This problem of society criticising what teen girls and young people like goes beyond books, it also happens in movies, music, tv shows, etc. What young people like is ridiculed and then used for profit.
@9252634 жыл бұрын
I'll only permit the making-fun of Tiktok.
@mrs.katsukibakugou1154 жыл бұрын
The moment society stops criticising Aliens will finally come to earth
@mrs.katsukibakugou1154 жыл бұрын
@@925263 you my man are a wise, wise person
@KuLaydMahn4 жыл бұрын
Really, its as much an American (or whatever) tradition as hot dogs on the 4th July. It's been a thing since at least the 60's, probably the 50's too, maybe earlier. Have you ever seen that excerpt from an article back in 18th or 19th century criticizing the widesprwad use paper and lamenting that children will no longer know how to use chalkboards or some shit? Now that the technology and cultural balls are really rolling, old people criticizing the things young people do has just become part of the human condition. Heh... I keep rolling back my timeline but actually, various historical accounts suggest relapsarian thinking is millenia old. We've always had this notion that things were better when we were younger and even better long before.
@swine134 жыл бұрын
You got that the wrong way around. Its used for profit and then ridiculed. At least that's my experience. And im not arguing with you at all - i tend to agree - but I thought part of the hate is usually directed at how forced some of that content is. And that's a complaint that people make probably somewhat with YA interests at heart. I know I would be happier knowing that YA had a lot more stuff to read that was intentionally intelligent and raised good social issues through analogy or metaphor. I would have been happier to have more of that as a young adult, myself. Although I also think a lot of the hate is just people hating because they saw other people do it and they think they look smarter/cooler if they do it, too.
@ellen23214 жыл бұрын
I'm a librarian just sitting here like "Yes, girl! You tell 'em!"
@Cla2264 жыл бұрын
I find hilarious that society dunks on teen girls for being fans of boybands or YA books but they support and encourage the same level of fandom in men with sports.
@MissCaraMint4 жыл бұрын
If not more. Who ever heard of someone coming to blows and starting a literal brawl over Team Jacob vs. Team Edward.
@cookiemonster592634 жыл бұрын
@@MissCaraMint I meaaaaaan, I get where you're coming from but that very much is something that happened. Grown moms were fighting each other over whether RPat or Lautner was hotter (which low-key kinda creepy given how young Lautner was)
@rebecca50884 жыл бұрын
Yep. I think maybe people don’t realise that us teen girls are smart and can think for ourselves - we know what we like and don’t need anyone’s negative opinion.
@candycane17444 жыл бұрын
I know right 🙄 you never see as much hate on transformers and TMNT movies.
@Alikaoz4 жыл бұрын
@@rebecca5088 ...you don't need anyone's opinions, that's kind of the point of them. No argument or point to sway people is attempted, it's just people disliking something vocally in the same way you can fawn over what you like without it being anyone's business.
@pam73044 жыл бұрын
This is the reason why the whole "I'm not like other girls" started
@Zimuahaha4 жыл бұрын
Sadly, the "I'm not like other girls" phenomenon started long before Twilight. :(
@pam73044 жыл бұрын
@@Zimuahaha I didn't mean twilight, I meant society hating on female teenagers things was the reason
@kiriki45584 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and then they ridicule the girls for being "i'm not like other girls". Is a gigantic gaslighting, abusive behaviour over a whole population.
@tuumanka79744 жыл бұрын
Melina Rinaldis that is!(
@Moni-ob7xi4 жыл бұрын
@@kiriki4558 this
@crystalynn134 жыл бұрын
I would not be a reader if it wasn't for finding Twilight when I was 11 and YA is what kept me reading through my teen years
@Rivenlore994 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with the ya genre making me read so much
@beeepbooop7774 жыл бұрын
Same here girl!!!
@mitchconnor97484 жыл бұрын
Ya isn’t a genre. It’s the demographic
@crystalynn134 жыл бұрын
@@mitchconnor9748 I'm aware, I misspoke when I said genre. Its like when people refer to shounen as a genre of anime when its just a demographic.
@GarbageCannot4 жыл бұрын
Sub Twilight for Warrior Cats and you’ve got me. (I know they’re not YA, but they definitely rekindled my love for reading when I was about 11 or so.)
@noel0909094 жыл бұрын
“There is nothing wrong with loving what you love.... As long as it’s legal” I’d wear that shirt.
@hobihope29814 жыл бұрын
Key example of people hating teen girls: The Beatles. During their poppier era, they were aimed at teen girls. They were called a "boy band," and were criticized as dumb mindless music. Then during their experimental era, adult men hooked onto them and deemed them as "true musicians." Now in retrospect, regardless of the era the song comes from, people say their music is some of the greatest of all time. Would they be looked back as fondly if they'd always remained a boy band with their core demographic being teen girls?
@somerandompasserby4774 жыл бұрын
And with this generation with all the K-Pop, I'm wondering how that will turn up.
@lordfreerealestate83024 жыл бұрын
It's like we have to have male permission to enjoy something.
@shadowguy5304 жыл бұрын
Oh no, i hope i won’t start to call justin bieber real music when i become ‘old’
@DeidresStuff4 жыл бұрын
My great-grandma loved them lol.
@Cla2264 жыл бұрын
Yeah, look at kpop and one direction now, the same happened both were and are ridiculed now
@Valdagast4 жыл бұрын
_“Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”_ C.S. Lewis
@karisap4 жыл бұрын
Great quote thank you!
@MaylocBrittinorum4 жыл бұрын
Okay, I have to frame this somewhere in my house, it's just too perfect.
@RoseBaggins4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
@mirandajones78164 жыл бұрын
And that’s why I love this master (besides the fact that he wrote my childhood, favourite book series ever)
@FiddlebirdBlue4 жыл бұрын
How did reading that make me cry? THANK YOU
@joeyoneandonly4 жыл бұрын
*sees shirt* Ah I see you’re a woman of culture.
@kwcl1764 жыл бұрын
Sees profile pic Ah I see you are a person of culture
@LilDroidBlue4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend would love that shirt. Been trying to get him into Amanda's videos. Maybe this can be his in... 🤞
@Serothil_and_stuff4 жыл бұрын
The question is, is she the real Eleven? Now living a normal life? Compared to ST of course. Or is she just wearing the shirt?
@iwatchyoutube73114 жыл бұрын
People will make fun of teenage girls while simultaneously sexualizing them. Its gross.
@Heena67904 жыл бұрын
THIS! Omg, it's so fucking insane.
@kimberlyh.10904 жыл бұрын
Teenage girls rip each other apart when they should really be ripping everyone else.
@kimberlyh.10904 жыл бұрын
@Marlin Alarcon It's both, but much more all-encompassing with girls.
@glorfindelchocolateflowery63924 жыл бұрын
Its because they want to groom teen girls, and not every teen girl is going to bow down to the pressure because they are scared of them growing into strong independent women
@kiriki45584 жыл бұрын
Is disgusting.
@cindyl24444 жыл бұрын
Being a teenage girl in today's age is pretty much just trying to not be basic while simultaneously not being "quirky". Very hard to do when your interests will always be put into one category or the other.
@rebecca50884 жыл бұрын
I completely agree
@luthientinuviel38834 жыл бұрын
Yeah I dislike the way society tries to put kids in a hole like a peg, and I have never fit into a single hole which is really hard sometimes.
@peachysandie4 жыл бұрын
I'm seeing this...and it makes me relieved that I am no longer a teenager, because it really sucks seeing teen girls being mocked for XYZ:/
@Rivenlore994 жыл бұрын
If you’re a teenage girl society sees, to mock you for anything. It’s like nothing you do is correct.
@feebee68104 жыл бұрын
Yes, they treat teenage boys like these complicated people who are figuring out how to be a man and cope with real struggles but when it comes to teen girls they treat us like shallow beings who only talk about boys and social media...
@snowblood744 жыл бұрын
I'd like to share some of the wisest words I ever came across on tumblr: "Girls get ridiculed for everything they do. Might as well do what you want."
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
"Wise words" and "Tumblr" don't mix.
@snowblood744 жыл бұрын
@@Xehanort10 Then you've only been to the wrong places of tumblr, it seems.
