Thank y’all so much for the love! I really appreciate it! I see all of your messages & im happy to have yall fr❤️❤️❤️
@sabrinawoods8048 Жыл бұрын
Can I know his sign please Paris
@AJBRINKS_ Жыл бұрын
@@sabrinawoods8048 he’s an Aquarius
@sabrinawoods8048 Жыл бұрын
@@AJBRINKS_ thank you
@ConstanceConnie Жыл бұрын
Please go NO CONTACT! Stop running back to him. He will constantly drain you, manipulate, belittle, cheat, and devalue you.
@lailai2610 Жыл бұрын
‼️‼️ that part
@catera.lemyaa Жыл бұрын
Facts!! This situation is still so new. I’m hoping she doesn’t run back again 😩🤞🤞🤞
@respectfullyg5580 Жыл бұрын
Literally gets to a point where your allowing accepting and asking for it. Youre cheating, belittling, and devaluing yourself bc you know
@AveryFrances Жыл бұрын
This story was heartbreaking. I honestly feel like you are giving him too much credit by mentioning how much he loved you and vise versa because nothing about this story embodies love.. only attachment. You are so beautiful, smart and successful and God will bless you with actual love! Just don’t entertain the past, just learn from it and move on ❤
@kristinagerth4203 Жыл бұрын
Right more like trauma bonding😢
@leilad3031 Жыл бұрын
@@kristinagerth4203 ABSOLUTELY, this is crazy. I hope she learns from this and not share you body/money. It's so much wrong about this and Part 2.
@chakralove4300 Жыл бұрын
I agree. He didn’t love you gurl! 🥴
@DamiaSmall Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! Love where? She deserves so much more 😢
@JazzieSheIs Жыл бұрын
He literally followed you to every place you went, to stop everything good that was happening for you.. He knows your potential, he sees your light trust me. He comes and steal all your energy like a vampire and just leave you drained every time, but that’s what they do. He DOESN’T wanna see you on top without him, instead he brought you down every time… Please just pray for strength and guidance and keep your faith. Have people around that really love you, that helps a lot. You are beautiful, you are enough and you are worthy. Peace and love✨❤️
@Akeekeekee Жыл бұрын
I was saying this as I was listening @ 11:03
@ItsTeezii Жыл бұрын
This !! Im in a similar situation but I literally been learning along the way
@LoveAlwaysNayy Жыл бұрын
As therapist he’s a classic example of a narcissist I’m sorry you had to go through this, I pray for your healing and comfort. I’m so proud of you for speaking out and sharing your story I’m a fan of your channel, and nobody deserves this treatment ever. 🙏🏾
@Lin11-02 Жыл бұрын
girl 😩 that man remind me of my ex & while watching this video i've been questioning if I was with a narcissist this whole time for a year and didn't know ...
@ThatDollNiecee Жыл бұрын
Definitely agreed from one therapist to another . The gaslighting , the manipulation everything. He has to live with that .
@yungmullabunny1 Жыл бұрын
Definitely was a trigger warning for me ,and yes its a narcissist i was with and yes it took me 3 years to leave im truly happy now 2 years later ❤ you go girl be strong
@Prettyneekneek Жыл бұрын
Yep you called it…definitely a narcissist.
@kendrairvin5673 Жыл бұрын
Yesss! That is what I was thinking too...a narcissist with personality disorder. I recognize the signs. They can cause some serious mental damage that can take years to recover from. They wreak havoc, discard and reel you back in with the love bombing! I recognize all the signs from the one I was with for years!! I moved on it has been almost a year now.
@marilynpage5744 Жыл бұрын
Sis (in Christ) hold on to God hands because he’s holding on tight to you, God is and will be your strength. You just don’t know how many people you have helped with this video, you were their voice. I pray God will keep you safe and cover. Stay strong Queen
@alexisgrooms7888 Жыл бұрын
I hate the fact he tried to act like you ain't popping, like baby you been dat GIRL !! like he gotta be insecure because he can't handle the fact that you had and you don't need him. Baby I hope you find your true happiness baby ❤️❤️
@tw1687 Жыл бұрын
this the one !!! we love you paris 🫶🏽
@tanyalewis2873 Жыл бұрын
She really have been too, been slaying the hell out of the frontals and wigs.
