The Value of Being Disliked | Robin Sharma

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Robin Sharma

Robin Sharma

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@mrfooter6248
@mrfooter6248 5 жыл бұрын
I just don't understand why people want to be around fake people while the chill quiet unwanted people are hated for being themselves why is that ??
@dalzvert9206
@dalzvert9206 5 жыл бұрын
Because this world is now evil
@jordanaestelle7442
@jordanaestelle7442 5 жыл бұрын
Broda Osas facts my whole life I’ve been hated by everyone mainly girls idk what’s up w my energy I’ve always been told I’m intimidating so I guess I give a bad image about myself for being shy and quiet at first like wtf is that.
@bakatobijuu
@bakatobijuu 5 жыл бұрын
Because it's a nature and free will the humans are selfish by nature, the evil only wicked and murder everyone
@queenpeaches3843
@queenpeaches3843 5 жыл бұрын
Broda Osas I have to go to nursing school with fake people and sit with them everyday. Lol! That’s why I’m here.
@elihuerta3383
@elihuerta3383 5 жыл бұрын
because the people are assholes!
@onepocketslim
@onepocketslim 5 жыл бұрын
"A man who has made no enemies is probably not a very good man."- Antonin Scalia
@adelineproverbs3139
@adelineproverbs3139 4 жыл бұрын
Isn't that a lot of shit?
@rakashii6599
@rakashii6599 4 жыл бұрын
@@adelineproverbs3139 no it's not!
@sutingstelline7285
@sutingstelline7285 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds true cause he wanted to be accepted by people
@j-hp2449
@j-hp2449 4 жыл бұрын
@@sutingstelline7285 Or he was just happy with living a quiet life taking care of the people he could at his level. Also, it depends on what being a good man means to you. Go look up Thomas Edison's story and come tell me he was a good man. You think that most public figures are good people? Ambitious people make enemies because most of the time they're willing to forget all notions of moral and stomp over their adversaries and it doesn't matter to them if they are good people or not. Imo, this question is much more complex than that quote makes it seem to be.
@ivann9924
@ivann9924 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed, if you aim to please everyone you gotta compromise with them. If you happen to meet bad people but you don't want to make enemies with them you would probably do bad things in expense of other people for your safety. Wanting to please everyone also shows you have no standards and willing to comply for anything, basically you discard your moral to be able to do that, so yeah you're not a good person
@gillymac9363
@gillymac9363 6 жыл бұрын
"I'd rather be loathed for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Wayne Dyer affirmation✌🏻🙏🏻🕊️
@moonboy2022
@moonboy2022 5 жыл бұрын
Thought that was Kurt Cobain too.
@isolirionband7300
@isolirionband7300 5 жыл бұрын
@@moonboy2022 It was Cobain...
@stephaniestevens5185
@stephaniestevens5185 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people quotes things that have been said before. Its hard to trace back where the quotes originally came from. But still impacts the same.
@laraimonroe1502
@laraimonroe1502 4 жыл бұрын
Yassssss!!
@nisav4124
@nisav4124 4 жыл бұрын
Thats one rare coolest feeling one can have in themselves.
@katerigonzalez3261
@katerigonzalez3261 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 32 and been hated by many throughout my life. I know nobody cares for me. It's okay life goes on. I'm still living. I'll get through this.
@melancholy_dude
@melancholy_dude 4 жыл бұрын
Me too, I'm 30 and most ppl hate me.
@Christine-wi1dl
@Christine-wi1dl 4 жыл бұрын
@Kateri Gonzalez My motto is " What other people think is none of my business". Why? Because people are gonna think whatever they want to think, and their is absolutely nothing that any of us can do to persuade them to think differently! Some people will see you walk on water and say it's because you can't swim! And Hater's gonna Hate. It's what they do. So I don't take "their hate" personally
@MrSivram28
@MrSivram28 4 жыл бұрын
Do people hate you for no reason or how you interact and speak to people?
@TheSpeakenglish
@TheSpeakenglish 4 жыл бұрын
@saganist You are making the mistake of thinking there is a reason for evil. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. MOST good people are attacked by godless leftists who have no righteousness in them. MOST good people have to FIGHT the apathy of lazy ezcuse-makers like you.
@matthewclark7952
@matthewclark7952 4 жыл бұрын
@Kateri Gonzalez - Do people really not like you or is it the way you perceive their thoughts towards you? I relate absolutely to not fitting in and being lonely. I'm sending you love and best wishes.
