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[@chocoboasylum]

She is 100% jealous of her daughter. Statements like 'she IS me' and 'we're identical' show that she claims her daughter as a possession. Possessions can't outshine their owners

[@Lovetsonmarq]

A typical narc parent

[@DanaTheDarknessDragonQueen]

True

[@malee943]

Also she talks about jealousy like it is only about looks. To me it seemed like she was jealous of her youth if anything

[@CB-jo5kv]

@@malee943 yes, textbook narcissistic mother/daughter relationship.

[@caitlinburris3003]

Your absolutely right

[@RobertIDK]

“I’m not going to say what my daughter did because I would never publicly embarrass my daughter. I mean, except for the time I shaved her head and posted it online 2 days ago lol”

[@a_little_demon]

saying that while she embarrassed her daughter made no senses at all !

[@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78]

Deadass 💀

[@STATICARPET9]

You watch Oopmpaville?

[@sumuduliyanawaduge4949]

@@a_little_demon who tf wants to be disciplined in front of millions

[@a_little_demon]

@@sumuduliyanawaduge4949 I know right ?

[@echo1336A]

Jennette mccurdy is a great example of some children's reaction to abuse. Jennette saw her mom as wonderful and only trying to help her when everything her mom did was abuse and for selfish reasons. It took her a very long time to realize what her mom did was wrong. I think this girl is going through the same thing..

[@cptteacosy6158]

First time I heard the name of her book I was genuinely flabbergasted 🤣 until I did some research and yeah, fair enough 🤣

[@StaceyJayne-pe7ww]

I was raised by a narcissistic sociopath. I was her scapegoat/prime target , literally from birth. But I didn't realize it was abuse until my mid 30s. It's disgusting.

[@stacychase4005]

Absolutely. It took me decades to figure this out. I was actually researching why I struggle the way I do, or how I react the way I do. Like constantly apologizing, even if I had nothing to do with a situation. It's a trauma response. Thank goodness for videos addressing the issue.

[@williamreynolds3487]

It's ironic how she wants her daughter to prioritize education over vanity while she uses TikTok filters.

[@666_cthulhu]

and she seems to have had work done too, though it’s honestly kinda hard to tell for sure past all the filtering and whatnot. everyone has every right to do what they want with their body, but they totally deserve to be shamed for being hypocritical about it and taking out their issues on their child 🤨 she’s so delusional

[@dinodude1690]

Not to mention that the girl probably felt obligated to be nice to her mom and do what she told her because of a fear that another thing might happen.

[@XxsunnysisxX]

Unfortunately, Stockholm syndrome is becoming more common these days…..

[@thebusinesswoman23]

The gun she was holding on her made that girl feel even more obligated, imo. Lol

[@quindariousgooch88]

"teaching your kids to behave is psychological abuse!!! Stockholm syndrome!!!" 🤓🤓🤓

[@Gonk755]

She sounds like she crying is the worst part 😔

[@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78]

Fr my mother would say if told anybody I'd get taken away to foster care and mistreated awfully. It's hard to believe but real people like that exist gotta keep reminding that this motherly behavior is wild.

[@hopewrld1_]

The fact that she thinks being identical twin to her daughter (when she’s not) it shows just how jealous she is of her own daughter. It’s so sad that parents will be abusive to their kids.

[@Svol09]

She looks like she is trying her best to infiltrate the Chinese government.

[@Samantha-vj4sd]

Parents who try to live through their children disgust me… especially when it’s the mother who literally gave birth and created the human they are exploiting. Then they wonder why the child doesn’t want to be around them when they finally are able to move out

[@ScalpSnatcher]

She speaking like she's some kind of mitosis duplicating ameba

[@Basan614]

My father was abusive to me

[@aaronsanders4122]

They got the same eyes but otherwise don’t look anything alike. Parents living vicariously through their kids is just disgusting

[@coconuckle]

she’s manipulating her daughter to keep loving her telling her that this is normal, and she loves her. Horrible.

