The Ultimate Age Gap Relationship Q&A

[@kimbuchanan4714]

I met my now husband when I was 21 and he was 37, ( 16 years age gap ) we are 55 and 71 now, been together for 34 years and married 25 years.

[@myfrenchvoyage9118]

Quiet. There’s this feeling I get from your videos that I haven’t gotten elsewhere yet. I could watch you just behind the walls talking about whatever or doing whatever and feel really great and wouldn’t even know when the time passes by. When I can explain it I would definitely tell you but it’s something relating to calm.

[@lynntrovert2471]

Yeah, same. It's a nice calm groundedness. It's nice to observe the love, respect, and their deep ability to communicate. They're both so introspective, that to observe the communication and their thoughts is very grounding, no matter the topic.

[@amazonionavalon8252]

@@lynntrovert2471 I agree with you both about this quality they both possess. It's the kind of company I crave, as it brings the best out in me and challenges my thought processes in such a satisfying way.

[@loupelizzo2399]

You can’t help who you fall in love with and love is love, been in an age gap relationship before and we didn’t have any issues with it but everyone around us did. I enjoy your videos and enjoyed both of you being so honest and open, and couples in a relationship need to make plans. You are a very cute couple together and enjoy watching how you talk with each other so thank you so much for this great video

[@valpulaski8298]

My gf is 16 yrs younger and I had a war between my heart and mind about the gap when we met. I also tried to push the idea out of my head every day and night but I was lucky my gf was so persistent and she just told me hey it's ok and you're mine now. Lol. She's so wonderful. Knows what she wants and goes after it and doesn't even think about what anyone thinks. That's just one of the many things that make her so amazing 😍.

[@catalaya3530]

This video came up on my feed by happenstance. I appreciate the calm energy that you bring together.

[@elultimoprimate20]

I love it when you bring the topic because I have a 22 year gap with my girlfriend and at the beginning it was kinda hard. But watching you both getting along so easily and loving each other helps us a lot. Good luck, we love your content ❤

[@fortheloveofpaws2424]

I love the video in a quiet background.I have never been so amaze by any couple's relationship in youtube, but yours is just spectacularly unique and inspiring. You are both a precious soul. And I agree with P that when it comes to love,there is no room for logic.Wish you all the best!😊

[@kabukidance3724]

i love that you are honest enough to bicker - this is honest interactions

[@ryannem7733]

I have a 14 year age gap. But we hardly ever argue, we get along great. I don’t really give a crap what other people think. He’s awesome 😎 we have so much in common that the age difference doesn’t matter.

[@TheAshMcG]

I am in a similar age gap relationship. He is 30, I am 54......we have a great time and now we live together. What makes is hard is the families, my family has accepted it but thinks I am delusional and his family will not accept it.......period. We care deeply for each other, but not having my families love and support is tough.......I have never been married, and no kids, and he has no children, so when it is just the to of us are together it is wonderful....

[@pamelarw58]

Love is Love!! Age differences really depend on the people concerned & it is private! 💖

[@patman9419]

There are numerous ways to live your life. Once I asked my dying grandmother how do I live into my nineties like she did? She said to keep love in your heart always.

[@deepilot3743]

I love these age differences relationships. I've not been in one for many years. The last one was a 30-year difference. The only problem I saw was a generational gap. But I do miss this sometimes, as I love younger women, well maybe someday again.

[@truelover1101]

👍

[@sunflwer1111]

I like a quiet background. Thank you for answering my question. I’m the late bloomer. P’s advice help me to feel all will come naturally in time. ❤️👭🏻❤️

[@callmekaty]

Quiet. Your channel is such a uniquely calming place for me. 💛

[@aleyna7498]

You both gave great advice! Thank you for that. Also, I have been following you for a long time now, and this is one of the best videos that shows your love, affection, and the depths of your relationship. I really enjoyed it. A little side note: there is nothing immoral about your relationship. Sadie was already an adult when you started. Love your videos! And I like the sound this way:)

[@deedeew4040]

I was married and together with my late husband for 38 years, 23 years apart. I have struggled for the last 12 years. When you meet someone you fall in love with and they you, please do not depart due to age. I will never fall in love again. Blessings to you both.