@mr.wilson381
@mr.wilson381 5 жыл бұрын
I get disliked for no reasons and I swear I respect and Love every one ✊🏿 think 💭 it’s my walk
@elpablo9243
@elpablo9243 5 жыл бұрын
OD Wilson omg tho I was alone
@ping7364
@ping7364 5 жыл бұрын
OD Wilson I get disliked for no reason too . I could feel that for some reasons (not all )they didn’t have happiness in their own life and looked into others in a negative way. It impossible to please people in the whole world 😂. Be yourself
@gachalove0039
@gachalove0039 5 жыл бұрын
I relate to everything you have said
@jordanaestelle7442
@jordanaestelle7442 5 жыл бұрын
OD Wilson same it’s because I’m shy
@jomanahelal8219
@jomanahelal8219 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly same. People underestimate me and say shit when I'm being nice. I dont get it
@bilhahoroko1439
@bilhahoroko1439 5 жыл бұрын
I always feel bad when people hate me but I also hate being loved by many people coz the more friends you have the more time you owe them
@millions2nette
@millions2nette 4 жыл бұрын
Good point...Some friends want to drain the life out of you, if you let them. With that in mind, seems like they're not really friends, as they would understand that this is a busy life and they shouldn't monopolize one person's time...I feel bad when ppl hate me for no apparent reason too, but over the years I've realized that they want it that way. They want to hate certain people or certain types, and nothing you can do, will change their pattern of hatred.
@N-Major
@N-Major 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Bilhah Oroko and anyone else taking time to read this comment. That's the misconception everyone tends to have about friends, you don't owe them time. Time is way too limited and it's almost unethical to make your friend feel horrible for not being there at an exact moment in time. The only thing you owe in a friendship is loyalty and respect because a true bond is when you both haven't spoken for a long time and when you see each other it's like nothing ever changed.
@kylieking8163
@kylieking8163 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@StaaaaNzHD
@StaaaaNzHD 2 жыл бұрын
No that’s no entirely true. you don’t owe anyone your time
@MrSivram28
@MrSivram28 4 жыл бұрын
I've been hated and gossiped about all my life. I'm very quiet, introverted, handsome and confident. When I walk into a room people start gossiping snickering and watching me.
@alexz3692
@alexz3692 4 жыл бұрын
Same here! nice to know I'm not the only one experiencing this
@kacceyjoseph5040
@kacceyjoseph5040 4 жыл бұрын
Same at skl
@inspirational_cari4950
@inspirational_cari4950 3 жыл бұрын
Facts but idc because I’m a goat 🐐 😤
@_-.--.-..-.-_
@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
Me same. Much worse when ur harassers play victim, the society being manipulated, and the harassment go on..
@ahnzelcayanan1140
@ahnzelcayanan1140 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe they just talking on how handsome you are, and since you are quiet, they are shy to talk to you
@valerieannrumpf4151
@valerieannrumpf4151 4 жыл бұрын
I'm at that point in my life where I don't give a shit what others think of me. I feel comfortable with my self and that's okay.
@MrGooshness
@MrGooshness 3 жыл бұрын
Discovering this now
@japaneseswordfish3199
@japaneseswordfish3199 2 жыл бұрын
That’s cool as fuck ❤️
@kaym.h.3583
@kaym.h.3583 Жыл бұрын
Yes that comes as you grow older 🙂 you just don't care what people think about ya
@brahmabkitty03
@brahmabkitty03 4 жыл бұрын
I got picked on by coworkers for taking my job too seriously. I just created my own job role.
@amiadlm17
@amiadlm17 6 жыл бұрын
In this video i learned: The value of being disliked. 1. You canbe a change maker. You can be liked by everyone around you. You dont get to be both. 2. Every visionary was once ridiculed before they were revered. 3. Transformation lives in awareness.
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679 5 жыл бұрын
The second 😵💖💪
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
Number 2!!!!
@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so number 2
@prophecyrevelations5653
@prophecyrevelations5653 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna dummy myself down or appear less successful to make others feel comfortable with themselves. Self esteem, self motivation, self confidence ect. Key word is SELF. If a person dislikes, usually it has nothing to do with you...it's a issue they have with themselves so themselves have to deal with it. It's not your problem.
@simonebrooks202
@simonebrooks202 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly imagining wasting time caring if people like you...a lot of them dont like themselves
@elviram3360
@elviram3360 2 жыл бұрын
Yes but you don’t have to insult someone minding their own business
@SS-dh5nn
@SS-dh5nn 3 жыл бұрын
Always remember , YOUR HATERS ARE UR SECRET ADMIRERS... They see something better in u which they don't have in themselves... So respect ur Haters...😇
@jen-gv7tx
@jen-gv7tx Ай бұрын
human nature back story song. little kids wanting to play with each other. wanting inclusion in camoflauge reacting nastily.
@lucysauce1266
@lucysauce1266 4 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for people who hate me because not having me in their life will always leave a big void in their life.
@cheeseontoast3434
@cheeseontoast3434 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely❤ that's what I always say
@0patience4flz
@0patience4flz 4 жыл бұрын
Thats awesome
@chaneln1469
@chaneln1469 4 жыл бұрын
lucy sauce same here
@ivann9924
@ivann9924 4 жыл бұрын
You got confidence that is good but this is so cocky
@lucysauce1266
@lucysauce1266 4 жыл бұрын
@@ivann9924 you haven't met me, I am pretty awesome
@Mike-pj1kv
@Mike-pj1kv 4 жыл бұрын
When you don't care too much or focus on being liked - that really helps. People like people that aren't hung up on trying to be liked.