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
@@GraveyardShift-tl6ri I've seen the site. Really bad fanfictions, terrible fanart, shippers who hijack shows that aren't about romance and only have it as a small subplot and demand it be made all about romance, can't tell the differences between actors and actresses and their characters and think that because characters are a couple in shows the people playing them have to become one too. The Olicity shippers on Tumblr really have a problem with that. Tumblr shippers also can't handle tragic endings, scary endings or anything other than "Everyone lives happily ever after, skipping through flowery fields, nothing goes wrong, no one dies, no conflict whatsoever" stuff. Half of them also literally only watch shows to see couples they like get together even if the show's not about that couple or about shipping in general. But Tumblr's like "Fuck that. The story, characters,acting, writing and everything else doesn't matter. Only who the characters are dating and banging." Sex scenes are fine every so often but for example if shippers were in charge of the DC CW shows every episode would be a half hour long sex scene.
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
No they don't. Stuff that happens to be for teen girls gets criticised for reasons unrelated to it being for teen girls but nothing gets criticised because it's for teen girls and they're not criticised for being teen girls who like it. That's just something fangirls say because rather than acknowledge the flaws in series they like they'd rather say it's only hated because it's aimed at them. Lindsay Ellis's "Everyone has to like things just because they're for teen girls or else they only hate them because they're for teen girls" really did a number on some of the people in these comments didn't it?
@riddlemethis35653 жыл бұрын
@@Xehanort10 There are a lot more stuff than fandom stuff on Tumblr. I found a lot of positivity posts that I read every morning. Not everything on there is fanfic stuff.
@dancer0rache934 жыл бұрын
I, a nearly 30 year old adult woman, love YA because most of the books I’ve read for adults are about 50something divorcees or are just toxic and depressing. The world is bad enough without me having to read Gone Girl and have my escapism tainted with how depressing and awful people can be.
@michellealyssa60154 жыл бұрын
Lmao I feel the exact same! A lot of books for "our age" are so depressing. I love the occasional thriller but they can get extremely depressing ad leave me feeling "off"
@19mmch4 жыл бұрын
That's why I love romance novels as well as YA. There are so many subgenres (mysteries, motorcycles, paranormal, sci-fi, thriller, historical, etc), but there's always a happy ending. There are emotional relationships and physical relationships of every kind. I've kinda given up on contemporary literature aimed at 30-something year old women, and only read non-fiction, YA or romance.
@Dreigonix4 жыл бұрын
And people wonder why so many people have depression when 90% of adult media is not only edgyedgygrimdark but also presents itself as what's "realistic" and tells us happiness is for kids.
@sawbonesquad48764 жыл бұрын
I'm a 28 year old guy and I agree. I get anxious easy reading those types of stories.
@Oushiro174 жыл бұрын
YES! One thing that frustrates me about adult fiction is the idea that there can't be a happy ending because "real life doesn't work that way". It's like geez, jaded much? YA can give me all the complexity of an adult novel, but they're more likely to entertain a positive overall outcome.
@SS-mk2yp4 жыл бұрын
I have a cousin who is my age and she's one of those "its cool to aggressively hate on Twilight for the heck of it" band-wagoners. The funny thing is, she's also a huge fan of Fifty Shades. I've never pointed out the irony to her, as I'd rather not make her feel shitty, but I like to think about it every now and then whenever I need a good laugh.
@pauliedoodle19394 жыл бұрын
Shanata Sukhu Haha, you are a much better person than I am. I would be throwing that in her face constantly. 😄
@Indiejones134 жыл бұрын
I think twilight has some stupid moments but its not a bad story idea. The issues are the creepy things Edward does and the toxic behavior in both Edward and Jacob.
@ter-ickajohn-son97164 жыл бұрын
@@Indiejones13 can u explain the toxic behaviours in Edward, cause I can understand why people say he's toxic, apart from the stalking in the beginning
@Indiejones134 жыл бұрын
@@ter-ickajohn-son9716 How about messing with her car so she can't go see Jacob
@ter-ickajohn-son97164 жыл бұрын
@@Indiejones13 that's it? And why did Edward not want Bella to go to Jacob's in the first place, and when she hopped on the back of the bike with jacob I didn't see him making that much of a fuss.
@angel_bow204 жыл бұрын
IM glad someone decided to talk about this
@AmandaTheJedi4 жыл бұрын
Check out lindsay’s video I have linked! She really looks at why she herself hatred on twilight so much and the societal side of it. Super well made video
@SteadFast4114 жыл бұрын
Along with Amanda recommending Lindsay's video on this topic, I'll add another commentator Sarah Z has touched on the subject, her most recent one being a bit of a deconstruction of the Oncler fandom that grew out of the Lorax film. It's a good look at how teenagers, in this case primarily girls, engage with art and creativity in a way that is amusing to most other people, and what that says more about us than it ever does about them.
@AmandaTheJedi4 жыл бұрын
Andy R I’ll check that out as well :)
@Alikaoz4 жыл бұрын
It's not new discourse
@obo29994 жыл бұрын
@@Alikaoz it's just women defending women from criticism. Because when something women like is laughed at, people decide that is a flaw in society
@sarahjustsarah72764 жыл бұрын
Adult books are depressing, I don’t need a reminder of what life is like usually. Give me a cringy fantasy romance adventure Y/N who likes werewolves and vampires anyday
@cheyenneross7584 жыл бұрын
Might I suggest "Child in Darkness" it's something I grew up with and you're never sure the "child" is human. I think you might find it enjoyable. Edit: spelling
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
I like a mix of realistic stuff and escapist stuff. To be honest I've never understood the "I don't want to be reminded of the real world because there's enough going on in it" thinking. Thinking that because there's bad things going on in the real word realistic films shouldn't be made makes no sense to me. People can't escape into a fantasy world to pretend everything's fine forever. Sometimes films, books, TV series, games whatever have to be made to show both the good and bad of the world.
@glorfindelchocolateflowery63924 жыл бұрын
@@Xehanort10 not when you are constantly living a horrible life
@glorfindelchocolateflowery63924 жыл бұрын
@@Xehanort10 sweetheart, I can see you are constantly trolling this channel and I myself just found out that this channel goes on about how people look down on girls for having their own entertainment but yet get angry at christains who have their own channels like pureflix, which is very hypocritical, so how about you do a mature thing and leave this channel just like I am about to do, because you see sweetheart, I am a adult 25 year old tired woman and I dont have time for foolishness anymore, goodbye to you and this channel. Have a bless day
@angelasmith30373 жыл бұрын
YESS
@franciscoandrew43084 жыл бұрын
The newest thing that gets hated in bc teenage girls like it is Kpop
@spectre93404 жыл бұрын
Yeah I thought people were hating on K-pop fans cos the stans are kinda toxic but then I remembered people were making fun of K-pop fans long before stan culture became more commonplace
@decayan90234 жыл бұрын
Personnally i don't hate kpop bc of its fanbase , i hate it bc of the way the people in the bands are treated ,it's really frightening once you start searching what their life condition is ... After i understand why people are drawn to that , before there was boy bands and it's just a logic following but this shit is scary
@nessyness54474 жыл бұрын
@@decayan9023 they actually have contracts in which is specified they can't date anyone sometimes, it's frightening.
@decayan90234 жыл бұрын
@@nessyness5447 if it was just that it would be okay (ish) but there is far more disturbing things : a lot of girls in kpop bands have to do "favors" to influent mans in order to not murder their carreers , the preparation to become a kpop singer basically wipe off your personnality to make you more bankable , until a band make enough money the singers have to live in debt and wait sometimes years before getting paid (it's a trick by managers to avoid the bands to broke up too early) and the list can go on ...
@nessyness54474 жыл бұрын
@@decayan9023 i find having to agree to not have a private life quite disturbing on it's own...and then the fans are crazy too.
@irinakermong12174 жыл бұрын
I'm a 24-year-old woman, going for a Master's Degree in literary criticism, and I still read YA novels to this day mainly because I find them so much more creative than a whole lot of adult novels. I kind of miss that escapism feel.
@emitheorbit11184 жыл бұрын
Hay, even though I'm a teenager, What are the most common tropes in adult (not young adult) books?
@sleepiesalem4 жыл бұрын
YoshiOrbit Well from the ones I snuck from my grandma’s book bag as a kid (note she reads romance so that’s what I mostly know) more ahem, detailed sexual scenes the (usually) female protagonist being the adult version of “not like other girls” where they’re more or less not complacent in their societal role (she read those Victorian or just 16th centuries set ones) oh and don’t forget the main guys just being adult versions of the bad boy trope. And this is just what I’ve seen for the most part but ok there are probably some rlly good adult novels but I’m gonna stick to what I usually read.