[@magicalgrim3471]

Hopefully she realizes she’s being mistreated and can move away

[@Mz_Raven]

My parents used to lock me up in my bedroom, with a padlock....before I could even try and be a bad kid. Didn't realize it was abusive till I had kids of my own. I still hate them

[@emilydavis9548]

It’s messed up how many times I’ve heard a similar story.

[@nehalarafa8260]

@@emilydavis9548 it's to a point where I feel nothing while reading them

[@rabbitman8535]

When I read "I still hate them" I thought you were talking about your kids 😭

[@RadioMan2023]

@@rabbitman8535 BRUH

[@leviathanwhale69]

@@rabbitman8535 Maybe they are... 🤔

[@dylandreisbach1986]

That laughing feels so incredibly forced and it genuinely feels like a hostage situation.

[@Avatar_Ape]

I searched for this comment it put chills down my spine and they kept laughing randomly pretty unsettling

[@bitchujju]

i've been abused before and i behaved practically like her everytime my parents were around. i was scared of them so I'd pretend to be fine so they wouldn't do what they did anymore

[@hrufxenmarcus5331]

She is the definition of "Not all parents deserve kids"

[@Seen420]

But all kids deserve parents

[@KraigFang]

I know I would be a horrible parent, just a train wreck of raising another human… so I decided not to do that. My girlfriend and I love each other and we have been together for about 17 years but we know nothing is coming from our relationship 😂

[@sabertoothno34]

@@KraigFang more people need to be like you two then, too many people try to have kids and think "I can learn to raise one" no, you either got it or you don't.

[@oltkai1367]

@@sabertoothno34also to add on top of what you said; not all people can say that so that’s a medal of respect for that yk

[@AskMeWhyYoureStupid]

I wish people don’t go around KZbin quoting the same things over and over again , creativity is dead. There is a thousand ways to say anything at any given moment and you just copy and paste some over used quote

[@shannacleveland5434]

This happened in 2015 in my area where a dad took a video of him cutting off his daughters hair for punishment and posting it. She later committed suicide because of this.

[@pyroxicide1418]

As a person who is a victim of phyiscal and verbal abuse from my own mother, the moment i saw the child agree with her mother is the moment i knew it was an abusive relationship. I know its a shot in the dark, but when i was younger, i was completely oblivious to the fact that i was being abused, and thought it was just punishment or discipline, when i found out it completely changed me as a person and now i want nothing to do with my mother or family - since they're aware of it and allow it to happen. Hope that girl finds the right people

[@robney6988]

I'm so sorry for you it's horrible even thinking that a mother could treat their own daughter this way I hope your doing well now

[@pyroxicide1418]

@@robney6988 I'm a male, but yeah i'm doing okay i suppose. After about 15 years of abuse it still happens, but not as often as it used to. I got the authorities involved, and have had a lot of anger issues because of the resentment caused by the abuse. My doctor even said that i could possibly be a victim of Trauma, which yk, hurt a lot mentally.

[@marinerouffaud1828]

I don't know if the girl believes in what she is saying or not. I used to believe that some of the stuff my parents were doing was normal because they made me believe it (and abuse is normalised way too much). But some of the stuff they did I knew it wasn't right, and yet I had to act like I liked them anyway just to avoid more abuse. I'd always say whatever they wanted me to to avoid punishment and that could be what this kid is doing, idk

[@gratefuldead8904]

She's just mad she got caught being a narcissistic person and abusing her child so she's trying to call out other people for doing stuff

[@Svol09]

Even if she thought its a deserved punishment she should have kept it offline...she did it for the clout and so people maybe side with her (in the matter that she looks like her doughtier when in fact she looks like a forgotten muppet)

[@gratefuldead8904]

@@Svol09 yep

[@nekowhitestar]

Just like my ex fr

[@gratefuldead8904]

@@nekowhitestar you scared me I thought this was in one of my videos and I'm sorry that happened to you

[@zachary4732]

The irony in the mother is how she doesn't educate herself on being a better parent whilst using a beauty filter and has split dyed hair.

