The Types of Dysfunctional Families

[@chadspinnox566]

This is a total game changer. Every imam in every mosque should be saying these words to families and parents every week, a book should publish and family courses should be delivered on this. Shaykh Bial jazakallah khayran billions of times ameen ya rab. This is the solution to the ummah.

[@jaspal201]

This has already been covered by western psychology. Muslims need to learn to accept other ways of thinking.

[@waqstar7067]

What's the solution? Saying what words?

[@IsthealbanianRatpiqhs]

Selam alejkum brother this is very true

[@aimanharith1248]

Agree, I live in Malaysia, I think a lot Malaysians family are chaos. Everyone should realise this.

[@icebear009]

True. There should be more videos on abusive families especially actual narcissistic families systems

[@daebak_hana]

1. Substance Abuse 2. Conflict Driven (fight over everything) 3. Violent/physical abuse 4. Authoritarian 5. Emotionally detatched

[@AbdullahPunctureWale-BePgCxx]

Jazakallah

[@quotewiz1]

Thank you

[@mrsamirza4392]

Fall under d 3rd type hubby physically and verbally abusive iys been going on for more than a decade don't know what to do

[@fatimaiqbal4656]

How to deal with it. I have 4 with addition of mental illness (OCD) and believing or going behind aamil .... So, in other words you may find 6 factors of a dysfunctional family in mine. But substance addiction including smoking is not there.

[@aamirkhan6692]

10 years? Inform your parents or anyone you can trust, give khula, leave home, start a legal case against him. No partner is better than an abusive partner

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

Im not Muslim but Respect to this man/ Imam, he's smart and everything he's saying is accurate

[@clearthings9282]

Because he is saying from the quran, and teachings of prophet thats why its accurate.

[@justslightly7794]

We're glad you're enjoying his content! Why don't you become a Muslim too? 😃

[@mistergod3]

@clearthings9282 uh, no. Its not true because of the quran. The quran is right because its true. Dont get it twisted.

[@pjj.5649]

I am not Muslim, but I love the way this Iman So clearly describes the five dysfunctional families. Not a lot of psycho babble and $50 words, just straight into the point. I can recognize it when I see it. Thank you so much! This has been very helpful

[@9405288]

Every child deserves parents, but not every parent deserves a child.

[@VJ-zw7xz]

FACTS

[@Artificial_Intelligence00]

👏🏾👏🏽👏🏾

[@erikrangel4710]

I Can strongly agree with conflict family because that’s the family I grew up in for 32 years and as a recent revert it’s very difficult to try and change my ways for the sake of Allah(swt) when you constantly hearing arguing cursing all the time May Allah(swt) give me patience I need

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

Dear I come from the first three that he mentioned. I was abused mentally, physically and emotionally. But Allah will pay InshaAllah. Kamaa tudeen tudaan⬅️

[@samiratouboubacar.amadou5103]

Amine!

[@Mydrahalan]

I hope this is the trial on our life to have experienced such thing since childhood, cause life become harder as grown up, and if it a trial, I would be really glad, because we probably wouldn't experienced another hard trial on the future.

[@blueheaven4838]

​@@MydrahalanTrue. I hope and pray it's that way

[@AimForTheBushes908]

As a Christian, this is so eye opening! And it affects all of us in all faiths. I myself am guilty of some of these things. Very well said brother and I will try and share this with as many people as I can.

[@hainleysimpson1507]

This affects all humans.

