusic20095 жыл бұрын
A woman told me a long time ago! Women know if they wanna and gonna fuck you when they meet you etc.!!If you mess that up than that's on you!! I asked another female that and she said simply (pretty Much! correct) So that stuck with me!! made me realize not to overthink when opportunity exists.
@RobsterCWell5 жыл бұрын
Men must unleash that lovers side.
@deejones46825 жыл бұрын
Robster, yes indeed......those are the best men, in terms of being sexual
@Slender-sj6gh5 жыл бұрын
Your right that’s why i don’t choose women I let them choose me
@sniper11n.d.345 жыл бұрын
I do agree. That's being on point.
@banderas20004 жыл бұрын
i started to adopt that mindset. and it works
@alexanderrodriguez84205 жыл бұрын
Man been hitting the gym and checking my mental health like you said tryna burn this fat off me and gain strength.
@KUROSHURA5 жыл бұрын
That’s game right there. That’s the Law of the Lion. The lions fight for the rite to mate. But the Lionesses CHOOSE who they want to mate with. Keep your testosterone up and be intelligent with your craft. Keep your POWER up.
@swats2145 жыл бұрын
Rom 100% agree. IMO, black females place more emphasis on looks in comparison to women from other cultures. Thus their poor mating choices. From my past experiences, Asian women place more value on character than looks. White females will ultimately choose better mating partners as well.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Well sexable goes beyond a mans facial features. If he is ugly but has a big print they will consider him sexable.
@az09638185 жыл бұрын
@SWATS 214 Okay, the Asian woman thing has been debunked.
@tinalove99113 жыл бұрын
This is beyond looks. Sexable- The ability to sexually arouse.. Men arent sexually arousing. It means men cant get pussy wet.
@americanbrazilian5 жыл бұрын
Love your common sense approach to relationships!! Always an EPIC post !! ✊🏿
@DeshaunExitRealty5 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day the premise of your video is correct. I see my husband as a f*ckable bear. IMO sex appeal falls in the same category as personal hygiene, intelligence and sensitivity. The panties aren't poppin' if you're lacking, but those things alone will not get you past GO. As you always say, Uncle Rom, it's the total pkg. Thankfully, sexual magnetism can be developed, refined or increased by -getting in shape; fine tuning one's diet; mastering layering essential oils; cleansing herbal baths; sexual energetic exercises. Just keep in mind that after you do all of this, the single most important factor is gonna be how you feel about yourself.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Well said sister. You went deep though. There are cats out here with hygiene issues trying to get women.
@hermesalonso39682 жыл бұрын
There's nothing better than a woman's point of view 🤔
@felixperalta5154 Жыл бұрын
Yes clensingnbaths is part of the process, tks for mentioning that.
@rashb39945 жыл бұрын
This is profound in terms of how you go into how sex appeal is even a factor even in an interview, which translates to any one on one situation. So many advisors have been completely avoiding the "sexable" angle, going into more pscyhology that I forgot about it honestly. That is good too, but maybe this is why my game has slipped ever since I stopped focusing on sex appeal the last two years. Great stuff sensei and appreciated! This is donate worthy for how you broke this down. January is a tough month though. I've given before so please trust my IOU. Thx!
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
You good fam.
@C.Douglas7775 жыл бұрын
SIMPLE & PLAIN.. RESPECT ROM!
@StephIsColdG5 жыл бұрын
Great video uncle rom
@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp5 жыл бұрын
You hear that Irene Yvette? lol! Shout out to Alan Roger Currie.
@supersaturn9565 жыл бұрын
Great video my brother. Whenever women wanted to go all the way with me, it did not take going out on more than one date or any date for that matter. Direct game weeds out the attention whores/time wasters. A lot of good guys including myself have been burnt out or have been complaining, because we would foolishly take women out on several dates, who were not trying to have sex and just wanted attention or even to control the man and take his kindness for weakness. I suggest to build sexual tension and try to have all of your dates at night time, if you even want to go out on dates. Daytime dates for whatever reason just don't give off that same aura.