@emitheorbit11184 жыл бұрын
@@sleepiesalem So it's basically the same stuff, but more "adult" and sexual?
@vanessalopez35914 жыл бұрын
Same! 25 y/o in the middle of m Master’s program and I still usually reach for YA ✨
@sleepiesalem4 жыл бұрын
@@emitheorbit1118 Yes basically sorry it took 2 months to confirm.
@ReineGalena4 жыл бұрын
When I started reading from the adult section I realized that the only real difference is gratuitous sex and violence. Actual captivating storytelling isn't limited to age group or genre. I still love me some Garth Nix books. Unfortunately I don't have much reading time these days. 😢
@cookiemonster592634 жыл бұрын
I read quite a few fantasy novels and can confirm that the difference between the YA and the "adult" ones is that the adult ones have "Hi I'm grimdark brimstone and I swear a lot and I like swords" as their protagonists and the world is generally filled with more sex and violence and a bit more depressing while the YA ones are "my name is Ebony Darkness Dementia Raven Way and I'm pining after someone who doesn't love me back" but have happier endings.
@swine134 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Some of the best stories I ever read were in those Asterix and Obelix comics. Thats not even really reading!
@ajsnyder61604 жыл бұрын
I LOVE The Abhorsen Trilogy! You have good taste!
@books24384 жыл бұрын
Welp you were reading pretty tame YA lmao
@dhruvadange47784 жыл бұрын
@@swine13 what surprised me even more, is that while not as good as the originals, the new writers and illustrators handled it pretty well
@rebecca50884 жыл бұрын
In year 7, my English teacher told me that I shouldn’t read twilight because it’s not good enough for his standards. He was such an elitist prick. He made me feel so bad and inadequate for enjoying romance and YA novels. I was 11 and I’m just now realising at 16 how much he impacted my self esteem in regards to my intelligence and interests.
@rhodopisdenile89774 жыл бұрын
I remember my sister went to a Justin Bieber concert and when she came back her teacher said “so how was she?”. I don’t know why adult male teachers are criticizing female students for enjoying stuff aimed at teen girls.
@angelrae36604 жыл бұрын
I bet his taste is probably just the most popular books of classic literature written by white men.
@sophiejones77274 жыл бұрын
I had a teacher, admittedly her subject was not English, tell me Lord of the Rings was trash. Luckily I already knew that it's the second most published book of all time despite being only fifty years old. Still, it's a really bad thing for a teacher to say. A favorite book is a lot more than entertainment for a teenager. They really identify with and grow attached to characters, and use the stories to help them understand the world. Of course, that is exactly why Twilight is so bad (in a way that 50 Shades of Grey is not).
@goldenchipmunk4 жыл бұрын
@alysdexia It doesn't have to do anything with teenage life. Maybe reading those books got them through tough times or they have good memories associated with the books/characters.
@akshunnadevansh55314 жыл бұрын
Because Twilight is a shity book when I was 11 year old I have read harry potter and when I was 14 I read The Great Gatsby why can't girls read books like Pride and Prejudice
@vinnyethanol4 жыл бұрын
I'm an old man now, and I cringe at myself for not allowing others to enjoy fun crap. I finally came to terms with fun crap I enjoy, and you can too, young fella.
@jessicascoullar37374 жыл бұрын
There are so many things that I know know that would have been so liberating when I was younger and I spent needless hours torturing myself over where they never mattered. The fact that no one is judging you constantly but are far more obsessed with their own lives and what everyone is thinking about them to be bothered worrying about you would have been so useful to know as a teenager.
@chloe._.4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Vinny. I hope you enjoy your fun crap
@meh624 жыл бұрын
ew. Hey are you aware that you are still acting like you are the one who can give permission or prohibition to like something to younger people?
@theworldbreaker4 жыл бұрын
Awww... This was so wholesome
@theturniptress8054 жыл бұрын
this makes me so happy
@marie_p32034 жыл бұрын
i just hate how we are ridiculed for liking stuff "for teenage girls" like if everything with that label is bad or in poor taste which is not true.
@overgrownkudzu4 жыл бұрын
but if a girl tries to distance herself from that stuff she will also be ridiculed for trying to be "not like the other girls". society hates teenage girls, doesn't matter what they do
@Beebee-mi3nz4 жыл бұрын
Society hates women period let’s be real
@IncredibleMD3 жыл бұрын
@@Beebee-mi3nz Not as much as YA novels hate women. YA novels written for girls are some of the most intensely misogynistic pieces of fiction I've ever read. It's where "not being like other girls" comes from. They're all about moody loners who could trip just standing around who wear skinny jeans and Vans to prom because doing otherwise would give them remotely traditionally feminine traits (in the *absolute loosest* sense of the term) or essentially psychopathic (in its medical sense) Honorary Men who absolutely despise every woman they come across for being weak and ineffectual because their talents are traditionally feminine. Bella or Katniss, take your pick. If Twilight existed in the world of Twilight, Bella would be one of its biggest haters, because its stupid and childish and can't they see how poorly written it is (unlike the literary classics every YA heroine is obsessed with)?
@Xehanort103 жыл бұрын
@@overgrownkudzu No. The only teen girls who are hated are the ones who hate others for not liking what they like.
@AmandaTheJedi4 жыл бұрын
This is not supposed to be a definitive explanation of the YA boom, origins, or anything else. Just the ramblings of an internet idiot. OBVIOUSLY you can debate and criticize the quality of something with people who like it, but some people genuinely think lesser of people who like reading John Green or Cassandra Clare. Also obviously as mentioned there can be issues with how things are portrayed and all that can rightfully be criticized (which I do A LOT) but it doesn’t make much sense directing it at the reader. Obviously this doesn’t apply to fans that become abusive.
@LydiaTarine124 жыл бұрын
Your use of Supermassive Black Hole by Muse always makes me chuckle. ^_^
@spiderlily7234 жыл бұрын
I mean, Cassandra Clare is a plagiarist and has a whole history of being a pretty shitty person, I think we can hate her? But yeat, the books are serviceable.
@shadowguy5304 жыл бұрын
You’re not an internet idiot, internet is not adjective, you’re just an idiot
@AmandaTheJedi4 жыл бұрын
Magda Wołczyńska I actually don’t know much about her and haven’t read her books just list her as a popular choice that’s often criticized - I’ll look into her more though!
@andreil-g4t4 жыл бұрын
The shadowhunter series is amazing the mortal instruments isn't the best but the rest is absolute gold
@flippanties4 жыл бұрын
I feel like the problem here does extend to the fact that a lot of these books have harmful tropes and stereotypes that I think have no place in books for teens. I hate to throw around words like internalized misogyny but the amount of "I'm not like other girls" and slut shaming and just general girl shaming as a whole that goes in YA aimed at girls is unacceptable. For every Noughts and Crosses series there's five Anna and the French Kisses
@saraheerie4 жыл бұрын
I think the irony is that “I’m not like other girls” girls would be the ones trashing on these YA books. And the fact that “girl shaming” seems to be what fuels the hatred of these books and their audience. Movie franchise aimed at young men aren’t any better with their unhealthy tropes and stereotypes but there aren’t too many 45 minute long video essays about the Fast and Furious fan base being “stupid” or problematic.
@IncredibleMD4 жыл бұрын
@@saraheerie Fast and the Furious doesn't tell 12 year old girls that stalking is romantic.
@RoseBaggins4 жыл бұрын
@@IncredibleMD also, pretty sure most people know it's ridiculous and nothing but fun, while showing stalking as romantic . . . that's where I draw the line.
@wallenka4 жыл бұрын
@@IncredibleMD Is this a problem of a genre or problem of a certain book?
@madeinyusei-87084 жыл бұрын
YA book and movies do have a lot problematic stuff and it's valid for criticism, but let's be honest, 26 year old Jeff doesn't really care about that, he just gonna targeted because it's for teenage girls so it must be something stupid, shallow, etc. these kind of peoole are the problem and as the video says, they shame teenage girls just for liking it.
@canadapwns8864 жыл бұрын
When you held up The Goldfinch and Perks Of Being A Wallflower, ngl I was more drawn to The Goldfinch, because the cover has more going on. It's really easy to get my attention.