[@alexiscolby9415]

If you are Christian you would be reading your Bible and you would know that these dysfunctional families have a demonic force that spiritually travels through their bloodlines - ie generational curses. The only way to remove these ailments which are spiritually derivative masquerading in the natural world as mental illness, dysfunction, trauma etc - is through prayer and fasting (Matthew 17:21 KJV). It’s demons that attach themselves to people, to families to bloodlines that’s why if you take a look at families whet a murder or a suicide has occurred when you dig a little deeper and go further back into their generational history you will see the same demonic spirit in operation…maybe a parent or a grandparent or great grandparent was a murderer or committed suicide, go back further perhaps another great-great grandmother died from suicide or had killed someone. The saying “the apple does not fall far from the tree” may be a light hearted way of referring to the nature of families and their dynamics - good or bad - and certain characteristics that seem to repeatedly show up in almost each generation. Read your bible and study the Word of God, forge a relationship with Jesus Christ and you will receive wisdom and protection from above and you will not be looking for information in spaces that do not concern you! Pray for the ones who believe in idols that one day they will be set free before it’s too late! Warn those that are living in sun including believing and worshipping of idols because if they die in their sins they are hellbound.

[@blueheaven4838]

Our priests say the same thing - the family that eats together starts together. S common axiom which is so true

[@rabiaadnan5948]

I am living in this kind of family which ultimately made mentally unstable my husband is taking sleeping pills for so long and mother in law and sister in law takes decision but Alhamdulillah with the guidance of Allah things are getting better . But my kud has been affected coz she was snubbed so badly at the age of 1 and half years coz of plucking a flower .and that made me emotionally unstable I am asking Allah to make a way for me and he is also helping me

[@lapis_lazuli578]

May Allah make things easier for you sister 💗

[@ahmediftikhar3728]

May Allah bless ur and everyone’s family sister InshaAllah

[@QuadrantRoyale]

May Allah give you strength and ease sister hang in there. Allah Sees and Hears all

[@Sedic_Namsu]

In sha Allah things will get better sister

[@sparklemotion8377]

It's your responsibility to defend your child instead of using religion as an excuse to endure abuse for yourself and your child.

[@zainabzuhasarafdeen4873]

Mine is conflicting family I suffered all my childhood Please make dua for me brothers and sisters 😭😭😭😭

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

Dear I come from the first three that he mentioned. I was abused mentally, physically and emotionally. But Allah will pay InshaAllah. Kamaa tudeen tudaan⬅️

[@manergatones]

Me too I’ll make dua for Al of us not to repeat the pattern

[@ql6746]

@@manergatones yes we have all 5 growing up in different stages. I’m glad that our family is different but we had to separate our children.

[@daniadg]

​@@manergatones realll feel kinda same here, gotta stop the pattern May Allah give all of us strength that we need❤

[@amazingfacts9354]

God bless you

[@MuslimBro7865]

May Allah bless us with righteous & functional families ameen 🤲

[@ramzaayman1919]

Aamiin 🤲

[@hazelsarafolo5278]

My mother is bipolar 😢nd my sis brothers r nt emotionally attached to me 😢 toxic nd negative

[@briobarb8525]

Help Allah...get a family counselor!

[@Free_Falastin2024]

Every time I listen to this brother I learn something beneficial. May Allah continue to bless our Umma with the best of teachers after Mohammed (saw).

[@rangeelixir8921]

Wow, this is pure psychology. MashaAllah!

[@hopeali]

If you can't leave your household and the situation is very bad, emotionally distancing yourself, getting financially independent or relying on another trusted relative might be the answer to your problems. This is more advice for children in abusive households. But also maintain your faith in Allah. You are not alone, many people are suffering in the same way or even worst than you are. You can get through it, i never ever thought I would but Allah won't leave you in that situation forever. Try your best within your capacity. You will find a way out❤❤

[@sparklemotion8377]

So why is everyone suffering alone? Why don't the victims find strength in numbers to change? Sure, there are always people who have it worse, but how does that help me or them?

[@hopeali]

@@sparklemotion8377 Some do find strength in that and are able to get through their situation. Why you assume that everyone who suffers just remain suffering? It helps to know because it shows you that despite your situation you still aren't suffering as others and it gives you strength that you can keep going. If others doing worst than you can find a way to keep going it means there is hope for you and you can do it as well. At least that's how i feel. Sometimes you feel hopeless and like no one is suffering more but the reality is there are always people suffering more. If they can keep going, so can i.