[@an-me]

While claiming being pretty isn't more important than being educated...Like girl you make sure to put on the same filter for every video but you refuse to learn from your mistakes. She is most definitely jealous of her daughter.

[@saraspivey1129]

@@an-meTHANK YOU.

[@xx_static_dynamic_xx]

Cept she's not beautiful OR educated

[@j.d.t.5761]

​@@an-me9

[@IratePuffin]

I had to take a required parenting course during my divorce. I seem to distinctly remember hearing that cutting off a child’s hair, intentionally posting embarrassing stuff to punish them, etc is considered abuse. Maybe just here in Texas? Idk but I think it’s abuse.

[@thesavior9672]

Here in Germany cutting someone's Hair off without consent counts as battery

[@booletric]

@@thesavior9672 As it should

[@marinerouffaud1828]

I'd consider it emotional abuse

[@littleHex]

​@@thesavior9672 It's the same here in the US but not many people know that :(

[@miqayler]

it’s not about “being pretty is not as important as being smart”, it’s about the control that she took over that kid when she cut her hair off. she shouldn’t need to do that nor post it online to discipline her kid.

[@Shaz_Caz]

Publicly shaming your kid like that on social media is disgusting! Been taking every route to keep my kids offline.. don't need to prove to anyone my parenting skills or struggles.

[@icedthecube7225]

The internet isn’t the problem. I’m not going to tell you how to parent, but being cut off from the internet as a kid f’d me up later in life and led to an internet addiction. The best thing you can do is ween it to them a little bit at a time, and completely monitor what they do. Things like no social media until whatever age and so on and so forth.

[@rocknepoovey4381]

This video was put out what I feel like a week ago

[@__yklim]

Yo kids finna be weird asl

[@Sharkie_0]

You dont have to take your kids offline, take it from me, just make sure your children dont go to the wrong places. Peace ✌️

[@Shaz_Caz]

@@icedthecube7225 they're toddlers.. I'm keeping their identity safe. I'm not stopping them from using the internet

[@luna13moth]

Abusive parents always justify it with “it’s out of love” but nah it’s not y’all need psychiatric help and the child needs to be removed from that environment asap this is just disgusting

[@crisptomato9495]

Whenever an abusive boyfriend says he does it “out of love” everyone agrees it’s gross but parents will say the same thing and you’ll see others defending them. Make it make sense.

[@R.discover]

When I was about 6, I witnessed my dad attempt to cut my older sisters hair with scissors as some sort of punishment. It was quite a violent act since my sister tried to resist. She ended up with bleeding cuts up and down her forearms and chunks of hair missing. It’s sad when you grow up thinking those type of things are normal. Everything hit me pretty hard when I started to self reflect as an adult. I hope for this child’s sake, the mom tries to understand abuse and it’s many different forms. It’s never too late to be a better person 🫶

[@scratoriousentertainment8515]

The fact that she has not just cut her hair but made her wear a wig has got to be just more horrible because as kids we all use to think wigs were funny, so there is a chance they'll figure out shes wearing a wig and point and laugh at her. This is definitely going to give her trauma years later

[@emilydavis9548]

I got made fun of for wearing wigs.

[@scratoriousentertainment8515]

@@emilydavis9548 I am sorry that happened to you

[@boxtroll-chan5082]

I was seriously wondering what people were thinking but the hair she cut off I'm not sure are extensions or not. I went to a school where half the school wore locs or weaves and this was also a form of punishment (not typically by the parents tho if you know what I mean) to get them pulled or cut out. In certain communities, you gotta wear wigs if you want that straight, or even long, hair

[@painting_cosplays]

@@boxtroll-chan5082From the original video you can tell it’s fake hair that she had cut off, im pretty sure she had just gotten it done and that’s why it was such a big punishment. But i can’t figure out if the wig thing is more of the punishment or to get the daughter to like her again by getting her a wig to hide her hair.