@spectre93404 жыл бұрын
I agree I couldn't even read the title on the yellow cover of Perks
@ellis10344 жыл бұрын
Idk if you’ve ever held perks of being a wallflower but it is bound in such a way that it lays flat when it’s open and the cover is very soft thicker cardboard. This isn’t really relevant to what you’re saying but I just want to give you a full experience of the perks of being a wallflower book because it’s such a satisfying book to hold hahaha.
@spectre93404 жыл бұрын
@@ellis1034 *immediately runs to my bookshelf to test out the physics of the book*
@lauravidal55984 жыл бұрын
Same hahahahah
@patriciaramirez29824 жыл бұрын
every type of media teenage girls love gets shitted on until like 10 years later when suddenly it’s okay to like this things but by that point there’s a new wave of popular media for teenage girls to love and everyone else hate
@blueribbon27294 жыл бұрын
YA gave me an escape as a young teenager because as weirdly cheesy and cliche things where it gave you a better reality to immerse yourself in to get away from real world problems. Young people should not be discouraged from using reading as an outlet. The first book I read that really got me into reading was The Secret Circle from the author of The Vampire Diaries. After that every spare second I could find I read and read. As much as it seems unhealthy now, it honestly made life so much easier at the time and your so right, we love love. I got so frigging giddy and excited when a good book set up a decent love story that was albeit a bit unrealstic. I'm not ashamed of all the ridiculously lovey dovey shit.... there, I said it
@seanpaul33624 жыл бұрын
If it wasn't for Percy Jackson, I wouldn't have discovered a love for reading books that didn't have pictures.
@franboos4 жыл бұрын
@Elio highly recommend it. Doesn't matter how old you are
@luuuuux_4 жыл бұрын
Percy Jackson was what really got me into reading. That and Harry Potter.
@IncredibleMD3 жыл бұрын
For some reason, Percy Jackson's always seemed to fly super low under the radar to me. Maybe its because I was just *a bit* too old when the books came out, but they never became... A Thing, like so many other YA properties of the time. Which is super odd because, although I've never read them, they just seem like simple and straightforward adventure romps with likeable characters and few problematic elements? If I was 12 when the first one came out, and I read it, it seems like I would've loved it by all accounts. Even today, close to 30, I feel like I'd be like "Welp, that was okay, for what it was" if I actually tried reading it. I have seen the movie, though, specifically because I was on a bad YA movie binge and... damn, even without having read the books I could tell that movie was *painful* for fans. It was painful for me. So yeah, the books seem alright, and the fans aren't fucking insane loonies. Good for y'all.
@someoneyouprobablyknowandl99643 жыл бұрын
And if not for the movies, I'd have discovered that I could, in fact, hate movies.
@haydenphoenix10244 жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how many times someone has said to me: "Ew, *you* like *that* show? I thought your tastes were better than that."
@ellis10344 жыл бұрын
Yeah and then they go on about how the office is the best show ever made like...
@sp6914 жыл бұрын
I never take it seriously when people say things like that. People tend to view me as smart so they're always surprised when I tell them they probably only dislike a show/series bc teen girls love it, which usually causes them to back down and even watch/read my recommendations. Don't let people shame you for your tastes
@vanvuong9994 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
@@sp691 People don't hate stuff like Twilight because teen girls like it. It's because of how those teen girls act when they hear that people don't like it which is usually "You evil hater. You'll never love anyone. You're just jealous of "insert fictional couple here." Because not being a fan of romance makes you a psychopath with no empathy according to shippers. And saying only adult men hate Twilight is in turn implying that all women have to like Twilight just because it's aimed at women. They don't.
@glorfindelchocolateflowery63924 жыл бұрын
@@Xehanort10 stop trolling
@autumneagle4 жыл бұрын
My biggest issue was the romanticizing of possessive co-dependent relationships both from Bella and from Jacob. But I totally agree, no reason to hate on things directed for young girls. I just wish they wrote healthier relationships so those girls have better things to romanticize.
@wendynerd11994 жыл бұрын
I think after Jeffree Star, Shane Dawson, and Donald Trump, adult men should officially replace teen girls as the mascots of bitchy, petty, gossipy behavior.
@IncredibleMD4 жыл бұрын
Adult Man here, and I only know one of those people.
@genesisferreira60344 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@carrissasky56354 жыл бұрын
@@IncredibleMD I assume those two are the bond villain, and diet onision.
@kiriki45584 жыл бұрын
Adult men where always the ones wich showed most of that behaviour.
@IncredibleMD4 жыл бұрын
@@carrissasky5635 I'mma be real with y'all, the only reason I know the name Onision is because of the gays. I still have no idea who he is or why he's so terrible, though. But I know there is definitely some one named that, and that they are apparently terrible for some reason.
@oceanwolf49124 жыл бұрын
I actually hated reading while I was in school because everything was just about WW2 or Drugs.
@TeonDeus4 жыл бұрын
They really messed people up with that stuff. It was preachy and uninteresting and killed the passion for reading and knowledge in many people
@astralbodyody4 жыл бұрын
@Grunt ELCAN love that!
@emmao65783 жыл бұрын
I have many questions for the person that stocked your school/local library 😂
@eleftheriak.88893 жыл бұрын
What in the world were you reading 😂?
@oceanwolf49123 жыл бұрын
As clarification I went to school in Germany so obviously we read a lot about ww2
@acium4 жыл бұрын
when twilight came out, I was a teen with no interest at reading at all. Now I'm a bookworm who reads two or three boks at the same time and I must say thank you to twilight for showing me that books can be just as entertaining as movies
@ArtsyChick1814 жыл бұрын
Amen! As a middle school English teacher, my motto has always been, "I'm just glad you're reading a book (that's age-appropriate) and you like it!" Many of my favorite books are YA novels and To Kill a Mockingbird is still one of the best books I've ever read and had the privilege to teach. Thank you for making this video :)
@nickstadler19064 жыл бұрын
Amanda: "Hey teens! It's okay to like Twilight!" Teenagers in 2020: "Twilight?! Whatever, grandma!"
@cookiemonster592634 жыл бұрын
Omg you clearly haven't see the 20-25 year olds screaming about how Midnight Sun is getting released after all these years then
@gliscorpropagandaaccount17644 жыл бұрын
I get that this is a joke, but nobody talks like that unironically
@paritoshd4 жыл бұрын
@@cookiemonster59263 amanda is one of them.
@99TigeressQueen994 жыл бұрын
@@cookiemonster59263 ah yes, the 25 year old teenagers
@khenishahemachandran80324 жыл бұрын
I'm 13 right now and I have no idea how I ended up loving twilight...
@-finelinehabits-43024 жыл бұрын
when a teenager talks about liking old music old people will be like "where you even born when it came out" but when teenagers don't like old music they'll be like "teenagers these days listen to bad music old music was way better!" like....what do you want??
@caffeinatedpattig4 жыл бұрын
I'm 31 and I love the sailor moon anime and the Harry potter books with a passion. I say let people read and watch whatever they want.. as you said, so long as it's legal, it's fine.
@emitheorbit11184 жыл бұрын
@brandon roberts I don't blame you. Those groups are just really good!!!!
@ambrozy2774 жыл бұрын
sup homie, i'm 13 and i love sailor moon too, and i love the harry potter books have any of you guys watched precure? sorry LMAO
@anna-mations243 жыл бұрын
@@ambrozy277 I know I’m six months late but I love precure, it was one of my first anime series ❤️
@taylorgayhart94974 жыл бұрын
Dude you seriously have perfect timing with this video, I was literally just defending myself this last weekend for reading a young adult novel! I’ve been an avid reader in my whole life, at different points I favor different genres, everything from high fantasy to Syfy to romance. I recently started reading young adult again, and I’ve been impressed by the fact that a lot of the relationships are healthier than ones you see in adult contemporary and that the lessons are applicable to my life. I LOVE the A Song of Ice and Fire series, but there is no life lesson I can learn from it. I recently read a YA novel about a girl whose mom was dying, and for the first time in years I felt like I was healing from the loss of my grandma who raised me. Often things I see listed as YA don’t even feel like YA to me, but more importantly, even if they are if you receive enjoyment that’s all that matters. And this criticism of teen girls goes beyond that, people make fun of girls for liking boy bands, and forget that is was young girls who started the Beatles craze. In the end, like what you like, and if you feel the need to make fun of someone for liking someone, you’re an asshole.