[@hakimkiseeka]

Allahamdulila good advice

[@YASM05-i1m]

The last 4 are characteristics of my family 😢. May Allah SWT protect us and give us the strength to pass these tests.

[@SamirFakhri]

May Allah guide and help anyone growing up like this or dealing with the results, Aameen

[@shabanafathima7727]

This is the best speech I have ever heard. This should be heard and circulated everywhere. I think we all have atleast one dysfunctional trait in us and in our family. And the concept of eating together as a family was explained only now by psychologists but our beloved Nabi has mentioned this concept ages ago. Subhanallah!! A good family shapes a good nation. Islam is not just a religion, it is the way of life.. ❤❤❤

[@gabrielekarl9278]

You don’t need Islam for this point of view; every decent person in the whole world shares this opinion.

[@s.7948]

Subhanallah divine timing and great lesson for us all. May Allah swt always guide us ameen 🙏

[@Ahbhswrzq9221]

MashaAllah this Shaykh is speaking truth and always talks about real life issues rather than just quoting the same hadiths and verses like other shyoukh. May Allah bless him.

[@osmanh9394]

Please make dua for my two angels daughters stuck with a stepdad I am so scared 😭😭 so many evil people in this world.

[@MohammedAteeqUrRahman]

Very true Very good explanation Jazakallah khair

[@hopeali]

My family is all of this💔 The only way i survived was distancing myself emotionally to cope. I wish that when i was younger i could've found scholars like this, it would have saved me from more pain.

[@sdflores7572]

My husband's family is the pretend " all is well", family and when something goes wrong they ignore the issues and pretend nothing is happening. The avoidant family.

[@davidkhan1928]

That's not bad idea, don't stress over things you can't change. Moving on to things that matter is the way to success.

[@tinyking11]

Facts!! This is family too. They fake it until they make it. Once they got home they argue all the time. Their masks came off for the most part. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@arzoozra8957]

And what's your family 😂

[@jir1609]

@@davidkhan1928that’s toxic to he more exact. You are avoiding emotions at all costs and that’s not healthy.

[@MissNikiX]

The “avoidance” family is SUPER dysfunctional!! I’m so glad u shared that one. Salute!🫡

[@Interfaith_Dialogue]

People has changed because social media. We are like sheeps, we see and we believe. We need a reminder, educating about the way of the prophet. As a father, i noticed that marriage isn't easy. The man must keep his wife and childeren together, or they will be lost.

[@dathip]

LOL 😂 How has social media affected the authoritarian family for instance? I want to know

[@yardleyj9391]

Even before social media, our modern fast pace life was a problem. Nowadays, even if we get a chance to eat together, we bring the phone to the table.

[@MsMatty-oj1jb]

Some people are against tools that enlighten others about reality. When people are enlightened they are aware of their fundamental rights as humans. Those people that push against others enlightenment are the abusers and hide behind religion.

[@NoNoahhhh]

Your second exemple - conflict driven : you are right. The consequences you mentioned for this, totally apply on me. And i am stuck at this point in many aspects. But i keep strong

[@UmaU-pg1mx]

Hi. I have a narcisstic monster as a birthgiver. She loves dunya too much and acts as if she is better than everyone around her. She is the main cause of constant conflict in my family. May Allah give us patience and wisdom and relieve us from this pain

[@hadilayyad6147]

That’s my mother in law.

[@MamaMama-sv3b]

My mother are also love this duniya and it’s love my brother became atheist but she still love wealth of this world

[@Ryoko007]

this sounds like my sister. she has kids but she very much always needs people to approve of her than the creator.

[@MamaMama-sv3b]

No I did not I left the west successfull life and move back home just sake of Allah

[@zubairplus]

It's probably the best videos I have ever watched on youtube.

[@GoddestPitcher]

(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). In a Dysfunctional Famileye Despite how Much Eu Change Ur Famileye Mwmbers will only Real-eye the Version of Eu tha Benefits Them the Most and that They Held the Most Power Over and they will Try to Hold Eu To It

[@majidsiddiqui2906]

Good topic to discuss. With hind site I come from one of these dysfunctional families. It may have impacted my own familiy now.