[@lalune3435]

Wow mom of the year, cut of your daughter's hair as punishment and then public humiliation.. such a heartwarming mom.. Humanity is so lost..

[@itsyaboycancer7659]

My question I'd how do these people look at there video and see them cutting there hair off and go hmm the rest of the world is gonna love this one

[@andrewjohnson442]

Okay I don't know if it's just me but this mom raising her kid like that seems like red carpet compared to my childhood, I feel it's kinda weird the backlash she is getting, sure I wouldn't do that to my kids but at least on video she seems fine kinda, the public shame is kinda messed up but i would take that rather than what I have lived

[@saraspivey1129]

🙌🏽

[@saraspivey1129]

@@itsyaboycancer7659Ikr?!

[@megashima]

@@andrewjohnson442 Abuse is not a competition and shouldn't be treated like one.

[@badungus1333]

You can even see the girl flinching when the mother puts her arm around her and says "you guys, this is my baby,.."

[@dinodude1690]

At 6:01 it is honestly f*cking hard to watch the kid try and smile and try to fake laugh all while flinching and trying to duck away from her moms arm around her.

[@cavemanlovesmoke4394]

@@dinodude1690 I'm not seeing it? (But that kamala harris style fake-laughing-while-talking face and the forced arm over the shoulder as she says it is like out of a movie . Could be a real ad on awareness)

[@cavemanlovesmoke4394]

@@dinodude1690 ohh at 10:00 mark I see my bad

[@saraspivey1129]

@@dinodude1690Omg so horrible!

[@saraspivey1129]

@@cavemanlovesmoke4394Oh no!

[@natur2184]

"she thinks it's more important to look pretty than getting an education" while the mother has a filter which removes wrinkles, bad lighting etc,.

[@hiro-mk4jn]

It looks like she physically altered her face and just ended up looking like the grinch

[@kar813]

BRO I’M SO GLAD I’M NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO THOUGHT THAT 😭

[@uabri5698]

oompa caught me off guard by going serious at the end

[@O544_1]

ong

[@rocknepoovey4381]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo man don’t *bleep* my *bleep*

[@average_melody7928]

Yes more of this I like one way oompa!🥰💯

[@IICARUS99]

He may be funny haha but he is a genuine person

[@GlassHa1f_Empty]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo okay

[@Hubertcorkscrew]

*shaves her daughters head and posts it online* “I’m not here to embarrass my daughter” 💀

[@yb6501]

Fr💀

[@Hubertcorkscrew]

I wrote this in the middle of the video I didn’t even realize Caleb said that too

[@marinerouffaud1828]

Indeed, she only embarrassed herself

[@staceynoir1988]

If she honestly believed what she did was right she wouldn’t feel the need to defend it over and over again . Absolute joke of a mum

[@76clarissa]

“being pretty doesn’t matter” but has the beauty filter on in every tiktok

[@lakojake4215]

"Tell everyone you're ok or I'll cut your hair again." - That mother, probably

[@ancaboghitoiu2971]

Yes... Or maybe worse but definitely that's the situation...

[@winxphantom]

Public shaming aside, forcefully changing your child's appearance against their will is abuse and teaches them that people are allowed to do whatever they want to them. Kids with parents like that WILL grow up fated to have abusive relationships for the rest of their lives. Your actions towards your kids DO have a huge impact on their entire lives.

[@junkoenoshima538]

Can confirm. My mom forced me to get my long hair cut up to my chin when I was 9 bc i “didn’t take care of my long hair” (I loved my long hair sm, it was literally my pride and joy when I was little bc I loved how pretty I thought it was). Still haven’t recovered, I just remember sitting in that chair at the beauty salon and sobbing my eyes out while the hair stylist cringed a little and apologized profusely to me. I’m in therapy now and that keeps coming up when I talk abt my issues.

[@marinerouffaud1828]

That and also dysphoria.