@angii1500
@angii1500 5 жыл бұрын
I just love everyone hating me and whispering every time I walk past them..yay
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679 4 жыл бұрын
Hey it's been a year, how r u doing now ?
@_-.--.-..-.-_
@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
Get better at what you do. been thru same situation every single day after being viral by sum grown ass. Society here naive, obsessed. Making excuses to harass. When i started doing great in school, i dont have time to react to the hate i received. ))
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
Billie Ellish likes it too
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
@@_-.--.-..-.-_ Binged
@focusedallday5620
@focusedallday5620 3 жыл бұрын
Just know two things: there’s a lot of unhappy people walking around, and misery needs company. So the next time you’re confused about why someone’s hating on you, just know that person simply isn’t happy with their own life.
@tammyknipe6262
@tammyknipe6262 Жыл бұрын
Hit the nail right on the head ! 💥
@L2PlayRunescape
@L2PlayRunescape 4 жыл бұрын
I notice when im working out a lot and getting in good physical shape, people around me look more pissed off at me frequently. It feels like theyre not comfortable with me getting stronger. And they refuse to acknowledge my growth even though its really obvious. I got a haircut first time in three months and no one commented on it, not family not employees. No "did you get a haircut" or "nice haircut." When i start to speak they cut me off three words in and don't even acknowledge they interrupted me. I just feel really disrespected on so many levels when i truly am trying my best. Im doing double as good as last year if not 10 times better.
@DieselPlays
@DieselPlays 4 жыл бұрын
if you are really good at something you can find like minded people around in the internet. keep ur head held up high and move away from these self destructing people. I was laughed at when I said I was going to do youtube. I started and in a few months I got more than 10k subs. After that I stopped because I had other ventures to look at but I did it to show those clowns. Even after that they will hate u. They hate u not for what you are, but for what they cannot be.
@kevinbaconwasntinfootloose1742
@kevinbaconwasntinfootloose1742 4 жыл бұрын
Do it right back to them.
@nitikavidyarthi2471
@nitikavidyarthi2471 4 жыл бұрын
Same with Mee 😭😭😭😭
@CrazyJuiceProd
@CrazyJuiceProd 4 жыл бұрын
Keep going, don’t stop. You’ll achieve whatever you set your mind to
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
@@DieselPlays So true!!
@leftypaws1131
@leftypaws1131 3 жыл бұрын
Almost everyone I know hates me. Even the ppl that say they like me don’t treat me well and I get the feeling that I annoy them. It’s to the point that I literally don’t want to meet ANYONE ever again and I don’t value any of my relationships. I constantly have to be fake to “get along” w people. It’s exhausting and depressing.
@manoj9596
@manoj9596 3 жыл бұрын
Omg same here ..but we need to transform that feeling for good. If you think deeply, it is actually the childhood experiences that needs to be healed. Psychological injury is something that we cannot see therefore we carry on just like that as if it's normal. Imagine that your leg is broken in accident and you are still trying to walk on it as if nothing happened. Results? More pain and more injury and suffering. But it doesn't happen because we instinctively know that we need to heal our physical body and take care of itself exclusively before we walk out again. Same is the case with our psychological beliefs and pain. Wherever you spot pain in your thinking, it is clearly asking for healing.
@MrGooshness
@MrGooshness 3 жыл бұрын
Literally, I feel 100% what you are saying. It is extremely draining, but I know I’ll be aligned with people who will actually embrace and genuinely care for me and you will too ✨
@leftypaws1131
@leftypaws1131 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrGooshness ❤️✨
@leftypaws1131
@leftypaws1131 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrGooshness thank u !!! Sending u love and positivity 🙏😊
@walterdavies6434
@walterdavies6434 3 жыл бұрын
aspie?
@realmofgaming7923
@realmofgaming7923 4 жыл бұрын
Protect your energy. This is an extroverts world right now and every interaction in life warrants some form of stored energy to exchange in an engagement. That is why minimalism, living below your means, and a small loyal social group produces good results.
@reed4884
@reed4884 4 жыл бұрын
It's hell being an introvert in a world dominated by extroverts.
@Cappinasd
@Cappinasd 4 жыл бұрын
@@reed4884 Thats right, its life on veteran mode. Be your own boss or die if you're like that
@cristinaferreira2230
@cristinaferreira2230 4 жыл бұрын
I am a leader not a follower some people don't like that .
@cheapgamer4U
@cheapgamer4U 4 жыл бұрын
This happens with me too. Over the years I forgot about who I am but now I am getting back on track.
@CallumHolmes
@CallumHolmes 4 жыл бұрын
ego
@north8414
@north8414 4 жыл бұрын
@@CallumHolmes yours? Yeah I know
@Korosensei5891
@Korosensei5891 4 жыл бұрын
@@north8414 exactly..well said
@giveyourlifetothelord9453
@giveyourlifetothelord9453 4 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKmnfYGJZtJ9ntk 🎨🌐🌐🌎🌎🦁🦁🦁🦁🤴🏿👍🏾🌟🌟👍🏼
@crazycreeper3653
@crazycreeper3653 4 жыл бұрын
“We want everyone one around us” Me: *avoids people as much as possible* ..... ooof
@ohiorobertstephens
@ohiorobertstephens 2 жыл бұрын
You can't/won't be liked by everybody regardless of who you do or don't inspire. You could be the nicest, sweetest person in the world and someone will hate you because you are the nicest, sweetest person in the world.