[@tippi9884]

Insightful subhanAllah

[@Corporal-cain]

My name is Cain Martin and I'm from England and I am 25 older Suffering borderline personality disorders and mentally ill problems since I was 13 year Both my step family and real family always fight for everything Thank you to him for telling about the dysfunctional family 😂

[@sherpetra8203]

May Allah 3azza wa jell bless this man

[@sandysan177]

Man, my family is all of the above.. where did I land up at?

[@mogamadgreyson143]

In that situation,I'm Islam, you are allowed to break ties..

[@sandysan177]

Thankyou guys... Iam already putting up boundaries, doing limited fone calls and meet ups. Calling out on bad behaviour, saying no to requests that feel burdersome. It's going good.

[@jellycat4384]

Mine is also all the above apart from the alcohol consumption, wow he is sooo right

[@sidali2590]

May the almighty grant peace to these families

[@SpiritsAndDemons]

I grew up in a high conflict family. Mom and dad always screaming. Drove me crazy. It got to the point where I started yelling at them to grow up!! They would stop and be quiet for a little while. Shish... I hate yelling!! Now 37yo and married... I am quiet and refuse to fight or yell. We have 6 children under 12yo. We eat together, cook and clean together... Go on walks, long drives, and read together. Everything in moderation. My children rather be outside than be on their devices. They have laptops, tablets, and cellphones. They just lay around. ❤ Me and my husband have an old fashioned mind set. You would think having 6 children under 12yo would be hard... It's not when everyone helps out. ❤

[@smiles4you142]

My family is a mixture of conflict driven, authoritarian, and emotionally detached...... And to some extent physical abuse and violence based....... I'm exhausted of all this

[@asifahmad2551]

Thank you brother for sharing this hadees 👍🏻

[@cutiepieaj9112]

This is a beautiful and timely reminder. Jazakallah khairan

[@_angelique9267]

Spoken with Wisdom & Truth! Thank you & GOD Bless to All, peace, love & light, namaste! 🙏😇🧡🧡🧡🌈✨

[@TitaMariamLovesfoodandtravel]

Subhanallah. Jazakh Allah khayr for sharing this video.

[@No_1_Importantt]

I'm so very happy to hear this from Muslims. Kudos! Wish my ex husband and I found these types of Muslims. Would have been really helpful if this was more of a focus than praying and "respect"!

[@jonblazeinc]

I can relate to much of what he says, he's not wrong at all and speaks eloquently .....Our family is horrifically divided with siblings and parents not talking. Horrid, luckily the soul searching, personal development, and taking psychedelics have helped ground me more to deal with my wounds

[@LifeIsATest4TheHereafter]

No family is perfect. We all have either one of these shenanigans in our families

[@hakimdiwan5101]

You are not getting it because your family isn't any of these types, be grateful for it.

[@mohammedalizia1053]

@@hakimdiwan5101 How are you saying this so confidently as if you know his/her family isn't like this?

[@hakimdiwan5101]

@@mohammedalizia1053 Because the one who has dysfunctional families knows the difference between it and normal family issues.

[@JockBuschveld]

@@hakimdiwan5101 clearly you live in a fantasy world if you belive families should be perfect.

[@hakimdiwan5101]

@@JockBuschveld When you get sober up I want you to read all that has been said here so far and then explain what logic you used to come to that conclusion. I don't want to believe that you have a lower than room temperature IQ to say something like that.

[@almaworden2188]

I love this. My my fiance is Muslim and I grew up christian, we both grew up in very dysfunctional families, but we are determined how to create an emotionally intimate and supportive space for each other, we have good communication and understanding and we both agree that these are important for a long healthy lasting relationship.

[@DeyaIV]

This is a very important video, it should be translated into many languages. Thanks for sharing it.

[@ahmadhidayah1]

Aamiin to all the good duas in the comment section. May Allah gives you happiness in your family 🤲❤️

[@BlakeTedKord]

2, 4, 5 can be a very popular mix.