@amasion28825 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why men feel bitter or contemptuous towards women for desiring desirable men. ESPECIALLY in relationships or “situationships” based primarily or exclusively on sex. Everyone likes eye candy. Also important: sex appeal is VERY different from attractiveness. Some people radiate strong sexual magnetism without being conventionally attractive, successful, etc. Everyone’s idea of “sexy” is different. For me, a man’s scent is a dealbreaker. A lot of men have stale, unhealthy body odor related to age, poor diet, smoking, alcoholism or drug use. No, deodorants and cologne don’t cover it up.
@jasonfolsom77365 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah bud you hit it right on the head with what ur sayin.Especially about lettin a woman talk and just listen cause thats what they want is for u to ask the smallest question like how was ur day.And believe me she will tell all about it and then some.Cool Channel bud.
@nicolee49385 жыл бұрын
Even though I had a steady rotation.. At the beginning of 2018 I hit the gym, trimmed down from 173 to 152.. five pounds off my goal of 148.. I've peeped out the second looks ladies gave when I where out in a tank top.. To sum it up that's probably the reason I got 2 on the way & possibly a 3rd
@gigijones16305 жыл бұрын
Love that you said the beast roam free. The more you talk the more I listen. You constantly spit out truth. Coming from a female aspect. Love the directness.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@jeremiahgiles35935 жыл бұрын
Better start hitting them weights and learn to have a conversation with a female. Work on grooming as well
@twinrivers62005 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Bwoods6125 жыл бұрын
That's It
@craigsblock71795 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Giles Straight facts
@swpdisciple5 жыл бұрын
You could argue that women’s threshold for “sexable” has a higher floor than men’s floor. I think men and women are (mostly) ships passing in the night. It’s not 50/50 though. As a guy that’s in the 7 bracket looks wise myself with a decent career, home, belief system etc...but it’s tough to pull par. Most 7 level women are looking for great looking guys that’re really just gonna use them for target practice on a slow night. Ah, humans...
@Train19005 жыл бұрын
Sexability (animalistic, self-indulgent, temporary) versus Companionship (human, intelligent, spiritual, unselfish, enlightenment) At the end of the day it’s about whats more important to you and not about what other person is lacking. People who live in glass houses should not throw stones. Not referring to you, Sir. It’s interesting how black women keep taking jabs at black men’s alleged failures, while overlooking their own gaping wounds and failures.
@r011ing_thunder65 жыл бұрын
They're insecure or ashamed. Women need help. But I'm not gonna be the one
@deejae24895 жыл бұрын
There are always women checking 4 u even when u not paying attention if they want u they'll get with u and u really wont have 2 do shit
@bbarns64315 жыл бұрын
Rom preach! It took 1 time for me to learn to put sex on the table early and a woman will let you know either NO .....OR.... a lot of variations of yes. Don’t play yourself. An extremely beautiful woman gave me that feedback a long time ago and I haven’t slipped since.
@ellisjackson33555 жыл бұрын
To your point when you said just sit back, let women talk, and they will tell you everything, how do you know whether they're lying when they talk to you? "It's not about looks," "don't worry there's someone out there for you," "women want guys who are nice," etc...
@k-ri20235 жыл бұрын
You gotta fuck with the chicks who keep it 100 percent real. And not the ones who just say dumb shit and call it real but the ones who actually saying something that's real and meant to help. Needle in a haystack I know but they out there
@joehinojosa83145 жыл бұрын
"I'm TOO sexy for my shirt,too sexy for my shirt, it makes me HURT". Right Said Fred.
