The Untold Truth About Why You Haven’t Reached FI Yet with Carrie Doan

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CampFI - Together We FI

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@CornerG Ай бұрын

Nothing was ripped away, you threw it away. You’re correct, that’s called a mid-life crisis.

@alk672 Ай бұрын

So this woman had a mental breakdown and ruined her marriage (2.0 kids), and then the first thing she did on her way to recovery was realizing she wanted to be a mindset coach. I can't even.

@MrMoneyMustacheChannel Ай бұрын

Holy moly, what kind of comment is this for someone you've never even met?! Looks like there's no escaping the Internet Marriage Police. For everyone else reading this, including the majority people who do go through divorce: don't let the shame and blame tactics of random commenters on KZbin bring you down. Those of us who have been through it and come out the other side know that although it's not always the easiest choice it's quite obviously the right one. Don't let social or religious pressure keep you in a relationship that is abusive or not salvageable for any other reason - there's no shame at all in living life the way that is right for you. And your kids - remember they don't care about your relationship status, they care about their lives. So focus on that by minimizing fighting and making sure your separate households are close enough together to continue their happy and peaceful upbringing.

@alk672 Ай бұрын

@@MrMoneyMustacheChannel it was her choice to share the story in a public forum, so the audience has every right to comment, especially seeing how she wants to be a coach now. A student has every right to be aware of their coach's qualifications.

@carriedoancoaching2108 Ай бұрын

@@alk672 I believe unprocessed grief is the fuel of all judgment. Behind every bigot is a broken heart. Because we have no spaces to grieve and be witnessed in our pain, we take it out on ourselves and one another. So many walk around mistaking wounds as mouths, speaking from their pain, not even knowing they are hurting. It is easier to demonize than it is to feel the pain. It is easier to say that I am wrong than it is to confront the intimate judgment right there in your heart from the pain you refuse to see. But I have hope because I and so many of us did not choose the easy road. And what we found on the other side is The kind of love that we were seeking all along. Divorce is many things. Among them, it's a grief ritual. One in which we mourne who the world wanted us to be, and become and welcome who we were meant to be.