[@hainleysimpson1507]

Damn he is spot on. In Jamaica majority of homes are of the conflict driven, emotionally detached and authoritarian type. Is it any wonder we have such a high amount of violent crime and the slang among the poor is saturated with references to violence? This explains a lot of what is wrong with my homeland.

[@ceciliachibwe3788]

wow!such a powerful message u have delivered .u re a God sent man to change many lives,continue posting such amazing videos to empower us.thank u for sharing a beautiful message. be blessed indeed.

[@neel8011]

So beautiful.. Thank you so much dear and God bless you always 🙏❤

[@Yasharrrrr]

Baruch HaShem! Very good and very relevant video to current times!

[@leanabellemelendez3326]

😮I have heard it explained like this❤I'm not Muslim either but you're speaking facts🙏 God bless you🙏

[@makitright5326]

This is such realistic speech i eve red heard. May Allah bless you

[@edithndhlovu3477]

Powerful presentation

[@LisachildOTMH]

Growing up in my family we suffered all 5 of these and my mother and step father were narcissists. I had mental health trauma and severe CPTSD and left home at 16 as I couldn’t take much more . I never recovered from it all until I turned to God in my forties. I’m 57 now and have healed my traumas… it’s a bit late in life and I feel all what I went through effected my own family until I was strong enough to change things… sad because I know I had so many talents to share with the world…

[@Butfirstchaii]

Same here I'm in my 30s and still trying to change for the better and over come these things we went through all 5 too.

[@wolf.eye._-]

You still can ❤ You are never too old to pursue these things, you still have your talents. Do what you love to do, help others when you can. 57 isn't that old! I wish you all the best. ❤❤❤

[@LisachildOTMH]

@@Butfirstchaii oh bless you, it feels so unfair doesn’t it I’ve had to go through such darkness to find the light but we will have our victory stay strong beloved 💪 one ❤️ God is good… 🙏🏽

[@LisachildOTMH]

@@wolf.eye._- oh bless you and thank you but it’s not that I feel old and it’s too late to be anything successful far from it , I just feel mentally drained , sad at times and Worn out but I’m strong and God is good so I know I will get my victory.. thank you for your kind words. One ❤️

[@FaisalKhan-gc3tg]

MashaAllah brother so good.

[@MSSHARIII]

This should be spread near and far! Great breakdown.💛💛💛 New subbie!

[@ajourneytoislam]

Jazakallah khair ✍️ I needed this And subscribed to your channel brother 🎉 Much ❤️

[@OriginalTalyna]

I am not muslim and I love this video. This speech is for everyone, well said. Hopefully it will open people’s eyes on their situation and make them act for a healthy change

[@t.8936]

The emotionally detached family is the product of the parents not wanting to be the other forms. They dont want to argue, or be violent, or authoritatian, so they just check out and stay silent and have no connection. Sad but true. I've seen it. For some families there is no way out of this web. It's either one or the other.

[@lartist-jk8fp]

Thank you for this.

[@brunan9655]

Appreciate your mirror explanation. Great great content

[@nonoriginalproduct]

I can attest to that high conflict family. It affected me in ways I never thought it would. It effects my sister more than it affected me. She is suicidal and has tendencies. With me, he summed me up perfectly, I have severe anxiety, severe depression. I try not to think about it but i’m always in my head. I can’t hold friendships, i’m very detached from everyone. It started with my grandmother and my dad. Then those high conflict tendencies flowed to my family, then after I turned twelve, it became detachment. After a while I moved in with my friend, didn’t turn out well. Then I went back to my dad, another heated fight that I punched a hole in the wall, then me and my sister moved in with my grandmother, the source of it all, and it just got worse. I don’t blame my dad for leaving, but I can’t see myself forgiving him or my grandmother. I’m 20 now, and years after, I am still dealing with the damage and realizing just how deep this rabbit hole goes, I think I am making progress, but its such a slow process, I think about going to therapy, but being in the military complicates that. I worry about my sister.