[@SaraHubbardAskingMe]

Bingo! I grew up in a household where I couldn’t make any decisions for myself, was forced to do things I didn’t wanna do and I thought it was normal because when you’re younger, you think your parents are doing what’s right for you. When I was dating in high school, my mom seemed jealous of my relationships. Even though they were all toxic and I eventually ended up in a very abusive relationship in which she told me to “stay quiet about it and don’t think about it”. My ex should have been in prison for what he did

[@haikaido]

You missed SUCH a big opportunity to use the Michael Jordan "Please, get some help" @ around 15:37

[@memes4536]

Did anyone else see “The Redemption Arc starts now” video on Oompa’s channel? I didn’t get the Chance to watch it why did he delete it?

[@oksoheresthething]

yeah it was on here and then deleted a few hours ago. idk why tho

[@erinnicole3170]

I saw it too but didn't get to watch it... I'm guessing he took it down because of all the hate he's getting on the podcast video.

[@zarouliaall5390]

Duude this is so traumatic and humiliating for this child. I remember being like 12 years old and crying from frustration bc I was struggling very hard cleaning my room. It seems dumb but it felt like a monumental task at the time. My mom came in with her phone and started recording me, laughing at me, and threatening to post it on Facebook. Nearly 15 years later that's still a traumatic memory for me. I can't imagine something like that happening and then actually posting it on tiktok. Her kid might say she's fine(she doesn't sound fine at all) that event will likely stick with her for her entire life. What that mother did shows an utter lack of respect for her kid and her autonomy. It's just gross.

[@MarysWeirdLife]

That's the thing that really makes me sick. she's gonna grow up, realize what an awful situation she was in, and remember that it was BROADCASTED for millions to see, against her consent

[@muckyesyesindisguise3854]

Some parents make distinguishing the small line between discipline and abuse very hard.

[@Mal274]

Yep just like Hispanic parents 💀

[@Mal274]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo bro shut up

[@lunzeehan1539]

@@blackavar5723 cause it’s a no life 😂

[@010_ghostYT]

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[@AgonySoup]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo I won't.

[@alexw4710]

put the redemption arc back up please i want to watch it

[@LittleBiscuit]

I have never once met somebody who wasn't abusive who controlled their child's hair. Keeping the hair as healthy as possible is one thing, but demanding you have control and poession over your child's hair is just such as weird tactic I've personally seen abusers do.

[@dagamer1294]

I like how she says looks don't matter but proceeds to wear filters the entire time

[@Maiden_to_mother]

It’s always very obvious when a parent is jealous of their child. I think that jealousy on the moms part plays a huge role in how she treats her daughter. Notice when she says “this is my baby, this is ME.” I was like yikes, something felt off about that comment.

[@crimsoncamellia7079]

DID U DELETE THE LAST NIKACADO VID??? I STARTED WAYCHING IT BUT HAD TO SLEEP AND ITS GONE NOOO

[@yannlevesque4665]

Same here

[@craig1656]

Same, this is so sad.

[@rileybifulk4243]

I hope this girl finds all the support there is out there for her. I thought I heard something about her getting taken away from the mom?

[@elle0009]

and especially with her daughters hair type, it doesn't grow as fast and easy as common hair types which means it probably makes it even sadder since it will take a while to grow out. Even if she had hair that grows back fairly fast, I would be absolutely DEVASTATED.

[@wt_prophecy7972]

The way she was talking about her daughter being her "identical twin" when she's not was so off putting. Even worse when she was talking " thats my daughter. That is me, she is me. " as if her daughter was a extention of herself... what tells me that this is more about jealousy than wanting her daughter off of tiktok is the fact that she literally put her daughter on tiktok herself humiliating her 😐 like what- the 'consequence' for what her daughter was doing was completely hypocritical of the action she got in trouble for in the first place.

[@lalalachris]

“You don’t know the bond I have with my kid” is what my parent claimed around the block for years…years ago before I moved out of the country and stopped speaking to her. Sometimes a kid isn’t screaming and crying not because they are fine, but because they are afraid of “making parent look bad” Add that she’s still a kid, she probably is actually laughing but in ten years she is gonna look back and be like “why did my mother actually do that? Why didn’t I say something? Why wasn’t I as angry about it then as I am now?”