@kittygrimm73014 жыл бұрын
Bless you for this! I think YA gets such a bad rep that we forget that there are genuinely good books in the YA category like A Great & Terrible Beauty, His Dark Materials, The Book Thief, Speak, etc.
@chelsealiddypivtorak92824 жыл бұрын
I love A Great and Terrible Beauty!
@Rivenlore994 жыл бұрын
Speak is so good. Such a good book
@gliscorpropagandaaccount17644 жыл бұрын
His Dark Materials is a super bad example (because it was planned to be and written an adult series but marketed as ya), but Watership Down is another good example.
@sappysaphic4204 жыл бұрын
The Book Their is so good; I can never get through it without crying
@theturniptress8054 жыл бұрын
The book thief remains to this day the only book that has made me cry.
@ettena934 жыл бұрын
I started reading twilight when it first came out and read it in English because it was not in my own language yet. When I started getting comfortable with the language I continued reading English books and it has honestly been a huge help both in daily life and academics. I don't think any form of reading should be looked down upon, it is food for the brain to read a whole freaking book no matter what genre it is. I'm grateful for twilight and the mortal instruments series (which I looved as a teen). I still make fun of it now and then, but it will always be what got me into reading and loving books. How can that be bad?
@lordfreerealestate83024 жыл бұрын
Billie Eilish got criticized on the internet to the point of becoming suicidal. Yep, people definitely hate women, especially teenage girls. Teen boys can be cringey too but they don't get the same hate. Content men enjoy is seemingly considered inferior to what is popular among women. I will definitely continue to criticize Twilight, thought not its fans. I dislike the promotion of abuse in it. Books enjoyed by men and written by men can be awful as well - lookin' at you, Dan Brown, Terry Goodkind.
@Rivenlore994 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree why twilight isn’t good, and how women keep getting criticized
@spectre93404 жыл бұрын
Young teen girls get targeted cos society can patronize them and also be misogynistic towards them
@WaddelingProductions4 жыл бұрын
Lord FreeRealEstate Um, teenage boys get A LOT of hate for being cringey
@PayondeAwsome4 жыл бұрын
@@WaddelingProductions It's just not that same level of vitriol. I still remember when Justin Bieber and Twilight were popular vs when something guys like (I can't even remember a real one).
@PayondeAwsome4 жыл бұрын
@Indigo Rodent I just see this vitriol surrounding things girls like is much more poignant. You don't see the Transformers movies getting the same level of hate from all sides as Twilight despite being equally as problematic.
@sweetdee88844 жыл бұрын
Also something I've noticed is things aimed at girls and women are just held to such a higher standard, it's fun little action movie but the reviews are acting as though it was meant to be high art?? There is eons of problematic media aimed at men and boys that gets the "Eh, that's just a lil bit of fun. It's not that deep" but god forbid a girl like twilight? I wish we would give girls the benefit of the doubt more often that they can be enjoying a piece of media that has problematic elements without necessarily thinking those elements are great or recognizing that X behavior in real life is not cool but that they might enjoy reading about it in a 100% fictional setting. Girls are allowed to want to read stories that aren't always 100% moral and good, they shouldn't be denied that because an adult presumes they are too stupid to know better in real life. Anyway, good video Amanda!
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
The problem with Edward's character isn't that he's a stalker, abuser and control freak. It's that he's portrayed as a good person despite that. If Twilight had a better writer who showed him for what he really is he'd be Twilight's main villain not its supposed "hero."
@athenajaxon23974 жыл бұрын
It's because they think we're dumb and have no critical thinking skills Twilight was always meant to be fantasy and yet adults screamed that we would take it to heart we didn't
@the_devil46764 жыл бұрын
Xehanort10 you missed the point. they were saying that wanting to read about a problematic romance doesn’t mean girls that they don’t understand that’s not okay in real life.
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
@@the_devil4676 The problem is though some girls didn't understand that it wasn't OK. They convinced themselves that Edward and Bella's relationship was safe, sane, healthy and loving, wanted boyfriends like Edward, dumped their actual real life boyfriends for not being like a fictional character and accused real life people of being jealous of characters from a book and film series. The majority of women realised that the relationship was unhealthy but there were still some who were like "This is real love. I want a relationship like this."
@bronwenlaporte4 жыл бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for! Very well put. 😊 I feel like the amount of dissent in the comments here really helps highlight the prevalence of the issues addressed in the video, to be honest. Personally one of my guilty pleasures is the first of the Transformers movies--but for some reason no one ever tries to get on my case for that the same way they do with Twilight fans, even though that movie has (in my opinion) equally as unhealthy of a perspective on romance as something like Twilight. So the whole "people only razz female-targeted media because it sets an unhealthy example" falls a bit flat to me for the most part. There are problematic elements in most genre's, and those should definately be addressed, but shaming girls for enjoying media targeted at them that sets less than perfect examples while never raising an eyebrow at equally unhealthy pieces of media with other demagraphics really feels like an unreasonable enforcement of morals. Young women should not be required to act as the sole moral standard bearers of our society--that's just unreasonable. 😌
@cassetiquette4 жыл бұрын
That is a great shirt
@trinaq4 жыл бұрын
Agreed, it reminds me of Eleven's mall outfit from "Stranger Things 3"! 😍
@aliceisaperson4 жыл бұрын
Trina Q I think that is the exact out fit it was available to buy for a while at target or something
@camdensparks5244 жыл бұрын
Trina Q why’d you put the title in quotation marks?
@laorille4 жыл бұрын
@@camdensparks524 That's a way to format a title of a film or movie, that's my guess as to what they were doing?
@camdensparks5244 жыл бұрын
Ellis Heckber idk. It’s then name of the show. Wouldn’t it be weird if someone called you “Ellis Heckber”?
@sabnicgra4 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks for this video. MY job as a YA librarian, is to constantly combat the idea that reading something that not a "classic" is still valid reading. Literacy is so important and you might as well enjoy the process of gaining it. Finding something that you'll enjoy is so much more important than feeling like you have to read something because someone arbitrarily decided that you can read some things but not others. Banned book week is ust another example of things that you are told are not ok to read but are sometimes the most important book someone will read. Read whatever you want, I will not ever tell someone they can't read something and no one ever should.
@hereticghost4 жыл бұрын
i went to school for writing. most of my adult peers agreed that ya just tends to be more entertaining. i don't know, sometimes we like to read because we want to go on adventures. i feel like ya gives writers a sort of freedom for adventure that the adult genre doesn't seem to have room for.
@erinfrazier14394 жыл бұрын
Eaxtly and most of the time teens are less critical about adventure than adults
@TheGoofy19324 жыл бұрын
@starshell Not trying to take away from your YA love, but you might want to give Urban Fantasy a try. Authors like Ilona Andrews, Simon R. Green, Seanan McGuire, Dannika Dark, Suzanne Wright, Patricia Briggs and Annette Marie are all very good at taking you on adventures.
@cookiemonster592634 жыл бұрын
YA lends itself more to worlds that aren't necessarily 5 miles deep but still are thriving worlds nonetheless. I don't always want to read a Tolkein-esque fantasy series. I enjoy the lore of it but sometimes it can be overwhelming. Sometimes I just want to be in a world that isn't this one.
@dutchpangermanist56733 жыл бұрын
I once went to the Dutch ministry education, to attempt to convince them allow YA books to be put on literature reading lists in high school. Well technically a group of girls from my school were doing that, and I was there to do something similar for fantasy and science-fiction.
@gavinhenderson72504 жыл бұрын
I've never understood the reason for complaining about the diamond skin effect in Twilight. If anything it's more creative than bursting into flames and the story doesn't feel as narrow due to the benefit of the trait. Side note, should've listened to you regarding 365 Days. That was one of the worst things I've ever seen.
@FauxFoxPaw4 жыл бұрын
Yeah it never bothered me either. It wasn't even sparkly like glitter like people like to claim, it was more like ice or diamond sparkles. I'm a dude who saw the movies in my 20s and I thought I was a pretty awesome take on why they avoid sunlight.
@TheGoofy19324 жыл бұрын
Morbid curiosity got me to take a look at the book series for 365 days. I DNF'd it literally at page 10. 😂 It was literally the worst thing I've ever read, and I'm including fan fiction of Twilight in that comparison.
@kurlykayla90134 жыл бұрын
365 days was the worst experience of my life and is the one thing I'll judge its fans for, because wtf.