@nicoleharrington9086
@nicoleharrington9086 Жыл бұрын
Nicest and sweetest people are annoying people pleaser.
@143mark6275
@143mark6275 8 жыл бұрын
does this explain why it's "lonely at the top"?
@baudedelini956
@baudedelini956 5 жыл бұрын
Because they don't follow tradition or old ways ,and can't relate to others that follow simple normal average way of thinking.
@crazyr605
@crazyr605 5 жыл бұрын
Wrong, no one follows tradition anymore
@GamerJustPlay
@GamerJustPlay 4 жыл бұрын
Baude Delini well said ✊🏽
@shawingo8757
@shawingo8757 4 жыл бұрын
143mark6275 🎯🎯 People FEAR what they don’t understand. Intimidation.
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. As you get higher in your goals, the air gets deader.
@srikanthganesan7603
@srikanthganesan7603 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir! You brought me back to life. I am proud to be called weird, eccentric. I know who I am and what I want. Will go for it no matter what.
@DebraCTrialByFireProductions
@DebraCTrialByFireProductions 5 жыл бұрын
Same here. I see my mistakes and see my capabilities!
@brahbeh8483
@brahbeh8483 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone is in this world for themselves.
@mmommo-hx4dx
@mmommo-hx4dx 3 жыл бұрын
end times?
@jen-gv7tx
@jen-gv7tx 2 ай бұрын
then they probably won't get invited to the after party
@jen-gv7tx
@jen-gv7tx Ай бұрын
not the infj crowd.
@georgekhumalo5283
@georgekhumalo5283 5 жыл бұрын
I'm like one of the most hated individuals out there. lol, people just hate me for who i am.
@adamsmia8063
@adamsmia8063 4 жыл бұрын
@@klif4755 Had us in the first half not gonna lie
@giveyourlifetothelord9453
@giveyourlifetothelord9453 4 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKmnfYGJZtJ9ntk 👍🏾👍🏼👍🏼🎯🎯🎨🤴🏿🌐
@_-.--.-..-.-_
@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
Probably the way you talk? When people are convinced by misinformation about you that ur "arrogant".. But ur not.
@neodintchly
@neodintchly 7 жыл бұрын
i love being hated
@alextynes9782
@alextynes9782 5 жыл бұрын
Neo Dintchly why?!
@louieray1027
@louieray1027 5 жыл бұрын
Neo Dintchly I agree! Fuck it
@tinomane
@tinomane 5 жыл бұрын
I thought that not being liked was a cool thing but now I know how it's feels it's just not good.
@lukeallan8876
@lukeallan8876 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah me to I'm not a kiss ass. I love being my own person .
@Marco.91
@Marco.91 5 жыл бұрын
I walk my own path
@PratikPatelblackunicorn
@PratikPatelblackunicorn 8 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best mastery session of all time. It is same as arnold schwarzenegger said, What is point to be on this earth if all you want to do is to be liked y everyone and avoid trouble.
@danielrasugu2425
@danielrasugu2425 4 жыл бұрын
When people don't like you then there's something good you are doing for yourself!
@lindseyhebert5568
@lindseyhebert5568 6 жыл бұрын
I’m crying because everyone is disliking me my family does this been taken for granted feeling like I am not the special person that Was people used to like me a lot and I was a sweet girl now less communication feeling ignored and feeling like people don’t remember me feeling forgotten and I don’t know if this is true say I asked do y’all still remember me they out of course
@Marco.91
@Marco.91 6 жыл бұрын
I know what you're going through .you will find people that like and you and appreciate you .best wishes
@the0ne775
@the0ne775 5 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Hebert well, you should start by learning proper punctuation, for one...
@ashleyphoenix633
@ashleyphoenix633 5 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Hebert+ I personally know what you're going through too. My own family doesn't even care about me plus they're just toxic /destructive people anyway (we don't choose our families sadly) . You just do what you have to do with your life, always remain positive even when you feel down. Cause the only person that doesn't need to be hated is yourself. Care and love every aspect that makes you an extraordinary and wonderful human being. Stay strong. We are all in this together 💪
@sonjicraig6033
@sonjicraig6033 5 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way 😃But God is on my side That’s all you need 🦅
@airdonte23
@airdonte23 5 жыл бұрын
Drone So dude, you are lost
@ImmaShadowGirl
@ImmaShadowGirl 8 жыл бұрын
Every single video BLOWS my mind. And the funny thing is I already know everything you talk about and yet I get these goosebumps all over my body.