[@clare2439]

what a lovely couple

[@mae-annbigcas191]

quiet, i always love watching vlogs without any music during conversations. by the way i miss watching your vlogs so much, i stopped watching your vlogs for almost 1 month i think because i have to save my data in my online classes. i know it's very late, but i want to spend my time watching the vlogs that i missed while answering my modules. i always love you guys so much and i'm back haha. this is one of my fav by the way ♡

[@iamabundance4711]

Glad i stumbled on this channel. It's really inspiring to see 2 beautiful people loving at a soul level and not on a 3D perspective. Reminds me of twin flames usually taking on different challenges in order to make a difference here on this earth. And TFs usually have huge age gaps. =) Continue to inspire people. Much love and many blessings. =)

[@mysuperpack63]

I'm in a 16 yrs age gap relationship and it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm younger and the only con is, as you said, the prospective of not having the same amount of time to live together. It sucks and I try and not think about it

[@moordt]

Thanks for sharing again! I like it when it's quiet. But that's mainly because sound mixing is difficult and background music tends to be too loud. If mixed well it could add to a video. But in case of just talking I would leave it out.

[@aquariusscorpio6352]

Thank you for sharing your birth details❤️ Sadie: taurus sun, cancer moon, leo rising, P: libra sun, aquarius moon, pisces rising

[@fierce111_3]

I loved the wisdom so much from both of you. Really admired that and how you inspire your followers in a simple brilliant & genuine ways. I love you guys💖❤️😘

[@yoramalon5273]

Excellent film. Very inspiring. Please, no music in the background, it alters my augmented sensory emergence. What a lovely couple. I am glad to see that true love wins over. Conventionalities , race, distance, nationality, any kind of status, age difference, gender... Love wins over it all. I bear in mind , it has to be reciprocal too. My takeaway from this film is that, if i really love a woman, nothing in this world should hinder my reach. I should never let go.

[@amazonionavalon8252]

Beautiful words and sentiments, that will be one lucky and cherished woman 👩 ❤

[@janetwilliams5438]

Please....No music in background. Love your videos. You are such a lovely couple. I've been with my partner for 57 years. Love is love.

[@Miss.T827]

Music in a background, shouldn't be loud. But even if it doesn't have music , you guys are still fantastic...... Love you guys😃🥰

[@chahaksagar]

I love listening to you guys it's peaceful it's soothing thank you 😌❤

[@storybellz]

You two are one of my favorite couples- and it's amazing that you posted less than an hour ago when you did, cause I was just listing my top 5 favorite YT couples for myself, and they are: Julia Zelg and Eileen, Alexis and Lillian Rose and Rosie Paige and Holly and you two- Sadie and P! 🙂

[@sunflwer1111]

I follow Julie and Eileen also. Now I need to explore these other 3 couples. Thank you for posting.

[@storybellz]

@@sunflwer1111 You are very welcome! I just realized that I left a letter out of Paige's name. So, if you look them up, it's Paige and Holly. Enjoy! :-)

[@chefushaR]

Check out abbie and Julia

[@ran1ani]

Also check out Chey & Erica, Mandie + Danae, and Nidhi Shukla & Jadzia

[@lynntrovert2471]

I know who Rose and Rosie are: they're hilarious. Are some of the other couples listed age gaps?

[@machfrju]

I love hearing the two of you just talking!

[@amazonionavalon8252]

I do too, they're so gentle and carefully considered....

[@learningenglish6801]

How Sadie comfort with Paula 💖

[@Idealrealitiess]

Hi guys im that 20 year old. thank you so much for answering my question. Lol its okay the finacial part of that question is the least of my question. But i want to say i appreciate you guys perspective on it. Because like P said im still trying to self discover myself but at the same time fighting parents and societys thoughts on me joining this rat race. And sadie i understood completly when you said everything will always even out. That helps me alot as a 20 year old our hormones tend to be too dramactic. And IT IS What IT IS will always be my favorite motto as well. Great video🍃🙏

[@fightontony5797]

Love is love no matter what your age is. Just be happy and love each other.

[@Karmellie]

After a long time first to like and comment. ♥️🌈🦋I love you guys🦋🌈♥️ Congratulations on your private marriage. ♥️God blesses you both♥️

[@ge5493]

You guys are so darn cute!!! Also, quiet background is 👌🏼

[@AA-wd2or]

If you two are happy that is No1 priority in your life.