@TheLadyLiddell4 жыл бұрын
I always thought it was clever because humans are carbon-based lifeforms, and what is a diamond except really hard carbon? So their skin hardened like diamond and that's why they sparkle.
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
Vampires bursting into flames gives them a reason to avoid sunlight though. With the things in Twilight it's "Oh no I might turn into an undead disco ball."
@lillyp69054 жыл бұрын
The hunger games got me into reading; they were the first books I truly engrossed myself in. I was 12 and all I wanted to do was read in any spare moment I had. YA in general holds a special place in my heart, it shaped me. (Sounds cheesey but it’s true) and I still gravitate towards the YA sections if bookstore and libraries
@kennedyosullivan87234 жыл бұрын
My 20-year-old fangirl heart can't handle seeing Throne of Glass mentioned in a video defending the consumption of this type of book, my heart is done 🙌
@shiminshamim83594 жыл бұрын
Right! I freaked out seeing ToG and CoB
@saragardner79224 жыл бұрын
I got embarrassingly excited 😂
@Rivenlore994 жыл бұрын
Poor Robert Pattinson. He really hated his role in twilight, and yet.....
@parkernagle544 жыл бұрын
Dude he’s actually a really good actor like if you’ve seen some of his newer stuff??
@Rivenlore994 жыл бұрын
Parker Nagle Ah I haven’t seen his newer things but I have seen him in other movie sand he is a really good actor
@iwatchyoutube73114 жыл бұрын
@@parkernagle54 The Lighthouse is a masterpiece. He is an AMAZING actor! Recommend that movie highly!
The Twilight fans are in denial about him hating it though. They can't comprehend the idea that him being in it and making money from it doesn't mean he has to like it.
@spiderlily7234 жыл бұрын
If someone is curious if Twilight started the whole 'abusive romance' thing... try Blood and Chocolate. It's 5 times worse.
@lovetolovefairytales4 жыл бұрын
I like the Blood and Chocolate movie a lot because it's nothing like the book.
@spiderlily7234 жыл бұрын
@@lovetolovefairytales I think it's one of the few times adaptation fixed the source material. Not into something epic, but somply good.
@izayoi20064 жыл бұрын
BC, has many issues but it’s definitely not worse than Twilight because no one was imprinting on a literal baby in there.
@persiswynter63574 жыл бұрын
Go back to the original Dracula novel.
@nessyness54474 жыл бұрын
@@persiswynter6357 yeah but the thing is in dracula is not really portrayed as something good or desirable...
@caitlynskiff20014 жыл бұрын
I'm 24 and The Hunger Games is still my favorite book.
@glorfindelchocolateflowery63924 жыл бұрын
Girl tell em
@destiny_ultimatedork6754 жыл бұрын
As a teenage girl myself not all of us like Twilight, Thirteen Reasons why and romance novels and those of them who do are allowed to because apparently people in this world don't know that those kinds of books intended audience is young teens We're not allowed to like these things I guess 👁👄👁 I enjoy children's books more for some reason?? Percy Jackson, man. It turns 15 today 😔👊. YA novels seem to get lots of hate and that sucks.
@flamecaster05344 жыл бұрын
Percy Jackson is a classic, those Rick Riordan books will always have a special place in my heart
@bloodangel194 жыл бұрын
That shit is great, YA don't got shit on Rick Riordan
@noot62304 жыл бұрын
Now I feel old as shit that Percy Jackson is 15 years old 😂😂
@RF-mc8cx4 жыл бұрын
PJO will always be amazing
@thenotsodaringdevil4 жыл бұрын
If you like PJ, maybe try out the Fablehaven series by Brandon Mull. One of my favorite lineups of fantasy novels ever.
@Herdnerfer4 жыл бұрын
I’m a 40 year old man and consider Breaking Dawn one of my all time favorite books. The way she expanded the lore of the world she built was amazing.
@icedcapplord7104 жыл бұрын
Honestly as someone who's around the age demographic for YA novels I feel that the genre is becoming increasingly fatiguing to follow because a lot of them feel like they blend together, especially the dystopian themed ones like Hunger Games and Divergent. I've kinda checked out of the genre as a result
@defiantaichi4 жыл бұрын
headphonesintheclouds same
@gingermaniac54844 жыл бұрын
Same
@gliscorpropagandaaccount17644 жыл бұрын
YA isn't a genre? It's a demographic
@icedcapplord7104 жыл бұрын
@@gliscorpropagandaaccount1764 I said YA novels
@katrinadevries80544 жыл бұрын
My Dad LOVED Harry Potter. It was the last series he read before he passed. I have read them multiple times and I am in my 30s. It's a great series and it allows me to feel closer to my Dad. If you love these books, keep loving them. No one is allowed to defy what you love when it comes to these thjngs.
@alannahd.74174 жыл бұрын
Like fr TFIOS really helped me with my grandfather's death from cancer (2013) and my boyfriends death from cancer (2017), I was 13 and 16 respectively. Would I recommend it to someone who was dealing with someone that was currently dying from cancer? NO. But did it help ME cope? Yes.
@cookiemonster592634 жыл бұрын
You know what? That's fair. I read it shortly after my mother died of cancer (2010) and it didn't help me much at all. Probably made it worse. But I won't deny that it probably helped a lot of people (like you) and it deserves to not automatically get thrown in the bin like a lot of people suggest it should. Does that mean I won't necessarily go "maybe (insert topical phrase here) will be our always"? No. But people should be allowed to like it because books and films matter even if they don't necessarily matter to me.
@alannahd.74174 жыл бұрын
@@cookiemonster59263 In fairness John Green did do a good amount of research on the subject and it wasn't just "this sounds mildly scientific let's use it" but on another note, I already had a connect with the book. I still wouldn't use it to justify anything, I had one friend that was very much "you and your boyfriend are a lot like the two main characters" which is a god awful mentality that's all over tumblr.
@SS-mk2yp4 жыл бұрын
I was super into YA when I was a teenager, but I tried to move into more adult books (mystery, suspense, romance etc.) in my early 20s. I couldn't relate to those books at all and ended up going through a reading slump for YEARS, which didn't get resolved until this past April when I decided to try YA again. Now that I'm almost 30, I've accepted that YA is magical and fun and relatable af and I won't force myself to give it up again. Thanks so much for addressing this topic!
@somerandompasserby4774 жыл бұрын
Your shirt reminds me of Eleven's from Season 3.
@AmandaTheJedi4 жыл бұрын
That is exactly what it is aha
@somerandompasserby4774 жыл бұрын
@@AmandaTheJedi Lol and I thought I was overthinking.
@trinaq4 жыл бұрын
Nice, it's fabulous, and it looks almost like the real deal! 💗
@phykoha4 жыл бұрын
From what I remember, “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” was a pretty good movie! Too bad I haven’t read the book, though. People really do have some sort of unnecessary hate towards stories meant for young adults...
@sunflowr16514 жыл бұрын
amanda aggressively protecting people and their books is my favourite song
@gaelledelair72584 жыл бұрын
: I'm a huuuge HP fan and when I was a kid that was fine, people were impressed that I would read such big books you know. Now I'm 29 and the fact that I'm still reading the books or watching the movies or collecting stuff is not "fine" anymore. People keep saying that I'm too old for it or that, because I'm a teacher, I shouldn't show/wear anything in front of my kids that's related to HP because I won't be credible anymore. Same goes for mangas/anime, Doctor Who etc. Well F that PS : I was in high school when Twilight came out so obviously I dived into it and I will definitely read Midnight Sun
@mavrifantasia4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Philip Pulman's His Dark Materials blew my mind when I first read it when I was 12. And by belittling what young girls read is really undercutting opportunities for growth and the sheer joy they may derive from those "girly", "silly", "stupid" books.
@midian_lament34584 жыл бұрын
Honestly I'm 33 and I literally read whatever catches my interest...
@iaminevitable72214 жыл бұрын
I don't support romance aimed at teen girls that romanticise being in an abusive relationship, that is unhealthy and sets a harmful standard, I have nothing against female centric romance though
@lordfreerealestate83023 жыл бұрын
This. Twilight is still harmful and bad quality, but we should try not to hold teenage girl or female-oriented content to a different standard.