@yanadre9154
@yanadre9154 8 жыл бұрын
That's why those videos are so motivating! :)
@THEGREATME329
@THEGREATME329 5 жыл бұрын
Video these goose bumps all over your body... then let us se
@PeteS_1994
@PeteS_1994 5 жыл бұрын
Random comment but the outline of your current picture reminds me of Africa.
@maulikdesai7688
@maulikdesai7688 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you... it feels like a family member guiding us...thanks once again...
@convadodel2932
@convadodel2932 5 жыл бұрын
Wish I had a family member like that man.
@Heyiya-if
@Heyiya-if 3 жыл бұрын
“It's not worth doing something unless someone, somewhere, would much rather you weren't doing it.” ― Terry Pratchett
@Ted1775
@Ted1775 8 жыл бұрын
Transformation lives in Awareness.
@HiddenWen
@HiddenWen 4 жыл бұрын
I always try to keep strictly professional at work, even if there are truly friendly people who want to befriend me. I view the place as somewhere to get work done. Making too many close friends creates problems in the future that could be avoided.
@Kerrviii
@Kerrviii 4 жыл бұрын
I lost my mom early... I was 9. I think after that I stopped caring and saw the most fake stuff ever! I was already bossy..... but I really stand my point and I own what I believe in !!!!
@lifesymphony2024
@lifesymphony2024 7 жыл бұрын
I always welcome new ideas. To me, it doesn't matter whether I believe it or not but I respect other's faith, ideas and beliefs. I think that is a sign of a matured mind. Just because we don't believe or understand someone's thought, doesn't mean it is not true and no one has the right to ridicule others.
@sohaibahmed226
@sohaibahmed226 7 жыл бұрын
Thats true Sharmella I am working on that myself.
@levicrossdechantel
@levicrossdechantel 6 жыл бұрын
Random thought: Thomas Edison wasn't mocked. He took everything from Tesla. Tesla had a heart of gold--the guy didn't want to profit from his inventions. He wanted free electricity for everyone...but that wasn't the case for Edison, as Edison was more interested in the profit than the common good. In fact, most of Tesla's inventions didn't even get a decent patent since Edison was always screwing him over and ruining his reputation--especially with the case of the electric chair. Winners write history. Sadly, that's what Edison did to Tesla.
@chiarag2733
@chiarag2733 5 жыл бұрын
You surely heard about karma 😉
@mytube6538
@mytube6538 5 жыл бұрын
Yes true welcome to earth aka hell
@jmm1817
@jmm1817 5 жыл бұрын
Good point. They were both great men, and I believe we needed them both. One was just a better businessman. Just The Way of the World when you have freedom and capitalism.
@kurisuakino317
@kurisuakino317 4 жыл бұрын
I agree Tesla is the true founder.
@cheeseontoast3434
@cheeseontoast3434 4 жыл бұрын
At least people now know what's up with Edison And Tesla
@lumberjack5909
@lumberjack5909 3 жыл бұрын
Haters only feed the flame of passion I have for success
@mmommo-hx4dx
@mmommo-hx4dx 3 жыл бұрын
use it as a stepping stone.
@mmommo10
@mmommo10 2 жыл бұрын
yes
@rachelrosen5501
@rachelrosen5501 4 жыл бұрын
My life is already a Legend of Tragedy. The sheer amount of adversity I have faced in my life makes me legendary. I am a survivor
@mmommo-hx4dx
@mmommo-hx4dx 3 жыл бұрын
me too
@jdt8983
@jdt8983 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that can be a hard thing to gauge. People have so many different experiences I don't know whether or not my suffering is better or worse. Regardless of how many years I've constantly hoped someone would put a bullet in my head... Compared to somebody elses life mine might be heaven. meh
@natalijar5989
@natalijar5989 5 жыл бұрын
The name of the video alone changes my attitude towards dislikes
@Ps114REXIVD
@Ps114REXIVD 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this confirmation and affirmation this morning...thank you! A week ago I came against the greatest opposition in my journey and I nearly gave in or gave up, but I pulled through and today your message confirms that I have the strength to make it to the very end, and this end is so near that I'm living it already. It's just my physical body which needs to relocate.
@ritzwanchedim2464
@ritzwanchedim2464 4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@MrVeladi
@MrVeladi 8 жыл бұрын
Robin i feel like crying with happiness.. I will take the chance to meet you and definitely touch your feet. You just spoke about what i was going through and it gave me more inspiration to move on.. thankyou and i mean it.
@justynasoszka2402
@justynasoszka2402 9 ай бұрын
I am used to being disliked. Since 9 years I stand up for my truth and live life on my own terms. Honestly, I feel unique in the eyes of haters and those who don't like me.
@damariuswingfield2144
@damariuswingfield2144 3 жыл бұрын
"It is better to be fear then loved if you cannot be both" - Machiavelli.
@shemoecollash573
@shemoecollash573 5 жыл бұрын
I just met some ppl and they just dislike me and insult me for no reason... idk what I did, I'm just always sad... i hate my life. From I was a child, I've faced dislikes from everyone I might be the most hated person in the world.