@moirabinfinity Жыл бұрын
He was hating cuz she really that girl!! He wanted to bring her down to HIS level smh men can be sick yo
@loyaldior2950 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like he love bombed you in the beginning then once he got you the mask came off he probably was jealous of you because you didn't really need him for anything you was independent getting your own money after the lovebombing wears off and they know they got you they Start to devalue you in every way to make you feel insecure and like you need him..classic narcissist shit...glad you got out sis I'm still recovering myself 💜
@KalynDianne Жыл бұрын
he was very jealous of you sis, major narcissist. once the love bombing is over they turn into a complete monster! so glad you left, God will bless you ❤ blessings are always in the redirection, your content will get back popping! You got a whole entire ARMY behind you. keep doing what you’re doing, don’t let nobody make you feel bad about leaving and telling YOUR story mama! 🫶🏽
@tanyalewis2873 Жыл бұрын
He really was jealous
@nikkimonae1423 Жыл бұрын
you were in love with his POTENTIAL & the idea of what real love was and the treatment you knew you deserved but you knew he wouldn’t give it. So thankful you finally put YOU FIRST
@lnb1380 Жыл бұрын
Damn it seems like everyone has experienced a narcissistic man…I just ended my situation with a narcissist too. My readings were telling me to let go as well, so I did. I feel relieved actually and you will too when you realize how free you are. Videos like this will definitely help others not be blinded by narcissistic ways. Proud of you for walking away bc you deserve better and you know that ❤
@zyzylove4033 Жыл бұрын
Imagine being pregnant by one currently and just seeing he’s one after all this time
@lnb1380 Жыл бұрын
@@zyzylove4033 Focus on you and your baby’s happiness! This is meant to be one of the most beautiful times in your life! Try not to let ANYONE get in between that. Congrats, wishing you and your baby the best 💕
@BigWiltonWilt Жыл бұрын
@@zyzylove4033Chrisean with Blueface
@dijadoll3953 Жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you for being strong enough to take the mask off and be vulnerable for us your followers
@Bossnini Жыл бұрын
yuck I’m so disgusted , literally textbook narcissist. Don’t be hard on yourself it’s not your fault , the only thing you can do with those kind of people is walk away. Stay strong and stay positive , your heart was pure and that’s all that matters . I’m proud of you & I support you 💕
@Keraaneshearaa Жыл бұрын
I am so glad you are out of that relationship because it sound like he was jealous of you and you deserve so much better 🙏🏾 continue to love on you and the right man will come into your life .❤
@TheBowdenTwinsFamily Жыл бұрын
VERY JEALOUS! She’s a beautiful woman and based on his looks he couldn’t understand how he’s with someone like her. Hence the reason he didn’t care to take her out, he didn’t want her getting attention from ANYONE. A sick fuck indeed
@Keraaneshearaa Жыл бұрын
@@TheBowdenTwinsFamily Exactly ! Belittling her to make himself feel better ! And when he was down he crawl back to her ready to steal more from her . Its so sad ! Hoping he use this time to work on himself and she continue to focus on herself and thrive.
@nadiyahglover2766 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Paris for sharing this traumatic experience with a demon, I would’ve never thought a beautiful, successful woman like you knew this type of pain. Thank you for walking away, it was in your best interest! WE LOVE YOU and THIS TOO SHALL PASS, AMEN! Keeping you in my prayers big sis💗
@dee_bee4 Жыл бұрын
Please get a restraining order, whether you think you need one or not, please get it! That man has shown all the signs that he could take your life. He plays with your life and he plays with your health. Please take this serious and cut off all contact with him
@misslashae6860 Жыл бұрын
You don’t even know how many people you’ve helped with this! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@NoPickmeishasAllowed Жыл бұрын
Proud of you! I empathize with you and I’m sure a lot of ladies can relate to this. Edit: his voice scares me I don’t like men talk like that it triggers me.