@VengefulPurity3 жыл бұрын
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@WeeLin4 жыл бұрын
THIS! I was a children's/YA librarian around the time Twilight was hitting it big. I read the books, along with a lot of other junior/YA fic, as I wanted to be familiar with what they were into. While there is definitely a lot wrong with the content and storytelling (some of it quite worrying), the "cringey" teen girl aspects of it actually felt quite familiar and humbling to me. Honestly, I remember seeing the October/November/December pages in New Moon and immediately thinking, "yep... that's exactly what a first break-up feels like!" And while I was fine with people dunking on the stories, I was never okay with them sneering at the readers. The point is, they're reading - that's great! I'd also see parents trying to encourage their kids away from any light-hearted or funny books that appealed to them and insisting they read "proper" literature instead. Often, they'd try to get me involved to help them with this. My answer? "Your kid WANTS to read! You've already WON! Just let them ENJOY what they're reading, and they'll keep doing it for life!"
@kaitlyndurham58514 жыл бұрын
The Perks of Being a Wallflower was my favorite book as a teen. I’m now 24 and still love that story. No shame.
@nikeliahaines62524 жыл бұрын
This super hit a chord with me because I had the same sort of experience with Twilight, read it before it became super main stream popular when I was in the target age demographic and yet was still ashamed and afraid of being ridiculed for loving it. You said something like unless it's causing problematic behavior there is no reason to insult someone for liking something, and it made me think about all the things I hear as an adult woman about standing up for myself and like "don't kink shame" people, and I wish I could go back in time to my 13 year old self, because society does punish young teen girls for being young team girls. Teaching us young to hate ourselves and then question why we have no self esteem when we become adults. I just discovered this channel 2 days ago and I love you! Subscribed ;)
@MaluSilva-yx8nl4 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more. Even though I don't read these type of books that much, it pisses me off when someone try to put "it's to young girls" as an argument to downgrade things, which it can be books, tv shows and series, music, clothes, trends and a lot more. I hold myself to like things when I was younger because of this, and took me a lot of effort to break of from it and just enjoy whatever I like to
@katedonnelly22244 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that you're addressing this because I honestly, watching some of your older videos, assumed you were one of those assholes who were hating on YA fads like Twilight etc. I think you're so right. We have an issue with teen girls and it is so toxic and harmful. As a kid who was obsessed with Twilight, I was made feel ashamed for loving a book series. Looking back, it is sickening that I was made feel that way namely by adults! So glad that the tables are starting to turn and you are bringing focus to the issue! Much love.
@username-pb9ui4 жыл бұрын
1:28 “unless it’s like... harry potter or percy jackson” me, who got bullied at 13 for being a pjo fan: 👁👄👁 i didn’t know that was a thing
@meganrutto4 жыл бұрын
As a former librarian, I don’t care what you read as long as it helps you fall in love with reading.
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
15:38 To be fair though the way Twilight fans treat people who don't like it isn't any better. Insults, accusing anyone who dislikes the series of being jealous of Stephanie Meyer, sending people death threats for the "crime" of disliking a fictional book and film series, being really pretentious and acting like anyone not interested in the series supposedly "just doesn't understand it" as if the series is so deep and meaningful that only a true genius will get it which is something Twilight fans have in common with 13 Reasons Why fans.
@AmandaTheJedi4 жыл бұрын
Xehanort10 yeah that’s why I said as long as the fans aren’t being abusive. In that situation you can say ‘hey, you’re fucked’ like I sass overzealous snydercut fans but if it makes them happy that’s fine
@gliscorpropagandaaccount17644 жыл бұрын
I'd say the fanbase is past that, though. Now it's just dancing on cringe culture's grave
@flippanties4 жыл бұрын
@@gliscorpropagandaaccount1764 True, I don't really involve myself in the YA fanfom these days and haven't done for years, so that may be why, but I see next to no vitriol from Twilight fans in comparison to when I was in school
@Xehanort104 жыл бұрын
@@AmandaTheJedi The Snyder Cut thing has been funny for all the years it's been going on. Snyder's fans basically going "We can't accept that Justice League was bad so we want a supposedly better cut made by Zack Snyder released." Snyder may be friends with Michael Bay but at least Bay knows his films are just OTT explosion fest action films. Snyder's a hack who thinks he's a filmmaking genius.
@nessyness54474 жыл бұрын
i remember when tvd came out ( the yv show) and people compared it tp twilight and i honestly didn't think it looked like that ( in fact it reminds me of buffy but more focused in the romance) and you could not even point out to a twilight fan anything negative about edward or bella or the toxic relatilnships, damn in the tvd fandom we admitted the bad things of the show, a lot of fans agree that the end game couple was not that good because it was the most toxic while both characters were less toxic with other people, and even the ones who like that couple agree with that sometimes and you can have full debates about it ( there are always a few crazy who you can't talk with but every fandom had those). and that says a lot, people is usually capable of debating things that are wrong about the books or shows they like, flaws of the characters etc. but the mayority of the twilight fandom refuses to admit there are any flaws in the books or that the characters and their love story are not perfect amd the best and i think that's the real problem, not that they like it but that they truly think is a perfect romance and that edward is the perfect guy.
@ttylaligator4 жыл бұрын
i’m so happy you made this video!! being a teen girl on the internet is honest to god SO wild,,, older people and especially older men on the internet LOVE to bash girls for literally anything!! if u like something “obscure” ur told that ur trying to be “qUiRKY”,, if u like anything mainstream ur “basic”. its literally impossible to be passionate or just simply enjoy anything,,, as some1 who is part of the twilight renaissance being on the internet as a 15 year old girl is a minefield.
@platy95864 жыл бұрын
I just wish there were more YA books focused on the other end of the 'YA' spectrum, people in their 20s. There's barely any.
@eleanormason26473 жыл бұрын
'New adult' is becoming a bigger genre- similar to YA but marketed to people no longer in their teens. I like YA, but it doesn't feel as relevant to me anymore since I'm in my twenties, facing different issues
@eveelima14 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I'm the kind of person who can never get over things. If I liked something once, I'm probably going to like it for the rest of my life, even if I learn to see that that thing could be a lot better. I loved Twilight so passionately as a teen and I still hold it dear to my heart at age 26. Same thing with Disney artists, I still love their music and will probably love it forever, even if I learn to like more sophisticated stuff too. I'm always embarrassed to admit to people that Twilight is still my favorite book (just for the sake of the amount of love I had for it, no other book ever shook me as deeply), or that Selena Gomez is my favorite solo singer. My boyfriend also loves Twilight, it's actually something that brought us together. He gets much more hate for it because he's a straight boy, but he just doesn't care and is never ashamed of telling people about it, he's still a huge fan too and I really admire him for it.
@gvtterslag4 жыл бұрын
Hey did anyone else read the Skulduggery Pleasant books at any point? I dont know if they're popular outside of Ireland but I remember being obsessed with them.
@gvtterslag4 жыл бұрын
@Grungus Khan Ya thinking back it was about a magical skeleton kidnapping a 12 year old girl sounds so weird out of context 🤣🤣
@MissCaraMint4 жыл бұрын
Ayyyy. Totally got into them when I read a lot of stuff as a teen and got sick of the romance in books I was reading (nothing against romance, but occasionally you need a pallet cleanser), and somebody recommend them. read Treasure Island and The Hobbit around that tome too. Good times.
@grapefruit8564 жыл бұрын
I like them as much as the percy jackson books tbh
@youtubealias3454 жыл бұрын
Uhhhh i loved the books. I was around 14 years old and one of my friends read them, too so we talked about them quiet a lot :)
@EJ-bn3tc4 жыл бұрын
Apparently they’re thinking of making a series based on it, nothings confirmed yet tho
@ChloeHancockcookie4 жыл бұрын
This was the video i needed when i was a teenager, I loved (and still love) Twilight and other YA series but was bullied by kids in my high school for loving it so much. Now that I'm in my 20s I recognise how flawed the series is, particularly in the movie adaptations, but I still watch them when I'm feeling down and need some nostalgia to pick me back up again! I know that they aren't GREAT books or movies but they bring me so much happiness, and I'm glad the "Twilight Renaissance" is a thing now, because people are learning that sure Twilight is not the highest quality story ever told but it's fun, enjoyable and appeals to a fantasy we all have to some extent.
@Alexfolledemoi4 жыл бұрын
sometimes it's hard to read classics as a child. I'm French so reading "les misérables" was a must at school, wh2n we were like 14. at least YA kept me interested in reading (HP, twilight, HG etc .) way more than classics at first. And later on, I appreciated classics way more because i grew up and my vocabulary expended and suddenly Victor Hugo seemed easier to read at 17!/18 than at 13. Now I'm 24, and I read fantasy or distopian YA, and also classics!