@chestnutbrown93405 жыл бұрын
This is the most honest video I've seen in 2019 pertaining to females and their feelings about their attraction to men. You know too much😆
@rathegoldenchild69155 жыл бұрын
Another good video rom, a French surgeon named Robert Briffault, who later became a social anthropologist had a law called Briffaults law in which it stated that “The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.” In correlation to relationships, the same situation takes place. Like you state, it’s all about sex and sexual compatibility, and if a women doesn’t deem you sexable no association will take place. However due to our culture, association can take place based on the reasons you stated (status and money) however that would be short lived because it is not the driving biological factor to mating. So, therefore even if you get a women based on money and status and you probably don’t do it for her sexually, once she drain you of what she want, it’s no guarantee that the relationship will continue. That’s why i would say if you pulling women based on your money and status and you want to her stick around, you better be laying some serious pipe on her ass, especially if you lucked up. Great video rom, your a natural anthropologist lol.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I'm more educated than people realize. You're right about the money and status thing.
@cammelhurse51185 жыл бұрын
Uncle Rom!! They need to give you a holiday for this one!! word up facts!!! I see this everyday at my job & while on gigs... its all true.....
@Nicki1969able5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! All FACTS! MEN listen up... next, women just need to tell the absolute truth and stop worrying about being judged for our thoughts! #GrownNsexyPodcast 💋
@shawnhazel82085 жыл бұрын
People embarrassed to talk about sex - men love sexable women and women love sexy men
@intentionalgreatness5 жыл бұрын
Facts! Thank you for letting the men know this Rom.
@1Techdrawer5 жыл бұрын
You maintain your frame when you let her think she chasing you . At the same time you wanted her the whole time.
@johnsmith23ist5 жыл бұрын
Royal Reese that’s what I do all the time and it works.. I laugh inside like damn how can she give me all this attention and chase when I want her so bad
@1Techdrawer5 жыл бұрын
KeepIt 100. Exactly my brotha
@Donono845 жыл бұрын
Gentlemen, Uncle Rom keeps telling us to get that V shaped body! That body type turns most women on.
@lccanimations5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. This is honest. I guess I’m not really going around saying I’m select or non-select. I guess I’m indifferent to all of that. I believe that self improvement advice about money is a smokescreen to the real issues just like most dating advice mantras
@stevehaag6334 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr ROM you helped me to keep push’n positive motivation and good vibes to you Sir!
@blacktorch32685 жыл бұрын
That why Black women will grow old all by themselves. SYSBM!
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
ALL women are like this. Non-Black women get with Black men primarily for sexual reasons.
@swdelamentay48025 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills That's true alot of nonblack women are boning us black men and once the black women hears this they get fed up. Why is man?
Some stuff seems obvious and it amazes, amazes me, that it isn't.
@MackeyDeez5 жыл бұрын
I agree Rom it's the women who choose that's why I no longer pursue women cause it's not necessary. I have had women approach me at gas stations and grocery stores.
@roystongibbs71895 жыл бұрын
Indeed.....truth brother. Truth. Don't forget the library too.
@deejones46825 жыл бұрын
@@roystongibbs7189 don't forget the CASINO!!! I'VE met some interesting men at the Casino. Perhaps 2 or three men at the most.
@iinrodwetrust5 жыл бұрын
Although true, you, as a man wouldnt be fulfilling your animalistic trait to hunt if you dont go after what you want. I've had some beautiful women that I never wouldve thought just based on the fact that I came, I saw, and i conquered.
@banderas20004 жыл бұрын
@@roystongibbs7189 them nerdy chicks be the undercover freaks. the smart ones , begging for a release.
@sniper11n.d.345 жыл бұрын
I notice these days women are all over me in there approach. They keep on checking my eyes and touch me for no reason. 🙄
@FòShōHEALth5 жыл бұрын
Great video big Bro. Just pay Attention to what Lady is having that tingle Tingle TINGLE and get her upside down.... hahaha
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Thanks fam.
@UntappedPotential19855 жыл бұрын
Truth... it's all about the one woman won't to have sex with your money do not matter
@oaklandraiders31155 жыл бұрын
Keep pushing brother Rom!