@katerigonzalez3261
@katerigonzalez3261 5 жыл бұрын
People hate me too. Only very few love me for who I am as a person. Those people really got to know me. We have to keep on going, keep on living.
@BrolyKing801
@BrolyKing801 3 жыл бұрын
People hate me too you not alone bro Haters going to hate they see you shinning.
@priyasatiaceelan552
@priyasatiaceelan552 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I was upset to the point of depression. I am vocal and I stand up for myself. At work place, I try to practise and create standards so there is a process. Generally, I am just vocal hoping to reach out so ppl can make a difference. But resulted in me just being disliked or ignored. Now I am convinced that I will still myself and not be bothered all these people.
@hank13280000
@hank13280000 4 жыл бұрын
Story of my life i think its mostly because of my looks. Both men and women always point out how ugly i am in unprovoked situations. The crazy thing it's mostly complete strangers i never seen before. But it's worse when its people you think is cool secretly hate you for no reason
@IsabelDelgado
@IsabelDelgado 4 жыл бұрын
I just have a hard time dealing with people at work. Every job I’ve had, someone has a problem with me because of my age or my gender. Now I am looking for a way to deal with them without letting it end in me quitting my job.
@jdt8983
@jdt8983 2 жыл бұрын
people at work can be cowards because they know they're safe there in an odd way. Depending on the hierarchy
@angelligomez
@angelligomez Жыл бұрын
thank you, I was worried about being disliked, but now I see it of value
@BTHABIT.
@BTHABIT. 8 жыл бұрын
all this is very nice but how can I use it on a smaller scale it's not like I want to change the society I just want to be myself and have a better life for my own
@Dgbygvg
@Dgbygvg 5 жыл бұрын
@Shipp If that makes one relatable I have yet to find others to befriend.
@giveyourlifetothelord9453
@giveyourlifetothelord9453 4 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKmnfYGJZtJ9ntk 🌐🎨🎯👍🏼👍🏾🌟💯🌎
@mybeautifuljourney7540
@mybeautifuljourney7540 3 жыл бұрын
That is still creativity. You are creating something outside what everyone is doing!
@Freefork
@Freefork 4 жыл бұрын
BTW, remember that if you lived somewhere else or lived in a different culture, people would react to you differently. So don't disregard your huge passion or your tiny goals simply because of the people around you now. Focus on facts, focus on improving, focus on success.
@brilliantwriter4856
@brilliantwriter4856 3 жыл бұрын
Know thyself - Socrates To know thyself you must first think for yourself- Socrates Don’t be the image others put on you -Robert Greene
@synamot624
@synamot624 8 жыл бұрын
I had to make myself click this link... "leaders run towards resistance"
@fakefakingtonthe3rd702
@fakefakingtonthe3rd702 5 жыл бұрын
synamon townsend same lol 😂 but I had to listen as much as I kept thinking to just ignore this
@seanaslany2226
@seanaslany2226 5 жыл бұрын
Man today I post a ad on Facebook for my Facebook and so many people start to hate like hate hate and I was just wonder why so many people hate to see growth and progress this video just explain it all to me Thank you
@deafconmediaZA
@deafconmediaZA 4 жыл бұрын
That is a fantastic thing. Congratulations on your first taste of success. Your next goal is to double the hate👌
@jen-gv7tx
@jen-gv7tx 2 ай бұрын
people hate because hate is in the dna and there is really really atrocious people who were not trained properly from their own dna. ha, ha , ha.
@happyguy1148
@happyguy1148 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much for that. I really needed it. I’m on a journey right now to write short horror/action / amazing things that I dream of every night. I want to put it out there for people to enjoy and in my heart I know it’s my calling and people will really enjoy them. That being said I’m coming across a lot of individuals saying that’s a stupid idea don’t do that. But it hasn’t broken me and I’m still on my mission to share to the world some really neat things that I’ve experienced in my dreams on a nightly basis. Thank you again Mr Sharma for this video
@juliewishmeyer1461
@juliewishmeyer1461 5 жыл бұрын
This video helped me see things differently. I can let go of the negativity.
@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome lesson! I'm not designed to fit in and I love it!
@deathrowinmate28
@deathrowinmate28 3 жыл бұрын
I'm hated so much.... yet I have never hurt anyone in my life. I gets me down to the point I just want to be a hermit and run my businesses from my home. I'm actually a generous person. But the hate towards me is potent
@mmommo10
@mmommo10 2 жыл бұрын
me too, ever think it could be the devil?
@umeshkanthanselvaraj2319
@umeshkanthanselvaraj2319 7 жыл бұрын
Every word said by you adds great value to our life. Thanks Robin
@bigfreeze2691
@bigfreeze2691 8 жыл бұрын
This video is a gem!! Thanx alot, Robin
@Aman.Akshay.Sharma
@Aman.Akshay.Sharma 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother, really needed this right now
@juliamalysz
@juliamalysz 4 жыл бұрын
Nobody likes me and I just cant stop thinking about it And I cry everyday
@user-pz6ex9vv5r
@user-pz6ex9vv5r 4 жыл бұрын
i'm here if you wanna talk
@juliamalysz
@juliamalysz 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-pz6ex9vv5r thanks
@Testo99
@Testo99 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-pz6ex9vv5r I am here if you wanna talk
@nv4067
@nv4067 5 жыл бұрын
true , my success make people dislike me
@oohmonika6944
@oohmonika6944 3 жыл бұрын
I know not everyone is rude. But I’m not judge mental and I never talk bad about others.. but most of the time people are rude to me and always talk bad about me even if they’re my friends and I share my blessings to them.