@KeyJester3 жыл бұрын
This video was eye-opening and mindblowing, and genuinely made me sit down and rethink the way I think about a lot of things. I am definitely one of the people guilty of making fun of teenage girls for liking certain things - when it's the things themselves being the issue, and not the girls. And for someone constantly raging about the patriarchy and how we need to burn it.. Yeah, I've just experienced a good dose of shame. Which I think I needed. Thank you for this incredibly good video that really helped me see things differently! I just recently discovered you and have binged a lot of your videos, and I can already say with confidence that subscribing to you is one of the best decisions I've made this year. Keep doing what you do! And, again, thank you.
@Chelaxim4 жыл бұрын
Twilight started the trend of YA movie adaptions have to have a soundtrack full.
@dashashab4 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to thank you for your videos and particularly this one 🙏 And I wish I could hear this opinion when I was a teenager. But actually it makes me feel better even now, when I’m 23 years old and I still enjoy reading fanfiction probably way too much. Sometimes it’s just so hard not to shame yourself for “wasting your time” when you could read Dostoevsky but you’re reading supercorp fanfic, even though you understand that you’re doing it because it’s giving you some comfort and THATS ENOUGH reasons to like it
@PatrickHogan4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, John Green is good literature. Regardless of how you feel about the plot, he has such beautiful prose sometimes.
@Dvrynnn4 жыл бұрын
I swear
@meganm38203 жыл бұрын
John Green is also an amazing person and I love that he just writes what he wants to and does it well.
@IncredibleMD3 жыл бұрын
That prose must've been absent from The Fault In Our Stars, then. That book had worse prose than it did plot, which is saying something.
@anabellamason96114 жыл бұрын
I love, a Lit. teacher of ages 13-18, that you addressed this. I have NEVER discouraged any kind of reading! Read the funnies in the newspaper, but read! Thank you for starting the conversation about this topic!
@blueribbon27294 жыл бұрын
I have been binge watching you for 3 days straight now and I'm so excited to be so early man.... OMG!! I love you❤ I know this is gonna be awesome and I haven't even watch it yet.
@shadowguy5304 жыл бұрын
Man been there this is the best quality rabbit hole ever
@FabricFool4 жыл бұрын
I loved this. Took me back to my own childhood reading...back when you got your Scholastic Books from a catalogue, and they taught us to read with (I swear I’m not making this up) Dick and Jane. Yikes. Your discussion of the YA publishing trends was well-considered and I think pretty accurate. I have an author acquaintance who wrote an adult-audience-intended novel with a 14-year old protagonist. It’s all he can do to keep from landing in the YA bin...and for the most part he’s given up: a shrug and a “as long as they’re buying it” attitude. (Out of loyalty, I feel compelled to tell you it’s called “You Wish” and Mark Piper wrote it. Sorry). I love watching your stuff, because you always have a good take on the topic. I’m especially jazzed that you talk books as well as “whatever the kids are doing nowadays, etc.” Keep goin!
@mysticloverfairy14 жыл бұрын
The YA genre started in the 1970s, or rather it became it’s own category in the 1970s, but YA books have been around since probably the 1920s or 1930s. I’m 35 and I still read YA books. I love the vintage detective girl stories from the 1930s , like Nancy Drew and the lesser known Dana Girls (both written by Carolyn Keene) I have my Kindle full of YA books
@theturniptress8054 жыл бұрын
Haven't YA books been around from like the 19th century though? I'm reading Little Women and it really seems like a coming of age/YA story
@roxxy008v24 жыл бұрын
Oh. My. Lord. Amanda, I've been binging your KZbin channel lately. Please never stop. I love your opinions and the intellectual breakdown of everything. You make me feel less alone with these 'ideals/opnions' Thank you. Please never stop being yourself ❤
@DocteurNS4 жыл бұрын
I've never liked the term "guilty pleasure". I've never felt "guilty" over something I've enjoyed, even if I know it's not good.
@MorganStradling4 жыл бұрын
I love that you are open about your appreciation for Twilight. Thank you!
@EmtotheKay1824 жыл бұрын
Seeing Marked and Evernight as examples triggered something in me from my teens and how much I LIVED for those books.
@justwannafreefx94194 жыл бұрын
For me it was Marked and Vampire Academy 😂
@renieshoberg15854 жыл бұрын
Amanda- Thank you SO much for this video. I've seen a fair amount of your content and always enjoyed them but this one really spoke to me. I was 14 yrs old in 1998 and the prime demographic for the boy band boom of the late 90's and early 00's and the hate is so real. Even as a woman in my 30's reaching out to the nostalgic content of my teenage years is met with the same vitriol and I don't understand why. I read all 4 Twilight books (rapid fire) while on maternity leave in 2008 when my son arrived (because I saw Breaking Dawn on the new release end-cap at B&N) and it was the greatest escape for me as a mom with a newborn. It was a way for me to enjoy something that didn't require a good night of rest to understand and follow. As much as I adore Jane Austen, regency era prose was not within my grasp of comprehension at that point in my life. Like almost all forms of entertainment there is a time and a place for it and people should be shit on by other who are not in that time or place. Bravissima!
@sydneypoulin67794 жыл бұрын
My favorite young adult series is "Diary of a Wimpy Kid".
@slhamm774 жыл бұрын
As someone who is not a young adult but loves YA things I appreciate this commentary so much. Painting entire genres as “lesser” is ridiculous. A lot of YA novels are great and I wish I had them when I was in the target age range. I might’ve figured my crap out before lol. Also I stumbled across one of your fifty shades videos a week ago and have done nothing but your videos since then. It’s rare to find articulate commentary that is also funny and just the right amount of righteously angry. Thanks for making my days at home go by a little faster.
@SuperSixel4 жыл бұрын
Breaking Dawn was the first book I ever read in English, it hadn't been translated into Danish and I just HAD to know what happened!
@TeonDeus4 жыл бұрын
This is what I love to hear, it's like a learning experience
@marcy8085953 жыл бұрын
Omg I did exactly the same thing when I was 12 because it wasn’t translated into Greek. The feels 😌
@TwiggyHetfield274 жыл бұрын
This is the video we all needed. When I was 16 years old I picked up the Modern Faerie Tale Trilogy (Tithe, Valiant, & Ironside) by Holly Black. These were the books that got me back into reading after stepping away for 6 years. Holly Black became my favorite writer because of those stories. I'm 30 now & Tithe is STILL one of my absolute favorites. My best friend is 4 years older than me, she loves Twilight & the House of Night novels. I've never once made fun of her for liking them. She still raves about House of Night. I'm not really a fan of vampire novels (this includes Holly's book The Coldest Girl in Coldtown, one of my least favorite books of hers but the quality of her writing never falters). I remember us exchanging books one day, I let her borrow Tithe, she let me borrow Twilight. We both read maybe one chapter of the books & just weren't into them. Hell, I picked up Holly's book Doll Bones when I was 26, a book which is geared towards middle schoolers. I read the synopsis & needed to read it. It was fantastic. My bookshelf varies from YA fantasy like the Darkest Part of the Forest and sci-fi like A Beautiful Land to historical fiction like the Aubery-Maturin Series. Grimm fairy tales, fairy tale retellings, manga, and comic books. It shouldn't matter how old you are or the book genre (well... when it comes to being an adult & reading books geared towards a younger audience anyway), as long as you enjoy it that's all that should matter.
@ashanti14384 жыл бұрын
YA is so much fun! It's probably one of the most diverse set of books. I love the tropes that are mentioned in the YA genre. I don't particularly like Twilight but others do. I definitely like Eragon and Six of Crows though. ☺
@jacobeperrier70584 жыл бұрын
My older sister used young adult books to combat her dyslexia it both tickled me and filled me with pride to see a 35 year old woman finally enjoy reading because of those books, I found what you said about whatever gets someone reading is good for the sake of being good very powerful.
@brittanygeren88814 жыл бұрын
I love YA novels for easy and semi-relatable reads. I love the elements of adventure and generally romance instead of heavy sexual elements that seem to pepper adult literature
@joannadzenowski62144 жыл бұрын
Omgomgomg,I'm so glad that u featured the vampire academy. That was such a good good good book. I luved it so much.