[@Epicsavant2]

There was this kid in 1st grade who made fun of someone with cancer and his parents shaved his head bald and he gut bullied for it for quite some time. but to be honest the kid went from "bully" to a very understanding and nice kid VERY quickly.

[@lanturn3239]

See that seems like maybe the only time something like that _would_ make sense, because the punishment directly relates to the offense. It's not just a ploy for control, it's "how about you experience, in a less permanent way, what you were bullying someone else for, and then see if you still think that's okay?"

[@Alewolf01]

Mother: looks don't matter. Also Mother: has pretty red colored hair, and looks nice as much as possible

[@admiralmeow3161]

refuses to take a filter off in her videos

[@Chris-hall9080]

Don’t say “pretty” when referring to her

[@ajt_2609]

Imagine her reaction to someone trying to cut her hair ☠️

[@itsfrizzle]

Anyone else notice that, around 09:48 theres a bit of a flinch from the daughter, and that's in addition to the fact that the filter doesn't cover her features completely, and you can see in her expression that she isn't comfortable?

[@mmmi6908]

Destroying a teen girls physical looks, is traumatizing! But then posting it online is humiliating, degrading and even worse abuse!!

[@mmmi6908]

"Being pretty ain't sh$t education comes first what I do to/for my childish definitely for her better! " and she's "highly educated" absolutely no self awareness on these internet streets!

[@Dumbblondeeeeeee]

Tara’s editing has me losing my mind, even in the videos where the subject matter is dark

[@KDiamond666]

Has me in tears!!!!!😂

[@jamesciava05]

Bruh at 12:30 was so funny

[@phifuru]

in another video Caleb didn't mention is another TikTok talking about the issue and her daughter was beside her and she was asking her "did I abuse you? do you feel traumatized?" and she said no to all of them with her voice shaking and it was just so sad. She even said "Was this better than the abuse I could've done" and saying that sentence is such an ICK

[@emmapollock5630]

Thank you for addressing this situation, as there is a line between discipline and just pure abuse.

[@forestender5613]

Bro I thought she was about to steal Christmas

[@MatchaBerrii]

I’m someone who absolutely loves my hair.it’s one of the only things I love about myself so to see it used as a punishment for a small child is just so sickening.Also the public humiliation of posting her hair being cut (I’m guessing I didn’t see the full vid) ALSO WHY WOULD THE DAUGHTER SAY SHE HATES HER MUM WHEN SHES RIGHT NEXT TO HER

[@BigCheddah]

Calling someone a tarantula is now in my vocab. Thanks, Oompa

[@HankChillin]

I feel like I've seen this already....

[@Kalooble]

right

[@acidicdic4305]

Thought I was tripping 😂

[@Mal274]

Yeah did this get deleted?

[@deandrabee]

Listen, 👏🏾 I knew I couldn't be the only one.

[@noahnotgoodatgames4954]

had to reupload it for youtubes *TOS*

[@oogaboogass]

As a person who has a narc mother i feel bad for the child i didn't understand when I was young either.. poor child.

[@Jay-tf2uc]

My aunt would always tell other people what I do when I’m doing something wrong, I don’t think she does it to embarrass me, I think she just does it to vent but even then it makes me super self councious of what other people think of me now and now I’m a people pleaser and even a push over cause I don’t want people to think of me how my aunt shows how I am. Once I voiced out how hurtful the things she does is, she stopped but even then I had to go to therapy as my over self conscious is always thinking about what people think of me. I can’t even imagine what that child has to go through when a bunch of strangers she doesn’t even know are seeing her ‘getting punished.’ This is how meek and people who don’t speak up are made. When her child grows up and cuts off all contact without saying anything she shouldn’t be surprised.