[@lpra1376]

Thank you for answering my question, Sadie and P. For music, I prefer quiet one, but with music also okay. And I am curious now about Victor's wife, Svetlana 🤣🤣🤣. When is the next Q&A vlog? We need your advices. Thank you.

[@taramoonshadow363]

You both are so beautiful in so many ways!

[@candeyayiperez2578]

Big hug 🤗🤗, I love many things , like your wisdom, your complicity, your care and deep respect to each other. Music only if Sadie is singing in Italian and playing the guitar to P.🤩🥰 Kisses from Tenerife Spain

[@lynntrovert2471]

Wow, "a hidden treasure" is exactly how I feel about my age gap relationship.

[@sofiavidal6262]

You are so cute!! In my opinion, I prefer a quiet background in this kind of video. 😊😊

[@jennifersmetanko6631]

Thank you for the video and I don't mind if there is music at the end of the video like you did in other videos❤

[@clare2439]

P. looks SO much younger than she is btw, i thought she was in her 40s!

[@speakingupforpointmolate4670]

It's interesting that a big deal is made about age gaps between two women. Many men marry women much younger than them and it's generally accepted. It goes to show that there is a double standard in society regarding gender and gay couples. My wife is 11 years younger than I am. We love each other, and like all couples, we have our disagreements, but we really understand each other. And, I like it quiet.

[@erickafajardo1291]

I prefer quiet,I genuinely enjoy listening to your voices most especially when both of you laughs.Thank you for sharing with us the bits and pieces of your relationship.Love you both💜💜💜❤️❤️❤️

[@alex.07272]

Well I don’t see any comments about your zodiac signs so I decided to search and there it is P’s big 3 are: Sun: Libra Moon: Aquarius Rising: Pisces Sadie’s big 3 are: Sun: Taurus Moon: Cancer Rising: Leo

[@thomasg627]

I didn't mean to comment on this until the last question came up, then I just had to, because my situation is in so many ways different and then so similar at the same time. For starters I'm a straight male and the age gap between me and my wife is only half of yours, but then I've lived in Italy (not far from Bologna) for over 22 years now and my Italian never got beyond the stuff you need to say in a store. Worse than that, not only can I not communicate in Italian, I'm German and my wife doesn't speak any German either, that's why we talk English at home, which means neither of us gets any practice in learning the partners language, while English is rarely useful when talking to other people. On the bright side we travel a lot all over Europe where most of the time one of us has to translate everything for the other, meaning we alternate in depending on the other which bonds us together stronger than we (probably) otherwise would. No idea how you two could generate situations where not always Sadie depends on P but sometimes it goes the other way around, but I would recommend you try to find something on that line. To answer the question you had for your viewers in the end: I highly prefer no background noise because in videos with a background, whether some noise or music or whatever, I barely understand a word and I hate it if I have to read subtitles to understand what you're saying. In fact I've abandoned quite a few other channels only because they always had such a loud background that I couldn't understand a word.

[@luzmdiaz4194]

I like a quiet background cause that way I can focus on what you’re talking about nice video by the way I loved it ❤️👍

[@thunderj1015]

Respect to you 💐💐💐👏🏾 ppl will find always smthg to say.Most important understand each other n find a common purpose

[@smwynn1]

Love you two, and I like your videos 🤫 ❤️

[@ingridmaduro6543]

No music in the back ground

[@loupelizzo2399]

Answering your question well on sit down videos no music seems to work but with vlogs maybe have music in the background. Sit down videos I mean Q and A’s or just the both of you chatting with each other

[@Miss.T827]

The way P is saying "BALD"😂😂😂

[@goddess7713]

Love Is Love..

[@divrodricks2525]

I LOVE that...I'd rather have somebody who drips on my floor...than a clean floor with nobody to connect with.🥺

[@janiceirenenoble4779]

my choice - no music please... best regards to both of you S&P 💜💜💜

[@wingbat]

I prefer quiet backgrounds. :) Can really enjoy the vibe and mood that way, for me at least

[@jenna4117]

P - how is Artemisia? I miss watching her KZbin channel

[@carolynmaclennan1299]

I like it quiet when your talking but its nice when your out and about xx

[@SadieP]

What about when we’re doing bikini try on hauls and stuff? 😊

[@carolynmaclennan1299]

@@SadieP yes music is good then🙂

[@glorymollel9987]

No music in the conversation videos

[@mcelliotdawson7700]

You both look beautiful together , not creepy at all.