@lulabella9249
@lulabella9249 4 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful I found your channel. I have been ostracized by my fellow teacher/colleagues for reaching out to my students and their families during COVID-19, stating that my intent was to upstage them. The level of hate that was thrown in my direction without actually mentioning me was so obvious that other staff members noticed and reached out after the meeting to see if I was ok. Thank you for helping me to stay grounded and focused in my truth
@gardeningwithatley3098
@gardeningwithatley3098 5 жыл бұрын
I think i'm going to be dead before i get to do what i want because people make it so difficult. Good talk though. Cheers.
@CutieZalbu
@CutieZalbu 3 жыл бұрын
It’s a test. Keep going,Cheers from Internet stranger 💜
@sawsanbellaj
@sawsanbellaj 7 жыл бұрын
It just feels that every word you say, is said to me personally and makes me love my life even more! ❤ Thank you Robin Sharma !
@BeanBeanMcBean3000
@BeanBeanMcBean3000 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like no matter what I do everyone I know just starts to hate me eventually. I feel like there’s no point to living if no one at my school likes me. It would be better for everyone if I was dead.
@christopherofarrell1628
@christopherofarrell1628 4 жыл бұрын
This video is just absolute pure of knowledge and wizardry I love it great content😁
@cooldudezeon4711
@cooldudezeon4711 3 жыл бұрын
I've been hated since my birth Even my family don't care about me Sometimes I fell lonely
@midjet156productions
@midjet156productions 4 жыл бұрын
I have always ALWAYS thought for myself and NEVER have I been a blind sheep following everyone else. I have also been much smarter than average to the point where I was having philosophical and theoretically scientific debates with my preschool teachers who insist there was something wrong with me. People are idiotic mindless sheep so content with revelling in their mediocrity and lashing out at anyone that dares challenge such a low standard. A species so satisfied with squandering its potential is honestly appalling to me but of course I still do anything I can to help harness that potential although humanity really has no interest. I'm used to everyone hating me and trying to kill me, I'm not even 24 years old and it's happened nearly every day of my life since my father used me as a pillow when I was 3 days old, the ambulance that ran me over before driving off like nothing happened last week, to my coworkers today. If anything everyone trying to kill me all the time is an annoying inconvenience but I have no concern for everyone always hating me, the opinions about me from such simple minded, blind sheep with no ability to form their own thoughts on anything is trivial and has never been a concern. Why should I care if my idiotic classmates who think pouring liquid out of a bottle being held near their legs is hysterical hate me, why should I care if my coworkers who a proud they beat up someone so badly they went blind want to kill me? I shouldn't. Most People are stupid I am not end of story.
@itsvee803
@itsvee803 5 жыл бұрын
Yea being hated can be a dangerous thing....
@katerigonzalez3261
@katerigonzalez3261 5 жыл бұрын
True, people hate me too. It can be dangerous.
@shawingo8757
@shawingo8757 4 жыл бұрын
It’s Me Twila! GOD got us though.
@daleromdenne
@daleromdenne 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I have no good friends. I was told that I can only have one friend at a time. Yeah because I am faithful to my friends. I don’t care but I will stand for them. But it seems I am the bad one in the end. I don’t know anymore.
@turenalive
@turenalive 8 жыл бұрын
LOVE this. Thank you.💛
@nadiacavallini4728
@nadiacavallini4728 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was one of the best messages I've ever listened to. Deep down I already know this stuff, but this message has helped bring back my awareness as to why people hate. Being a leader can definitely be a lonely journey.
@seeingstraightthrough
@seeingstraightthrough 4 жыл бұрын
After all the hate. Life goes on that's what I had to learn.
@fajrsahar157
@fajrsahar157 3 жыл бұрын
"Think, be, and produce as those in the top 5%, and be eccentric"
@theredpilgrim
@theredpilgrim 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Robin Sharma! God Bless and All the Best from Rizwana!
@MRBLONDE6
@MRBLONDE6 2 жыл бұрын
Needed this. Just confirming what I already believed especially seeing some of the comments. I don’t care to be loved by all, just liked by a few good ones. This creates a culture of winning and success as a leader in your workplace. As long as you have your bedrock that share the same beliefs and aligned on the same goal it’ll be alright. Keep going if you’re reading this. You’re exactly where you need to be.
@barakieldraco5440
@barakieldraco5440 4 жыл бұрын
David icke was laughed at and now im literally speechless, He is on to something
@erigeorgie
@erigeorgie 3 жыл бұрын
Love it ♥️ tired of being attacked and hated for no reason. But I’m fighting to not let it get me down and instead fuel me to do better.