@MsJoyce312025 жыл бұрын
Women know a man is a hard worker by observation and vibes maybe. I think The vibes are gathered clues. The name of the game is still respect though. If I'm pitting myself against my self though, I'm gonna have to stop and rethink a few things. I want respect from him no matter how attractive or sexuable he is..
@geedee86425 жыл бұрын
I disagree...women don't know what they want and their feelings and emotions change. Don't listen to women. Ask a woman what she wants and they'll say a nice man....blah blah blah
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
They know exactly what they want. They just don't share it with most men.
@geedee86425 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills women lie bruh...I have my experiences and you have yours...women change frequently. I agree that they know who they want to fuck. But that's not to be denied we all want to fuck who we want.
@banderas20004 жыл бұрын
@@geedee8642 women don't give straight answers like men do. women don;t lie. they just think differently. men call it lying but they just ride their emotion in the moment. it can change. but it also depends on how the man shows up.
@justabrother19085 жыл бұрын
Hey Rom, I've been hearing you on and off for about a year now and I must say ... I accept you as my consoler (Uncle) who breaks game down to a letter .Good game UNC.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@deandrejohnson55685 жыл бұрын
This is real game
@kftddy5 жыл бұрын
4:05 the minute it got real! Uncle Rom is the best!
@KurtisStryker20155 жыл бұрын
Hey Big Brother thanks
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@stocolm995 жыл бұрын
Solid, solid advice Rom!
@thomasvogelsinger40072 жыл бұрын
Great video Men are the same we look at the physique and the mouthpiece
@81deaths5 жыл бұрын
Great info
@toteknowledge5 жыл бұрын
(researches the upside down position)
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Takes some strength.
@GLERiko5 жыл бұрын
Shout out warren G time tah REGULATE fellas ☝🏽😂😭
@PositiveMentalAttitude2845 ай бұрын
i thank God for gym
@durrelljackson18245 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊. I guess I was over thinking it.
@memes_for_kings5 жыл бұрын
I really need to work on my sex appeal. Improving my body(need to get back in the gym) and mind. My career too so I can afford to travel. I only deal with women who have high interest in me sexually. The moment I notice she is "meh" attitude about me and want me to take them out on dates and spend all my money on her I drop them quickly......because these same women give it up to men they re attracted to sexually and he didnt have to spend a dime. So why should I? Fuck that. The moment I say we go ditch over half these women lose interest 🤣 equal rights my ass
@pharoahworld_class_hustlae99975 жыл бұрын
#FACTS
@banderas20004 жыл бұрын
i hear ya. sometimes that eh vibe is a test. if your not moving things along. if she feels she has given you enough signals. a feminine woman will hardly be aggressive in her sexual desire for you. for ex. this one chick will give me smiling eyes a few times. i think ok she is doing that for a reason.
@morewisdom67405 жыл бұрын
yeah i already told her imma have her upside
@livingabundantly3625 жыл бұрын
This is true...
@oreosurprise6065 жыл бұрын
Up side down? Yea i need more experience. 😂😂
@banderas20004 жыл бұрын
lol they got the sex postion guide book at spencers. they got all types of crazy positions LOL
@lsmythe0075 жыл бұрын
Rom, you break it Down. Though, at times I don't know what to believe. I've come to think women are just as crummy as some men. Thank you for the knowledge. And you are my homie, too. I went to Dunbar HS. Thank you.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
DC! On movas!
@BrandonManuel5 жыл бұрын
Rom that playa uncle that you hope he puts you on game lol if i woulda consciously known even have this game smh no telling how many female best friends I’d have right now
@baileyedward7743 жыл бұрын
They want that Roughneck.
@petroglyph795 жыл бұрын
Women and the truth are like oil and water mixing
@josephvalentine75 жыл бұрын
@56 standing ovation, lol com on OG . Wish I do
@jaws20035 жыл бұрын
Again so this is basically a beauty issue then with black men and women. Other races of women do see this but are more pragmatic. Thing is I see more men willing to put in the work on their body and style moreso than women. If they did and even of they had a 4 face with am 8 body it will be mem wanting to scoop her up. The inverse applies to men as well. Seen it happen a lot!!!