[@hakimkiseeka]

Ohh dear u will heal

[@shahnazbegum784]

Jazak Allah khair Shaikh...it's the first time I'm hearing that there are so many types of dysfunctional families..... Alhamdulillah we are not one of them but it's a good advice for this generation parents.. As children are the greatest blessing 🙌 of Allah SWT its our duty as parents to give them peace at home, quality time , love, proper education deen and duniya I mean and above all God fearing... May Almighty Allah SWT bless 🙌 us all and guide us to proper upbringing of our children.... Aameen

[@guerillagardener2237]

Speaking great truths this man. I agree with all these observations. We need to fix our societies so we can help eachother.

[@_asantesana_squashbanana_]

Shukran.

[@kits...]

Thank you so much. I know now know that my family maybe one of those families and yes, i totally agree that It's never too late to change.😊 ❤ Family is about love and as my parents always tell me that breaking upor fighting is always the easy way out but keeping up, adjusting and being together will be difficult at first but in the longer run, it'll be beneficial since you need family now or later because that's all you have and as they say, one shouldn't burn the bridges😊 there should always be open communication❤

[@sergeyastov6353]

I grew up in a family with all 5 of these issues, in various doses. Unfortunately, left Islam then came back in later life, alhamdolillah . The problems that stem from this kind of upbringing are deep rooted and cause major issues throughout life, just try not to pass the behaviours and issues on to the next generation.

[@shivapriyasaraswati7171]

🙏🏼 I am Hindu, raised in a Christian family of conflict. I wholeheartedly agree with this imam's message. Much respect to you sir! This message is true for all, no matter if you are religious, no matter what your culture, ethnicity, or nationality. These are universal truths. I am happy to see this message being spread. We need more of this type of teaching. Thank you!

[@1momentart]

Yazak Allah khyran

[@moinmahmud6265]

Jeffrey Dahmer,an American serial killer had a family of both Conflict Driven and Emotional Detachment, so yeah dysfuctional families are scary.

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

*So what is the solution sheikh? We try to keep our selves away from the evil family members but we are told to keep swilatu rahim. But the more closer we come to them the more problems occur. What should we do?* 🤔

[@M.H.M1208]

You may try everything, but trust and belief in allah is the only way. May allah help you.

[@learnbasicarabic7989]

Pray for the family members to be protected from thr plots of shaitan and from their own nafs

[@hakimkiseeka]

Put yourself first

[@LovingAtlanta]

👍🙏Good good good. Thank you. 🙏💝

[@Dr.Acetaminophen1921]

Wow! Everybody irrespective of the religion they belong to, needs to hear this! This is amazing!

[@hespeaksinourdreams3060]

I’m not Muslim either but I grew up in a substance/conflict home and kinda authoritarian as well. My way or the highway kinda deal so much so I couldn’t even go to highschool football games

[@meekomio]

Yikes! I see examples of a couple close relatives here. This is extremely informative and I wish this would be given to people before they becomes parents. We don’t often see what we are doing while we are in it.

[@adamburton5184]

When you hear this you start to realise that although some problems are more pronounced in different religious or irreligious groups, we all see the same problems really / are all the same

[@NorbertKasko]

My family was the first three and the last one combined a total disaster. Otherwise If you mention these problems to a religious person they either laugh at you or think you are "disobedient" or disrespectful towards your parents. No help.

[@believer_2403]

Asalamualaikum I'm suffering from depression rn and I'm 18. We're just 3 members in our family i.e me , my ammi and abbu but our family is very dysfunctional. There's no understanding between my parents they argue on every small thing . Due to our dysfunctional family , I feel really bad for my parents because they don't trust eo and always use abusive words . I feel like dying everday I know this isn't right but the situation in our house is getting worse day by day . Please pray for us May Allah SWT guide all of us to the right path. Ameen

[@joyceecyoj.]