@kayvilla7953 Жыл бұрын
Yeah he Definitely put his hand on her with all that aggression 💯
@behindthepoem Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Lavelle222 Жыл бұрын
Who is he
@TheUnscriptedLifeofCamRae Жыл бұрын
I’m sooo proud of you Paris. All of us females have stories similar to yours boo. You’re not alone
@ThatDollNiecee Жыл бұрын
Baby take your time healing . This too shall pass! This is only making you STRONGER & WISER. We rooting for you babe 🫶🏾💜.
@Mblisss Жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you for putting you first. It doesn’t matter how long it took you to realize your self worth. You are worth so much more and the right man will come. I encourage you to take this time to yourself, heal and the right relationship will find it’s way to you. ❤️
@kaylaking3931 Жыл бұрын
when you said he didnt look like himself when he acted violent I felt that...my ex was so abusive then would act like nothing ever happened after. The worst part is not knowing if thats gone be the last time because he'll take your life. but you keep giving them chance after chance because I kept remembering the beginning of our relationship we clicked so good 😩 I went back like 5 times even after I saw the red flags. Its such a journey but im finally at the part where Im ready to start over.
@KAye633Ай бұрын
That’s so scary, good luck on your journey! Hope it’s going well.
@ms.imaninicole Жыл бұрын
He only put you down because he wants to be on your level & didn’t want you feeling yourself. Worse type of “man”
@NooCallerID Жыл бұрын
You gave him way too many chances. He would have been chopped up from the first situation. As a woman your self worth is everything. Never put a man before yourself !
@adoremy444 Жыл бұрын
watching both parts made my heart hurt so bad!!! been watching you for years and i pray that you come back stronger than ever💕so many people will learn something from your story. we love you🤍
@sotayshan.3445 Жыл бұрын
Paris this video made me sad! Your cut off game gotta be STRONG at all times! You’re young, pretty & getting to a bag! Love yourself more than anybody & anything!
@Vibewithtammm Жыл бұрын
Please be safe babe, he sounds like someone who would hurt you cause he don’t want no one else to have you. Be lowkey about your location
@candyapple713b Жыл бұрын
First off THANK YOU for being TRANSPARENT . I feel like this was more you than us but you just brought us along for your your journey. I felt when you felt. So for that thank you. And it’s gonna be hard but it’s imperative that you have to learn yourself and know yourself and value yourself first before you even move on to the next relationship. Everyone says heal but it’s not that easy. It’s not linear and it don’t happen over night. I resonate with this story a lot because my ex had me going to the hospital to get surgery after a bad fight and I still don’t leave until I was just fed up and hit my breaking point. Sometimes we look at ourselves with regret like we should of been left but everyone has different breaking points sometimes we just more resilient than others so don’t blame yourself. Look at this as a learning experience so you know how to set boundaries for yourself. It’s not your fault thought, when somebody love bombs you sometimes you spend a lot of time chasing that initial feeling but I’m sending you so much love and healing. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@candyapple713b Жыл бұрын
Sb: love will come. It took me 4 years but I found somebody and I’m so happy with no argument and sadness and tears. That’s what real love is happiness and very few tears.
@KeishaComegys Жыл бұрын
❤ thank you for sharing. We all can relate and I'm not going to go or either diagnosis you or him or the behaviors, from me watching I've seen your growth and I see you recognized where you went wrong/what you did wrong and that includes what you allowed. Take it all as lessons and apply them going forward.. you already said it so that's how I know... Take the time to heal.l agree with the screenshots because that's me. But it's also unhealthy because you'll have those moments where your emotions will get the best of you and you'll look back on them..I ask God to give you strength and all those arguments where he made you feel less than. Disassociate yourself with all that because none of it is true. If anything you were dumb for him and wayyy too forgiving but weve all been there for ppl we really think we love. Through out your story you had moments of clarity (where you went wrong, what you should of did, and going forward what you would do differently. I know it's only been a month but please allow yourself some healing and some Grace. You did the best with what you had and what you thought was love. The only thing that matters is going forward and leveling up and learning getting that experience and also it's not a bad thing from learning from others ppl mistakes. Your strong, inspiring, kind hearted, determined, and your worth it!!!!!!! I pray for your healing and peace. Now don't ever love someone more than you love yourself. You can't pour from an empty cup. If giving someone something they're requiring and it's costing you to cross one of your boundaries when it comes to self love/ mental health or your peace then you can't afford it. I'm not saying don't compromise but the real one/ true love won't require you to compromise those things especially your sanity. Much love 😘 and thanks for sharing. Some of us you have flashbacks to but I know to a lot of other people you've helped them if they're in that situation or will go through it. 💐💐 Keep em blocked😊 keep prospering 🎉.
