Being nice is way more better then any alternative. What a weird and stupid lesson !
@ConsciousReminder3 жыл бұрын
it's a dark side :'(
@scoobydicky94593 жыл бұрын
You didn't understand the video fully.
@DisclosureExtremist3 жыл бұрын
@@ConsciousReminder Your right, so its a warning not to get tempted. And recognise the dark trades. in my experience even being fake -nice, helps in most situations. That said, You teach lots of good life lessons on this channel.
@kimwoo35043 жыл бұрын
I do not usually comment on videos however there are genuinely kind and “nice people” in the world!
@zandatee Жыл бұрын
I dont trust them. Good video. Thank You.
@nuguitina3 жыл бұрын
Switch the word NICE for People Pleasers ... two different types of character ... people pleasers are initiates or more like novices of life ... whereas being nice is an act of kindness that has been developed thru character.
@melissahoffman94333 жыл бұрын
It should be titled “ the dark side of fake nice people” authentic people don’t act
@robinbates62303 жыл бұрын
This is so wrong. I'm a nice person and what some of this video says is false. I don't lie or do any of the things they say. But, I do go through the taking advantage of and so on. I also speak my mind and tell it like it is. So, I have nothing hidden inside on my dark side like this says.
@1infoful3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@octane23443 жыл бұрын
I wish he was more empathetic for why we feel like we have to be quiet about our feelings or why we feel like we have to be passive aggressive instead of being upfront and confrontational. Especially when we often attract big freaking egos into our life to counteract our chill personalities. When aggression doesn't work out too well against those big personalities.
@1infoful3 жыл бұрын
You are correct. I can't agree that all nice people are really deceptive for selfish reasons. It is two categories for sure.
@isitthatway2 жыл бұрын
3:10 "The fact that a complete strange can administer electric shock is appalling" and "Nice people are often night as nice which is why the Nazis could march millions of Jews to the gas chambers in Auschwitz, Dachau, Lublin, and other concentration camps." Not following that train of thought.
@doranvee59443 жыл бұрын
I knoq someone that is so nice that they often use it to gain others confidence and then manipulate them
@alinaherrera9603 жыл бұрын
I dont agree with that information, I am nice bc I try to follow Gods word and have sympathy for others
@samcoates25193 жыл бұрын
this Holicost never happen
@bhaskarmukherjee87103 жыл бұрын
Hmmm... thinking, nice side, of dark(not literally), people
@arkez353 жыл бұрын
Most of the info in the first half of the video is wrong. Narcissists aren't nice people, they only fake being a nice person. Number 2 was also completely wrong as well. But the info about the negative effects is spot on.
@bugajk253 жыл бұрын
I’m an asshole! Soooo 🤷🏻♀️
@gathanmustafa98863 жыл бұрын
Salam sukses buat sahabat gathan semuanya aamiin.,