[@jeannelleleblanc367]

we plyed with it Sadie I get you care but what other think ......you are to be judge but once they judge so what happen.....they turn around and think about the next one thing ......

[@e.liz.abethvader]

I've another one! Shit too late. Is it possible you two might be twin flames? ♥️❤

[@SadieP]

P. thinks we’re more like soulmates.

[@sunflwer1111]

I get Twin Flame vibes too. Only you know for sure.

[@globe1globe1]

07:41 you can leave Turkey, but Turkey never gets out of you. HAHA

[@isabelwinstanley7156]

I said to someone who spoke to me first in French and then in German, I only speak a little English!

[@ecesungur]

I like it when it's quiet (An answer to Sadie's question)

[@vh2865]

Where do you get your mushrooms

[@vh2865]

Rely where do you get your mushrooms I suffer from depression and anxiety I would love to try them

[@SadieP]

In canada you can get them online, just google mushroom dispensary. Here in italy I have no clue! 😅 i liked the golden teacher mushrooms as a starter. 👌

[@Staaaarrr0]

I prefer without music :)

[@Karmellie]

Guys please don’t underestimate Sadie. She is very good with Italian styles. Watch Sadie and P’s vlogs. If it’s Sadie’s music then ok. Otherwise no music would be nice

[@sahinayiasoumi3495]

Twin flames they look like twins ♥️

[@suzie_155]

Do the slug toys move as well?😍

[@SadieP]

Yes of course! They are for fidgeting. You can check them out on Instagram & tiktok @sadiessilkyslugs 🥰

[@Kuzakistheone]

I like how don't add music to your background. I can really hear and understand. I hate background music! Annoying

[@debbieritchie2417]

Use not creepy just live each day gals

[@Kuzakistheone]

Sadie do you speak Italian?

[@kristinapettersson1948]

Thank you for the video👍 and a l dont mind the music ❤

[@debbieritchie2417]

Hi from sydney

[@ran1ani]

Thank you for answering my question. You are my favorite couple! I love the advice you gave for 20 year olds. I wish I had figured myself out at or before that age, but I had to join the rat race and crash and burn to figure something out. Anyway, the good news is that I figured it out - now to navigate ahead from here… hopefully things will fall into place like P said 😊 I like a quiet background when you’re doing chit-chatty videos like this one. I think music is ok when you are not talking and just showing us around Love from Seattle ❤️

[@EllaBlueberry]

30:20 I was expecting smth like "...but luckly I hate people....so.....no big deal!" Ahahahahhah xD Hi guuuys ♡

[@SadieP]

😂😂😂 kinda true

[@sylviagarciasylviagarcia6930]

I love you both.i hope I can't find someone who accept me.

[@rorygrummisch4907]

Hi guys take care

[@margaridasantos3790]

Wise wonderful girls! Quite (but, please, keep talking... a lot)🙂

[@inix9748]

Note to myself... I like to find a hidden treasure. No music in the background. It's more intimate that way...

[@petronathompson2327]

Hello

[@abhanuteja7788]

Give age

[@cecechambers1016]

You guys are so super cool nice

[@aranerem3767]

How are you doing?

[@mavilmaignacio7581]

yes i love misic

[@shanthireddy441]

P..is the best

[@divrodricks2525]

I'm so glad I found y'all. I'm on the right side of queer youtube.

[@isaurasp4501]

Quiet

[@aristos6329]

32:44!!!

[@theyhearyourname]

i prefer no music :)

[@nickhudson4001]

Do you have aphantasia ? The girl who has nothing in her mind

[@isaurasp4501]

Sadie is looking a bit exotic.

[@haz6942]

Sadie, bu kadın senin enerjini tüketip seni depresifleştirmiş olabilir mi? Önceden daha enerjik ve mutluydun ve şimdi çok durgun ve tükenmişsin gibi hissediyorum.

[@tobrien297]

That's what happens when you've been manipulated and brainwashed by a narcissist.

[@DefinitelyMrsGi]

♥️

[@olartedaisyagusa3784]

Hi single lesbian I'm 32 years old single

[@yasararfathkamali713]

So u r with her when u were in teen and she was in her 40s ....

[@Nemenvagyokna]

she can just dye her hair, and will look 15 years younger.

[@faviogonzalez2009]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