[@emi0805]

The Edits On This Jawn Had My Dying💀

[@illmannered1]

Honestly, advice from someone who sells chocha or has on OF is probably some of the most valuable advice she could get. I'm sure they have first hand knowledge of what kind of parenting can push a girl in the wrong direction.

[@myeyesbleedblack]

You got em both with one comment

[@ednygma1096]

Yep

[@myeyesbleedblack]

@@ednygma1096 hi Nathanael :)

[@-tocaclouds-1741]

“Why doesn’t my kid love me?”, “Why doesn’t my kid talk to me?”, “Why am i in a retirement home?”

[@Mouseie4rmdablock]

When I was a hairdresser I had a parent come in with their 14 year old son and he had long black beautiful hair. He was like a skater type of kid. Anyway , the parent explained to me that their son had bad grades and his hair needed to be chopped off because of that. It was the hardest thing I had to do that day. He kept crying and I know he will hate me for the rest of his life lol.

[@walkingtaco12]

Oompa probably told his parents when bedtime was

[@bear2710]

Oompa adopted his parents

[@Psilomuscimol]

I never had a bed time

[@YourMrCC]

The mother looks like the live-action Grinch

[@pinyatheactivist]

telling her daughter that beauty isn’t more important than education but then puts an ultra mega blur filter on herself 💀💀

[@MarldainLunas]

Man I opened a tab earlier for the "reunion" or whatever video. Now its deleted?

[@Matpit18]

It’s bad enough to put your kids online for the world to see. But to put AND publicly shame your kids online for the world to see is just absolutely awful. I hope both that mother and her daughter get the respective help that both of them very much need.

[@fullmetaldancer1]

This is a whole new level of gaslighting.......

[@shy_butterfly8499]

she literally cut her own daughter hair of because of jealousy, she just wanted for her daughter to look uglier than her and telling her that being pretty doesn’t matter. That’s just insane

[@BrainsofaWeirdArtist]

Oompa never disappoints

[@Mal274]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo shut up bot

[@SerialDesigantion_Y]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo okay i won't. Thanks for the info

[@Kayzleee03]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo okay i wont.

[@Saul_Ferguson]

Oomps.

[@clonetroop]

@DontReadMyProfilePhoto_3thanks for the tip!

[@OttBryce]

She is so envious of her daughters looks. She is NOWHERE NEAR her “twin” she’s a 4 maybe 5(w/the filter) her daughter is a solid 9. And her jealousy is what guides her *Appearance based punishments.

[@bumblingxbee]

Psychologically I wonder and want to ask the mom “Why is cutting hair and posting about it to the public a punishment?” I’d bet you the answer you get hints at humiliation, embarassment, degrading, and stealing sense of self/autonomy. This is also why they do it in the military. This mother has chosen that, instead of physical discipline, she will utilize psychological warfare. Sure, this kid seems okay right now…. She’s probably getting gaslit to think it’s appropriate… “at least I’m not beating you like my parents beat me.” This mother is a narcissist; reminds me of my own mother.

[@gothify_]

All kids deserve parents not all parents deserve kids. This applies soooo much to this situation and it’s so sad for that girl, and even worse her mom is probably going to get worse during puberty. I hope this girl gets help and that woman becomes a better mother

[@taishibikiqe8796]

This is why the meme. "Stop it get some help." is meant to be around forever

[@itcurt932]

I was abused by my aunt and that girl you could tell there's something wrong I mean once you experience it you can tell when somebody else is experience it

[@noodles5984]

destroying someone's appearance is so much worse than giving them a spaken, slapping them upside the head, or anything of that sort concidering the generation nowadays.