And he spoke only truth and this is not religion bonded. Nice observations! The world is full with these behaviors! Thank you for this! ❤

[@followyourdeen]

Very informative...👍 Truly an eye opener..

[@amandacosta5373]

This is so good! So true

[@karimaupton406]

I wish this man would speak to both my mother and father. They are both Muslim but refuse to acknowledge that they raised myself and my two sisters in a dysfunctional and broken home. They preach to us in living in the Islamic way but tell me I'm wrong when I point out their contradictions and hypocrisy and try and remind them of the morals of the Prophet that they are subconciously abandoning out of ego and mental superiority, mainly because of that fact that I am not a practising Muslim as they are and younger than them and as their daughter. Especially as they are of the belief that and I quote, "The parents will always be right over their children whether the parent is right or wrong." But they don't understand that the reasons for my lack of faith is down to their behaviour and the behaviour of the people of the Islamic school I was forced to study in. So I suffered abuse at school as well as came home to more abuse flying around. There was no safe space and there was no consistency of leading by example. So I have been pushed away by it all. Rather than have a religion that fuels me with anger, unanswered questions and confusion, I chose to walk my own path with the morals of knowing right from work and treat people as an equal and be the example of a good person of courage to change hearts rather than stoop to the level of what is bad and hurts others.

[@hakimkiseeka]

Ohhh dear

[@Elemental_Buttahfly_II]

6th type is the narcissistic family. The type where the single mother is bitter and evil. She passed those traits onto her children.

[@miab.1916]

My family can be emotionally unavailable. But if I come to them they’ll talk. But when I hear they are experiencing some hard times I take the initiative to call and console them. After a while I just shut down and deal with my feelings alone. 🤷🏾‍♀️ It’s like everyone is for themselves like he said. Well said! What a suffering!

[@ElakkiyaSaravanaRajan]

I thought we are a functional family, but I realize we are conflict driven family. My daughters (6 & 8) fight over everything . I am so fed up with them and I shout at them. Hope we change for better.

[@abrarahmed6499]

Children usually fight at that age 6 and 8 aged kids usually fight

[@unlikenoother434]

Great content. Thank you for sharing this... I got some work to do. ❤

[@RoanPretorius-de7xv]

In all these families there is a lack of love! For each other and for God. I pray each person who truly seeks truth and communion with God may find Him - by Gods grace and mercy

[@Elite_Vovager]

ماشاالله

[@Kaushalyamt9]

Thank you!

[@dianeandries1331]

Dear Sir, this is a very good and educational presentation. Thank you! It is important for all families. I would like to add though that there are many animals who care for each other too. And many animals have a high level of intelligence such as elephants, dolphins, dogs, cats. Animals need to be treated correctly too. Best wishes,

[@СветланаИванова-ы4г8е]

If you keep your faith and make your families more healthy and loving nothing can stop you.

[@sparklemotion8377]

Yeah, but what's more important. Water is wet.

[@nehanair4447]

Thank you... really good 👍

[@Dreamdays476]

Good point ☝️

[@joannaszymanowska8886]

Excellent speech. Chapeux bas.

[@christiangonzalez6332]

I grew up with all of these in 1 household it was the worst glad I was able to break away and start my own and show them different

[@halah709]

Can anyone give the link of full lecture of this video??

[@nyxsun]

All 5 out 5 for my family and I broke every chain. You are not limited to how your story began.

[@mohamedomar4471]

Its very True Masha Allah

[@s.s2510.]

To be in such situations for so long it feels like I'm the villian and deserve every bad thing that has happened since the beginning......

[@anniewilkins2620]

I grew up in the alcoholic, abusive family. My father suffered from PTSD and became alcohol dependent. He was abusive physically with my mother and mentally and emotionally with all of us. He sought help many times but would relapse each time. Being older, I understand it and I didn't ever use it as an excuse growing up but it did affect my relationships with people in that, I have major trust issues and I can't stand seeing people drunk. Makes me sick

[@tanveerahmed8830]

The last one is so common !!

[@rosieali299]

99% due to Men