@tonyaboggs5367 Жыл бұрын
You always think that you can't get over this person or find better but OMG there is so much better out there. You deserve better you should never settle. Just know that everything will get better and take care of you
@OmiyankaBBB Жыл бұрын
I wanna give you the biggest hug and we as women have all been here at some point , there’s no judgement at all we are sistasss and times like this is when we need to stand together and support the most!! You got this !! We got this !!
@teneb8413 Жыл бұрын
I’m proud that you were able to leave that toxic relationship and realized your worth ! Love will make you do some crazy things and just because you love someone does not mean you have to be with them ! I pray for continued healing for you 🙏🏾❤️
@shawnarose6658 Жыл бұрын
You’re real asf for posting this video , cause b*tiches be be out here not posting the negative. I got a whole new respect for you . Cause I only knew you as posting hair videos but I Applause you for part one and & two cause I know it’s not easy expressing yourself and be open on KZbin like this but I really respect it. I went thru similar sh*t, and I’m just happy to know theres females out here that’s being real. Social media in this generation, make it impossible for us to be real and to express what we go through in our daily lives and I really commend you on doing this video and just know you have a subscriber for life. Sb : the way you was expressing yourself in the video,I just know that shit just hit on a different level and that sh*T took you back in time and making these video was not easy . But just know , your video really helped me clarify a lot of shit in my past relationship, girl you got this and it only goes up from here , blessings are coming be patient 🫶🏾
@annabella7188 Жыл бұрын
Damn, your story is so triggering!!! Sending you healing energy 💙 Love sucks sometimes!!!
@BriaaB Жыл бұрын
Girl I’m so glad you acknowledged God, I went through something similar, God will never let us be at peace with something that’s not meant to be. You are smart and beautiful, it will take time but you will heal sis. Just keep your trust in God and he will carry you through. Also don’t keep beating yourself up, you have to forgive yourself, we as women take on a lot in the name of love, but you live and you learn. Wishing you all the best on this new journey. 🤍
@eveyluvstodance6908 Жыл бұрын
There is definitely grief in letting bad people go sometimes. You’re used to the back and forth routine with him. Just keep praying and moving forward. Praying for love, light, and peace mamas 💕✨
@Chattychatter862811 ай бұрын
I swear I feel like I’m going through this 😢right now , I know I need to let this person go I literally cried listening to your story
@preciousandrare17779 ай бұрын
It's not easy but listen to your gut, please pray about it.
@Autumnjeannette Жыл бұрын
Praying for you babe🙏🏽 break ups are hard, and I can only imagine how hard this specific separation is with so much trauma involved. Please please please don’t go back. There IS better out there. You gotta give your self the love you’re looking for in men. Take some time to heal. It’ll be tough but it’ll be worth it.
@lashawnelizabeth Жыл бұрын
men rlly are jealous of these women😭😭😭
@DestineeJashae Жыл бұрын
This is so hard to watch because I’ve been in a similar situation 💔 I’m glad you were strong enough to leave ❤️
@NIAAA__. Жыл бұрын
Definitely praying for you. It’ll be hard but you got this ONE DAY AT A TIME ❤
@therawestvirg Жыл бұрын
Would've never known, you held it together so well.. You're strong, beautiful and worthy! 💞💪
@thelifeoffarhio Жыл бұрын
So proud of you for standing up for yourself everytime.
@MayaGeexoxo Жыл бұрын
He been a hater but needed you as a crutch, he needs a therapist. Sis you are loved, u poppin and fine af!!!! And u got ya own bag!