[@caitlinhowie2219]

i shaved my hair for charity when i was young and the bullying i got for having short hair was intense luckily i knew the reasons i chose to do it so it didn’t get to me too much but i can only imagine how the daughter must feel

[@Kostas.mp3]

Man.. my parents used to beat the soul out of me but at least they didn't post it online 🤣

[@SoloXxd]

I mean not any better though

[@Kostas.mp3]

@@SoloXxd well no but actually yes

[@marlom31]

some people just don’t deserve social media

[@ravencrystal4808]

0:08 I REMEMBER WATCHING THAT VID WHEN I WAS LIKE 3 OR 4 AND I CRIED BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WAS SO SAD😭

[@Rutbyrr]

My dad once threatened to shave my hair off as a punishment, I told him yes and to do it and he DIDNT 💀💀🗿

[@MayJavii]

“Education comes first” Does she have any proof of hers?

[@w8k929]

did he just delete the newest nick video

[@craig1656]

Yea

[@Kduckss]

Ugh. I had it saved to watch later and now it’s gone 😢 hopefully he reuploads it

[@tommyirish9685]

7:25 loved how you said focused on.

[@HA19wasntavailable]

why she look so devious

[@desireecoburn5746]

It makes me wonder how the girl’s mom grew up. Maybe her mom used humiliation as “lessons” too

[@775simplyme]

When her daughter says her abusive boyfriend loves her and that she deserves what he did to her... she will have no one else to blame but her parenting.

[@tjschwartz42]

Cutting a little girls hair off is some Mommy Dearest type ish.

[@mlg4592]

Bro the mom looks like she about to steal Christmas 💀💀💀

[@mynamejosh5536]

I'm so grateful for Oomps bringing us the best content, and throwing in the occasional dodgeball reference 🙌🏼

[@mattgonzales774]

i've always had long hair and still do, when i was like 9-10 i decided to donate hair to locks of love. my hair was cut to just above my shoulders and while it was quite jarring to see myself with such short hair and i didn't really like it that short like at all, i still felt so proud of myself for doing it. i cannot even fathom if that choice was forced upon me, let alone if it was literally all my hair. legit terrifying to think about. i hope that girl is doing better and can find support outside of her devious mother.

[@beesareawsomee293]

I really hope that kid gets help and has a big support system so they can escape their abusive parent...

[@JesusGonzalez-kh8df]

There are instances where cutting your childs hair would be acceptable. For example, if my kid made fun of a person loosing their hair because of cancer, the hair goes bye bye

[@kennyjensen6530]

Funny when comedic, respectable when serious

[@wolvescave5580]

she had me at the "at the end of the day" my mom use to say that phrase over and over

[@iammyself7885]

I'm so glad my parents weren't online. They are extreme narcissists who treated me and my siblings like garbage at home but as soon as we had guests over or visited someone else they made us to look like a perfect family. It was awful. Our father was the worst of the two. I can't imagine what it would've been like if we had been exploited online as well

[@xxvinvinxx]

When I lived with my mom, she used to cut my hair. It was a lesson for me to learn. Thing is, I never did anything that bad. All I did was take a cookie without asking. I was only 9 at the time and my hair was so long it used to drag along the floor. Now I have major issues because of it. I used to think that love meant someone had to hurt you because of what my mom did to me growing up. This mother sickens me

[@CosmicAli_TheObserver]

Kids are mean point blank. It might be a punishment at home but it is also one for school and social media. Even if people aren't bullying that little girl, pitty is just as bad. No one wants their home life in the streets, especially kids trying to figure out who they are. She could have just given her a shorter hair cut, that would still get the message across.

[@mileenakaminski1495]

My dads like this… would rather be a friend than a parent.. he would talk so highly of our relationship and how close we are which is true but at the end of the day all the abuse wasn’t worth having a “cool parent” once I started having my own voice and making my own decisions is when the emotional abuse started to turn into physical. They wanna be cool until you become your own person and defend yourself. It’s always “outta love” but they don’t even know how to love.( and I would defend my dad just like she does her mom cuz I didnt wanna make him look bad because I love him sm and I didn’t wanna make him angry)

[@lonelydriver6154]

4:11 "I'm not a parent..." yeah

[@clairemcaneny7150]

as an Irish person I can confirm that this is P A T A T O SERTAFID

[@zombra2836]

We have a saying here... "Just because you can, Doesn't mean you should."