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
This is women of other races as well. They just hide it better.
@louislentes48293 жыл бұрын
Liked to be coached 💯
@RomWills3 жыл бұрын
Hit me up at www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html.
@markflowers39855 жыл бұрын
Rom is the woman that's talking sexable herself?
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Doesn't matter. I've known this about women since I was little.
@petroglyph795 жыл бұрын
Pussy makes all women equal in thier mind even when they look like a orge👹🐷
@durrelljackson18245 жыл бұрын
AMEN. LUV MY MAN BUT IT'S 5 MINUTES AND DONE. I CAN'T TELL HIM BC HE CAN'T TAKE IT.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
You might want to find a way to tell him before Mr. Goodbar smells your dissatisfaction.
@bbarns64315 жыл бұрын
You CAN tell him. It’s simple. Walk into the room he is in get his attention say I need more in the bedroom and then you HELP him get there. Tell him the things you want him to do to you. If he ain’t doing it show him what he is doing wrong. If he is a man he can take it. If not stop and find someone that already knows before y’all hurt each other
@mauricejackson94955 жыл бұрын
I was always told not to listen to women but they make some good advice
@coryedwardsdayl13755 жыл бұрын
I stop wasting time tbh woman dont no what they want i stop looking they im to big im 6ft3 330
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Women know exactly what they want. They just state what they want publicly.
@coryedwardsdayl13755 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills oh i haven't me a woman who.no what the want but who knows
@StephIsColdG5 жыл бұрын
So rom what about guys who are 5’7? What should we do to have that sex appeal look
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
You already doing it fam. Muscles mean a lot.
@StephIsColdG5 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills got you rom thanks unc
@josephvalentine75 жыл бұрын
@9:22 and don't forget that , yea us over here , pookie n ray ray
@ristobenjie5 жыл бұрын
This is the realest
@rahkeemthegreat3605 жыл бұрын
💯 facts, great video
@romancoleman54445 жыл бұрын
What you whipping??? Love the vids
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Just an old Chevy. I'll get another one when this one stops running.
@superone58385 жыл бұрын
😎😆☝👉👍👏👍👏lol don't be extra 😂😂😂😂HAHAHAHAHA
@baileyedward7743 жыл бұрын
Sexy is how sexy does.
@coryedwardsdayl13755 жыл бұрын
Its a waste i big problems to be concerned about like a lot of stuff going as like is im talk to a woman im good
@WisdomLORD5 жыл бұрын
i like this 1 better than the college video. lolz
@cfamick5 жыл бұрын
2:30: HOW do you do that?!?
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Don't judge her sexual natures.
@cfamick5 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills I think I'm on the right track, then.
@durrelljackson18245 жыл бұрын
I enjoy him physically & sexually but he says he's drained when we go at it everyday. Now if he nock it out the park I may not be on his top about getting it everyday. Lol, but he really not hearing me.
@MrBenji10595 жыл бұрын
Communication + Full stomach =____________
@wangtang125 жыл бұрын
What are the books that you wrote to improve your sexual charisma?
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Go to my site, www.romwills.com, and get Sexual Chemistry.
@JWFitness12 ай бұрын
Oh look: another reason to go after women who choose you...
@JayGrinding2 жыл бұрын
Fax Unc
@jamescarter20134 жыл бұрын
Facts
@kevinbenson12674 жыл бұрын
Hey ROM thanks for this video my question is and concern how do you deal with the woman you get with you having a lot of sex with for the first 6 months or are you become confined in a close-quarters such as throughout this this virus Florentine you have a lot of sex now all the sudden she don't like having sex now I'm suddenly she's telling you constantly about her aches and pains how do you deal with that other than me telling her that she's pissing me off with that bulshit telling me all that negativity everything's good at one point but then all sudden now she flipping the the script