@rebeccarichards9937 Жыл бұрын
The first sign of healing is talking about it.. I pray to your healing baby girl you deserve better
@FromBeelong Жыл бұрын
The last clip… he is trifling. We aren’t built for this. I love you Paris.
@RockyR Жыл бұрын
Men like this are not only immature narcissist but they also DON'T LIKE women. They are attracted to us but as far as liking women... on an emotional level? They don't. They in love with their bros.
@Userrelyt Жыл бұрын
“built off survival” story of my life while dealing with a guy. Im so glad you pointed that out 😢
@SweetlifeofTT Жыл бұрын
I’m not normally a comment leaver, but I’ve known of you for YEARS, (I’m from NY too) even before you started KZbin & I watched both videos from beginning to start & I love you even more for telling your story.. you’re such a strong, beautiful lady& I’m happy you were strong enough to say enough was enough..the sky is the limit & I can’t wait to see what else God has in store for you.
@DHenny Жыл бұрын
This is so sad but relatable . What’s crazy is how y’all be having crazy money at a young age chileeee big difference from me growing up
@zipporahjackson8830 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that happened to you and none of it is your fault. The only thing that matters is that you realized your self worth and how beautiful you are❤️
@MrsBrown93 Жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you for sharing your story. You deserve better, I pray you find peace and go talk to a therapist to help heal you so this pattern with toxic men doesn’t repeat 💜 #blackppldeservebetterandtherapy
@Sculsiveesi Жыл бұрын
People will watch you and think that’s Paris she never goes through anything and focus on glitz and glam , proud of you for even being this open and explaining this there’s plenty of us that watched both videos and thank you for showing us a different side to you ❤ as women we should all support each other and I’m glad you found your way out of that there’s some people who never will , keep being amazing girl ❤
@brittneyward4264 Жыл бұрын
He was definitely a major Narsisistict the violent type, and probably had mommy & daddy issues. He treated Paris like his mother. Ladies stay away from men with trauma & parental issues. The relationship will not work unless the Narc is willing to change thru therapy! I'm sorry to Paris & anyone who has been thru this abuse know you're not alone. You hold the power not the abuser, never let them silence you.
@TiffanyWilliams-et6iq Жыл бұрын
Girlllllllluh , im soo sorry this guy did this to you. Break free and NEVER look back. He wanna drag you down and dim your light and he'll do anything to make you come back. A literal wolf in sheep's clothing. Take care. 💗💗💗
@lifeofmightyroro Жыл бұрын
It’s the Scorpio ♏️ in us. We always get attached to people that’s not good for us, but since we get so attached we stay in situations thinking they will change because we always see the good in people. I’m sorry you went through all that. But you’re beautiful keep your head up and get the real things in life. ❤
@Marcyy65 Жыл бұрын
No frrrrr😣😣😣
@sabrinashy1732 Жыл бұрын
Proud of you girl. You got this 🤍
@Emoboy9801 Жыл бұрын
Omggg 🥺🥺💔💔When I tell you I know that was a lot to get out & we all have been there as women. I wish you nothing but the best on your new journey & pray it’s feel with blessings & when the time is right someone to really love you properly ‼️😘😘YOU GOT THIS GIRL 🤞🏾
@ThePrettiiTrucker Жыл бұрын
I hate that you or any woman had to deal with that type of treatment and disrespect l, I pray that you continue to move forward and heal beautiful 🙏🏽❤️🫶🏽
@kevinsamson1693 Жыл бұрын
Y’all females been abusing and using men now when the tables turn it’s a problem
@BarbMarleyyy Жыл бұрын
Omg! I went thru the same thing for 4 years! When I left it was such a relief! I'm happy you got this off your chest! Happy Healing Love!