@muthukumaranjayaraman6859
@muthukumaranjayaraman6859 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Robin. I found the answer to my question after a long time...
@thelonecrow1300
@thelonecrow1300 5 жыл бұрын
I am not liked in my workplace and I got so stressed my throat muscles started to tighten. What’s the point of change if you stand alone with nobody to share it. You can say what you think and I’m happy for you but words fall numb So I stand on what I say if people dislike you to a point you will dislike yourself and that’s the cold truth
@Bhappi137
@Bhappi137 Жыл бұрын
I like Crows ❤
@moosaalhadhrami5797
@moosaalhadhrami5797 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks Robin it's really makes me feel so great whenever I watch your videos. However, I have a suggestion for you, if you just can add some photos or music related to the subject you present it would be much understandable and stuck in our minds, eventually it help us to follow your advices as we picture it.
@DeanRendar
@DeanRendar 4 жыл бұрын
involvement in pertinent matters towards career, self reliance, and not solely socializing is being reorganized AT THIS VERY MOMENT. High school ends, despite what tormentors who think misery is enjoyed when shared think.
@uppercut1200
@uppercut1200 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely the smartest words spoken on KZbin
@joey7763
@joey7763 4 жыл бұрын
Look I don't care if I die alone. I've been bullied by both men and women for being even when my mother had attack, even when I had severe family issues that caused a multitude of disruption resulting to my bipolar disorder. I want to simply live a simple, fulfilling life, for myself.
@caribbeanqueen1389
@caribbeanqueen1389 5 жыл бұрын
This is completely irrelevant to someone who has been an outcast by their family and friends.. and they have grown up with baggage of being disliked. They're also looking for external validation. Please consider a video for people like this.
@airdonte23
@airdonte23 5 жыл бұрын
Crystal Walker you can’t be outcasted by true family and true friends. I learned this the older I got.
@cherylboyd1811
@cherylboyd1811 4 жыл бұрын
I love when people put enough heart into disliking me 😃and I love it for all the wrong reasons.lol. I always return any futile efforts to start slick talking with sweetness. Unless someone comes in my personal space.then a whole different personality comes out . Its also crazy when people find out where I came from . Most tough talking big mouths are just that..all talk. Loudest usually the weakest
@danielpatrick3761
@danielpatrick3761 6 жыл бұрын
Interesting, but still taps into the ego like 'im disliked because i have such value to offer, its just not recognised'.... What if you're disliked because of the mistakes you've made, or the fundamental flaws in your personality that have brought you to where you are? In short, what if you're just a bit of a douche? How can you frame it then? Only way i see is desentize yourself from other's opinions, by thinking 'on some level thats just the role i'm here to play'. Many people would say that's unhealthy, but it seems the best way as i see it... (i say this as a confirmed douche, for the record)
@theGA735
@theGA735 3 жыл бұрын
For the record, you don't sound like a douche to me... Maybe you are just more 'real and raw' and say it like it is, this is also considered douchey but can in fact help otherw if they listened...
@mmommo-hx4dx
@mmommo-hx4dx 3 жыл бұрын
sorry you are not a douche. we are all sinners though. Bible spells it all out. I make mistakes too, I have a lot of anger I guess. I get bullied constantly its unbelievable, but I also get unwarranted breaks!. But I don't fight back, the Bible says "Anger begets Anger."
@Rawyalty220
@Rawyalty220 3 жыл бұрын
@@theGA735 so speaking truth makes you a douche?
@japaneseswordfish3199
@japaneseswordfish3199 2 жыл бұрын
Aye my nigga, fuck people.
@japaneseswordfish3199
@japaneseswordfish3199 2 жыл бұрын
@@Rawyalty220 Read what the fuck she said B.
@codeknight7
@codeknight7 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reminding me.
@keepsmililgyo4675
@keepsmililgyo4675 6 жыл бұрын
I just want to say thankyou....to you..
@nayefdajim
@nayefdajim 7 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing talk. Thank you.
@irynaheichuk5389
@irynaheichuk5389 5 жыл бұрын
So accurate💚
@alanwinnie3776
@alanwinnie3776 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best video I've seen in my life. Thank you so much - you could never understand how grateful I am...
@bingbong1437
@bingbong1437 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I don’t care if people don’t like me because I don’t even socialise with ppl so why do I need ppl to like me
@krishnasingh-fu7tm
@krishnasingh-fu7tm 4 жыл бұрын
idk why at first i always wins heart of every person i met ... but then sooner or later they started hating on me and making me feel as if i dont fit in
@go4dil
@go4dil 4 жыл бұрын
My friends used to love me but now they hate me just because I started talking with someone they don't like and I don't see why it's a big deal. The fact that they hate me is very painful because they were my only friends....
@erinsama6547
@erinsama6547 3 жыл бұрын
speaking wisdom. powerful and short. down to the point. easy to understand. good looking out.👍
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