@msgorgeous5039 Жыл бұрын
God has a plan and purpose for your life and the right man will treat you like the beautiful queen you are. Thanks for bringing awareness and sharing. Prayers for your healing mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Stay blessed
@rj5778 Жыл бұрын
Ok so after watching these 2 videos; I want to just say thank you thank you thank you for walking away from that. I have so much to say but being a NewYorker ima keep it short lol. It takes a lot of courage to get up and speak up especially on a Social Media Platform. I’m not on Social Media however I have been thru a similar situation and I wanna thank God yours didn’t go as far as mine did and for the first time ever I spoke up about it but only to my family. Ina way I feel like you spoke up for me too and shared a part of my story with the world so thank you again. #NewYorkInTheBuilding #Scorpios♏️🦂🥵 #MissIndependent. If you ever want to talk I’m here just be prepared my life is wild lol. Good luck with everythingggggg. I’m definitely going to pray for your Mental Health and Physical. I hope this msg reaches you 🤞🏾💪🏾
@Hairb1 Жыл бұрын
I literally went through the EXACT same thing at the EXACT same time ! I have videos and all like wtf is wrong with these men but wtf is wrong with us letting them put us through it 😩😩😩😩😩😩 we’re too beautiful inside and out … glad we’re out of it .
@ariyanamoody3621 Жыл бұрын
It took a lot of courage to post these videos.. and I hope you realize that you are helping so many women get through their situations. I hope you get to move past this situation and never look back! More blessings coming your way! ❤❤❤❤
@Kickinitwitquila Жыл бұрын
on a serious note I’m glad you’re out of that situation you didn’t deserve that and you are a very talented young lady keep elevating you don’t need any validation you already won🙏🏾🥰💕💕🙏🏾
@Lin11-02 Жыл бұрын
It never gave fighting over spaghetti 😂 cus thats really ode.. I jus got out of a relationship 2 months ago, after a toxic year with this man. recently just learned two unhealed people = turmoil . We all got sh* we need to work on & heal from and it's honestly better to do it alone. That love we give ourselves really sets the bar for how others love on us. & don't think you have to match people's negative energy. that energy is a THEM problem. they really be fighting demons within. You're too beautiful inside & out to be lowering your vibrations. praying for your healing journey mama 🤍🦋 the price just went UP they better stop playing with you. You say you be thinking if you would be able to have somebody better than him but you already got it & that's God and YOU. I promise you THAT type of love go crazy in the best way!
@mynayiasuggs2574 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said
@jagirl_vendetta2197 Жыл бұрын
His voice sounded scary as fxck in that clip girl omg honestly big ups to you for always standing up for yourself!
@jon-telcarter Жыл бұрын
Like frfr. I am like who is this man?
@SkinnieMinnieTingz Жыл бұрын
I feel you on the part around 33 min when you feel like they love you like no other. But if they really loved you, they wouldnt treat you so badly… jus know they dont even love themselves. You have to leave them for good no matter how hurt you are about it.. it only gets worse. Toxic relationships can kill
@ItsTeezii Жыл бұрын
Glad you got this off your chest bbygirl ❤going thru a similar situation. DO NOT go back. Manipulation a mf. DO NOT feed in. You got this. Heal yourself, continue to grow beautiful 💕 Love & light to you.
@leshawnbird2245 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, definitely praying for your healing💕. I beg to stay away from horoscopes and reading cause they are dark and misleading
@dinarella_ Жыл бұрын
never know what someone is going through behind the scenes, praying for you and your healing 💛
@cisi3447 Жыл бұрын
Girl I about cried hearing this. I’ve been through the SAME EXACT THING down to the choking til I passed out. This man cheated on me while I was going through a miscarriage with his baby. These sick men will break you down to NOTHING then find a way to still blame you for why their lives ain’t shit. The only way to protect ourselves is to walk away because the more we try to love, heal and help them the more we kill ourselves inside and out.
@LifeMadeByRadw Жыл бұрын
So relatable! God will see you through. Take it one day at a time and give yourself grace. I ended a 5 and a half year relationship with a narcissist and I’ve been 2 years no contact. A lot of painful stuff happened in the relationship and in the aftermath post break up but God has been my rock. Lean on God. He’ll see you through! You’re not alone. Praying for you!
@qualaziaa2421 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Why did I feel literally everything you went through. Safe to say if I got through it so will you girl with the grace of god. Take sometime to yourself so you can find your passion again. But you are starting good by getting this out. & you are That Girl like…. Don’t ever let NOBODY dim your light.
@dominiquejenkins5495 Жыл бұрын
Some ppl don't realize that the chaos is not love... It's a soul tie.. those things are hard to break... Babies, broken hearts and blacks eyes are not always the worst that could come out of an unequally yoked situation ship.. That's why you go back and forget what they did to you until they do it again 😅 lastly. Never call your self dumb, stupid or ANY other fitting name 😂😂.. you were blind, despite the flashing red flags lol
@nadiyahglover2766 Жыл бұрын
She wasn’t any of the things you listed. She was truama bonded and it’s POWERFUL! That’s why she kept going back, been through this already and I had to study it in order to overcome it
@dominiquejenkins5495 Жыл бұрын
@Kay A I just pray you never get into one
@dominiquejenkins5495 Жыл бұрын
@@nadiyahglover2766 soooo a soul tie and a trauma bond are two totally different thing's?? Yea aight 🤣
@Dolamyte_ Жыл бұрын
I always say, if a person can put their hands on you they can take your life. Violence is violence period. They don’t care about the consequences of putting their hands on you and anything can happen therefor they don’t care about the outcome whether it’s a bruise or yo life. I feel like people only point out the glamorized parts of love but love is ugly too. Love can be dangerous just as much as it can be beautiful. It can be the worst pain and also the closest feeling to heaven.
@tabithabrice5905 Жыл бұрын
Your mom is a real MVP you are too gorgeous for this
@aminatakamara3903 Жыл бұрын
Paris, I don’t know you but please let that man go. Life and death is in the power of the tongue and it sounds like he doesn’t speak life into you. He does not love or like you (I’m not here to bash you or judge, I’m literally being brutally honest because it also sounds like he was even holding you back from Gods purpose for you). He will come back and you need to have strength to ignore him. I haven’t even finished watching this video but my spirit is not sitting well with him. Also take a rest and spend some time by yourself (no dudes, just you). You’re use to the abuse and you shouldn’t have even let him in this Apt. This is the second video I’ve ever watched of you and my opinion is solely based on the facts you gave. You seem really smart and very driven, never dim your light for someone who wouldn’t even help you light it if they had a match. It’s Woman’s History Month so from one woman to another, I’m very proud of you and keep being the Boss that you are. God bless you.
@robinhoward42049 ай бұрын
You said it all. I found this so hard to watch, especially as this lass is very wound up talking all this out. I can imagine how hard it was to make this video - I hope this is a way of getting it all out there, like an emotional release for her.
@allatrice0022 Жыл бұрын
If you constantly take him back after he does you wrong, he’ll start to think.. why act right now ? She not going anywhere anyways
@daniis.444 Жыл бұрын
You definitely helped! I’m glad you’re walking away ❤ you deserve better. As women we have to hold ourselves accountable for what we do while still walking in our divinity. Chin up sister 💜 you are healing. It won’t be easy, but you will get over this feeling!!
@michellematthias7388 Жыл бұрын
Paris I been a suby from the begining. I love you, Im proud of you and wish you nothing but the best. This was the biggest step you took towards your Mental health and will help alot of us women out here to be stronger too. I would have never image in a million years that you were going this. blessing on blessing. Stay strong
@ItsGoodnessgracious Жыл бұрын
I was literally watching videos with you and him right before you started the story time. Would’ve never thought he was that horrible of a person … men are so tricky. Disgust me how he spit on your floor eww. He’s a lost cause you deserve way better Paris!! Years from now when your healed you’ll be sorry you ever allowed this behavior. Love you P 💖💖💖💖💖
@tamiam5014 Жыл бұрын
What video you watched?
@ItsGoodnessgracious Жыл бұрын
@@tamiam5014 scroll back to the videos from a long time ago
@Lavelle222 Жыл бұрын
Is it the guy she did tuna prank on?
@ItsGoodnessgracious Жыл бұрын
@@Lavelle222 yea
@LaraJeenae Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so vulnerable, this just reminded me that this world is Spiritual before physical, The Bible says we don't wrestle against flesh and blood but Prinicipalities and spiritual wickedness in high places, Demon possession is real,he had Demons and I thank God you got out that situation cause he could've unalived you, The Devil only comes to steal, kill and destroy, I went through the same thing for 5 years back and forth Thank God Paris fr God kept you, he tried to Destroyed you smh, I don't like that because I felt your pain❤❤God loves you, he always on our side I love God so much
@ayannathompson6422 Жыл бұрын
I’m Just Glad You Made It Out In One Piece, God Is Good.. I Pray You Find That Peace And Healing That You Deserve, Queen. 🙏🏾
@Dzire.thedoll Жыл бұрын
Just know you’re not alone. This brought me to tears because this situation sounded too familiar. But I’m proud of you. He didn’t deserve you! From the outside he gonna put on that front like he that n***a.. but you know the real him. Keep moving forward and leave him in his misery!
@marissathomas9327 Жыл бұрын
Babe I’m so so sorry . That’s so scary . I can’t even imagine . My 10 year relationship is slipping away and I’m so scared . It’s hard . And it’s so much going on but I say all this to say sis focus on you and your career ! All that energy you poured into him pour into yourself . That’s what I’m doing and it’s helping so much . Your not alone ! We all here for you ❤️ love you bunches !
@TrulyAlexus Жыл бұрын
Glad you are closing the chapter❣️ Stay strong and thank you for sharing. I know you have helped so many women.
@Sneakapeekboo Жыл бұрын
Self love is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT Love YOURSELF first Hopefully u found tht and will nva entertain this person again
@latrice2850 Жыл бұрын
Paris I’m so proud of you for leaving…abusive relationship can end in death ….stay strong sis, we love you …we want you here!!…you can do this …this is not love …I’m so happy for you!!!
@danielleblake1358 Жыл бұрын
A man will always do to you what you allow. Step up girl ❤
@karislostyle Жыл бұрын
You’re so pretty Paris, you’re worthy, you’re enough and I pray that God rebuilds you and make you whole again! You got this! ❤
@PrettyGurlBad16 Жыл бұрын
I don’t usually leave comments but Thank you for sharing your story! So many women can relate to this story (myself included). It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out here like this but you story will help so many other young women not make the same mistakes or feel embarrassed to tell their truth. I’m so proud of you for choosing yourself, never feel bad about knowing your worth sis. Sending you lots of love & healing ❤️❤️❤️
@parisdanielleco Жыл бұрын
Thank you love! Sending love right back to you❤️❤️
@kychaleyah Жыл бұрын
im glad you got out of that. he definitely may try to come back again, and im praying you continue to heal and God places people in your life who can build you and not pull you down. abusive narcissists need somebody's energy to feed on to appease their ego, and he sees you as his fix. You are doing the right thing continue to push forward without him because he not gon do anything but keep you from your fullest potential. You're too beautiful for that!
@antoinedraines9947 Жыл бұрын
you deserve so much better glad your moving on & actively healing as a man his behavior & general actions towards you were disgusting smh
@tanyalewis2873 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story it really will help someone else. You do have a platform and your using it for good. Praying for healing and so much more strength for you Paris ❤️❤️❤️
@masterbruce5412 Жыл бұрын
This shit is crazy! Literally going through damn near the exact same shit at the same time..
@tabithabrice5905 Жыл бұрын
Be blessed &stay safe
@kaylacelina21 Жыл бұрын
Living your life babe is building that self love & growing. You would feel like dealing with other guys is like a get back or like your not being loyal to “H” but the real get back is being by yourself & being comfortable with that.
@TheEbonydior Жыл бұрын
Completely understand this situation sis! He so familiar. He is a archetype Tbh. Just know you deserve more and don’t keep going back. Don’t let him make you feel bad for blossoming.
@TheDevineFempressАй бұрын
Watching you struggle made him feel Good
@righteoussis Жыл бұрын
Narcissist will have going crazy and feeling at your lowest … it’ll never be about you … it will ALWAYS be about them… they know how to reel you in and make truly believe that this is normal… they really don’t like you but want to keep you around
@triceycupz88 Жыл бұрын
I’m half way thru and I just started crying cuz every female done went thru this !!! When she said she was looking for uplifting cuz she was sooo desperate 😢😢😢 damn !!